The Anchored in Christ

These 7 Behaviors Will Destroy Your Relationship

Latifat & Olushile Akintade

Dr. Latifat and Olushile are a Christian couple who offer faith-based advice through their show, The Anchored in Christ. Together, they explore life, love, and legacy from a biblical lens, encouraging listeners to build Christ-centered relationships and marriages.

In this episode, the couple discusses 7 subtle yet damaging behaviors that can destroy a relationship. With real-life reflections and scripture-rooted insight, they explore how to identify and avoid these traps—so your marriage can thrive in Christ.

Key Takeaways:

  1. Don’t hide emotions.
  2. Avoid silent expectations.
  3. Ask for help.

Timestamps:
00:00 Welcome to the sho
00:44 Destructive patterns in marriage
02:10 The "not-so-obvious" behaviors
04:05 Cheating and lying aren't the only issues
05:30 Why unspoken expectations hurt
07:45 The danger of resentment
10:10 When communication breaks down
14:22 How ego plays a role
17:50 Giving each other grace
21:33 Living by faith, not fear
25:05 Tools to rebuild love
28:40 Final encouragement


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