Thriving with The Bovinos!
You ever wonder how other people do such great things with relative ease? When is it going to be your turn to catch a break? Well this is the podcast for you. Together we will share tools to overcome obstacles and not just survive but Thrive! We will meet people from all aspects of life and hear how they bet on themselves, took calculated risks, failed repeatedly and are living a life full of Joy and abundance.
Kathryn Bovino is the co-owner and creator of THRIVE Consultation and Therapy. She strives to use a dynamic, individualized approaches combined with her training, education, and experience to guide and support individuals and families to live a life of truly thriving and not just surviving.
Kathryn is a Board Certified Behavior Analyst and earned her Master’s Degree in Applied Behavior Analysis, with a Graduate Certificate in Autism, from Ball State University in 2015. She has a Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology from the University of South Florida (2004) and has maintained certifications as a RDI® Program Consultant and Infant Toddler Developmental Specialist (ITDS) since 2006. Kathryn holds additional certifications as a Therapy Dog Team Handler, Life Balance Yoga Therapy Instructor and ACT Matrix Facilitator.
Brian Bovino earned his B.A at the University of Massachusetts Amherst majoring in Economics. He graduated with his Master’s degree in Applied Behavior Analysis from Ball State University. Brian is a Board Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA), a Relationship Development Intervention (RDI) Consultant and a Virginia Licensed Real Estate agent.
Brian began his work with families and children with Autism in 2004. Brian has worked in a multitude of settings including the public, private, and charter school settings as well as the Special Olympics, juvenile probation, short-term residential facilities, as a Firefighter/paramedic and currently as a Realtor. Brian enjoys sports, magic, and singing and is a 2015 international Barbershop Chorus Champion with the Westminster Chorus.
Brian and Kathryn live in Northern Virginia with their two children, dogs, cat, chickens and guinea pigs.
Thriving with The Bovinos!
Navigating Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA): A Mother's Journey with Stephanie Myung
In this episode, we reconnect with a former colleague to discuss her personal journey navigating Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) with her son. We delve into the challenges of understanding and managing PDA, a nervous system disability characterized by an extreme sensitivity to demands. The discussion spans from her initial realizations, the impact of societal norms, difficulties with traditional behavioral analysis methods, to the unique struggles faced by families dealing with PDA. We also touch upon the broader implications for education, community safety, and the need for greater awareness and understanding. This emotional and enlightening conversation offers valuable insights into a poorly understood condition and highlights the importance of empathetic and adaptable approaches.
00:00 Reconnecting After Years Apart
00:18 Life Changes and New Beginnings
01:41 Understanding PDA and Autism
04:08 Challenges of Raising a Child with PDA
05:36 Navigating School and Burnout
09:25 Adapting Parenting Strategies
12:22 The Importance of Low Demand Approaches
15:14 Balancing Family Dynamics
16:06 The Need for Awareness and Support
28:50 Interdependence and Compassion
41:02 Navigating Communication Challenges
41:12 Understanding Nervous System Disorders
41:45 Autonomous Strategies for PDA
42:19 Special Interests and Low Demand Life
43:38 Social Situations and Perceived Threats
45:03 Holiday Challenges and Low Demand Parenting
52:27 Tragic Consequences and Advocacy
01:03:56 Rehumanization Project and Future Goals
01:17:14 Final Thoughts and Staying Connected
Resources:
Amanda Diekman - amandadiekman.com
Dr. Casey Ehrlich - atpeaceparents.com
Lindsay Flannigan- hiveparents.com
PDA North America - pdanorthamerica.org
Poppy and the Overactive Amygdala - by Holly Rae Provan
Sensory Trauma - by Dr Rorie Fulton , Emma Reardon, et al.
Low Demand Parenting - by Amanda Diekman
The Educators Experience of Pathological Demand Avoidance - by Laura Kerbey