Sex, Drugs and Skincare
Comedian and esthetician, Nicky Davis, along with side kick/boyfriend/assistant Sandro Iocolano, interviews comedians, actors and other practitioners as we learn about the latest, as well as the oldest techniques for staying young. We get weird but educational.
Sex, Drugs and Skincare
Eo. 118 Why we notice each other Flaws/ Guest Comedian Jeanne Whitney
Why do we secretly feel relieved when we spot a flaw in someone beautiful? In this candid conversation, host Nicky Davis Jr. welcomes comedian Jeanne Whitney to explore the fascinating psychology behind what they call "Pretty Petty" – the tendency women have to notice and sometimes find comfort in other women's imperfections.
The conversation takes a deep dive into learned behaviors, with Nickt revealing how she internalized her mother's habit of immediately spotting flaws in women on TV. Jean confesses that despite disliking this tendency in herself, she still catches herself looking for imperfections when a gorgeous woman enters a room. Together, they unpack whether this behavior is hardwired competition or a coping mechanism for survival in a beauty-obsessed culture.
What makes this episode particularly compelling is how it transforms from a discussion about competition into one about solidarity. When Jeanne shares that learning about Brad Pitt's acne struggles made her feel better about her own skin issues, we see how finding shared human imperfections can actually be empowering: "If he has acne and he's considered one of the most attractive people in the world, that means I can still be attractive with acne."
The conversation takes a powerful turn as they examine how geographic location impacts beauty standards, with Los Angeles creating an especially intense competitive environment. Jeanne’s painful stories about ex-partners who deliberately pointed out her flaws or tried to make her less attractive highlight the toxic dynamics that can emerge when insecurity meets relationships.
By the end, Nicky and Jeanne offer a refreshing alternative to the "Pretty Petty" mindset – the simple yet profound power of giving genuine compliments and focusing on connection rather than competition. Their vulnerable honesty creates a space where listeners can recognize these tendencies in themselves and perhaps begin to break free from beauty-based comparison.
Listen now, then follow Jeanne Whitney on Instagram @Jeannelwhitney and on TikTok @Jeannelwhitney for more of her insightful comedy!
You are listening to, watching, hearing, smelling, tasting and feeling sex, drugs and skincare. Like and subscribe. Hey, welcome back to Sex, drugs and Skincare. I'm Nikki Davis Jr. I am a stand-up esthetician and a licensed comedian. How clever is that?
Speaker 2:guess.
Speaker 1:I've been doing skincare for 25 years and this is the only podcast that I'm aware of that is skincare plus comedy, because all of our friends seem to be comedians and, uh, I don't know. Regular people are kind of boring to talk to on podcasts. So yeah, unless they're really controversial, or something yeah, that's a good point. Yeah, we don't know a lot of controversial people, do we? I?
Speaker 3:don't like controversial people because there's too much controversy how did you get back here so fast? You just put money in the meter I went outside, walk across the street, put money in the meter, stop for a second smell, the air took head of a joint. Walk back across the street, walked up here and everything's fine oh my god.
Speaker 1:So will you give me a five minute warning, by the way? Okay, cool, that's amazing, did you? Didn't even acknowledge like the traffic lights or anything like that no, I walk right across the street.
Speaker 3:There's people. At this point, what I did was I just walked and I went to the middle and I remember walking to the middle, I said to myself, oh my god, because I could imagine somebody going to be like, oh no, he's walking across the street in the middle of the podcast, get hit by a car and I thought about that.
Speaker 3:I was like somebody would say that he never came back and then it came back and then, as I did that, I walked across, it was expired. I put money in there, then I sat on the side of the road for a second afterwards this is a long explanation.
Speaker 1:Hold on, let me finish.
Speaker 3:I'm almost done um, and then I lit a joint and then, as I did, it took a toke and every car stopped on both sides, for real, yeah, because the lights had turned red and it was completely open. And I walked across and here I sit in front of you. Wow, so I'm glad you let me finish the story because there was a lot there.
Speaker 1:That was a great story babe Well. I'm into skincare.
Speaker 3:What can I say? Yeah, is that tired to back up.
Speaker 1:No, I have to burp. So today we have a special guest. I haven't seen you in a little while. I think I met you at um marcella's uh hosting class at the um yes, I remember that, yeah and um. Since then, she's recorded an album called passionate aggressive. It's everywhere, so you can stream it everywhere.
Speaker 3:I know it's not a great name. I love that so much I can see. I feel that you feel passionate aggressive.
Speaker 1:I get that yeah yeah, you definitely do, minus the ate yeah, no wait, what passion aggressive, passionate yeah, well, I was.
Speaker 2:I was trying to tell someone I can be very passive, aggressive, but um it auto-corrected to passionate aggressive, so I was like oh, well, there we go auto-correct is like the worst writing. I mean not the worst, the best writing partner sometimes yes, yeah, because I well, I was like that's perfect, because sometimes I can be passive, aggressive, but in a way that's so angry that it's no longer passive, that's true, yeah, but you can't just say aggressive, because that's too aggressive right it's got to be.
Speaker 3:No, I'm just a passionate, passionate, aggressive. Yeah, exactly, yeah, you're just passionate about Jean Whitney by the way.
Speaker 1:By the way, thank you, yes, thank you so much for being here.
Speaker 2:Thanks for having me.
Speaker 1:Yes, it's a pleasure. So we're doing these short little podcasts because they're slightly more palatable.
Speaker 3:For me. I'm the only one. I don't like this podcast at all and I refuse to be a part of it.
Speaker 1:Yes, we have to make it short for Sandra. It's a short attention span. You're tapped in though. Yeah, I know he's tapped out actually. So today, the topic that I wanted to do this is the one I really wanted the most. It's called Pretty Petty and it's about why women secretly love other women's flaws. And I know a second ago we were kind of talking about that and I know I did not pick this because of Jean, at all Nothing to do with you.
Speaker 3:She used that podcast like does he wash his balls enough?
Speaker 1:And I'm like well, how does he do his skin care? And it was always about me and I was like wait, is this about me? I'm being passionate about the way I talk to him, does he? Do the dishes does he dry them properly?
Speaker 3:exactly, yeah how come is my skin dry and is he too short for me?
Speaker 1:so I was like oh wait a second I don't understand the answer is, I'm not gonna tell you, wait, oh, I better get some moisturizer.
Speaker 3:Yeah, that's the answer.
Speaker 1:Yeah okay okay um, well, the uncomfortable truth is supposedly that, uh, women and I, I don't know, I grew up with this my mom, um, my mom very women and I I don't know, I grew up with this my mom, um, my mom, very much maybe still does. I don't want to throw under the bus, but, uh, she could find a flaw in a woman on TV. In the first two seconds of looking at her, she'd be like, okay, the ratio from her chin to her, her clavicle is too short. She's, uh, you know, like the length from her nose to you know like she would find all these weird imbalances, wow. And so I, I noticed I started doing that too, and, and I noticed, when I started doing comedy, there's so many pretty girls, and yourself included. I, I didn't try to find any flaws in you though.
Speaker 3:Well, thank you yeah fine, why did you look at him? I'm joking, I'm fine you're right, you are pretty. I'm totally kidding, like you like trying to be like. See, I told you I'm pretty.
Speaker 1:I know, that's what the implication was I was trying to be funny anyways I was at a mic one time I was hosting, and this is my example and maybe you might have had your other. You know your own experiences with this, but I was at a mic and it was like a new comedian girl and she's like super pretty and of course all of the male comedians at the mic are like obsessed with looking at her because she's new meat and you know yeah, and I know right, yeah, when you're new they hone in.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 3:They've left me alone now.
Speaker 1:I know, I know they know better. Yeah, I've stabbed a guy with a pen through his hand once.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:I can tell you that story another time. But yeah, he was trying. Anyways, I told him I was going to do it. He didn't believe me, so I did it anyway. But the girl was on stage and I'm not an aggressive person.
Speaker 2:Not at all. Sarah Connor over here, yeah right, stabbing people with pens, I warned him.
Speaker 1:If you knew who it was, you would probably think that it would be okay if I did it. I think it's okay right now and I don't know who it is.
Speaker 2:Maybe that's bad, maybe that's bad.
Speaker 3:I don't think it's bad because you know, when you find out who it is, you'll know it's good.
Speaker 1:Yeah, but anyways, I was looking. Stupidest thing One of her socks was up and one of them had fallen below her ankle and in my very split second in my mind I go guys hate that. And it made me feel a little bit of peace for a second.
Speaker 2:And I was like no, that's really dumb. Yeah, you know, I mean I well I cause we live in LA. I think we're just kind of trained to compete with women on beauty standards and, like I went to San Francisco this past weekend and people are not like judging each other's looks up there. They're not Not really. I mean my friends who live up there, they're like scientists and engineers and they're not really putting very.
Speaker 2:They're not obsessing over their appearance, so they weren't looking me up and down and they were just like your hair is so nice, it's so pretty. Nobody was like, oh, have you gotten Botox?
Speaker 1:or asking me weird questions.
Speaker 2:You know I just, it's the culture. I think here that also breeds it a lot more of this competitiveness.
Speaker 1:That's it. It's a competition.
Speaker 2:And doesn't really matter. I don't know, but I do. I do it too. Um, and I I don't like this about myself, but you know, like if I see a very gorgeous girl walk in a room somewhere, automatically I will look her over and try to find something wrong yeah, see, it's just innate, it's bred into us.
Speaker 1:I know and I don't, and I, I don't like that about myself.
Speaker 2:I know, and I don't like that about myself, but you know that you don't like that about yourself.
Speaker 1:Yeah, and that's so your one, I think that's a very common thing, though. Yeah.
Speaker 3:For everybody. Do dudes do that too? Yeah, in some degree they do yes. This person like. Growing up, I was always fat as well as short, so I was always like, oh, this person's shorter, this person's fatter, or like this person, yeah, they're in shape, but, um, they're in shape, but oh, I wonder if maybe he's probably losing a little bit of hair or whatever like there's like, there's something that you just to make yourself feel like we're not that different, but in some weird way me saying oh, we're look, look how similar we are.
Speaker 3:I have to be like yeah, look, you also have a flaw like, like it's not even like oh, we're also this, it's also like that, you know. So it's a negative. It is definitely meant to make me feel better.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 3:As opposed to like make us feel like we're united, yeah right.
Speaker 2:Well, I will notice if a man is objectively attractive very handsome other men will kind of make jokes about it or they'll be like well, he's gay, oh yes, yeah, that's so funny.
Speaker 3:You say that that was.
Speaker 3:That's like that was like the go-to thing for like the longest time I remember like, yeah, he's probably gay and you're like and in some reason like and then in your mind, when somebody says that and you're like, oh yeah, maybe it's like, wait, but is this the women that he's going to be going out with? I'm going to be like, you know it doesn't make any sense logically at all, but you're like, okay, what if? Who cares? If he? What if? What if there's an attractive guy I want to talk to?
Speaker 1:you know, and he is gay, like can't win.
Speaker 3:No, yeah, yeah, I uh, I just something just came into my head, but um, that's good improv too yeah, oh yeah, we do bad improv, in case you're wondering yeah instead of yes, and yeah, we'll do stuff like oh wait, hold on, let me think, let me think about it oh, that's oh dude, that just came into my head.
Speaker 2:This is gonna be a good one yeah, yes, and we'll be back and we'll be right back. Well, like um, I've always, uh, struggled with I don't really have any breakouts right now, but I've struggled with breakouts for like over a decade and I I don't I it's genetic that makes me feel so much better.
Speaker 1:Really, no, because you're so beautiful.
Speaker 2:I'm just joking my mom had acne too and I think it is genetic. Like a dermatologist told me that it's genetic, I was like my brother doesn't have it, though, and the dermatologist was like sometimes it skips a person, so, and my brother is like he works in a factory in Indiana, so he doesn't need good skin but he has great skin, it's so annoying, but I will. When I see a very pretty girl, if she does have acne sometimes I'll be like, oh thank.
Speaker 1:God Same. Oh, my God Same. Yeah, just like me, yay, okay.
Speaker 2:And it also made me feel better about having acne to hear about celebrities who have it Like. Apparently, brad Pitt has acne he still does. Or he had it before he had it, have it like apparently Brad Pitt has acne, he still does or he had it before he had it. But I guess in movies, like with the technology that's developed, you can see like pock marks on his face.
Speaker 1:Oh wow, yeah, some scars. Robert Redford was the same way, really yeah if you look at old pictures like serious pock marks on his face oh wow, but, he's so attractive, it's like you don't. It doesn't matter on men, though. Do it, does it?
Speaker 2:I don't know, but I don't know. But they don't wear makeup usually to cover it up.
Speaker 1:That's true. So that kind of sucks, yeah, that's true.
Speaker 3:That's very interesting too. I remember watching all these 70s shows, 60s shows or whatever. Old detectives and the guys on there have terrible teeth, they're all yellow and they're on their faces or whatever, and the women typically aren't shown that close up, or if they do, they're like super stunning.
Speaker 1:It's like there was still this thing like Vaseline over the Vassar over the lens.
Speaker 3:So it was like this thing that was even done back then. But the guys were like and it's just a guy, he's just easiest utilitarian, just you know like whatever his mouth smells like cigarettes yeah, I think it's like for survival, though like it's uh, it makes us feel like we can.
Speaker 1:I don't's like for survival, though Like it's uh, it makes us feel like we can. I don't know like we can succeed. We can keep going and like, uh, I don't know, maybe it's just for our we do. We need our egos that much that we have to find flaws in other people.
Speaker 3:I think, like, like you were saying, like I almost feel like it's you kind of do it, where you're like, oh, she too, like, okay, it's like. I think I think deep down it's just like, oh, yeah, she has it, cool. You know. I mean it's almost like you're like, yeah, it's, it's fine, cool, she's gone through it too. Like, I think, with brad pitt, like when you said that, I was like, oh, that's right. Never in my mind was I like oh, it doesn't make him brad pitt anymore.
Speaker 3:That you know, whatever like that I would want to have of his life or something but, it's just kind of like oh yeah, if it really you know, if you're a certain way where people see past certain things and they're like, oh, you're a human being, you know, like your feet are gonna stink yeah, well, I was like if he has acne and he's considered like one of the most attractive people in the world right that that means I'm.
Speaker 2:I can still be attractive with acne.
Speaker 1:Okay, so now that that's finding something good in it yeah, yeah, I like that.
Speaker 2:I guess I was finding something good.
Speaker 1:Yeah, so you're not looking at it like, oh well, see that he's not attractive because he's got this thing. It's like no it's like if he can do that and I can just be me, then obviously I'm super hot if he's hot and has acne, right, that's kind of how I looked at it. Yeah, I like that that's a more positive way of looking way.
Speaker 3:Yeah, that's like the anti-fox news. Okay, finally, I said it, I don't 115 podcasts.
Speaker 1:Whatever it is, I you've been waiting for that okay, sorry but yeah, as women, though, we're all competing for, like supposedly we're competing for we're kind of competed for everything, especially in this town, like we're all competing for roles and jobs and but like for men, and then here's what the the thing that pits us against each other, too, is that I've heard people that we know using like the rating system on. They'll call girls by, like you know, a one from a one to a ten like oh, she's at eight.
Speaker 1:Yeah no, the men, the men will do it yeah and then you hear that and subconsciously you're like oh well, if he's saying that and this guy's short and bald, then everybody, all guys, must be doing. I was talking about a comedian, that we know.
Speaker 3:We're going to divulge all this stuff to you after the show yeah, I got to hear it yeah.
Speaker 1:And he's, you know, he's not, he's whatever, he's just very Satan, he's Satan.
Speaker 2:I don't even know what he's talking about. He feels probably very insecure about the way that he looks and he sees women as evil because he can't have them, boom, so he has to tear them down in some way.
Speaker 3:Yes, I feel like that's like the beginning and end of like a lot of twilight zone episodes. You're like afraid of the thing, or you hate the thing that you can't attain, and then it just kills you and then it just turns you bitter right, you turn into the thing, you turn into, you turn into the thing into the monster or whatever it is like. Yeah, it's fascinating. Yeah, to rate someone, I think it's just to me it feels like it's a high school thing and it's subjective too.
Speaker 2:Totally, totally yeah, I mean, my dad would say to me be like you're a 10 gene. You're a 10 and I'm not.
Speaker 1:But he thought I was well you are, though, but yeah, but like that's so nice, even your dad was rating you, though my dad was rating me.
Speaker 2:Yep but he'd be like. You gotta believe this about yourself. I'm like. My dad would have loved it if I were like a full-blown narcissist, I think he would have been so proud of me. But um, but yeah, so I've had guys that I've dated like rate me, and it kind of hurt my feelings a little bit they actually like people that you were with.
Speaker 1:They would say, like, honestly, you're right. And then what would they say?
Speaker 2:like you'd be like Jean, honestly and this is just me and I'm biased you're a nine and I would be like okay, so what's the minus one though? Yeah, what are you looking at? Why would you even say that? Just lie to me. Yes, absolutely.
Speaker 1:You're supposed to say you're an 11. Yes, that's crazy. I've never had a man tell me that.
Speaker 2:I don't even think I would. Yes, but I do.
Speaker 3:That's so funny.
Speaker 1:That's so bizarre. Yeah, what guy would? I don't ever want you to talk to those people again. Please, I hope you're not friends with those ex-boyfriends of yours, because that's awful.
Speaker 2:No, I don't really talk to them anymore.
Speaker 1:Did you ask or did they offer you that information?
Speaker 2:They just offered it. I hate them I think I was feeling insecure one day and they were like honestly, jean, you're a nine, but I'm biased wait, so nine is like, but everybody else sees you as an eight.
Speaker 3:Maybe I like how the mindset probably was like survival mode in that person's head too. Or it was like all right, man, she's fucking smoking. But like okay, I gotta be realistic here. If I say 10, I mean, who's really a 10 right? Here's the thing like, like, in, like a split second, like those are the boyfriends I've had in the past, not not sandro but, um, I've had a boyfriend.
Speaker 1:He, he made a point of telling me that I had not good legs and like and and, telling me that, like, things that were actually true about me were not true about me in order to.
Speaker 3:He was self-conscious of his own legs he was.
Speaker 1:He had probably baby huey legs oh, interesting, okay, he had like a little teeny, tiny torso and like this big button legs, but I never judged him for that. But like he, I remember him saying very specific things to me that like made me feel like, oh, I guess I'm, I'm attractive, you know. And then he would be like you look better without makeup. And then then it went to you should stop brushing your hair.
Speaker 3:He's turning you into like a potato sack, like what the hell.
Speaker 1:Yeah, and somebody told me that like he's trying to make you ugly so that nobody else will like you and I was like you know what I think you might be right? Yeah, very insecure, very insecure guys. I think I attracted them for a long time.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I might still attract them, but I don't know. I it's something I focusing so much on beauty and that's what LA is it just gets very toxic. I love leaving LA where people don't care what they look like. I love that and you're like, oh wow, it doesn't really matter.
Speaker 3:Go to seriously this is going to sound. Go to a Walmart for a day in any place that isn't an. La area. And you'll just see people going out to shop, and that's it.
Speaker 2:There isn't like they're not trying to find the walmart and burbank.
Speaker 3:You know, even if I'm, even if I'm working for walmart, big deal, but I go in there and you'll see people shopping. But you'll also see people like is that an actor that used to be? Is that? Is that wait?
Speaker 1:is that like?
Speaker 3:you'll like people that were wearing glasses don't want to be seen or you know like which is part of the community. But you see people dressing up to go out. But when you see people just wearing whatever they wear, it's nice You're like oh, there's no pretense here.
Speaker 1:I love not looking in the mirror. By the way, too, we moved recently a little bit far away and I there's. I've gone five days without looking in a mirror. At times I don't care what my hair looks like my skin probably is totally dried out and gross, but it feels so good. You have really good skin.
Speaker 2:Well, thanks, but.
Speaker 1:I'm back here in the place where there's moisture in the skin. Alex, was that your signal? No, okay, just checking. I saw a hand out there.
Speaker 3:In this podcast. We like to check in with the producers to make sure that we still can be here. They keep.
Speaker 1:They like to randomly kick us out every so often yeah, I just want to make sure that everybody's uh okay, time wise I was just improvising, nikki yes, you did a great job thank you, that's another one too.
Speaker 3:That's another one.
Speaker 1:Yeah, you did a great job yeah, that's great improv, that's not, that's some quality improv and scene and scene so you have, um, you have, you're with somebody now that doesn't treat you that way, or uh no?
Speaker 2:I'm not with anybody right now. I don't treat myself that way. I don't think my friends treat me that way at all. So nobody's really talking to me like that right now. Nobody's really talking to me. But I am dating and I do like it. If I go on a date with someone and they say something about my appearance, yes, of course they don't say anything. I'm just kind of like I think. I think, um, words of affirmation is sort of my love language which is such a cheap and easy love language.
Speaker 1:Oh my God, yes, but yeah, I need, I need confirmation, you are beautiful you look like.
Speaker 2:By the way. You're like the sunshine. I need, I need confirmation you are beautiful.
Speaker 1:You look like by the way. You're like the sunshine, you're like she's like if you're, you are if you're listening and not watching. She just has these like beautiful bright blue eyes and she's got this like glowy blonde hair and you have pretty skin and you just have like just really beautiful coloring. I think I'm making your blush a little bit do you want to go out with me?
Speaker 1:no, yes, yes, you've spoken my love language yes, but yeah, I know what you mean, though it's like if somebody doesn't say something about your appearance as a woman, then it feels like almost like an insult yeah, like you.
Speaker 2:Just you look nice yeah you look nice.
Speaker 1:Yeah, even that is just yeah.
Speaker 3:Nobody says, you're not objectifying anything you're not like I think. Sometimes maybe people feel like they're going overboard where they don't want to.
Speaker 3:I don't mention her appearance and like oh cool, cool shorts, you know whatever cool shorts, that's just compliment yeah, nice fingernails you know, and then that's it, like you don't say anything else but like, but I think even just saying like, hey, you look nice, that's still like something. Yeah, that you can tell somebody nobody's gonna going to be like what does that mean? Yeah, yeah, I think it's important to definitely. I like, I like it if I meet somebody, or even just talking to somebody, who's like, oh, nice shirt. It's like, oh, thank you. It's like, okay, cool, when you left your place today, you did something right.
Speaker 1:That's a good way to.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I like giving compliments to people, yeah, yeah, just to make them feel good, exactly.
Speaker 1:Even if it's a lie, it feels good to say no. But yeah, I think we should pump each other up. Sometimes I like to give somebody. Like I mean, I haven't done it in a while, but I'll write a note and just give it or put it on them or whatever, and then just walk away and and just be like you know you, you know you like your eyes, or something like that.
Speaker 1:I don't do that now because I'm with somebody, but yeah I did do that one time, though, when I ran into somebody's car by accident and then, um, I thought the neighbor across the street was going to report me, because she was out there smoking cigarettes and sweaty sweats and um and so we thought for sure. And then I was like you know what, I actually didn't do anything to the person's car behind me, but I had already written a note she already made herself like.
Speaker 3:She's like oh you better, oh, you hit that guy's uh-huh the neighborhood watch.
Speaker 1:Yes, smoking cigarettes exactly just on the phone, ripping butts all day long, wow and so I went back and I had already written notes saying like, hey, I accidentally tapped the bumper of your car and I was like you know what fuck that? And I went and I wrote another note and I put it on there and I just I was just like make sure she saw me do it and I just wrote I think you have a really nice smile and then I just left it on there see, I like that you flipped that into a completely positive moment.
Speaker 3:Yeah, now that person is like I do, that's cool, that's nice. Yeah, my bumper.
Speaker 1:I'm not mad that it's dented.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I don't even know what's going on. My taillight's out.
Speaker 1:It's fine.
Speaker 3:Should we do? We have to. I think it's time, All right all of our cars are being towed. I just got a text, so we have to end the episode. But where can people find you? On social media or you don't have to give out your home address.
Speaker 2:Where can people drop off compliments? It's six, no, what do?
Speaker 3:people do drive-bys, if you want to compliment me.
Speaker 2:I'm at Jean L Whitney on Instagram and Jean Whitney Comedy on TikTok. Okay, and I think those are the major places you can find me. Are you a good TikToker? No, I've been posting a little bit. I think those are the major places you can find me. Are you a good TikToker? Uh, no, I've been posting a little bit lately.
Speaker 1:I'll follow you, cause I need to learn how to Tik TOK. I'm not good at it, yeah.
Speaker 2:I feel like I get more hits on Tik TOK than I think I might've been shadow banned from Instagram actually.
Speaker 1:Oh, now that makes you a more interesting person.
Speaker 2:I was going to say I want to know why I feel like I've been shadow banned for political stuff because I I don't see very many people viewing my story. I feel like that's.
Speaker 3:I think that's more prevalent than like. At first I thought it was like oh, yeah, of course, whatever. But like I think it's more prevalent than known, because or it happens more often than people realize Cause because, yeah, I see people that I'm like oh, they're like, they have really funny stuff or like they're on this thing or they collaborated with this person, but their individual page is like just kind of like dwindled, like they don't pump that out yeah, it's very, it's a power move I don't like it what's?
Speaker 1:why are they not pumping me out?
Speaker 3:because I'm not controversial, I just well, that's the thing you've been shadow banned because you're not oh, that's right, that's it.
Speaker 1:Yes, they don't. They don't want you in the alley.
Speaker 3:They want you in the middle of the road. Exactly Boom Roasted we watch.
Speaker 2:The Office a lot. Sorry, guys, maybe I'm just boring and that's why they've shadowbanned me. I don't know.
Speaker 1:No, I'm going to look at your content now. Now I want to know Okay, well, thank you, come back for another episode.
Speaker 3:Yes, please, yeah, we'll have you back for another 12 minute episode All right, good.
Speaker 2:All right, all right.
Speaker 1:We'll see you guys next week. Bye, bye.
