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But it's interesting to"},{"speaker":"Tara","startTime":2274.06,"endTime":2277.0,"body":"me."},{"speaker":"Mia","startTime":2278.08,"endTime":2282.07,"body":"You know, but even on that"},{"speaker":"Mia","startTime":2278.08,"endTime":2282.07,"body":"tragedy, but yeah, very much a"},{"speaker":"Mia","startTime":2282.07,"endTime":2286.54,"body":"tragedy. But even on that point,"},{"speaker":"Mia","startTime":2282.07,"endTime":2286.54,"body":"I mean, what they've got maybe"},{"speaker":"Mia","startTime":2287.02,"endTime":2290.77,"body":"four trans individuals that have"},{"speaker":"Mia","startTime":2287.02,"endTime":2290.77,"body":"done an act of violence like"},{"speaker":"Mia","startTime":2290.77,"endTime":2296.59,"body":"that, compared to 1000s that"},{"speaker":"Mia","startTime":2290.77,"endTime":2296.59,"body":"have been done by non trans"},{"speaker":"Mia","startTime":2296.59,"endTime":2301.63,"body":"individuals. So really, where's"},{"speaker":"Mia","startTime":2296.59,"endTime":2301.63,"body":"the threat? Same thing with, you"},{"speaker":"Mia","startTime":2301.63,"endTime":2305.44,"body":"know, sexual assaults and things"},{"speaker":"Mia","startTime":2301.63,"endTime":2305.44,"body":"like that. Where's the threat?"},{"speaker":"Mia","startTime":2305.56,"endTime":2308.17,"body":"But but we gotta blame somebody"},{"speaker":"Mia","startTime":2305.56,"endTime":2308.17,"body":"else, because we can't blame us."},{"speaker":"Faye","startTime":2308.47,"endTime":2311.26,"body":"Yeah, it's the age old"},{"speaker":"Faye","startTime":2308.47,"endTime":2311.26,"body":"adage of like, minorities being"},{"speaker":"Faye","startTime":2311.26,"endTime":2316.84,"body":"pathologized. Yes. And the same"},{"speaker":"Faye","startTime":2311.26,"endTime":2316.84,"body":"actions, which like, sis, white"},{"speaker":"Faye","startTime":2316.84,"endTime":2320.74,"body":"men are not pathologized. 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