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Choppin it Up with YNB

• Season 3 • Episode 5

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After a very long hiatus due to life happening all at once, Tea and E join forces once again to to discuss the real, raw and UnfilTERD topics that most are afraid to touch. With them local Boston artist YNB shares her views and opinions and fills us all in on whats been happening with her budding career. On this episode we dive into a discussion about the "T" in LGBTQ+ community; are some people using it as a guise for ulterior motives? 

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SPEAKER_05:

And welcome, welcome, welcome, welcome back to another exciting episode of the Yada. Ugh Lord have mercy on mess. That's how long is I've been gone. Welcome back to another exciting episode of Unfiltered with Iada Nicole. I am E. And I'm T. And we have a special guest sitting in the building with us. Like for real, for real this time. She's been on audio before, but not in studio. So we have her here today. Y and B. Give it up.

SPEAKER_01:

Hi, everyone.

SPEAKER_05:

And we're just chilling tonight. Um, we're back.

SPEAKER_04:

We are back.

SPEAKER_05:

We have been gone. I personally apologize. I know the shit that I've been having going on. And then you've had shit going on. If you are alive and above ground in 2025, you know 2025 is bending everybody the fuck over. Some of us more than others. Some of us might enjoy it. I think some of the tr I don't know. Some of the people who voted for this shit are enjoying it. But even aside from the political shit, it's like, man, life is really fucking us. I don't know if I don't know. I don't know if I believe in that, um, how people say, this the sun is what was the it's not astral astrology, it's like the maybe it is. It's a something moon. That type of shit. Oh, um, yeah, well, like what the fuck is it called? You say it all the time, but I know the I know what moon is a story. You know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_04:

I know what moon is.

SPEAKER_05:

Like the plant the planets, the planets are in Uranus.

SPEAKER_04:

Uh uh retrograde. Yes, that's retrograde. Yes.

SPEAKER_05:

So I don't know if I necessarily believe in that, but if it is a for real thing, this this is fucking it. This is 2025. I don't know what I'm expecting to happen in 26, but I can't wait for this motherfucker to be over. I don't even like uneven numbers anyway, so we should have known this was gonna be some bullshit. But anyway, we're back. Um, I don't know if any of you have seen my Instagram. I lost my mom in July, so that's one of the reasons why I have not been here. And today I'm here. Hopefully, my full self. We'll talk about that on another different episode because I really don't want to get into no none of that real like super heavy shit tonight. Um, anyway, what's going on with you? Where did we leave off at? Oh my gosh.

SPEAKER_04:

Um, pride. That's how long it's been. Pride. So June. I turned 39 in July.

SPEAKER_03:

Happy birthday, happy birthday to you.

SPEAKER_04:

Happy okay, it's it's like six months later. I turned 39 and I feel I feel like I'm in my 20s, like I don't feel almost 40.

SPEAKER_05:

And I sure don't look like it. You really don't. Whatever the fuck that looks like, though. Like white people, you don't look your age. What the fuck? What does my age mean?

SPEAKER_04:

Like, what does that mean?

SPEAKER_05:

I I don't know. I think it's just uh some bullshit. You know what? You're probably hearing from white people. They age real crazy, exactly. So that's like so if you see a sister who's like my age, and you're like, oh my god, and then you're standing and you're 25 and your shit's on the floor. So it's kind of like, oh my god, you don't look your age. So it's probably some shit that just caught on, you know. Yep, sayings get passed down from generation to generation. Sometimes we don't even know what the fuck they mean.

SPEAKER_04:

I grew up with that you don't let your problems show to the world. So if you're shitty on the inside, you don't let that show on the outside. So I think that's where we as black people get that from. And I guess in like the trailer parky area. No, you in like the in no respectfully, respectfully trailer parks. In other areas where the sun doesn't shine as much. Other cultures, other translucents.

SPEAKER_05:

That was a word that translucence. That was the word for 2025. I think we said that when when we were talking. I was listening to some of our episodes the other day at work to try to uh get my head together to come in here. And um, I was listening to the one we were talking about segregating. And of course, I work with predominantly Caucasians. So I'm just I'm dying laughing to myself, like, where y'all gonna eat? What are you gonna eat? Oh, y'all got it salt and pepper. So I I yeah. Anyway, um, I had a whole list of stuff that I had wanted to talk about, but like I said, I don't want to do the heavy shit tonight, so fuck that list. I do have a phone. Whenever you're ready, whenever you're ready. These are my hostesses, and if y'all know, we this is our little studio, which is inside my little apartment. So funny story. So that means that y'all welcome inside my house too. So y'all gonna hear this fucking bullshit too. So, like I said, life's been you know, over the barrel, you know. It's like literally every day something, something, something, something. So the kicker, and I can laugh about it now, but like ISIS comes outside because I think my kids know I've been on edge. So she comes outside and she's like, You're about to lose your shit. I'm downstairs like repotting my plants or some shit like that. I have a plan for you actually. And um I'm like, what the entire fuck? Like, what else can what is it? Landslides, you know, a fucking tsunami? Something what what is it? She's like, how did a toilet get broke? Now the first thing I'm thinking, you mean like clogged? Because we can handle that. She's like, no, baroque. Of course, I'm thinking the worst. I'm like, how the f first of all, how the fuck do you break a toilet? Because I'm thinking the porcelain is, I'm just expecting to go in and it's like just two pieces in the bathroom, and there's water spurting all over the place. So I'm thinking the worst. It wasn't that bad, so thank God. However, you tell me, so if you guys, I'm I'm telling you this just okay, if you have to use the bathroom, this is what happened. Okay, I go into the bathroom, and I'm relieved because the the porcelain is not broken. Because who the fuck can afford another toilet, you know? And then the water, girl, my mind was everywhere. The seat itself broke. So I'm gonna leave it at that. So when I say to you the seat itself broke, what do you picture?

SPEAKER_04:

Like the flippy floppy, the up and down thing.

SPEAKER_05:

So what part of that?

SPEAKER_04:

The part you sit on, the butt part. But it would if it would break the the latches on the back, exactly. Right.

SPEAKER_05:

That's what I'm thinking. The latches on the back, there's nothing because those are designed to come off because you some people change their toilet seats, you know, however many months or whatever. So I'm like, nothing, you know, if y'all broke that, because I'm thinking nothing that nothing, you should be flopping your ass down on the toilet. But if you and it kind of, you know, you go one way and the toilet seat goes the other way, it's kind of like it can happen. I don't know why the fuck you're sitting down that hard, but it can happen. No so if you go to my bathroom, there's white tape on the toilet seat because someone cracked it in half. This is the toilet seat. Half. Like your mind's blown because how the fuck did that happen?

SPEAKER_04:

So I have a similar situation, but not the toilet. It was the sink in the bathroom. My youngest was brushing her teeth, and we have a porcelain cup where the toothbrush go. She put it in behind the mirror, and for some reason she took it out to put her no, she took it out to put her toothpaste, her toothpers back in the cup. Cup fell, broke the sink on the inside. The sink has been there. I've seen that before, but we've been there. The cup has fell in the sink before. I've dropped it.

SPEAKER_05:

Well the sink got tired now.

SPEAKER_04:

But on top of everything else I got going on, yeah. I tried to take the the easy route. I went on Amazon, got some ceramic glue. I did my best, stuck my fingers together, but where it was broken, there was like a uh a thing on the inside where the only way to fix it is if you put your hand underneath it and hold the piece up. I ended up having to rip the whole sink out and replace the sink.

SPEAKER_05:

And I was just but I could see a cup falling. It because you can say, cup fell. That's how sink broke.

SPEAKER_02:

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05:

Even though it's it's kind of like the fuck like is the cup too hard or the sink too top? Right. But how how do you split a toilet seat in half? There's no way that you could do that. The the thing fell in the sink. Your ass is even if your ass fell on the toilet seat.

SPEAKER_04:

Did something fall on the toilet or is someone was it the ass?

SPEAKER_05:

What the fuck else could it be? Like, and if your ass is that hard, you need an autopsy. Rick of mortars has set in. So that's I'm like, I'm trying to imagine, like, no, even if you sit down, like how the fuck did you break the toilet seat? And the only one who was in the bathroom was the nine-year-old when it happened. So you your ass definitely is not flopping down that hard. So what the fuck is anyway? So anyway, I think I'll have to say this. If you guys gotta go to the bathroom, I take the toilet seat. So don't think don't think like y'all in like a trap house or no shit like that. It's just a little bit of tape on the toilet seat because not for nothing. I don't live down here. So y'all wanna cut your ass up still trying? No one wants to replace the toilet seat. Okay, I have a fully working toilet upstairs. So, Miss YMB, what's been going on with you?

SPEAKER_01:

Life. Life's been going on like everybody else. Life's been going on, you know. Um, but I'm here, everybody else is here, you know. We stay in positive the best way we can. And yeah, that's all. But life's been going on. Being an artist, working, yeah.

SPEAKER_05:

What's the what's the last time I saw you, we were at um Pride. Yeah, damn, I've been under a rock. I haven't been no, I'm lying. I saw you at your mom's wedding.

SPEAKER_01:

Oh, yeah. I was torn around. I I know. Yeah, yeah, she sure was.

SPEAKER_05:

She sure was.

SPEAKER_01:

I was having a great night. I thought you would have thought it was my wedding. I was having a great night. But yeah. But now yeah, that was the last time that was.

SPEAKER_05:

That was a long time ago. That's crazy. Yeah, it was. Definitely was because that was August, August 22nd. It was. Yeah, because she got married on one of my anniversaries. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01:

August 22nd, that was the last time. Yeah. I seem pretty much like everybody. I just been distant after that.

SPEAKER_05:

I'm telling you, in in the house, I go to work and come in the house, and that's about it. And I don't have no problem with it. But like now that I'm looking up like, fuck, it's November already.

SPEAKER_01:

Exactly.

SPEAKER_05:

It's literally almost the end of the year.

SPEAKER_01:

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05:

Preferably we make it through to say we've survived a whole year under this administration. I don't know. That's like we should get a medal or some shit like that. Um, I don't know. Get our food stamps back. You had said you wanted to talk about that.

SPEAKER_04:

I I mean, you know, right now, the way things are, I kinda, it doesn't even matter. I'm so over it. It's like they take it away and then it's coming back, and then they take it away and then it's coming back. Did they give it back? I got nine dollars back.

SPEAKER_01:

That's at least it's something.

SPEAKER_00:

Some people don't have none, so nine.

SPEAKER_05:

But is nine dollars something? Because what the fuck can you really get at the grocery store for nine dollars? The stuff that the that the people don't you can get canned food. Right. And I don't even mean like, because they do got some fan, you got to get the store brand, name brand, canned foods with nine dollars. But what so was it someone was saying today that they knew someone who had a bunch of kids and she was getting like$500 a month and they took it or that you know, with the shutdown or whatever this bullshit is. But then they gave it back to her. They gave her like one percent back. What's one percent of 400? My math is. I was gonna say my math is math, and one percent of four hundred is four. Right? It's been a long time. It's been a long time since we've been in school, so five.

SPEAKER_04:

What is the percentage? Is it 0.5?

SPEAKER_05:

That would be five percent. So four percent is zero point zero four. Yeah. Okay. So four hundred? Yeah.

SPEAKER_04:

I don't know. I say X series. This is this is what wait, what is one percent? Of four hundred. Of four hundred. Four.

SPEAKER_05:

I was right! I'm not stupid. So like what is that? Four dollars? Four dollars. So what's the fucking point?

unknown:

Wow.

SPEAKER_05:

And how many kids she got? I think she said four. Which even I was gonna say, even still, I don't think four hundred dollars for four kids, that's not a lot of money. That's not a lot of food. Not with the fucking with these prices. It's like y'all, we're gonna give you just enough for y'all to survive. Don't look at no name brand this, don't look at no organic that. Meanwhile, I I I I'm I'm speechless about the whole everything. Everything. Even from, and we haven't been here in a long time, but uh Tylenol causes autism. Coming from a man who has no scientific background. Coming from a man who like you're the head of correct me, of the um the World Health Administration, blah blah blah, whatever it is. And you make asinine statements like that. Then this week, the man passed out in the White House and you walked away. But you're the head of the World Health, you're supposed to help him with his health, because his health was failing when he fell on the floor, and you just turned around. Like he looked disgusted, like the man was a piece of trash. Yeah, like what the fuck is going on here? Meanwhile, you're standing there shaking like booty meat, looking like you're about to pass out your damn self.

SPEAKER_00:

Crazy shit.

SPEAKER_05:

And other than this. So let's talk about this. I don't know who Tink is. You know who Tink is? You're an artist. I don't you know what does she sing?

SPEAKER_01:

Um, treating me like somebody, if you guys heard it before. Um somebody real hard to find. Somebody real time. Y'all not getting a song out of me. But that song right there. I don't know it. What else? There's some other music. You guys probably heard it on the probably, but don't know who it is.

SPEAKER_05:

Yeah. But um, she was in an LA fitness center and she came. Oh yes. Okay. Yeah, she came there was a trans person in the locker room, and Tink was like going off. And I guess I guess Tink is the one who got put out of the gold gym and not the trans person. And so that's by the controversy, like T.S. Madison was getting involved, was talking about it. She had her whole um panel discussion a few nights ago. And I guess my question is, because I'm all for Livin' Let Live. You do whatever you do, as long as it's not affecting me. I don't give a fuck who you fucking or who you fucking when you fucking who you're supposed to be when you fucking, whatever. But where there has to be a line because what they were saying, and what I saw, the gist of um on Tiaz Madison, there was one person that said, you know, Tink can't speak because Tink's not from our community. And Tia's Madison is like, isn't she a lesbian? She's like, this is our community. So I guess now then this person was saying, um, well, no, she's not from the trans community, so now we're separated in the communities. Absolutely. And you know, and then she also said that the person, I'm just gonna call her Pat because I don't know the person's name, but also it could be Patrick or Patricia, whatever. So she was saying that Pat is not a trans woman, that he is a male who just wears lip gloss and goes into women's locker rooms. So I guess my question is where do we draw the line? How do we draw the line with you wake up tomorrow and you're like, my name's Bob, and I'm going in the men's locker room and look at dicks. You know, like I can't tell you that, well, you don't look like a man, so you're not a man. I can't tell you that. However, it's a it's it could be a safety concern because the way I look at it, like I said, I don't give a fuck who's fucking who and who you want to be when you're fucking whoever you're fucking. However, if I'm taking my nine-year-old into a bathroom, in a public bathroom, and I see Pat standing there with lip gloss on and a heart on, I'm fucking you up. Absolutely. I'm gonna catch your case.

SPEAKER_00:

Absolutely, absolutely.

SPEAKER_05:

So it's like, so if we can't tell people who they are or who they identify as, you could some someone can switch it up every day. And this is no knock to the trans community itself. This is a knock to people who use that title for their benefit.

SPEAKER_01:

And they're just dressing up, just playing dress up.

SPEAKER_05:

Yeah, for whatever your ulterior motives are.

SPEAKER_01:

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_05:

But then it's like because of human rights, I can't say to you, your name is YMB, but today you you feel like Bob, no, I'm gonna keep calling you YMB. There's a whole controversy about that too. You have to respect people's pronouns, but it's like, I don't know who you are day by day. And are you really who you say you are, or are you posing to reap whatever benefits might come with it?

SPEAKER_04:

There's somebody else that does that online. Lily Tino.

SPEAKER_05:

Yes, I've seen that. I don't know somebody else.

SPEAKER_04:

Lily Tino is a I think they, because I can't, I don't know if he's a she or if she is the same situation, yeah. Very, very much the same. But with Lily, they go to they purposely do things.

SPEAKER_03:

I think you told me about this person.

SPEAKER_04:

We we talked about it a little bit. This irks me. I think she rage baits, or they rage bait, like she went to Disney many times, talking about how he is going to change his popsicle into a what was it?

SPEAKER_01:

I don't remember that, but I did hear it though. I I don't remember that, but it was just very inappropriate. Just certain such at Disney.

SPEAKER_04:

At Disney with the earmuffs and the whole nine, talking about what that's gonna look like, and she had a corndog, and she peeled the corndog layers and was explaining it at Disney, and they did that multiple times, and then they went into the women's bathroom and took pictures of herself, themselves, with other people walking in the background. She's being sued now.

SPEAKER_05:

Yeah. The more you're sitting here saying they, I'm like, who?

SPEAKER_04:

I'm like, who are they? Like, I'm like, there was more of more than one, but like I don't know which what I don't know what the proper pronouns because he has a background, they have a background as well of um assault or stalking his ex-girlfriend. Yeah, and then all of a sudden he's now trans, but he hasn't transitioned.

SPEAKER_01:

Exactly. He only got his forehead done and messing with the face just a little bit. That's about it. That's yeah, it that all all that stuff bothers me. It it really does bother me. It bothers me.

SPEAKER_04:

This is this is who we're talking about. I oh, and he also goes to restaurants, he eats. Oh, yeah, and then he'll cause a whole scene if the waiter calls him a ham idea.

SPEAKER_05:

Girl, we had this conversation before. I can't keep up. Like you, if whoever if you are a trans person or a person, period. Because I'm sorry, if y'all want to identify whoever the fuck you want to identify on a daily basis, so the fuck can I. So it's open for everybody. I want to identify as a bitch who don't have to go to work on Monday. Still gotta go, but I'm just not identifying as that bitch when I get there. Um sorry, I totally lost my train thought. But if if you are a person who Monday through Monday, Wednesday, Friday, I'm Bob, Tuesday, Thursday, Sunday, I'm Sarah. If you are that person, you have to allot people the grace to figure you the fuck out.

SPEAKER_04:

There's a guy that's on there now. Um, he's a coach, he's a life coach, but he's deep, he's from puberty, and he is a transmuscular, like muscles male everything. But he's transitioning, like actively transitioning. He has the chest and he has just got yeah, but he's shaped still like a man. Yeah, but the difference with him is that he knows he's a man, he just wants to look like a female. He's not crossing the boundaries or trying to sound ridiculous with the other trans community where you're a man, you're born with the junk, but you're turning into a female. Now you can have kids because you're you ch that doesn't that doesn't make sense. So he's making it make sense for what an actual trans is, and he's teaching people along the way. He has a daughter, um, he's divorced, like he he's very open, very, very open and honest, and I can appreciate that because that's the that's the reality of it. Like there's no man that can transition into looking feminine, but then say that they have the chromosomes of a woman. That doesn't that doesn't make sense. I'm so confused.

SPEAKER_05:

Oh so he is a he is him. Yep, but he wants to look like a her. Yep. But he still wants to identify as a he.

SPEAKER_04:

No.

SPEAKER_05:

Oh, okay. That's why I was confused.

SPEAKER_04:

But the thing is, is along with his transition, he knows that people are not going to call him what he prefers to be called. And he respects that because not everybody understands, and he says that he since he understands that, he's not stressing about it because not everybody's gonna look at him and respect what he wants to be called, and he's okay with that.

SPEAKER_05:

So but to what point though? Like, okay, if I meet you, meet him at it's eight o'clock, at eight o'clock, I don't know what your pronoun is. 805, we've had some drinks, we had some conversation, now I know what your pronouns are. So now I have to respect you and call you what it is that you wish to be called, correct? Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_02:

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05:

But the ones who are changing every other day, like you can't be pissed off at somebody because they don't know what your pronoun is. I just met you.

SPEAKER_02:

Right.

SPEAKER_05:

And then I met then I met you like a week ago and you were somebody else.

SPEAKER_04:

So it's like, what the fuck? I think things like that, it's not fair. It's not fair to people. It's not e I don't even think it's fair to the person that's doing it because you're hurting people around you unnecessarily. And I think that's the problem. That is the biggest problem. And I feel like once people understand the respect level of people's of people, I guess, then this won't be so confusing. Uh big example. Somebody that I work with. Um, I can't disclose much, but this person started out as a them, uh he them. Um and now this person. What the fuck is a he them?

SPEAKER_01:

Yeah, it's it's all it's all it's a lot. It's a lot. It's a lot of things.

SPEAKER_05:

No, I'm I'm not being facetious. What the fuck is a sorry so for not what I don't understand. What does that mean? He them.

SPEAKER_04:

This person he they know that they are a male.

SPEAKER_01:

But they feel but they feel like they are a woman.

SPEAKER_04:

Yes, feminine. So then it's them, yeah. Feminine. So they prefer he them. And he them.

SPEAKER_01:

Then so they really don't know what they want to be. Honestly, like I said, it's all crazy to me.

SPEAKER_05:

Honestly, it just started off Is this more of a your generation kind of thing?

SPEAKER_01:

So, and I don't like it. I don't like it. It is my generation because I think it started, honestly, when I was in when I started hearing they, them, and all that stuff, that was like probably in like middle school. Middle school going into high school, but in middle school, they were just, you know, they were like the the different kids, but you knew that they, you know, liked, you know, the the same sex and whatnot, but they would dress differently. And when you would say, you know, like their name, don't call me that. That's when they would all start, don't call me that. I'm a them. I'm they. Some people be saying, um, it I don't know, it's it's all it's all crazy to me. I I don't know. It but I respect I just I just don't.

SPEAKER_05:

I wonder if all this is like a new generation thing, like on a deeper level, not like just hey, this is we're getting together and this is what we're gonna do. But like if these feelings are are new things, like let's say back in the day when your mom and my mom were were younger, were they did they still exist back then or called heeshis?

SPEAKER_04:

Remember? They were called he's yeah.

SPEAKER_01:

I definitely heard back in the day, you know, older folks would say he's yeah, stuff like that, or like different names, but definitely heard he's I've never exhis were the drag queens, but that's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_05:

That's what I was gonna say. That was more like uh there was a clear line.

SPEAKER_04:

There was a clear line. Exactly.

SPEAKER_05:

So it was like, hey, I'm I'm Bob. I was born Bob, but I am a feminine man, and I like to dress as a woman because I am a gay man, you know what I mean? So I'm wondering where did the what today don't feel like Sarah? You know, like were they alive back then? I guess I feel like I'm talking about dinosaurs like going back when the dinosaurs were more, you know. Um like did they exist or you know, like when when did they evolve into this?

SPEAKER_01:

All I know is transsexuals were obviously a thing, but I don't know when the that pronoun okay started.

SPEAKER_05:

So you don't know. I haven't heard of you're either gay, you're straight, that's when you're either lesbian or you're you're. You're a gay man, you're bi. Yeah. Or like that was it.

SPEAKER_01:

That was exactly.

SPEAKER_05:

Or, like you said, you were trans well, they used to call them cross dresses or transsexuals back then. We've heard of transsexuals. We've heard of women that are like, I don't want this pussy anymore, take it. You know, and men who were just like slice of the dick open and because that's what happens, y'all. But um, there was never any. I want to keep my dick and my pussy. You know, I've never heard of that. So that's something like, did we evolve into this? Or like, who was the first person?

SPEAKER_01:

Like I say sis medicine, if you guys mean, honestly. Yeah, that's what I say. That's what I say. I mean, I don't know. It could be other people, but that's who I know to be that that way.

SPEAKER_04:

I didn't even know this.

SPEAKER_01:

But see, but TS TS, yeah, TS. My fault. My fault.

SPEAKER_05:

I guess but I guess TS to me from my experience of T S, she is who she is. You know what I mean? It's like I I've never known her to identify as a gay man. She's always been T.S. who is a chick with a dick, you know? But I've never heard her say, uh, I feel like Bob and Susan today. You know, it's always been T.S. Uh you know, so that I don't know.

SPEAKER_01:

Uh the waters are murky now because we're like a lot of things these days.

SPEAKER_04:

I heard also that a lot of this confusion started during COVID when everybody was home, when everybody was I could see it. I could see it. I could see it. It was a large but huh? Really? You heard that?

SPEAKER_01:

Wow, that's crazy.

SPEAKER_04:

So there's a lot of spiritual aspects to a lot of of that that I also saw and how like demons are called they. Demons are not specified as oh, this demon is a woman, or this demon demon is a male. Demons are specified as like they. Yeah, and them.

SPEAKER_01:

Uh huh.

SPEAKER_04:

And one of the theories about that was exactly that that during COVID, while everybody was homeboard, had nothing else to do, that kind of conjured up what it is now. Wow.

SPEAKER_01:

And I mean I find that crazy. You would have thought people would have been thinking about what to do next, the next money move, the next. But you're right, it everything is I feel like a lot of stuff is spiritual. And people some people don't realize that. But the ones that do, they get it, they know and yeah, it's just some crazy shit, man. It's just crazy. It's some crazy shit going on in this world. There is. All we can do is, you know, just try to keep living, being the best we can be. Exactly.

SPEAKER_04:

I thought about if I ever transitioned, what would that look like?

SPEAKER_01:

I thought about it too. Like, honestly, you know, seriously. I actually really thought about it. Like, I was like, hmm. Like, I actually thought there was a time in my life where I thought that I would transition. I didn't even know how you but I was like, nah, I love myself. You're beautiful. No, yeah, you're beautiful. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you, thank you. No, I know, and and that's what like I had to realize. I had to, you know, grow and realize something. So yeah, but and that's I I feel like that's another thing that bothers me about you know the trans thing. I feel like a lot of people are becoming trans as a trend. And it's just I just like you said, it has to be a uh a line, so it has to be a point where you just gotta stop the shit.

SPEAKER_04:

I mean knock anybody that does it. I I feel like God doesn't make mistakes. Absolutely, and this is no everybody, you know, do your your own thing. This is this is me. God doesn't make mistakes. And I feel like if you want to take that next level and altering what you were given, that's like a slap in the face to God. Like, oh yeah, I didn't make you what you wanted.

SPEAKER_05:

Word, but then people will argue the fact that God gave us the doctors who have the that's that's that is that's also true.

SPEAKER_01:

That that's very true as well.

SPEAKER_05:

I don't know. I think we totally went as we normally do down a rabbit hole with that, because my question is again, I think, and I don't even think we answered the question, because maybe we can't answer the question, because maybe because we're not trans, you know, but where does the line get drawn where a man can put on lip gloss?

SPEAKER_04:

And I mean, not for nothing, we got so many pedophiles and like I think that's where there needs to be an alternative bathroom or something specific, and that needs to be across the board that can't just stop at certain places. I know for me, if I was to ever transition into Tony or please don't tony his name.

SPEAKER_05:

If I was to ever call yourself Tony, you're not gonna have any money. No one wants to fuck a Tony. Sorry, go ahead.

SPEAKER_04:

I would I would prefer to physically look like what I want to present as. Um, and with that guy, he looked like a man.

SPEAKER_05:

He really did. He looked at lip loss bullshit.

SPEAKER_04:

So she uh tinka tinker. I feel like she had every right to be. I do too because this man looked like a man. I do too. Just because you go in there and say, Oh, I'm a girl, you don't look like a girl.

SPEAKER_05:

You're not a man as a girl at all. Playing in the girls' bathroom. And it's funny you say that because I have I have a friend who's a stud, so she's she's mass presenting, and she's like, she has anxiety about going into the women's bathroom because of the way that women will look at her, like, what are you doing in here? You know what I mean? So it's like if she is a natural woman who's going into a women's bathroom and she has anxiety behind that, but then you have this man who had absolutely he had no no pause, just lip gloss and just went on in and had no problem with it. But then you have Tink who said something who spoke up about it, and her rights were violated over this person who's clearly a man.

SPEAKER_00:

Because people are sensitive about the trans community over the black community? Yeah, yeah, crazy. I know it is crazy.

SPEAKER_05:

Because if I was her, I'm sorry, that would be my next course of action on discrimination, yeah, racism. Because I'm sorry if if Becky Sue has said, oh my god, Bob's in the bathroom with his dick out and lip gloss, you know, Bob would have got put the fuck out. Yeah. Exactly. Crazy myself. I okay, so when you say sensitive, it boggles my mind, and again, I'm new newish to the community, it boggles my mind that trans people, I don't want to say they haven't fought a fight, but they didn't fight the fight that gay people have fought, if that makes sense.

SPEAKER_01:

Yeah, it does make sense, and I hear you.

SPEAKER_05:

Y'all got the nerve to be super sensitive. Y'all not the ones who fought the fight, y'all just came along for the ride. Exactly. That's that's what RuPaul said.

SPEAKER_04:

And RuPaul said that.

SPEAKER_05:

I think Dave Chappelle said it as well. He when he gave the analogy about he's like the car, he's like there's a gay, a trans, and da-da-da. He was like, y'all just they just came along for the ride. Yeah. I totally agree. So y'all shouldn't be the ones who should be super sensitive. Like y'all haven't gone through, I don't want to say you haven't gone through the discrimination, but not from the beginning of time.

SPEAKER_04:

Right. Protesting, standing up for what you believe in. Exactly. Being beaten up like the whole the whole nine.

SPEAKER_05:

Yeah, I mean, let's not let's not make it seem like trans women are not being killed at enormous rates, because they are. But what she what we mean is y'all just went along for the ride. Let me just leave it at that.

SPEAKER_01:

And then have the nerve, or not the nerve, but the right to be or feel sensitive. It's very like not for that.

SPEAKER_05:

Gay people are not that damn sensitive anymore.

SPEAKER_01:

Yeah, no. I I I totally agree.

SPEAKER_05:

But I mean, I guess if you keep getting, you know, if you gotta keep fighting the same fights, the same battles, you kind of get a thicker skin.

SPEAKER_01:

Like your scab gets bigger every time, you know. Exactly. And you would have thought that would happen, you know, with the trans community as well. But I guess, like you said, the gay community started.

SPEAKER_05:

I mean, like, not for nothing, then you came and you just made this cute little flag and just, you know, it was like, this right here. Yes. Revolution. No.

SPEAKER_04:

Yeah. There's more to it. Yeah. Yeah. There's a lot more to it. Yeah.

SPEAKER_05:

And this, you know, and it's like, how are you guys more sensitive than gay people? And then not for nothing. And then y'all are trying to, the same people whose car y'all were in that you went along for the ride in, now you're trying to separate yourself. So, like for the other woman that was on the um on the talk to say, you know, she's not part of our community. And TS loves T.S. TS is like, well, isn't Tink gay? And she's like, yeah, she's like, but no, the trans also y'all are over there by yourself now. Now that it's nice and safe, and you know, the big bad wolf that came and blew everybody else's fucking house down, and you know, ran over to your neighbor's house where it's nice and cozy. Now it's like, oh well, them. Yeah, exactly. You know, it doesn't seem fair to me. I don't want to talk about gay folks no more.

SPEAKER_04:

But wait, wait, if what would your male name be if you ever wanted to transition?

SPEAKER_05:

You were offended because I said you can't be a Tony.

SPEAKER_04:

No. Oh, okay. Because we were talking about she thought about transitioning, I thought about transitioning. What that would look like. What would I do? Transition to what? It was just a thought, like, yeah, if I cut, if I took the girls off and I extended my lady bits, and I went through that process, what would that look like?

SPEAKER_05:

You don't even have the personality. Like you're so like you're so feminine, you're like so, you know, I could probably transition. I think I'm a little do this sometime. Just a little bit.

unknown:

Oh man.

SPEAKER_05:

Listen, even though I'm not gonna lie to you, and this is my niece, but you grown. Y'all supposed to be putting in work. I'm not, I'm too lazy for that. I got it in me. I'm not trying. Um, I don't have it in me. I tried once and I couldn't listen.

SPEAKER_04:

I felt like I was doing something. I'm telling you, what's in my this doesn't feel right.

SPEAKER_05:

I I I couldn't do it. I could not. I'm sorry. I'm too much of a thank you. I'm too much of a don't get me wrong. I'm I'm a I'm a warrior princess. Because like I, you know, when I do my thing, I do my thing. Absolutely. But when I want my thing done, I done, you know, I get a little cute and dainty and shit like that. So I definitely, I could not be that nigga. Like, I couldn't be like bitch roll of. I couldn't do it. Like, it's out of my mouth to say that to and I'm sorry, I'm pretty, and I don't want to see nobody in the bed that look like me. Like, don't get me wrong, my girl looks good, but she don't look like me. Like, she's not feminine. Yeah. Like, I'm not stroking your hair and treating you like I'm the princess. Like, I'm not about to, I'm not about to do it. I couldn't do it. But like I said, y'all still put in work. I could never. Never, never, never. I don't even like to get on top.

SPEAKER_01:

Damn, man. Tight. I think my um, I think I wanted to name myself, I think I name I think I wanted to name myself Isaiah. Isaiah. Isaiah. I wanted to name myself Isaiah. And honestly, God knew exactly what he was doing with me. Because honestly, if I was a man, my mom would have so many grandchildren. Like, it would be so mad. Like, and it runs deep in my family too, whereas where I got cousins, they got mad kids. So it's like, yeah, I would have been that. I would have been that.

SPEAKER_05:

So Dirty said that to me. I'm I'm grateful. I'm grateful. She's like, if I was a dude, she's like, we have we have 20 kids. Who the fuck is pushing out 20 kids? And in this economy, push them back in. Push him back in. If I if I was a transition, what would my transitional name be? I can see an Eric. Eric's don't have money either. You tell me Eric, I think of a dusty, dirty. Yeah, no. Lamar's Eric's Tony's. No.

SPEAKER_04:

But if you transition, what I've noticed that the pattern is whatever your first letter of your name is, you change it into something with that first letter.

SPEAKER_01:

So Tony, Frederick, no. No, no. I wouldn't be able to. I would have to change my name to something else because I might change my name to Walter or whatever. I'm sitting here like money. No.

SPEAKER_03:

Elias. I could Elias. Elias is cute.

SPEAKER_05:

Elias sounds like I got money. Elias. That's nice. I'm ready to settle down.

SPEAKER_04:

That does sound cute. I like that.

SPEAKER_05:

Yeah. I think that would be my name.

SPEAKER_04:

I think I would be on a registry somewhere, like registered. I would be playing with it all day. You couldn't, and if it was big, I could tell you.

SPEAKER_05:

I'm telling you.

SPEAKER_04:

I'm like I thought about it. Everybody would have to look at it. And I would play. I mean, not they would be the men that we hate. I mean, no, I would be not the men that would hate you. I would still be me. But with an appendage that I'd never had before, oh, I'm slinging it everywhere.

SPEAKER_01:

But what so like I said, you would be the niggas that we hate. With all that the change, the change, you know, that changes you. So you know that the I don't know the female, I don't I really that that would be lost. So you you would have more, you'll be more aggressive, more uh Hey, then bend over because I wouldn't want it.

SPEAKER_05:

Like if I was to wake up tomorrow and just have I'd be disgusted with myself.

SPEAKER_04:

Why? Are you serious?

SPEAKER_05:

When the wind blows, that shit gets hard. And apparently, if you are born with one, you don't like to wash it. A lot of people, a lot of niggas don't like to wash it. So imagine waking up and you're like, yeah, I'm just not gonna wash it today. So if you was E with it like E in my same brain, like, and I'm conscious of like, ma'am, there's a dick there.

SPEAKER_04:

Tell me you wouldn't, you wouldn't, you wouldn't.

SPEAKER_05:

I think we've had this conversation before.

SPEAKER_04:

I You have kids. You wouldn't play with it? Not play with it, but just like, wow.

SPEAKER_05:

Honestly, if I woke up, okay, so this would be the the the the agreement I have to make with God. It has to be 18 inches.

SPEAKER_02:

Damn.

SPEAKER_05:

And it has to be two hands fulls. Damn.

SPEAKER_04:

Who okay? I'm listening.

unknown:

Okay?

SPEAKER_05:

You know this is you know there's a method to my madness. And then I would wake up and I would have all that, and I would I would fuck my baby daddy right now. Bustle wide open. You don't want to pay child support, you don't take care of your kids.

SPEAKER_00:

No, that's right.

SPEAKER_05:

What's how the kids do?

SPEAKER_01:

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05:

That's what I would do. I mean, damn, that sounded rapey. I'm sorry. I didn't mean it.

SPEAKER_00:

I didn't mean it like that. I didn't mean it like that.

SPEAKER_05:

But I mean like they like that stuff, so but I'm saying, like, the same pain, not physical pain that he's caused women, but the mental anguish that you've caused women I would have to cause. Yes.

SPEAKER_04:

I'm sending D picks to everybody. You get one, you get one.

SPEAKER_05:

We got the same dirty men that we can't stand. You know what's bad. You know what's bad. We talked on here before about like, did we I think about the bear? About how women would trust being in the woods with a bear over being in anywhere alone with a man. And now we're talking like them. So I think it's the penis thing. So off with all penises. Because apparently, when you have one, you don't know how to fucking control yourself and you don't know how to think straight. Because I'm talking about fucking raping my baby daddy, you're talking about sending dick picks.

SPEAKER_04:

We don't need one. I would be dangerous. We don't need one. I would be dangerous. I mean, it's if I was a she with a D, there's some girls that like that today. There's some dudes that like that.

unknown:

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04:

That roster would be crazy.

SPEAKER_00:

I'm telling you. I'm telling you. It's not worth it.

SPEAKER_05:

It's not worth it. So you think you would be dangerous if you woke up tomorrow and you had one, but you're still in your still tea? Oh yeah. Because I'm saying, so you would go out and do the same thing to women that your baby daddy did to you?

SPEAKER_04:

Oh, absolutely not. No.

SPEAKER_05:

Okay, that's what I'm asking.

SPEAKER_04:

But the enjoyment of, oh my gosh. There's only a second time to play with it. Right. But once that excitement wears off, then it it's it's just a just a paperweight. But I'm slinging. I wouldn't even know how to walk.

SPEAKER_05:

I don't think I wouldn't know how to walk. Like, seriously, you ever like play that game where you tie the string around, you have the the hot dog. Yeah. I wouldn't know how to walk.

SPEAKER_04:

Have you tried to strap and put on for what?

SPEAKER_05:

Just for I have.

SPEAKER_00:

I don't know. Just to see. Just to see.

SPEAKER_04:

You've never had one. You weren't born with one, so you don't have a curiosity of like.

SPEAKER_00:

Right.

SPEAKER_04:

No.

SPEAKER_05:

I don't.

SPEAKER_00:

Just to try it, just to see. I don't. I don't.

SPEAKER_05:

I don't want to for myself, but also I definitely don't want her looking at me like that. Don't do it by yourself. I'm not touching hers.

SPEAKER_03:

Is it just hers though?

unknown:

Nobody's around.

SPEAKER_03:

It's ours.

SPEAKER_04:

Maybe not even strap it on. Maybe just okay. I'm gonna do it tonight. You have to send underwear and you just put it on. Babe, I'm gonna do it tonight and I'm gonna send you a picture. That's that's another question, though, with with guys. They love boobs because they don't have them. And a friend of mine, we we joke around, he'll come over to the house, and his first thing is to touch my boobs. And I'm like, you got your own. And he's like, it's not the same. I it's not the same. I'm like, but isn't it the same? And he's like, no. Squeeze squeeze. I'm like, oh, okay. Alright. Stop.

SPEAKER_05:

Never have I ever had a friend come and grab my kids. It's like such a white girl thing to do. Like white girls get drunk and they're like, ah, you know. Yeah. Definitely. So is it the excitement because you don't have them? That's exactly, yes. I don't think I've ever been excited to see a penis because I don't have one.

SPEAKER_04:

I'll I'll be real personal, right? With my son's father, we were together, we were teenagers. I wanted to know what it felt like to hold it to be. And he let me stand behind him and do it. Yeah. And it was very like, wow, you need you need skills to do this. This is this is a skill.

SPEAKER_05:

You're fucking playing duck hunt. You're like holding it like You're holding it like a gun, you're like I mean, you know, I don't want to No, it really is excitement though.

SPEAKER_01:

It really is excitement. Cause if I had it, it would just be over. It'd just be so great.

SPEAKER_05:

But I don't think I would ever want to try I I love being a woman. I would never want to transition. I would never. And then like transition and then turn into someone who can't find a clip. No, thank you. No.

SPEAKER_01:

Yikes.

SPEAKER_05:

Yeah, no, I'm good, good with the the penis thing. I think we had talked about that before. Like, what would you do if you woke up tomorrow and had a penis? And that was like a weird conversation because my my daughters were in here and the stuff that they were saying, I'm like, oh my gosh, whose kids are these? Like, especially ISIS. I'm like, oh my god, I ruined my child. Anyway. This was cute, I guess.

SPEAKER_00:

Everybody seems so tired.

SPEAKER_05:

I've been asleep all day. Look at you have been up since four. Since four. And then tomorrow Sunday, and we're going back to work on Monday. So YMB, fill us in on what you have been doing. As far as like your shows and your artistry, and you got anything coming up before the winter?

SPEAKER_01:

Um right now, I have a I actually have a video coming soon. And new music dropping very soon. That should be in the end of December. Yeah, actually, I think it's the start or the end of December, if I'm not mistaken. But um, no shows right now. I'm just working on uh being an artist like the business part uh because I actually am a business now, so I have to you know start working on my rebranding, rebranding myself and all my content and all that and changing things up. So that's currently what I'm doing. But I do want to drop some stuff and can't wait to drop you have a team to help you with it. At first I didn't. I started off the last time that we spoke, I was doing stuff on my own. And then um I think you guys met him, the guy that was recording me um the skinny dude at Pride, Boston Black Pride that was recording me and all that. I don't remember. Well, you guys were. Oh, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yeah, yeah, yeah. Um, and Vaughn, Vaughn, that's my manager now. So he um Yeah, that's my manager now. So he's been you know pushing me to you know go further. He sees more than I see. I see more too. We we see where I I should be. So honestly, he's building me up and honestly I appreciate him. Shout out to him. But um, yeah, I'm just working on rebranding myself and being an artist, like the behind the scenes of it.

SPEAKER_05:

Nice, good. Congratulations, good for you. I can't wait to hear new music.

SPEAKER_01:

Thank you. Yes, I'm excited, very excited.

SPEAKER_04:

Am I too old to be a video girl?

SPEAKER_01:

Like no, absolutely not. Um I'm absolutely not. I'm always anything. Yes, nobody's ever too old. Nobody's ever too old. If you're beautiful, if you are a black woman, you're welcome. Yeah, you're all welcome.

SPEAKER_05:

So where can they find you at to be in this video?

SPEAKER_01:

You can find me on Instagram, um, underscore. I'm sorry, that is my she's rebranding, y'all. I'm sorry, y'all. Take it time.

SPEAKER_05:

Sorry, hold on.

SPEAKER_01:

My TikTok is uh YMB. Sorry, guys. Yeah, my TikTok is YMB Music, and then my Instagram is underscore YMB music. And then if you guys want to find my music and all that stuff, all that good stuff, you can find it in my Instagram. All my links and everything will be in that bio. But yeah, you can find me on all platforms. Tap in.

SPEAKER_05:

We have talked about I don't know how the fuck we talk. We probably doing catch-up because we ain't been here since June, and we are talking about trans people a lot. A lot. Anyway. We are we have we should have done this shit from the beginning. I'm high in my mind, it's always be someplace else. But we should have said in the beginning, we don't have the confession sessions anymore.

SPEAKER_01:

What happened?

SPEAKER_05:

Yeah, it got dry. I don't I don't know. Because you know what? I was thinking about that, that we should have talked about that. Um we're not really that podcast for real. I think we talked about that before. We're not like the gossipy kind of, you know, in everybody's business, messy, messy, that's the word. I'm gonna put we're not really that messy podcast. We we say whatever the fuck is on our mind and whatever pertains to us. So I don't think that the confession thing took off because of that. Because I don't think we were really even pushing it that much, that much. And then also, I don't know, people probably didn't want to hear what the fuck we had to say about this shit. Like I said, I was listening to the other day with the the one with the girl that was saying um she had fucked some guy in Jamaica or whatever, and then come to find out that she's now dating his brother, and that was from a past life. It's like bitch, you just no one fucking cares. Like, you know. So maybe they didn't want to hear shit like that. But we are back, official tissue. Why do people say that? It didn't even run. I thought it was gonna be cool, but it wasn't. Official tissue? Yeah, official tissue, I guess. I don't know. I never heard that. I don't know.

SPEAKER_00:

That came from them pale people. Really? I think so. Oh wow, I'm only heard that. The pale people.

SPEAKER_01:

The translucent people. Translucent people. Uh-huh. There you go.

SPEAKER_05:

I never knew that. Sorry, I didn't mean to say that. It was stupid. Yeah. Like it's not no, like I've heard people say it before, and I was like, okay. But I've never said it, so I tried it tonight, it didn't work. So we are officially back.

SPEAKER_00:

Um clouds. Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you.

SPEAKER_05:

New um content, new episodes. We are gonna stay on top of it. There's no more confession session, which is fine, but you guys can still reach us on um all of our platforms. Um your Instagram, my Instagram, if you guys still want to leave us a message or hit us up or what have you. And you can still do your confession thing, we just aren't making it an official thing. So if you write in or whatever, text in, um, it might get put on air. We don't know. But again, I apologize for not being here. Been in my air.

SPEAKER_01:

But I'm gonna apologize. Yeah, apologize. Well, yeah.

SPEAKER_05:

You're human.

SPEAKER_01:

Stuff happens.

SPEAKER_05:

I know, but you know, that's like like me with um my TV shows. And it's like, like I have law and orders back on, and it's like, okay, it's a new episode, it's a new season, and then they didn't have it last night. What the fuck is going on? Like, where Bitch ass, you know? So I don't want people to feel like that, like we're not coming back or we're not here. And people lose interest when you take too long for shit, you know.

SPEAKER_01:

Sometimes you need a break. Yeah, yeah, you're right. You're right. Have some consideration, people.

SPEAKER_05:

You're right. So we'll talk about taking breaks next time, I guess. I don't know. And T wasn't feeling well. But we came. We saw. I told you I wasn't. We swung our dicks. Yeah. And we did it. Um, oh, that's another thing I wanted to do. I don't want to do the can't I don't want to do that shit no more. We're just gonna fucking wrap this shit up and be the fuck out of here. Yeah, so peace. Another corny thing we say. Peace and new ones. I don't know why we used to say that, but whatever. Um, thank you for coming. YMB look for her on her platforms, and we'll be back to the exciting unfiltered energy soon.

unknown:

Bye.

SPEAKER_05:

What is what was that? What's that? She's a very freaky girl. That was that was okay. I got you. Can you don't take on too much?

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