Between Random And Real Podcast EpIsode 50 l Ghetto Fabulous

What's up family! sit down with us as we discuss the mysterious disappearance of multiple scientists, "They Will Kill You" movie, should your partner have access to your phone, and much more wild topics! 


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Transcript

SPEAKER_01 0:07

What it do, what it is, how you feel? Y'all now tuning in between random and real shit your host just Kai.

SPEAKER_00 0:11

And it's your girl, TJ.

SPEAKER_01 0:13

We back with another exciting episode, man.

SPEAKER_00 0:15

Back with another one. Mm-mm-mm. Back with another one. Uh-uh-mm.

SPEAKER_01 0:20

Hope y'all are doing well on this fine Thursday.

SPEAKER_00 0:23

Yes, I hope y'all are doing amazing. It's not a Thursday. Oh, wait. Actually, it's a big thing. Well, when they see it, it's gonna be a Thursday. When they see it, when they listen to our beautiful voices, our sensual voices, it will be a Thursday. But we actually film on Fridays, FYI, for all the fans out there. You know, if y'all want to have a cahoot quiz on on a cahoot quiz? I've been doing a lot of cahoot quizzes. You never done a cahoot quiz?

SPEAKER_01 0:51

Nah.

SPEAKER_00 0:51

Seriously. In like high school, they never asked you to like log in on your computer with the code and put the code up and then you'll do a quiz and you'll see how everybody ranked in the class. You've never done a Kahoot.

SPEAKER_01 1:06

Ranked in like what like what is the quote?

SPEAKER_00 1:08

It's like a quiz. Like you whatever the whatever the teacher wanna make the quiz about, you can put questions in there, and everybody just use the code to actually join the Kahoot game, and then you answer the the questions.

SPEAKER_01 1:24

Nah, no, I never played that like that.

SPEAKER_00 1:26

You never done a Kahoot. No, I forgot your school didn't have books or uh computers.

SPEAKER_01 1:32

She's talking about Ganger, y'all. So if y'all went to Ganger, y'all already know.

SPEAKER_00 1:35

I'm talking about the whole Charlotte Mecklenburg County school. I'm just saying.

SPEAKER_01 1:45

That's crazy.

SPEAKER_00 1:46

I'm kidding, I'm kidding. I'm not serious, but I am, but I'm not. Shout out to all the all the people who went through the Charlotte Mecklenburg uh county system.

SPEAKER_01 1:57

You know I mean the schools is not that bad.

SPEAKER_00 2:00

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 2:01

They're not bad.

SPEAKER_00 2:02

They're not bad. I will say that's why, you know, there's a such thing as not being bad and not being good, you know? You're right in the middle.

SPEAKER_01 2:10

Yeah, I mean right in the middle. I will say, out of out of most of the schools I've been to, I don't think we've ever had lockers. I I didn't start using a locker until middle school. But that wasn't until like maybe like eighth grade, maybe.

SPEAKER_03 2:25

Really?

SPEAKER_01 2:26

Garinger. Never had lockers because people was always doing stuff. The privilege always got taken away. It was shooting, fighting, finding weapons, finding drugs. It's like bruh. Finding drugs. So so like she's saying, like, I'm I'm low-key, I'm kind of backing her up though. Like, see, when it comes to schools and CMS, man, I ain't gonna lie, boy.

SPEAKER_00 2:48

You know, y'all, y'all, y'all can do a little bit better, but it's not y'all fault. It's the system. It's the public school system in general.

SPEAKER_01 2:56

The public school system throughout America is not but so I need to do my research on this, but isn't when it when it comes to like schools, those those schools are funded based off of their zoning districts, right?

SPEAKER_00 3:14

Like with the funding that I don't I don't think I'm assuming it's yeah, some of the the taxes and in the zoning.

SPEAKER_01 3:21

So if so if you got a school in the hood in that particular district, that like wherever wherever that school is at, are they required to it might be your state? So that's what I'm saying. I gotta do my research. Cause I could have sworn I saw somewhere where like the district or they were they were gonna make that a new law. Like there was that was that was one of the proposals, like to let the districts be responsible for the funding for those schools versus the entire city.

SPEAKER_00 3:46

So yeah, I'm gonna have to uh we're gonna have to pull somebody and interview somebody on on that so we don't give y'all the wrong thing. Yeah, yeah, I can all drive that.

SPEAKER_01 3:53

That's we just making this that's another, that's another can of worms right there, if that is true.

SPEAKER_00 3:58

But yeah, the school system. I do not know where the money comes from at all.

SPEAKER_01 4:02

Yeah. But um, but yeah, you know, that's uh well we'll drive, we'll drive up in school.

SPEAKER_00 4:08

You know what? I'm gonna cut I'm gonna create a Kahoot game about our relationship. I done graduated already.

SPEAKER_01 4:16

I don't want to take no more tests. It's gonna be a trivial. I got my diplomas approved.

SPEAKER_00 4:26

Being in a relationship with me is always an exam.

SPEAKER_01 4:29

Oh shit. Well I got how have I not failed yet?

SPEAKER_00 4:33

Then no, you have not. You are an A-plus student.

SPEAKER_01 4:36

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_00 4:37

Baby boy. Teachers Pat. I'll see you after class, Mr. Jones.

SPEAKER_02 4:44

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 4:47

But we just a bad student.

SPEAKER_01 4:52

I'm just kidding. I'm leaving all this in there, but we just we just celebrated our um our two year anniversary this past this past uh weekend. So that was real exciting.

SPEAKER_00 5:03

Happy two-year anniversary to us. We've been married for two years and it's been he's been hitting me up for 10. You've been in my phone for 10 years.

SPEAKER_01 5:11

I thought she was about to say something crazy. I ain't gonna lie. What?

SPEAKER_00 5:15

I thought she was about to say something I don't I don't know what you on right now, sir. But congratulations to us for two years.

SPEAKER_01 5:27

I meant two years married, ten years together.

SPEAKER_00 5:29

Ten years together. What have you learned about being with me for 10 years?

SPEAKER_01 5:34

Um Expect the unexpected.

SPEAKER_00 5:39

I don't like that shit.

SPEAKER_01 5:44

Yo, expect the expect the unexpected.

SPEAKER_00 5:46

What the hell that's supposed to mean?

SPEAKER_01 5:48

What you mean?

SPEAKER_00 5:49

Expect the unexpected.

SPEAKER_01 5:51

Yeah, expect the unexpected, man. Every every every day with you, every second with you, every minute with you is always something something new, and and the fact that I'm still keeping up.

SPEAKER_00 6:03

And tell me it's a quiz, huh? It's a damn exam. You just gotta keep studying.

SPEAKER_01 6:07

Yeah, yeah, that's what I'm saying. I gotta keep studying, just but it's just like it's just good to to to watch you grow and to grow with you and to see the new endeavors that you're doing. It's and it's always constant growth. It's never the same, you know. So always just, you know, expecting the the unexpected and then the fact that you're you don't mind putting yourself in situations that make you feel uncomfortable. I mean, even with our our trip, our Asreal trip. So like just doing things that that keep the spark, you know. Keep the spark. Doing things that you don't expect, really.

SPEAKER_00 6:41

Like, yeah. So I don't I think that might be a Gemini thing. I think us Geminis, we get bored quickly, and we're always looking for something better. We're always we're creatives, we you know, people like to say that we, you know, Gemini's uh got multiple personalities.

SPEAKER_01 7:00

When she says we, that's what she who she's talking about, like all the personality, not like Geminis and all. She's talking about like all the different personalities that she got.

SPEAKER_00 7:09

We are just no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. You're not about to keep trying to play me on the pod today. All right. We just listen, it was just our two two-year anniversary now. You pushing it now. You really pushing it. Us Geminis, we're we're misunderstood because we just are always seeking something better, we're always seeking something more. We get bored quickly, and we got to be we gotta be mentally, emotionally, physically challenged. Like, you know, we're just we're we're just we're like that. And if you know a Gemini and you just don't understand them, like sh you never will. But just get on board because it's gonna be a good good time. It's a good ride for sure.

SPEAKER_01 7:59

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. No, no, it's definitely fun. Definitely fun.

SPEAKER_00 8:02

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. But yeah, y'all, he brought up our two-week, uh, our two-year anniversary. We actually went to Asheville, North Carolina, and we got to explore the mountains and hike, which is something that I'm pretty sure y'all know by now that we enjoy.

SPEAKER_01 8:19

Yeah. But so we got to ride horses. I was a cowboy for a day. Yeah. So that was fun.

SPEAKER_00 8:25

What did it feel like riding a horse for the first time?

SPEAKER_01 8:28

It was it was cool. I felt like um like I was in like Walking Dead or something or Red Dead, and I'm just like, you know, I this my life now, you know, riding a horse. Like, this is how I gotta get around it what it is. Yeah, you know, I was putting myself in that mindset on the mountainside, or or something like Last of Us, you know, because you know that old Joel was riding a horse. So that's that's how I was like, Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 8:49

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 8:51

He was imagining the like the I was I was preparing, I was getting mentally prepared, man. Yeah, getting ready for the apocalypse.

SPEAKER_00 8:58

Wow.

SPEAKER_01 8:58

So now I know I now I'm ready now.

SPEAKER_00 9:00

So now you feel like a like a cowboy at this point.

SPEAKER_01 9:02

Yeah, yeah, I'm a cowboy, baby.

SPEAKER_00 9:04

You can buy them.

SPEAKER_01 9:05

Yeah, I can buy I can buy a horse, I can enter a rodeo. That's what it is, what it is at this point.

SPEAKER_00 9:10

Enter a rodeo? Yeah, that far? You feel like you're ready?

SPEAKER_01 9:13

Hey man.

SPEAKER_00 9:14

But shit, I'll make some money off of you.

SPEAKER_01 9:15

I feel that confidence, man.

SPEAKER_00 9:17

Or the hospital will still probably make some money off of you. Probably the hospital first.

SPEAKER_01 9:24

Like horses are are really strong, but but like the reason why I was a little nervous going into it is because they so unpredictable. Like, I don't really like animals in general. Like, even with the the horse I was riding on kept biting her horse in the butt. I don't know why, but it kept biting her horse.

SPEAKER_00 9:41

Because my horse was moving so slow and he was getting irritated because he was behind my horse, and he like, bruh, hurry up, keep walk.

SPEAKER_01 9:48

And I'm I'm like, I'm like, please don't let her horse do nothing crazy. Cause we we we gangsters, so we went on the horse, no helmet or nothing. We like, man, we ain't putting that goofy ass helmet on.

SPEAKER_00 9:58

So Am I gonna mess up my hair today? Not at all.

SPEAKER_01 10:03

So I was like, hey man, it whatever happened, happened. But it was cool to just, you know, it's cool to take risks like that and just like because at the end of the day, bruh, like you walk outside any day, anything can happen. So, you know, you you you just gotta lead by faith sometimes, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 10:19

Right.

SPEAKER_01 10:19

And I I think I think we we made the good decision, the right decision, I should say. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 10:24

I I honestly I always say this to myself. I do not want to be led by fear. I want to live a life that's not led by fear. And that's where that's where life is on the other side of fear. That's where living is, that's where excitement is, that's where joy and all the all purpose is on the other side of fear. So that's one thing I strive to do. But it was a good time getting on a horse. Yeah, horses are beautiful animals, yeah, yeah. They really, really are. And like I was looking up how much a horse, our cars are more cost more than a damn horse.

SPEAKER_01 11:02

Yeah, for sure. I mean, and then just like going back to what I was talking about, like just being uncomfortable. Even the Airbnb we stayed in was like a like a tiny home type of Airbnb. Yeah, in the middle of nowhere. In the middle of nowhere, like in the mountains, like straight woods and darkness around us. Yeah, no cell reception, none of that.

SPEAKER_00 11:21

So yeah.

SPEAKER_01 11:22

Uh again, being putting yourself in uncomfortable situations, um, but at the end of the day was good because like like it was like a disconnect from from everything.

SPEAKER_00 11:32

Yeah. I love a disconnect. I feel like uh being out in in the nature is therapy for me for sure. So take a little walk, disconnect from your phone, disconnect from social media, disconnect from your job, and just turn off your phone and take a walk on a trail nearby. And I'm telling you, you'll feel better after that walk than you did before.

SPEAKER_01 11:56

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 11:56

Just saying.

SPEAKER_01 11:58

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 11:58

But it was a great trip. Happy two-year anniversary to us.

SPEAKER_01 12:03

Yup, yep, yep. I know, um, I know I can't wait for May to hit because May got so many scary movies that's coming out. But um, but I know we didn't get it, we we didn't get a it's it's a few of them. I ain't uh I I ain't had a list of them, but I just a name like off the top. I know Holcomb is coming out in in May. Um That's what your boy from uh from Severance, the main character from Severance. I can't remember his his his real name. I'm sorry. Um I think it's Adam Scott. I could be wrong. I think Scott is in his name though. And then uh that mummy movie just came out.

SPEAKER_00 12:39

Oh yeah, I did hear they were saying like the mummy movie is one of the scariest movies that came out this year.

SPEAKER_01 12:45

They somebody I saw um somebody I follow had uh posted something about it. They said that it's a part of like the Evil Dead universe. I don't I don't know. I can't I can't even remember what Evil Dead was about, but I know I think that just came out, and then they have a movie called Backrooms that's coming out at the end of May. Um, and then they have something called The Passenger coming out in May as well.

SPEAKER_00 13:06

Damn.

SPEAKER_01 13:07

Yes, it's a May is the month for like scare movies. So we're gonna be in that bitch every week.

SPEAKER_00 13:11

It's crazy that all these scare movies are coming out back to back because I feel like there was a real dry moment where it was not that many scare movies. Maybe like 2024, yeah. Um, that it it was just not as many scare movies coming out. It was like once. Yeah. Maybe like three came out that year. Three official scary movies in the movie theaters came out that year. But now I feel like the scary movies is coming back, the bad, the bad.

SPEAKER_01 13:40

You think you think horror is starting to gain more fans? Um because that's a great question. I remember we were talking about you were saying like horror is like a movie that not a lot of they don't usually do the best in box office because a lot of people don't like scary.

SPEAKER_03 13:55

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 13:55

And talking talking to like like majority of our friends, like they don't rock with scary stuff. Yeah. Majority of people we know, but yeah.

SPEAKER_00 14:04

I mean, like you said, we a G. I'm just saying. But I don't know, may maybe horror I feel like horror always had those fans, but I don't know. I don't know why it died down. Maybe the production companies weren't invested in horror as much as as they used to be. Because I feel like back in the day when param uh paranormal activity first came out, the movie theaters were jam-packed. Like everybody and their mama was going to see paranormal activity. That was such a huge movie. But I don't know, I just feel like it died down just as much as uh parodies died down, which we used to talk about. Like, damn, what happened to all all the parodies movies that you know? Of course they coming out with the it's parodies, right?

SPEAKER_03 14:53

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 14:53

Of course they're coming out with the scary movie, um, the new scary movie in June. But I feel like back in the day, parodies used to come out back to back.

SPEAKER_01 15:02

Yeah, they got a lot of parody movies, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 15:04

Fifty Shades of of Black, um disaster movie, superhero movies, superhero movie, all the scary movies, um, the dance flick.

SPEAKER_01 15:14

Yeah, dance flick. Like it was just bad to back.

SPEAKER_00 15:16

When the last time a a real parody came out, yeah, it's been it's been a minute.

SPEAKER_01 15:21

But I mean, but I think when they was coming out with it back to back, it kind of started becoming a bit um, you know how you just see something too much, and you just start like y'all, y'all going, y'all doing the most now. Yeah, like y'all going too hard.

SPEAKER_03 15:36

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 15:36

Um, and I I feel like they was trying to take what the Wayne's family started and they tried to run with it, but it just wasn't working for for them.

SPEAKER_03 15:46

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 15:47

Um, but yeah, I I think that's that's probably why I stopped. Maybe like companies realize I was good, kind of.

SPEAKER_00 15:53

Well, it might come back after this new scare movie, depending on how you know how this new scare movie turns out in the box office.

SPEAKER_01 16:00

Yeah, I think it's gonna turn out good just because like it's highly anticipated. We haven't had anything like in a minute, but as soon as they start doing it back to back again, it's gonna be like man.

SPEAKER_00 16:09

You think so? Yeah, and and that's what the production companies are gonna do. If it does well, they're gonna be like, What's the next one?

SPEAKER_01 16:16

Yeah, but at least give some time in between. Like, don't don't give back to back to back to back.

SPEAKER_00 16:22

They don't even there's a lot of movie genres that's not popular anymore. I mean, we just brought up dance flick dance movies. When the last time you seen a whole bunch of like dance movies used to be so popular, the bring it on to the the step ups, the like again, it was too many, like y'all doing too much.

SPEAKER_01 16:42

Like from like you said, bring it on, step up, you got served, to stomp, stomp the yard, uh shit, jump in. Wasn't that was that a dance movie? Or was that jump rope? I mean, they were doing a little bit of both. It was a little bit of both. But I mean, like, you know, it's eventually it's it's like okay, how much more can you do? Like, you know, yeah, and and back then it was it was for for the audience, it was it was easy for us to to really like understand the importance of you know these dance competitions. Like even with Stomp the Yard, like his brother Chris Brown died early in the movie.

SPEAKER_03 17:18

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 17:19

So but like back then, it was like damn. But then if we watch it today, we like man, what kind of goofy stuff is this? He just died for a dance competition. Why are you getting shot over a dance competition?

SPEAKER_00 17:28

But the the dancing was the the dancing wasn't the problem. I think it was just I think they were not being original with the stories. I feel like if they continue to make the stories more and more original.

SPEAKER_01 17:42

Maybe it need maybe it need to be less serious.

SPEAKER_00 17:44

Like, I don't know, but maybe it's just don't say the same story over and over again. Like, bring it on. We ain't need about six of them.

SPEAKER_01 17:52

Cause even with step up streets, like, wasn't he a dude? Like, I guess coming from the street, dancing, like white, a white, a white boy from the street was going into a performance arts. Oh nah, hell no.

SPEAKER_00 18:07

You only watch a movie with dance and horror.

SPEAKER_01 18:10

That's the way you could do it. Like they could they could they could do it in a way. So, like the movie him, terrible, but if they did the dance and horror the right way, then it may be something they could do to to finesse. Like, maybe it's just some type of dancing demon, or maybe there's like this curse that makes you just dance until you're gonna be able to do that. I think it could work.

SPEAKER_00 18:33

I think it's gonna work. It's kind of similar to Black Swan. I don't know, Black Swan, not necessarily horror. It's more like, well, suspense, drama. I can't remember.

SPEAKER_01 18:44

You don't remember Black Swan? Nah.

SPEAKER_00 18:47

Damn.

SPEAKER_01 18:47

It sounds familiar. Is that not that's not the drummer, right? No, Kingdom.

SPEAKER_00 18:51

Nah, it's a ballerina. It's a ballerina. It's um Megan Fox, I believe.

SPEAKER_01 18:56

Nah, yeah, no, I ain't seen that.

SPEAKER_00 18:57

Um Dang. You don't remember Black Swan. No, it's not Megan Fox, it's me Mila Kunas. I don't know who that is. The one that's married to um that 70s show, Aston Clutcher.

SPEAKER_01 19:10

Oh, okay, okay, okay. Okay, okay. She in is she in that 70s show?

SPEAKER_00 19:15

Yeah, yeah, Mila is in that 70s show. But Black Swan was this ballerina horror type movie that I don't think they should do that.

SPEAKER_01 19:25

But I do think they should start after seeing uh They Will Kill You, I do think that they should start merging horror and uh I don't know what you would you call that, like Kung Fu or or what would you Yeah. Something like that. Because that that movie, that movie, yeah, horror at that shit was fire.

SPEAKER_00 19:42

Alright, so since you want to bring up They Will Kill You.

SPEAKER_01 19:46

That shit was fire.

SPEAKER_00 19:46

Yo, listen. So me and Kai went to went to the movies, maybe it was about a few weeks ago, and we went to go see They Will Kill You. That movie was one of the best movies that came out this year, and unfortunately, not enough people are actually talking about it. They Will Kill You is a horror action movie um that is led by um starring Zazy Beats. I I'm sorry if I pronounced you're wrong, ZayZ. Zazy or Zayzi, but she is all she's the girlfriend in Atlanta. Um is starring her, she's the main character. I don't want to spoil the movie for you guys, but when I tell you it's so good seeing a black female um main lead in a horror movie, we don't get that often at all. And not only is it horror, it's action. Like she's she's kicking ass the entire movie. It's giving kung fu, it's giving uh like karate, she is kicking ass, guys. How often do you see a mainly black lead person of color kicking ass? The movie is amazing. If you're scared of horror movies, don't worry about it because it's not that scary, it's more action, more than anything.

SPEAKER_01 21:11

It's funny, too. Got some comedic relief in it.

SPEAKER_00 21:13

Yes, it has comedic relief, it's hilarious. It's the movie starts off with action from the very beginning. Like first five minutes in the movie, you're hooked, and it never gets boring. I say They Will Kill You is one of the best movies that came out this year. You need to go watch it. If it's still in your theater, go watch it. If it's not, figure out where it's streamed and go watch it because it's it's one of the best movies, and it's unfortunate that not enough people are talking about this movie. Like you get the action, you get the horror, you get a a badass woman leave.

SPEAKER_01 21:48

It's like a k m kill bill mixed with like horror, mixed with like it almost gave like a live action comic book. If if that sounds so weird, but like just the way that it was the shots were

SPEAKER_00 22:00

The cinematography of it all was definitely similar to a Killbill. I I will agree with you on that one. The cinematography was great.

SPEAKER_01 22:07

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 22:07

The shots was great. It had a great cast. The acting was amazing. 10 out of 10. I gave the movie a 10 out of 10.

SPEAKER_01 22:15

In it though, it it was you can't predict what's gonna happen either. I damn sure did.

SPEAKER_00 22:21

It was an original. And I love movie. I feel like this year and last year, we've been there's been a lot of great movies that's coming out that's original. And I like that. You know, it's like a movie that you cannot compare it to anything else because it's just like I've never seen this story before. Y'all go watch They Will Kill You. It's so freaking good. You're not going to you're not gonna regret it. Yes, and Rotten Tomatoes sucks ass because Rotten Tomatoes gave it 64%. It deserves way higher.

SPEAKER_01 22:52

Yeah, but you know why. You know why. I f I've well for one, of course, like it's a black woman leave road, and for two, like I the the show, it's it just to kind of like give a synopsis of what it's kind of about, like the she's basically going to rescue, she's looking for her sister that she she lost connection with, and she wants to rescue her from this. It's like this like devil cult or something like that. So the people that's watching it, they could have maybe got turned off just by that part, you know, just by all the devil stuff and demon stuff and all that. But I mean, like, it wouldn't even like it went in that like deep. Like, they ain't really get that deep into it. Like, you kind of just got the surface level of okay, yeah, they're a cult and they worship this, yeah. Um, and that's it. Like, they not you're not watching them do rituals and all that.

SPEAKER_00 23:37

You're literally watching her kick ass for an hour and a half of a movie.

SPEAKER_01 23:42

Yeah. Um, but yeah, rotten tomatoes, they've been washed. I don't I don't know.

SPEAKER_00 23:47

Yeah, yeah. Rotten tomatoes sex ass. But listen, if there's anything else that you will believe me about, believe me when it comes to my movie suggestions.

SPEAKER_01 23:58

Yeah, they will kill you is like that.

SPEAKER_00 23:59

They will kill you is like that.

SPEAKER_01 24:01

Y'all know I'm a I'm a heavy critic, boy. I I still didn't give it a 10, though. I think when I gave it an eight or a nine, no.

SPEAKER_00 24:07

You gave it a nine out of ten. I gave it a ten out of ten because he's a hater.

SPEAKER_01 24:14

But yeah, um, I appreciate you for talking about that movie. Um, there's a news story going around, and uh it's All-Star Junior in Ben 10. I've never heard of All-Star Junior before this, by the way. Ben 10, I've seen his name around.

SPEAKER_00 24:29

Yeah, I've watched that show plenty of times. That's one of my favorites.

SPEAKER_01 24:32

Yeah, that's not that one I'm talking about. No. Um Ben 10, he's uh NBA. You know who NBA Youngboy is?

SPEAKER_00 24:37

Yes, I know who NBA Youngboy is. He actually, before you get into the story, I just want to say that I just downloaded an NBA Youngboy song on my phone because I actually liked it. It's called Bruce Lee, I think.

SPEAKER_01 24:51

What?

SPEAKER_00 24:52

Yeah, it's a good song.

SPEAKER_01 24:54

You just now download an NBA Youngboy song? Girl, where's she where you been at? That's the only Youngboy song. I've been an adult. Hey man, like I was saying. So um, I don't know if you heard of the story, but basically, Ben 10, he's an NBA Youngboy affiliate, all-star junior. He is a I guess he's a rapper. I don't really know too much about him, but let's get into the story. So investigators say, um, all right, so before I get into the story, so basically, Ben 10, the NBA Youngboy affiliate, got shot, and there was another NBA Youngboy affiliate that also got shot at a restaurant. So let's dive into the story. Investigators say the shooting happened around 11.23 p.m. on April 8th, 2026, at a restaurant on Kirby Drive in Houston. When officers arrived, they found one person uh inside suffering from a gunshot wound to the neck and another in the parking garage with multiple gunshot wounds to the hand and leg. Both were taken to the hospital. Police say a trail of blood led from the dining area to the elevator and into the garage. At the scene, officers recovered a Glock 43X handgun, a magazine, a holster, and multiple spent shell casings and bullet fragments. According to investigators, surveillance video shows um Ford inside, and I think uh All Star Jr., that's who Ford is. So they found they it shows All-Star Jr. inside the restaurant before a group approached him, leading to a confrontation. Um, during the altercation, authorities say several people appeared to grab his necklace and watch and that escalated the situation. At some point, a handgun fell to the floor during the fight. Investigators say that All-Star Jr. picked it up and began firing as people ran. One man collapsed after being shot while others fled toward the elevator. Authorities say Ford continued, and again Ford is All-Star Jr. Continued firing, including additional shots in the direction of another person who was running away. The complaint alleges Ford then returned to the injured man and fired additional rounds at close range while he was lying on the floor. Alright, so when I first when I first read the story, right? Of course it sounds like uh All-Star Jr., like he sound it sounds like he was the victim. Um, rightfully so, you know, if somebody comes to you trying to take your chain, trying to take your watch, of course you're gonna try to defend yourself, pick up the gun, shoot, no problem. But this is where things get tricky, because like I said, he just got arrested. The one that was the victim. So um you heard that he shot at them, you heard that he left and then came back and started shooting again. Then he kept shooting until the gun ran out of bullets, then he pistol whipped him, and then spit on him, and then left. Didn't wait for no police, nothing like that. So the self-defense shit get thrown out the window at that point. But the thing is, like, this All-Star Junior been going online bragging about the shit, talking about it, talking, doing, doing Ben 10 challenges, basically like he's laying on the ground and money and acting like he's like seizing or shaking, okay. Doing like you doing, you're doing all you doing all this extra stuff, and it's like, are you shocked that you just got locked up? And then on top of that, you were already a convicted felon, so he had a gun, so now he got hit with that charge. So it I think that's something that he could have beat if he didn't go online doing all that extra shit, and if he didn't double back to shoot some more and then pistol whip and then spit on him. But mind you, human experience, you of course. Like, of course you're gonna want to do that. Like, you just you trying to defend yourself and they just try to kill you, gonna want the worst to happen to that person.

SPEAKER_00 28:40

But then go online and you like So I definitely think it's okay, if they came and bothered eating him and they came and jumped him, it's definitely self-defense. But like you be like you say, it's an extent because it's self-defense. Like I feel like it's self-defense, he shouldn't go to jail for it because I feel like it's self-defense. But I also feel like if you're making videos, then it's kind of hard to say that you was fearful of your life.

SPEAKER_01 29:14

It's hard to that, and that's what he should have done.

SPEAKER_00 29:16

And it seems like he's ha excited or happy that he went through that. Exactly. Did that he and then he ended up killing how many?

SPEAKER_01 29:26

He no, he didn't kill anyone. He didn't kill everybody. Yeah, everybody alive. Everybody lied. Sometimes they give you more for attempted murder than actual murder, which I don't understand, but you know, it's a system that we're we're in. But yeah, uh, and it's also sad that I didn't know anything about this person prior to this incident.

SPEAKER_00 29:49

So this incident made him famous?

SPEAKER_01 29:51

Basically.

SPEAKER_00 29:51

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 29:52

Basically.

SPEAKER_00 29:53

So this is this is guys what we make famous.

SPEAKER_01 29:55

But it's like, it's exactly. This is this is what we made famous, and on top of that, like people people are are so insensitive nowadays. Like, I'm just looking at like the comments and and some of the some of these posts, and like people saying, damn, like you, you you stood over them and fired some more shots, and you still ain't get the job done. Like saying little saying things like that, like that's crazy, you know, and um that's ridiculous. Yeah, so I don't I don't know, bro. That'll just show you how to look at it.

SPEAKER_00 30:23

He still ain't get the job done. Y'all trying to add on 10 more years into the prison.

SPEAKER_01 30:28

And and bruh, that bruh, social media will get people hemmed up. I think like yeah, they some instigators. Like if people people will really allow that that shit to to boost their ego.

SPEAKER_00 30:39

Yeah, yeah. People allow social media to boost their ego, make them do things that they would not do. It's and it's not real, guys. It's not real. Social media is it's not real, it's a made-up place.

SPEAKER_01 30:52

It ain't bro.

SPEAKER_00 30:53

So you don't even know if the people who are talking to you are commenting are real.

SPEAKER_01 30:58

You don't. But yeah, that was just my ghetto news topic, man. So, you know, pray for the pray for the individuals that were impacted. Both both lose in this situation. Yeah, both losing. You're losing.

SPEAKER_00 31:09

You lost your life and your legs. You can't even move your legs. Well, we don't know.

SPEAKER_01 31:14

Hopefully he'll get that feeling back. But right right now, yeah.

SPEAKER_00 31:19

Damn, man.

SPEAKER_01 31:20

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 31:20

Who brought the gun? Whose gun was it?

SPEAKER_01 31:22

And that's another, I don't know. They said based off the surveillance footage, they just saw the gun hit the ground. He picked the gun up. But he knows they don't know who the gun it was. He picked the gun up, defending himself. And I mean, I feel like he could have beat that, but it's like you did all that extra stuff, then went online. And this entire time, I didn't know you you didn't talk the police. I'm thinking like he at least spoke to the police if you get online talking about it. But no, you ain't even stayed after to talk to the police. But these these people be so infatuated on getting fame off the dumbest stuff. Yeah, it's like, why would you want to be known for something like this?

SPEAKER_00 31:57

Right.

SPEAKER_01 31:57

You know, like if this was me, I don't even want to get online. I'm mad that this even happened. I hate that I even had to go there.

SPEAKER_00 32:03

Right.

SPEAKER_01 32:03

But you you egging this shit on. Yeah, I did it and I'll do it again. Type shit.

SPEAKER_00 32:07

What do you get? What do you get? Are there a lot of comments? A lot of comments, a lot of likes, maybe. What else do you get? Do you get it?

SPEAKER_01 32:16

Jail time. You get jail time. You got you got spend money on lawyers, court fees.

SPEAKER_00 32:21

What what the what do you get out of it? You don't get happiness?

SPEAKER_01 32:24

Ain't nothing, no happiness. So it's just like it's just dumb. It's like just shut up. And y'all be talking about rats and snitches. Y'all be doing this shit to yourself. Y'all, y'all talk the most. But that's how you know, like certain people.

SPEAKER_00 32:39

And let the hood talk.

SPEAKER_01 32:40

The hood gonna talk about it regardless. Let no, if you that street and that gangster, you act like you've been there before. So it's just like, you know, I don't know. But that's why I'm glad I ain't in the streets, cuz that's that's too much to do, deal with, bro. Forget the streets, stay out the street, kids. Cause it ain't nothing good there. Um everything I look, as y'all can see, they proving it every single day. From Pooh Shysti, from Gucci Mains, the Young Boys, the Ben 10s, and the All-Star Juniors.

SPEAKER_00 33:07

Listen, that wasn't Pooh Shisty's fault. It won't his fault.

SPEAKER_01 33:10

We ain't gotta go there, but see, and then see, there we go. Like, people like that be egging the stuff like that on. I just don't like poo pooh shisty. You just got out of jail. Things like that be making me think like these people.

SPEAKER_00 33:23

It's a clone, it won't him.

SPEAKER_01 33:25

It made me think like these people got something that they going back to. Like, why would you just got out?

SPEAKER_00 33:31

I still don't think Gucci is him.

SPEAKER_01 33:33

You just got out.

SPEAKER_00 33:34

That ain't the word saying Gucci.

SPEAKER_01 33:35

You just got out, and your first thought is hmm, let me go rob somebody. Let me go kidnap somebody.

SPEAKER_00 33:42

Like are you s I need I need proof.

SPEAKER_01 33:49

I need to prove you don't need proof of aliens, but you believe them shit's here.

SPEAKER_00 33:53

Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. You trying to lock another black man in jail? He ain't do it.

SPEAKER_01 33:58

Who then do it?

SPEAKER_00 33:59

Pooh Si.

SPEAKER_01 34:00

And see, she's the people like that are the problem. Because y'all egging the street shit on. Y'all are celebrating it. And then I'm not sure. Y'all be celebrating it.

SPEAKER_00 34:14

And then it's like I really don't know much about the Pooh Sicey situation. I know Gucci should have given him his contract, and it was a whole bunch of stuff about the contract. But that's all about the.

SPEAKER_01 34:25

If somebody should have got you out of the contract, take him to court.

unknown 34:28

Listen.

SPEAKER_01 34:28

But what are you going around with? You're not in the streets no more. It should be the hood. That's the issue. Mr.

SPEAKER_00 34:35

It no, it should be a court show. You know how we have divorce court and we have all these other court shows.

SPEAKER_01 34:42

We don't appropriate, and we shouldn't be, we should not be appropriating hoodness. Nobody need to get out the damn hood. We don't need to do something to maintain in the hood. That don't make sense.

SPEAKER_00 34:51

Listen, not everybody can make it out the hood, but we can still make the hood a better place.

SPEAKER_01 34:55

No, that doesn't make the hood appropriating the hood don't make it a better place.

SPEAKER_00 34:59

Hood court is gonna stop people from shooting each other and fighting.

SPEAKER_01 35:03

The death penalty ain't even stopped from shooting each other. What do you think a hood court is gonna do?

SPEAKER_00 35:07

Okay, think about it. Think about it. Let me talk. Don't cut me off. Hood court. All right, you already know how we got divorce court and everything. So, hood court, we invite guys from the hood. If you got an issue with somebody, we'll give you$2,500, both of y'all, you and your ops, to come on the show. Y'all both get$2,500, so you're not losing shit. You actually gaining money. So y'all come on the show and y'all talk about y'all beef and we figure out how we can, how we can come to a means of peace between the two. And that's hood court. You know, you can invite your baby mamas, you can invite your six your six kids, even if they're not already your kids. So you can invite your mama. You just want to mass shoot them, basically.

SPEAKER_01 35:53

You just want to mass shoot them and you want a mass casualty. You would want everybody, you want all the ops to be in one place just so we can do a massive teaching that would be done.

SPEAKER_00 36:02

Obviously, we got a bouncer at the door, we got security in the back, and they can buy their own sections.

SPEAKER_01 36:07

What is it? Alright, we're moving on, y'all. All right, so the next one, the next thing I want to talk about is Alright, you're not listening. Next thing we want to talk about. So I see I seen something on D on D-Man's uh on D-Man's stream. Shout out to D-Man. Shout out to D-Man. This man was doing a stream, and it looked like it was like a drunk guy getting carried by two other dudes. So I wanted to ask you, like, from a woman's perspective, how do y'all perceive men who are overly intoxicated in public?

SPEAKER_00 36:43

Embarrassing.

SPEAKER_01 36:44

Embarrassing, right?

SPEAKER_00 36:45

Embarrassing to your mother, your grandmother, your your pops, your whole freaking existence. Embarrassing to your ancestors, embarrassing to the Africans in Africa that are a part of your bloodline. It's embarrassing. It should not be seen. It you know what? You remember back in the day when they used to go around the village and try to figure out who was the damn witch, and they would they would line the witches up and they would tie their hands in the back. We gotta find out who the damn bitch. All right, all the bitches, all the dudes out here getting wasted. I'm just kidding. I'm not, I don't want to call you a B-word. I'm taking back the I agree with that though. Oh, you guys, y'all should not be getting down, down, down wasted. Well, you gotta get dragged. That is embarrassing. The day that happened to me, if I was a dude.

SPEAKER_01 37:36

Don't go back outside. You getting you online getting carried by two men, too grown ass.

SPEAKER_00 37:42

I'm just I'm like, those my boyfriends at that point.

SPEAKER_01 37:45

But I think it's a feminine trait though. For real. I think that's something I think getting drunk in public is for women. So like if you a man and you doing that and you you gotta be carried by grown men, you falling asleep, you passed out on benches, like, bro, you too damn grown for that. You a grown ass man. As a grown ass man, you should not be doing that.

SPEAKER_00 38:04

As a grown ass man, see you passed out on benches. I'm leaving you at the club.

SPEAKER_01 38:08

If I came with you, yeah, like that's I'm leaving you at the club. Y'all got y'all gotta stop getting it.

SPEAKER_00 38:13

Because you're supposed to be protecting me. Why? I gotta wake you up at the club to tell you that the club is over. No, I'm leaving you at the club. I'm leaving you at the club. You better be with your homeboys because me, no.

SPEAKER_01 38:26

You don't everything I love, but I can't, I can't, I can't stand it.

SPEAKER_00 38:29

I think it's very feminine. It's bad feminine. I'm sorry. If you want to get blacked out drunk where you pass out, just do it in the in your home. Do it in your homeboys' home. Y'all having a kid back at the crib and you can literally just pass out on the couch. But if we outdoors, we at the club, we at the block party, we at the we at the day party, do not get that drunk where people have to literally help you out. That's embarrassing. Okay, and we're just giving you a tip. We're not judging. I ain't gonna lie, I have a couple stories myself.

SPEAKER_01 39:08

I judge.

SPEAKER_00 39:10

I ain't gonna lie, so I'm just helping you out so that you can actually get the the girl at the at the bar. Yeah, not she recording you and putting you on Instagram, you know? No, you know, on her close friend saying these niggas is bitches.

SPEAKER_01 39:26

So tighten up.

SPEAKER_00 39:28

You don't want that.

SPEAKER_01 39:29

Tighten up.

SPEAKER_00 39:29

I don't want that.

SPEAKER_01 39:30

So with the essence of time, we're gonna go ahead and move on to just cut a news guy.

SPEAKER_00 39:35

So here, hold on. This is a this is a crazy you are not gonna skip. I said with the essence of time. It ain't gonna take that long. How long you think my song is?

SPEAKER_01 39:45

Well, we only got a few minutes, though.

SPEAKER_00 39:47

Just cut a news guy.

SPEAKER_01 39:53

All right, so appreciate that song. You're welcome. Um, I don't really got a lot of stories for y'all today. I really just got one thing that's been circulating over and over in the past few weeks, and it's these scientists, these very important scientists that have been going missing, and I wanted to bring it up. Um, so you know, TJ and I can discuss some of the theories on why we may think that some of them are popping up missing. But um, so what I'm reading right now is shows that there have been 11 disappearing scientists, uh, and it also explains their field of research and how they were found. Um I'm pretty sure there's more than this. This is only the surface. We're only scratching the surface here, okay?

SPEAKER_00 40:31

So 11 scientists, what?

SPEAKER_01 40:33

11 is 11 uh scientists disappeared. So um I'm gonna go through the names. I'm gonna kind of just list like their their um their expertise. And that kind of gives us an idea, like, okay, damn. But anyway, so we got a first person, Amy Eskris. She was um someone who was an independent researcher in anti-gravity propulsion, UFO extraterrestrial research and electrostatic propulsion. She died on June 11th, 2022. Cause of death was rule of self-inflicted gunshot wound. And uh, based off the FBI status, um, this was the oldest case in the FBI review. Uh, so that was the first scientist. Um, we got another one, Michael David Hicks. Uh, he was a research scientist with NASA and he researched jet propulsion uh laboratory in Sunland, California. Um, so the main areas that he focused on was asteroid character characteriz characterization, goodness gracious, characterization, and um deep space observation. So it's the DART mission. Um and uh he died July 30th, 2023. He was found deceased at his at his home. The cause was unknown, and there was no statement from NASA. We got another one, Frank Mywald. Uh he was a principal scientist with NASA uh in jet propulsion, and um his main area of focus was planetary robotic systems, JPL, deep space missions. Uh he died July 4th of 2024. Cause of death was undisclosed, no statement from NASA. Another one, uh Anthony Chavez, he was retired. Um, and he he actually researched uh his the things that he researched was classified, but it says decades of work at LANL before retiring. It says National Laboratory, so it doesn't even talk about what he did. But um, this person has not been found dead or nothing, they're just missing, been missing since May 8th, 2025, left behind car keys, wallet, and phone. Another scientist, Monica Reza. This is the fifth one, by the way, Reza, materials processing director for NASA, rocket materials engineering, patent nickel, super alloy using Starship and new Glen Reusable Rockets. Last scene hiking near Mount Waterman, uh Angela's National Forest, no trace found despite 2025 search. She's been missing since June 22nd, 2025. She would be 60 now. Um, I mean the list goes on. I I won't go through every single one because I'm only on what the sixth one. But all of all of them are, you know, kind of around the same things. Like whether it's NASA working with jet propulsion. Um yeah, yeah, a lot of a lot of strong you got um laboratory, national laboratory workers, uh, national security workers, work people that worked on nuclear weapon assets. Like it's another person who's been missing since August 28th, 2025, Steven Garcia, um, worked on nuclear weapons oversight. So I I don't know what's going on. It's definitely weird that all of these important scientists are just you know going missing missing or getting killed. But I kind of wanted to get your your uh thoughts and see if you had any theories.

SPEAKER_00 43:47

Okay, my theory one I'm not gonna try to take your theory because you actually already shared one of your theories to me. But my theory was like for sure, like the government they found out something and they're And they were ex maybe they all knew each other and they was gonna tell us some big thing, tell the public some big thing, and they got rid of them because they didn't want them to tell the public something that we should know. That's my theory. I think I really don't know what the fuck happened. However, I do know is one sketchy. I do think two, it's not a coincidence. I'm starting to think that nothing really is a coincidence. Yeah, yeah. I don't think that, and I definitely don't think the fact that all these scientists that are missing or commit suicide for no freaking reason. Like, I don't think that's a coincidence at all. Um and I would love to I would love for somebody to come and find out because that's just crazy. And just all the news right now that like we talked a little bit about, like mainstream news is more now talking more about other species out there, talking more about aliens, talking more about secrets.

SPEAKER_01 45:14

But you know, if they're talking about it, then it's probably so much more that we don't know. They probably only telling us the bare minimum.

SPEAKER_00 45:20

The question is why are they telling us the bare minimum that they haven't told us ever? Mainstream news. Why why are they just now allowed to start talking a little bit about you know about these things? I mean, Obama, we just talked about a different show. Obama literally just said on mainstream news that of course aliens are real. Like, why are they saying these things unless they know that there might be in the future, in the soon future, something that might happen that they're gonna have to explain?

SPEAKER_01 45:52

I feel like they just they just kind of they probably just giving the people what they want to hear for real. Like a lot of the stuff that they probably told us they didn't already resolve, probably not already solved it, already know about it. Like it's it's probably like surface level shit for them. Um I feel like it's something way bigger, bigger in hand. But I I agree with you. Like, they probably saying it just because they like, all right, we didn't we done already, we finished this, we done went through it, we been there, done that. Let's let them hear it. This it's cool. Um so to them, it ain't classified no more. So they just like it what it is. We'll give them this, but we ain't gonna give them the big stuff though.

SPEAKER_00 46:26

Right.

SPEAKER_01 46:28

Yeah. I mean, I think you I agree. I think it's something they probably got something.

SPEAKER_00 46:32

I mean, what's your theory?

SPEAKER_01 46:33

They probably got something going on. I think it's on some paradise shit. Like they they probably gathering. I don't think any of them did for real. I think they all got gathered and and and probably gotta build like some type of underground city, and it's something it's something major about to happen. They need them for something, and of course, like we gonna be the last to know we the public. Like, what the hell they gotta tell us for?

SPEAKER_00 46:54

Right.

SPEAKER_01 46:55

Just like how we see in all the the apocalypse movies, the public is always the last to know.

SPEAKER_00 46:59

Of course.

SPEAKER_01 47:00

So why do y'all think? Because they're y'all gonna get left behind.

SPEAKER_00 47:03

So y'all don't need to know that y'all getting left behind until you get left behind.

SPEAKER_01 47:09

Exactly.

SPEAKER_00 47:10

So wow, it makes me also think that also makes me think about how like we've seen so many movies about spies, but but how the fact that spies are so real and us as the public don't ever we we can't really talk about spies because we don't know much. Yeah, um, but the fact that that's such a real thing, that there's so many spies out here that are finding all this secret information and we know nothing about there's so much that we know nothing about. And we can't even talk about it because guess what? None of the fucking spies are asking her to come on our podcast and let us interview them. But shit, if if you're if you're out there and you do want to be interviewed, our door is open. You can email us at oh we need to change our email.

SPEAKER_01 48:04

She just talked to me.

SPEAKER_00 48:08

We gotta, we gotta, we gotta change that. DM us. On what my brain it went blank.

SPEAKER_01 48:18

That's that Gemini shit. That's all I be talking about.

SPEAKER_00 48:21

DM us in between random and real on air, all platforms.

SPEAKER_01 48:25

We call me DM on Instagram. Oh my gosh. All right, well, that's all I have for news, uh just kind of news guy.

SPEAKER_00 48:32

Well, guess what, guys? It's time for your favorite part of the show. It's time for your favorite part of the show. It's yay, or nay, with T J. Yay, Ernay with T J. Ooh, I really like that. You good with that? Thank you too. All right, guys. For this Yay or Na segment with TJ, we are gonna talk about couples. We're gonna bring it back to couples. I know we talked about couples last week, but we're gonna bring it back and we're gonna talk about something that every single couple goes through. I don't care if you just now started talking with your partner or if you and your partner have been together for 20 to 30 years, you are gonna question and ask yourself does you sorry? I need to get my grammar right. You know, I got hood grammar. I guess I went to school with Charlotte Beckhamberg, too.

SPEAKER_01 49:24

Yeah, you probably went with Ben 10 and also Junior.

SPEAKER_00 49:32

You don't think that was too far?

SPEAKER_01 49:33

Oh, oh.

SPEAKER_00 49:37

Should your partner have access to your cell phone? Let's be real, guys. You see your partner and they got a cell phone, you got a cell phone. You know, now in 2026, everybody got iPhone codes on their phone. But should your partner have that passcode? Should they be able to just grab your phone and just open up your phone, maybe go through your photos, or maybe go through your Instagram? You know, sometimes they just want to scroll and see what your algorithm looked like. Everybody got a different algorithm. Let me see yours. Or maybe they you got a text message and they want to open up the phone and see who texted you so that you're in the shower and they can just tell you, hey babe, um, your mom text you, or maybe you're in a business call, but you're having um the HVAC guy come over and they call your phone, but you can't answer the phones. Can your girl answer the phone and say, Hey, you can come on in, the door is unlocked. Should your partner have access to your phone?

SPEAKER_01 50:31

You don't think that's like an invasion of privacy? I'm sorry, you don't think that's like an invasion of privacy?

SPEAKER_00 50:38

I don't think I don't think you get privacy.

SPEAKER_01 50:40

You don't think you should get privacy?

SPEAKER_00 50:42

No, I don't think you should get privacy.

SPEAKER_01 50:44

So, like, let me ask you this like when you in the bathroom sitting, would you want your do you want your own? No, I don't do that. You want to take it back to the back of the room. Would you want your would you want your significant other or your partner to sit in there while you shouldn't? Or would you like privacy?

SPEAKER_00 50:59

First off, I do not do that. I'm a lady. Second off, there are couples out there who actually use the bathroom and keep the door open. And maybe that should be the next one. Because why are y'all keeping the door open when y'all using the bathroom?

SPEAKER_01 51:14

So, okay, so like so to take it back then. So while you sitting in the bathroom peeing, would you be okay with your partner also sitting in the bathroom watching you pee? Or would you like your privacy?

SPEAKER_00 51:25

I like my privacy because I'm a lady.

SPEAKER_01 51:28

But that's what I'm saying. So like why does that change privacy? Why does that change when it comes to the phone? Like you don't know, you don't know what you don't know what message it could be your phone. They could be talking about to their family member about some serious complication they got going on. They could be stuff that that may that you may they may not feel comfortable with sharing with you just yet. Or what if it's a surprise party? They plan it for you, but because you so nosy and and wanna wanna dive in and see what they got going on. Now you you done ruined it for yourself and shine out of the city.

SPEAKER_00 51:55

It's a surprise party, you're gonna have to hide it better.

SPEAKER_01 51:57

So you don't think that's no privacy.

SPEAKER_00 52:00

Listen, us uh us females, we are not only y'all girlfriend wives, damn near. We take on so many roles. Girlfriend wives, your cook, your housemaid. Well, shit, I'm your secretary too. Let me see your phone, let me answer your calls. Your mama text you listen, you don't need privacy.

SPEAKER_01 52:24

Oh my god, why do you need privacy on your phone?

SPEAKER_00 52:31

Why do you need privacy on your phone?

SPEAKER_01 52:33

It's gonna work, it's gonna worse and worse. It's a phone. So if that's it, so if that's the case, why you got a password on your phone if you don't need privacy?

SPEAKER_00 52:39

I don't even, I don't know. I give my password up. I'm just saying, like if if if there's one is easy, I'm telling you, if a serial killer got my phone, they be like, if there's no need and they would they would get me. They would get me.

SPEAKER_01 52:52

If there's no need for privacy, then what's the point of passwords? What's the point of face IDs? What's the point of biometric?

SPEAKER_00 52:59

You don't have a password from your significant other. The passport is for serial killers who might want to get in your phone or for somebody who stole your phone and might want to get in your Wells Fargo account. Okay, it's not the passport is not for your significant other or your wife. Your wife should have the passcode.

SPEAKER_01 53:13

What if something happens to you and I gotta go through your phone and I gotta call your mom and if something happens, if something happened to them, you should be calling 911.

SPEAKER_00 53:21

No, 911 is not the best, best like listen, what if I need to know your allergies? You don't you don't need it my own.

SPEAKER_02 53:30

Why would the allergies be in there? I gotta call your mama.

SPEAKER_01 53:34

So that's hey, that's a red flag, y'all. If they're a red flag, if they making up excuses to to get into your phone, they make up excuses to get into your phone to tell you why you don't need a password, it's a red flag. Tell me because them excuse not even valid.

SPEAKER_00 53:49

Why wouldn't you want your significant other to to open up your phone and be able to help you out in ways that you might not be able to help yourself out?

SPEAKER_01 53:57

But that may not be helping them out. You don't know. Just ask if that's something that they would like to.

SPEAKER_00 54:02

Hey babe, you want me to text back to your um friends? No, why see?

SPEAKER_01 54:07

Easy. I can do it. You see how communication works versus just going and taking the phone and going into that person's phone.

SPEAKER_00 54:16

I feel like this is the definition of gaslighting.

SPEAKER_01 54:18

What? Why?

SPEAKER_00 54:19

Yeah, like gaslighting, yeah. I don't know, but this feels like invasive.

SPEAKER_01 54:27

So so this feels invasive, but going through your partner's phone is not invasive.

SPEAKER_00 54:31

That's not invasive. That's caring. That's what love looks like. Listen, that's what listen, I don't care what he says, y'all. Listen, listen to me. If you're a guy, you want your girl to go through your phone because guess what? She's gonna feel even more confident that she don't see all them naked pictures of those girls on your Instagram algorithm because all you follow is LeBron and all his players and basketball and NBA and NBA Youngboy and all that stuff. She wants to go through your algorithm, she wanna see what's up there. Let her and by the time that she's done, she's gonna look at you and she's gonna say, Babe, you are the best. Because guess what? You're not liking those bitches' pictures on Instagram. You don't have an OnlyFans account. You don't, and you have nothing to hide, and you want to show her you have nothing to hide because you're a good man. You know? I'm talking to you. You are a good man, you're a good husband, you're a good boyfriend, you're a good fiance, and you want to hand her your phone to prove it to her, and you'll get anything you desire. I am giving you guys the tips give that girl your passcode, and I'm telling you, you'll get whatever you want out of her. But as long as you don't give her that passcode, as long as you keep that privacy that you need, you will always have problems. You will always hear her nag. You will always see her look at you in the side corner of her eyes when you get a phone call because she's gonna be questioning who is that phone call? She's gonna be questioning who is he texting? What does his algorithm look like? You let her know that you are the best man for her, and you get anything you desire. I am speaking truth to you guys, okay? Don't listen to this man. You do not need privacy when that phone, you need that private from her. Just kidding. He's gonna scratch that out, but anyways, you I'm not scratching it.

SPEAKER_01 56:33

No, you're gonna scratch that out. Everything is in y'all getting in the raw unfilter, nothing getting edited out.

SPEAKER_00 56:39

We don't have Patreon yet, we don't have you know enough lesson or yeah, nothing's getting edited out. But anyways, for this yay or nay segment with TJ, do you need privacy? Should your partner be able to grab your phone and go in your phone? Yes, and this goes for the guys only, not ladies. We need our privacy, we are ladies, right? This case is co's. And if you was wondering what that knock was, it's the gavel. Period. Well, you're laughing about it. I can't believe you did not agree with me. We're gonna have issues. We're gonna have to talk about that after class. If you know what I mean. You've been a bad student. I had to send you to the principal office.

SPEAKER_01 57:36

Well, um, I appreciate y'all for tuning in, tuning in to another episode. Um, yeah, uh uh eventually we're we're gonna try to work work things out to see if we can add some live, make make these these things live so we can actually have you know folks actually calling in live or or leaving their comments live. Yeah, yeah, we it's plenty of things we can do. Um, but yeah, we're gonna we're gonna figure that out and we're gonna we're gonna try to implement that. Um, you know. Yeah, definitely continue to have more more things coming. We got more guests that's gonna be involved. So y'all continue rocking with us, man. Like, comment, subscribe. But I appreciate y'all for tapping into another episode of Between Random and Real.

SPEAKER_00 58:20

Thank you guys. See y'all next week.

SPEAKER_01 58:22

Peace.

SPEAKER_00 58:23

Bye.