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What up family! 

It don’t get more random and real than this.
We have a special guest joining the show, he goes by the name of Social. Tap in for wild episode where we talk about cheating in relationships, witches after Klay Thompson, robots attacking the elderly, and much more! 

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Song: ‘When You’re Alone” By JustKhi Ft. Michael Knight (ON ALL MAJOR PLATFORMS)

SPEAKER_06

What it do, what it is, how you feel. Y'all now tune in between random and real show boy just gotta girl TJ. We got a special guest, man. Another special guest, another special episode.

SPEAKER_03

Another one. Hey, hey, hey. We told y'all was gonna bring more guests to the show. I know y'all love listening to my boy. You know, every every week. So but you know, we we tried to grace y'all with another voice. My bad, my bad. That was me, y'all. Playing with the mic. But yeah, we tried to grace out with another voice. You gonna do the introduction, just yeah, I'm gonna do the introduction.

SPEAKER_06

So, um, yeah, so this this is a definitely, definitely special one. Uh special individual right here. Uh known him since high school. Uh was able to build that that connection. We went to the illustrious agriculture and technical state university. Man's a jack of all trades, CEO, street class, entertainment, man, do video, photography, art. This man was on the damn lawnboard or the damn campus riding around like a lunatic. But we're gonna give we're gonna give a shout-out and an introduction to the no other than the social.

SPEAKER_03

We are so happy to have you here.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, man. Like I said, Jack of all trades, man, music, everything.

SPEAKER_03

Yes, he's super creative, like he can do everything. You're like I said, you are a man of many talents.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, yeah, yeah. So I do want to ask you though, so just kind of give like the people just a little bit about yourself and what what kind of inspires your job? Um really just what inspires my drive, I guess.

SPEAKER_04

And you can you can bring the mic a little up. Can y'all hear me? Yeah, now we now. So what inspires my drive is really just my upbringing for real. Like, I never uh imagine myself being around people and and not like wanting to embrace them in a way to where like it motivates them to want to find themselves. And a lot of times people just fail to explore themselves. Me, like, I'm gonna tell you every time, I'm always doing something, I'm always trying to figure out something, because it's just like, yeah, you got one life to live, but you don't have to be stagnant. Like you can you can have money, you can not have money, you can whatever. And if you around the right people, or if you just got the right influence in your head, you know, you can go so far. And to be honest, uh I think we never have just enough influences to the idea to figure out, okay, what can I do in this space where I have less. If that makes sense.

SPEAKER_06

In today's time, they they low-key make it like uh a requirement to be an entrepreneur. Like you gotta low low-key now, in today's economy, it's it's turned into a requirement for multiple streams and it's a lot of people. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. They do. Because it's like, man, the economy is crazy. Jobs is not really secure.

SPEAKER_03

I literally, like, I know y'all probably heard maybe three or four years ago, they used to say, oh, going to the grocery store is cheaper than eating out. I feel like right now in 2026, we can't tell. Like, you literally cannot tell. I swear I tell Kai all the time, like, I go in a hair steed and I buy six items. Oh, oh, yeah, best believe is almost a hundred dollars.

SPEAKER_06

For shit. Nah, no, no.

SPEAKER_03

You cannot tell these days. Like, is it really cheaper?

SPEAKER_06

You can tell if you go to Fume. Go to Fume, bro. That shit is ridiculous. But I order some wings, mac and cheese. $50.

SPEAKER_03

He's talking about a restaurant in Charlotte, North Carolina, guys. It's a nice restaurant. I will say, it's fancy in the inside. It's it's real cute. It's where you go for your birthday.

SPEAKER_06

I want to take out. I'm not in the inside. Uh-oh, six wings, six lemon pepper wings. Not even the ones that's the jumbo wings. They the baby shits. The baby wings and mac and cheese. And some Brussels, bro.

SPEAKER_04

Can I be honest with you?

SPEAKER_06

$50.

SPEAKER_04

It wouldn't have made it out. Exactly.

SPEAKER_03

You would have been pissed off.

SPEAKER_04

Like, yeah, $50. Yeah, no. That's like eating at Root Chris.

SPEAKER_03

But the food gotta be worth it. Like, listen, I I won't I won't lie. I don't mind paying a lot of money for food, but it gotta be worth it. And it got it's a special occasion. Like, if I go somewhere and I spend $50, it's probably a special occasion. But also, this food gotta be good. I don't wanna leave and be like, dang, I'm still hungry. I gotta go to the Chick-fil-A after this.

SPEAKER_06

No. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03

No.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah. So I mean, that's but that's why that's why what you're saying is important, man. Because like, you gotta have them multiple streams, bro. And it's no time to be lazy. It's like folks gotta have that drive now. You ain't got no choice.

SPEAKER_03

But I agree. You gotta have multiple streams, you gotta do multiple things, but Tay, you a creative, you got the ideas, you do video, you do, you do, you just show me animation, everything. Like, how do you when you like so much and you're a creative and you're like you're always thinking of new things, like, how do you focus? I feel like that's the hard part, at least for me sometimes. When I know I like this, I like this, I want to do this, I want to do this.

SPEAKER_06

But like, yeah, how you depend on this.

SPEAKER_03

Sometimes to progress, yeah, you gotta you gotta do that.

SPEAKER_04

So what I learned over time was because eventually you gotta become an adult, is that you have to have discipline enough to be like, okay, you know what? And it ain't gotta be accurate, but like, hey, from one to like two, I'm focused on nothing but this music. Right. And then from like three to five, okay, alright, I got this cinematography idea. Put this together, da da da. It may not even take that though, but it's just a simple fact that it's just like I have to block out everybody and everything that's going on because it's like, no, I gotta do this. That's the same, like my first line of discipline usually is like in the morning when I wake up. Yeah. Because like I have to go to the gym. Yeah, I have to walk my dog. Yeah. You know what I mean? Yeah. So it's like, in a way, I ask for the responsibilities in order to be able to build that structure around my creativity. Because that's just like when you're dreaming. You can't help what you dream about, you know what I'm saying? Only but so much. So imagine imagine your life is like a lucid dream, except for some of that stuff just ain't gonna play out the way that you're thinking about it. You know what I mean? So I look at life as art anyway. So it's just like, how can I get creative enough to figure out how to make this idea happen? Because my idea might not pop for two, three years, but I go and meet you or I meet you, and it'd be like I got the same almost, if not exact idea, and I'm like, maybe God say wait your turn. Yeah. And do it with these people and make this really into a reality for somebody else. Because you never know. Sometimes your best ideas that you had to wait on are manifest into something brand with other people. And I think I'm just stuck on that for some reason. Um like I get I don't want to say emotional, but I get to a point where, like, even I told you, like, I got a lot of respect for you, you know what I'm saying? And I know y'all said school. So I got respect for you, and I like how you move because I watch how both of y'all knitted each other together. You know what I mean? And so, like, when you got somebody that is a creative herself, you're a creative of yourself, and it's like you also speak about positive stuff, but you also get on people's ass. Right. And you the same, like you still, you you got the same fiery, you know what I'm saying, attitude, and you got the charisma as well. And I mean that comes naturally because you know, you're a you're a woman. But like, y'all both play off each other because he got the same thing, just in his own way. So it's like when you put creatives together, it's like this will happen. It looked like a podcast. It looked like a podcast turns into a broadcast, and now you motivate and elevate. So it's just like in order, in order for me to educate, I don't have to, I don't have to force my hand on nobody. I just give up and do it. And then it's crazy because people that seem to be lost get pissed off. Some people, not all. Some people seem to get lost in their own sauce and they mad because they couldn't even go buy a microphone, but they don't understand. I got this microphone after six, seven years of like telling myself, nah, nah, nah. Not right now, not right now. And you have to tell yourself to just shut up and just create whatever you think. You can you can take uh this painting, for example, right? It could have taken you ten years just to do this, but then you met somebody that did it in their living room and took them five minutes. You know what I mean? So, like, your environment matters, how you feed yourself matters mentally, you know what I'm saying, spiritually. Um every Sunday, like, I don't care what's going on. Me and my lady, uh, we sit down and we watch church, you know what I mean? And like we even if it's just playing and we just like cleaning up the house, yeah, that is a thing. And it's it's mandatory because it's just like you ripping and running and you doing all this stuff for everybody and whatnot, but it's just like give it all the way back to God.

SPEAKER_00

Right, how you're beating yourself. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04

And I can't tell you how many times I done had all these talents and skills and whatnot. But God be like, I can't give you another idea. I can't give you another nothing because you ain't give me another time where you had available for me. Right. So it really just circles back to my relationship with God because I noticed how I changed my focus and how my attitude is, and I noticed how people treat me when uh one way versus another way. And I used to have to like and it ain't it ain't what's in you as far as like again going back to the talents and stuff like that. Bring your mic a little closer. Yeah, it's really it's really about what surrounds you. You know what I'm saying? Because just like skin, you absorb a lot of stuff that you put yourself around. And so when you're a given person, when you uh an educated person, when you a creative person, people are gonna latch on to that. And then you start wondering with the wanderers. But really, you ain't never had to wonder because you kept seeing it within yourself. So imagine if y'all take yourself, right? And y'all in a in a room, you don't get to see your wife, you don't get to see your husband, and it's just not the straitjacket room, but just a solid, like isolated room, and it's just like they say create y'all gonna be to do it, of course.

SPEAKER_07

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04

And I'm talking about like just out of nothing.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, I mean that that's that's so that's something that um I'm gonna just use music as an example. Like that's something that I've I've been doing anyway, like for a minute. Like it, it's it's really um nowadays it's rare for me to even write a song off a beat. Like, I'm I'm making the melody in my head. And I make the melody in my head, I write the song, and then I go in the studio and I I rap the song how you know I had it, had the melody in my head, and my boy make the beat around around whatever I created in my head. So, and to me, that I feel like that that's that the songs come out a lot better to me, because it's like you create them, like you creating it literally from top to bottom versus you getting something that's already done and you kind of gotta like fit in where you get in, type of thing or get in where you fit in.

SPEAKER_03

And I don't wanna, you know, talk about myself, come on. Just cause, you know, I used to write music too, you know. You still do? We got a song. I I okay, I still do write music. But I used to write music a lot more often, like I used to want to be a singer when I was a kid. I have literally have a video of me like saying, I want to be a singer. It was like, oh really? And I was like, but I'm too shy, and I have stage right, so I don't know if I can do it. But um I used to write music the same exact way. Like I I write my music based on the melody in my head.

SPEAKER_07

Right.

SPEAKER_03

And and and that's how that's how I create it. So like I feel like I feel like it's in you. Like you said, it's in you. It's not on you.

SPEAKER_04

So you know I'm gonna be honest with y'all too. One of the things because I'm sitting here just thinking, I'm thinking about myself in a sense, right? I'm thinking about how I operate. Because it's like, it's really a choice sometimes when you really in tune with yourself, yeah. How you operate with things. Like, I'm on a podcast, I know I got a hell of a personality. I'll y'all know me. I can be all the way in left field or I can be right here center focused. Yeah, you know, yeah, but it's gonna always be a good time, it's gonna always be an experience. And I just hope that like just being present sometimes, and I don't even take this offense no more because even my mama told me this. It was like, son, sometimes just be quiet. Just be quiet because you are your name. Yeah, I mean, why he's social enough.

SPEAKER_06

Every time we walk around campus, hey, whatever, hey, whatever, hey, hey, hey, once you meet, I want you to meet some. I'm like, damn.

SPEAKER_04

I had a lot of cousins.

SPEAKER_05

Oh, there you go.

SPEAKER_03

Well, I know, I know we talk about something serious, but are you cold?

SPEAKER_04

Am I cold? You wanna cut the air off?

SPEAKER_03

It's cold as heck.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, I feel good.

SPEAKER_03

You feel good? Because you got the ice spots where your park used to be. It's cold in you.

SPEAKER_06

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_04

Let me tell you something. Hey, Siri. I did want to.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, we ain't got that yet. They gonna the man's gonna come set it up later. He's coming next week.

SPEAKER_06

I did I did wanna ask. You want me to turn it off for real? It's gonna be a good one.

SPEAKER_03

No, no, no, it's all good, you know.

SPEAKER_04

Hey, I'm gonna let y'all know this episode probably gonna be made out of bloopers. Yeah. I want my episode to be made out of bloopers, which y'all. Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_03

I mean, look, we all in relationships. I wanted to ask y'all some relationships. Okay, what's up? I don't know. I don't know if the guys wanna talk about you know being in a relationship. Thank you, Teddy. I mean, hit him barely sometimes. I'll be like, hey baby, let's talk about our relationship.

SPEAKER_02

Why did you say such a thing?

SPEAKER_04

Cause he probably thinks you're gonna kill her.

SPEAKER_02

I mean, listen. Stop.

SPEAKER_04

You didn't say that.

SPEAKER_02

I'm just fine. I'm just fine. Just give me the warning signal. I'm like that.

SPEAKER_03

Stop it.

SPEAKER_04

I kinda see that look the little look.

SPEAKER_03

Alright, I said, we're gonna scratch it out. We scratch it out. But my mom always used to tell me that men love me women. And we love somebody who his wife stabbed him in the hand and they still together, they've been married for like 20 years. I'm just saying.

SPEAKER_06

They married.

SPEAKER_03

They married. Nah, I'm gonna talk about the other one. I didn't say women like me because I said men like me, women.

SPEAKER_04

That's not what we wanna see when we say beat that thing up, right?

SPEAKER_03

No.

SPEAKER_04

Okay.

SPEAKER_03

That's not what we wanna see. Okay, alright, alright. So what I was gonna ask y'all, since we all relationships, you know, we all probably been in some bad ones, some good ones. Has anybody here ever cheated?

SPEAKER_04

No. Nah.

SPEAKER_03

Oh, y'all are all loyal?

SPEAKER_04

Nah. I don't believe that. I believe in karma is the bitch.

SPEAKER_06

In high school, I had the um in high school I had the chance and uh I didn't do it. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03

You had the chance? I didn't do it. It's like I ain't got a chance. I'm gonna know this story. Please give me the story. Please, please give us the story.

SPEAKER_04

You talking about in your I'm a joke era?

SPEAKER_03

Uh you had your blonde hair like Chris Brown, right?

SPEAKER_06

Nah, nah, nah, nah. It was um I can I mean I can go into it, but just just know she she threw the oop and I could have slammed dunk and I didn't.

SPEAKER_03

Was that her friend? Because you know, you know chicks do that sometimes. It's crazy.

SPEAKER_06

That's crazy.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, but they do it.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, they do.

SPEAKER_04

See, relationship questions I always thought.

SPEAKER_06

And what's even crazier is they probably do it, they do it knowing that they're in a relationship.

SPEAKER_03

Oh yeah.

SPEAKER_04

Oh yeah, no.

SPEAKER_06

That be the difference too, because I girls, some girls are messing.

SPEAKER_04

No, they no, they would like women would tell you straight up that like, yeah, I seen my girl do da da da da da da da da.

SPEAKER_05

And like a situation that was some women be so bold.

SPEAKER_04

A woman a woman would try to holler at a dude right in front of a woman. And if she can't get the dude, she try to go get the woman.

SPEAKER_01

Oh wow. Scoot up a little bit.

SPEAKER_03

I haven't seen that one.

SPEAKER_05

And when you look back, you ain't in it. There you go, there you go. That's a little bit I see now.

SPEAKER_03

But I mean, y'all, y'all speaking the truth. That's my ladies. Don't tell y'all friends everything.

SPEAKER_07

I don't know.

SPEAKER_03

When when your friend, when your friend eyes like, oh how you and your boo, y'all doing good, you know. This feel like oh, I think he might be like honestly, I don't know if he really likes it.

SPEAKER_04

I'ma elaborate after I figure out what he what he said, hold up.

SPEAKER_03

Sometimes he he he he don't he don't buy me nothing, he don't buy me no gifts. This is like tell her all the wrong things. She ain't gonna never want your man.

SPEAKER_06

Didn't you say Didn't you say if you don't cheat, that means you don't care?

SPEAKER_03

Yeah. I was talking about homework. I was talking about being a student.

SPEAKER_06

Cause remember what Jody said.

SPEAKER_03

Oh wow, we're gonna bring it back to the topic.

SPEAKER_06

He said he said he said I lie because I care about your care about Z. Care about your feelings.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06

But if you think about it, maybe that's why people really do lie, because the truth hurts and lie here.

SPEAKER_03

No, just find you a strong woman that can take that hurt. Take that hurt every day.

SPEAKER_04

You're gonna find her just a loser. Think about it, you're gonna find her just a loser. Because most most black women for sure.

SPEAKER_06

What you mean?

SPEAKER_04

I'm telling you. Goodbye.

SPEAKER_06

Okay, I I low key had something that you you bothered by. Well, go ahead and finish what you were saying.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah, we were gonna say something based on what you were saying.

SPEAKER_06

You said you said that um God's like angry women or something like that.

SPEAKER_03

Oh yeah, God's like, uh we can explain that. I got a question.

SPEAKER_06

No, we're gonna explain that. I got a question.

SPEAKER_03

Alright.

SPEAKER_06

So you know how like when when again this is me going back to my activists, I'm sorry, y'all. Some a lot of times when when black women are looked at and and they're always perceived as loud and angry and mean, angry black women. But when it comes to other cultures, other c other races sometimes, they like they like, oh yeah, I like uh angry uh Dominican or angry uh Latino or angry whatever. They they look at it as a more positive in that light, but but they call black women, they're like, oh no, they laugh they angry w y'all do y'all see that?

SPEAKER_04

Okay, so first of all, so okay, so put it like this, right? You got women black women in general that are always hated on.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_04

And then you got those those black women where you be like, nah, I can't hang with this this this type of woman. You know what I'm saying? Because I I don't want to say black women, because black black women, again, you they always get in attacked.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, and that's and that's why I said that, because it's like it's like them, y'all, y'all say when they when y'all see them, y'all like that. But yeah, when it comes to the black women, y'all like, oh no, that's angry.

SPEAKER_03

I haven't really heard that many black men say that though. I think that's perceived by other races. Like the majority of black women are angry.

SPEAKER_06

Y'all talking about it.

SPEAKER_04

But look, if you okay, so like I'm gonna break it down real real easy, like, right? So you get into those conversations where it'd be like, oh, why black men be talking to white girls? Usually start off with shit like that, right? And be like, oh, because black women do blah blah blah, they do, they they do talk about it.

SPEAKER_06

Why can't that person just like white girl? That's just what he likes.

SPEAKER_04

That too, but that's what I'm saying. It's based on the Perspective and then some women just be angry.

SPEAKER_03

Based off of some insecurity and hatred, for real. Yeah. That's really why though. But okay, so if you take the colour.

SPEAKER_04

Oh, my bad. Go ahead, go ahead.

SPEAKER_03

No, you said why, and I'm just trying to tell you sometimes it's it's because they have an insecurity. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But that won't even the mean. I was talking about guys.

SPEAKER_06

But was it talking about black men? I'm talking about how black women are perceived, not the black men, just in general.

SPEAKER_03

But we ain't talking about the others right now. I'm talking about us. Yeah. And I'm not even talking about that meaning for real. I was talking about how like y'all guys, y'all know that y'all are really more attracted to the girl that don't really give you the time of day. The time of day. Like y'all really be liking the girl who's a little bit more. Okay. Who's a little bit more like reserved? Or like get a little bit more mean. Like a little bit more.

SPEAKER_04

It's not even, it's not even mean.

SPEAKER_03

Maybe it's not mean, but it's just like boy.

SPEAKER_04

That's why I say reserve, because you gotta think about it. If when you okay, if you get me to work harder.

SPEAKER_03

For real.

SPEAKER_04

So y'all do.

SPEAKER_06

But the biggest shit is my biggest nigga, the big thing, but when we first, when we first when we first met. I was there. I was there. I was quiet. I was chilling, and then that made her be like, hmm, he's too quiet. I want to learn more about him. It's the mystery. It's a mystery. So y'all do the same thing. And it may not necessarily be mean, but he like he was saying, like you may be like reserved, or you may just not, you may shy away from the crowd. You know, you don't stick out. I mean, not you don't stick out, you do stick out. So you're not like the you're not like the one that. I got it. No, I got you.

SPEAKER_04

No, no, I got you. So look, okay. So overall, so look, so so that time where you meet, well y'all meet, right? Y'all don't know each other, y'all getting to know each other. Both y'all like mystery. But as far as just the woman in general, right? Even when you married, because y'all can y'all can talk about this, because y'all married, right? Your woman still want that that mystery to it, that, that, that, uh, that spark. You know what I'm saying? Like, spice it up. Because it's like, okay, you got me, but what else can we do with each other? Like, what you got from the game?

SPEAKER_06

Act like you've been here before. People were seeing girls, oh, bro, oh, what's your name? What's your name?

SPEAKER_03

Bro, act like you call it a girl before. I haven't met your girl. Shout out to her.

SPEAKER_00

What's her name?

SPEAKER_03

You can keep it to yourself.

SPEAKER_04

But because I date a black woman, and I said that her was like, I don't know what to call her because the it's so many names I want to give her that's positive. And again, shout out to the black women for sure. Um, that's my blessing.

SPEAKER_03

That's your blessing. So your blessing, like, how did y'all meet? Like, what what gravitated you to her? Um she a little bit mean?

SPEAKER_04

No, she she wasn't mean. It was she had uh a wonderful personality, you know what I'm saying? She was exposed. And it's funny because I was more like, I was reserved in person, but over the phone, cutting up. Crazy. And so she decided to meet me in my element. You know what I'm saying? And she'll tell you, I can actually say this and be truthful. She bagged me.

SPEAKER_07

Okay.

SPEAKER_04

So it was like, she was like, I want to meet you in your element, which was the gym. Right. And so, you know, we worked out. We had the girls hit that.

SPEAKER_03

So you went on a date, uh gym date?

SPEAKER_04

Yeah, gym gym.

SPEAKER_03

Oh my goodness. I always talk about how I Wait, really?

SPEAKER_06

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03

Is that really a good day? Because I talk trash about it a lot.

SPEAKER_06

I thought shit about it too. I can't lie. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03

But maybe we need to go to a little gym date. Can we like roleplay like we don't know each other? So I'm like in the gym, and I'm like doing a shit.

SPEAKER_05

And I just walk up and I'm like, good job, girl. No. No.

SPEAKER_03

Not roleplaying sexual harassment stuff.

SPEAKER_04

See, that's how you know y'all married, because you be ready.

SPEAKER_06

He was in the grocery store, and I had walked up on it like I was like a crazy.

SPEAKER_03

Bruh. I was looking at the I don't know what I was looking at, the lemons, and he walked up on my back like this. And I didn't know he was on like behind me. And he's just like this close to my back. And the woman in front of me was looking like and then and then I turned around and I was like, what are you doing? And she was like, Oh, I'm so glad he knows you guys know each other. Because she thought that it was some strange.

SPEAKER_04

She was like, I don't know what he was doing. Oh this is another creep. You finna get put on the list.

SPEAKER_03

I asked y'all about uh cheating because I really wanted to ask y'all in 2026. What do you guys define as cheating? Okay, because there is a lot of new things that we didn't have back in the day.

SPEAKER_04

Is it new or is it just now?

SPEAKER_03

I mean, like liking pictures, like liking pictures on Instagram. I mean, some people, some people get irritated by those things. Or like um DMs, you're DM another another woman. Is that cheating? Uh, just having a casual conversation that someone you've never met, y'all just starting to do that.

SPEAKER_04

We ain't gonna be talking that long. Like, I mean, and it just depends on the type of man that you got because individually, even without a relationship, I'm trying to figure out like what what what you need. Because like look at it now, right? I need for my woman to be secure in conversations.

SPEAKER_06

But what considered what would you consider cheating though?

SPEAKER_03

So what do you can I'm gonna ask you, okay? Your girl, she's DMing DMing another dude. She they never met, but they became friends in the DM, and you know, they just have casual conversations, but they friends now in the DMs. Is that cheating?

SPEAKER_04

No, because like because I need it, like for me, I guess it just depends. Because if you if I start like not trusting you based on how you move in and and how you provoke different things, because you know, sometimes people, sis, he's gonna allow you to talk to multiple men.

SPEAKER_03

What about you? Yeah, that's cheating.

SPEAKER_04

No, no, no, no, no. No, I gotta I gotta break it down to you, right? It depends.

SPEAKER_06

Like, how can why what how did you get to the DM? Yeah, because he's in all the time.

SPEAKER_03

I mean, he might have commented on one of her stories and then they and then they became friends. Who was the comment? Who knows? They just became friends. He comes in the store. Oh, I really like that picture in your house. Yeah, cheating. And then she's like, oh, thank you.

SPEAKER_06

Was it in that picture?

SPEAKER_03

Huh?

SPEAKER_06

Was it was another guy? Was his partner in the picture?

SPEAKER_03

Alright, so it's you is it depends on the situation and you can't.

SPEAKER_04

So I'm gonna say it like this, because I'm situational to it. Yeah, situational. But I have to I have to break it down, right? Because I want people to get the wrong impressions from this video, right? It's like, it's like, think about it. If I'm the man, right?

SPEAKER_00

They always get the wrong impression about me. I never tell the truth. I hope they know that.

SPEAKER_04

I don't. So I have to I have to break it down like this. I should be my discernment is is everything damn near. You know what I'm saying? If I start feeling like shit, just oh, first of all, in our communication, I'm gonna start thinking your head other places. Because think about it. Most of the time a woman is going to start wandering off somewhere where she's getting the attention that she wants. So if you're not getting everything that you need at your house, I don't care if you married in a relationship with her.

SPEAKER_01

She smelt the flowers over there. I mean, it's true.

SPEAKER_04

No, no, it's real. But you but she but think about it. Think about it. It only hurts you if the shoe fits.

SPEAKER_01

Oh, what you about to do?

SPEAKER_03

Damn, I guess me and Kat got some things to talk about. Alright, what about another one? You know, the girl, she she she goes to the bar with her friends, they all drinking at the bar. Some guys come up, and it's just a little flirt flirt. She flirting with a little guy just for her friends to get drinks. You know, she does a little flirt and oh, I'm about to get on you because.

SPEAKER_06

Is that cheating? We did something that I don't want to talk about.

SPEAKER_04

That's some shit that you don't tell me.

SPEAKER_03

Rapid fire, don't tell you. I like that ass. Don't tell me he's a good one, ladies.

SPEAKER_04

Because my thing is I know a woman gonna say that shit to me, where it be like, you know, some shit is just for the guys, baby. She done told me that. Where it be like, don't, hey, listen, you you I might be your girl, yeah, but some of that shit is just for the guys. Like, right, right. Now, if I now if I got a woman that's just like, you know what, babe, I did such and such today, whoop-de-woop, uh-huh, and she's sharing that shit with you, I fuck with that, and that that brings open another door of trust because it's like she telling me about this experience that she done had with this with this guy or whatever she did, or whoop-de-woop. But my thing is you just gotta know your person. Because my woman ain't gotta talk to nobody to get what she wants. She don't even like people.

SPEAKER_02

You already sent her like money for the drinks anyway. She got the money for the drinks. What about you? Your girl, she flirting at the girl.

SPEAKER_06

My my girl was at the bar, and I do, I do, and and this is what I was told.

SPEAKER_07

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06

I do kissed her hand, bought her a drink, and she still accepted the drink. And then and then came back to me.

SPEAKER_03

What girl was that? Why are you gonna bring up our flaws? We done, we done, we done got two years married. We done our anniversary.

SPEAKER_05

He's gonna bring up something I did 10 years ago.

SPEAKER_06

The dude went up, walked up.

SPEAKER_04

Donna Jones.

SPEAKER_06

Grabbed your girl's hand, kissed her hand, bought it in the hand.

SPEAKER_03

I didn't even know it was coming. We in the middle of Miami. This is a club in Miami. Right. I didn't see it coming. Somebody grabbed my hand, kissed my hand. At first, I gotta first thought think about my safety at this point.

SPEAKER_07

Right.

SPEAKER_03

Cause I'm like, this could be, this could go so many ways for me. You know, I'm just shocked that somebody grabbed me.

SPEAKER_06

Nah, she was there with her friend. I was there, but I wasn't like in that area. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03

But um, but I couldn't stop it from coming. But it's like she came back. Actually, I got sexually her eyes. That's really sexually her eyes, if you want to think about it. So don't think about the eyes. That's the problem. Maybe men are the problem. You blame.

SPEAKER_04

Don't say don't say men. Just say start starting type of men.

SPEAKER_03

You blame the victim. It's the victim blaming guys.

SPEAKER_06

It isn't even crazy. It gets crazy. She came back with one damn drink. Baby for somebody. At least ask one, like, hey, get another, get another drink for one. Hey, you better know that's a baby.

SPEAKER_05

You would have thought a little bit better than I.

SPEAKER_04

Hey, watch this. Y'all probably gonna start talking about this topic. But watch this. That's just like uh the question that'll come up is Babe, how you feel if I had a sugar daddy? Um, like I don't get him no sugar or nothing, but you know, he paying bills.

SPEAKER_07

Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_04

Shit. Where'd a check at? I need to see it. Yeah. We get we getting two checks?

SPEAKER_07

Yeah.

unknown

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04

I need to figure out what the fuck is going on. Like what you need him for? I'll go harder. Because honestly, my partner is gonna bring more fuel to that fire anyway.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04

You're right, okay.

SPEAKER_03

You're right. He he just mad because uh it's really not the issue about him kissing my hand. I didn't bring him a drink.

SPEAKER_04

But you know what though? I I fuck with I fuck with the fact that he he feels some type of way about it because that means he's serious about you. Yeah, yeah. And it's the difference between an insecure nigga, right? Yeah, and uh and a person that just be like, nah, no, I'm a man.

SPEAKER_07

Right, right, right.

SPEAKER_04

I am a man. That's not flying. I'm coming to you. I want you. Why your stupid ass over there?

SPEAKER_01

Exactly. You're stupid. Why you make him think he can grab your head?

SPEAKER_04

Right. You should have slapped something to the screen.

SPEAKER_03

So is there any other things that might be considered cheating to y'all that not other it really just just depends for real?

SPEAKER_06

Like, it it depends on the situation. Like, if if like you brought up the DM, like how did you get there? Well, was it about business or what is it about?

SPEAKER_04

Right, because it's your phone, this is your personal phone. Yeah, and if I don't mean to cut you off, like think about it. Y'all can do whatever y'all want on these phones, men, women, whatever. Right. Well, my bad. Look, so y'all can do whatever y'all want on these phones, right? Yeah. And never talk about, oh, babe, let me look at your text, let me look at this, let me look at that. If I start feeling that, I'ma start looking at our relationship, first of all, and I'm gonna be like, you happy? And if you honest, if you're a straightforward individual, you be like, to be honest, no, I've been thinking about da-da-da-da. Imagine, let me ask you this. And I don't mean to put you in a in a in a hot seat, but it just also for you too. Imagine if your wife said, Babe, I ain't happy.

SPEAKER_06

Like just in general or what relationship?

SPEAKER_04

Okay, so it can be about just anything like power in a sense, right? Yeah, relationship-wise. Oh, yeah, yeah. So like she'd be like, babe, I'm not, I'm not happy. And then she she goes to tell you, like, yeah, I talk, I talk to a few people just for entertainment, like as far as conversation. And then you might ask, okay, so what kind of conversations you having? You already gonna be boiling because you like, what the fuck? Like, you're gonna feel some type of way as a man.

SPEAKER_06

If I'm already married, yeah, we're married. Then what what the hell are you doing?

SPEAKER_04

Right. So, but my thing is, how would you address it if she actually telling you what she needs?

SPEAKER_06

If she's if she's telling me what she needs before entertaining others, oh yeah, yeah, yeah. Let's talk about it. Let's discuss it. But if you done already started, there's the door.

SPEAKER_03

Okay, what if she goes on a uh a coffee a coffee date with um sorry not not coffee date? She goes out to get coffee with her ex and doesn't tell you. Is it cheating?

SPEAKER_04

Cook. Cook. You're cooked. That's old lead. Cook. I'm bringing another bitch. Where you at? And I got it.

SPEAKER_02

But they didn't do anything. They didn't do anything. I don't know. It was just a conversation.

SPEAKER_04

No.

SPEAKER_06

That's why I feel like we was we was in a we was in a talking stage, and I think she was not my you went back home and said uh my ex came over. You went inside it was something with your ex.

SPEAKER_04

I was like, what the f Right I'm gonna eat that.

SPEAKER_06

I wasn't remembering, it was still like, whoa, that door's still open? Right. Is it creaked open? Is it like this the door cropped?

SPEAKER_03

It was not, it was just like a hey, how's school going?

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, it's no hey, how's it going?

SPEAKER_04

But see, but you know what also too? Correct me if I'm wrong.

SPEAKER_06

It's different if it's on lock, but in person, no.

SPEAKER_04

But I'm just saying, like in person's better than personality. But no, no, no, no, but no, none of it is good. None of it is good. So f all that.

unknown

Whoa.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah, no, you talking about we wait on a little lecture lunch. And you ain't tell me not found. Imagine, imagine your person see you out and you said you was going somewhere and you ain't where you said you was going, because you out doing something that you weren't gonna talk about.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_04

You gonna come to the crib and your shit gonna be packed.

SPEAKER_06

I see everything.

SPEAKER_03

Alright, one more, one more, guys. Your girl, she cooking lunch for her co-worker. And he's a guy the opposite. And she making lunch for her.

SPEAKER_06

Is it leftovers? Like she cooked dinner for her husband and she's bringing in leftovers to work and sharing it.

SPEAKER_03

No, she made lunch for him.

SPEAKER_06

Oh, yeah, that's wild.

SPEAKER_03

I mean, okay, she it was leftovers. Like, she made a mail. You got some of the mail too, but she just packed up uh lunch for him.

SPEAKER_04

I know how to wrap my response up.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, I mean, I believe I'll do nothing wrong.

SPEAKER_04

Okay, I gotta answer this in two different ways. Still gonna be the same goddamn answer. No. My girl don't even like people like that for real. So she's not doing it.

SPEAKER_06

But you don't see nothing like wrong with it.

SPEAKER_04

It ain't gonna happen.

SPEAKER_06

I know, but so you do see something wrong with it.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

You put her like that.

SPEAKER_04

I wouldn't, I would no, in a in this, okay, depending on Hold up. No. I don't see all of that. No, because I I just can't get out of my mind that I live in my reality. My girl is gonna say no. Like, she not doing that. She don't even want to really talk to you till you hey.

SPEAKER_02

He don't see nothing wrong with me because he doesn't. Yeah, it happened, it happened to me before.

SPEAKER_06

Like, um I mean she she hung out with the both girls. Yeah, they all married and stuff, but like they um sometimes they bring in the biggest thing. But they bring it right. Yeah, they bring it like to multiple people. Yeah, okay. Okay, now that's different. But when I told her a little fire under, she was like, Who cooking for you?

SPEAKER_04

Yeah. They made her get in that kitchen up. Hold on now, I got uh But but what's funny is right, so you in it you in a situation where you can do what you're doing right now, is right. Y'all can talk about stuff, y'all can go back and forth and and and and and joke, right? And that's the good thing about it. That's how you know y'all kind of healthy, you know what I'm saying, in y'all relationship. Because you you talking about uncomfortable situations. Well, situations that would be uncomfortable for some people, and y'all making it humorous, and it's just like, well, shit, yeah, I can tell you about my past, but I'm still holding it down right now, my present. That's right.

SPEAKER_06

That's right. Oh man, we got plenty. I got plenty of stories. I can go down that where I had it again, like, oh no, what you doing, huh? Well, shit, I'm about turned in the right light.

SPEAKER_07

I like this flounder.

SPEAKER_04

True player for real. That's my real.

SPEAKER_03

Alright, well, I think we're ready for cotton news, guys. I'm ready to hear about some crazy news going on in the world right now.

SPEAKER_06

Alright, let's get in.

SPEAKER_03

Hold on, let me let me get let me get my vocals ready. Just caught it a news guy.

SPEAKER_06

Alright. Now y'all are tune in, just caught a news guy. So the first story we're gonna start with. So there's been a weird trend going around. I mean, people eat damn near everything, and to be honest, I don't blame them because what the hell is in the food? But there's a viral trend going around on TikTok where folks are literally eating mini clay pots. Yes, clay. Clay. Okay. So viral videos show users filling f uh filling miniature clay pots with lime juice, dusting them in Tai Gin, Tai Hen, I'm sure I'm saying that wrong, and eating them whole like a crunchy, earthy snack. And um basically there somebody had somebody had posted something and they were eating it, they were like, let's have a late night snack. But it actually started because she was pregnant and she had cravings. And for some reason she had cravings for clay. Have y'all ever had wild ass cravings where y'all was going to eat some eat some shit that's not food? They actually got uh this this is called something. Like where people eat things that's not food. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah, um it's called like. What's that network channel? AMC? Uh oh by strange addiction, yeah. Yeah, buddy was in love with his car. Yeah, too. They need to they need to be studied.

SPEAKER_03

They need to be studied. Have I ever ate anything that wasn't edible?

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, have you ever ate something that wasn't edible?

SPEAKER_03

No. Nah. I don't think so.

SPEAKER_04

I've heard people eat glue. Um I'm trying to think if I ever ate something. Spray pan.

SPEAKER_06

Basically, um, of course, you know, folks shouldn't be doing it. Uh they that there's been doctors that came out and advised, like, they don't think this is something that's healthy um for people to be eating, craving non-food substances like clay. But they call it Pika. So I guess that's and they associate it with iron deficiency. So it might be like some nutrient gaps or something going on. Yeah, so if you if you're anemic, try some clay. Might help boost your iron.

SPEAKER_05

Why would you tell?

SPEAKER_06

Shit. The president told people to eat lysol wipes, secure coconut.

SPEAKER_03

Our listeners are not gonna do that. Our listeners are very smart, okay? Well, who else would it like smart people listen to me, right? Maybe.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, yeah, they do, they do.

SPEAKER_04

I mean, Megan the Stallion tried some clay, but you see how that went.

SPEAKER_06

Speaking of Megan the Stallion. Boy, boy. So y'all know we talked about Y'all know, y'all know we talked about Etsy witches. Yes, we talked about Etsy witches. Tell me why. People are contacting Etsy witches to curse Meg the Stallion's ex, Klay Thompson. Is it really that damn deep? Are we really that infatuated with these celebrities' relationship status that we don't even know?

unknown

We don't know what he's like.

SPEAKER_06

They don't even know us.

SPEAKER_04

Well, you gotta remember the world thrives off chaos. Because that's what it was programmed to be like. Well, at least in our little loop, like the show paradise, we got our own little solar system of stupid.

SPEAKER_06

It's a great idea. But it's like, but it's like to to to spend your own hard-owned money, you're going through these steps and these processes, you're actually contacting Etsy witches. You believe this shit is actually real, yeah, and you're paying your hard-earned money for somebody that would probably give two shits about you. That wouldn't even look at you if they walk past you. It's like I don't get it. It's almost it seems sick to me, low-key. It's like it's almost a sickness.

SPEAKER_03

Like it's it's it's it definitely shows how people are so gullible. Like they don't know the story at all. But if you put something on social media, they'll believe it. They'll they'll take it and run with it. We don't know what happened to the NA relationship, we don't know the truth. But whatever she says is enough for them to, like you said, but now I'm gonna just go.

SPEAKER_04

I'm gonna just go ahead and just say it. I don't care about their relationship because I'm still not off the fact that Megan and Stalin is walking around with my boy Tori is locked up.

SPEAKER_06

I don't even know if I'm gonna touch them now.

SPEAKER_03

That's another topic. We're not touching the touchy on all the topics. Little touchy touchy thing, uh huh.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah, I mean, hey, gotta be starting, style thing. Go check out that Michael.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah. Hey, listen. I mean, shout out to the fans. The Tori Langs fans that they holding it down. Hold it down, man. Hold it down for him. He needs y'all. Y'all need to keep up that support that hope.

SPEAKER_06

Hey, yeah. Hey, listen. Michael, there's some holes in that case, but at the same time, it's like, man, I mean, they done proved he didn't take the stand like he should have.

SPEAKER_03

I feel like they're gonna come out with a whole nother doc documentary in like 10 years, and it's gonna be a lot more information about what really happened.

SPEAKER_06

But I mean, it's like if we in that we in that era where it's like, don't snitch, man. Don't snitch. And you stay solid. Yeah, ain't no snitching. He stayed solid. He stayed solid, and now he just gotta, you gotta stay with the consequences. We doing a solid time. Yeah, it is what it is. But you can just gotta own up to that.

SPEAKER_04

No, but think about that though. It could be bigger than that. Because think about his life was on the line. Somebody that was doing life stabbed him up. Yeah. He already doing life. So just imagine he might have got another warning somewhere. You know what I'm saying? Behind closed doors. And it's like, hey, you speak. This is what's gonna happen.

SPEAKER_06

And that could that could be a conspiracy. But again, it starts with him. Like you had all the control to get on the stand. If you really, if you really wanted to plead your case, you could have done that shit right there in the courtroom, but you chose not to take the stand. So I and I I agree. Like if if he's wrongfully convicted, hey it is what it is. But it's like, bro, you gotta take accountability. If you want to stick to that not snitching shit, you trying to be cool, you street, hey, then stick with it.

SPEAKER_04

But it could be a it could be a power play for him. Because think about it. If his life is on the line and all he wanna do is just get out, once he out. Okay, so put it like this. Would you rather I already know the answer? Would you rather die in prison or die outside?

SPEAKER_06

Die outside. Okay, so I'm taking the damn stand. So what the hell are we talking about?

SPEAKER_04

So no, what I'm saying is he can take the I'm just saying from his standpoint, it could be some shit.

SPEAKER_06

So you saying if he takes the stand, he could die outside. I don't know.

SPEAKER_04

If he takes the stand, he could probably die in prison because somebody threatening his life if he decided to say something.

SPEAKER_06

But he didn't take the stand and somebody was still threatening his life. So it's like, shit, damn if you do, damn if you don't.

SPEAKER_04

I mean, yeah. It's like you know, but I mean, like it, like she was saying, you never know. You just you just never know. Plus, it's too much stuff going on out here for us to be worried about celebrities. I mean, we we check in, check out, yeah, but it's just like imagine how much downtime you really got.

SPEAKER_03

Exactly. You spending you you have all the time in the world to go find some ex view witches while you're sitting on the couch and life is passing you by.

SPEAKER_06

Right. I really can't believe that.

SPEAKER_03

What's that school called?

SPEAKER_06

We can dive into that.

SPEAKER_03

You sitting on the couch and your life is passing you by.

SPEAKER_06

Uh, I don't know. It's Everest. I think it was Everest. Because it nigga, he looked like Mike Eps. He looked like Mike Ebbs. I remember him. He used to make me seem like a worthless piece of shit.

SPEAKER_01

I know, at 12 years old. I'm like, fuck, I'm not doing shit with my life.

unknown

Alright.

SPEAKER_06

Alright, this is a last story. This shit was kind of weird too, but like y'all know robots, AI, that shit on the rise. I don't even know if y'all seen this, but it was like a marathon that they did in China, and they raced robots. And one of the robots that won had the fastest marathon time ever. I think it was like 50 minutes. They finished a marathon.

SPEAKER_03

Wow.

SPEAKER_06

Um, so them them robots getting faster. I was talking shit before, because I seen a video of them chasing pigs and shit, and they was moving mad slow, but no, them motherfuckers being up. But um, but there was actually uh a robot that um that got detained by police because uh it was terrorizing an elderly woman on the street. So um it this happened in the city of Macau, uh and it was a 70-year-old, um, and she actually ended up in the hospital uh because of the four foot four-inch uh robot. But basically, um it was a video. I I might put a video up, but it was the woman yelling at the robot, and um it was a Unitree G1 model, never even heard of it, but she she was yelling at the robot saying, You're making my heart race.

SPEAKER_07

And um I know, I know.

SPEAKER_06

But the the woman, it says the woman was walking along the street looking at her cell phone when she realized something was following her closely behind, and she was startled when she found out it was a damn robot. In the footage, the the robot was seen raising both arms as he was scolded uh by the woman. And I so I guess he I don't know if he was about to hit her or something, and then the the woman basically like hit the hit the robot. Um But she uh they said that there was no physical contact, so the robot didn't actually like hit her, but she was taken to the hospital where she was examined. So I don't know what the hell. I don't know if she just got scared because it was walking up on her. But hey man, y'all go watch our robot because she getting crazy.

SPEAKER_03

Right. They doing that to grandma. They did that to grandma, but ain't nobody ain't nobody saying that. What the hell you did that to Ray Ray going walking down the street?

SPEAKER_01

And this is the go to the corner store to just get some freaking airheads.

SPEAKER_06

But this shit funny though, because the police actually detained them and they they the the authorities warned them and said um it said uh damn, where is that? Oh yeah, yeah, it said um be mind please be mindful of endangering or frightening pedestrians. And then they also said um looks like this robot needs a lawyer, and they said that the robot's going to jail. They were just joking with it.

SPEAKER_01

You know what? I'm not even gonna until police again, because I have a few comments about that.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, the robot's not even safe. Oh my goodness they gonna lock the robots up.

SPEAKER_03

Wow. I mean, the fact that these robots are more and more and more like all in the streets is crazy, and then we're just getting a little more comfortable with it. Like, even walking AT's campus and you see all the robots, like the little shit. Yeah, like it's just gonna continue to grow where everywhere we go, we see robots. Like, I went to Bojangles and I don't I'm not in fast food.

SPEAKER_06

Girl, clapping that.

SPEAKER_03

Drive through I'm not in fast food drive-through lanes often, but I just realized that they don't even use real people no more.

SPEAKER_04

No, but they didn't but they can hear you in the in the restaurant while you're talking.

SPEAKER_03

But I was so surprised because the robot I yes I did, because I said, Can I get customer service? Can I get a human? Yeah.

SPEAKER_06

What was your order? Oh, that was when you was ordered.

SPEAKER_03

I was so irritated because my the robot was getting my like my order wrong and they didn't understand how I talk.

SPEAKER_06

Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_03

Can I get customer service?

SPEAKER_06

That's probably how you was talking to the women.

SPEAKER_03

So like the lady understood how I talk. Can I get some sweat dang?

SPEAKER_06

The robot was like, um, what was the.

SPEAKER_03

But like, it's just becoming more and more common where like soon in 10 years, robots are gonna be walking down the street all the time like we are.

SPEAKER_06

They about to be patrolling the neighborhood. Like the winkle, you know, there's security out here, but they gotta have security.

SPEAKER_01

Raise the robots in our hoods in the hood so we can have a hood robot.

SPEAKER_06

You can have a hood, but you know, but you think when it doesn't, but they're gonna know how they can't. You gotta think the same system that that's in the neighborhoods and stuff now is the same system that built the robots. They're gonna build them robots to think just like how this system is. No, let me tell y'all what you think about.

SPEAKER_03

Go ahead.

SPEAKER_04

It's gonna be off topic, but on topic. Did y'all see what uh what they said about uh Elon Musk? I'm not surprised. How uh he it was something, and he was like, he don't want black people to have access to something or whatever. So imagine if they making robots through Tesla, them them robots gonna be programmed to hate us. Yeah. So it's like then you're gonna need people to be in those chat boxes, because I I'm actually in one of them where you help program the robots or whatever, because I wanted to know, like, what y'all feeding this?

SPEAKER_06

Oh, um and I was just like they feeding it all the shit that they could have to have a fucking DEI robot. They're gonna have, I'm telling you, they're gonna have they're gonna have they're gonna have all them all them robots is gonna be built to hate us. I'm gonna let y'all know right now.

SPEAKER_03

Listen.

SPEAKER_06

But um, but yeah, that's all I have for this kind of news guy.

unknown

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03

Well, you ended off real depressing.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah, well, we're gonna we're gonna say. Man, listen, you're gonna be living a video game for real. Yeah. And be mindful. Them blue lights that y'all see in certain areas.

SPEAKER_06

I don't stay away, I'll stay away from belief.

SPEAKER_04

No, the the blue lights. Like, okay, you know the street, the street lights? Oh yeah, yeah. Maybe y'all should talk about that in y'all next podcast. Yeah. When you look it up, they uh chat give you some bullshit. And it'd be like, oh, it's just the honor are policemen and ambulance. No.

SPEAKER_06

I ain't never seen them.

SPEAKER_04

No. So you go over there near like Ram Street and stuff like that, uh, like other area, whatever.

SPEAKER_06

You see them like, uh pay attention to that song. I ain't been over there in a minute.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah, they they have them in certain areas. Exactly. Yeah, and and and going back off of this one movie, uh, Who Cloned Tyrone, putting it in your face. They they letting you see like this is what we're doing. So that that part of the movie where they pull up and they in the hood, and then they see somebody getting kidnapped and thrown into a van and they skirt off. It's like the symbolism of like, yo, we we programming you, we're gonna throw out another clone. Like, oh you died? Cool. I want the same, I want you to keep doing the same thing. So, like the human cloning, the robots, all the other stuff, you have to really look. Now it's hard to believe certain stuff when you see videos because anybody can go use AI. You can do you can do everything that you can in your possible power to be like, oh, let me go put this in a program to see. Oh, is this AI generated or uh is this real or whatever the case? All I know is God is real for sure. Um, you know. Uh nobody big ain't nothing bigger than him. And it's just like you're gonna have to be close to him because yeah, we all gotta go one day. But I'll rather I rather pick my side and let people know what side I'm on. So it's just like if I'm gonna be hated, I'm gonna always forever be loved, you know what I'm saying, by something that can never be defeated. You know what I mean? And and think about how the devil operate. The devil's like, look, I know I'm gonna lose, but I'm still gonna take whoever I can. So it's like, damn. That concept in general is just mind blowing. So it's like when you see all this stuff going on, and we're talking about the government, we're talking about police, all this, yeah, whatever woot-do-woop. It's like just move somewhere where you can actually elevate yourself. Like how Dave Chappelle. There's a lot of stuff people won't talk about because they know they gotta make these power moves behind the scenes, and then when they get a little further, then they're able to speak out. Because now if you notice, Dave Chappelle's just like, man, I'ma I'm gonna just tell it all. I don't care. Yeah, yeah. Read them between the lines. Yeah, man.

SPEAKER_03

You gotta have a higher power. You gotta believe in something other than yourself.

SPEAKER_07

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03

So I agree with you. I agree with you, and you're speaking facts. Um, that's all you have for cotton news now. Well, it's time for your favorite part of the show. It's time for your favorite part of the show. It's yay, Renee, with T. Yay. And for this Yay or Nay segment with TJ, I know we talk about relationships and couples and all that stuff, but we didn't really talk about breaking up. And so I wanted to ask you guys, you know, should it be normal? Is it okay to announce your breakup on social media? We've seen, of course, celebrities do it, but I'm not talking about celebrities. I'm talking about us ordinary people. We've seen us our friends post I'm single on your story, letting everybody know, like, it's over. They delete all the photos, or sometimes your friends go off about their significant other and tell their whole followers like what happened. Is it okay? Should we announce to others when we're single?

SPEAKER_04

Um, some people announce that they're single to let it be known that, like, hey, publicly, I'm not dealing with the situation that some of y'all might know that I've been in. You know what I'm saying? And and and that kind of like tells your friends and your family, like, hey, I'm letting that that burden go. I've seen where we went on deployment and like uh this one officer, she keeps talking about like how uh she keeps talking about how she married somebody when she got home, and he beat her ass. You know what I'm saying? When when she got home, and she keeps posting all her marriage uh pictures and stuff with him, and she was like, This is the worst thing ever. So you can tell she keeps thinking about it, keep thinking about it, and it's and it's like a significant point in her life because she's just like, dang, I went overseas, came back, got married. This was the worst decision ever, blah blah blah blah blah. And I just want to let y'all know, like, hey, I'm still fighting through this. I thought I was okay last month. I was done talking about it, but it's still fucking with me. So I guess it just depends on who it is. Do I want to know everybody's business? Like going on Twitter. I I stood up today. I looked out the window after I opened the blinds.

SPEAKER_01

And then I broke up with my bitch. Right.

SPEAKER_04

And then my bitch broke up with me, but I already broke up with her first. Like, what? I don't care.

SPEAKER_06

That's all I'm saying.

SPEAKER_04

I don't care. I know.

SPEAKER_06

I genuinely don't care. That should be cringe worthy. Cause it's like Yeah, because it's like, why? We like like you said, like, bro, we don't go like we we we're gonna assume that when you pop out and you doing you you with a different girl, you doing your thing. We gonna we're gonna be able to put two. No pictures deleted. Yeah, we're gonna put we're gonna be able to put two and two together. You don't gotta come out and make an announcement. Even when people be like what you said, like people go on there and they they say, uh, don't don't nobody text or call me today. Why the hell you posted that on Instagram? We don't give a fuck. You you gonna go on social media, you gonna go on social media and post, uh I'm I'm out of it today. Don't nobody text me or call me. But you took time to go on social media to just say that.

SPEAKER_04

So part of them wants the attention because it's a good idea. That's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_06

That's what I'm saying. Yeah. Like, damn. You want somebody to actually call me this up? Yeah. You really don't want nobody talking. So yeah, that should be crazy.

SPEAKER_03

Well, I think I look on the other, like, I'm trying to think about it. Like, I can understand how someone might want to post on social, you know, I'm single, because guess what? You know, you're back in the streets, you want to let people know you. That's what you want. But then also open.

SPEAKER_04

I'm so you know, that managed to hit up last night.

SPEAKER_03

Maybe your friends and family, maybe the dude you've been messing with has just been dogging you for a while. And your friends and family and everyone have been telling you like you need to, you need to let him go. And you are finally, you finally let him go, and you just want to tell the world that you are free, and you just say, I'm single, I can get it. I might get it. I get why you would want to do that. The only reason I would say don't tell people that you're single is if y'all are on and off and y'all break up and y'all make up and y'all break your makeup. But if you were one and none, I don't see nothing wrong with just putting a like, show what you're actioning. I'm single.

SPEAKER_06

You don't need no word. Show what the actions. They gonna see. But they don't know.

SPEAKER_03

I mean, but they they might feel excited and happy that they finally free.

SPEAKER_06

No, no, no.

SPEAKER_03

And they want people to slide in the DMs right now.

SPEAKER_06

Tell the people that's closest to you. You can tell your friends if you want your family to know. But the thing is, people be doing that shit and they friends don't even be knowing. They tell Instagram and social media first. Because it's like a big announcement before they tell anybody. That's ain't that crazy. People take social media, they put social media on that high of a pedestal that they are willing to tell a bunch of strangers their deepest, darkest secrets or whatever they're going through, but won't even hit up they they friends, won't hit up the family. Like, social media is your is your is your outlet? Yeah. Take a break.

SPEAKER_03

Looks like it's two in one.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, yeah. I ain't going to do that. If you're yeah, I'm laughing at you if you do that.

SPEAKER_03

Okay, guys. So for this year and a segment with TJ, should you announce on social media? Let's just say, I say nay. I agree with you guys. I'm not voting. You shouldn't announce it. Keep it to yourself. Just with your action. Lots of people don't care. Go out, smell the roses, take a walk.

SPEAKER_04

They really smell like boo boo boo.

SPEAKER_03

Nobody, nobody needs to know through social media. So that is it. Case is closed. Doop, doop, doop, doop. That's the gavel if you was questioning what it was. Alright. Well, this was a great show, guys. I enjoyed myself. I think this was so much fun.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, well, I mean, we was way, we was everywhere. But I appreciate it. I appreciate it. We were swerving in and out.

SPEAKER_04

But it's it's fine because to be honest, I feel like this podcast, at least, even, you know, and I look forward to more, it just goes to show you, like, we be thinking about so much, but we give so much time to, you know, our jobs and stuff like that. So we be like drained, and we really don't get to give a lot of energy to what we need to be establishing. Because one thing I do want to bring up, if I can, is that like, because Floyd Mayweather said something about, you know, how you giving eight hours to somebody and you ain't giving eight hours to yourself. Right. Like, think about it. If you want to get out of the loop, you can get out of the loop. You just gotta find the niche. Put that extra work on. You gotta think about it. It's just like, I'm gonna tell you something about like trap niggas, right? It's like you're supposed to get in the trap, make a little money, and get out, right? Because you looking at the system and they they giving you something, they putting all these drugs and all this other stuff to put you in the penitentiary, first and foremost, but then they get mad because they're like, damn, making money. Yeah, making money. Yeah. So it's like use it together.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, get your money and get out. It's backwards now. People people become rappers and then they start trapping. And then they start killing.

SPEAKER_00

Well, look at it.

SPEAKER_04

It's like it's like y'all Yeah, yeah, y'all just did a whole damn. But think about it. Some of them, some of them people get off because you you gotta think about it. And I'm gonna just say this. They got secret meetings where they they letting them know, okay, you sign to us, we want you to put out this type of music. And I want you to do this. So if you get caught up, I might pardon you.

SPEAKER_07

Right.

SPEAKER_04

If you if you put out this image, I might I might pardon you. Don't worry about it.

SPEAKER_06

And why why you why you think Kodak got pardoned? Why you think why you think uh who else who else he pardoned that was?

SPEAKER_04

NBA Youngboy.

SPEAKER_06

Why you think NBA Youngboy got part in? Hey, listen, man, and I love to see black people winning, but when y'all putting poison in the streets, I don't even need it, cuz. Yeah, yeah. I don't even need it. That's facts. But I appreciate you for coming through social. Um and you if you want, you can shout out your socials. So if you want to shout out anything you got going on as we wrap up.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah. So first of all, uh, shout out to black women, first and foremost. Um, I I gotta I gotta show love to y'all, man, because y'all always been. Um and I and I'ma say this it ain't nothing like having a uh a black woman on your team. Um because I was raised by a black woman, and because of her, I'm able to say I'm established in different areas. I'm driven, I'm I'm motivated to accomplish certain things. So it's just like, yeah, I might encounter a a bad black woman, but it's really just a person. Like if you take the colour off for a second, it's really just that ignorant person that I encounter.

SPEAKER_06

And it may not have been well, yeah.

SPEAKER_04

So so so just in just in general, shout out to black women. Uh shout out to our fellow men out here doing their thing, the ones that's doing what they supposed to do. Um, do we have the answers all the time? No. But if if push comes to shove, I'm looking at my woman and I'm like, hey, wherever I don't got the percentage that I don't have, I take yours because I I need you some days. In order to be able to lead you, I need to be able to look back or look to the side or look in front of me, depending on the situation, and be able to say, damn, okay. Because I'm gonna lose my way sometimes. I'm gonna get caught up in whatever it is my task is and forget sometimes to like walk by the faith. Or hey, Uh, let me entrust in my person because think about it. When you have your own system, like how y'all do, y'all married. People hate y'all because y'all married. But but the but the marriage ain't the ain't necessarily the issue. The issue is that it's a workable marriage. It's a accountable marriage. It's a, oh, y'all on a podcast, y'all talking about y'all roasting each other, y'all doing this, this and third. It's it's so functional. Somebody's going to hate on the idea that y'all came together, formulated a plan, and they don't even know what y'all go through. Y'all don't even they don't even know the preparation it takes to be able to put this show together and be able to say, damn.

SPEAKER_06

Y'all ain't see her give me a black eye behind the scenes. Y'all ain't seen none of that shit. Y'all ain't see her push push me down. Guys, we don't do that.

SPEAKER_03

We don't do that. No.

SPEAKER_06

Y'all ain't see her holding me at gunpoint.

SPEAKER_03

What gunpoints? You're gonna have to erase that. What?

SPEAKER_04

That's crazy.

SPEAKER_03

That's crazy.

SPEAKER_06

I'll just I'll just play it though. Yeah, no, that's real, man.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah, and um, and and and shout out shout out um get all those shoutouts. Yeah, just you know, shout out to God for sure, man, because without him, yeah, I was gonna add that to what you were saying.

SPEAKER_03

Your woman, but also God, and leading, leading by that, like leading by God and looking at him and praying, and that will keep you on the path.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah, um, for sure. And and like I said, shout out to y'all because y'all are coming together and y'all doing something. And uh it's funny because I I be having people get on me about saying, my little this, my little that. You know, your your little podcast ain't a little podcast, it's a big podcast because it's on it's on a level of which you can communicate on a natural level. It ain't got nothing to do with money, it ain't got nothing to do with none of the BS is just like let's talk that talk. Right. And you forcing people, well not forcing people, but I'ma just for lack of better words, you forcing people to think about like well damn, if they can do it, I can do it.

SPEAKER_07

Right, right.

SPEAKER_04

Especially those that's close to y'all. So if they got excuses in their own household, they be like, they making it work. And they know a little bit of y'all business. Yeah, you know what I mean? Versus the average watcher, a viewer.

SPEAKER_07

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04

So yeah, just keep making it work, keep pushing.

SPEAKER_06

Um and I also wonder, uh, my phone cut. No, you good. We reached 107 subscribers.

SPEAKER_03

Oh yeah. But also, we had what 500 listeners listeners this year before What so far this year? I think so. So far on our our listeners. Shout out to our listeners. I know like we forget about our listeners. We always talk about YouTube. But um Spotify, all the other pod Apple, all the other podcast ads who are actually listening to us and not watching us. Thank you guys for listening. We really appreciate y'all. We appreciate you, Tay, for coming today.

SPEAKER_06

Appreciate it. Social, man. Like I said, man. We're gonna be yeah, you said today. Child social. We can put it in the show. We'll put we'll put his uh we'll put his Instagram on on there if he wants it. Uh yeah. Or if there's anything else he got going on, any other things you can follow him on, we'll we'll put on the screen. You're a friend to the show, so please come back. Yeah, man. You're about to bring your lady next time, man. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. We gotta be your blessing.

SPEAKER_04

Oh yeah.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, we gotta meet blessing. Well, I've met her, but yeah, you got me a blessing.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah, that's that's her name in my phone, uh, Miss Blessing. Oh, you know, it's because she's your blessing.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, she's your blessing.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah, yeah. When that when that screen on that screen, when her name pop up, and like Miss Blessing calling, y'all should see it in lift. When I be doing lift, Miss Blessing calling. I shut up.

SPEAKER_07

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_03

Mind your business. Mind your business. I love that. Thank you guys for listening.

SPEAKER_06

Man, like, comment, subscribe, and tune in for the next episode, man.

SPEAKER_03

Bye.

SPEAKER_06

Peace.