Between Random And Real Podcast EP 52 I Ride or Die

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Tap in for a crazy episode where we talk about the Nature Boy Documentary, Is there a problem with having a best friend of the opposite sex while married, a girl missed a year and half of school by lying, and much more! 

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Song: "When You're Alone" By JustKhi Ft. Michael Knight (ON ALL MAJOR PLATFORMS)

Transcript

SPEAKER_06 0:05

Well it do what it is. How you feel, y'all now? Tune in between random and real shit boy, just Kai.

SPEAKER_04 0:10

And it's your girl, TJ.

SPEAKER_06 0:12

We're back with another episode, man. Sorry for the delay. I mean, you know what I mean? Things just been moving.

SPEAKER_04 0:19

Things been moving, but we can't listen, we've been making up excuses.

SPEAKER_06 0:23

Yeah, it's just been moving, man. We've been busy, busy, busy, busy.

SPEAKER_04 0:26

We have been busy. Things have been moving. But we're happy to be here. We're happy for another show. We didn't been missing talking to you guys. I hope you guys are excited to talk to us or at least listen to our voices.

SPEAKER_06 0:40

For another great show. Gave y'all a break. So I mean, should be y'all should be good now. I mean, tell tell tell the folks like why why have you been MIA? What has been going on?

SPEAKER_04 0:51

Honestly, we just like really have been focused on business, our other business ventures, guys. Um, I don't know if I talked a little bit about my I mean you should.

SPEAKER_06 1:03

This is another outlet right here. Yeah, yeah, it is an outlet.

SPEAKER_04 1:07

So I am the owner and founder of Storytime Visuals, which is a video production and social media marketing agency here in the 704 Charlotte, North Carolina, serving not just Charlotte, but the Carolinas. Um I am serving clients who are businesses, brands, who are looking for like showing theirs like showing their stories, telling their stories visually on social media, marketing, and just wanting to be heard out there, wanting to be seen. So if you're a business that you feel like you don't have those visuals, you're not seen on your social media the way you want to be. You're not seen on whether it's not just social media, but like whether you need commercials and you want to put commercial streaming online on a Hulu's on a nub or well, who else has commercials? Cable regular TV, cable regular TV, and you just need the visuals for that. That's what I'm here for is for you guys and helping businesses grow by storytelling. And so this past month we've had multiple clients, um, and we just been uh filming, editing, and so I think that's took a lot of our focus, but we're learning how to manage everything. I I don't want to say it's like taking our focus as if we're not gonna be doing the podcast no more. No, that's not it. We're learning how to manage the business, the podcast, music.

SPEAKER_06 2:49

Yeah, just trying to prioritize it all. We're trying to figure out the flow and scheduling and balancing, but I mean, we're gonna get there.

SPEAKER_04 2:57

And our relationship and us as well. Like prioritizing like our relationship because like we do a lot, we have like hobbies, we have businesses, we have things that we love doing that we do mostly together. Like, Kai has been my partner in all of in everything, and without him, I wouldn't have story time. Like, yeah, without him, I wouldn't have story time.

SPEAKER_06 3:20

Only she has story time.

SPEAKER_04 3:22

He has literally been my partner. He's literally been on every shoe, he's been he's been filming, he's been like doing photography, like learning quickly everything in in my world, and like I couldn't have done it without him. And he's just been like a hella good support. Like, it's always nice when you got your best friend when you're doing something. It's just it makes you feel more confident, it makes you feel more like less anxious because you just got, you know, if you ever do something you like you're scared to do, you're gonna ask your best friend. Like, hey, can you come with me? You're gonna a party and your crush is gonna be there, and you're scared to go to that party by yourself. You're gonna ask your best friend to be there, and your best friend just gonna make everything better. And if your crush, you find out that your crush is kissing another girl in the back of the party, and he's making out, and mean meanwhile, he doesn't even know that you like him, and then you end up spilling alcohol in your shirt.

SPEAKER_06 4:18

So you're gonna ask me to go to a party with you so you can see your crush.

SPEAKER_04 4:25

Well, this is just an example for other people to relate. It's just an example for other people to relate. I I that that you you got me stuttering here. I don't know what to say. I don't know what to say. Come on, guys, help me out here. Help me out.

SPEAKER_06 4:43

That's crazy. That's crazy right there.

SPEAKER_04 4:45

But yeah, everything's better when you do it with your best friend, so yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_06 4:48

No, I mean it's been fun though too. I can't lie. It's been real fun. Trying learning the the camera the new you know, the camera stuff, um, being in it in it, like, you know, and and and having that responsibility to to capture those moments that that um you know the clients want. I mean, it it does seem like a lot of pressure, but I mean at the same time it is a lot of fun. And time be flying when um when we recording, like I don't even be paying attention. It's just like one minute, all right. We we just get there, you know, one o'clock, next thing you know, it's the event open.

SPEAKER_04 5:23

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 5:24

It's just like just constant movement, always on your feet. But I mean it's fun though.

SPEAKER_04 5:28

It is, it's a lot of fun, and um it makes me think about like we've always considered whether or not we wanted to do weddings.

SPEAKER_06 5:41

So if we do wedding, bro, we're gonna have we're gonna need at least like at least two or to three more people, maybe. Two to three. That wet wedding's gonna be a lot, man. So photographers, my fellow photographers, hey, listen, stay, stay, stay, uh, stay on call. Because we definitely might might have to reach out to some folks, get a little bit, you know, a little bit of hope. Um that's gonna that's gonna be a lot.

SPEAKER_04 6:09

Yeah, yeah, it's definitely a lot. But I feel like we could do it.

SPEAKER_06 6:15

Yeah, man, we do anything put in mind to it.

SPEAKER_04 6:16

If we do anything we could put our mind to, of course we would get uh we wouldn't, I wouldn't do photography. So of course we would get photography.

SPEAKER_06 6:23

Yeah, I feel like we have to get somebody to do that. Photography.

SPEAKER_02 6:26

I can care, yeah. No, I can care less, but I'm not getting no photography.

SPEAKER_06 6:30

Yeah, no, we ain't doing that.

SPEAKER_04 6:32

But um, yeah, y'all, so that's what we have been doing. We've been busy. Have have we shot since your music video has come out?

SPEAKER_06 6:45

I think so. I feel like we have.

SPEAKER_04 6:50

Alright, well, guys, just another reminder. Damn is out everywhere.

SPEAKER_06 6:56

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, go tap in.

SPEAKER_04 6:57

Yeah, go tap in, go download it on Apple Music, all your music platforms, whether that's the first music video she ever did, too.

SPEAKER_06 7:05

Like, she never shot a music video. Um, so I mean, out of all music videos I done had, that that probably was the best one for real. So that for that to be her first time doing that. I mean, it came out, came out real good. Had a lot of fun shooting it. Um I I wish we captured some some more of the behind-the-scenes moments, but it was it was definitely a good time. All the extras on set, friends popped out, uh family popped out. My dad, my dad came out just to watch. He had the day off. He was like, man, I'm gonna just come out there just to watch. So I mean it was it was it was overall it was it was definitely a fun, fun, good time. Um, but did does that make you want to do videos for other people?

SPEAKER_02 7:47

I kept friends, I enjoyed it. But I don't know.

SPEAKER_06 7:52

I feel like the I feel like when people like I don't know music videos today, they be wanting like so many effects. I don't be wanting effects like that in my video, like all the flashing and all the junk because it's like I want I feel like simplicity is like the cleanest. Like if you can have a good quality video, you have good, you know, good transitions. I mean, I love it, but I don't like it's nowadays they be having so much flash effects, and then don't be no concept. And I think that's when shooting music videos for other people can can kind of get like boring from the fun. Yeah, take the fun away. Because you're just standing in front of the camera, waving the gun around, or standing with your pot, that's boring, bro. Like have like a concept, build like a storyline that we can, you know, really have fun, you know, creating. But I I think that's why this one was so fun.

SPEAKER_04 8:38

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 8:38

The storyline.

SPEAKER_04 8:39

Honestly, that's my thing. That's my whole brand is storytelling and cinematic visuals. And so when it comes to music video, that's my favorite part is creating a story, creating a concept, and then bringing it to life. So, like, I know if I did continue to do music videos, like I would have my own style. And I feel like a lot of like videographers, producers, directors, they have their style in their lane and they kind of want to stay in that lane. Like, my style would be cinematic, my style would be symbolism, like my style would be like a Kendra Lamar music video, or like uh R J Cole music video, or maybe a Big Sean or something like or oh the music video that um Chester Rapper just came out with, or oh well, uh Hurricane Wisdom. Yeah, I didn't watch the whole music. I saw clips, but like my style would be cinematic, it ain't too much. It wouldn't be like a whole bunch of effects, edits, and XYZ. Like, that's just not me. So if you wanted that music, that videographer, then you would just find someone who gets it.

SPEAKER_06 9:42

Yeah, find somebody else who do that.

SPEAKER_04 9:44

But I really enjoyed doing your music video. I so I feel like I would do another. I don't know if it would be for someone else or just you.

SPEAKER_06 9:52

Yeah, yeah. Because it's the reason I brought that up because um one of my homies, he had he had asked about like if anybody knows some videographers, and I I was talking to him, I'm like, man, you know, my my wife shot my video, but like that was her first time doing a music video. So I don't that ain't really like what um what we wanna that's not where we want the focus to be when it comes to like storytime visual. I know we want to focus more so on like businesses and and and corporations and and and maybe even like like like black like we did black and hr. Like I don't know what you would call like maybe like social group or organization, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 10:28

So we kind of want to focus more on that, but um however I would still take the money right now while I'm trying to like raise money. So I think I still would do it.

SPEAKER_06 10:37

Would you would you do it if it's if it's it's just like standing around doing that, or would you only do it if it is like a concept video?

SPEAKER_04 10:45

I would I would tell them I only do it if it's a concept video. I'll try to motivate to do a concept video.

SPEAKER_06 10:53

You know, with a bunch of people around.

SPEAKER_04 10:56

Listen, I can do edits.

SPEAKER_06 10:57

Yeah, you can do it. It's just like wow, it's just but I don't know.

SPEAKER_04 11:01

Yeah, I don't it's not that I don't like edits or whatever. I can do edits, but it's just gotta be more to it. It's just if it's just like a standing there, the typical, then probably not. But if you want to do something different and you got a story, yeah, and you like want to be creative, then I'm your girl.

SPEAKER_06 11:18

Yeah, yeah. Well, y'all here, folks, man. We we we hitting the ground running. We're gonna we're gonna work on getting our drone license too. We already drone, so yeah, we're gonna hopefully start doing them drone shots, getting some real estate um clientele. So we're definitely excited. We got a lot of stuff in store.

SPEAKER_04 11:35

There's so much going on. I feel like 2026, the whole like our whole goals for 2026 looks a lot different than 2025. Yeah, like I was thinking about in my 2025 and have it. I had a lot of fun that year, and then now this year I'm just like money, money, money. I'm just like building, building, building, but that's okay. I like that you know times change, yeah. But a lot of things is happening, a lot of good things is coming out, you know.

SPEAKER_06 12:05

Yeah, so I mean, I guess we can go ahead and start diving into it. I know um bruh, y'all tell you watching some weird shit.

SPEAKER_04 12:12

I do, I watch as y'all know, I watch reality television, but I also just like got in I just started watching Nature Boy Hood Horrors on YouTube. How many of you guys are watching Hood Horrors on YouTube? If you're not, then I feel like you should, because that Nature Boy documentary is probably one of the most in-depth documentaries I have ever seen. It made me think, like, whoever is the whoever is the producer of this documentary, like, are were you in the cult?

SPEAKER_03 12:45

Because you know way too much about he he's telling us what happened on Sunday, the January 19th in the morning at 6 a.m. Like, he knows every single detail.

SPEAKER_04 12:56

He literally put pictures of his child home um like uh apartment up in New York. Like, how do you get that? I could have sworn he even put the apartment up, bro.

SPEAKER_03 13:07

I was like, hey yo, how do you know what which apartment that is?

SPEAKER_06 13:11

I feel like people like that, they want to um they want to have a documentary made about them. They're willing, they're giving out that information willingly. So when he probably heard that, he was like, he probably had a whole sit down with him, probably was meeting with him every every day for a whole month.

SPEAKER_04 13:26

Five, six hours. Like, but there is so much in-depth information. First off, if you never heard of the documentary, um Hood Horse, Nature Boy, it's on YouTube. Um Nature Boy, sorry, I can't speak. It's on YouTube, look it up. It got like four 40 something parts. I haven't even scratched the surface, guys. I'm on like episode 10. And this each episode is like 30 minutes long, but it's really in depth about this cult leader. Um, I can't remember his name, but he goes by Nature Boy. Um, and his story is like literally wow. Black guy, by the way, um, who claimed to be part of the conscious, claimed, claimed to be part of the conscious community, was not. Um, he was a uh what's the word that you guys what's the word?

SPEAKER_06 14:20

Uh misogynistic.

SPEAKER_04 14:22

Okay, well, I'll take that. Give me another word.

SPEAKER_06 14:25

Crazy.

SPEAKER_04 14:26

Crazy imposter. Um bozo. Bozo. He literally led people to travel all the way to what Central America, South America, yeah, somewhere in the middle of America. Somewhere in the central Central America, um, to start like a village where they were, you know, living in nature and you know, being a part of uh being one with nature.

SPEAKER_00 14:54

Um and he was the leader of this village and he I don't even know how he did everything you can think of.

SPEAKER_04 15:06

Like not everything you can think of, but like guys, you just have to watch the documentary. Like he these people were treating him like he was the king of the village, and he had all of the women be his wives, and and then when he was done with them, he would tell the men, oh, you can have so-and-so. And then when he got jealous, he asked for so-and-so back. Like he was sleeping with all the women, he was making them like uh call him their like their king and their leader, and it was it was just some even sad stuff about like at one time they couldn't have children in a village, and he was making them get rid of it, yeah, and all types of stuff. So it's like a crazy documentary, but it's really interesting. He came from New York, he lived in Atlanta, he was like a gay stripper in Atlanta. So how I don't know how you come from gay porn star stripper to cult leader in Central America in the waterfalls, you know, living in tents.

SPEAKER_00 16:10

If you think that's interesting, go watch the documentary because you would be amazed. Like, how the heck do you go from okay?

SPEAKER_06 16:18

But it's like you got followers too. That's that's what's even crazier. So, like, he's crazy. Just imagine how crazy the people are that's actually following this man and taking on his ideology ideology, but it also show you like how easy it is for someone to make some some shit up, especially like when when it comes to like religion and stuff like that, like some some people just going back to slave times, how they how they push like certain ideologies uh upon slaves, and they're just growing with it. It it would like they didn't question nothing, they just they just like it's so easy for people to make stuff make something up and then really create a following.

SPEAKER_04 16:56

Yeah, it's I mean at that time their lives depended on it.

SPEAKER_06 16:59

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. But it's just like it's just it's crazy.

SPEAKER_04 17:02

Their lives were at risk and they had to.

SPEAKER_06 17:04

It's just it's just but it is crazy.

SPEAKER_04 17:06

It's crazy how your life, you're not at risk, and people are just you know, see stuff on social media because a lot of these people saw him on social media, he was on um YouTube and and what are you about?

SPEAKER_06 17:16

Even the shit we was watching where the the the people was in Utah and uh the uh fuck bro, what they call it, the Mormon, the Mormon, but it was like this was I forgot the name of the documentary where he hit where he had all the the the he had like a bunch of families and daughters and wives, and and but he was just throwing in certain things that he that he made up and then tying it with you know what Christianity already is and trying to make it seem like you know the the things that they're doing is for God, but really it's it's not it's just it's just so crazy though. And then the the people actually believing them and following them in their life. I don't I don't know if they were in danger or not, but it's it's just so crazy. It's so crazy to me. That cult that cult shit is crazy.

SPEAKER_04 18:05

Is it the false prophet?

SPEAKER_06 18:06

Let me see. Or damn, I can't remember the name of that documentary.

SPEAKER_04 18:12

I'm trying to find it.

SPEAKER_06 18:13

That cult shit just so crazy to me, dog.

SPEAKER_04 18:16

Uh trust me, the false prophet. That's what she's talking about.

SPEAKER_06 18:19

That's what it is.

SPEAKER_04 18:19

Yeah, that documentary was crazy, guys. It was trust me the false prophet. That's on Netflix, and all the women were he was married, but he was married to like kids, kids, young girls, yeah.

SPEAKER_06 18:32

Young girls, yeah. So that was I sleeping with that, sleeping with the young girls, like pedophiles.

SPEAKER_04 18:40

Yeah, yeah. He he was on some, yeah, that was terrible. Uh, I will say Nature Boy, all the people who came to this village willingly came. Yeah, and they were all adults.

SPEAKER_06 18:50

Yeah, I mean same with that though, and they ain't they ain't taking nobody. Even some of the kids' parents was there. They were passed by their parents, but some of the kids' parents was even married to him.

SPEAKER_04 19:01

I know, but that's like you don't have a choice if your parents says, Okay, you're gonna marry this man.

SPEAKER_06 19:07

But I'm saying like the parents willingly like came came over there and bought them over there. It wasn't like they got kids.

SPEAKER_04 19:13

The parents, but the kids didn't get to uh like a say in that compared to Letterboy, they were like growing flying to Central America because they wanted to do in the village.

SPEAKER_06 19:24

But they start with the parents though. If they if it wasn't for if it wasn't for the parents, some kids wouldn't have been there.

SPEAKER_04 19:29

Oh yeah, yeah. The parents were yeah, the parent, I mean the parents should go, they should have gone to jail to me. I don't know.

SPEAKER_06 19:36

Yeah, I don't know how they have it. Maybe they did.

SPEAKER_04 19:38

I know that dad went to jail because he's he was sleeping with some of the kids. Go watch the documentary.

SPEAKER_06 19:44

It's another documentary. I we ain't got this written down, but crash, boy.

SPEAKER_04 19:49

Oh yeah, everybody's talking about crash right now. Everybody, I we've been on documentary bag. We've been watching all our documentaries recently.

SPEAKER_06 19:57

Why why y'all always feel the need to like I ain't trying, I ain't trying to get canceled now, but I ain't gonna say it. But like, bro, that girl crazy, bro. Something wrong with that girl.

SPEAKER_04 20:07

Uh you think something was crazy? I think you think something was wrong, man? I mean, obviously for her to do that was crazy. Don't get me wrong. I mean, she said she didn't do it in purpose. She shouldn't have to do it.

SPEAKER_06 20:19

She took her boyfriend life, and why y'all always gotta take the black man? Damn.

SPEAKER_04 20:25

She said she didn't do it.

SPEAKER_06 20:27

She did it. She's the only one that was driving.

SPEAKER_04 20:30

I mean, but are we gonna believe her?

SPEAKER_06 20:32

No.

SPEAKER_04 20:37

Oh man, no. No, she she did that shit.

SPEAKER_06 20:41

She did that shit. They said it was curves in the road. So, like, she trying to claim she passed out, bruh. Ain't no way you had control of the car if it was a curvy road. Ain't no break, ain't no breaking on the car, nothing. Killed that man, bruh.

SPEAKER_04 20:59

That was so sad. That was a sad documentary for sure.

SPEAKER_06 21:04

She intended, she intended for her to be gone too. She ain't want to have to deal with the repercussions from that. She thought she was gonna be gone too. And they was like, nah, we about to get your ass back to hell and sit your ass a jail.

SPEAKER_04 21:17

She they they locked her up when she was still limping.

SPEAKER_06 21:20

Yeah, in fact, she was still.

SPEAKER_04 21:22

She was still limping and they locked her up. I don't know. I mean, I I don't know.

SPEAKER_06 21:26

Yeah, and the parents is just as goofy.

SPEAKER_04 21:28

The parents were goofy.

SPEAKER_06 21:30

Alright, what the fuck?

SPEAKER_04 21:31

But if they gonna ride it out for their daughter, they did.

SPEAKER_06 21:34

I feel I feel it. I feel it. You know, I mean if my if my sh if I don't know, man. I'll probably be calling my my daughter a dumbass too, though. Like, what are you doing?

SPEAKER_04 21:45

But you still gonna love her? You still gonna put money on her books?

SPEAKER_06 21:48

Uh am I?

SPEAKER_04 21:49

Yes. What? What is wrong with you?

SPEAKER_06 21:52

I don't know. I feel like that your love is uh conditional. Yeah, I feel like you gotta learn you gotta learn your lesson. Like, I'm the type like I ain't I ain't the type that's gonna keep helping, keep helping. I feel like you know, if y'all gonna keep messing up, y'all gotta struggle a bit.

SPEAKER_04 22:05

This reminds me of a conversation.

SPEAKER_06 22:06

Y'all gotta struggle.

SPEAKER_04 22:07

Guys, this man the other day told me that he thinks if he, God forbid, this is never gonna happen. But if there was ever a time that he got locked up, that I would leave him. And I'm like, what?

SPEAKER_06 22:21

Yeah, I don't think she's gonna stay right.

SPEAKER_04 22:22

I am a rider die. Okay.

SPEAKER_03 22:27

I ain't going nowhere. Why would you think such a thing?

SPEAKER_04 22:30

You don't think I would go to the to the prison visits?

SPEAKER_06 22:33

I mean, you'll probably go the the go to the prison visits, but it's like you're gonna be missing so much that I won't be able to provide. Like from just touch and time and just physical presence, just being there, and we don't know what hard times you may be going through on the outside. Okay. Like it's I just feel like with with me not being there, you of course, like right now, you're not gonna sense that, but it's like if you're not getting the the time or the love that you are used to getting, it's gonna you're gonna feel some type of way. Okay. And it, I mean, of course, you know we ain't got no control over it.

SPEAKER_03 23:13

Right, right, right.

SPEAKER_06 23:14

But like, I just I just feel like you know, eventually you're just it's just gonna naturally just or not naturally, gradually just distance yourself.

SPEAKER_04 23:23

I'm a rider that I'm not gonna go nowhere. I could still have my side man, and then you're my main man, right? You you're not gonna first off, you wouldn't let me have another man if you were in prison.

SPEAKER_06 23:34

We're not together if you have another man.

SPEAKER_04 23:37

Why not? He's he's my temporary man. No, no. But when you get back, y'all switch places.

SPEAKER_06 23:44

No, it don't work like that.

SPEAKER_04 23:46

What?

SPEAKER_06 23:46

It don't work, it don't work like that.

SPEAKER_03 23:48

What?

SPEAKER_06 23:48

Nah, yeah. So you wouldn't let your So you so you so you were into polygamy. Take me together. You're into polygamy, that's what you're saying. Like you multiple wives, multiple husbands, type of thing.

SPEAKER_01 23:58

I mean, if one of them's locked up, I don't really gotta do, I don't really gotta put much effort into one of them. You see you put you put money on the book.

SPEAKER_06 24:09

It's like he in daycare, so he's in boarding school, he's gonna be all right. I'm gonna send him some money every now and then. We're gonna see him in a few years.

SPEAKER_03 24:15

Listen, have you heard about the birth decline in the US? I'm trying to, I'm trying to make sure that it stays up.

SPEAKER_06 24:23

Yeah, okay.

SPEAKER_04 24:24

Well, like I said, I'm just wanting, you wouldn't let your okay take me out of the equation. You're messing with another woman, she y'all married. You wouldn't let her, you wouldn't let her have a temporary man while you're in jail?

SPEAKER_06 24:38

No, that's your permanent.

SPEAKER_01 24:39

As long as you listen, you won't know about it. That's your permanent.

SPEAKER_06 24:43

When I don't know, I mean I can't I can't I can't address anything I don't know. But it's like, but yeah.

SPEAKER_01 24:49

She put the money on your book, she's gonna visit you every week.

SPEAKER_06 24:52

Just realistic, and then and then I ain't even saying this about about you, but even in general, like women, like y'all are go-getters. Like, you know what I mean? Y'all are go-getters. In today's time, not saying men are not, but I can't see women today's time holding a man down in prison. I mean, shout out to to Dirk's girl. I don't know what her name, I can't forgot her name, but yeah, yeah, yeah. Shout out to her, because I think she's been holding them down.

SPEAKER_04 25:22

I'ma hold you down.

SPEAKER_06 25:24

Um, shout out to Remy Ma, cause Remy was holding Pap down. And vice versa, Pat was holding Remy down.

SPEAKER_03 25:29

He was saying that she had a boyfriend when he was out. You don't think she had a boyfriend when he was out?

SPEAKER_06 25:33

Yeah, you got a point.

SPEAKER_03 25:34

I'm just saying.

SPEAKER_06 25:36

And that's what I'm saying. You know, like you just prove my point right there.

SPEAKER_04 25:41

But you listen. If I if if I this would never be a little bit more. So you think you would be a rotadina? If your girl in prison?

SPEAKER_06 25:52

I think I would.

SPEAKER_04 25:54

If your girl in prison.

SPEAKER_06 25:55

I think I would.

SPEAKER_04 25:56

Me too. I don't know. I'm I know we not playing in games right now, guys. I know we play games, but I'm like so serious. I would be a rata. I'm playing about the the side, the side the temporary man. This is all my jokes.

SPEAKER_06 26:14

Oh no, I don't think you I don't think.

SPEAKER_04 26:18

Listen, I am I would be loyal.

SPEAKER_06 26:22

I mean, I'm not saying you wouldn't be loyal. I'm never gonna say you're not gonna be loyal. I'm just saying you wouldn't stay with me.

SPEAKER_03 26:30

I'm gonna stay with you.

SPEAKER_06 26:31

You'll probably divorce, you'll be like, I'm gonna have to send you these divorce papers.

SPEAKER_04 26:34

Well, thank God that's never gonna happen. But like I would stay with my snippet.

SPEAKER_06 26:42

I could see you, the only there's only two instances where I could see you staying. If the if the if I'm if I was if I got locked up and I was wrongfully convicted and we working to try to get me out, or if it was something I got locked up for trying to defend you, or something like that, or in in the instance, and you may you may have like some survivor's guilt type of thing where it's like or survivor's remorse, like dang, he got he got locked up for me. Like, you know, ain't no I can't I can't leave him like that's crazy. That's the only two times, but like if I'm doing something stupid, I can't see you. Like, Kai, you didn't have to go and rob that store. Why why are you doing that? You could just call me. What you going robbing stores for? You have to steal that card.

SPEAKER_04 27:25

I would be a rider down. I mean, I ain't gonna be. I would send you letters every week. I would come visit you as much as I could. I send you photos of me. Oh then.

SPEAKER_06 27:35

Okay. All right. Well, I mean, y'all y'all hear y'all hear her first.

SPEAKER_03 27:40

But it don't matter if they hear me, you don't believe me.

unknown 27:44

I'm dying.

SPEAKER_01 27:45

Can you hear me?

SPEAKER_06 27:48

He broke my heart.

SPEAKER_01 27:50

It's okay. Don't touch me.

SPEAKER_06 27:51

Like, don't touch me. Oh my goodness, bro. That should be hey, man. That should be crazy though.

SPEAKER_01 27:58

Yeah, it's crazy. Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 28:00

Like we don't have to worry about it.

SPEAKER_01 28:01

We're gonna have to talk about this off the camera off the camera.

SPEAKER_06 28:04

I ain't getting locked.

SPEAKER_01 28:05

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 28:06

But it's an it's another, it's another movie. I know we've been watching a lot of stuff. We went to go see that movie Obsession. I gave it a smooth seven, but I think I'ma up my rating just a little bit just because I did research and I noticed that it was an independent film. They only spent like 700k, something around there, to produce it in box office. Think it went like 100 mil plus. Um I'll probably bump it to like maybe like an eight. I'll give it, I'll bump it to an eight with with those things, you know, taking consideration. But I thought it was a good, I thought it was a good movie, good concept. And I heard they're gonna come out with a show built around, you know, that little wish and shit. Um and I think that'd be dope too if you came out with a show, you know, and then every episode is gonna be different, like a different wish, and just showing how like dramatic, you know, of an outcome that wish, you know, create. So I mean I thought I thought obsession was pretty, pretty, pretty straight. But I think I I think I'll bump my rating up to an eight though. So shout out to Obsession.

SPEAKER_03 29:06

You'll bump it to an eight.

SPEAKER_06 29:08

It wasn't was not scary, it was really funny though. It was it was more funny than scary. Almost similar to weapons. I really don't think they make scary movies. I've never seen like a movie that I was so scared of that I was like, damn, how I'm gonna go home and go to sleep. I've never seen it before.

SPEAKER_04 29:27

I felt like um Spider Legs, or what was that movie called?

SPEAKER_06 29:31

Long legs, that shit wasn't even like scary for real. Long legs was a little bit scary. A little weird, but I wanted scary. Cause that was about the the serial killer or something, right? And like he was like devil worshipper or something. It was Nicholas Cage. Yeah, yeah, that wasn't nothing crazy.

SPEAKER_04 29:47

Long legs was this very devilish. I don't know. It's weird. It it felt like a movie I shouldn't watch in my household. You know how they be like, oh, I don't, you know, the real people who like really don't watch scary movies because they feel like it's gonna like jump out and you know what crazy their souls?

SPEAKER_06 30:03

They got actual like documentaries, ghost documentaries, where they give you disclaimers in the beginning, like be mindful of you know the things you see in the documentary in here, because these things can trans transfer into real life.

SPEAKER_04 30:16

Do you think they do that just to like make it seem more scary?

SPEAKER_06 30:20

They they could do that, they could, but I mean I'm just saying that's what that's what the disclaimers say. I don't know if that can really happen or not. But we are gonna go on a ghost adventure, we're gonna live stream it, and okay.

SPEAKER_04 30:32

Well, I mean, this is this is kind of far-fetched, but like, okay, if if ghost is and that that energy is coming out of these scary movies, what's coming out of porn?

SPEAKER_06 30:42

Well, I don't think people watch all that energy. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. They're watching porn, porn, all the things. Not energy coming out of scary movies. I said documentaries, like the ghost hunting documentaries where they're actually going in.

SPEAKER_04 30:54

Okay, well then scratch that, scratch that, scratch that.

SPEAKER_03 30:56

They they're gonna think I'm on some wild shit.

SPEAKER_06 30:58

Yeah, because I don't know what the hell you're talking about. I mean, what the listen, I'm just saying, you really be thinking about like what you what you gotta like you.

SPEAKER_04 31:07

I can say what y'all think, and I say it out loud.

SPEAKER_06 31:10

You say what we think or what you think.

SPEAKER_04 31:12

I say what the world thinks, weren't you guys thinking it just the same? No one was thinking. Everyone was thinking it. Anyways, our fans, they love me. They love me. Well, the sh the movie was really good, guys. Um, I enjoyed it, he enjoyed it. I agree. I first I gave it a 7-2, but I agree with just Kai. I mean, if you think about all the the fact that the director was so young, that they spent so like it was considered a low budget movie when compared to box offices. Uh some of the movies in box office that was considered low budget and they did really, really well. But I didn't even know the price, and right after we got out the movie, remember I said, I can I can see if that movie's low budget, because it I can tell.

SPEAKER_06 31:57

I think it was like 700k. I could be wrong. It might be lower than that for real.

SPEAKER_04 32:01

And not saying that in the bathing, it looked like something that we could make.

SPEAKER_06 32:04

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 32:05

Um, but it was it was it was a good concept. Um, I could see a television show being really, really good. I think the horror TV series is it's up right now.

SPEAKER_06 32:17

Production budget was 750,000 and it grossed, uh, generated over a hundred million dollars globally.

SPEAKER_04 32:23

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 32:24

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 32:25

So yeah. That's that's a good turnout. They made a great turnout.

SPEAKER_04 32:28

A lot of production companies are gonna be like, hey, what do you want to do next?

SPEAKER_06 32:31

Yeah, exactly.

SPEAKER_04 32:33

They're gonna definitely give him his flowers. It's just his flowers. So it was a good show. Y'all go check it out.

SPEAKER_06 32:40

It's a good movie.

SPEAKER_04 32:41

Movie.

SPEAKER_06 32:42

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 32:43

If they wanna make a show, they can. So yeah.

SPEAKER_06 32:46

All right, man. Well, now y'all know what to watch. We gave y'all some things to watch. So y'all go catch up, man. We said Love Island. Y'all, this this episode, Love Island gonna be out by the time y'all see this. Oh my goodness. Nature Boy, y'all go watch that. Yeah, crash, go watch that crazy white girl. Crash is on that knees. Yeah, obsession, you know. That probably should be streaming somewhere by the time y'all see this. But you know, never mind. But yeah, I guess we can jump into just cut a news guy.

SPEAKER_04 33:11

Just kind of news guy.

SPEAKER_06 33:22

Woo! Alright, man. Now y'all know, y'all know we love talking about aliens. I ain't even gonna talk about the fact that the uh that that Trump had a whole bunch of well, I don't even know if it was Trump or the Pentagon, who cares, but the government they dropped a whole bunch of uh fouls, um, UFOs, UAPs, um, whole bunch of video footage just showing like all the different, you know, proof of you know the existence of aliens. Um, and they still claiming that we ain't got no proof, but they just showed a whole bunch of videos. It's but it's whatever. Anyways, I came across a really interesting article. So there was a whistleblower that came out. I don't know if he worked with the CIA, but he basically claimed that the CIA is using DNA data from ancestry and from 23andMe customers in search for aliens. So basically, what he's saying is that uh the CIA wants to hunt them down, so they're they're doing this research and trying to see if there's any lineage that connects people to extraterrestrial DNA. And what they're claiming is that aliens are already walking amongst us. Um they and they're they're cross-breeding, trying to save their civilization and things like that, and we couldn't even tell. So, um, and what they also said is that uh nah this this was this was kind of kind of crazy. Hold up. So what they also said is that they they live in small towns in like the Colorado Rockies, and that's because they look like tall Scandinavian people, but they're saying that the people, the aliens that's doing this are the Nordics. I think we talked about that before. They're like the white, blue eyed blind ear. Alright, so you remember in uh in and I'm gonna cut all that out, but you remember in uh Welcome to Dairy, where they had the the black guy's character, I forgot his name, but they had him like doing remote viewing psychic.

SPEAKER_05 35:17

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 35:17

Same thing. CIA. They have somebody that does that, and what they're doing is they're trying to use like remote viewing and things like that to also determine, you know, whose lineage carries, you know, the extraterrestrial DNA. So CIA be doing some wild stuff, and I can believe that. I can really believe like these government agencies have some like type of remote viewing to help them find locations or find species, and but it again, that I mean that's just you know what we always say things in TV that had to come from somewhere. So I just thought that story was crazy. So y'all think twice before submitting your your DNA and stuff through Ancestry or 23andMe, because you never know, you might be an alien.

SPEAKER_04 36:02

That's crazy. I always felt like uneasy about like the ancestry.com and putting in all that information. Of course, the government already got our information, however, like your blood, you never like I always felt like you just don't know, like you're shipping your blood off or your pee off whatever and hoping that they're doing whatever they say they're they're they're doing, but you don't know. They're creating clones, they're cre they I've always thought something like that, maybe, or who knows, or just using it for a scientific I don't know, but like experiments, but yeah, I never thought aliens. Yeah, I never thought that. And do I believe it? Yes, and it's crazy how just now on the news they're starting to talk about aliens more often, yeah. Like this is not just a oh, the random podcast conspiracy theorists talk about aliens and nobody else. No, on the news, Fox News. Oh, yeah, Fox though. This is Fox we're talking about. But I'm just saying, like real television, you turn on, they're starting to say the word aliens. Yeah, and they 10 years ago, you would say that they never said aliens. It was only a movie, so it was only the that word was only being used by conspiracy theories or whatever y'all want to call it. But like now it's like, hey yo, if y'all ain't hopping on a train and y'all y'all still don't think that's real, I don't know what to tell you.

SPEAKER_00 37:33

And I feel like they're trying to give us like little little tidbits, like little like just small amounts of crumbs up like they might put potential aliens spotting crumbs, like you're just giving us those little crumbs on on television now.

SPEAKER_04 37:50

But like I don't know, I don't know why it is. It makes me wonder if something will come.

SPEAKER_06 37:56

I saw I don't know how true this is, but I saw some something that said that the uh government reached out to like all of the um like top religious individuals within their respective religion, like you know, the Pope or you know, whatever whatever, like just reaching out to them to prepare their congregation for whatever they're about to disclose about aliens. So I I don't know how true that is, but I think it is something big coming. And you you know um Steven Spielberg, he's dropping that that movie, uh Disclosure Day.

SPEAKER_04 38:27

Oh, I haven't seen that.

SPEAKER_06 38:29

Yeah, that's gonna be coming out soon. Um, it's supposed to be like about aliens.

SPEAKER_04 38:32

Oh wow.

SPEAKER_06 38:34

I don't know, man.

SPEAKER_04 38:34

I don't know if that's coincidence or not, but I don't think it's a coincidence, but guys, I I think y'all should start listening to this talk. The fact that and whoever all our fans who are actually um who actually sent in y'all blood and samples to ancestry, yeah, y'all get y'all lawyers out.

SPEAKER_03 38:54

Get your lawyers or something, try to sue or something. Cause listen, yeah, they might be coming out there.

SPEAKER_06 39:00

Yeah, y'all might be aliens.

SPEAKER_04 39:01

You might have some alien, great, great, great, great, great, great, great grandmother.

SPEAKER_06 39:06

That'd be kind of cool though. Shit, can I get citizenship on Mars or citizenship on Mars is wild.

SPEAKER_04 39:14

Yeah, they're gonna send your ass to Mars. You ain't gonna be able to breathe on that.

SPEAKER_06 39:18

My great, great, great, great granddaddy alien. I better be able to breathe on that mug.

SPEAKER_04 39:22

I know.

SPEAKER_01 39:22

I see some motherfuckers who look like their great great granddaddy aliens.

SPEAKER_06 39:26

Yeah, see, they might be.

SPEAKER_04 39:27

I'm just saying, I would not get over that time. We thought I thought we saw alien in real life. I think we did at that at that restaurant in there.

SPEAKER_06 39:36

I think we did see it.

SPEAKER_04 39:37

We literally saw a person who did not look like and I y'all might think we trippin'. Y'all really might not believe us, but on some shit though, we saw a person who looked like they had a mask on.

SPEAKER_06 39:51

Yeah, mask and a wig.

SPEAKER_04 39:53

Yeah, he looked like he had a mask and a wig on, but it was his face. He looked extremely weird and he was smiling.

SPEAKER_06 40:01

I don't remember that. He was smiling, brought it up.

SPEAKER_04 40:03

He was smiling, he looked extremely weird. His he literally looked like an alien was imp impos impostering.

SPEAKER_06 40:11

Impersonating. Impersonating. Impersonating.

SPEAKER_00 40:16

Impersonating. He looked like an alien was impersonating. Listen, y'all ain't gonna believe us, but y'all gonna believe it when y'all see it. When y'all see it, y'all gonna be like, that motherfuckers was right.

SPEAKER_06 40:38

Oh my gosh. Alright, we're moving on to the next story. So this next story. Um, I don't I don't know why people have to do wild stuff for awareness. Like when we was talking about the people that was uh meditating in caskets for suicide prevention awareness. So with this this other story, um a very strong, this person believes he's a strong man. And um he was the first person to in the world to pull a car with this penis.

SPEAKER_04 41:12

He tied it?

SPEAKER_06 41:15

I you know, I don't know, but they're trying to raise awareness of prostate cancer. No, I did not look up the video.

SPEAKER_04 41:21

There's nothing wrong with that.

SPEAKER_03 41:22

We're gonna have to pull that up.

SPEAKER_06 41:23

I don't think I don't think I'm gonna watch the video. I don't think we're gonna watch the video. I think we have to watch the video. But yeah, it was it was this this person is 50 years old.

SPEAKER_04 41:32

Did he still have the penis after?

SPEAKER_06 41:33

But the man pulled a damn two-ton police car with his penis while they set him on fire. And I was showing her him setting up being set on fire while he's pulling the car with with his penis. And they said that they did this to to raise awareness for prostate cancer. It's so many ways you could raise awareness for stuff without doing some dumb ass shit like this.

SPEAKER_04 41:55

I just feel like some people didn't grow up feeling the love from their parents and they didn't get attention from their parents. So they grow up as an adult who are seeking attention from the world because their parents didn't give them attention. And I just I just feel sad. I feel bad for that man. I feel bad for that man. He used to break his crayons because he wanted to show his mommy his coloring book, and she ignored it so he would break his crayons.

SPEAKER_06 42:25

Like, who does shit like that? Like that people who are seeking attention.

SPEAKER_04 42:28

That's literally crazy. Does he still have his body part? You know what? I don't care. He doesn't deserve that body part. Just take it right off. Let's take it off.

SPEAKER_06 42:38

Whoa, whoa, whoa. Just take it off about it. Now I'm confused.

SPEAKER_04 42:41

I think we should stay confused. I don't think I don't think there's there's any way of us hearing this.

SPEAKER_06 42:49

So this isn't his first time doing this something dumb like this.

SPEAKER_01 42:53

Oh no, I didn't I didn't think it was.

SPEAKER_06 42:55

Before he he was in the headlines for pulling a car using his testicles while he was on fire. Sir, if you just want his head was on fire.

SPEAKER_04 43:09

Sir, if you just want to take that transition, you don't have to go through this. That's what I'm saying. Like, bruh, just do what Caitlin uh what's the girl Caitlin Jenna did?

SPEAKER_06 43:18

Just go to to the to the hospital.

SPEAKER_04 43:22

You know what?

SPEAKER_06 43:23

Like what you trying to tell us?

SPEAKER_04 43:24

I don't even want to give that man any more attention.

SPEAKER_06 43:26

That shit is is is is is I don't know. I had that was just some crazy shit. I had to what what why? Why? Alright, but the last story, um I kinda wanna ask you before I go into the story, but like what's what's the craziest excuse you gave to not go to school?

SPEAKER_04 43:51

Um, the craziest excuse I gave to not go to school was probably I feel like the typical, like, I was sick. I feel like that was good enough for me. I ain't gonna be like, it's like normal, right? I got a headache.

SPEAKER_06 44:12

I got a stomach ache.

SPEAKER_04 44:13

Listen, my mom would be like, okay, cool. She was fine with it. Because I usually would go to school. So the one day I'm saying I don't feel I ain't up to it. I ain't gonna have to go. What about you? What's the craziest thing?

SPEAKER_06 44:26

Probably like uh my stomach hurt. Uh I'm feeling nauseous. That's all you know. I gotta have migraine.

SPEAKER_01 44:31

You know what I mean? Making up something regular. You're right. Right. Right.

SPEAKER_06 44:35

Bro, this next story, this girl, she made some shit up that allowed her to skip one and a half years of school. So, according to the girl's mother, at one point she was bleeding from everywhere from her nose, eyes, ears, chest, uterus, and even her belly button. Her parents took her to the emergency room several times. She underwent several checkups, ultrasounds, endoscopies. I don't know if I'm saying that right, colon colonoscopies, colonoscopies, but they all came out fine. At one point, doctors even tested the girl for cancer markers, but the test came back negative. After a year and a half of visiting hospitals and search for answers, the 14-year-old's family noticed a peculiar pattern in the girl's symptoms. She would always get sick around the beginning of the school year in September. Then her bleeding would subside around school holidays and disappear completely during the summer. Putting two and two together, the parents realized that their daughter was faking her condition to avoid going to school. It took you a ye uh a year and a half to figure out that your daughter was lying. According um, you know, according to this to Mash, I guess this is the article I'm reading from. The girl's mother still refuses to believe that her child will harm herself and then smear blood all over to make it look like she was bleeding from all. She continues to visit doctors, hoping to find an alternative answer. Some experts suspect that the teen could be suffering from Monk Monkinson syndrome, a condition in which people deliberately induce symptoms of illness to gain care and attention from others. Despite having missed most classes for the last year and a half, the girl hasn't been expelled from school yet. White privilege.

SPEAKER_04 46:20

Listen, I can already tell y'all that this these people are not black because they don't care. Black parents don't care. They be like, I ain't gonna say they don't care, they care. But listen, you got you got one week out, and then they send your tail back to school. You bleeding? Okay, here's where you bleeding from. Okay, wear this little wrap around, and then when it oh, you bleeding from the oh yo, yo, yo, oh, okay, you're gonna wear that diaper.

SPEAKER_03 46:48

Wear that diaper where you gonna.

SPEAKER_06 46:50

But you know, it's crazy because if a black family did that, bro, they would have called CPS and a second shot on the door. Yeah, I'm gonna do that. Yeah, so what's going on? Why they haven't been there? What's going on?

SPEAKER_04 47:01

Social services would have been at the whole house. You missing a certain amount of school, social social services will come to your door.

SPEAKER_06 47:10

So, you know, I don't I don't know. It's like y'all, y'all, y'all are way too extra. School was never that damn bad. Like, bruh, like, I mean, I I think we all wanted to graduate, but damn, like, you won't you wanna.

SPEAKER_04 47:23

I mean, you don't know. Somebody's school might be that bad. But but at that point, just tell your mom, you ready to do Swiss schools? There's other solutions. Yeah, there's other solutions.

SPEAKER_06 47:32

Like, man up.

SPEAKER_04 47:34

Man up. I thought it was a woman.

SPEAKER_06 47:36

It was.

SPEAKER_04 47:36

Okay. Let's not use man up.

SPEAKER_06 47:40

Alright. Man down.

SPEAKER_04 47:42

Man down.

SPEAKER_06 47:43

I don't know what to use, but get over it. Grow up.

SPEAKER_04 47:47

I just shut up and down.

SPEAKER_06 47:49

It's like, damn, grow up, bro.

SPEAKER_04 47:50

And Sundrill Station.

SPEAKER_06 47:53

And then my kids say that. And I wasted all this money in hospital bills and medical bills. And you still and you and you lie. Oh my god. That's gonna be the worst ass whooping ever. You're gonna wish you was at school. The way you would have got your ass whooped. I'm talking about branches, switches, pa pa pa. But yeah, that's all I got. I'm probably gonna mute her mic while she's doing that. See what she was singing while I was talking. But that's all I have for this.

SPEAKER_04 48:22

I was trying to be the background, like, while you talking background music.

SPEAKER_06 48:26

I didn't ask for no background music.

SPEAKER_04 48:28

Well, listen, you got background music. Sometimes we get what we don't ask for.

SPEAKER_06 48:33

It's getting muted. Sometimes we get what we don't ask for.

SPEAKER_04 48:36

We're gonna have to keep it pushing.

SPEAKER_06 48:37

They're gonna see you running your mouth and nothing, nothing gonna be coming out. They're gonna be like, what did you do?

SPEAKER_04 48:43

If you run in my mouth, they're gonna hear it. They're gonna know exactly what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_06 48:47

Because when I run my mouth, they're not gonna hear it.

SPEAKER_04 48:49

They're gonna know.

SPEAKER_06 48:50

They're not gonna hear it.

SPEAKER_04 48:50

You gonna really mute me?

SPEAKER_06 48:51

Yes.

SPEAKER_04 48:52

What type of stuff is that? That's rude.

SPEAKER_06 48:54

Which one is rude? Muting you or singing while I'm talking?

SPEAKER_04 48:58

I was singing. I was trying to be the background music.

SPEAKER_06 49:00

You were louder than the main music.

SPEAKER_04 49:02

No, I was not. I was a background music. So now when we clip that for TikTok, I ain't gotta put no music on.

SPEAKER_06 49:08

It's just we're not clipping that for TikTok. But that was all I have for just caught a new sky.

SPEAKER_04 49:15

I'm sorry. Did I really hurt your feelings there? I was trying to be your background music. Are we still gonna be together after this?

SPEAKER_06 49:24

Not if I go to jail.

SPEAKER_04 49:26

Shut up! Why don't you say that? Oh my goodness, guys. He be doing the most. He really does. Well, y'all know what time it is.

SPEAKER_06 49:37

What time is it?

SPEAKER_04 49:38

It's time for your favorite party show. It's time for your favorite party show. It's Yape Renee with T J. Yay, Renee, Whitty, J. That was a good segment. But you already know. We gotta get into the Y with TJ. And for this segment, y'all, I had a really, really serious question for all my couples.

SPEAKER_06 50:05

When do you ever have a serious question? Do you let me serious?

SPEAKER_04 50:12

Yeah. For all my couples out there in the world, let me ask y'all this. Is opposite gender friendships while married? Okay. I need you to think hard on that, okay, before you answer and you say the correct or the wrong.

SPEAKER_06 50:32

Yes, that's okay.

SPEAKER_04 50:34

Oh, I wasn't expecting that from you. Okay.

SPEAKER_06 50:39

That's okay.

SPEAKER_04 50:40

Okay, so you're fine with your your wife having a friend. Well what can her what can she do with her friend? Can they go out to the movies?

SPEAKER_06 50:52

If if that's what she wants to do with her friend.

SPEAKER_04 50:54

Can they go out to dinner?

SPEAKER_06 50:56

If that's what she wants to do with her friend.

SPEAKER_04 50:57

And you're fine with that.

SPEAKER_06 50:59

Yeah, as long as you're fine with divorce.

SPEAKER_04 51:02

Oh my goodness.

SPEAKER_06 51:05

What?

SPEAKER_04 51:07

We're talking about is it okay? Like, okay for the relationship. Not oh, yeah, it's okay. I'm a divorcer though. Like, is it okay for your relationship?

SPEAKER_06 51:17

Like you yeah, it depends. Like, okay. You say you saying is it okay to have opposite. I mean, we we have friends that are are you got a friend that you call dinosaur? Um, I forgot. But you be calling a dinosaur. That's it, that's your friend.

SPEAKER_05 51:33

Okay, we call him.

SPEAKER_06 51:34

But I mean like it ain't like y'all hang out all the time, but I mean that's still your friend. And I got I got co-workers that that's opposite opposite uh sex that we done hung out with. And I mean they cool, but we don't talk every day. Like they married. Uh the dinosaur married. Like, you know, I mean it ain't like we talk to them every day. That you be going out with all the time. Yeah, you know, type shit.

SPEAKER_04 52:04

But then so there are people out here who have friends of the opposite sex that they actually hang out with. They all the time, like they're on the other hand.

SPEAKER_06 52:12

Like without without their yeah, that's weird.

SPEAKER_04 52:15

That's weird.

SPEAKER_06 52:16

That's weird. You shouldn't, you shouldn't have if if that that sounds like a best friend. And if that's your best friend, then that's who you should be marrying, not whoever you married to.

SPEAKER_04 52:24

Oh. Well, that was a word. I mean, if that is your best friend, that is who she who you should be marrying.

SPEAKER_06 52:33

Yeah. For real. Because like why why you why are you standing up talking on the phone with them for for hours? Why are you going on on uh movie uh movie dates? Why are you going on dinner date? Like oh.

SPEAKER_04 52:50

So do you think for all the people out here who have a best friend of the opposite sex, you think they should try it? That's what it sounds like you're saying. You think they should try to like date each other.

SPEAKER_06 52:58

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 53:00

But what if they have different goals? Like, what what if one person wants kids and another person doesn't?

SPEAKER_06 53:06

It's all about trying. You said try. I mean, if it don't work, it don't work. But I mean, might as well try.

SPEAKER_04 53:11

I mean, if that is your best friend, then y'all probably have some sort of trust relationships. You gotta become some sort of care.

SPEAKER_06 53:20

You gotta become friends first anyway, before you start building that emotional, you know, connection.

SPEAKER_04 53:25

But whether you're not physically attracted, you think they should still try?

SPEAKER_06 53:30

Nah, I feel like that gotta be there.

SPEAKER_04 53:32

But honestly, I think most people I think people be lying. I think a lot of people who have best friends, especially guys, if your guy there's a lot of guys who be best friends with girls, but they're they're attracted to them and they're just waiting for their mommy.

SPEAKER_06 53:48

Are you talking about like single guys?

SPEAKER_01 53:50

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 53:51

Oh, I mean I don't I don't know. Cause I don't really I don't even know too many guys that got like girl best friends for real.

SPEAKER_04 53:59

I know a few.

SPEAKER_06 54:00

Oh yeah, I don't know too many.

SPEAKER_04 54:02

I just be feeling like they just be waiting for their mommy, though.

SPEAKER_06 54:05

They could be. Or oh matter of fact, I'm pretty sure you told me so I don't know, I don't know if they was best friends, but I'm pretty sure you told me stories of like somebody you knew, two people you knew, they was friends. They tried something, didn't work.

SPEAKER_02 54:19

They tried something and it didn't work. They tried to get no.

SPEAKER_06 54:22

They tried it, they tried it, yeah, they tried to, yeah. Don't worry, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 54:25

Yeah, I mean, sometimes it's best to be just friends. Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 54:29

But I mean, yeah, you ain't gonna know unless you try. So I mean, like, shit. Seeing is believing.

SPEAKER_04 54:37

All right, so you're saying you should not have a uh it kind of sounds like I don't know what you're saying.

SPEAKER_06 54:43

Because it that's all but it's it depends, because you start throwing out random scenario like that. Because that's your best friend.

SPEAKER_04 54:48

You gotta think about the whole thing in entirety, like it's not just oh that's my best friend. So it's not if that's your best friend, that's probably somebody you talk to.

SPEAKER_06 54:56

So you're saying best, so you're saying best friend as opposite sex, not just friend as opposite sex.

SPEAKER_04 55:01

Alright, at first I started off with friendships.

SPEAKER_06 55:03

That's what I'm saying. So if it's just if it's just friendship, then that's cool. That's cool. All right. But best friend, I don't know, you might need to marry them.

SPEAKER_04 55:10

Best friend is just taking it to the next level.

SPEAKER_06 55:12

Yeah, because I don't see how are you married and you got a best friend that's opposite sex.

SPEAKER_04 55:17

Yeah, that's wow.

SPEAKER_06 55:18

That don't to me that don't that don't make sense. That should be the question. Is it okay to have a best friend of the opposite sex while you married?

SPEAKER_04 55:25

Well, what and what what if the best friend is like gay though? Then it's like, okay, obviously that's not gonna be a situation.

SPEAKER_06 55:33

I wouldn't trust it. They probably faking. They just like you said, they they got ulterior motives.

SPEAKER_04 55:38

I was talking about the non the listen, I'm gonna talk about the game.

SPEAKER_06 55:42

You're talking about the girls, gay girls?

SPEAKER_04 55:44

Well, if it's gay girl, gay guy. It don't matter. It don't matter.

SPEAKER_06 55:48

I don't know. That can be up in the air.

SPEAKER_04 55:51

Then then, like you know, it's not gonna be nothing of it.

SPEAKER_06 55:55

Just that's their best friend. That could be their way to finesse. I've been seeing skits of uh guys acting gay just to get girls' numbers. That's ain't that ain't that some crazy shit though. You acting gay just to get just to get a girl number, that's almost seemed that seemed low-key, like sick.

SPEAKER_04 56:10

It's not real life.

SPEAKER_06 56:11

I know, but I mean, you know, they really pulling pranks on people just to them.

SPEAKER_04 56:16

All right, y'all.

SPEAKER_06 56:17

Just you acting gay just to get a girl number is crazy.

SPEAKER_04 56:21

This is how I feel. I feel like if they was best friends before y'all got married, before y'all got together, then yes, it's okay because you were best friends with this person before I even got married.

SPEAKER_06 56:33

Not based off what you said. You said when you feel like if they best friends, then they they just want to get they just waiting for the opportunity.

SPEAKER_04 56:39

So I mean they are, but once you get married, well, that's what I'm saying. So I'm not gonna tell you once we get married, you can't be friends with this person no more.

SPEAKER_06 56:49

You can still be you can still be friends, but y'all not gonna be best friends no more. That is your best friend is gonna be whoever you marry with.

SPEAKER_04 56:55

I agree. Y'all not best friends, y'all friends.

SPEAKER_06 56:58

All right, as long as we make that clear. Hey, be clear. Be clear. My dad.

SPEAKER_04 57:06

Alright, so for this yay and a segment with TJ, when it comes to the question opposite gender friendships while being married, is it okay? Yes or no? We are gonna say it's okay. I agree with you for the first time ever. Yeah, but now I now I don't want to agree with you.

SPEAKER_03 57:25

I want to be like, yeah, no, yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 57:28

I'm agreeing with him for the first time ever, y'all. I think opposite sex friendships is okay, friendships. But once it becomes that level when you're talking about that's my bestie, bestie, you and we gonna go to the mall together, we're gonna go to the movies together, we're gonna go to dinner together. We're gonna do that all together. My husband is coming.

SPEAKER_06 57:44

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah. Yeah, it's it's it's weird, bro.

SPEAKER_04 57:48

Then it it just becomes at a certain level. It's like, I, you know.

SPEAKER_06 57:52

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 57:52

It's it's a respect thing at that point.

SPEAKER_06 57:54

So, like I said, y'all, if you are married and you got a best friend that is the opposite sex, marry the best friend.

SPEAKER_04 58:07

So leave your current wife.

SPEAKER_06 58:09

Yeah, because that you don't that ain't your friend.

SPEAKER_04 58:11

Marry your best friend.

SPEAKER_06 58:13

Marry your best friend, because you ain't really locked in. You ain't really locked in. Why why do you have a best friend's opposite sex when your wife should be your best friend, or even your husband should be a best friend, you know? Or if you you go both ways, you you you know. So yeah, yeah, like I'm sorry.

SPEAKER_04 58:31

I mean That might be some good advice for some people, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_06 58:34

Or it might be terrible if you might be ruining the or before you get married and you do have a best friend that's opposite sex, just trust it out.

SPEAKER_01 58:42

Test it out. Just test it out.

SPEAKER_06 58:44

And if it were your word, don't it don't. Y'all can still, y'all may not be best friends afterwards, but y'all can be friends.

SPEAKER_01 58:48

Yep, yep, yep. I probably won't even be friends afterwards. That probably won't even be friends, which you know, which is great for your new wife. That that was over. That's in the past. Um, so honestly, I agree with him.

SPEAKER_04 59:03

Test it out. Yo, best friend. Hey, best friend, let's try this. Let's try it.

SPEAKER_06 59:09

Oh my gosh, boy. We're about to ruin so many friendships.

SPEAKER_04 59:14

Well, are y'all really friends then?

SPEAKER_01 59:17

Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah, friends.

SPEAKER_04 59:22

I think that's a good advice. I think you should try it with your best friend. Why am I saying this? Because y'all gotta become friends. I didn't, I won't do that.

SPEAKER_06 59:31

You gotta become friends.

SPEAKER_04 59:32

I'm saying all this, and I wouldn't even take that advice. I wouldn't.

SPEAKER_06 59:35

Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 59:36

I have I have guy friends, and I wouldn't.

SPEAKER_06 59:38

Well, bet best friends. Like, this this guy friends, your best friend. Like, out of all your friends, this is the best one.

SPEAKER_01 59:46

Oh my goodness. Are we still 12? I'm just saying.

SPEAKER_06 59:51

I mean, uh, you know, are we?

SPEAKER_01 59:54

Shit.

SPEAKER_06 59:54

Oh 12.

SPEAKER_04 59:57

You know what? This was a great show.

SPEAKER_01 1:00:00

This was a wonderful show. We're not gonna get into that.

SPEAKER_04 1:00:04

We're not, we're not, guys.

SPEAKER_01 1:00:07

This has been great.

SPEAKER_04 1:00:09

And for this year and a segment, I'm gonna say, yay, you can be friends with the opposite sex.

SPEAKER_06 1:00:20

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SPEAKER_04 1:00:56

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SPEAKER_06 1:01:02

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SPEAKER_04 1:01:06

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SPEAKER_06 1:01:18

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SPEAKER_04 1:01:25

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SPEAKER_06 1:01:57

For sure, for sure. Peace.

SPEAKER_04 1:01:59

Bye.