#289| Why Your People Pleasing Resentment Never Resets, It Just Keeps Stacking, Yes After Yes [Overwhelm, People Pleasing, Productivity, Time Management]

Overwhelmed Working Woman: Boost Productivity, Master Time Management, Overcome Overwhelm & Stop People Pleasing

Overwhelmed Working Woman: Boost Productivity, Master Time Management, Overcome Overwhelm & Stop People Pleasing
#289| Why Your People Pleasing Resentment Never Resets, It Just Keeps Stacking, Yes After Yes [Overwhelm, People Pleasing, Productivity, Time Management]
Sep 14, 2026 Episode 289
Michelle Gauthier | Overwhelm & Time Management Coach. Inspired by Mel Robbins, Glennon Doyle, Jen Hatmaker, Jen Sincero, Martha Beck

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Have you ever said yes because you thought, “If I don’t do it, nobody will”—only to feel resentful, overwhelmed, and frustrated afterward?

If you're the capable woman who always figures things out, handles the details, and makes sure nothing falls through the cracks, your capability may have quietly turned into an obligation.

In this episode, you'll learn what's really happening when you say yes out of guilt or people pleasing, why the belief that “if I don't do it, nobody will” creates so much extra work, and how learning to tolerate the discomfort of saying no can give you back more time and freedom.

By listening to this episode, you'll learn how to:

  • Recognize how the “if I don't do it, nobody will” belief turns your capability into an overwhelming sense of responsibility.
  • Understand why resentment can continue to build even after you've completed the task you agreed to do.
  • Start creating more space on your calendar by letting your yes become a choice instead of an obligation.

Press play to discover how releasing responsibility for everything that might fall apart can help you reclaim your time, reduce resentment, and create a calmer life.



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