#193| 3 Mindset Shifts Every People Pleaser Needs To Finally Say No Without Guilt: Overwhelm, Productivity, Time Management & People Pleasing

Overwhelmed Working Woman: Boost Productivity, Master Time Management, Overcome Overwhelm & Stop People Pleasing

Overwhelmed Working Woman: Boost Productivity, Master Time Management, Overcome Overwhelm & Stop People Pleasing
#193| 3 Mindset Shifts Every People Pleaser Needs To Finally Say No Without Guilt: Overwhelm, Productivity, Time Management & People Pleasing
Oct 27, 2025 Episode 193
Michelle Gauthier | Inspired by Mel Robbins, Jen Sincero, Brene Brown, Glennon Doyle, Emily Ley, Shauna Niequist

Do you catch yourself saying yes when every part of you wants to say no—just to avoid disappointing someone?

If you’re constantly drained, resentful, or overwhelmed because you’re always putting others first, this episode is your permission slip to stop. Michelle Gauthier breaks down why people pleasing isn’t kindness—it’s self-betrayal, and how three simple mindset shifts can help you say no without guilt.

In this episode, you will:

  • Discover why “no” is not unkind—it’s actually honest.
  • Learn how to handle other people’s disappointment without taking it on as your problem.
  • Understand how every no creates space for a better, more intentional yes that aligns with your real priorities.

Press play now to learn the 3 mindset shifts that will help you stop people pleasing and finally start living life on your own terms.


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