AR11: Couples Session: Being in Conscious Relationships by Communicating from Your Heart Energy

Rose and Marco have been dating for over a year. They have been having some issues with communication and were looking for some solutions. In a prior session with Rose, I had seen in the Akashic Records that her and Marco were part of the same soul family. In this episode, we explore what it means to be in a Conscious Relationship, how to communicate from the heart and how their Soul Contracts are having an effect on their 3D relationship. 

Chapters

• 0:00 Akashic Session with Rose and Marco
• 1:27:14 Discussion with Julia Nalivaiko

Transcript

00;00;01;23 - 00;00;28;04
Annette Dalloo
What needs to happen is that you need to find and define new patterns of how you show up in this beautiful, unconditionally loving space. Because showing up in unconditional love and showing up in that loving space is who you are. There are few people on this planet at this time that have the ability to dig through the three dimensional surface layers of what a relationship is.

00;00;28;08 - 00;00;49;25
Annette Dalloo
You have started doing this. You've started digging deeper to get to the core of what this relationship is going to mean for both of you. You will both be able to hold space for each other. You will both be able to understand each other with love.

00;00;49;27 - 00;01;20;05
Annette Dalloo
Welcome to the Akashic Recordings. I'm in that dulu Akashic conduit channel and spiritual guidance coach. I want to thank you for joining me today. The Akashic Recordings is created through the cooperation of my clients who have agreed to have their sessions recorded. Of course, with their permission, I am able to share these beautiful sessions with you. If you are interested in booking a session with me.

00;01;20;07 - 00;01;57;05
Annette Dalloo
You can go to my website at Infinite Soul love.com. We are just starting season two, and I wanted to make a little announcement about the format for this next season and moving forward. Our beautiful, lovely Julia is taking a little step back because she has a lot of things going on in her life, so she is going to be joining us for almost every other episode of this season, and she will be lending her voice and her wonderful, wonderful insight in those episodes and the episodes that she's not joining us.

00;01;57;08 - 00;02;18;16
Annette Dalloo
I'm going to be going into the deep dive myself. I might have some special guests on, but that's going to be a surprise down the road. Enjoy this very first couple session that we have for the Akashic Recordings. Today we will hear a couple session for Rose and Marco. Rose has been a client of Annette's before and Miko Jones for the first time.

00;02;18;16 - 00;02;43;21
Annette Dalloo
They already know they are soul family, and today they want to explore their relationship from a higher perspective. Annette is able to help them work on heart to heart communication and to understand each other's needs.

00;02;43;23 - 00;03;09;20
Annette Dalloo
To give you a little bit of a rundown of how this is going to unfold. I'm going to do a chakra scan, and normally what I do is I'll do a shocker scan on just the one person. But what I'm going to do, because this is a couples reading, we're going to do a chakra scan as it pertains to your chakras together, and that'll give us a little bit of a roadmap in terms of what past lives you've had together and if there's any blockages, if there's anything going on from the past.

00;03;09;22 - 00;03;30;19
Annette Dalloo
Then from there we'll open up the records. We will let the guides tell us where we're going to go. Sound good? Yep. Sounds good. Perfect. If you just want to let me know. Like what you would like to cover today? Both of you. So I'll start. When I first asked about in. When we first started dating. I asked just about him in general in my life.

00;03;30;19 - 00;04;00;04
Annette Dalloo
And you told me in the records that he was all family. So the biggest question is, what does that mean? Where did our soul family originate from? I don't know yet. My soul origin. So I think if we ask about both of ours, that might be insightful and then what our mission is together or why we are in this kind of contract in a romantic relationship to fulfill that soul purpose or the destiny soul purpose, however, that works with the soul family, right?

00;04;00;05 - 00;04;23;08
Annette Dalloo
Okay, cool. Also, I would like to know how many others are in our soul family and yeah, anything relevant to to that mission? Okay, I probably don't have as many questions as you because this is my first time doing this. So it's all quite new to me, and I'm quite excited to see what comes of it and learn more about the soul background and how this pertains to me.

00;04;23;12 - 00;04;45;12
Annette Dalloo
I would have love to actually come and do a session for myself, so I'm really happy and grateful to have this opportunity to do this together with you and and understand more about it and uncover some answers that I maybe even know. I had questions too. Perfect. So the first thing that I'm seeing is they're showing me both of your root chakras, and there's a line that's connecting to them.

00;04;45;15 - 00;05;09;24
Annette Dalloo
And this line is almost a channel that is allowing the energy to go back and forth and back and forth. And I am hearing the words, you're sharing your fears. The majority of the fears are in his root chakra. It's almost like a game of tennis. It's going back and forth and back and forth. They're saying that this is going to make a little bit more sense once we get into your, your soul missions, because there's something that's not happening here.

00;05;09;28 - 00;05;28;10
Annette Dalloo
And it's something that is meant to happen. What you have done in the past has been to be able to share different energies and transmute and clear them, and you're not able to do it efficiently right now. And there's a reason for that. This does have to do with a couple of previous lifetimes that we're going to need to look at.

00;05;28;16 - 00;05;50;14
Annette Dalloo
It's like each time you hand back the fears, theoretically, what should be happening is that each time you hand them back to each other, they're supposed to diminish. They're supposed to get smaller and smaller and smaller until they're fully diminished and cleared. That's not happening at the moment. It's like you're basically just passing them back and forth, as opposed to transmitting or clearing them at this time.

00;05;50;18 - 00;06;14;05
Annette Dalloo
Okay. That'll be helpful to know. Okay. So then let's move that energy up to your sacral chakra. Can you just remind me where the sacred chakra is? Yes. So your sacral chakra is just about two inches below your belly button. Okay. And the sacral chakra is responsible for your divine feminine energy, your receiving energy, your creation manifestation energy.

00;06;14;05 - 00;06;48;04
Annette Dalloo
It's also your sexual organs, your feelings of connection to your Kundalini energy. And even though the Kundalini rests in the root chakra, it's powered by the sacral. Okay. All right. So his sacral chakra looks quite good at the moment. He's really good about being in his feminine energy as well as his masculine energy in his creativity. I'm hearing the words flourishing and they're saying, keep in mind that we're looking at the chakras as they relate to each other.

00;06;48;05 - 00;07;20;03
Annette Dalloo
So this is not necessarily just how you're feeling about your work life or anything like that. This is in regards to each other. Right now. His sacral chakra is feeling. It's almost hopeful about the creation of what could be, and hers is more dark. There's a lot of sadness in there regarding the creation of what could be, not knowing where to go, what to do, not knowing how to cultivate this energy.

00;07;20;06 - 00;07;44;01
Annette Dalloo
Is this from a past life as well? Yes. Okay. I have been having like physical blocks with the like sexual part. I've been having routine and infection that have been preventing us from being intimate in that way since we began dating for a year now. And I'm still looking for solutions. A doctor, and it's kind of been like an interesting shift from what I'm used to.

00;07;44;05 - 00;08;10;23
Annette Dalloo
And we have talked about it before about past relationships where I would have maybe open the door to intimacy with that, root something more from the sacral, something more feminine and sexual. But this was more of a chance to open up intimacy from a more heartfelt place, more vulnerable place. So this one is definitely been something I've been curious about for a while.

00;08;10;26 - 00;08;36;28
Annette Dalloo
They're saying to me that this is actually one of the things that you are contracted to work on together, so right now this is going to be one of the most important things for us to clear today and to address, because Marco's soul is very much aware of this blockage that you have. Ross and it's something that he's been wanting to help you with for quite some time.

00;08;37;03 - 00;09;02;03
Annette Dalloo
I'm getting a lot of nourishing energy from him as well, from his soul. It's almost as if his soul has been like who? Okay, so you've you've gone through the wringer and I'm here to essentially help you feel better, trust more, and get out of that stuck place that you're in. So, Marco, it's not that it's your responsibility to help her get out of this right?

00;09;02;03 - 00;09;17;13
Annette Dalloo
Like this is not you physically as a person. Like you have to help her. This is more on a soul level. And we'll kind of tell you a little bit about what that means once we get there. Once we get to that past life. Okay. Okay. All right. So then let's take a look at the solar plexus chakra.

00;09;17;13 - 00;09;42;01
Annette Dalloo
That is where your feelings of your own personal power are seated. And then also how you feel about your your own self-worth. There's a bit of a dichotomy for you, Marco, because right now I'm seeing like a ring around the solar plexus chakra and it's really bright. And the light is that beautiful, brilliant yellow, exactly the way that it needs to be.

00;09;42;01 - 00;10;09;02
Annette Dalloo
And that shows me that, like, you have this, this self-confidence and this, this power within you, but it's only around the edge of it. So the center of it is very blocked and very dark. And a lot of this has to do with some current life situations that you've been dealing with. It's almost like a disbelief. You're like, but I don't understand why I wouldn't have this self-worth, these feelings of being able to accomplish anything I want to accomplish.

00;10;09;02 - 00;10;32;04
Annette Dalloo
And they're saying to me that this is by design. This is something that you did choose for this lifetime. You chose to have several challenges in this lifetime, and it was simply a way to help you build up your self-confidence and your self-worth, because a lot of your self-confidence and self-worth in the past and previous lifetimes were based in physical 3D things.

00;10;32;04 - 00;10;54;04
Annette Dalloo
And now for this lifetime, it's about you being able to connect with not only those 3D things, but then connect into your heart and your soul and be able to combine those things to have your self-worth rooted in something deeper than just some sort of physical thing. Right? That makes sense. And so then rose for your solar plexus chakra.

00;10;54;07 - 00;11;17;17
Annette Dalloo
Now same exact thing. So yeah, you're both working on that for your solar plexus, which is basically like not focusing on outward three dimensional things, outward three dimensional experiences, human experiences for your own self-worth and for your own personal power. You have to go within for that. And the beautiful thing about you both being in the same place about that is that you can't feed off each other.

00;11;17;18 - 00;11;36;17
Annette Dalloo
Although it can be challenging for both of you because you both sort of lead with your insecurities at times, it's still good because you're able to then be vulnerable and share those insecurities with each other, even if you don't really know how to help or you don't know what to do with it, at least you can share them so the other person can have compassion for the other.

00;11;36;20 - 00;11;57;21
Annette Dalloo
That has been feeling very relevant lately as well. Just like knowing that it can't come from the other person when one of us is feeling really down. Especially for me. Like I know Marco is very attentive and patient when I'm feeling low and he knows he's aware now at this point that it's not going to come from him.

00;11;57;21 - 00;12;20;10
Annette Dalloo
When I find that way out of the hole, yeah, it has to come from me. And so yeah, we've we've already been discovering that. But I think what has made us afraid is that we tend to end up in these places where we feel like we have no power when we're like with each other physically, because we don't live in the same place.

00;12;20;10 - 00;12;46;05
Annette Dalloo
So when we're spending actual time together in the same place, sometimes it feels like we lose our power. I don't know if you agree with me, Marco, but sometimes we've been feeling like lately that once we separate and go back to our normal lives where we have to rely on ourselves, we don't seem to have a problem so much with that activation of the solar plexus and our self-worth and our personal power.

00;12;46;05 - 00;13;05;13
Annette Dalloo
It's almost like when we're together, it's forcing us to maybe look at that how it's not for. I would agree with that. We've talked about it how it is, at least I feel quite differently when I'm operating solo, when I'm back here, back home and going about my business and work, I guess I'm less confronted with that challenge.

00;13;05;17 - 00;13;24;27
Annette Dalloo
And I do feel like I have a little bit more of a confidence as opposed to a more together, and we are facing that and it makes me see it differently. It's quite a contrast, and I think we're both feeling it. It's almost like maybe when we're together, we're expecting it to come from the other person, and then maybe there's like a disappointment.

00;13;24;27 - 00;13;49;20
Annette Dalloo
Like subconsciously it's not something intentional, but it almost seems like that to me from my point of view. Like I always was kind of attributing it to maybe like a masculine wound somewhere. Why? Maybe I'm expecting to be saved, or for that to come from outside of me when I know what supposed to come for me. And maybe that just gets activated when I'm like, with my masculine partner, you hit the nail right on the head.

00;13;49;23 - 00;14;18;28
Annette Dalloo
So the first thing that I was hearing was you Rose saying, why can't you help me? And Marco saying, why can't I help her? And it goes back and forth in the opposite, too. So when Marco is having a hard time, why can't she help me? And you're like, why can't I help him? So then it's it's like a cycle of having this personal power feeling depleted because you're like, well, I'm doing everything I can.

00;14;18;28 - 00;14;41;19
Annette Dalloo
Why isn't it working? Why isn't it helping her? Or why isn't it helping him? And that's exactly what you need to unravel. Because that isn't their job. Their job is to be there to support, to hold space and to offer tools if necessary. It's very much about being able to identify the fact that the other person, it's not their job to fix you.

00;14;41;19 - 00;15;01;06
Annette Dalloo
It's not their job to save you. It is for you both to be able to sit in this space together, be vulnerable together, and hold that space. And if you need time to work through this, then that is your job to communicate that to Marco and say, look, I know this is difficult for you to see me going through this.

00;15;01;06 - 00;15;24;23
Annette Dalloo
If you need to go somewhere and not experienced this for the time being, I understand. Go and take care of what you need to take care of. I need to go through this the way that I need to go through this, because you both have already identified that when you're on your own, you're able to go through these things in a personal fashion, like you just go through it personally and you don't sort of cling on to something else or somebody to get you through that.

00;15;24;23 - 00;15;50;17
Annette Dalloo
Right. If you're able to tap into that energy while you're together, that's going to take the pressure off each other. It's also going to make it a better situation so the other person doesn't feel completely helpless and like they're failing at their job as being your partner. Right. So there's going to be a lot of this that needs to be practiced over time, right?

00;15;50;19 - 00;16;09;27
Annette Dalloo
That makes sense. I know that my often my default is to want to help or find solutions or tools or anything that can help Rose surmount some of those challenges when they're faced, when we're together and what we are discovering is that that's not really the most efficient way forward. And it really does come from within her and I.

00;16;09;29 - 00;16;24;23
Annette Dalloo
The best I could do is give her that space for it. But it's it's difficult for me because I'd say my nature, it is to be a problem solver. And if I see something I want to help, then I feel bad. If somebody is in pain or hurting and I want to do something that I can to make it easier or like suggest tools.

00;16;24;26 - 00;16;47;07
Annette Dalloo
Even though I've repeated that practice many times with Rose, it's not been the route to success, I would say. Well, and that has a little bit to do with the sacral chakra blockage that Rose has, because normally in a situation where you don't know what to do, you're you're feeling really sad about something and you just you need to get it out.

00;16;47;07 - 00;17;18;24
Annette Dalloo
Sometimes people need comfort, meaning like they just need a hug or they need to be held or they need a cup of tea or they need, you know what I mean? Like, sometimes they need various different things, but for you, because your sacral chakra is so blocked, your ability to receive right now is like almost non-existent. So any amount of cuddling, hugging, offering of anything for comfort or even not even fixing, but just comfort, it's actually hard for you to even accept that.

00;17;18;24 - 00;17;36;12
Annette Dalloo
And that's just having to do with the fact that it's almost making you feel like you want to push anything and everything away because you you don't know what it is. And you're like, I just need to figure this out, and I don't know what's going on. And if somebody else is in my energy, I'm not going to be able to figure this out 100%.

00;17;36;12 - 00;17;57;07
Annette Dalloo
That is exactly the feeling. I'll be like, just just reach out. Just hold my hand or like, look at me and the more he tries to connect when I'm in that space, the more I can feel myself, like, disappear. More like my body language changes to close off even more. And then I'm wondering like, what is wrong with me?

00;17;57;07 - 00;18;17;02
Annette Dalloo
I'm just completely shutting down further away when it happens. And I think it's hard for both of us because I know he's feeling bad, seeing me feel bad, and I'm afraid that he's like internalizing it, that he because he can't help me or maybe he thinks it's something he did, or he's on doing something right, that it just like spirals into him.

00;18;17;02 - 00;18;38;25
Annette Dalloo
Maybe feeling unsafe in our relationship when maybe I'm just feeling unsafe about something like usually 95% of the time. It has nothing to do with our relationship when I'm in that mood. And I guess it's just feels like a like a cry for help, but there is no help to be given. So it's it's it's definitely something that we, we know we need to work on.

00;18;38;25 - 00;19;01;26
Annette Dalloo
It's something that I think is triggered when we're together so that we can practice what you said, like actually being like, hey, I know this is difficult. This is hard for me too. I don't you don't have to be here if you don't want to. And oftentimes, actually, when we have taken a step out or he's left the room, I have like picked myself up immediately and felt better.

00;19;01;26 - 00;19;20;18
Annette Dalloo
And then if I'm not quite ready when he comes back, I'll feel myself shut down again, almost as if I'm like, nope, now you're back in the room. But it has nothing to do with him. I think it's just that wound. It's just the wound of him being there. Like, doesn't allow me, some part of me to come out and help myself.

00;19;20;18 - 00;19;47;10
Annette Dalloo
And I don't know, I'm still trying to navigate through that. Yeah. And a lot of that is going to need to be worked through on your own. Once we get to that wound in the session today, and once we bring light to it, the job that you're going to have is really discovering within yourself. What is it that you truly, truly need in those moments, and what is it that you can receive in those moments?

00;19;47;12 - 00;20;13;15
Annette Dalloo
And it's going to take baby steps. You're going to have to almost get to know yourself in a new energy and start to open yourself up in a way that may feel scary initially, but then you can start to try different things. Let's say if Marko says, I want to hold your hand, open yourself up, give it a shot, and then feel into your body when you're doing it.

00;20;13;18 - 00;20;28;06
Annette Dalloo
And what is your body telling you when you're doing it? Is your body telling you, no, this isn't what I need. Like this is not. It's not helping. It's not that, Marko. You're not helping. It's just that she's going to start discovering what it is that she needs in those moments. And it's going to be trial and error.

00;20;28;06 - 00;20;50;13
Annette Dalloo
So don't take any of that personally. But you can look at it as an exploration. Okay. So we tried that. That's not working for her today. That doesn't mean that it's never going to work for her. So that's really the key point too, is that oftentimes when we get wounded or hurt by somebody telling us, don't do that, that doesn't make me feel better, then we say, okay, cool, I'm never doing that again.

00;20;50;14 - 00;21;10;14
Annette Dalloo
Yeah, it's such an absolute that people change over time. So it's like maybe in six months or a year, once things have been worked through really solidly, it might just come naturally for her to grab your hand. It might come naturally for you to just hold each other. If you're going through something like it will change and evolve over time, right?

00;21;10;21 - 00;21;33;05
Annette Dalloo
So then let's move into your heart chakra instantly. When I saw your heart chakras, they like extended out and connected to each other and they're like clasping hands. Your hearts are connected, they're beaming. They're full of love. And you both. That's funny. You both have, like, a little shadow behind both of your hearts. And this has nothing to do with each other.

00;21;33;05 - 00;21;50;24
Annette Dalloo
This has everything to do with all of the past things you all have experienced throughout the course of this lifetime and every other lifetime. This is something that you can both decide to just let go of now. So any time any thought creeps up of this happened to me in the past, this might happen in this relationship. Nope.

00;21;50;24 - 00;22;18;06
Annette Dalloo
Just let it go. It's in the past. It's not something that will potentially crop up in the future in this particular connection. So let it go and you're going to have to let it go systematically. So every time a thought pops up okay, that's from the past. I don't need to consider that or entertain that right now. I know that's probably something I struggle with because I had a serious relationship with some, certainly some things that happened that made me a little bit sensitive to them happening again.

00;22;18;09 - 00;22;42;26
Annette Dalloo
And I am a little bit afraid of them. And little signs can come up and they might linger in my head or give me a bit of that fear that I it's going to happen again, or it's happening, happening again, or it's going to go down this way. And I'm repeating it. I was easily nodding like, yeah, that's I've never once felt that in any of my past relationships, like the hurt that I experienced that I was going to receive that from Marko.

00;22;42;28 - 00;23;06;18
Annette Dalloo
I always felt like this was different. Yeah. And one of the things that they're saying to me right now is for Marko, some of the things that happen with your relationship with Rose look similar to some of the experiences that you've had in the past, but they want to be very, very clear with you. It is not that at all like in any way.

00;23;06;21 - 00;23;33;29
Annette Dalloo
So ultimately that's going to be your job to manage those triggers. So when you feel triggered in that way, really identify where it's coming from and why. And then ask yourself, okay, is this what's going on with Rose? Is this the same thing that's going on? And if you don't know ask, you can ask her, say, hey, I'm having some insecurities right now based on this thing that happened with my acts or this thing that happened before.

00;23;33;29 - 00;23;54;02
Annette Dalloo
And I'm just I'm really worried about this. And can you give me a little bit of context or clarity surrounding this? Okay. So then let's imagine that beautiful, divine crystalline light about six feet above your head and allow that light to shine down through your crown chakra. S that's really cool. So your crown chakras are connected like your root chakra.

00;23;54;05 - 00;24;12;06
Annette Dalloo
It's like you're creating a complete circuit between the two of you. And so that crown chakra, it's like you're exchanging information. So it's like you both get downloads, you both get the divine information. You're sharing it between the two of you. You're giving it back and forth, back and forth. And it's beautiful. Okay, so then let's move that energy down into your throat.

00;24;12;06 - 00;24;41;10
Annette Dalloo
Chakras. You mirror each other exactly in your throat chakras. So I'm seeing the energy coming out of your throats. And at the end of the energy there's a handshake, you know, a beautiful conversation that you're having. There's like a heart with a loving conversation you're having. And then there's like knives that you're like fencing. If it's a if it's an argument and then it's like a, a sigh of exhaustion.

00;24;41;12 - 00;24;57;27
Annette Dalloo
If you've been arguing too much and I'm seeing it on both sides, like you're almost exactly matching each other's energy when it comes to communication, it's something that is going to work to your advantage in the future, but right now, you're still trying to manage it with all the fears that kind of that are going on in the root chakra.

00;24;57;27 - 00;25;21;01
Annette Dalloo
So it's it's not helpful at times. Okay. This is actually what's tied to the reason why you're not transmuting the energy in the root chakra. Because what needs to happen in communication is you need to be able to see the energy behind the words. And right now you're both responding to exactly the words that are spoken. You're not responding to the energy that's behind them.

00;25;21;01 - 00;25;51;04
Annette Dalloo
This was interesting for me because I was almost expecting to see my throat chakra like Gabby, jab, jab, talk, talk. And Margaux is often pretty quiet and is mostly just in agreement when I ask him, what do you think about that? But that's not normally what I'm wanting to hear. I want to know what he actually thinks, and sometimes I find it difficult because I think that he's having the conversation in his mind, just not with me.

00;25;51;08 - 00;26;13;13
Annette Dalloo
And so that can be hard for us. And and sometimes he's like, well, you're just more into it than I am talking about these things. And he's like, I'm just, you know, ready to move on at this point. And you're like, still going on about it. I really do like to talk things out. I think it helps like for me to process emotion and it's not to be one sided.

00;26;13;13 - 00;26;36;21
Annette Dalloo
It's really so that I can see another point of view, not just to be agreed with. It's not really what I am hoping for when I am talking. And so I was expecting our chakras to be a little bit different in that way. So it's yeah, I want to know a little bit more about it actually about like how we can transmute while we're having these conversations like, and seeing the bigger picture behind it.

00;26;36;22 - 00;27;03;14
Annette Dalloo
I think maybe it's challenging for Marco to do that with me, but I'll let him speak on that. I, I, I think I would agree. Well, what you said, Annette, about how we react on the words as opposed to what's behind them. I think I see that a lot. I sometimes struggle to find the right words to express how I'm feeling, and that's part of the challenge that I have, putting the right words to it and it comes out a little bit sloppy sometimes.

00;27;03;20 - 00;27;29;01
Annette Dalloo
And I think she can react to what the words are being said and vice versa. I takes me sometimes maybe a little bit more to get it behind. See, what is the root of the conversation that we're having? I agree with Rose when she says that she is keen to open up and explore all of it and get to the bottom of it, but I think it's harder for me to engage in an equal conversation about that.

00;27;29;04 - 00;27;56;06
Annette Dalloo
So something makes it a little bit harder for me to contribute as much to that conversation as Rose does, for instance. Well, you process the energy differently just because what I was seeing in your throat chakras is mirroring each other, doesn't mean that you operate in the 3D. In the same way when Rose, you're talking something out. Oftentimes what you're doing is you're trying to get to the bottom or the root of what it is that is actually going on.

00;27;56;09 - 00;28;26;14
Annette Dalloo
And in order to do that, you need to talk it out. You need to have the long conversation about what is happening so you can actually get to the bottom of what's happening. Whereas for Marco, you can listen and and hear everything she has to say. But when you are about to respond, you don't know what you are responding to because you're like, there's all of this stuff that she just talked about, but I don't think any of that is what the root of what this thing actually is.

00;28;26;17 - 00;28;54;26
Annette Dalloo
So how am I supposed to respond to all of the things that she just said? When my intuition is telling me that maybe it's about something entirely different, or she hasn't gotten to the bottom of what that thing is, what could be really helpful for the both of you in that space is for you, Rose to say, okay, Marco, there's something that I'm I'm going through right now and I just need to talk about it, and I'm just going to sort of vent about it or talk about it and try to get to the bottom of what, what the actual thing is.

00;28;54;28 - 00;29;20;19
Annette Dalloo
And you might not in that one conversation and then allow Marco to then say, okay, cool, give me a day or give me however long you need to to really reflect on that and really feel into the energy of it. And I'll come to you with a response. The problem is, is that when you're responding to just the words as opposed to the energy behind it, it's really about getting to the bottom of what is really going on.

00;29;20;19 - 00;29;40;07
Annette Dalloo
And the only way to do that is to sort of go within yourself and figure out, okay, what's this all about? I think it does relate it to an extent with Rose and me, because I know that sometimes her way of having a conversation can be quite triggering to me, and feels can feel a little bit harsh and hurtful.

00;29;40;07 - 00;30;04;19
Annette Dalloo
I sometimes feel like I wish for a little bit more softness in the approach and a little bit more tenderness. That's something that would be interesting to find out more about myself, and maybe where that comes from, that need for a softer, more gentle tone, or why it is that it's so hard for me to accept the support that she's giving me in her own way, which sometimes feels a little bit hard.

00;30;04;19 - 00;30;26;18
Annette Dalloo
And we've had a few instances sometimes where I will muster up the courage to say, maybe I just need a hug or something, you know? Right. But I guess. Yeah. And your your example made me think about that. Beautiful. Okay. So let's let that energy move into your heart space connecting us to that grounded energy to that Earth plane.

00;30;26;21 - 00;30;44;10
Annette Dalloo
When we access the Akashic Records. I want to thank Aquila, my Akashic Guide. Thank you for being here. I want to thank Archangel Metatron and Archangel Santa Phon for being here and allowing us access to the records today. Okay, so of all the questions and the things that we saw on the chakra scan today, what are the things that we need to address first?

00;30;44;13 - 00;31;05;10
Annette Dalloo
Okay, we're going to address your sacral chakra. Rose first. Okay. How many lifetimes was this? Six. Okay. All right. This is this is really beautiful. This is one of the reasons why you incarnated together in this way. In this lifetime. There are six different lifetimes, and we're going to go briefly through some of them. We don't have to go through all of them because the scenario was very much the same.

00;31;05;10 - 00;31;28;18
Annette Dalloo
And Marco's soul was on the other side, and he was not necessarily a spirit guide, but because he's part of your soul family, he was really keeping an eye on your journey and what you were doing and what you were going through. And he saw as you were going through these six lifetimes, that you were repeating the same pattern over and over again, and it was breaking his metaphorical heart.

00;31;28;18 - 00;32;01;16
Annette Dalloo
He knew he was uniquely equipped to help you in terms of giving you certain experiences in the 3D in order to help you to break out of this pattern. And when you were on the other side with him in between these lifetimes, he would actually have conversations with you and ask you if you would like to incarnate with him, to move through whatever this is, and even on the other side, your soul was like, no, no, no, no, I'm good, I'm good, I got this, I got this, I, you know, this other situation is fine.

00;32;01;16 - 00;32;27;12
Annette Dalloo
I can, I can do this. And then you would go down and it would, it would happen again. And I'm seeing Marcus soul almost watching from on the other side going, oh God. Oh that's painful. So finally after that six lifetime, Marco was like, all right, you can take me up on my offer because, you know, you've tried everything else and you're like, yeah, okay, fine, let's let's go do this because I think I do need the help.

00;32;27;14 - 00;32;55;11
Annette Dalloo
And it's not to say that Marco didn't have incarnations in between there. He did. He just had incarnations in other places where you were not connected together. You were not in each other's lives for a while. And the reason why Rose kept on saying, no, no, I'm going to do this on my own. I'm fine. It's not because her soul was being stubborn, it was simply because her soul didn't want to rely upon Marco.

00;32;55;13 - 00;33;15;07
Annette Dalloo
Her soul was like, no, no, no. I feel like if we incarnate together, I'm going to rely too much on you to help me through, and it's actually going to make things worse. And it's going to create some really serious codependency. And I don't want to do that. And that was sort of your reasoning for not incarnating with him for those six lifetimes.

00;33;15;11 - 00;33;44;07
Annette Dalloo
We'll see the origin of the pattern, the very first one in this lifetime. I'm seeing you. There's probably some sort of Nordic country. You have very, very thick, thick blond hair, and it's up in several different braids. You're very strong, like your stature is quite tall and strong. You've got three brothers in this lifetime, and you helped them with all of the chores, with all of the household things in terms of like getting firewood.

00;33;44;07 - 00;34;03;18
Annette Dalloo
And you did all the same things together like you didn't. There wasn't. Just because you were a girl, doesn't mean that you actually had to only do girl things like you did all of the same jobs that they did. It was all very equal. I've seen your father go on some sort of journey. You're loading up a cart with your brothers and they're going with him.

00;34;03;20 - 00;34;20;23
Annette Dalloo
All three of them are going with him. You decided to stay behind. Somebody had to stay behind to look after the rest of the farm and the animals, you know, keep things running in the house. I'm not seeing a mother. So the three brothers in the father left on this journey. You were quite happy at this time. You were very confident.

00;34;20;25 - 00;34;45;17
Annette Dalloo
You didn't really have a need for companionship, even like you are a bit older. Meaning that maybe early 20s and you still had not entertained getting married or having a sort of suitor, if you will. You were very well loved by everybody in the village. You were very kind to everyone. I mean, overall, for all intents and purposes, if you look at this from the outside, it was a perfect life.

00;34;45;21 - 00;35;11;15
Annette Dalloo
You were happy, you were provided for. You had deep love for your brothers and for your father, who were very kind to you as well. You were building upon this strength, this strength of character, the strength of person. This is about you and your own personal strength. You had mastered this ability at this point. Your ability to be in your own personal power was the highest level that it had been in your entire incarnation at this point.

00;35;11;19 - 00;35;35;19
Annette Dalloo
The problem was, is that you had a hard time connecting to others on a heart level. This was something that you had been working on for many, many lifetimes, but only on a very peripheral level. This was a lifetime that you chose, that it was time to start to connect to somebody else in a romantic sense, on a heart level and on a soul level, in a way that could be healthy for you.

00;35;35;25 - 00;35;56;25
Annette Dalloo
This is part of the wound that you still repeat to this day, that every single time you connect with somebody, you feel like you're going to lose yourself like you did in this particular lifetime. You did meet somebody while your brothers and your father were gone. It was a man who was in the village. It was somebody you knew for quite some time but never really thought anything of.

00;35;56;28 - 00;36;15;29
Annette Dalloo
He was a few years younger than you, which was also very unusual, which is why you never looked at him that way. But he's made it very clear about his intentions to you. He brought you flowers every day. He begged you to take his hand in marriage. You kept on putting him off, saying that you wanted to wait until your father and your brothers got home to ask their permission.

00;36;16;03 - 00;36;35;03
Annette Dalloo
And he's saying, no, that's my job. I'm supposed to be asking for your hand and their permission. You don't need to ask them, but you were using it as an excuse because you just wanted to put it off. You didn't want to connect in that way with him. Your brothers and your father returned, and this man asked your father for your hand.

00;36;35;09 - 00;36;49;18
Annette Dalloo
And I'm hearing him say, it's it's rather unconventional, given the fact that you were younger than my daughter, but you were also very successful, which I have confidence that you will be able to take care of her, and that you will be able to give her a good home. And I'm hearing you say to your father, why are you making this decision for me?

00;36;49;23 - 00;37;06;27
Annette Dalloo
I was happy before this man sort of came into my existence, into my life. Why do I need to get married? And your father is saying, well, you can't stay with us forever. Your brothers are eventually going to get married. They will leave the house and eventually I will get old and die, and I won't be around to take care of you.

00;37;06;27 - 00;37;24;14
Annette Dalloo
So you. You have to find somebody who you can have. Take care of you in your thought as well. Why do I need taking care of it in the first place? Like I know how to do everything. Your father taught you how to run the household. Your father taught you how to use money in a way that was profitable.

00;37;24;14 - 00;37;48;23
Annette Dalloo
That was good for the house. Your brothers taught you all the things that they know. So, I mean, you know, everything that you need to know. So why? Why do I need to connect with another? You sort of begrudgingly agreed to marry this man. You figured that he was nice enough. He wasn't cruel, he wasn't overly domineering. And quite frankly, you thought, well, I could probably control him.

00;37;48;26 - 00;38;14;08
Annette Dalloo
So I'm going to agree to this, knowing that I'm still going to have control over my own life. So what happened? What was actually unexpected for you? You ended up actually falling in love with this man over the course of time. Like I said, he was very kind to you. He wanted nothing but to make you happy. But you didn't know how to exist in the world with having all of those emotions.

00;38;14;13 - 00;38;43;10
Annette Dalloo
You didn't know how to move forward in your life to be strong, as well as be this much in love with somebody. It was something that came out of left field and like, hit you in the head and you were like, what is this? I don't even know what this is. You started feeling things like jealousy. You started feeling emotions that you hadn't really felt in many, many lifetimes because you had disconnected from this part of yourself for so long.

00;38;43;11 - 00;39;06;05
Annette Dalloo
It changed your personality. You would say things to him that you didn't mean. You were actually cruel to him. In several instances, and you couldn't understand why this was the result of being in love with somebody. Like, how is it that being in love with somebody creates anger and fear and jealousy? He didn't change at all. His love for you stayed steadfast and that you couldn't understand either.

00;39;06;09 - 00;39;31;28
Annette Dalloo
You couldn't forgive yourself for how cruel you were to him. You couldn't forgive yourself for all of the feelings that you had that were not rooted in anything, that were actions that he was actually doing. It all had to do with your own fears and insecurities. These feelings of jealousy, these feelings of sadness, anger. They all stemmed from your lack of self-worth, of feeling worthy of being able to receive love in this lifetime.

00;39;31;28 - 00;39;58;01
Annette Dalloo
You were receiving love on all fronts. Your your brothers, your father, your husband, all of this masculine energy was giving you all of this love and you could not receive it. And every time you tried, all of these distorted emotions started coming up in you and on top of it, it was guilt. Guilt for how you treated him, and guilt that no matter how badly you treated him, he still treated you with love and respect.

00;39;58;06 - 00;40;21;10
Annette Dalloo
And I'm hearing you say I'm a monster and I'm hearing you say, I'm afraid I'm crying right now because I have said that many times to Marco and felt that many times in our relationship where I've just, I must be the monster and he's the good one, and something's wrong with me. And yeah, the story's very relatable. Did they have children?

00;40;21;10 - 00;40;40;26
Annette Dalloo
They did not. Okay, that was my choice. That was your soul's choice in that lifetime. Not to have kids. Only because you knew your soul knew that this was going to be the piece that you were going to work on and to work on that receiving of love for a romantic connection and receiving of love in a parental connection there.

00;40;40;27 - 00;40;58;21
Annette Dalloo
So very different things. And it would almost be too much for you to deal with it all at once. So you decided, okay, one thing at a time. I even feel that in this lifetime as well, okay, so many of the other lifetimes, the six lifetimes that we're looking at right now, the situations were of the same thing.

00;40;58;25 - 00;41;23;19
Annette Dalloo
It got worse towards the six lifetime, to the point where you were hyper controlling and you wanted to make sure that you were controlling every situation that came into your life, because you didn't want to have to feel those emotions because you associated love with feeling horrible. Basically with feeling horrible, horrible feelings. Yeah. And you didn't know how to love without losing yourself.

00;41;23;22 - 00;41;46;06
Annette Dalloo
Okay. Do we need to look at any of the lifetimes in those other six? No, not at this time. Okay. All right. So then let's take a look at the sort of planning meeting, if you will, between Marcos soul and Rosa Soul. Before they decided to come into this connection in this life, I'm hearing you say to Marcos soul, this is your soul's talking on the other side.

00;41;46;09 - 00;42;06;03
Annette Dalloo
And I'm seeing your soul say to Marcos soul, I can't guarantee you that I'm not going to figuratively beat you up in in this life. Like, I can't guarantee that I'm not going to do that. I don't know if I'm going to be able to pull this off. And Marco is saying I'm strong, like I'm super strong. I can handle it.

00;42;06;05 - 00;42;35;28
Annette Dalloo
I don't worry about me. I've also been seeing what you've been doing over the course of these last six lifetimes. I know what you're struggling with and I know what needs to be done, and I know the experience that I need to give you in order for you to break this down. And he knew that it wasn't an experience like the first husband, that first husband in that first lifetime that we just looked at, the experience he gave you was just, I'm going to love you through it.

00;42;35;28 - 00;42;58;12
Annette Dalloo
I'm just going to continue loving you. And that was like, nope, that's not the way to do it. The way that you decided to come into this connection together was with eyes wide open. In terms of your energy, Marco reacts to your energy for the most part on a soul level. He does not to your words, to your physical 3D things.

00;42;58;12 - 00;43;25;08
Annette Dalloo
So wherever your energy is, that's what he is reacting to. And so that is what needed to happen. Because unconditional love is beautiful, of course, but you can't just love unconditionally and allow behavior to continue the way that it is without evolution and growth. With that first lifetime, that husband was not he wasn't taking any different approach. He was just, you know, basically doing the same thing over and over again.

00;43;25;11 - 00;43;54;27
Annette Dalloo
And you were getting the same results over and over again. And it was just this perpetuating cycle. And so the one thing that is constant between you and Marco Rose is that you, as souls, have been very good over the course of time of your soul's existence, of learning from each other, teaching each other, and giving each other the experiences that are able to evolve and change and grow, that has been a constant between the two of you.

00;43;55;01 - 00;44;19;21
Annette Dalloo
Are we on that path, so to speak, of that change happening is there a way to see like the evolution and the timeline of that? Like if I'm learning anything from this experience or have already or what is to come as far as that goes, because I definitely relate and feel some of those same exact emotions very much still present from the first lifetime that you shared.

00;44;19;24 - 00;44;46;25
Annette Dalloo
I love the visuals they give me sometimes. How can I describe this? So have you seen, I don't know, maybe in cartoons or in a movie where, you know, somebody is throwing like a temper tantrum and they're flailing their arms all around and they're trying to hit the other person, and the other person is literally arm extended with their hand on their head, just holding them at arm's length, just very calmly holding them at arm's length, going, okay, just, you know, okay, flail your arms about.

00;44;46;25 - 00;45;14;00
Annette Dalloo
Sure. I'm fine. I'm sitting right here. All right. Do what you need to do. All right. Are you done? Are you done? Okay. You're done. You're tired now. Okay, cool. And let go now. All right, now we can have a conversation like that's what they're showing me. So that's kind of what has been happening, is that Marco's soul has been like holding that space for you to tantrum, to throw whatever energy you need to throw around in order to get all of this out, because that's what needs to happen.

00;45;14;00 - 00;45;31;02
Annette Dalloo
It just needs to get out and you need to express it. You need to express how you feel. Now, does it need to always be with Marco? No, but that's how it has been in the past. And then once you get it out, then you can sit down and have conversations together and see the way forward and see what's going to happen.

00;45;31;02 - 00;45;54;21
Annette Dalloo
So you're not moving forward just yet, as you're still in that space of getting ready to stop flailing your arms, you're getting ready to just be almost so exhausted by the whole thing that you're just going to be like, okay, I give up. I'm not tantrum ING anymore. I'm going to go within and then I see you lifting your head to Marco and I hear you saying, okay, let's figure this out together.

00;45;54;25 - 00;46;27;19
Annette Dalloo
And it's one little door that needs to open at a time. One little door where you allow something in, where you allow some sort of gesture in, will take the holding of the hand moving forward. What's possibly going to need to happen is that when you're in these spaces and you start really connecting into what you can receive in this moment, and it may not be a lot, but it can be just something small I can receive holding your hand that I can do right now.

00;46;27;19 - 00;46;41;04
Annette Dalloo
Maybe you don't want to talk, maybe you don't want to say anything. Or maybe you just want to talk and talk and talk and talk and talk until you're exhausted, until you're all done. In which case Marco doesn't have to say anything. He can just say, there, hold your hand and hold the space. It's going to be in little steps like that.

00;46;41;10 - 00;47;06;06
Annette Dalloo
They're going to pull you through, because what needs to happen is that you need to find and define new patterns of how you show up in this beautiful, unconditionally loving space. Because showing up in unconditional love and showing up in that loving space is who you are. And this is about letting go of the old definition of what you think love is.

00;47;06;12 - 00;47;26;19
Annette Dalloo
Now what the scary part about that is when you let go of an old definition of something, that means that you have to embrace a new definition. And right now, you don't know what that new definition is, and instead of being in the void, you're going back to the old definitions. And so you're going to need to be comfortable with being in the void just a little bit, just enough time for something new to come in.

00;47;26;23 - 00;47;53;28
Annette Dalloo
And it's going to be incremental one thing at a time. Does that sound like something you can do? Rouse. Yeah, I'm actually in a workshop now that is about it's called expand and it's about becoming a master receiver, but it's working through the nervous system and releasing a lot of old feelings Unfelt feelings and creating safety in the body, and then rewiring re parenting and patterning and all of that.

00;47;53;28 - 00;48;17;16
Annette Dalloo
So yeah, it feels like those are tools that are right, right here in my fingertips that are coming. I think I can take those baby steps as I get more practice and like knowing that there will be a new way to see it and pattern it. And also that Margo is isn't going anywhere and is patient with that process.

00;48;17;16 - 00;48;37;06
Annette Dalloo
That's reassuring as well. And you just hit the nail on the head, because the next thing that I was going to say to you, Marco, was the only thing that you need to do in this space is have patience and hold space. Right. And then the other aspect that you need to work on is just making sure that you are not taking any of this personally.

00;48;37;11 - 00;48;56;12
Annette Dalloo
Yeah. Understanding that this is her journey, this is her wound that she needs to work on, and you are not responsible for it. And it's not something that you are needing to do anything about necessarily. If you can depersonalize it and say, okay, I get it, this is this is just what she's going through. I can stand in my own strength.

00;48;56;12 - 00;49;20;29
Annette Dalloo
I can be patient and hold space for her and allow her to go through it. I think I have been getting better understanding that that space and patience is is the most important thing, and that it's not something I'm doing or not doing right, or that it's not coming for me, and that the most important is to give her that space and that patience for her to go through those that step in that journey for herself.

00;49;21;03 - 00;49;49;08
Annette Dalloo
Exactly. Rose, do you have any other questions about the sacral chakra? Because it sounds like with this workshop and everything else, it sounds like you're already well on your way to take those steps to work on it. I guess. Just for clarification, the repeated pattern was just that I was afraid of the shadow and all the other quote unquote negative feelings that came with become like being in a relationship and like losing myself or getting swept away in those emotions.

00;49;49;08 - 00;50;15;21
Annette Dalloo
And so I just did that for a long time and shut it out. Yeah, yeah. Exactly. Okay. And then like the medical stuff, like the problems is, are just going to sort itself out naturally. Like once I work through this. Okay. Yes. Because the thing is, is that with the sacral chakra being completely shut down, that's obviously going to have an effect on your reproductive organs, your sexual organs, you know, like all of that, right?

00;50;15;21 - 00;50;36;25
Annette Dalloo
And interestingly enough, you know, that has to do with your manifestation as well. So and I know that we have talked about this in the past, where you feel like your manifestations are very quick and happen beautifully, but it's sporadically. It's like you get all these manifestations all at once and then you get nothing and they get all these manifestations and then you get nothing.

00;50;36;25 - 00;51;07;19
Annette Dalloo
And it's like this inconsistent. Yeah, that's partly having to do with this transition and having to do with the sacral chakra. Once you're able to really nurture that and clear it and move into the new energy of it, you're going to have much more consistency. Yeah. They're saying to me, you're going to have great sex because right now you're not feeling connected to it because in your sacral chakra and connecting to that kundalini fire is like it's fully letting yourself be in that energy.

00;51;07;24 - 00;51;33;09
Annette Dalloo
And you you haven't really been able to do that. Yeah. And it's something that I was manifesting when I was manifesting. My partner was a lot and good sex. And then it was just funny, like how everything else was manifested except for that part, and then keep getting met with what felt like roadblocks. So yeah, I guess the roadblocks were the signs like hey something deeper, something karmic.

00;51;33;12 - 00;51;57;10
Annette Dalloo
Yeah. Absolutely. Because the potential is there like I'm seeing it in terms of like your energies together, there just need to be these few shifts. And once you're able to shift like that and then once you're able to be fully connected on that level without the fears, if you think about it like your heart spaces are connected right now, but your lower chakras aren't connected necessarily in that way.

00;51;57;15 - 00;52;17;29
Annette Dalloo
Like I know I said that you reach chakra in your crown chakra are connected, but it's like that connection is a different type of connection. Okay, so if you can imagine if all of your shoppers are lined up and you're all of your chakras are connected and then your kundalini energy is connected, that's what makes that transcendent divine energy during sex.

00;52;17;29 - 00;52;37;11
Annette Dalloo
It's something that will sort of lock into place as you do this work. So I mean, what I'm seeing is that it's only going to get better from here. Yeah, I've been saying since the breakdowns in our relationship began happening, I was like, I just want to melt into my feminine. I just want to melt into my feminine.

00;52;37;13 - 00;52;59;18
Annette Dalloo
But clearly, my soul has been like, no, we're afraid to do that. And I guess I've just been wondering, like, why? Like what is it just the natural programed attempt of deleting the feminine energy? Was it the society, the patriarchy, or is it just. Yeah, it sounds like from that lifetime, it was just that I had my own sense of personal power.

00;52;59;18 - 00;53;20;18
Annette Dalloo
And so that's what I'm wanting to keep in the relationship. And I guess I don't know how to manage the two, how to fully let go, but also like be in my masculine and be and in my powerful self. They're saying some of that will be answered when we start diving into your soul purposes together as well as your soul origins.

00;53;20;20 - 00;53;40;22
Annette Dalloo
Right? Let's do it. Where do we need to go for first? Soul origin or sole purpose? Soul purpose. Okay, let's do that first then. Okay. So there, starting from when your soul's decided to first incarnate on earth, both of yours, you did it at the same time with other members of your soul family. About half there are 780 souls in your soul family.

00;53;40;22 - 00;54;04;13
Annette Dalloo
Wow. And about half of those incarnated on earth at that time. The other half have never incarnated on Earth. The other half have stayed on the other side and or gone to other planets in other galaxies. It's almost like half your soul family was like, yeah, I have fun with that. We're not doing that. Why?

00;54;04;15 - 00;54;23;15
Annette Dalloo
That's funny. So with the half of you that came, it's like you all came down at the same time. And you scattered throughout the planet, and you two landed in the same spot. Oh, that's really cute. It's like you landed in the same spot, and you're like, okay, I see a tree over there. I'm going to go.

00;54;23;15 - 00;54;38;24
Annette Dalloo
I'm going to go be that tree. And he's like, okay, cool. I'm going to go be this flower. And you're like, communicating together. Oh my God, this feels really weird. Oh my God, this is really bizarre. Like why okay. Communicating to each other like what it feels like to be in each thing. Like you explored it together. That's really cute.

00;54;39;00 - 00;54;59;25
Annette Dalloo
So, Rose, you decided to incarnate as human first. Marco, you were like, yeah, I have fun with that. I'm going to stay behind and I'm going to keep being random animals and plants and things. I don't really want to be human just yet. That was hard. Okay, so the first time Rose, you incarnated as human and Marco, you stayed in your whatever form you were in at the time.

00;54;59;25 - 00;55;20;02
Annette Dalloo
You realized together that that was the very first time you were not able to communicate on a soul level. You started to realize that being incarnated as human created an extra layer of difficulty in that. It's like you both looked at it like a playground. Initially, though, after her first incarnation, Rose was like, oh, come on, Marco, you got to do this.

00;55;20;02 - 00;55;40;04
Annette Dalloo
It's super cool. And finally Marco was like, all right, cool, I'll try it with you. And so you incarnated together as humans, and Marco is looking at you, Rose, and he's seeing some of the psychic debris that you had acquired in the previous lifetime. And he's like, wow, what's that? And you're like, I don't know. I don't know what this is, but it's something that I've acquired since the last incarnation.

00;55;40;04 - 00;55;59;15
Annette Dalloo
So I'm not sure. It was like you were discovering psychic debris and these lower energies, that kind of happen as being human, like you were discovering them for the first time. And as you were incarnating, incarnating, incarnating, you started noticing this psychic debris and the karma and all of that stuff just sort of pile up. And you're both like, what is this stuff?

00;55;59;15 - 00;56;13;06
Annette Dalloo
Like, why do we keep on coming back with this stuff? This makes no sense, because every time you'd go to the other side, you were like, okay, we're fine, we're clear. And then you'd go back into the body and you're like, why is this stuff still here? Did nobody explain it to them? Do we not get explanation? That's really weird, do we not?

00;56;13;07 - 00;56;35;04
Annette Dalloo
We don't get explanations. No. Oh, okay. I've never seen it presented that way. So I was like, oh that's interesting. Okay. Now some souls know about it based on their soul origins, because they've experienced it in other places in other ways. Okay. That makes sense. You both incarnated on other planets before Earth, but you never incarnated in a place that was part of this density.

00;56;35;07 - 00;56;55;25
Annette Dalloo
None of the places you went to had any sort of lower energies. They were all very high operational places. Okay. This this makes a lot of sense. Both of you. The distaste you have for this psychic debris, for this karma, for this heaviness that you acquire as humans, it goes back to your soul origin on this planet where you were like, where is this all coming from?

00;56;55;25 - 00;57;17;07
Annette Dalloo
Why is this here? I don't get it. This is dumb. I don't like this. What? He were just like, I don't want any of it. Yeah. Why didn't they tell before? Yeah, exactly. Yeah. So yeah. Like, it's it's very much about you learning in trial and error. That's it. It's like trial and error and you're like okay, well we've mastered this thing okay, great.

00;57;17;07 - 00;57;36;22
Annette Dalloo
Cool. All right. Let's go back and let's see if we can do this other thing. Let's see if we can master this other thing. And so part of your resistance to moving on to the next phase, if you will, is your soul grows on a whole, has a tendency to be like, okay, I mastered this thing. I'm just going to stay here.

00;57;36;28 - 00;57;51;24
Annette Dalloo
I'm not going to move. I'm just going to stay here because I don't want to mess it up. Like I don't want it to be ruined by anything else. So I'm just going to stay here because I've mastered this and I'm good. It's this feeling of, I don't want to have to dive into anything else because I don't want to ruin what I've already done.

00;57;51;26 - 00;58;13;18
Annette Dalloo
And what you're not realizing is that it's not going to ruin it. It's only going to enrich it. It's only going to make things better. But things have to get dismantled and messy before you can reconstruct them again. Marcos soul had a much more fluid feeling about it. He was much more chill about the various different experience he had in his life.

00;58;13;21 - 00;58;34;01
Annette Dalloo
He had this darkness in this one lifetime, where he had experienced being somebody who was not particularly pleasant in his human self, and he sees this dark spot over his left shoulder, this dark energy. And I just see him almost like, brush it off like, oh, all right. And we can get rid of that. That doesn't need to be here anymore.

00;58;34;01 - 00;58;55;18
Annette Dalloo
When it comes to your root chakra is being connected in the fact that you are exchanging energy back and forth. So is that something they need to stop doing then? Yes. Oh, okay. Throughout the course of your incarnations, you decided, Rose, that you didn't want anything to mess up what you've built and what you've mastered. And Marco was like, oh, look, I know how to clear this stuff.

00;58;55;18 - 00;59;07;10
Annette Dalloo
I can clear it pretty easily. You'll see this dark spot on my shoulder. See, I just said bye and it just went away. Look at that. And Rose is like, how did you do that? And you're like, I don't know. I just said, go away. And it went away. You're like, oh my God, why can't I do that?

00;59;07;10 - 00;59;23;18
Annette Dalloo
And Marco's like, I don't know. He's like, well, give it to me. I'll do it for you. And so that's what started the cycle between the two of you, where if you had something rose that you needed to clear from your energy field, he would just clear it for you because he knew how to do it. That's why you're passing it back and forth.

00;59;23;21 - 00;59;40;01
Annette Dalloo
Okay. So this, in this particular incarnation that you're currently in, he you're passing it to him, going here, take this, clear it. And he's like, nope. Handing it right back to you. But no. Clear it. Nope. Handing it back to you. You got to do it yourself. No, I don't want to. No. Hand it back to me.

00;59;40;03 - 01;00;04;08
Annette Dalloo
Nope. But if my soul doesn't know how, then where's the guidance? All right. Yeah. So that's basically why it's being passed back and forth. Can we remove that connection then? Yes. Okay. So I want you both to set the intention that you're going to remove that connection between your root chakras. And that's why they were saying, remember when I said your root chakras needed to connect for that beautiful sexual energy.

01;00;04;08 - 01;00;22;00
Annette Dalloo
And they were saying it's not the same connection. That's why they were saying it's not the same connection, because this is connection based on necessity that you kind of created over the course of your connections and in different lifetimes. And it's not a healthy connection. So it needs to be severed and then a new connection will be created and that will be a healthy connection.

01;00;22;00 - 01;00;38;04
Annette Dalloo
So I'm going to have both of you imagine right now that you're standing in a field of grass and flowers, and I would like you to imagine a circle of trees surrounding you. And I would like you to both imagine that you're walking into a sacred space through a door, and this sacred space can look any way you choose.

01;00;38;08 - 01;01;08;13
Annette Dalloo
And I want you to imagine that in front of you you have a pedestal with a book on it. And this is the representation of the Akashic Records and every signature of every soul person, everything you've ever experienced on this planet as a soul. And I would like you both to imagine that you are opening the book and signing the book, releasing you both from this root chakra connection that is rooted in a codependency of doing things for each other that the other can't do.

01;01;08;13 - 01;01;31;17
Annette Dalloo
Rose, I want you to imagine that you're writing in the book saying that you release any obligation from Marco to help you transmute the things that you are meant to transmute yourself. And, Marco, I'd like you to imagine that you're signing the book, releasing yourself from the need or job to clear and release anything for Rose. And imagine you're both signing the book, and imagine that energy between you dissipating.

01;01;31;17 - 01;01;49;14
Annette Dalloo
And as that's happening, I'm seeing both of your root chakras get brighter. They're saying, Rose, that you already know how to do this. You already know how to transmit this energy. You're already in the process. Does my soul remember. Your soul does remember. And you've actually started taking the steps already to do it. They're saying you're well on your way okay okay.

01;01;49;14 - 01;02;11;07
Annette Dalloo
So they want to be clear that this does not mean that this has been your soul mission. This has been one of the things that you have been working towards in this lifetime. Your soul contract together. One of them has been to clear this connection that you have in your root chakra. So this is something that we can call as complete as a soul contract, which is fantastic.

01;02;11;09 - 01;02;35;14
Annette Dalloo
Great. Lucky us that we met you in this lifetime. You were always going to meet in this lifetime. I met, we met you. Oh yeah. To clear it. And, I think we were always going to meet, too. So. So what is this all purpose, then? Because I always thought the soul family all shared the same purpose. If you were in your soul family, then you had the same purpose because you're the same origin.

01;02;35;14 - 01;02;54;21
Annette Dalloo
But maybe that's not correct. You do. The difference is you have like a similar soul purpose. But if you can imagine, like each member of the soul family almost has a different job within that soul purpose. Does that make sense? Yeah. So yeah, let's tap into that. Let's see what what they want to show us about that. They're showing me, like a visual that is just.

01;02;54;24 - 01;03;24;14
Annette Dalloo
Oh, it's amusing. Okay, so there's a reason why half your soul family didn't incarnate on Earth. It is because your soul mission as a soul family is to be able to stay connected to the other realms, to the higher vibrational realms, and be able to communicate this information down to the humans that are living on Earth. The other half of your soul family has been experimenting with the energy as to how far can they stretch that energy?

01;03;24;15 - 01;03;45;00
Annette Dalloo
How far can it sort of extend, if you will? And there are times when they've extended the energy too much and you've lost the connection and the humans down on Earth during that time when they didn't have the connection to the other half of the soul family, were like flailing about like fish out of water. And then the second you were able to connect again, you were able to right yourselves.

01;03;45;00 - 01;04;04;26
Annette Dalloo
So some of the turmoil that you both have gone through in previous lifetimes actually just had to do with that. As opposed to anything else. It just had to do with the feeling that you are always connected to this higher vibrational energy. And then at times it would be feeling like it wasn't there or that you weren't connected, and that's where you would run into problems.

01;04;05;00 - 01;04;33;13
Annette Dalloo
The overarching soul family, soul purpose is to help other souls understand where they are energetically in relation to where they want to be. You're here to give a benchmark of where you want to be, where you want to go in terms of energy, in terms of lessons, in terms of experience, in terms of information. You have been experimenting with this for millions and millions of years.

01;04;33;14 - 01;04;58;20
Annette Dalloo
You've gotten to a point as a soul family where you've gotten really good at understanding how much the human self is able to handle in terms of connection, in terms of knowing and understanding their soul on that soul level. It's almost as if the other half of the soul family that is still in the higher realms is feeding you little tiny bits of cake one at a time, just enough that you can handle, but not enough that you're going to get sick.

01;04;58;23 - 01;05;22;06
Annette Dalloo
Is this like the downloads that we were getting? We share through our crown chakra? Yep. So then like often I'm thinking about like when we call in like our guides, but that also be our soul family that is able to connect with us then and give us guidance because they haven't had incarnations on Earth, it's actually harder for them to give you assistance in addition to the fact that they are further away energetically.

01;05;22;09 - 01;05;46;24
Annette Dalloo
The thing is, though, is that it's a different type of communication, like they are constantly in communication with you. It's always happening. The communication that you get from your guides, from your guides and your spirit team that are sort of closer to earth, if you will, on an energetic level that information that you get is different information. It's it's sort of helping you in this lifetime in your human lives.

01;05;46;24 - 01;06;05;13
Annette Dalloo
Whereas the information you're getting from the other half of your soul family is more on a galactic level, it's more on a spiritual soul level. It's helping your soul do things that you're not aware your soul is doing. Some more on those subtle realms versus having a super big effect on your human experience, if that makes sense. Right.

01;06;05;13 - 01;06;31;12
Annette Dalloo
And so our souls, mission, I guess, like what we're trying to accomplish that maybe we're not aware of. You said it was something like benchmarking, like knowing, where to go or like, is it just benchmarking, like the human experience in general or like Earth? It's actually sort of benchmarking the the ascension process. Basically, your soul family is saying, okay, so Earth's ascended this much.

01;06;31;15 - 01;06;49;16
Annette Dalloo
The population is ascended that much. So we can move our benchmark a little bit further out. Okay. All right. Cool. Now we've all ascended a little bit more, okay. So our energy is a bit higher now. Okay. So now we can move it a little bit further. And now we have to meet this other benchmark in order for us to get to this next one.

01;06;49;16 - 01;07;22;00
Annette Dalloo
Right. So it's like you're creating these milestones for Earth to achieve over the course of the ascension process. Okay. Okay. So that's the that's the overarching soul family sole purpose. Now for you individually. Let's see what that means for you. Oh that's really cool. And that makes a lot of sense. Your job as a soul is to basically plant all of these templates all over the planet that you have created, and these templates are templates of strength.

01;07;22;00 - 01;07;44;10
Annette Dalloo
Essentially, if you can imagine, you master one thing and you've mastered quite a few things in your existence as a soul. You master one thing and you're like, okay, cool, I mastered this thing. I'm going to put the template down and everybody else can benefit from this template. This is why you don't like when these templates are messed up, because you're like, I just put all these amazing templates all over the world.

01;07;44;10 - 01;08;04;29
Annette Dalloo
I don't need these messed up. And then people are like, no, but they need to be updated, upgraded and moved in and changed over the course of time. When you create templates, they're meant to be changed and moved. You have a very proud way of looking at all of the things that you've created and the things that you've mastered, and you really love it, and you want them to stay exactly as is.

01;08;05;04 - 01;08;26;21
Annette Dalloo
And that's part of the shadow side of what you do, is that you really do want these to sort of be a beacon of your accomplishments. And in fact, it has to be a collaboration with other souls who do similar things. And they can look at your templates and say, oh, I can add this to the template and I can do other things with the template, or I can negate this template altogether and replace it with something else.

01;08;26;21 - 01;08;43;28
Annette Dalloo
And you're just like, why are people doing this? That's more having to do with your human experience versus your soul. Your soul understands how this whole thing works in your souls. Like, yeah, that's cool. You know, we all need to collaborate. We all need to do this. It is more your human self that gets frustrated with these things changing.

01;08;43;28 - 01;08;59;19
Annette Dalloo
Kind of like my my business people like using it as a template to start their own. Yeah, yeah. Oh my God, I didn't even think about that. That is so true. You're like, I didn't mean that. I was going to create a template of my own business and have you steal it. That's not what I wanted to build upon it.

01;08;59;19 - 01;09;33;21
Annette Dalloo
It's a template. You're supposed to customize it and make it yours. Yeah. Don't exactly copy paste it. Yeah, exactly. No. Copy paste. Copy paste. That is your main sole purpose. You have other little ones but nothing that they want to cover today. Okay, Marco, your sole purpose. Well, that I mean, that's not a surprise. You're a natural transmitter, which basically means that you take energy like dark energy, disjointed energy, fragmented energy, and you're able to literally just alchemy it, transmute it, turn it into something else that is beautiful and useful.

01;09;33;23 - 01;09;55;25
Annette Dalloo
You're so good at it. I was like, do it for me. Exactly. That makes sense because I know I can absorb negative energy or things around me can go like I can look past it. Perhaps I can see something bad or somebody behavior or actions and look past that. But I've noticed in paying attention to, to myself and how I feel sometimes.

01;09;56;00 - 01;10;29;25
Annette Dalloo
Also, going back to an earlier point, when you're saying one of, I think one of my past lives, I was maybe darker, there was maybe a darker side or something. That was, I forget how you put it, but I was not a very like, pleasant person. She said. Right. Yeah. And I can brush that aside, but I sometimes do feel that it crops up in my mind, and my mind can go towards what it's like to be in that more unpleasant vibe, or less caring and loving and compassionate and here to to put out more positive and supportive energy.

01;10;29;27 - 01;10;47;08
Annette Dalloo
That sort of sparked my curiosity. You know, more about that. But in terms of what you're saying now, it makes sense. It makes sense that I'm here to be able to any kind of energy that comes my way, be able to maybe look past it and focus on where, like, the better energy is. Your job is incredibly important.

01;10;47;08 - 01;11;05;16
Annette Dalloo
And it's not that you're the only person doing this. Obviously, there are millions of other people that do this type of job, but it's important because of what your soul family is doing, because you're setting the benchmarks. It's really important that you are able to clear the path, so to speak, to clear the path for the next benchmark.

01;11;05;16 - 01;11;26;21
Annette Dalloo
If there is something that is sort of preventing us from moving forward on the next, the next benchmark, you're very much able to identify those places that need to be cleared, and then you sort of report to the other souls that are transmitters and alchemists and say, okay, this particular thing needs to be cleared more urgently than anything else.

01;11;26;21 - 01;11;45;25
Annette Dalloo
So we need to work on this so you're able to really like, delegate and say, hey, based on our information and what we're getting, this is what needs to happen, right? When it comes to the darkness that I was speaking of, it is more about your connection to the shadow. Every single one of us has had many, many lifetimes where we've been not great people.

01;11;46;00 - 01;12;07;26
Annette Dalloo
We've been around for millions and millions of years. It's bound to happen a few times. It's not that. It's not that that particular lifetime that I mentioned was actually even significant. In your current experience. But what is interesting is that for you, you understand the darker energy more than most, and you understand why it's there, what it's doing, what its purposes.

01;12;07;26 - 01;12;28;05
Annette Dalloo
And you also understand that you can't vilify the darker energy. And if you vilify the darker energy, it actually makes it grow bigger. Those are those times when you think that you need to dive a little bit into that darker energy where you're like, maybe I need to dive into this a little bit on a soul level to really understand the nature of what needs to be done.

01;12;28;05 - 01;12;47;01
Annette Dalloo
And they're saying to me that that's what your soul does sometimes, as I need to really look at this one thing so I can really understand it. So then I know what needs to be done. And that's what's happening when you kind of go down that path, if you feel like you're going down that path and it's too much for your human self, you need to communicate that to your soul.

01;12;47;01 - 01;13;01;28
Annette Dalloo
You need to tell your soul like, hey, I know what you're doing, and that's great, but don't do it now. I don't want to. I don't want to deal with that now. Can we do it later? Right? Do we do some of our soul work like while we're sleeping, for example? Is that where we do a lot of our soul purpose?

01;13;01;28 - 01;13;21;17
Annette Dalloo
Was just wondering. I've always wanted to know. Yes. I'm just hearing you're open 24 seven. Okay, so your souls are doing this work all day, every day in the five day. Do we ever get like glimpses of it like in our dreams, or is that more like when we have dreams. Is that more like of our subconscious, of our human experience.

01;13;21;20 - 01;13;42;27
Annette Dalloo
They're giving me the visual of both of your souls, plopping you both in front of the TV and turning it on and then leaving and doing their job. So basically, they're saying to me that your 3D selves are so preoccupied with your 3D lives that your souls don't really give you that information in your dream state because they're just off doing their thing and they don't think you're really going to pay attention anyway.

01;13;42;28 - 01;14;15;10
Annette Dalloo
Okay? If you pay attention, they might start giving you that information. But for the time being, they feel like you're so distracted with what's going on in the 3D. They're not really even paying attention to whether or not you get that information. Yeah, but they're saying if you want to know, if you want to get involved and if you want to be a part of it, to start talking to your soul and and saying, hey, give me glimpses, give me glimpses of what you're doing, it would be particularly helpful for you, Marco, because if your soul is doing a particular difficult bit of transmutation and it's affecting your human body because of it, it would

01;14;15;10 - 01;14;31;01
Annette Dalloo
be helpful for you to know that that's what's been going on. And so you can be like, oh, okay, that's the work my soul's been doing. I can just take a rest for a week or I can take it easy so I'm not overdoing it myself, or I can take care of my body more or, you know, whatever it happens to be on that.

01;14;31;01 - 01;14;55;11
Annette Dalloo
That particular period of time. For example, my soul, if I could like, have a template, it can be like, we've just laid this down like you have access to it. It's finished. Yeah. Yeah, absolutely. The challenge with that has been in the past that they feel like if they were to give you this information, like your soul as well as your spirit team, that you would take that one template and be like, oh, cool, this is the best template ever.

01;14;55;11 - 01;15;31;25
Annette Dalloo
Let's just run with this and then never turn back. Yeah, you have to really understand that if they give you a template, it is temporary and that you can use it for now, and it might change. Once you're able to understand and master that, then they'll give you all kinds of templates. So letting go. Yep. Hardest thing not needing all the answers but just having some clues, having a little bit the little pieces of cake essentially like with the benchmark thing and stretching the the energy, essentially what we're moving towards as a collective is being able to receive like more and have a bigger bandwidth, I guess.

01;15;31;25 - 01;15;48;24
Annette Dalloo
Correct you guys. And yeah, absolutely. That is the goal. Maybe like Gaia is like, oh, I'm going to ascend a little bit more and then our guys that are our I guess our soul family is like, okay, like how much can we do that. Like with our team that's on earth. Like how much can they go with that.

01;15;48;26 - 01;16;08;26
Annette Dalloo
Interesting. We're like the little guinea pigs. Yeah. And then how much can we stretch that without them being fish out of water. Right. But you so fascinating to think about it that way. We're kind of just like the little test subjects. More like depending on our people on the other side to make sure that like, we're good and the experiment is not going awry.

01;16;08;28 - 01;16;43;22
Annette Dalloo
Yeah, exactly. Fascinating. So basically they're going to give us the soul origin. And then before we close out, they do have a little bit of a channeled message for you to just about your relationship in general. Okay. And then we'll close out the session. Amazing. Your souls have been incarnating on Earth for the entirety of your experience. It's not to say that you won't ever incarnate on other planets and other galaxies, but for your purpose as souls, you needed to have a an uncluttered, uninfluenced experience.

01;16;43;22 - 01;17;09;24
Annette Dalloo
So your soul family, when they individualize it from divine source energy, they went to the other realms that are in higher vibrational energy. They went to other dimensions, other planets that are in pretty much pure divine source energy. It was from there that the half of your soul family broke off and decided to start incarnating on earth. You needed a pure experience for the work you are doing here.

01;17;09;24 - 01;17;36;18
Annette Dalloo
You couldn't have influence from other places, other galaxies, other stars. But the fascinating thing about your soul, family is that you have all this information already embedded within your light codes, because your other half of your soul family is receiving all of this information and is actually downloading it to you. So even though your souls specifically haven't had experiences in various different galactic places, you still have all of the information within your soul signature.

01;17;36;21 - 01;18;04;21
Annette Dalloo
Once your job is complete here on this planet, it is then that you will be free to move forward and incarnate in other places in the universe. You will take this knowledge. You will take this experience and create something completely brand new. Does that make sense? What I understood is it's like we wanted something we could discover completely on our own to like, make our own template for another planet, maybe in the future, like, take what we learned to make a whole template.

01;18;04;21 - 01;18;33;16
Annette Dalloo
Yeah, interesting. But the origin, because you said we were always incarnated on Earth, so our souls have always been earth beings. Yep. We were birthed by half of our soul family to do, just like make an extension that birthed us on Earth. Yeah, exactly. Oh, okay. After the universe was created by a lot, actually. So it's important for you to know this, that you did not have sort of this violent explosion of a of a start.

01;18;33;16 - 01;18;59;16
Annette Dalloo
Yours was very meticulous and it was intentional. And this was after the sort of universal explosion, if you will, happened. And people started having experiences on Earth once other planets started having experiences and so divine source energy was like, okay, maybe we need some souls to start seeing how we can shift and change this energy and stretch this energy in a different way and move it.

01;18;59;16 - 01;19;44;19
Annette Dalloo
It's like your jobs were almost created out of the information that was already being cultivated in the universe at that time. And so, like, our soul family was like, okay, like we'll volunteer like some beings. Exactly. From our energetic source. Yeah. Okay. The message that your guides both collectively have for you, let me get in. We want to make sure that we calm any of the worries that any of you have regarding how you are going to move forward in this connection, in this relationship, in this 3D relationship, we want you to understand that you do have free will, and it is your choice whether or not you would like to stay together.

01;19;44;19 - 01;20;12;14
Annette Dalloo
We will encourage you to continue working on your soul contracts. It is your highest timeline for you to work together on this particular portion of your lives. Once you have completed your soul contracts, it is then your freewill choice to stay together. That may seem scary because oftentimes humans have a tendency to like to be told what to do in terms of this is a soul contract, this is destined, this is meant to be.

01;20;12;14 - 01;20;30;25
Annette Dalloo
And while your connection is meant to be at this time, once the soul contracts are complete, it will no longer be destiny. It will be your choice. It is very likely that at that time you will both choose to stay together, because you have created a very strong bond together through working through all of the issues that you have been working through.

01;20;30;25 - 01;20;52;06
Annette Dalloo
But we do want you to understand that that choice is always there. The reason why this is an important message for you is because one thing that you have to understand is that it is a choice daily to stay together. It is a choice to be in each other's lives. It is a choice to love each other. It is a choice to be heart connected and to want to grow together and be together.

01;20;52;07 - 01;21;18;22
Annette Dalloo
There is nothing that you need to worry about at this time. You are both on the path that you were meant to be on. This is a healing journey for the both of you and it is not yet complete. It will continue and we would prefer for you to look at it as a gift. Even as difficult as it may be at times, there are few people on this planet at this time that have the ability to dig through the three dimensional surface layers of what a relationship is.

01;21;18;22 - 01;21;41;12
Annette Dalloo
You have started doing this. You've started digging deeper to get to the core of what this relationship is going to mean for both of you. You will both be able to hold space for each other. You will both be able to understand each other with love. There is nothing else that needs to happen in this very moment. So digest this information, allow it to integrate, and then start your work again.

01;21;41;14 - 01;21;59;12
Annette Dalloo
Constantly check in with each other to make sure you know where each other is. You will come up with conversations and protocols and things to do when you are in certain energies. This will help you to understand how to move through challenging times. Is there anything else? No. That is it for today. Thank you. Yeah. Thank you Annette.

01;21;59;15 - 01;22;33;05
Annette Dalloo
Yeah. You're welcome. Do you both have any questions about the channel. No. It's very clear and reassuring. Yeah. No that's very clear. And it does make sense I suppose I've had some trout to session like some moments where I felt a certain amount of, of pressure or sense of maybe duty from when we were talking about the soul agreement that we had before incarnating and saying that I'm here because I've seen roses, so I'll do it repeatedly, and I can hold the space and support to like, do it differently.

01;22;33;05 - 01;23;05;26
Annette Dalloo
And I suppose that made me feel a sense of maybe a sense of pressure in my own. And I think in my current human form also to last channel that you said about how we're here to fulfill our contract together and learn this and maybe before, even when we started our relationship, I think both Rose and I were aware that we're facing things that were being exposed to certain things that we want to work through, or that perhaps the unnecessary we should, but that would benefit us to work through and where we're triggering them and one another.

01;23;05;28 - 01;23;25;09
Annette Dalloo
As you said, this would be me. Reflect on it and think, is that what we're here for is to go through this lesson? But then what? Right. If we just here to be teachers to one another in a way, and I feel like sometimes that's maybe a big part of our of our relationship that we're facing is that we're here and together to like, go through this experiences.

01;23;25;09 - 01;23;45;20
Annette Dalloo
But then once we learn that, then are we going our separate ways or. Yeah, I guess it's just interesting to hear you say that. And maybe well, I don't know. I don't know what else to say, but I was just reflecting on on those things are some of the stuff that's coming to my head. Yeah. Sometimes when we get all of this information, it can be a lot like a lot, a lot.

01;23;45;20 - 01;24;09;04
Annette Dalloo
And there are a lot of people who, after they get these sessions are like, oh my God, like it's a lot of information. It's a lot of responsibility. It's a lot of all the things. Right? From your human perspective, if you do feel that pressure and that feeling in your chest of, oh gosh, I have to do this, take a step back, just tell Rose, hey, I'm feeling some pressure about some stuff.

01;24;09;04 - 01;24;28;16
Annette Dalloo
I need to take a step back for a moment. I'll get back to you in a day. And if after a day you're like, still feeling the pressure, okay, just need another day or just be very open about where you are in that space, okay? Because you need to take care of your own self-care as well as Rose needs to do that as well.

01;24;28;16 - 01;24;53;19
Annette Dalloo
When it comes to after all of the soul contracts are complete and everything else, what does that mean? Does that mean that you're going to stay together, or are you going to go your separate ways? Like they said, that's your free will decision and you can't even see that decision right now because you're not there yet. Once you get there, so many things will have changed for the both of you that it's going to be super duper clear that it's not even going to be a question.

01;24;53;22 - 01;25;25;10
Annette Dalloo
Okay? Right. So don't worry about it right now. Yeah. Continue to work on what you need to work on individually as well as together, and just see how it goes one step at a time. Also, when you think about the soul contracts, there are times when soul contracts can take a ridiculous amount of time to get fulfilled. And then like today when we removed that connection between your root chakras, sometimes it can take seconds to clear and it just really depends on what's going on and what is happening in any given moment in your lives.

01;25;25;12 - 01;25;47;14
Annette Dalloo
But always check in with yourselves, check in with each other, make sure you know where each other is and and feel into that energy. Okay. All right. Yeah. And there's no rush. There's no rush. Yeah. Both sides is valued. Yep. Exactly. All right. So we are going to close the Akashic Records. Thank you to a cool. Oh my Akashic Guide.

01;25;47;14 - 01;26;00;17
Annette Dalloo
Thank you to our king gentlemen to Toronto Archangel Santa Fund for being here as well. The records are closed. The records are closed. The records are closed. Thank you.

01;26;00;20 - 01;26;23;09
Annette Dalloo
All right. How do you guys feel? Well thank you Annette. Like, I'm not surprised by any of it. I feel just I don't know, maybe just seen, like, I think it was helpful for me, for him to be able to hear that it was more than just him. For me to be able to witness someone else say, like it's something deeper that I'm working through.

01;26;23;11 - 01;26;41;18
Annette Dalloo
It was like reassuring for me instead of like me, like having to say it like it's so just reassuring for me, for him to hear that beautiful. That was quite an incredible experience. So thank you, Annette, for that. You're very welcome. I came into it maybe a little bit anxious. I was thinking that I would even like retrace it.

01;26;41;18 - 01;27;04;20
Annette Dalloo
I should say for sure. You know, I changed positions, like throughout the session. I went from the back to the floor to, like, back finds and workshops, a whole vacation. That's quite interesting how much you can uncover about our human experience behind it, or the prequel to it, perhaps. That's good. Amazing. All right. I'm sending tons of love to you.

01;27;04;20 - 01;27;34;05
Annette Dalloo
Both of you. Right back at you. That's a lot to thank you. And yeah, I will talk to you both soon. A big thank you to Rose and Marco for coming on today together. How is the session for you in it? It was really, really good. It was one of those sessions that I came out of just feeling really happy for them, because I had had sessions with Rose before, so I kind of went into the session knowing a little bit about what their challenges were.

01;27;34;08 - 01;28;03;11
Annette Dalloo
So to hear both of them really understand each other and hear each other, it was great. It was really heartwarming for me. Yeah. And, you know, I think it was a very relatable session for a lot of people. A lot of couples. Yeah, a lot of the issues that they have been going through, I think a lot of people will have been experiencing in their relationships as well, even though maybe not to the same degree and maybe not for the same karmic reasons Rose and Marco are experiencing.

01;28;03;11 - 01;28;33;05
Annette Dalloo
But it's still a lot of it is still very, very relatable stuff. The key issue that we've worked on today was Marco feeling like he needed to save Rose. And then Rose not really knowing how to deal with that particular energy. That is a quintessential masculine feminine dynamic. Yeah. So maybe let's dive into that one a little bit more because in their particular case it's very much related to her wounding from many past lives and her inability to receive his help.

01;28;33;05 - 01;28;51;29
Annette Dalloo
And yet that is something that so many people experience where women, we just need to like, vent and talk through our issues and take the time to understand how it is that we're really feeling versus men that just come in and want to fix everything. Yeah. So how come that is something that so many of us experience in the first place?

01;28;51;29 - 01;29;11;29
Annette Dalloo
Well, a lot of that has to do with the Dinah Amex that have been played out throughout the centuries. Right? I mean, think about the original trope of the man in the White Horse coming to save you. We've kind of put this idea into the universe that this is the role of the man, and the role of the woman is to be saved.

01;29;12;02 - 01;29;33;25
Annette Dalloo
That can play out, obviously, in the reverse, that can play out and same sex couples. It can play out any way, shape or form. But it is sort of this idea that one person is helpless and needs to be saved, and the other person is strong and can do the saving. When you get into that dynamic from the beginning of a relationship, it's already at an imbalance.

01;29;34;02 - 01;30;01;24
Annette Dalloo
Part of the issue with that is, especially in Rose and Marco's situation, was that she really doesn't even know within herself what she's going through at that moment, so she doesn't know what she needs. If you don't know what you need, then how can the other person come in and save you? And so therefore, it creates this dynamic of her feeling even more helpless, feeling even more horrible.

01;30;01;26 - 01;30;24;17
Annette Dalloo
Because not only can he not help her, but now she can't even figure out how to tell him how to help her. It creates this dynamic where the other person who is trying to do the saving is feeling useless because they feel like they can't do anything, and then the person who is having the hard time is feeling twice as bad.

01;30;24;20 - 01;30;54;25
Annette Dalloo
It's this vicious cycle where we say that in a relationship, oh, we're supposed to help each other in this way, like I'm here to help you get out of this situation, and you're here to help me get out of this situation. And this is an old relationship template, and this is part of what is being almost eradicated as we move forward in relationships, because as we know, the work that we need to do is our it's our own it's our own internal work.

01;30;54;25 - 01;31;19;29
Annette Dalloo
Now, can somebody help you? Certainly. Just now, you and I. Julia, we're having a conversation, and you offered a lovely suggestion for me, and I was like, oh, yeah, that's great. That's a great suggestion. Thank you. That kind of thing is not that's not you trying to save me. That's just somebody offering up suggestions or offering up advice or tools or something that they may have that you can't see because of perspective.

01;31;20;02 - 01;31;54;02
Annette Dalloo
There is a difference between swooping in and taking over and saying, oh, I'm just going to do everything for you, because clearly you can't do it yourself. And that's kind of what that sort of savior complex shows up as. And so what does that do that creates codependency. Because if the one part of the couple is swooping in and doing all the saving for something, that is basically enabling the other person to not learn and to not learn how to pick themselves up or to get themselves out of whatever they're into.

01;31;54;02 - 01;32;11;05
Annette Dalloo
If it's like a depression or something like that. In the case of Rose, she kept on saying things like, I know I act a certain way. I know I'm like, mean to you or I push you away. I don't know why. I don't know why I do it. You first need to look at the reasons why you are doing so.

01;32;11;05 - 01;32;34;04
Annette Dalloo
Okay? So from Marco's perspective, he needed to ask himself, why do I need to do the saving? Why do I feel like I need to do that? And then for her, why do I feel like I need to push him away? So one of the things that we didn't bring up in the session, which I'm just kind of connecting to now, is that maybe one of the reasons why she was pushing him away, too, is because she knows on a soul level she needs to do this on her own.

01;32;34;04 - 01;32;51;12
Annette Dalloo
And that was something that came up in the session where the guides were saying, like, this is part of what his soul is saying to her, which is basically like, yep, nope. I'm not giving you the help anymore. I'm not transmitting your energy anymore. I'm not doing this anymore. You have to do it yourself. And so that could also be her energy saying, yeah, back off, let me do it myself.

01;32;51;17 - 01;33;15;10
Annette Dalloo
But don't take it personally. I still love you. Don't take it personally that I don't need your help. I need your support. I need a sounding board. I need somebody who is there for me to offer suggestions and things like that. But I don't need somebody to come in and and do the work for me. Right. So the experience that they're having is kind of like a grander scale experience that a lot of people have.

01;33;15;12 - 01;33;35;03
Annette Dalloo
Yes. I would say a very large percentage of people probably have this exact experience. It's standard relationship dynamics. I mean, look at all the movies we we watch having various members of the couple. I'm not going to say it's always men because it's not. Sometimes you have women saving men. It's all about, oh, I must save this person from this plight of some sort, right?

01;33;35;03 - 01;33;53;12
Annette Dalloo
I don't know how far back that goes, but I can tell you that it's it's certainly prolific in our generation and in our society, for sure. I mean, even just talking to friends where the conversation is just. I just need to vent and don't try to fix it. Right? Right. I just need an ear. I just need to vent.

01;33;53;12 - 01;34;17;22
Annette Dalloo
Just let me vent. Yeah, yeah. So we need to learn to do that as a society, to actually really be able to own our stuff. And then the masculine energy point of view to learn to hold space. Yes. And that's that's tough. It feels a little bit like sitting in silence and being okay with the silence. There's two different scenarios that could play out prior to having the session.

01;34;17;25 - 01;34;38;04
Annette Dalloo
Rosen, Marco would have an argument. And let's say Rose really wants to talk something out. And so she's talking to him, talking it out, talking it out, talking it out. And he's not saying anything. And from her perspective she's like, oh why isn't he saying anything. Oh he doesn't want to talk about this. Why is it. And so then the insecurity starts building and building and building.

01;34;38;04 - 01;34;57;26
Annette Dalloo
And then on his side, he's probably going, I don't know what to say, I don't know what to say. And so then that creates the tension. And then that could potentially start a fight versus go into the exact same situation with the knowledge of the prior communication, which is, hey, I'm going through something right now. I don't know what it is.

01;34;57;26 - 01;35;13;13
Annette Dalloo
I just need to talk it out. All I need for you to do is listen. That basically gives that other person permission to say, perfect, I'm going to hold the space. I don't need to say anything. I don't need to worry about saying anything. If I feel like saying something at the end of the event, I can say, hey, I have some perspective.

01;35;13;13 - 01;35;47;13
Annette Dalloo
Do you mind if I say something? That's the that's the healthy way to do it. Because if you're doing that, then you're not going to be in a space of escalating the insecurities in your own mind as you're having the conversation. Absolutely. And that kind of takes us into the parallel issue that they're experiencing, which is that mismatch in communication where there's speaking but not necessarily saying what it is that they want to say more often than not, because they don't really understand themselves what their issue is.

01;35;47;16 - 01;36;17;20
Annette Dalloo
And so this is, again, where she's getting annoyed at him because he's not responding in the way that she would like. But he doesn't know what to respond to because it's all words, but it's not necessarily meaningful to him in terms of what he's really listening out for. Right? So when it comes to the energy of where you are and if it doesn't match the words you're speaking, that can be really, really jarring to the other person.

01;36;17;20 - 01;36;34;27
Annette Dalloo
If my energy is saying, I'm really irritated at you right now and you can feel it, it's dripping off my body, you can feel it. And I just look at you and say, I'm not mad at you right now. That's a perfect example because you can feel the energy, you can feel the anger, but the words that I'm saying do not match my energy.

01;36;35;02 - 01;37;00;28
Annette Dalloo
Now that's a really obvious answer. And of course, like body language. And if you're in the same room with somebody, if somebody does that, you're going to feel it, you're going to know it and you're going to say, no, they're actually pretty mad at me. I can tell that's obvious, but it is the more subtle emotions that create the problems in these types of conversations and those emotions that are harder to voice because it requires that vulnerability.

01;37;01;02 - 01;37;24;17
Annette Dalloo
When you are in a space where you feel really hurt by something that your partner did, sometimes people will go straight from 0 to 10, from I'm hurt to I'm angry, and they don't actually give that space for the the hurt to actually come out and say, hey, I just want to let you know that I'm feeling really hurt right now.

01;37;24;17 - 01;37;39;29
Annette Dalloo
I'm not sure why exactly, but I need to go explore it, and I need to figure out why this particular behavior that you just did hurt me. You don't need to do anything right now. I just need to go back and figure out why that hurt me. And then I'll come back and tell you why, and we can explore together.

01;37;40;00 - 01;38;05;04
Annette Dalloo
So that is in a perfect world. It's not always going to work like that because obviously we are human beings. We react to things. I'm guilty of it. Everybody's guilty of it. In that circumstance, you can always go back and revise. So if you snap at somebody because you were hurt by them. So in this case, we'll say when Marco is trying to grab Rosa's hand, try to comfort her, and she snaps and it's like, no, I don't want you to hold my hand.

01;38;05;04 - 01;38;26;13
Annette Dalloo
Don't touch me. Don't you know? That is a visceral reaction she was having to that moment, but it wasn't indicative of how she felt about him. So from his perspective, he would have gone back to his emotions and to his heart and said, whoa, okay. What she just did that really hurt. That really hurt that she just pulled away from me like that.

01;38;26;14 - 01;38;44;21
Annette Dalloo
After this moment is done, I'm going to have to go back and say to her, hey, look, when you pulled away from me, that really hurt. It hurt to know that you don't want me near you when you're in that state. And that opens up the conversation to allow her to say to him, hey, it's not because I don't want you.

01;38;44;21 - 01;39;09;17
Annette Dalloo
It's not because I don't love you. It's because in that moment, I don't know what I want. And so I need to figure that out on my own. And then on the flip side, for her, her reaction was to pull her hand away and to retreat. Well, what she could have done instead, if she can connect to her heart space in that moment, instead of reacting, she can say to him, I really appreciate you trying to hold my hand right now.

01;39;09;17 - 01;39;29;23
Annette Dalloo
I think I just need some space on my own to process this, and I'll let you know when I'm ready to just open up and be vulnerable. I think it's not just vulnerability that we're talking about here, though. This is a cultivation of an awareness of our own feelings. That in itself takes a lot of practice and self knowledge and self exploration.

01;39;29;23 - 01;39;54;13
Annette Dalloo
Correct. Because you can't be vulnerable until you know what you're being vulnerable about. Really. Exactly. So therein lies the whole concept of conscious relationships, right? Yeah. Is this ability to actually be intimate with yourself first, to really understand what's going on within you, so that when it's time for that communication with your partner, that communication is about what's really going on.

01;39;54;16 - 01;40;13;06
Annette Dalloo
Exactly. Yeah. And that's and that's where the miscommunication happens because we have the particular energy that we're expressing. But if we don't actually understand what's happening, then the words that are coming out are not going to make sense. Yeah, I do also want to address something else that was just sort of coming into my intuition just now about that.

01;40;13;07 - 01;40;37;22
Annette Dalloo
How can you express anger in a relationship? And the answer is yes. Absolutely. You can. But what is not okay is taking out that anger on the other person. So if your hurt goes from 0 to 5, then you're at seven and then you're at ten, which is anger. Then basically you've missed all of those steps of checking in with yourself and and figuring out where that's coming from.

01;40;37;22 - 01;41;00;23
Annette Dalloo
So all the things we're talking about now, that means that you've completely not done any of that work. Right. And you've reached that ten anger. Okay. That's cool. That's fine. That's going to happen sometimes. Can you stop yourself from taking the anger out on the other person? That's the next step. If you can. Fantastic. Then you can go express your anger in some other healthy way.

01;41;00;28 - 01;41;19;06
Annette Dalloo
And however you do that, that's up to you. And then come back to the person and say, look, I was really angry because I was hurt because of this thing that happened. We're never going to be perfect with this. Everything that I'm talking about right now, everything I've talked about for the last ten minutes, this isn't a perfect scenario, and we're never going to be perfect.

01;41;19;08 - 01;41;46;13
Annette Dalloo
But if you can follow that template, you're going to get better and better and better at it. And it just comes with practice. Totally. And also, I think the fact of being aware that there is always something underneath. Yeah, something that's worth looking at 100% because I think within our society, when people don't particularly have access to this kind of topics, this kind of education, which I think should be in every school by now, but we're not there yet.

01;41;46;13 - 01;42;10;04
Annette Dalloo
Yeah, we're not necessarily taught that under anger is hurt under all of this kind of buoyant expressions, often much more low key feelings to explore. So until more of us come to actually understand that that's what happens, really looking at it and looking for it, then we can't really stop ourselves from what comes naturally in the first place, right?

01;42;10;04 - 01;42;36;00
Annette Dalloo
Yeah. And with that does come that element of self-actualization. So I want to ask you about Soul Contract and relationships. So that was very interesting to hear their history as souls, the history of their interactions together and how they came to be partners in this lifetime, and their pre life planning and soul contract that was made for them for this lifetime.

01;42;36;00 - 01;43;01;16
Annette Dalloo
So I want to ask you do all serious romantic relationships come with soul contracts? That's a good question. Most of them do. Yes. Not all of them, but a relationship that is soul contracted is usually there for a particular reason in terms of clearing vows, accomplishing something together, having children, all kinds of different things. It depends on the couple.

01;43;01;21 - 01;43;28;28
Annette Dalloo
There are definitely relationships that happen that aren't meant to happen, but aren't meant to happen, or aren't soul contracted to happen. And what's the difference? Well, both relationships that are soul contracted are there to serve the purpose that they are created for. Of course, we're going to have relationships that we're not soul contracted for, because those are the relationships that give us other experiences.

01;43;28;28 - 01;44;02;27
Annette Dalloo
It is the freewill choices that we make and the experience that we have throughout a particular incarnation. Now, just because it's not soul contracted, doesn't mean that that person wasn't gravitating towards your energy for a reason. Meaning that if you were meant to have a certain experience, let's say I'll use from my perspective, learning how to overcome codependency, the boyfriends I had in my past, did it have to be them specifically?

01;44;03;00 - 01;44;21;14
Annette Dalloo
No. It could have been them, or it could have been a couple of other people. Probably many other people. It could have been just anyone. But it just so happens that I chose those people or they chose me or whatever the case was. But it is the energy that attracts. So I am attracting into my field and experience.

01;44;21;14 - 01;44;46;26
Annette Dalloo
So that's not necessarily so contracted with a particular soul, but it is contracted with an energy, if you will. Throughout the course of my younger years, my energy just basically said codependency, codependency. And then that's what came to me. That is something that I would say is meant to be, even if it's not desirable, it's still meant to be, because that is something that is teaching me something.

01;44;46;26 - 01;45;06;12
Annette Dalloo
It's showing up for me to show me something. Right? But you just happen to come across an energy that was volatile and you decided of your own free will to go with that energy. So that's where free will can have a detrimental effect, if you will, on your path. So those are the ones where we mess up, isn't it?

01;45;06;18 - 01;45;28;21
Annette Dalloo
Those that those are usually the ones where we end up with past life stuff that needs a lot of clearing is when we end up entangled in these types of scenarios. Exactly. So let me just see if I understand the first two properly. So you might have a soul that has a plan to have a particular type of experience in the soul contract situation.

01;45;28;21 - 01;45;54;15
Annette Dalloo
It makes a plan to have that experience with a particular soul in the like, destined but not soul contract. It's just like a plan that it goes in with, and then it just find somebody along the way that has a matching plan, and you kind of just match up as you go and, and travel together. Exactly. And then obviously then the third one being the freewill decision to be with somebody who was not destined, not so contracted.

01;45;54;19 - 01;46;12;28
Annette Dalloo
The unfortunate decision. The unfortunate decision. Yeah. Okay. So if we just talking about the first two for people listening and wondering for example, within their personal relationships, which one it is, does it matter at all which one it is. Does it matter for them to know which one it is? And does it change the way that the course of their relationship runs?

01;46;12;28 - 01;46;46;28
Annette Dalloo
I mean, ultimately you don't need to know one way or another if you are even remotely intuitive and you don't even have to be spiritual at all, like in any way. I have a really good friend who is not spiritual at all, but he's really good at following his intuition. It is when you have a connection with somebody else who, let's say you feel a commonality with them, like it feels like you go together really, really well, but you don't have any really strong pull towards them necessarily for a particular reason.

01;46;47;02 - 01;47;08;27
Annette Dalloo
That is probably going to be a bit of a clue that it's probably destined, but not like you don't have a purpose together. You're meant to sort of connect in and learn something from each other, and that doesn't mean that the relationship isn't going to be for the rest of your life. That destined person could, in fact, be your soulmate that you stay married to or stay together with for eight years.

01;47;08;27 - 01;47;26;29
Annette Dalloo
Just because it's destined and not soul contract, it doesn't mean it's not going to last. It just depends. If you don't have somebody that you're so contracted to be with, then yeah, the person that you're you're sort of destined to be with can just be the person you end up with. So it just it really depends on the situation.

01;47;27;03 - 01;47;53;29
Annette Dalloo
You just said a word that piqued my curiosity. You just said soulmate. So I don't think we've ever discussed this particular topic on this podcast yet. Let's delve into that. What is a soul mate versus a soul contracted relationship? Because soul contracted relationships are not necessarily always successful relationships, right? No. Like oftentimes they are relationships that are there for the purpose of working through something challenging.

01;47;54;05 - 01;48;20;20
Annette Dalloo
And whether or not they continue beyond that is not it's not a given. So then what is a soulmate within the context of pre life planning? A soulmate can be somebody who is in your soul family. It can also be somebody who's not in your soul family. If they are in your soul family, they're usually a soul that you have decided to have in your life to help you in some way.

01;48;20;20 - 01;48;48;16
Annette Dalloo
People will use the term soulmate for friends, for relationships, family. It doesn't matter. Like you can say that a pet is a soulmate, right? It's about a particular soul that I would define as familiar. It is a familiar soul to you who you have known either through your soul family or through various incarnations. So you've had many incarnations with this person, so you have that soul recognition of who each other is.

01;48;48;16 - 01;49;07;17
Annette Dalloo
And in that soul recognition, whether you're contracted or not, you're like, oh yeah, I know you. Hey, what are we going to do together today? It's usually very harmonious. It's usually very easy to connect with these people. It's easy to be in the flow of your energies together. So soulmates have a tendency to be very supportive on your journey.

01;49;07;19 - 01;49;26;15
Annette Dalloo
It's more like a support role. Oftentimes in the spiritual space, we joke, I just want a soulmate because a soulmate is easy and it's lovely and amazing, and you don't have to work super hard at it. I mean, think about the friends that you have and the people you have in your life that you consider soulmates like. I consider us soulmates.

01;49;26;15 - 01;49;48;14
Annette Dalloo
Things are easy with us. Like we can connect and talk and it's it's easy when you have a soulmate come into your life. They could be so contracted, they might just have decided to come in because maybe you're having a really rough time and they basically said, oh, okay, well, you know what? Maybe I'll make a little detour and I'll hang out with this other soul for a little while just to make their lives a little easier.

01;49;48;14 - 01;50;08;02
Annette Dalloo
And in which case that may not be decided ahead of time. That might be something that happened. That is a decision that happens on the fly. A soulmate can be so many different things, and I want to dispel any notion, idea or feeling that we have one soulmate in this world. That was going to be my next question.

01;50;08;02 - 01;50;27;28
Annette Dalloo
You read my mind. No, no, no. Absolutely not. Sorry to break it to all of you out there if you think that you needed one soulmate. But guess what? This is really good news because having one soulmate is kind of like, well, crap, I have to find one person among 6 billion people. That doesn't sound like fun. So yeah, we can have many, many soulmates.

01;50;27;28 - 01;50;53;26
Annette Dalloo
We can have many people who are soul connections in that way. And the more connected we are, the more connected we are to our souls. I feel like the more soulmates we will be able to connect with. It is something that is important for us to have, and it's part of our journeys to help us through because we can't just continually go through challenge after challenge after challenge without having that support.

01;50;54;02 - 01;51;19;29
Annette Dalloo
We'd just not make it. If we're talking specifically about romantic relationships, soulmates, they're not necessarily pre-planned ahead of time. They can be, they can be, but they're not necessarily so. They can just be synchronistic connections. And usually they are souls that you have dealt with in previous lifetimes. Correct. If we want to use the example of had I not moved to Paris, had I not moved to Paris, I wouldn't have met you.

01;51;20;00 - 01;51;40;12
Annette Dalloo
Well, at least not now. Maybe I would have met you later, but like at this point I would have met you. And so wherever I would have moved to what? I still be accomplishing the same things, probably, but with an entirely different set of people. And my experience would probably be slightly different because of that. But most likely I would be doing similar things because this is what I'm meant to do, if that makes sense.

01;51;40;15 - 01;52;24;07
Annette Dalloo
So I guess this is why there is so much confusion about soulmates versus the soul. Contracted relationships, as I suppose, is that the soul contracted relationships have this element of recognition. When that person comes into your life, and what we perceive as that recognition, we perceive it as a soulmate. It's like meant to be. It's all of these types of things which are meant to be, yes, but soulmate as in somebody who is going to be with you for a long time and in a supportive fashion, not necessarily because that intense sense of being drawn to somebody in that intense sense of feeling like it's there is a purpose for this does not equate happily

01;52;24;07 - 01;52;47;15
Annette Dalloo
ever after. It can certainly. But yes, that doesn't always mean that, because sometimes the reason people get married now to clear marriage vows from previous lifetimes. And when you do that, you get married and then you get divorced. And what does that do? Well, the divorce clears the previous marriage. Well before people were aware that you could clear marriage vows and that it's something that needed to happen.

01;52;47;15 - 01;53;03;24
Annette Dalloo
Well, okay. What's the best way to do that? Divorce. Right? People wonder why is the divorce rate so high? Well, that's kind of why. I mean, there are of course other reasons. But like one of the main reasons is you feel like you are connected to this person, you get married and then you're like, oh, we're not connected.

01;53;03;24 - 01;53;22;17
Annette Dalloo
And then you divorce and that's the end of that. And then you don't have to come back with that person again. So then I wonder, is there a way to avoid that entire scenario altogether by, say, coming to somebody like you as a couple before getting married and checking in and saying, hey, what's actually intended for us? Correct.

01;53;22;20 - 01;53;43;12
Annette Dalloo
Yeah, absolutely. If a couple came in and would you be able to identify that they have a outstanding wedding vow that should no longer be valid? Would you be able to tell it, like to identify that and to tell them that? Yes, because I have seen in the records many times, couples that have signed up to be married in multiple lifetimes.

01;53;43;12 - 01;54;06;29
Annette Dalloo
So I've been able to see that. I've been able to see that they've chosen to continue to work together. And I've also seen that in previous lifetimes. I can see where the reason why they got married in this lifetime was because the previous lifetime them, when they were married, let's say it was a really harmonious subcontracted union. And they had a beautiful marriage together.

01;54;07;02 - 01;54;24;13
Annette Dalloo
And so when they saw each other in this lifetime, they remembered that. And they're like, oh yeah, we've like maybe not consciously remember, but their souls were, oh, right, we're supposed to be together, but maybe they're really not supposed to be together in this lifetime. And then they get married and then it's like, oh yeah, no, we're really not supposed to be together in this lifetime.

01;54;24;13 - 01;54;49;22
Annette Dalloo
And then they get divorced. There can be echoes of that in many, many lives. And in the past, divorce had been, you know, sort of forbidden. It wasn't something that you could really do. Now it's become so prevalent that it makes it easier to to clear these contracts. Certainly. So in like a scenario like this one where the two people are really not meant to be together in this lifetime, would you be able to see that immediately?

01;54;49;22 - 01;55;11;11
Annette Dalloo
Yeah. And would you tell them that. Yeah, of course I would. Now, granted, I have said that to clients before. I mean, I've, I've done it several times, in fact, it has not been during a couple session, though it has been during individual sessions where I've seen that they are not meant to be with the person they're with now, I will never, ever, ever tell a client that they need to break up with somebody.

01;55;11;17 - 01;55;34;14
Annette Dalloo
I will always just say, this is what your soul contracted for. This is what you're not so contracted for. If you continue in this direction with this person, this is the potential outcome. But wait, not soul contracted for doesn't equate you shouldn't be with this person in this lifetime, right? It depends on the scenario. So there there would be times when they would be so contracted in order to clear the marriage vow.

01;55;34;15 - 01;55;53;06
Annette Dalloo
Okay. But then there could be times when, let's say they don't need to clear the marriage vow. Let's say it ended harmoniously and the marriage vow was dissolved before they died. But then they still recognized each other and said, oh, I think we need to be together. And then they come together. But they were not meant to. Then that would end in divorce.

01;55;53;06 - 01;56;17;20
Annette Dalloo
Two if I think that's what you're asking, right? Yes, but in terms of like, how would that be identifiable in terms of somebody simply not being contracted together versus you being able to see that this is not a relationship that's in your highest good? It's pretty easy to ask the guides, is this person that I'm having this session with do they have a soul contract with this other person?

01;56;17;22 - 01;56;44;01
Annette Dalloo
It's a pretty solid, just like yes or no. So that comes in usually pretty quickly. If it is a no that they're not so contracted together that doesn't mean that they're not serving a purpose. This would be in that case where like, hey, you're kind of off your path at this moment. You're going down a path that is actually going to perpetuate some of your wounds, or it's going to perpetuate some sort of something or other that it's not in your highest good to experience.

01;56;44;01 - 01;57;04;00
Annette Dalloo
It's in that type of situation where I will advise the client. I will say, look, if you go in this direction, it could go one of several timelines. You know, I'll, I'll kind of outline the timelines for them and say, hey, look, it could potentially go this way if we it this way or you go this way. I will also give the client a way to potentially try to work through that relationship.

01;57;04;00 - 01;57;24;15
Annette Dalloo
If they really want to stay in it. I will never, ever tell a client you need to leave this person. But I will say like, hey, in your current state of this relationship, yep, you are veering off your path. You're not going towards your highest good. That makes sense. I think people would appreciate to have that kind of guidance.

01;57;24;21 - 01;57;53;20
Annette Dalloo
Yeah, I know I would if I were in that situation. Great. Is there anything else that you want to add on this particular subject? It was really beneficial for Rose and Marco to come together and do this session. To the extent that Rose wrote to me afterwards and said that this was the equivalent of two years of therapy in her eyes, this one session, which was, gosh, it was incredible to hear, like I was just I was kind of blown away by that.

01;57;53;22 - 01;58;25;24
Annette Dalloo
But it is true because it kind of cuts through all of the B.S., it cuts through all of it. And so when you connect in with your heart and what you are truly feeling, that is going to be the quickest way to a resolution for any conflict in terms of a relationship. So my takeaway that I will give to everyone who's listening is if you can try to connect into your heart more often, even just 5% more often, it will improve your relationships greatly.

01;58;25;26 - 01;58;51;12
Annette Dalloo
It will improve how you show up in your relationships. Not just romantic, but all relationships. And if you can do that, you will grow exponentially, your life will get exponentially better, and you will stop reacting and start being intentional about how you are cultivating your relationship. Beautiful advice. Thank you. Know. Thank you soulmate. I love you so dearly.

01;58;51;16 - 01;59;17;20
Annette Dalloo
Right back at you. Thank you for another beautiful chat today. Yeah, thanks. Until next time. Till next time. If you're enjoying this podcast, I really would appreciate it if you would give it a like a thumbs up. Wherever you happen to be listening, make sure you're subscribed so you don't miss an episode. And if you need to get Ahold of me, you can certainly reach me on my website at Infinite Soul love.com.

01;59;17;22 - 01;59;47;00
Annette Dalloo
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