AR18:Embracing the Flow: Letting Go of Control and Discovering Multiple Soul Purposes

Joy came to me wanting to understand why she feels her life has gone off track. We discover her multiple soul purposes. She is a Transmuter, Leader and a Gateway. We dive into the definintions of each of these soul purposes. In addition, we cover how to hold space for others who are not willing to take your advise or do the work. 

Transcript

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Annette Dalloo
Now, there can be a lot of feelings of responsibility when you feel that you have the most experi rience, or you feel you have more knowledge, or you feel you have gone through something similar and have come out the other side, and therefore you have more perspective. There can be this whole and this feeling that you need to impart this information for other people to experience, hear or understand.

00;00;31;29 - 00;01;02;16
Annette Dalloo
And although that is a beautiful thing to do to help somebody in that way. The biggest factor that has an effect on whether or not the person is going to utilize the information to their benefit, is whether or not they are willing to do the work, whether or not they are willing to hear the information.

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Annette Dalloo
Welcome to the Akashic Recordings. I'm Annette Dalloo Akashic Conduit channel and spiritual guidance coach. I want to thank you for joining me today. The Akashic Recordings is created through the cooperation of my clients who have agreed to have their sessions recorded. Of course, with their permission, I am able to share these beautiful sessions with you. If you are interested in booking a session with me, you can go to my website at InfiniteSoullove.com.

00;01;36;11 - 00;02;09;18
Annette Dalloo
I am inviting you to take your intuition to the next level in the next couple of months. I am launching Soul Discovery Workshop online. This is a three month program where you meet with me every single week and practice not only your intuition and your spiritual gifts. Discover who you are as a soul as well as connect with others and practice your intuition so you can have the confidence that you need when you are tapping into that divine Source energy and you're trying to get those messages.

00;02;09;19 - 00;02;35;29
Annette Dalloo
This workshop is going to take you to the next level. You will also start to learn how to access your own Akashic Records. I will teach you how to clear vows and ancestral line traumas. The spots are limited, so I'm going to open registration for a limited amount of time. If you are interested in joining us in this beautiful group of like minded souls.

00;02;36;00 - 00;03;16;22
Annette Dalloo
Head to my website at InfiniteSoulLove.com. There you can head to the contact page and fill out the form. Put in the Message Soul Discovery Workshop and I will put you on the waiting list. In today's session, I speak with Joy, who is looking for some guidance not only regarding her life and soul purpose, but also regarding her need for control in her life and how she can overcome that.

00;03;16;25 - 00;03;38;06
Annette Dalloo
So tell me, what would you like to cover today? So I really thought I was on this path of knowing what my purpose was. After a long and unfulfilling corporate career, and changed and did that was doing that work that I didn't had kids and everything fell apart. I guess I want to understand what is my purpose in this lifetime.

00;03;38;08 - 00;03;59;21
Joy
Okay. Because I feel like I got off track, except I know that what I'm doing now I have to do. You know, my kids are needing a lot of support. So, I think that's really the big step. What I'm seeing in your root chakra is there's a big gaping hole of vast emptiness, and you're standing on the edge of it and you're saying hello.

00;03;59;24 - 00;04;26;00
Annette Dalloo
Like, what is going on down there? Basically, what that says to me is that recently, your sense of foundation about yourself and about everything that you are and as you mentioned, like what you're here to do, all of that has just been kind of like taken out from under you. So now there's no solid foundation. It's just like this big gaping chasm and you're not quite sure what to do.

00;04;26;01 - 00;04;45;21
Annette Dalloo
You're like, do I jump in? Do I just jump in and see what's going to happen? Or do I stay here and wait for that to sort of fill in? So it's a little bit more clear as to what's happening. This has to do with your transition. Right now. You're going through a transition period in your life and they want you to know also this is something that I heard very clearly.

00;04;45;25 - 00;05;12;17
Annette Dalloo
You don't just have one sole purpose. Some people have one sole purpose. You have multiple sole purposes. And your life purpose is actually tied to those sole purposes. When you're saying that you thought it was one thing and now it's changed to another, it's not that you are sort of switching gears entirely, it is more that you are oscillating between one life purpose to the next.

00;05;12;19 - 00;05;37;23
Annette Dalloo
And that's where this lack of foundation is coming in right now, because you're just not quite sure what this change is bringing. You don't know what is happening. We'll get a little bit of clarity regarding that, so you can feel a bit more sense of security and safety regarding what you're moving into. So then let's move that energy up to your sacral chakra.

00;05;37;24 - 00;06;07;05
Annette Dalloo
I keep on hearing I want to play. So there's like this, this childlike wonder that wants to come through in your sacral chakra. You want to be creative. You want to actually just relax and play. And there's not been a lot of opportunity to do that. And you just want to sort of kick back and create. Now, creation doesn't necessarily mean that you have to be a painter or musician or anything like that, but creation, as in like manifesting, like creating what you want for your life.

00;06;07;06 - 00;06;28;28
Annette Dalloo
I'm just getting that. You're being pulled in a bunch of different directions, and you're sitting there going, I just want to daydream about what I want my life to be, and there's just not a whole lot of time for that. So your sacral chakra is supporting you in that. Your sacral chakra actually looks really good and healthy, and that's actually what's kind of pulling you in that direction.

00;06;29;01 - 00;06;51;19
Annette Dalloo
Okay. Yay! Something working in my favor? Yeah, that feels right. That feels really right. So then let's move that energy up to your solar plexus chakra. It's like you used to have a lot of confidence and a lot of faith in yourself. And it's like a little light bulb that just went out. Like, I'm seeing that just in the recent past.

00;06;51;23 - 00;07;09;17
Annette Dalloo
Your solar plexus chakra was shining really brightly and you felt really good. And then all of a sudden you're just like, shut off. And that has to do with this little chasm that you got going on in the root chakra. And in you're just kind of sitting there going, I don't know who I am anymore. I don't know where I'm supposed to go, what I'm supposed to do.

00;07;09;18 - 00;07;26;03
Annette Dalloo
Yeah. And each time you try to take a step in one direction, you're like, I don't know if that's it. I don't know if that's it. Maybe I'll take a step back. Okay. Now, maybe this other direction. Is it. Nope. No, I don't feel like that's an either. It's like this. You're sticking a toe in the water, and then you're just sort of going back because you're like, I'm not sure.

00;07;26;03 - 00;07;45;12
Annette Dalloo
I'm not sure what this is. What's happening is I try to take a step and then something that's more urgent, or that something else happens with one of the kids or whatever, and I feel like I can't step in any other direction, like I'm being held back. It's what it feels like to me. And so you're being pulled back into the other direction?

00;07;45;12 - 00;08;08;11
Annette Dalloo
Yeah, yeah. Into this dark place. All right, so then let's move that energy up to your heart space. I just keep on hearing brilliant green glitter and and beautiful love in your heart space. You have a great capacity for love and openness. There is a little darkness in the center of the heart, and that usually really means to me that it has to do with the past life.

00;08;08;11 - 00;08;34;16
Annette Dalloo
And I do see that it does have to do with giving your power away. So this has to do with not putting yourself first. And it's not a surprise that that is at the core of the heart, because the core of the heart is where we cultivate our own generator of self-love. And if you're always looking out for other people before yourself, then that core is going to get depleted.

00;08;34;20 - 00;08;55;09
Annette Dalloo
Your crown chakra looks good. Yeah, it feels good. I'm just seeing literally, like, dancing unicorns around your crown chakra. There's a little hesitancy there. I'm hearing it. I don't want to see everything yet. And they're saying it'll come with time. Yeah, I'm nervous about seeing everything. And, Yeah. That's common. A lot of people are nervous about seeing everything because they don't know how it's going to come in.

00;08;55;09 - 00;09;19;03
Annette Dalloo
Right. Are a lot of your intuitive messages coming in through Claire? Audience. I will say that in the past, when I've had good access to my intuition, it's coming through that. Yes. And I feel so not in touch with my intuition right now. Lately. Well, that has a lot to do with the root chakra. When the root chakra is unstable, it kind of topples the whole system.

00;09;19;04 - 00;09;40;12
Annette Dalloo
That's not a huge surprise. The reason why I was asking that is because normally my guides give me images and pictures and then my channel. Everything that they've given me so far has been clear audio, which is different from what they normally do. And so I was like, I wonder if this is her. I wonder if this is like, you know, like that's the reason why they're giving it to me in that way.

00;09;40;12 - 00;09;59;25
Annette Dalloo
That just wanted to confirm that. So yeah, that makes a lot of sense. Okay. So then I would like you to move that energy down into your throat chakra. So there's a lot of harsh words going on in the throat chakra. And the harsh words are frustration. This is having to do with putting other people before yourself.

00;10;00;00 - 00;10;19;23
Annette Dalloo
And when you are trying to help others and you're trying to give them, let's say, advice or help in some way, and they're not taking it or they're not doing what is aligned for them, let's say, or they're doing something that's out of alignment from what you think that they should be doing. There's a lot of frustration and a lot of harsh words there.

00;10;19;23 - 00;10;37;26
Annette Dalloo
And this is stemming back from this previous lifetime that we're going to look at, that has this little darkness in the heart. It is something that is maybe not expressed fully all the time. So it's not the harsh words that you're like screaming at people all the time. But it's like it's in there. It's it's in the throat.

00;10;37;26 - 00;11;01;05
Annette Dalloo
And if you're not expressing it, it's making you sort of choke up and get stuck in your words. It's something that needs to be let go of from the standpoint of that control, that having to really manage and control everything that is going on around you. Yeah, that makes way too much sense. Okay, great. I want to thank Akula, my hacker guide.

00;11;01;06 - 00;11;21;07
Annette Dalloo
Hello. Thank you for being here. I want to thank Archangel Metatron and Archangel Xenophon for being here as well, guiding us while we are in the Akashic Records to all of the information that we need today. We are opening up the Akashic Records. They really want me to go to this, this heart chakra, this past life in the heart chakra and then we're going to go to your ex-husband, and then we'll go to your life and soul purpose.

00;11;21;07 - 00;11;41;26
Annette Dalloo
Great. Okay, so let's see what lifetime we need to look at for clearing of this heart chakra, please. As well as the throat chakra. This is so interesting. Like everything is coming into me clear radiantly even now. Like in. That just doesn't happen. That's really funny. I'm hearing you are not in a position to make decisions for anyone.

00;11;41;26 - 00;11;57;28
Annette Dalloo
This is a man that's saying this to you. You are not of sound mind. You are not somebody who is able to guide anybody or make decisions for anybody. How do you think that you're capable of doing this? Okay, so can we take a look at this scenario please? In this past life, it's a man saying this to you.

00;11;57;28 - 00;12;24;24
Annette Dalloo
You're a female in this lifetime. This is a work situation. You're at a factory. It kind of feels like war time. It's a recent lifetime, and it feels like war time. When women were working in factories because the men were all overseas fighting and there weren't a lot of men available to be foremen or managers in this particular factory that you were working in.

00;12;24;24 - 00;12;52;06
Annette Dalloo
You had taken on sort of this leadership role, and you were helping people in their jobs. You were helping people in the hierarchy like organizing things. So things were more efficient. You almost took the the role of the foreman. And the conversation that I was hearing is that this man who actually was the foreman, but he was a foreman for many, many, many different manufacturing places.

00;12;52;06 - 00;13;24;04
Annette Dalloo
So like he had to go between several different factories. He wasn't always there. And he hadn't been to your factory in quite some time. It had been several months. And when he finally arrived and he saw how efficient everything was and how you were actually helping people, meaning that like if somebody had an injury or somebody had a problem emotionally, even like they had lost a husband or a family member in the war, like you would give them time to nurse their grief and and get through it.

00;13;24;04 - 00;14;00;10
Annette Dalloo
And so you were really compassionate, really loving towards everybody who worked there. And everybody really loved you and followed you to the ends of the earth, basically. And so this guy came in and saw how well everything was working, but he saw your practices and what you were doing and thought that it was just super unconventional and didn't want to have anything to do with it, and basically wanted to take credit for the factory working seamlessly, but wanting to sort of knock you off the pedestal he thought you were on.

00;14;00;10 - 00;14;25;14
Annette Dalloo
He started saying that you were mentally unbalanced, that you were not equipped to make these types of decisions. You were not in a place where you could actually help these people had. I feel that it's interesting because no one's ever stopped me in this lifetime. No one's ever said you can't. I mean, other than societies, you can't. You know, I rose to really high levels within my company faster than the men around me.

00;14;25;14 - 00;14;49;14
Annette Dalloo
And so I never felt that in this lifetime. But I've always felt like I was fighting against something to be able to earn or claim my place. Does that make sense? Yeah it does. Back then, in this other lifetime, the collective energies were still even wrapping their collective consciousness around the idea that women could work in a factory.

00;14;49;14 - 00;15;39;11
Annette Dalloo
Right? It's just such a foreign concept at the time. Whereas in this lifetime, for you, you've grown up in a particular era where you went from having women be sort of looked down upon in business to having this great opening of allowing the energy of women to be able to rise. Okay. Now, of course, we're not fully there yet, but it is incredibly more open now and has been the last several years than it has been ever with the changes of the energies and with the rise of the divine feminine and the rise of the Divine Masculine, even because the control, the pushing down of the feminine, that's distorted masculine, essentially, the rise of both

00;15;39;11 - 00;16;06;04
Annette Dalloo
the divine and of masculine and feminine is allowing that that energy to sort of be and exist. The problem with the distortions of the energies, aside from just the distortions, is that when you as a, as a person, as a soul, are doing something in a particular lifetime, as you were in this previous lifetime, you were looking after every single one of these women working in this factory.

00;16;06;06 - 00;16;27;07
Annette Dalloo
You were trying to make sure they were cared for, that they had the support they needed, that they knew that their jobs were secure. Like all of these things. But what is not in this story in any way is me. You. I mean, this is like, yeah, it makes me a little sad. It's like codependency goes back generations, I mean, lifetimes.

00;16;27;09 - 00;17;01;04
Annette Dalloo
Yeah. Yeah. Well, and the thing is, is that codependency sometimes is born out of necessity, right? Because you wanted to be able to give these women a safe place to work, right? And nobody else was going to give it to them. And you knew that you have this ability to take this leadership role and do it. The the codependency is rooted in, oh, well, I can save everybody and I don't need to pay attention to myself, my own wounding, my own fears, my own grief, our needs.

00;17;01;09 - 00;17;22;16
Annette Dalloo
Yes, exactly. And part of the reason why this man in this previous lifetime was saying that you were mentally unstable because you had lost somebody. And I'm hearing that it was your husband in the war. You would take breaks and just go somewhere and cry because you had to, because you had to let it out somewhere and you weren't properly grieving.

00;17;22;22 - 00;17;41;20
Annette Dalloo
So basically you would heard that he died. You grieved briefly, there was a bit of a ceremony, and then you just went right back to work. And that actually redoubled your efforts in work because you knew you had to support yourself because he was not coming back, and because you had lost him. You were like, well, I need to throw myself into the work.

00;17;41;24 - 00;18;15;19
Annette Dalloo
And that's what you did. And that is what created this disconnect from the core of your heart. Yeah. And that feels there's a lot of parallels there to what's happening in this lifetime. All right. So is there anything else that we need to know about that lifetime? Not at this time. Okay. I am getting that part of the throat chakra issue that you're having, which is people not doing what you you're telling them to do is because actually, in this previous lifetime, all the women looked up to you so much that they did literally whatever you told them to do.

00;18;15;24 - 00;18;38;18
Annette Dalloo
If you told them to take time off and go grieve, they would go do that if you told them to work more efficiently. Or we need to rally and get this done as quickly as possible. They would all rally. They were 100% behind you. You were very used to that in this previous lifetime. And so now you come into this one and you're like, wait, why isn't everybody just doing what I'm telling him to do?

00;18;38;20 - 00;19;08;18
Annette Dalloo
I mean, I think what's hard in this lifetime around this notion of people doing what I tell them to do, is that I've always had a strong sense that I actually do have a lot of the answers, you know, and that feel so cocky or like there's so much hubris in that. But but I do feel like there's a gift I have around those sorts of things with others and directing and guiding or whatever, that it doesn't make it frustrating when someone is unwilling to listen.

00;19;08;21 - 00;19;47;17
Annette Dalloo
Yeah, and that's part of the maturity of understanding that even though you do have the answers, because you do, you do have a lot of them. And even though you're connected so well in to your intuition and you know that you could tell somebody this bit of information and it would make their lives easier. You also have to understand that everybody has their own journey, and if taking your advice or doing what you're telling them to do puts them on a path that is not aligned for them, then that's going to sort of wreak havoc on and what they're meant to do.

00;19;47;22 - 00;20;10;22
Annette Dalloo
So, for example, if you tell them, don't walk across the street over there, they're doing construction, you might fall down a pothole and they don't do it. But maybe them falling down that pothole was the exact thing they needed in order to rise and in order to get through future problems. Or maybe they needed to go through that because they had to learn how to move through grief or move through pain.

00;20;10;24 - 00;20;38;26
Annette Dalloo
Right. But you robbing them of that experience could potentially have detrimental effects in the future, right? Right. There are so many things that we don't know from a universal standpoint. We know kind of what's sort of in front of us and maybe a little bit ahead of us, maybe a little behind us. But like on a on a spiritual level, the universe and our guides and our higher self knows so much more than we do.

00;20;38;28 - 00;21;00;12
Annette Dalloo
And so that's when we need to surrender to our soul and say, okay, right, and trust what needs to happen here. So what's interesting is that when I left my corporate work, I did feel like, okay, great, I've done lots for divine feminine, but this is really not where I want to be as a divine feminine. And I moved into work where I was.

00;21;00;12 - 00;21;20;01
Annette Dalloo
I was coaching women who were in corporate situations that didn't want to be wanted more out of life, and helping them look at what fulfillment was and move their lives in that direction. And so in the work I did with coaching, I could work with those clients and be completely unattached and let them fall in that pothole. And that was okay.

00;21;20;06 - 00;21;42;24
Annette Dalloo
Like I was there to hear them and be a sounding board and whatever. It's when I get with family members or close friends that I can't seem to have that same level of letting go. And that makes sense, right? Because the people who you were coaching and the people who were coming to you were coming to you willingly and wanting that direction.

00;21;42;25 - 00;22;04;11
Annette Dalloo
Often when somebody is coming to you and asking for your expertise in this particular area, what do you suggest? They're more likely going to take that advice because they're seeking it versus family. Most of the time they're not actually seeking it, right? That and I'm not attached to the outcome of anything with one of my clients. And I am with my family.

00;22;04;11 - 00;22;25;29
Annette Dalloo
Yeah. Okay. Correct. Yeah. Exactly. All right. So they're saying for me to just sort of leave this subject matter for now, we're going to circle back to it a little bit later. Okay. So now we can go into some of the more expansive information such as life purpose and soul purpose. Which one do we need to go to first?

00;22;26;02 - 00;22;58;17
Annette Dalloo
Some purpose. Right. How many lifetimes do we need to look at for that? Do we need to look at soul origin? We do. Okay, cool. So your soul has an origination in a leadership soul signature, if you can imagine, when you sort of individualized from divine source energy, you came with your soul family. They usually show me Divine Source energy as this giant sort of nebulous blob, which is not the case.

00;22;58;17 - 00;23;22;28
Annette Dalloo
It's everywhere. It's everything. But just for the sake of visuals so I can get the information. That's how they show it to me. And so they showed me in this little blob, the soul family that you individualized with is like pulling off from divine source energy, like you're pulling off a piece of bubblegum or something like that. It took several tries for you to individualize and break off from that divine source energy, and mainly because of desire, like you and your soul.

00;23;22;28 - 00;23;44;29
Annette Dalloo
Family almost didn't really want to go and have these experiences. You were kind of like, no, I'm good, I'm good. Just being part of the whole and not really having experiences. And yet it was something that you knew that you would benefit from and that divine source energy would benefit from. So you were like, well, okay, it makes sense to do it, but I don't know if we really want to do it.

00;23;44;29 - 00;24;05;24
Annette Dalloo
Do we really want to do this? And so it was like this back and forth, back and forth. And finally you did. And when you did. And I've never, ever seen this before. It's really interesting because the like all of the souls in your soul family, it's like you couldn't agree on what types of experiences you wanted to have, because every soul family sort of has a particular theme, if you will.

00;24;05;24 - 00;24;28;10
Annette Dalloo
Like some soul families will work on unconditional love. Some will work on trust, some will work on clearing energy grids. And so your soul family was just kind of like, we don't really know what direction we want to go. So you were kind of floating a little bit aimlessly for a while, and this should come as no surprise to you that your soul in particular decided to take the lead.

00;24;28;10 - 00;24;54;28
Annette Dalloo
When you talk soul family, that's people that I might experience over multiple lifetimes. Correct? Okay. Got it. Yeah. You all help each other out. You basically said, okay, if we have to have experiences, at the very least, let's go have an experience on a planet that is not so harsh. And I'm hearing Pleiades, but it's not Pleiades, but it's similar to that star system.

00;24;54;28 - 00;25;16;15
Annette Dalloo
It's a very high vibrational star system. It's really funny because they they want me to say this, and this is not just for your benefit, but this is for everyone else's that essentially we as humans get really stuck on. Oh, where did we come from? Like what did our soul or originate in? The short answer is we all originated from divine Source energy.

00;25;16;15 - 00;25;40;14
Annette Dalloo
That's the bottom line. But where do we go first after that? It just happens to be where your soul's decided to go based on the energy that you wanted to move towards and some people say, oh, I'm Arcturian, I'm Pleiadian, I'm this, I'm that. And like, everybody's stuck on like, the same 3 or 4 star systems and there are just billions of them.

00;25;40;16 - 00;26;04;15
Annette Dalloo
So, like, there are a lot of different experiences that our souls have had that we just have zero clue about. We have no actual knowledge of. And the guides have shown me some of these places. They don't have names. It's not some place that we would be able to consciously know. Okay, that's why they're saying that it's like Pleiades, but it's not exactly that.

00;26;04;15 - 00;26;28;20
Annette Dalloo
So it's about the same energetic frequency. Okay. Which is sort of this high level frequency. And you went to this place to just sort of have some experiences that were not incarnated. You were not incarnated in bodies. It was just sort of having experiences in this particular star system. You did eventually incarnate in bodies in other planets and things like that.

00;26;28;20 - 00;26;50;09
Annette Dalloo
But that was later on down the road. You have sort of been the designated leader, if you will, of your soul, family and your soul family has really looked to you to offer up the opportunities and the the options. So whereas if everybody's not really sure what to do, where to go and you're like, okay, well we have these options.

00;26;50;09 - 00;27;08;14
Annette Dalloo
What, what sounds good to everybody. So you offer up those options and everybody's like, yeah, let's yeah, let's do that. Let's do that. That sounds good. Because your soul family was so reticent to even, like leave divine Source energy. If you can really use that word. It's not that we really leave it. It's just sort of, a different form.

00;27;08;16 - 00;27;33;04
Annette Dalloo
But you're. Because your soul family was so reticent to leave, like, you're basically you're deciding that let's not do anything too, too hard. I don't want to do anything too difficult because that just seems very unpleasant. Your whole soul family is kind of allergic to challenges. Then how did I get here?

00;27;33;06 - 00;27;57;27
Annette Dalloo
We will find out. I'm hearing music like the Flight of the Valkyries. That's my dad's favorite piece of music. Oh my gosh. Oh, I love that. You were like, okay, guys, we need to do something. We have to, like, have some more experiences. We can't just stay here stagnant all the time. We need to go and have some experiences on earth and in your whole soul.

00;27;57;27 - 00;28;15;01
Annette Dalloo
Families like, oh, I don't know about that. That looks really hard. And you're like, no, look, we can totally do this. And you were the first person to incarnate on Earth, and you were like, look, this is how it's done. Let's do this. And so you lead the rest of your family down to earth to be able to have these experiences.

00;28;15;01 - 00;28;37;10
Annette Dalloo
Now, some of them have decided not to have any experiences on earth, and they've stayed behind in other places and like, nope, I'm not doing that. And you're like, that's totally fine. You don't have to. But the people who wanted to decide it too, and it's going to benefit the rest of the soul family as well. For you guys to have these experiences here, can I know who are in my current lifetime that are so family?

00;28;37;12 - 00;28;55;10
Annette Dalloo
There are three people in your life currently. There are seven others that will be in your life at various different points in the future. There were two other people who are a part of your soul, soul family who were part of your life in this lifetime, but that are no longer part of your life. You played a role at some point, and then they are no longer part of your life, which that happens.

00;28;55;10 - 00;29;17;18
Annette Dalloo
Obviously. It's interesting because I'm getting it's more friends, more friendships than family members, although I am getting that one of your grandmothers was a member of your soul family. Did you know her? Yeah, on your mother's side I did, but not well. I she she passed when I was fairly young. Okay. So then what is their purpose or one of them.

00;29;17;18 - 00;29;39;15
Annette Dalloo
Because it sounds like you have multiple okay. So that makes sense. One of them is you've kind of like I said you've taken on this leader role. So you are helping all the various different souls in your soul family. And what's interesting about this is that you do it on the other side as a soul from a beautiful, unconditionally loving space in a very healthy space.

00;29;39;15 - 00;30;08;12
Annette Dalloo
Like there obviously isn't codependency on the other side. Your codependency is fully rooted in this incarnation in previous incarnations on this planet. So it's very new to you, relatively speaking. And so it theoretically should be able to be unraveled relatively easily as well. Great. Definitely feels like it's more than one lifetime. Yeah. That, you know, it's like I came here having to figure this out because it had already been a part of things.

00;30;08;12 - 00;30;30;11
Annette Dalloo
Oh, definitely. Yeah. Yeah. You've been working on this for a few lifetimes now. Okay. So then what other soul purposes does she have? I have no idea what that means. They're showing me that you are almost, like, gathering up all the souls, putting them in a giant bag, throwing them over your shoulder and walking away. And they're saying to me that you're the you're the transporter.

00;30;30;11 - 00;30;49;07
Annette Dalloo
You're here to transport souls from one place to the next. Is that in a mediumship way? Yes. But that's not only in a mediumship way, it is also in various different ways. She helps souls get from one place to the next. She's a gateway. Oh, is she a portal? She's not a portal. She's a gateway. There's a difference.

00;30;49;07 - 00;31;06;07
Annette Dalloo
Okay, so, like, her energy is actually a gateway. Like, she doesn't open gateways. She is one. I just want to be clear on that. That is correct. She is a gateway, okay? It's part of the reason why you feel responsible for so much. Got it. So this is something your soul does on a soul level that you don't even really realize that you're doing.

00;31;06;09 - 00;31;34;07
Annette Dalloo
This is nothing that your three dimensional self really has a whole lot to do with, other than the mediumship. That is something that you could do on a on a physical level, but everything else is done on a spiritual level, meaning that you're not necessarily conscious that you're doing it. Explain if you can, what gateway means, like, is this in this lifetime that related to gateways here and beyond?

00;31;34;07 - 00;32;03;10
Annette Dalloo
I'm going to have to channel that information. Can you please explain to us what it means by her being a gateway? Yes. What it simply means is that her energy is an energy that allows souls to pass from one place to the next in a safe and quick fashion. If you can imagine folding time and being able to walk through a doorway from one place to the next.

00;32;03;12 - 00;32;39;00
Annette Dalloo
So let's say on one side of the doorway, it is 1935, and the other side of the doorway is 2047. Her energy allows those two times to come together so the souls can cross from one time to the next, in order to be able to access the information in the various different periods of time, if you will, on this planet and or places in the entire galaxy.

00;32;39;01 - 00;33;12;28
Annette Dalloo
Her reach does not go further than the galaxy that you are currently in, but this allows her to be able to help the souls move from one place to another without being affected by distortions, without being affected by disjointed energy, you have had experience in it with previous clients, where they have been experimenting with folding of timelines and dimensions, and how that has created energies that are not in alignment, energies that are disjointed.

00;33;12;28 - 00;33;36;25
Annette Dalloo
She makes things smooth and safe, if you will, for the energies to move through from one place to the next, and allows them to be able to safely get somewhere without picking up any psychic debris, any distortion, or any energies that would have an effect on the soul, this is the best way that we can describe it on a cosmic level.

00;33;36;25 - 00;33;57;10
Annette Dalloo
There is so much more to what she does, but for the sake of the explanation, this is as far as we can take this. Does this have an effect on her energy levels? Does it drain her to do this? It does not. Being a gateway is a pillar of strength, if you will. It just simply is. It's not something she has to be.

00;33;57;10 - 00;34;27;08
Annette Dalloo
She just is. It feels like this would be happening outside of time space here, but rather up where divine source is. Or is it here? Because I feel like a part of the work that I do when I do my work with individual clients is that but not related to, you know, 1935 versus 2044 related to pieces in their life today.

00;34;27;10 - 00;34;52;05
Annette Dalloo
And that makes sense, because what we do on a soul level kind of trickles down to what we end up doing on a human level. So most of the time when people ask, well, what is my life purpose? What is my soul purpose? I'm like, typically what your soul purpose or life purpose is going to be is going to be pretty close to what you already do, and it's going to be pretty close to what your natural talents are, right?

00;34;52;10 - 00;35;22;17
Annette Dalloo
Right. So it's not surprising that that's what you do in physical, because it is certainly what you're doing on a soul level. Got it. That makes sense. Regarding your black hole that you've got going on in your root chakra, a lot of this has to do with a fine tuning of where you need to be. Essentially, you're leveling up in your energy and in order to do so, you need to work on where you are and how you're showing up.

00;35;22;17 - 00;35;43;27
Annette Dalloo
So, like you said, with your family, instead of trying to control things, letting go and being there as a as a safe space to land or helping people usher from one place to the next if they're asking for that help, if they're coming to you. So like, if you're if you're a gateway, a gateway is not going to travel to somebody and say, hey, are you ready to come through?

00;35;44;00 - 00;36;02;05
Annette Dalloo
A gateway is just going to stay where it is. And the the person will come to the gateway and cross through when they're ready. Right. That's what you need to practice doing is just saying, okay, well when people are ready, they'll come to me and I will help them through. Your coaching business is not done. It's on pause for the moment.

00;36;02;08 - 00;36;25;10
Annette Dalloo
Can you tell me what are you feeling guided to right now with the coaching business? You know, not much. I really feel so. I mean, I still coach when I get referrals, but I'm not doing anything to fill the business because I'm feeling so marked down by the day to day managing, you know, kids, household and ex-husband energy.

00;36;25;10 - 00;36;45;07
Annette Dalloo
But I do feel that is on pause and that there will come a time when I can pour more energy into that. I mean, one of the things I've had to do through the course of the divorce was pick up a job to help put food on the table. Because I didn't I didn't feel the creative energy to build my coaching business right now.

00;36;45;07 - 00;37;11;25
Annette Dalloo
I just have felt depleted. So I'm glad to hear it's on pause. I don't know what I feel drawn to yet, and I'm open to the inspiration. Yeah, and that's okay, because ultimately what they're saying to me is that this is a gift to you, because imagine if you are there for your family, you're trying to navigate all of that, and then you have to be there for all of your clients.

00;37;11;25 - 00;37;33;23
Annette Dalloo
Where is the time for you? They're giving you this time to really work on that space for you to work on the things that you need to look at within yourself. This is the gift they're giving you. And that also being said, like the the part time job that you got, it was there to help you to just sort of discard act.

00;37;33;24 - 00;37;59;20
Annette Dalloo
Because the thing is, is that when you are in a place where you are starting to feel overwrought with everything that's going on, it's very difficult to be in that coaching space, even though it's something that you like doing, even though you're really good at it. It's just there is an amount of energy that it does take, and if you are fully depleted, there's not a lot you can do.

00;37;59;22 - 00;38;23;18
Annette Dalloo
Correct? Yeah. I often find this with my own practice that there will be big gaping holes where I don't have any sessions, and whenever I see that, I'm like, okay, universe or what's going to happen there where I'm going to have to take some time, you know, like, or I just feel guided to take a chunk of time off and things like that.

00;38;23;18 - 00;38;48;12
Annette Dalloo
It's happened several times now where it's either like I've felt guided to take some time off or that all of a sudden I'm just not getting a lot of bookings on a particular week that I'm just like, oh, okay, that's that's indicating to me either something's going to happen, then I'm going to have to deal with, or I have to look within and say, okay, what can I work on within myself this week that I need to work on?

00;38;48;14 - 00;39;12;13
Annette Dalloo
Yeah, a lot of times what people would do is they would get sort of paranoid that, oh my gosh, I don't have any work coming in. I don't have anything coming in. That is not the point. The point is, oh, I don't have anything coming in right now. All right. What do I need to be redirected towards? Yeah, I mean, that's totally what I've been feeling and giving myself a lot of grace to not worry about this.

00;39;12;15 - 00;39;38;22
Annette Dalloo
Pause. Exactly. But I feel like I've gotten a lot of good direction today about where else I need to focus in that pause, and I'm getting that once the pause is done, you will have done some really fantastic work that you're going to be able to bring to your clients as well. So this is not only leveling you up, but it's actually giving you new tools to then give to your clients when the time comes.

00;39;38;25 - 00;40;01;00
Annette Dalloo
And I'm getting that your business is going to be stronger than ever. When it's time, it's just this is just a universal pause that they're like, okay, you know what? You need to take care of all of this first. Yeah, yeah. Okay. We're going to go into one of this. So you have that's the three sole purposes the leader the gateway and what else.

00;40;01;01 - 00;40;23;12
Annette Dalloo
Oh you're a natural transmitter. That's not surprising. What does that mean. And it goes hand-in-hand with being a gateway okay. So transmitters basically what you do is your energy takes lower negative energies and transmutes it into light. If you think of some form of alchemy, like turning metal into gold or, you know, something like that, it's basically kind of what you do.

00;40;23;14 - 00;40;44;03
Annette Dalloo
And it makes sense that as a gateway, you'd be a natural transmitter, because if you're ushering souls from one place to the next in, you're helping them do it safely without getting any psychic debris, that it would be natural that you would be allowing them to be sort of cleared and transmuted while they're doing the the process or while they're going through the process.

00;40;44;08 - 00;41;06;12
Annette Dalloo
You do naturally, your energy, your energy overall is generally clear in a in a natural state, there are times when your energy is not clear. If you're depleted, it's like a generator, like your your natural tendency is to always be clearing energy. Yeah. They're showing me you're not one of those people who really has to like sage a house to get all the negative energies out.

00;41;06;13 - 00;41;25;10
Annette Dalloo
It just sort of naturally happens with you and your energy. Tricky for me was the energy of my ex is so strong. I mean, even still, when I'm in his physical presence, it's so strong and I can't that I cannot transmute that. And so I have to separate myself from it. I have to choose to like walk away.

00;41;25;12 - 00;41;49;20
Annette Dalloo
Well they're showing me it's like the difference between taking an energy and transmuting it and coming across like a giant brick wall. It's much harder to transmute a brick wall than it is to transmute energy that's in front of you. And that's, that's kind of the difference. And so yes, you're absolutely right. And then there's also certain energies that you're not meant to transmute, that you're not meant to to cause, like you're not meant to transmute the world.

00;41;49;20 - 00;42;18;03
Annette Dalloo
It's not like you are a big like Hepa filter for the universe. You know what I mean? Like you're here to to help the souls. You're meant to help. You're here to help your own energy and whatever you are meant to do in any given moment at any given incarnation. There's sort of a list of parameters of where your transmutation abilities are sort of given boundaries between, okay, so yes, you're here to transmute this, but maybe not that.

00;42;18;03 - 00;42;36;08
Annette Dalloo
Right? You're absolutely correct in that that there are certain energies you're just not meant to help with. I say that out loud because I think that there have been times in my past where I've felt like, no, no, no, just keep trying a little harder. There's giving me the analogy that you're standing in front of the big brick wall, and you just threw a ball at it, and it just kind of came back and hit you in the head.

00;42;36;14 - 00;42;56;20
Annette Dalloo
Yep. It's happened a time or two. Yeah. So I am going to close the Akashic Records. I want to thank a cooler. My Akashic Guide. Thank you so much for being here. Thank you to Archangel Metatron and Archangel Xenophon for being here as well. Thank you. The records are closed. The records are closed. The records are closed.

00;42;56;20 - 00;43;19;29
Annette Dalloo
Thank you. Beautiful. All right. How do you feel? Validated. Lovely. Yeah, it's a great it's a great thing to, you know, just you can get so confused living in day to day life. Take things to mean things that they don't. Or start to doubt myself. And hearing these things is very validating and offers a broader perspective. Them.

00;43;19;29 - 00;43;39;01
Annette Dalloo
Oh my God, how is this thing going to resolve itself. There's a bigger picture. Yeah, that feels better. That's really good. Oh, I'm so, so glad. Excellent. Thank you. You're very welcome. Wonderful. Talk to you soon. Have a great day. You too.

00;43;39;04 - 00;43;48;13
Annette Dalloo
You.

00;43;48;15 - 00;44;32;20
Annette Dalloo
I would like to thank Joy for her participation in the podcast, and for giving her permission to use this session to help all of those who need to hear this message. There are several themes throughout this session that I would like to address. The first theme is feeling responsible for other people's journeys. Now, there can be a lot of feelings of responsibility when you feel that you have the most experience, or you feel you have more knowledge, or you feel you have gone through something similar and have come out the other side, and therefore you have more perspective.

00;44;32;22 - 00;45;04;15
Annette Dalloo
There can be this pull and this feeling that you need to impart this information for other people to experience, hear or understand. And although that is a beautiful thing to do to help somebody in that way, the biggest factor that has an effect on whether or not the person is going to utilize the information to their benefit, is whether or not they are willing to do the work, whether or not they are willing to hear the information.

00;45;04;18 - 00;45;30;13
Annette Dalloo
And with joy. Part of the problem that she had was not necessarily, as she said, with her clients. It was in her everyday life because when we have that connection, that emotional investment in the people that we care about, in the people that we love, we want nothing but the best for them. We want them to be able to succeed.

00;45;30;13 - 00;45;58;29
Annette Dalloo
So when you see a friend, a significant other, a family member running headlong into a brick wall, or as we use the example, like walking into a pothole, you want to say something, you want to tell them not to do it. It is inherently a human reaction to want to save another person, to not let them fall. And although that is admirable and beautiful, that that is a first instinct that you may have.

00;45;59;00 - 00;46;26;16
Annette Dalloo
It may not always be the best option for that person. One has to trust that the person is going to get the experience that they are meant to have. I have a really good example of this that just came up today. In fact, I just had a client session and at the end of the session I felt compelled to ask her where she found me, how she found me.

00;46;26;16 - 00;47;02;07
Annette Dalloo
And I don't always do that. I don't always ask where people find me, but for some reason it just felt like the thing to ask her. And she responds by saying it's the craziest story. Evidently I had given a reading to a client. Maybe a couple of months ago, and she had asked me a really offhanded question about a trip that she was taking, and she said that she had her flight that was booked very close to the time that her cruise was going to be coming into port and was wondering maybe, should I move that flight just in case?

00;47;02;08 - 00;47;19;27
Annette Dalloo
And the message that I got was that, yes, in fact, the ship was going to come in late to port and that she really did need to move her flight. It wasn't even a major part of the reading that we had. It was just something that she had asked, I believe sort of towards the end of the session.

00;47;19;27 - 00;47;36;02
Annette Dalloo
So fast forward to the time where she went on the trip, and evidently the ship, in fact, was late going to port, and then the crew or somebody on the crew was asking her like, oh, aren't you stressed out? Because we're going to be late. I hope you're not going to miss your flight. And she's like, no, no, no, I'm good.

00;47;36;02 - 00;47;58;27
Annette Dalloo
I actually changed my flight because I have a medium who told me that the ship was going to come in late to Port, and evidently that started a chain reaction of exchanging my information to various people until one of the crew members was stationed in Barcelona and happened to meet up with the person that I had the reading with today.

00;47;58;27 - 00;48;19;00
Annette Dalloo
She met up with her and not sure when this was, but they met up at some point and she told her that story and my client had been on her own spiritual journey. She had read many lives, many masters. She, you know, she was in the right space to hear this information and immediately booked a session with me.

00;48;19;00 - 00;48;42;27
Annette Dalloo
So you can see throughout the course of this entire energetic exchange between all of these people, how something can find you, even if you have no idea how it's going to find you. It's going to find you somehow. So if there's information that you need to know, if there is something you are meant to experience, if there is something that you have to do, it will find you.

00;48;42;28 - 00;49;10;06
Annette Dalloo
You will be able to know definitively when it's time to take that action. So it's not that you cannot offer up information or offer up tools or anything like that, but it is about allowing the other person to have their own experience. If that same scenario had happened, and let's say the person who was on the receiving end of that information had not read many lives.

00;49;10;06 - 00;49;36;15
Annette Dalloo
Many masters had not gone on her spiritual journey. That information may have just ended there. There may not have been any other aspects of that story that continued with that particular person. So you have to understand that when it comes to control, wanting to control things and enjoy this case, it was more about I know what's best. I'm telling you what you need to do and you're not listening.

00;49;36;15 - 00;49;58;26
Annette Dalloo
You're not doing what I'm telling you to do. And that's a beautiful thing, because if you just simply did everything that somebody told you to do that is surrendering your personal power, that is surrendering your free will, that is basically just allowing somebody else to to run the show. And they don't have access to your higher self. They don't have access to your soul plan.

00;49;58;26 - 00;50;24;21
Annette Dalloo
They don't know what you are meant to experience. Of course, you can have a mentor. Of course you can have somebody who guides you that is highly, highly recommended. In fact. But if you are in a place right now where you feel anxious, irritated, angry, even that somebody isn't taking your advice or somebody isn't listening to you, that is a moment where you need to turn within.

00;50;24;21 - 00;50;50;05
Annette Dalloo
When you turn within, you start to ask yourself, what is this need? I have to control what this other person does. Where is it within myself that I feel that if this person doesn't listen to me, that maybe I am less than maybe my opinions or my experiences aren't worthy to them? Or maybe it is just a fear.

00;50;50;05 - 00;51;08;18
Annette Dalloo
A fear that something bad could happen to the person if they don't listen to you when you don't actually know if something bad is going to happen to the person. If they don't listen to you, they could in fact, have a completely different experience than you expected them to have, and it turns out better than they ever expected.

00;51;08;18 - 00;51;44;00
Annette Dalloo
And better than you ever expected. So I want you to take a moment right now, and I want you to think about and feel into the places in which you might be trying to control something. It's not about being a control freak, so to speak. It's not about controlling others. Even it can be as simple as trying to control absolutely everything you eat, absolutely everything you do, controlling your schedule, controlling what happens every single day, making sure that everything happens exactly as it should.

00;51;44;00 - 00;52;09;29
Annette Dalloo
And I want you to feel into the energy that is the strongest for you. And I'm going to give you an example for myself. For me, ironically, given the fact that I can tap into future timelines, my whole life I've had a fear of not knowing what's going to happen. And so in order to combat that, I would always constantly want to know what's happening, what is happening with this person, what is happening with that person, what is happening with my schedule?

00;52;09;29 - 00;52;38;06
Annette Dalloo
What is happening tomorrow? If I make this plan to do this thing, is it going to be okay? And that can be exhausting to always be in that worry energy. And so once you shift and change that energy to knowing that everything is going to work out, that even if it is an unpleasant experience, it is something that's going to show you something that you need to know or that you need to learn.

00;52;38;09 - 00;53;06;11
Annette Dalloo
There are times when our nervous system is just completely out of whack, and when that happens, that's when the control issues can start to come up and get worse. That's why when it comes to identifying why you feel the need to control where those fears are coming from and how to manage them, it's going to make things so much easier for you when you are in those spaces of having a lot of stress.

00;53;06;11 - 00;53;29;00
Annette Dalloo
When your nervous system is completely tapped out. Because the one thing that I have learned throughout the course of my journey regarding control is that the harder you grip, the more you try to control, the less you actually have control. And so what happens is you are trying to grab on to something so tightly that you end up burning yourself out.

00;53;29;00 - 00;53;52;04
Annette Dalloo
And when you burn yourself out, the only thing that you have left to do is to let go. Now, does that mean that you're never going to plan anything, that you're never going to try to affect the outcome of anything? Of course not. Of course there are going to be times when you are going to need to plan, but the universe is going to show you the places where you need to let go.

00;53;52;04 - 00;54;17;19
Annette Dalloo
And in my life, one of the things that has been happening over the last couple of years, which I find incredibly amusing now, wasn't finding it terribly amusing at the time, but just scheduling. I was always a big planner, like I would plan everything down to the last letter, and eventually I started realizing that you can't you can't plan for every eventuality you have to be able to be flexible.

00;54;17;19 - 00;54;45;24
Annette Dalloo
You have to be able to to move with the energy of what's going to happen. What I did. This became very clear last year when I traveled to Los Angeles for the holidays, and the way that I had booked the flight was that I was trying to save a few bucks, which I shouldn't have done, because it would have been just incredibly difficult because I was flying into LAX.

00;54;45;24 - 00;55;04;27
Annette Dalloo
My sister lives in Orange County. Orange County has its own airport, so I should have just flown in there, but I was like, oh, it's a few hundred dollars more. I'm not going to do that. But it ended up being just a total mess because the flight was delayed. I ended up in the middle of a parking lot somewhere trying to get an Uber at like 130 in the morning.

00;55;04;27 - 00;55;23;11
Annette Dalloo
It was just kind of a disaster. I had booked the flight coming home to Paris from LAX as well, but in between there I was going to Mexico, so I was going to fly from LAX to Mexico, Mexico back to LAX and LAX, back to Paris bunkers just to save a few bucks. And I'm like, you know what?

00;55;23;11 - 00;55;41;27
Annette Dalloo
I'm never doing that again. And in fact, the opposite is true. I am from now on going to book flights that are absolutely changeable, because what I ended up doing was I ended up changing that flight instead of flying from Mexico back to LAX before going to Paris, I skipped that entire leg and just flew directly from Mexico.

00;55;41;28 - 00;56;05;00
Annette Dalloo
This is just one example of trying to be in a place of having flexibility. You might ask me. Well, you predicted the other woman's cruise was going to come in late. Why didn't you predict this? And I'm like, well, because I actually didn't even check in. I didn't even check in with my guides before getting on that plane, because really, I don't check in on absolutely every little thing I do for certain things.

00;56;05;00 - 00;56;23;02
Annette Dalloo
But when it's just a regular flight and I'm going somewhere and I'm not getting any signs or information, then sure I'm not really going to do anything. But at the same time, my guides might not have given me signs because I needed to learn that lesson the hard way, right? Because have they said, oh, don't take that flight, take another flight?

00;56;23;02 - 00;56;43;15
Annette Dalloo
I wouldn't have learned the lesson of, oh, you know what? I need to be more flexible. And the more we get into this space of being in the flow of our universal energy, the more we do have to be flexible with where we're going. Because when you're in the flow, you have to be able to switch and change and move the way your spirit is guiding you.

00;56;43;15 - 00;57;04;20
Annette Dalloo
So what am I doing this year? Well, I'm still going in Los Angeles for the holidays, and I might go to the Caribbean for a little while to grab some sun while it's raining in Paris. And there are many other things that I might end up doing. Am I planning them right now? No I'm not actually. I'm just going to book my flight, probably to Los Angeles and leave it open ended.

00;57;04;20 - 00;57;26;04
Annette Dalloo
Because that way whatever happens and however anything flows into my life, I will be able to roll with it. And I have to tell you, it has taken me probably a good decade, if not longer, to get to this place of loosening my grip, not being so controlling, being able to go with the flow and saying, you know what?

00;57;26;04 - 00;57;48;27
Annette Dalloo
It's cool. I trust what's going to happen. And that's the key. I trust what is happening in my life for me. I'm going to give one more example because I'm feeling guided to. This was an amazing synchronicity. And again, having to do with a cruise, which I find really funny, that this story is coming up now. My sister and I were going on a Disney cruise.

00;57;48;27 - 00;58;09;26
Annette Dalloo
This was a couple of years ago and we were all excited. My sister had never been on one, I had been on one before and Disney cruises are a lot of fun. So we were like, yeah, super excited, ready to go. And I was getting all kinds of signs from the universe about the cruise, and I did not get the message I did.

00;58;09;26 - 00;58;28;17
Annette Dalloo
Not only did I not get the message, but I, I don't think I even really checked in super deeply about it, because once you book your cruise like, I think that's pretty much it. I'm not sure that we would have been able to cancel it or move it or anything like that, but now, in hindsight, thinking about it, maybe we would have been able to move it.

00;58;28;17 - 00;58;47;12
Annette Dalloo
But the sign that came in was not particularly clear to me, but it was a loud sign. I have a friend who gives wine tours in Lyon. Her name is Caroline and she also does wine tours in other places as well. And she just happened to be giving a wine tour and was talking to this man and his wife.

00;58;47;12 - 00;59;10;07
Annette Dalloo
And turns out it was somebody who was a captain of a cruise ship for Disney Cruise Lines. And so my friend was like, oh my God, that's crazy. My friend is going on a Disney cruise. And so we start messaging back and forth and turns out the guy that she was giving the wine tour to is the actual captain of the cruise that I was going to be going on.

00;59;10;07 - 00;59;30;23
Annette Dalloo
And his wife was the director of entertainment or something like that for the cruise ship as well. So this was a glaringly huge sign, but I didn't see it because I thought that it meant something like, oh, there would be something amazing that would happen on the cruise with us. Like, maybe we would, I don't know, be able to dine with the captain.

00;59;30;23 - 00;59;56;19
Annette Dalloo
I don't know, like we thought it was going to be something really, really great. And in fact, what happened was the seas were so rough that that I ended up being sick for pretty much the entire cruise. Now, I wasn't alone. Over half the cruise ship was sick. Our reporter basically said that he's never seen anything this bad, and he's been working on cruises for 17 years, so it was a pretty rough cruise.

00;59;56;19 - 01;00;25;29
Annette Dalloo
Did we end up having fun? Yes, but it was. It was a rough couple of days to start out. Would I have been able to avoid that situation? Maybe. Maybe. Did I need to experience that situation also? Maybe, maybe the experience my sister and I had on that cruise was something we needed to experience for whatever reason. So letting go of control doesn't necessarily mean that you are going to only manifest unicorns and rainbows all day, every day.

01;00;25;29 - 01;00;42;21
Annette Dalloo
I only hope the best for you and for all of us and I do hope for unicorns and rainbows all day and every day. That's just not the reality of where we live. We live in a planet with duality. We live in a planet where we came here to learn, where we have things that we need to do, lessons that we need to learn.

01;00;42;21 - 01;00;58;27
Annette Dalloo
So really connect with that place within yourself that is holding on tightly to something. And just imagine yourself letting it go just for a second. You don't have to let it go for very long. Just let it go for a couple of seconds and breathe.

01;00;58;29 - 01;01;07;25
Annette Dalloo
Deep breath in through the nose, out through the mouth and exhale.

01;01;07;27 - 01;01;35;06
Annette Dalloo
And if it still feels too scary to continue letting go of that thing, whatever it is, you can pick it up again. It's up to you. But practice this. Practice letting go. Practice accepting and visualizing your highest and greatest outcome, and know in your heart that it is true. My favorite thing to ask of my angels and guides is for the experience that I am meant to have in my highest and greatest timeline.

01;01;35;09 - 01;01;56;23
Annette Dalloo
If you notice, I'm not saying please remove any negativity and all unpleasantness for my life entirely, right? Although that would be my desire. But at the same time, if there's a lesson I need to learn, then maybe I need some contrast in order to learn that lesson. The quicker we learn the lesson, the quicker we can move on from whatever that contrast is.

01;01;56;29 - 01;02;22;06
Annette Dalloo
So the harder you hold on, the tighter you hold on, the longer that contrast will persist. The second theme that I want to address, and this is not going to take very long, but it is something that I wanted to mention the concept of having multiple social purposes. Now, not everybody has multiple soul purposes. And you may want to ask, well, is it me?

01;02;22;06 - 01;02;52;03
Annette Dalloo
Do I have a multiple sole purpose? It doesn't necessarily really matter because if you need to know what your soul purposes, you'll feel guided to ask. You'll feel guided to know what that is. And if you don't know what a soul purpose is, it is essentially what your soul came to earth to do. I like to describe it, and I think I did in the previous podcast episode, but I will explain it here again, which is the sole purpose is your overarching story.

01;02;52;03 - 01;03;16;08
Annette Dalloo
It is the whole book. It's the whole movie, if you will. Your life purpose is simply the chapter. It's one small portion of your sole purpose. Most of the time when I see multiple sole purposes, they work really well together. So for example, with joy sole purposes, she had a sole purpose of transmutation and being a gateway. And those two things work really, really well together.

01;03;16;08 - 01;03;44;25
Annette Dalloo
And then also being the leader, being able to guide and lead. So those three sole purposes are symbiotic and really create an energy that is unique to her. And the question you might have is, what if I only have one sole purpose? Well, that's fine too. It's all based on your individual soul signature. Your soul family. What your soul family came here to do, what your role in the soul family is.

01;03;44;25 - 01;04;06;02
Annette Dalloo
There are also times when you may have had a sole purpose and maybe you completed that sole purpose. And so maybe you're now on to the next one, maybe the second or third or fourth. So it's all very individual based on each and every soul, what your soul origin is. You might also have soul purposes that get uncovered over the course of time.

01;04;06;02 - 01;04;32;23
Annette Dalloo
So maybe you're not ready for a particular soul purpose. And over the course of lifetimes, you have been working on one particular thing, and until you're finished working on that thing, you cannot unlock another, in which case the other sole purpose will go in tandem with the new one and create a new energy. The one thing I want to instill upon everyone is that divine source energy, universal consciousness, energy in general.

01;04;32;27 - 01;04;55;00
Annette Dalloo
It's infinite. Anything can happen. Anything. We have a tendency to put ourselves in these boxes that, oh, we are this type of soul. We are that type of soul. This is my mission. I have to accomplish this mission. Maybe. Maybe not. There is no have to. There is no I must do this by this time. Or else. There are a lot of spiritual teachers out there who will say things like that.

01;04;55;00 - 01;05;19;19
Annette Dalloo
And I completely disagree. I do not believe that there is any punishment or consequence or being left behind because you are not accomplishing something in enough time. There's always more time. There's always another lifetime. And most of us have been working on all of these things for many hundreds and hundreds, if not thousands of lifetimes. So just relax.

01;05;19;24 - 01;05;49;16
Annette Dalloo
It's okay if you're not achieving everything that you were meant to achieve in this lifetime. It's okay. And for those of you who feel like the time is running out for this lifetime, it's okay. You will just pick up where you left off in the next one, so don't worry that you're not going to achieve or accomplish what you came here to do, because the fact that you are listening to this podcast says to me that you've already done so much for not only you, for your energy, for your soul family, but for the people that are around you.

01;05;49;20 - 01;06;09;24
Annette Dalloo
If you are consciously connecting as much as you can, if you are doing the best that you can, that is the best thing you can do. Thank you so much for listening this week. Stay tuned next week for another new episode and I will speak to you next time. If you're enjoying this podcast, it would be.