Description:
In this enlightening episode, Michael and Amy, your couples connection coaches, delve into the heart of relationships with an extraordinary guest, Dolphin Kasper. With over two decades of experience, Dolphin specializes in guiding individuals through the intricate web of relationship dynamics. He shares insights from his extensive journey of working with diverse populations, from troubled youth groups to high-achieving leadership students.
Main Points Covered:
1. The Journey of Authenticity:
Dolphin shares his unique background, growing up with a mother deeply involved in transpersonal and relational work. He emphasizes the importance of authenticity in relationships, nurtured by unconditional love and transparency. This foundation lays the groundwork for understanding human behavior in intimate connections.
2. Natural Law and Evolution:
Dolphin introduces the concept of natural law in relationships, drawing parallels from thriving ecosystems. Just as an ecosystem finds balance and evolution, human relationships are bound by underlying principles that dictate their growth and development. The key lies in understanding our journey's purpose and how it contributes to the whole.
3. From Me to We:
The hosts and Dolphin discuss the different orientations in relationships, including self-centeredness, caretaking, and partnership. Dolphin introduces the idea of moving beyond partnership into an "all context" perspective, where relationships contribute to the greater world, transcending oppositional dynamics and encompassing a broader purpose.
4. Addressing Unmet Needs:
Dolphin delves into the challenges faced by couples when one partner is seeking deeper connection while the other seems distant. He emphasizes individual agency and responsibility in relationships, highlighting the importance of creating a larger container for personal experiences and emotional sensations. Unmet needs are explored as signals, leading to the discovery of core unmet needs and authentic communication.
5. Navigating Unmet Needs:
The hosts and Dolphin discuss the influence partners have on each other and how discomfort can arise when unmet needs collide. They offer insights into creating space for individual experiences while seeking deeper understanding of one's own needs. The episode concludes by emphasizing the courage to express unmet needs without attachment to specific outcomes.
Tune in to this transformative conversation to gain valuable insights into evolving relationships, embracing authenticity, and finding a path from surviving to thriving. Prepare for a paradigm-shifting journey of self-discovery and growth in the realm of intimate connections.
Thankyou for listening, if you liked it, please remember to subscribe.
Join our Private "Thriving relationships - Deepening connection to self and others" community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1107209283451758/
Website: https://michaelandamy.com.au/
Join our free 7 day relationship challenge: https://michaelandamy.com.au/free-relationship-challenge
If you would like to book in a private discovery call with us, here is the link: https://michaelandamy.com.au/call
Description:
In this enlightening episode, Michael and Amy, your couples connection coaches, delve into the heart of relationships with an extraordinary guest, Dolphin Kasper. With over two decades of experience, Dolphin specializes in guiding individuals through the intricate web of relationship dynamics. He shares insights from his extensive journey of working with diverse populations, from troubled youth groups to high-achieving leadership students.
Main Points Covered:
1. The Journey of Authenticity:
Dolphin shares his unique background, growing up with a mother deeply involved in transpersonal and relational work. He emphasizes the importance of authenticity in relationships, nurtured by unconditional love and transparency. This foundation lays the groundwork for understanding human behavior in intimate connections.
2. Natural Law and Evolution:
Dolphin introduces the concept of natural law in relationships, drawing parallels from thriving ecosystems. Just as an ecosystem finds balance and evolution, human relationships are bound by underlying principles that dictate their growth and development. The key lies in understanding our journey's purpose and how it contributes to the whole.
3. From Me to We:
The hosts and Dolphin discuss the different orientations in relationships, including self-centeredness, caretaking, and partnership. Dolphin introduces the idea of moving beyond partnership into an "all context" perspective, where relationships contribute to the greater world, transcending oppositional dynamics and encompassing a broader purpose.
4. Addressing Unmet Needs:
Dolphin delves into the challenges faced by couples when one partner is seeking deeper connection while the other seems distant. He emphasizes individual agency and responsibility in relationships, highlighting the importance of creating a larger container for personal experiences and emotional sensations. Unmet needs are explored as signals, leading to the discovery of core unmet needs and authentic communication.
5. Navigating Unmet Needs:
The hosts and Dolphin discuss the influence partners have on each other and how discomfort can arise when unmet needs collide. They offer insights into creating space for individual experiences while seeking deeper understanding of one's own needs. The episode concludes by emphasizing the courage to express unmet needs without attachment to specific outcomes.
Tune in to this transformative conversation to gain valuable insights into evolving relationships, embracing authenticity, and finding a path from surviving to thriving. Prepare for a paradigm-shifting journey of self-discovery and growth in the realm of intimate connections.
Thankyou for listening, if you liked it, please remember to subscribe.
Join our Private "Thriving relationships - Deepening connection to self and others" community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1107209283451758/
Website: https://michaelandamy.com.au/
Join our free 7 day relationship challenge: https://michaelandamy.com.au/free-relationship-challenge
If you would like to book in a private discovery call with us, here is the link: https://michaelandamy.com.au/call