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Boundaries and Balance in Modern Relationships

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Can you really trust first impressions, or do they deceive more than they reveal? Join us as we unpack the significance of initial encounters in various scenarios — from job interviews to casual meetups. We kick off with some laughs, sharing quirky stories about everyday hiccups, like mixing up water bottles and battling wobbly chairs. Our spirited debate takes you through the nuances of how and when first impressions truly matter, bolstered by humorous anecdotes and real-life situations.

Ever wondered if you can find true love in a club? We tackle this age-old question with a deep dive into club etiquette and the thorny intricacies of forming serious relationships in such vibrant settings. Personal stories about trust issues and infidelity bring an emotional twist to the discussion, as we ponder the impact of betrayal, whether witnessed in person or discovered through video evidence. We even use a fun rating scale to evaluate the likelihood of taking someone seriously based on where you meet them, adding a fascinating layer of insight into our conversation.

Relationships are never straightforward, and our final chapters navigate the emotional labyrinth of setting boundaries, respecting your partner, and balancing the right emotional investment. Discover why constant texting might not be the healthiest way to communicate and how men might secretly enjoy a bit of "toxic" energy in relationships. We also address the importance of mutually respectful attire and the fine line between constructive feedback and criticism. Tune in for a rollercoaster of humorous exchanges, heartfelt stories, and sharp insights on what makes relationships tick and how to navigate their complexities with grace and humor.

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First Impressions in Social Interactions

Speaker 1

I might break this chair .

Speaker 2

Well , don't wobble in it . You're doing it on purpose . I know it's just wobbling . Why do we got to share our money ? Wait , have him hold it for you . That's my water , right , because your water was somewhere else . No , I have passed him his water . Well , no , I think it is on . Okay , don't be bringing that hard into it . Testing , testing oh , yesterday they kept saying that shit , because people kept saying it I'm about to die . Oh my God , oh my God , damn . So when was the last time y'all drank ? It was Friday .

Speaker 1

Oh , it was my New Year's .

Speaker 2

No , I think that's mine , I swear .

Speaker 1

Look at the brands . No no , no , the fuck , it's not . They have drinking water .

Speaker 2

No , they have drinking water . We have purified drinking water . Wait , never mind , I don't think I had one . If anything is over there , les is over there . Yeah , those are mine the think I had one if anything is over there let's just over there , oh , and then are you at it ?

Speaker 1

key , turn off the watch , open up the window . I can't hear in the background .

Speaker 2

Well , I could hear in the background hello , why'd you smell the mic ? I had a smell of it . No , don't , asmr , we should look . Oh , that's actually better . It quieted a lot of things , yeah . So what are we gonna talk about ? Well , it got quiet actually let me be my host , the hostin' . Okay , I thought you were going to say a ho . Oh wait , am I not ? That's an extra headphone . If you want to use it , put it on . They don't want to hear themselves .

Speaker 1

No , we don't , I do .

Speaker 2

I do , I do . Oh well , this is a prime example podcast . I'm your host , Leslie , and these are my guests . We're going to start from April .

Speaker 3

Hello , I'm Leslie's best friend .

Speaker 2

Oh yeah , she had to let it be known .

Speaker 3

Let it be known what .

Speaker 2

But we are right . What ? Okay , go your turn . Who are you ? I'm Son . Nice to meet you , Son . Okay , Just go down the road .

Speaker 1

I'm X .

Speaker 2

All right , and you're the camera , and you're the camera . You guys are the viewers and the viewers are us and us is viewers . Don't do that , oh wow .

Speaker 1

Don't do that . We are viewers .

Speaker 2

Okay , so does first impressions matter ? Yes , no , yes , what , what do you mean ?

Speaker 1

I mean it depends on what situation Like . If it's a job , then yeah .

Speaker 3

In every situation no . I don't think it does . Have you ever tasted food and didn't like it ? I thought we were talking about food .

Speaker 2

You ate it again .

Speaker 3

You ate it again .

Speaker 2

Yeah , that's true . I don't learn from you Every seven , that's true .

Speaker 1

Because I change in the video but you say that .

Speaker 2

But it's like having like little seasons for the first time it's made and you was like fuck it , I want to fight all the pizza and it's good as fuck know , is good as fuck the first time to go back to it , because you're not gonna go back to it .

Speaker 1

That's like people . You catch them at a bad time . Yeah , we can't be perfect like dux that's true , right .

Speaker 3

We're not saying or I'm not saying that it like second impressions won't matter . I'm saying , first impressions matter more than second impressions but wouldn't it be situational though , like ?

Speaker 2

you said the first yeah , like on a job , like yeah , first impressions okay , tell me where it doesn't matter you're gonna have no job if we're gonna be out drinking getting laid at the club scenery , no matter , I'm here to get a match ? Yeah , I'm here , that's true . Oh wait , at the club , but is it

Club Etiquette and Dating Norms

Speaker 2

okay ? So , like you know , if you think you found a girl , is it okay to find a girl in the club as in a relationship , or like , make it a relationship because you found her in the club ?

Speaker 3

and that's the first question you guys got out of her .

Speaker 2

Oh , does that make or like does that make any sense ? Like I mean , but you would want to know who she is in order to be in a relationship I mean , I get that .

Speaker 1

It's also like I see our most vulnerable state getting fucked up , getting lit , having fun . Don't you want to see people having fun and being themselves ?

Speaker 2

that's different , but that's your . That's your choice .

Speaker 1

Though the club and see like throwing ass and like you want to catch it and like I'm down with that yeah , it's the way you just go about it , your attention .

Speaker 2

But people , people in the club really I'm not looking for a girlfriend , right ? So yeah , it's the way you just go about it , your intentions , I guess , but people in the club , you're just trying to hook up . Right , right .

Speaker 3

So you really don't think about first impressions when you go on a club .

Speaker 2

But I guess if you're looking to be with somebody . I think when people go to , the club .

Speaker 3

They're looking for someone to stare at them so they can . Even if you're at a club and you meet a guy and he rubs you the wrong way . I don't think . I don't think you're gonna go . You're gonna go back to him . He says yo , I seen you and I want to fuck right now . And what are you gonna be like ?

Speaker 2

good , oh , come on . What but you ?

Speaker 1

gotta think about like it probably works on other girls , because like this girl's they're like probably but I'm telling we like I can never , I'm scared .

Speaker 3

I want to you know , go to the back . Are you wiping ?

Speaker 1

her hell no what say it ? Yeah , yeah , say it what .

Speaker 2

Vic what Hell yeah . He said hell yeah .

Speaker 1

I could've been around some dumber shit , Wait what ?

Speaker 2

Oh , wow , Hit that dance Vic .

Speaker 1

Hit the dumber dance Pussy .

Speaker 2

It's a dance , what he be in there dancing .

Speaker 1

Oh , I know what you're talking about In the tea .

Speaker 2

Oh , my God , I remember . And there we go . You gotta add that and make sure , put that I'm gonna have to go back and watch it , cause I got lost . That was funny , though .

Speaker 1

I'm topping off . Oh wow , grab his thigh when he does it , oh yeah .

Speaker 2

That's the key , right there , I wanna talk , you can't make a movie .

Speaker 1

You can't make a movie . No , no , this is not .

Speaker 2

That's for Twitter . That's for Twitter . You see that you guys , you can't make a movie .

Speaker 1

No , no this is not , that's for Twitter .

Speaker 3

That's for Twitter , you see that you guys see where Michael he could try to yak guys in that and rage post .

Speaker 2

You know who he sent that to , I think .

Speaker 1

I sent that we all pumped it , posted that clip of her getting drained .

Speaker 3

He sees it . Yeah , these old streamers need to stop praying on these young girls . It's not that ? And then rage . Most of the time I was three times trained by two guys .

Speaker 2

Oh , that's wild Shit like that .

Speaker 3

I could never get in the boat again .

Speaker 1

That's it , that's it , that's it . She's a good girl and she looks great . You think she's perfect ?

Speaker 2

Can you see her tattoo on the video ?

Speaker 1

Yeah , that's crazy . That's why I have trust issues . That's why I have trust that happened to you .

Speaker 2

No , no , no imagine oh my god , I'm overthinking .

Speaker 3

So it's just like man if I see a video might kill myself .

Speaker 2

No , for real so wait , would you rather have seen it in person or on a video that you got ?

Speaker 1

cheated on not at all . I don't even want to know , because , like you , don't know , how old the video is oh shit , oh , that's true , but then I'm like , damn , that's how you got fucked what what ?

Speaker 3

yeah , I had to see it , because it's like , when you don't see it , your mind you're just thinking of the worst shit ever yeah my bitch on the ceiling twerking like oh my god , throwing it back , oh my god let me I need to see . Let me see what the fuck this bitch was doing okay you settle for that but in my head I'm like bro superman pounder , like superman got her , like I see some lanes like oh , you just got smashed , but now I don't know the guy .

Speaker 1

Think anyone will cash out like their partners shooting no for real I fucked your best friend anyway .

Speaker 2

That'd be crazy Damn . I'm like what Couldn't be me .

Speaker 1

Couldn't be you what ?

Speaker 2

I don't know . Couldn't be me , couldn't be me , bud , I don't know , Just couldn't be me , so you just talked to him yeah , couldn't be me , cannot be me , cannot be me . What's this ? I'm so confused . Okay , so , would you guys wipe ? Not even wipe . Well , I mean , I guess that is possible , never mind , because I was going to ask if you guys would . You just , is it like 10 out of Wait ? What's the number between a scale one out of five , you're taking someone serious and you met them at a club .

Speaker 1

Oh sorry , Fuck that is .

Speaker 2

It depends what somebody's looking for . What happened ?

Speaker 3

Did I see her at a club . What happened ?

Speaker 2

Like she's asking Would you ?

Speaker 3

date her Like be , where , yeah . What happened ? Like she's asking would you date her Like be where ? Yeah .

Speaker 2

Okay , so we're going to do this , we're going to put this on a scale and then , out of one through five , I'm going to list like five different things that you guys have to rate them without knowing what's next . But you guys have to set that first , Okay but I just realized what I was doing .

Speaker 1

I was like wait .

Speaker 2

Okay , so what ? Her at the club ? Yeah , if you see her at the club , what's the chance of you guys actually going and , like you , pursuing it ? Probably zero . I ain't going to be my first at a club , oh well it could happen actually .

Speaker 3

I mean , you can meet a dumb girl at a library .

Speaker 2

So I mean it's a fair thing . No , for real .

Speaker 1

For no , for real , for real , you think it too much .

Speaker 3

It depends on the girl . You already started with a bad thing , that's true .

Speaker 2

And if I see her at the chaser , why chasers , chasers is crazy when the chaser one time the girl was hanging from the roof . I need to go . I need to go One time experience , don't do it again . No , literally . Didn't they get a renovation ? I don't know , wait , what happened ?

Speaker 1

We went to Chasers one time with a group of friends the friends that I told you that live over here . We went with them and we were having a good time and then , out of nowhere , we're here screaming and then the whole dance floor just disperses every other direction , like what the fuck happened ? Our home girl I'm not gonna say her name she walked up to me . She said I got tased in my ass , cheek . I'm like how did you get tased ? She said they were throwing ass and someone grabbed her ass and someone started fighting .

Speaker 2

Oh shit yeah , what . I would have fought everybody if somebody tasted my ass because they was fighting .

Speaker 1

I remember that exact moment too .

Speaker 3

So she got mad because she was twerking and somebody touched her butt , so she got taste for it .

Speaker 1

Club activities . Well , the people that started the fight were like arguing or some shit , and then oh wait her oh and she got randomly tased like she put it off them from her right .

Speaker 3

No I got caught .

Speaker 1

It was like someone else that was twerking in the vicinity of her right there around her whatever fighting started , the security guard came over trying to tase him and missed and imagine you um go to a fight and people is pepper spraying and you got pepper sprayed .

Speaker 2

I would have just yelled . I would have never came back , I would have been yelling . It was crazy that actually happened . Man , I remember when they sprayed us Even the six-year-old Gus got sprayed . When they sprayed , we were the pepper sprayers , and then the people that brought them the fight got also pepper sprayed .

Speaker 3

That's crazy , do you remember ? That I feel like I remember that Some girls like sprayed another girl and it was all in like the rotunda .

Speaker 2

Girl , are you here to cough Girl , are you here to like ?

Speaker 3

be this coughing . I don't give a fuck .

Speaker 1

Do you remember when , like during lunch , they were like hot boxing the bathroom and they set up fans to like , Like , blow the smoke out ? That's wild .

Speaker 2

I smoked in a locker room in the back by the gym .

Speaker 3

Wait , Where's the weirdest place ?

Speaker 2

y'all Not weirdest place Like the um ? No , it could probably be the weirdest place , or like odd place to smoke at . Is the cemetery weird ?

Speaker 3

Because we do that , because we do that Mine was like the cheesecake factory in a restroom .

Speaker 2

That's not bad actually . That's not bad .

Speaker 1

It was crazy because it was like in a restroom .

Speaker 2

In a restroom .

Speaker 1

I didn't know . It was like weird spaces . I thought you just wanted to smoke .

Speaker 3

Oh bro , I smoked behind my school .

Speaker 2

Before going to church . That's crazy .

Speaker 3

In front of a Allegedly A Jew Allegedly I do this like school do it with , so he might be me . My friend George is from England and my friend lucky he's there and we're on this bridge . I don't know if you ever been , when we came down with some bridge in the back where you can like walk across mother , go for it . So I guess they've pissed it off and these Jewish kids you know , they don't get technology , they just be doing shit .

Speaker 3

So we're smoking . I thought I was tripping , yeah , and I'm smoking cut that out make sure that's not on like glees crunching . I turn and all I see is this guy like a Hanukkah or whatever the fuck it is .

Speaker 2

Somebody . Oh , my God . Whatever the community is , bro , the thing that you guys put on y'all heads ? He was wearing that shit .

Speaker 3

And he was literally standing at the top of his head and I said , george , what the fuck do you want , mate ? And he's like , oh my God . And he tried to fight these kids , when I tell you they knew the rules like the back of their hand , they was running . I'm like , bro , there's no point in chasing them , Bro .

Speaker 2

that was like a scary movie scene . Y'all would have got lost . Wait , you guys were chasing them .

Speaker 3

Yeah , we chased them away , you guys were chasing Amish kids yeah .

Speaker 1

It was a fucking setup and they were just like standing over us you guys were definitely one of those people .

Speaker 3

They finna die . They finna die . That's racist . That's not racist . How is it racist they don't use technology ? What is it when you discriminate a culture ? I don't fucking know , Whatever it is you're doing it , you're doing it . Wait what they don't got phones . It's crazy .

Speaker 1

You said they don't have technology .

Speaker 2

And then you just called their hat , you called them Jews . What ?

Speaker 1

Leave X alone , allegedly .

Speaker 2

He didn't mean it . Yeah , allegedly . Allegedly , it's happening . That's funny , isn't ?

Speaker 1

it Cool story .

Speaker 2

For real . Yeah , you gotta create a line Dude . They're so funny , they Dude they're so funny .

Speaker 3

They walk around in their brain like this and all they go with , all they love , is Speedway slushies as soon as they get out of there , dude , as soon as they get out , I'll be going to Speedway . Dude . No , They'll come and they'll pull up . All they do is drive a van and they get out .

Speaker 2

With everybody in there .

Speaker 1

Yes , everybody , and they get out and they get . Yes , everybody make it out . My mom was ordering her food and I looked at her and she was like look at those fucking people , Look at those fucking people .

Speaker 3

My mom . What are you talking about At the ?

Speaker 1

time I knew it was an Amish family . Every Amish person had one singular hamburger , Not cheeseburger , just

Evaluating Timing in Relationships

Speaker 1

a hamburger .

Speaker 3

Oh yeah , where they live , like in the very middle , yeah , they all look the same like wear the same thing and everything .

Speaker 2

Yeah , with the little hat and everything Under that dress what the fuck . But don't they celebrate that anyway ?

Speaker 1

Jewish people . Jewish people . I don't know if I say Jewish people , I don't know , if I say Jewish people , I don't know .

Speaker 2

I just know it's for somebody you love chores . No , they have no choice .

Speaker 1

I mean , they have no choice .

Speaker 2

They love chores . They got to work all damn day . I don for somebody released . I'm kind of interested in how much people know . I just know they're there , where are they ? They get released .

Speaker 1

On farms . Imagine being like 15 .

Speaker 3

And then totally having to do no shit about it .

Speaker 2

Oh bro , I would be fucked up if I promised I wrote a question , what happened ? I wrote a question , yeah .

Speaker 1

Wait , can we go back to ranking and what you were doing ? I forgot what we were doing .

Speaker 2

We got off topic . No , what Real bad about that .

Speaker 3

I wanna see who sweats first because we're in front of ring lights with no air conditioning . Oh , I'm already sweating . Listen , it's already day . How are you doing ? I just realized it . I see , lil , this is so fun .

Speaker 2

Oh my .

Speaker 3

Girl just caught him . They see not working .

Speaker 2

For free . Yes , more money the better , it's true . Trust me More money the better it lasts .

Speaker 1

Longer it's true . What's up ? Go to Cashmere , trust me .

Speaker 2

You're going to be more mad when you buy a 130 air conditioner and that bitch sit over there being loud as a fucking microwave , not making you think that's fine . There's no love . You got one , you have one .

Speaker 1

You think his air conditioner is chilling in this ?

Speaker 3

All the less you put yeah for $250 the air conditioner . I had cooled it upstairs and downstairs .

Speaker 1

It was that it wasn't an air conditioner , but that was a freezer .

Speaker 3

Yeah , for $250 . If I had it , huh Forgot .

Speaker 2

He said it . He said it , it was ABC Warehouse .

Speaker 3

I think .

Speaker 2

Why sound like ?

Speaker 1

a song ABC Warehouse . You've never been to ABC Warehouse .

Speaker 2

I feel like there was a theme song to it , I just don't know where it's at .

Speaker 3

Oh , you got to see some yellow letters on the black side .

Speaker 2

Yeah , yeah , I see the yellow yeah .

Speaker 3

What'd you look ? The eye contact . He wants to fuck you . Oh my God , I love the eye contact .

Speaker 2

What You're a freak . You're a freak the eye contact was crazy , but wait what'd ?

Speaker 1

you say , you Wait , what's ?

Speaker 2

your name , you know what , never mind .

Speaker 1

How is he freaking for making eye contact ?

Speaker 2

No , it was the pose . Oh , no , they can't , no , no they cannot ?

Speaker 3

You're a freak bro . Stop rubbing your , Stop looking me up I just tapped you . It wasn't even me , it was the cord . No , I felt skin .

Speaker 2

I felt that we were supposed to be ranking .

Speaker 3

I'm dying in here . Open the door more .

Speaker 1

Take off that shirt .

Speaker 3

That's crazy . I think it's more heightened .

Speaker 2

I don't feel shit , it is the third leg .

Speaker 3

Oh my God , the ballpark Next we're supposed to be ringing , ain't we Shit ?

Speaker 2

Hey , get up real quick and stand up for the camera .

Speaker 1

Hey , just shake it a little bit , I need $5 .

Speaker 3

I need $5 . I got you , I'll cash out the right now . Hey , when she gets the view , she'll pay you Thumbnail .

Speaker 2

Thumbnail no Make y'all money .

Speaker 1

girl , I hope you get hard .

Speaker 2

You supposed to be ranking , ain't you ? What was we doing ?

Speaker 1

Six One through five . I'm not , I say three .

Speaker 2

I say five , two .

Speaker 1

Five is most likely , five being most or one being most . I'm not . I'm not a club . I say three , five , two okay , but we all have five , five being most .

Speaker 2

I think it's less like , like , though like , okay . So we're saying you as a person . If you're above three .

Speaker 3

You're gonna argue against this if you're below three Okay .

Speaker 1

so what are you choosing ? You're gonna argue against this if you're below three .

Speaker 2

Okay , that's true . So what are you choosing ? Okay , okay , wrong place . What is that ? What ?

Speaker 1

is it um yeah wrong place .

Speaker 2

I don't believe that like do you believe or you don't believe ? I don't believe it .

Speaker 1

It's like I do situation .

Speaker 3

Why , guys , I don't know yeah everything it really is , unless your lover is taking off because he has his dream job a thousand miles away .

Speaker 2

It's not wrong to break a long time . Let me tell you something . Bless you .

Speaker 3

Just think about this , right , if you and this person were talking right , this is a person Y'all like . Oh , I like you , you like me . We are mutually together , we share the same feelings and we share the same feelings and you're telling me it's wrong time . Because of what ?

Speaker 2

Because of what Be honest right now . The distance , no , no , what's the ?

Speaker 3

distance .

Speaker 1

Say if you ?

Speaker 3

guys were together and it's wrong person , wrong time . I like you mutually , you like me mutually . What's stopping us from being together ?

Speaker 2

Oh , that's true , Nothing .

Speaker 3

It is nothing , maybe I'm not ready One person .

Speaker 2

Maybe , Maybe I'm not ready , but the whole face Wait what I mean .

Speaker 3

We could have the same feelings , but I wouldn't be ready .

Speaker 2

What if you just had got a relationship ? And you're like dang , I really do fuck with you , but then , like you don't want to move on too fast , where it just feels like that person you know .

Speaker 1

Because you're still trying to heal . I feel that , but fuck healing , I'm ready . Come healed already , because I'm trying to break it up .

Speaker 2

What if you are saying you are a person that's in a relationship and you want to be fully there , but if you recently just got a relationship , is that we're talking about ?

Speaker 3

right person , wrong time .

Speaker 1

So if we're just adding this is the case .

Speaker 3

Okay , so y'all been talking , y'all been communicating , y'all shared , y'all had feelings for each other . That's right , the right person .

Speaker 1

Wrong time .

Speaker 3

How was it wrong time if you guys both feel mutually Because what if she's ?

Speaker 1

still like in elementary school .

Speaker 3

Okay , oh my God , get him the fuck out of here . Get him off the panel .

Speaker 1

Why are you thinking ?

Speaker 3

about elementary school girl . What are you thinking about elementary school girl ?

Speaker 2

what are you talking about ?

Speaker 3

he's talking about the wrong the wrong time , the right people wrong time you need to be in jail if it's the wrong time in elementary school I mean , but he gave you a good example anyways on your on your question .

Speaker 1

It can be life getting in the way it's like things are . That's what that would be . That would be because you know how much difficult it is , though , to , like I say , right person , wrong time , and you're trying to like balance a relationship with life , with funding . Like a new job , trying to get a car Is like time .

Speaker 3

Time is a key factor to everything the mom is like 33 and the dad is like 40 , 42 . Okay , bro , here here , let me answer . I'm gonna answer his first . I'm gonna say yours one when you get past the age of 21 , there is no age limit , there is no age gap . There's only grown as fuck . That's what you got to realize when you're 25 . Fucking what a 16 year old 18 , or 8 , even 18 , bro . You're pushing it , you're pushing it . You're 25 . Fucking what a 16 year old 18 , or even 18 , bro . You're pushing it you're pushing it .

Speaker 1

You're pushing it but here's the thing .

Speaker 3

Here's the thing , even 18 even 18 is still technically grown , but why ?

Speaker 1

is it ? Oh no , it grown Because you're pushing it . Yeah , don't look at me .

Speaker 2

I'm single . We're supposed to look back . Hold on , hold on . What are you looking at ?

Speaker 3

Even if he was Sean's , not 25 . Sean's , not 25 . How old are you , sean ? 24 . 23 ? I'm not 24 until this year 23 . Think about oh oh , I'm 23 talking to an 18-year-old , all right , but I'm 25 talking to an 18-year-old Nigga , you've been out of high school way longer than you guys , but like in life , bro .

Speaker 2

That's wild . If life getting into the way , bro , then that's something Life's getting away in terms of age , but even then , but even then , yeah , baby , it's not fun .

Speaker 3

It's not fun , you a little To me age ain't nothing but a number At depending age , depending age . That works for them , not us . I'm gonna let you know that that shit works for them . That's why it's called cougars . That's why men don't have a cougar .

Speaker 2

It's called a creep . It's called a creep for us . Find you one . They be at work y'all .

Speaker 1

Maybe they do be at work , that's true .

Speaker 2

Somebody at my job , man , she single , she single , she single . Come come Titties , what she like to talk a lot .

Speaker 1

So you know , you thought about it , didn't you ?

Speaker 3

No , but I heard I don't want her to be shaking an air pod . We're going to skip that .

Speaker 2

We're going to skip that . Not an air pod Moving on .

Speaker 1

I got the joke .

Speaker 3

Okay , now just make sure you do it , bro . I didn't want it to blow up your head . It does .

Speaker 2

I know .

Speaker 3

That's why I didn't like it Okay , the next one Wait what number is that that was the third one .

Speaker 1

Second , oh , oh , no , the second , so right .

Speaker 3

So it's club right personal time . Yeah , I feel like I'm putting right personal time in , like the fourth .

Speaker 1

Fourth , I'm not cuffing the right from the club . That's pretty good , I'm doing three . I'm on three again .

Speaker 2

OK , what if it's the homeboy's girl he talked to ? Wait , wait time out . That's zero .

Speaker 3

Already from homeboy girl .

Speaker 2

I don't think they will even .

Speaker 3

I mean no , it's not like the actual girl , it's like a girl friend , that is just a friend , but they never did nothing .

Speaker 2

But you met him through her ? I don't think so . So it's not a list , we're not just building up , we're just it's just yeah , and then you have to rank them based off whenever you hear it .

Speaker 1

So I thought we were like listing them . You know what ?

Speaker 3

I'm saying blind ranking . So my homeboy's friend , that's a girl .

Speaker 2

Yeah .

Speaker 1

Or a dude , it's okay we don't judge , we don't judge . Whatever , you sure you want to go into this now Probably not , I think probably , it depends on her , but it wouldn't be my first choice .

Speaker 3

My first choice , because what's the number ? Oh , five , it's all low .

Speaker 2

You guys are bringing her .

Speaker 3

You guys think it's because he's only bringing her around just because he likes her when .

Speaker 2

When you guys just so happen to meet each other . I mean seen her right , I said that your friend introduced y'all , but like he introduced her as a friend and they were like friends Not quote unquote friends , but they were friends .

Speaker 3

Are they still friends ?

Speaker 2

Well , yeah , if you guys talk to her , aren't you guys all friends ? Are you talking about who ? I think you're talking about .

Speaker 1

We're not talking about anyone . What are you talking about ?

Speaker 2

I'm getting confused . Change the subject .

Speaker 1

I'm getting confused . Okay , anyways , change the subject . I'm doing a zero too . That's my homework .

Speaker 3

What about the ladies ?

Speaker 1

though it's like I guess I get it . It's like respect , Wow , you have a whole situation in your head .

Speaker 2

Yeah , that's not what I was like . He side-eyed me , he side-eyed me , you know what . Like wait , he side-eyed me , you know what . We'll just go to the next question . Side-eye , side-eye , no , side-eye , hard , real hard .

Speaker 3

So Is it okay .

Speaker 2

Okay , this is just about to be a question . Is it okay to get with someone with the idea of they don't know where they're going yet ?

Speaker 3

or they're still figuring it out at the age we're at yeah , because you gotta understand I'm saying this thing where people think , oh yeah , I date this person now I own him for life or I own her for life . That's not how life works . You're in a chapter of that person's life and that chapter is going to have to close . Either you move on to the next one or you don't . So how do ?

Speaker 2

you feel a lot about it and that chapter is going to have to close . Either you move on to the next one , you don't . So how do you feel ?

Speaker 1

yeah , he's a new person .

Speaker 3

I'm not with that shit . I'm gonna just be like , I'm just like shit , I'm just here and you decide if you decide . I know before I even start talking to that person , I know right from the get-go I don't own you , you're going to do whatever you want to do . You have your own mind , your own brain . You're going to do it , so wait .

Speaker 2

So that would . I would follow up with a different question than with that one . So is it okay for her to wear Whatever she feels comfortable in , as in like Well , like , okay . So let's say she wants to put everything out there , not even like too much out there , but you know what I mean Wearing certain provocative things .

Speaker 3

No , that's not gonna happen with me . No , no , fuck , no , fuck , no , it's not gonna happen with me .

Speaker 2

Wait , so you care about what she will go in .

Speaker 1

Yeah , Doesn't like matter .

Speaker 3

Because you represent me . You represent me . That's fair . That's a good , that's a good point . I'm not really doing that , do you really respect your boyfriend ? No you don't . You don't , but what ?

Speaker 2

is considered . What's in here , if you're showing ?

Speaker 3

anything that you would be like if he could see like the other person outside could see , like this one-on-one like that . Oh so say we're not saying like a sundress , because a sundress is obviously is a little fit to your body , but I'm saying if you were in a dress that show your nipples or a lot of cleavage , do you think your boyfriend would you be comfortable ? Would you sit in front of like dudes or people at a club where they all have the same mindset as men do ? Y'all don't really know what man do you think about me as soon as you walk in , that we'd be like her kind of big she's showing hella ass , is it her titties ? Like that's what we'd be thinking .

Speaker 1

And there's some men like thinking like oh , she's showing off , like her body , her skin . That's an invitation that she wants some attention you want me to pull up on her ?

Speaker 2

yeah , so basically making it available to people that like wants be with you .

Speaker 3

Yeah , because what the fuck ? How is your body special if anyone's seen it ? It's not , it's not , it's literally not Okay but what if she pulled you with that ? Her only pants If you were single , like when she was single when she was wearing certain things . Because that's her shit , it's her body .

Speaker 2

But when she went to you , you want her to

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Speaker 2

.

Speaker 3

Yeah , I think you should act different . If you get in a relationship , you should act different .

Speaker 1

You should move different . You can't dress the same . Why are you still wearing that ? Because it gives me the message that you're still trying to pull Right .

Speaker 2

So do you think ? A lot of people . No , that's just vague . I feel like everyone changes when they're in a relationship . Yeah , I guess you just got to talk about it with the other person .

Speaker 1

Communication is key . Yeah , I don't give a fuck , I don't give a fuck about communication .

Speaker 3

I don't give a fuck about communication , because this is like bro , you don't respect me , so you feel like oh , never mind . I think it's different , if you like . Uh , um , babe , I'm about to wear this out . Do you like it ? Do you approve of it ?

Speaker 3

and if I say yes , and then it's like all right , but if I feel some type of disrespect to you wearing something , well , how would you still wear it ? Right ? If you genuinely care about my feelings and genuinely like want me to be happy with you , you're gonna risk going out half naked you see me , I reacted okay .

Speaker 1

But how the fuck ? You're gonna say , uh , communication , communication don't matter . But when she asked you , this is okay to wear outside and you're like no , but you said fucking , that's communication , motherfucker .

Speaker 3

I said communication as in communication , like talking to me about it , not me saying , all right , can I wear this out , yeah , you can wear it out , but if you don't communicate with me and just wear it out , I'm like you said fuck me .

Speaker 2

You said fuck me . You basically said fuck me . That's what I'm saying . If you talk about it , that's what you said . You hate me ? Yeah , you know me . You don't even fuck about , don't you fucking crash it out about it ?

Speaker 3

Just think how would you feel if you saw your significant other showing everybody that the only way you wanted to see .

Speaker 2

Yeah , she bad you better go fucking change .

Speaker 3

That's why I like when I get a relationship . I don't , I don't okay . Us men like a girl's post are the same of girl posting posts , If that makes sense . I'm going to say it again for y'all .

Speaker 2

Men when they like girls' posts .

Speaker 3

it's the same as girls posting for men . Do y'all get what that is ?

Speaker 2

Yeah , yeah , I'm just saying it depends on the person's perspective of why they're posting .

Speaker 3

Yeah , it does , but if , my if my girl posted something we're looking really good , like it shows it's a nice sexy picture . So is it okay , you think ?

Speaker 2

so you think , oh so you would think she's posting for me . You're posting , but not for me , just like so when you like the post , you be like . Yes , she did that for me .

Speaker 3

No , I be like . I like the post . Like any other , niggas is looking at this right now .

Speaker 2

I'll be yelling in the inside , throwing up crying throwing up For real .

Speaker 3

For real , really sick . Yeah , no , I be fucked .

Speaker 2

The only thing she need to be posting is us no , for real .

Speaker 3

But now you posted bikini pic and you got guys liking your picture . Oh , it's alright . But I see now you posted a bikini pic and you got guys liking a picture . Oh , it's all right . But I see a big girl in a bikini pic and I like it . How ?

Speaker 2

is that different .

Speaker 3

How is that different in any ?

Speaker 2

way ? Wait , you're going for attention . So if she posts a pic and a bikini , and guys like it .

Speaker 3

it's the exact same , but it's just opposite of me liking the girls beneath bikini pic because there it's only attention if you really like to pick it and we were together you wouldn't post a bikini pic .

Speaker 2

Okay , something she wore wasn't provocative , but it was just something fitting to her , I guess body shape . But it was not .

Speaker 3

That , that's not rocket like a girl in a nice dress is way more sexier to me than a girl that's wearing bikini or that shit . Okay so then ? Okay , so say she wears something like that , or whatever , and she tells you .

Speaker 2

But , like you said , she will say something . The guy didn't agree with her , but she still goes out anyway . But she didn't post anything . She didn't make no post , she was just what family went out . Oh like was just what family went out . Oh , like she wasn't cuz . You know how girls like you said like they posed to be seen in basically that .

Speaker 3

So you saying she just wore some ?

Speaker 2

not too provocative , but it was some sexy did well .

Speaker 3

Oh , didn't yeah if you went out with somebody , especially your family , I would take pictures . Go ahead cuz why you not gonna wear no provocative shit around your family you walk around with your , I swear you , walk around , right .

Speaker 2

You walk around with your granny , with your nipples , with your granny , I swear you walk around .

Speaker 3

You go to brunch With your granny and your nipples is out .

Speaker 2

I mean Some girls be doing that I know , yeah , some girls be doing that , it be like that . But I'm just saying you wouldn't wear no .

Speaker 3

Crazy shit around your father .

Speaker 2

Or your mom , you wouldn't wear no shit .

Speaker 3

You have a limit can give your parents like a appearance level . Like if you , I'm not gonna wear this shit because I know my mom won't like me seeing it , or somebody you can do the same for me .

Speaker 2

I'm not gonna wear this because my man don't like other people seeing me in this if you can give other people caps , so is it okay when she wears it , though , when she's with you , yeah , yeah , okay , yeah , it's way different .

Speaker 3

It's because niggas , niggas , unless you like , really like .

Speaker 2

Corny , you're not going up to Right .

Speaker 3

Wait , you're not going up to a girl that's standing by A six foot two dude that's been with him all night .

Speaker 2

What if he does ?

Speaker 3

Huh .

Speaker 2

Then I can stop it .

Speaker 3

I can be like I can be like , but you gotta think when are you ?

Speaker 1

Would you ?

Speaker 3

Yeah , yeah .

Speaker 1

I yeah , yeah , man , I see my girl doesn't y'all gotta understand ?

Speaker 3

how crazy . Like that's what I'm saying crate niggas are crazy one . I'm what . You're not wearing that outside because I don't like it . I know how men think and that's inappropriate To . I know how niggas think again because .

Speaker 2

I there's niggas in college .

Speaker 3

It was how they touch girls because they think they like they just touch them , cuz they think they wearing Some .

Speaker 2

I don't agree with that at all . What , what ?

Speaker 3

what ? What happens if you work ? Oh babe , can I wear this out ? I don't like you wearing that . Oh , it's cute , All right . She goes out , a guy touches her . Oh , she snaps on the guy . The guy's put her hands on her . Now , what ? Now I'm nowhere to be found .

Speaker 1

You didn't get into a fight , yeah , you get what I'm saying .

Speaker 3

You didn't get into a fight because a man had touched you in an appropriate way because of what you was wearing , not saying he had every right to do it . It's just the real world . You get what I'm saying . I'm like , but when Can I talk to you real quick Now ? I don't interfere when my girl is going and getting talked about by niggas Because at the end of the day you're going to fight every nigga in the club You're going to fight ?

Speaker 2

You're going to fight . You better have a gun . You guys didn't see that video when everybody got smacked up .

Speaker 3

Even when you fight everybody in the club , what are you going to do when you're not in front of her face ? When you're not in front of her face , when you're not in front of your face , what you're gonna do ? I'm saying in the club , if somebody grabs her up like this , like let me talk to you , then it's like hold on . But if she's just like can I talk to you , and she and and the person I'm with is fully available to say no , I'm okay , I'm not gonna intervene , but I'm bro , I'm telling you this nigga's in college that don't care like if you looking good , they will touch .

Speaker 1

And it's not right at all .

Speaker 3

But what you're wearing . Then turn them on to the point to where they're ready to take any risk in the world . That's what I said , yeah but there's a lot of dudes . But there's a lot of dudes out there .

Speaker 1

There's a lot of dudes that like that . There's a lot of dudes out there and they are not nice at all .

Speaker 3

There's a respectful way to ask to dance .

Speaker 2

But niggas won't , oh wait .

Speaker 1

Let the people know what's the respectful way to ask , like can I dance with you , can you shake some booty for me , or you just do it you know it depends .

Speaker 2

No laughs available . It'll depend . Can you make that up ? It'll depend . One I'm not going to . I Depends . It'll last a variable . It'll depend . Can you make that up ? It'll depend . One I'm not going to . I'm not going to go to a club and see a girl twerking and then instantly jump on her .

Speaker 3

It would have to be something mutual , Like she would be staring at me and I'd be staring at her .

Speaker 1

And that would feel something to the point where I would be , falling for her .

Speaker 2

That's that movie . Shit that doesn't exist .

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Speaker 3

I say , say what , how would you feel if you've been flirting with a guy all night and being outside dancing ?

Speaker 1

what the fuck is flirting like ?

Speaker 3

it's just like looking , just keep no , looking what if like your home girl's like behind you just like no looking , chop it up . That's why I tell my homeboy leave her you can't pity pat with a girl all night Because she there to have fun you just there .

Speaker 1

Oh my gosh Fuck them hoes , I want a white girl dance , it's true .

Speaker 2

It just made me realize , oh my god , this one time I had to smack some dude Because I was . It was my cousin's friend . But I said , I said hi at the beginning when I went out , and then I didn't say nothing all night and I just went about my day . Towards the end my cousin was like , oh , I'm going to go get what's it called Snap . I'm like okay , so I go with her . This dude leans in for a kiss . I smack the dude .

Speaker 3

Niggas be ready to take risks .

Speaker 2

I said what they be crazy .

Speaker 3

I want you to respect me .

Speaker 2

I respect you .

Speaker 3

He said respect they just be so horny they literally just be so horny that he's like , yeah , that's all that lust , shit , no for what Lust and love are .

Speaker 1

Yeah , I think .

Speaker 3

It's a crazy topic . Okay , I'm gonna .

Speaker 2

Ask this last question Cause it's getting hot Hot as fuck . Yeah , okay , so what's the biggest Lesson you learned or learning in your past or current relationship About yourself ?

Speaker 3

Um .

Speaker 2

This guy Mine . Too much is adding up . I feel like we can all relate what I don't know about that .

Speaker 3

Um , it would be not talking to the person all day like yeah , like when you back in the day when you was with somebody and y'all finally see him , y'all have all everything to talk about , because I talked all day , rather than you be texting this person all day , I get in person . Y'all just like , well , what you do today , I remember I told you I went to say I just told you get on .

Speaker 3

Say , rather than like y'all just checking in fun , like every three hours or two hours , and they seen each other in person and then talking about the day indefinitely Instead of talking about it in text and getting the person just like that's like the only thing I ever learned , and be respectful and don't say shit that you can't take back . A bit more like those things .

Speaker 2

Shit , I stand on that Does it usually come back an argument . It don't usually come back in an argument .

Speaker 3

It'd just be like sucking that person's head . As somebody , I'm pretty sure everybody at this table has had someone say some fucked up shit to them . That they're stuck with them every time . You've seen that person yeah for the rest of you , like you just like damn , like he cool people or she cool peoples . But she did say that shit right to me one time when she was drunk or when she was real mad . Imagine , you get what I'm saying . Shit I'm trying to tell you .

Speaker 2

I'm trying to tell you , so you guys believe in that when you say something drunk it's actually sober thoughts or something .

Speaker 3

Yeah , oh , yeah .

Speaker 1

Yeah , but she's mad , she's mad .

Speaker 2

No , but she's mad .

Speaker 3

What do we call it ? We call it Truth serum or something . That's what we call liquor . We call it like Truth serum or something . Because , yeah , I'm telling you , you don't hold back when you drunk , you just be there .

Speaker 1

Oh my god , you just be there , you just be there .

Speaker 2

I just be there , you know what ?

Speaker 3

Let me chill out , I'm telling you Everybody got that Cause you gotta think your brain's still working when you're drunk . It's not some shit that somebody's just like alright , you hate sign right now . Oh my god , Hating sign has been in the back of his head somewhere or something .

Speaker 1

It just came out .

Speaker 2

It didn't just come .

Speaker 3

that night it's been boiling back there . Oh wow , I could sell it to someone . I thought you were celibate . Oh , good for you .

Speaker 2

You too Good for y' ?

Speaker 1

Yeah , I thought you were settled it you know , oh , good for you . Oh , make that money , let's go in the back room .

Speaker 3

It's right there .

Speaker 2

Can we ?

Speaker 1

finish the question , can we ?

Speaker 2

go to the next person . Take this to the car .

Speaker 3

I don't got no tent on my little cruise yet , oh , you got a new car .

Speaker 2

Yes , I was .

Speaker 3

See , I had to be a big boy and make a good financial decision . I could have got a room . Why are you like this ? Why is he like this ?

Speaker 2

He should just talk to me .

Speaker 3

No , I made a good financial decision . I could have gotten something a lot expensive , but then I would have had to be a car note . But I'm just like , let's just get a car , save my money . That in my car note . No , no , I own the car there . I always I like buying cars .

Speaker 2

I own because I got good credit now . So I mean , did anyone want ?

Speaker 3

to follow up with that question . Yeah , what ?

Speaker 2

what question ? What's the question not ?

Speaker 3

everybody answered either . What's the ?

Speaker 2

biggest lesson you learned or learning in a past or current relationship about yourself Don't make the same mistake twice . We live and we learn . See the reflex .

Speaker 3

That's your fucking problem .

Speaker 1

You like that toxic shit , huh .

Speaker 2

I like it too .

Speaker 3

I like it too . It's fine , I know you do .

Speaker 2

So does men prefer toxic no we don't , we don't prefer toxic . I want to say women wouldn't say I feel like guys like the thrill of someone being up their ass though yeah , they definitely do , because when I should , stop . They'd be like what ? Yeah , because it's energy exchange .

Speaker 3

Like I said , this podcast it's energy exchange when you're not yelling at us somebody's fucking my bed if I ever come home and my girl yelling at me for doing some shit and she's just like she don't get mad if I'm like yeah , like who didn't do that ? But girls , girls like toxicity because Tell me , if you get born , I'm in a bed , honey , everyday . Wake up , having the feel , the need to like always my bro , I have a long day like I'm doing this , I'm doing that , I keep myself busy , not being enough when going home having someone argue to me like where you been right now .

Speaker 2

Can I just go to sleep ? I just got off work in 12 hours I think it matters in the attitude too .

Speaker 1

It's just like where you been . It's like where you been at . How's it work like ?

Speaker 2

you know , ask them feeling like no matter what , I'd be interrogated Like what the fuck they're like ? Oh , I see a picture Like what you got some trauma built up .

Speaker 1

Yeah , it's kind of bad , probably who knows Like for what . But to give my opinion on it , it's not letting my full self into a relationship until like marriage type thing , oh , maybe you gotta give your full self in a relationship . Why do you do that ? Why ?

Speaker 2

are you ?

Speaker 1

hiding , I'm not hiding , I'm not giving my full emotion to that one relationship .

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Speaker 3

Because what he said , what X said is like I'm just a chapter in your life .

Speaker 1

I don't know how long this chapter is . Why should I get so attached that later on I'm just going to get hurt ?

Speaker 2

Well , now you're not getting attached , but you're allowing to be loved and love the other person .

Speaker 3

No , wanting to be loved and love the other person . So what he's basically saying is he's not gonna give and put . So basically he's saying he's not gonna put everything in him because it might not work out until he knows in marriage that they're solidified in their thinking like that , it won't . No , it's no .

Speaker 1

It's not like no no , because it's like an exchange of like affection like if I'm loving you so much and you're not getting the same energy you're not getting the same energy back . That's just .

Speaker 2

That's just a way so I'm gonna love you the same way you're loving me , and then what's the point of being in a relationship if you can't love fully ? Because sometimes , when the other person leaves the other person be up because they didn't put so much into this person well , it's not that you're not putting that much in , I'm just saying why do you have to limit yourself of loving someone ? Just find the person you want to truly love and then , if they leave , then you have to understand , you have to be okay with walking away yeah , yeah , but how many risks are you gonna take , if I think I'm not heartbroken three times in a row ?

Speaker 3

you think I'm about to try to move a fourth time .

Speaker 2

That's what I'm saying . You have to , that's why you have to be aware of who you love , and that's why it's just that's why they have like that three month rule , type shit , if it gets boring after third month or it's not .

Speaker 3

It's like you were a free trial , my boy , oh that's crazy three month free trial is crazy people be doing that shit .

Speaker 2

Yeah , yeah , no , it is I I get you I understand you something , bro .

Speaker 1

Three days , no , literally , I give you three hours I don't know a phone call . I mean it also just matters and like how everyone does Pursue a relationship , it's everyone's different . Yeah , I ain't doing that shit , dude .

Speaker 2

I ain't doing that I ain't doing that shit so you think a lot of men Hold back on how much they're wanting .

Speaker 3

Oh no cause like .

Speaker 2

They said that Only a guy's willing to Change for the right girl . That's true .

Speaker 3

That's true , that's true , so you think it .

Speaker 2

It meant um eyes when guys leave ? No , not when guys leave like the relationship was ending or whatever happened in the relationship . When guys improve , what does that mean ? They lost a good person , or is that they're just trying to walk to find a better ?

Speaker 3

person they're just like they're gonna find a better part . Because when they fuck up they just like and it hurts that bad and they realize they're the reason that ended . They will never go through that right , so they're gonna not not do that . Yeah , this guy , he's never gonna be in a relationship . Thank god , it's never your fault . What do you mean by that ?

Speaker 2

wow , that's great , I'm always right this is why I go there , because I think the same way , the same way , it's never my fault .

Speaker 1

Don't fist bump him . Don't do that , don't do it you mad Because it's never my fault .

Speaker 2

Well , it's not that it's never my fault . I tell them .

Speaker 3

I was like if there'm not going to tell you what's wrong with you unless I can fix it .

Speaker 2

Well , that's the thing , because sometimes people are like , oh , I hate that you do this , but then it's like well , then , tell me what I can do to do better . They're like oh , I don't know .

Speaker 3

That's attacking you .

Speaker 2

Helping is , though , like say , someone is like I don't think you should point out a problem unless you have a solution to it that's how I mean , even that it's just like being a let it be known I get like you don't have to try to fix it right away it's like , hey , let's just be known that we can work on this , like oh yeah .

Speaker 1

But I'm just saying like , let's fix this right now , bitch like oh my god , just perfect .

Speaker 3

For example , my boy roach .

Speaker 3

His name is elijah my boy roach right , he might he had he had a shaggy beard , he had a furrow and he just didn't know what to do this hair . And I cut his hair real nice to where I gave him a goatee , cleaned his face up . He had waves and everything . He and everybody was like bro , you look so much cleaner now . You're like , you don't like a fucking hobo . And I did this . What the people are telling him . And he comes to me . He said x , why didn't you fucking tell me I looked like a hobo , like why didn't you tell me ? I said because I didn't know how to fix it . He said what I said . Let's just say I said you like a fucking hobo roach what , what like ?

Speaker 2

what about ? What about what ?

Speaker 3

might happen , or like bro , what I told him . I said rather than me saying roach , let me give you a free haircut and let's see how it turned out . That's different . Rather than me saying you like a fucking hobo and then walking away . Rather than me saying , bro , you look like a hobo yeah , let me give you a haircut .

Speaker 2

You look nice .

Speaker 3

You know , I'm saying people that just point out your flaws and I'm gonna fix them .

Speaker 2

Them motherfuckers are attacking you so in relationships , when people pinpoint something they don't like about the relationship , and then you ask and it's like , well , what can we do to fix them ? They're like I don't know . Then it's like , well , what can ?

Speaker 3

we do to fix it and they're like I don't know .

Speaker 2

Then it's like do you still believe in that situation ?

Speaker 3

It's because they don't . They're the motherfuckers that don't give a fuck for real .

Speaker 2

Like they don't care .

Speaker 3

If they really care , they point out your flaws . If they really gave a fuck and they was like , oh don't help you do it Like , say , you walk out of the bathroom and the toilet seat up hey babe , can you go put the toilet seat down and you lift it up again . That's like helping to fix the problem Like they're like . Bro , I just hate when you leave the toilet seat up and just walk away , they attacking you .

Speaker 1

At least help me , at least remind me .

Speaker 2

If you know or do something to make me help it ?

Speaker 1

What ?

Speaker 3

about the people that take everything as attacking .

Speaker 1

They kill you in a nice way and they try to reflect on it . Stop being a victim .

Speaker 3

Stop being a victim . Stop being a victim , especially for men . Stop being a victim .

Speaker 1

Are you looking at me ? I don't play victim . Women is kind of different . Women is kind of different .

Speaker 3

Women is kind of different .

Speaker 2

Anyway , that concludes Prime Example Podcast . I was your host , leslie , and these are my guests Dabaran , dabaran .

Speaker 3

White Vans .

Speaker 2

I'm a menace . Did you guys want to say anything to the people ?

Speaker 3

Don't be a victim . You right there that's getting cheated on by his girlfriend . Don't be a victim . You right there , that's getting cheated on by his girlfriend . Don't be a victim .

Speaker 1

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Speaker 3

Yeah , I need to subscribe , no .

Speaker 2

No , it's the . They have extra streams when people have podcasts . Subscribe to the OF Wait . No , no , it's the . They have extra streams when people have podcasts .

Speaker 1

They have the extra stream to . You know what I'm talking about .

Speaker 2

There's the OF .

Speaker 1

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Speaker 2

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Speaker 3

Doing a line tonight . Stay tuned At 7 o a line tonight .

Speaker 2

Stay tuned At 7 o'clock On a dot that's not a drink .

Speaker 1

You should Take my water back so I can finish it . Are y'all ?

Speaker 2

finna go to the carnival you .