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If Deja Vu Is Real Then What Else Is

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Your body is exhausted, your eyes are open, and you’re trying to yell for help but nothing comes out. That’s where our night starts, and it gets real fast. We kick things off by trading “ghost experiences,” then realize a lot of what we’re describing lines up with sleep paralysis: the frozen limbs, the chest pressure, the fake voices, and the panic of feeling awake while your body refuses to cooperate.

From there, we follow the thread into the brain’s stranger corners. We talk deja vu dreams and that eerie “foreshadowing” feeling like you’ve seen tomorrow already. One of us explains trying to predict the next day through dreams, then landing in a moment that matches the place, the timing, and the vibe. We go back and forth on whether it’s a memory glitch, pattern recognition, stress, or something we just can’t explain yet. If you’re into paranormal stories, vivid dreaming, or the psychology of memory, this part will stick with you.

We also take some necessary detours: Colombian coffee, tea that hits like an energy drink, and kava root talk that turns into a debate about what people use to feel calm or energized and how that might feed into sleep problems. Then we pivot into relationships with big questions: right person wrong time, love vs loneliness, and whether “lonely” is sometimes just “bored.” We close out with Cedar Point roller coaster fears and a final debate on shy vs outgoing couples, plus a tease that there’s more coming.

If you like unfiltered conversations that bounce between scary, funny, and surprisingly thoughtful, subscribe, share this with a friend, and leave a review. What’s your take on sleep paralysis: paranormal or pure science?

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Batteries Die And The Reset

SPEAKER_00

I'm sorry about that.

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No, we're not. Five break another stuff.

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No, we had to take a quick intermission because my batteries died.

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Oh shit, you had to say it on the podcast.

SPEAKER_00

Okay, so where was we at?

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About aliens.

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Uh you know what? We're gonna start that.

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You should put it on the sound effect.

SPEAKER_00

Okay, so we okay. This is kind of a personal question, but you don't wanna go deep because you'll be a clowning, huh?

SPEAKER_03

No, I'm good for it.

SPEAKER_00

Okay, chill out with the cussing because I don't want to bleep all that out. Yeah, you got to. Yeah, that's too much work already. Anyway.

SPEAKER_03

I didn't say nothing. I just said the B word, beautiful. Beautiful bitch.

SPEAKER_00

And uh we're back. You're clowning. I got a question I asked y'all when this is over. Go ahead. Go ahead.

unknown

Alright.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, that was a good one. Thank you for this good call. I was gonna say I asked a question. Yeah. No, you go ahead.

SPEAKER_00

How you gonna okay. Anyway.

Ghost Experiences And Sleep Paralysis

SPEAKER_00

Oh, have you guys ever had ghost experiences?

SPEAKER_02

I've had sleep problems.

SPEAKER_03

Oh shit. How was that?

SPEAKER_02

One night I was super tired. Like, I went to I we went I think we had a double practice that day. We had practice before school and after school. And I went home, I was super sleepy after work. I thought my brother was, you know, was tapping me to wake up. I couldn't move. I'm looking at everybody in the room, but with nobody in there. So like my brother's screaming, wake up, wake up, wake up. I wake up, nobody in the room. I'm yelling at my mom, but I can't move. I can't talk or nothing. So I'm like, I must still be asleep. I feel awake, but you know, my mom in the room, but it wasn't my mom.

SPEAKER_01

Oh, I think I heard this before.

SPEAKER_03

Jeepers creepers.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, it was kind of freaky.

SPEAKER_03

And it's crazy because the Jeepers creepers is probably from Toledo. I wouldn't throw it over my head. No god. You know where they make Jeep.

SPEAKER_01

Bro making a pun.

SPEAKER_00

He's up here coming up with conspiracy theories.

SPEAKER_01

Oh yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Hey Jeep, it comes from the Jeep from the one like down the street.

SPEAKER_03

Stay away from them. Comes from Toledo. Jeep.

SPEAKER_01

I had like one time when I was little. I woke up but I couldn't breathe. And my mom was upstairs and I was trying to call for her, but I couldn't. I like I was running out of breath. Like I was getting to the point where like you know how you was about to like, you know how we get like lightheaded, you about to black out type stuff. So like it was about to get to that, but I just started screaming. And my mom was like, boy, go to sleep. And I'm like, I'm really in here about to die. Like, I can't breathe. But I end up running out of bed and then I could breathe again, like, type stuff, bro. Like, it was crazy.

SPEAKER_00

Oh shoot, so like it had something over your hand?

SPEAKER_01

No. I don't know. It was like I was trying to say. I couldn't say nothing, but when I screamed, I could scream, you know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_00

Were you screaming out loud like in real life?

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, I was screaming like somebody was killing me.

SPEAKER_03

That's some paranormal activity shit.

SPEAKER_00

No, Loki, that happened to me.

SPEAKER_03

You ever got you guys ever got the best sleep off of the randomest times when you fell asleep on the couch and you didn't even know you really the best work, workout, work after you just picked up like 20 shingles with two bundles on top? Man, you're the only roofer here. No, you're talking about that.

SPEAKER_01

No, you're talking about that two-hour nap, that'd be feeling like eight hours though. That's the best nap, though, after the work.

SPEAKER_02

Nah man, you go to sleep after you wake up and work.

SPEAKER_03

Ooh we after a modello and a bleasy.

Deja Vu Dreams And Future Feeling

SPEAKER_03

Save that for the book. Save that for the book.

SPEAKER_01

No, no, but some, I don't know if it's related to paralysis, but like I call it foreshadowing for real, but like I feel like I'll be seeing the future. And when it happened, it feels like deja vu. But I can tell myself how to do it. Like when I go to sleep, I'm like, how tomorrow gonna play out? And I'll have a dream about it, bro, like right here.

SPEAKER_02

That's how your day go.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. I'll be like, oh my god, this is real, bro.

SPEAKER_02

Like so, what if your day is shitty and you think like, oh, I had a dream about this. Oh, this is how I was gonna go.

SPEAKER_01

No, like sometimes it don't be accurate, like sometimes it'd be people there that don't be there, but like it'd be that same place, same time, type stuff, you know what I'm saying? And it'd be like the same scenery.

SPEAKER_02

So you're a Raven Baxter shit, you you had a vision.

SPEAKER_03

You had a vis no, it'd be like back to the future type shit.

SPEAKER_01

No God, but like you won't know until you in that moment, you be like, Oh I felt you. Oh god. I know what you're talking about. I had like, dang, like you wasn't here in a dream, but you here now, so it don't really matter.

SPEAKER_03

Like, I just remembered you because I seen you last n or like some other time, man.

SPEAKER_00

I seen you from last night, I'm just trying to make it real. Can I imagine?

SPEAKER_03

I got two bones, one for the plug and one for the um.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah. Oh, wait, so okay, so I had a sea back sleep paralysis where I was sleeping and I thought someone was sitting on me, and I literally could see everything, and I I thought I was speaking, but I wasn't. I was literally crying, and I woke up crying because I literally opened my eyes, but I couldn't move. And I was screaming out loud, but no one could hear me. So when that stuff was happening, I closed my eyes and I opened them and I was able to move, but once I moved, I woke up and ran to my mom and I was like, You didn't hear me yelling. She was like, No, I didn't hear you yelling, and I'm like, my bad for waking you up.

SPEAKER_03

You know what that means?

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, but no, we don't. Yeah, explain to them what that means.

SPEAKER_03

Uh you

Coffee Tea And Kava Debate

SPEAKER_03

do it, I thought you know.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, I thought you knew. Wait a minute. We the only two that don't. Somebody explained.

SPEAKER_03

Just drink a cup of coffee and you'll be all good. Uh yeah, the coffee that we got. Hell yeah, you know I can't. Man, they made some good Colombian coffee. Hell yeah.

SPEAKER_00

You're not even from Columbia.

SPEAKER_03

I'm saying you make some good Colombian coffee. I tried some UKT. Oh, hell no. What happened? Was it a war on the city? What's the UK T? Was it a war on Boston tea or something like that?

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, yeah, yeah like that. Peep you. Yeah, bro, but they tea I don't know, they tea like made me feel energized, like like I just drank a bread bullet or something. I don't know. They tea was like, You had a monster? Hey, you should have Don Julio with it. I had Kava too. What the fuck? Kava, like what those uh Fijians and Samoans be drinking? It's just like it's supposed to be like liquor, but it's not liquor. It's like roots and it make your body calm down, give your body a high. It's it's too. Edibles. It's too.

SPEAKER_02

It's edible. It tastes like dirt though. So you've eaten dirt, is what you're saying.

SPEAKER_01

It's grind up grind up roots from uh, some wakanda shit. Bro, like you know how when you eat an edible, it gives your body but it's not like that.

SPEAKER_03

It's like no, like I'm trying to get to where you're saying you said grind up roots. It's some wakanda shit.

SPEAKER_01

Bro, look up kava. It actually gives you the same stuff that liquor does.

SPEAKER_03

It's some wakanda shit, it gives him superpower. He don't want to with the Aztec that came over there. We Aztec. That's what I'm about to do with that right there. I'm about to do the Aztec soul right there.

SPEAKER_00

You know, I'm gonna touch my slow. I'm doing something with it right now.

SPEAKER_03

Watch me do it. I'm gonna do a sun on their Aztec style.

SPEAKER_02

She's like, maybe no, she's like, hell no.

Right Person Wrong Time Question

SPEAKER_03

I know that face. She's like, hell no.

SPEAKER_00

Anyway, do you guys believe in wrong person wrong uh right person wrong time?

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, absolutely.

unknown

Right person.

SPEAKER_02

That person can make you happy at the right time, but then you know, as you just said earlier, you can get out of bad relationship and it can be the wrong person. You know, like I could fall for you, false sight, like, you know, first sight, but you know, I just got a relationship wrong time, wrong person.

SPEAKER_00

Wait, I gotta I wait, I gotta say something. Hold your thought, remember it. I was gonna say, when you're doing that, do you believe that it's not actually like you feeling that you're in love, or is it something that you feel lonely and that you're just gravitating to it because you're lonely and you just got out of a relationship?

SPEAKER_02

I say lonely has a lot to it. Because I have nobody.

SPEAKER_03

I love myself.

SPEAKER_02

Like lonely describes a lot behind it. I wouldn't say like lonely. I feel like if that's the case, then it'd be a lust. Not like you know, you being lonely. I feel like a lot is lonely.

SPEAKER_01

I don't get how people can be lonely. Like, personally, me, I'm emotionally unavailable. Like, you know how I get around y'all, I can only ask y'all questions for real to get to a conversation. I can't even talk about my feelings or nothing. Cause like, what is that?

SPEAKER_00

Wait, so okay.

SPEAKER_01

So as um So like what is loneliness? All you do is smoke some weed and you feel good, and some tacos to get you tacos. Man, fool. Like, you don't need people around you all the time, me personally. Like you need tacos in your life, that's what you need. Taco about chicken.

SPEAKER_03

But like what the f like I never knew in this whole damn life everybody's gonna somebody's gonna say that. But what the fuck chicken chicken? What about some chicken? Uh some chicken, some watermelon, some cool eggs, uh we asked about you over asking about some sugar. You never did that. You over ask about some sugar, man.

SPEAKER_01

Well, people will call being lonely. I would call being bored for real life.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, I would say that.

Loneliness Boredom And Food Side Quest

SPEAKER_03

What the heck? What what kind of hot sauce?

SPEAKER_02

I had to put it like that too.

SPEAKER_03

Bro. That's what a hard time.

SPEAKER_01

Some tamales. Tamales.

SPEAKER_00

Dude, that sucks. I can only eat like the chick cheese one.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, the cheese one.

SPEAKER_03

Hey, imagine somebody just walking up and we got some tamales and I just throw it in them and hit his neck and go.

SPEAKER_04

That's not funny. That's really funny.

SPEAKER_01

I'm not funny. I'm not trying to be on there or nothing, but I feel like black people tamales taste better than Mexican tamales. Only because y'all be using like a channel.

SPEAKER_03

What kind of tamales you guys got? What the hell? Well, y'all ain't never had a tamales. What the LMA for? What's the second? What's the secret? That's the secret. Ain't nobody telling me what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_01

Take out the streets of Jama's, man.

SPEAKER_03

I got kind of tamales they got. What they do? They got bread with with bread.

SPEAKER_01

Like, I I can't explain it to you, gang. Like, it's not like y'all tamales at all, bro.

SPEAKER_03

Like, yeah, I've looked that up. Jamaican tamales.

SPEAKER_00

Wait, there's Jamaican tamales. Are you lying money?

SPEAKER_01

No, I'm dead serious. Y'all never had Jamaise?

unknown

No. I've never had James.

SPEAKER_02

You made some tamali right there on the Jamaican spice. But you know, I've never had Jamaise.

SPEAKER_01

No, y'all gotta go smack on that. That's a Jamaican restaurant. I had some Jamaican weed though. I smoke weed from I'ma smoke weed out of banana before. Like you can't say that, man. Oh.

SPEAKER_00

Out of all the stuff he couldn't say, he said you couldn't say that. But he said everything in the book. Okay.

SPEAKER_01

Alright, Leslie. I mean Lily.

SPEAKER_00

Oh yeah, let me get back on topic because y'all wait all for the speaking of the roller coasters.

Cedar Point Fears And Ride Safety

SPEAKER_00

Are y'all scared of roller coasters because they just took out that one uh roller coaster in Cedar Point where it just goes straight up and down? The Drax.

SPEAKER_02

I am absolutely scared of Cedar Point. The Draxer was their best one. What are they doing? Only because imagine if some shit happened. Bitch, you dying.

SPEAKER_01

Bro, the 14-year-old.

SPEAKER_02

Yes, bro. Imagine. Imagine. Like, I don't even want my kid being at Cedar Point no more. Because it's just so unsafe now.

SPEAKER_00

Wait, no, it's just because of one ride, but not you.

SPEAKER_02

One ride? A 14-year-old?

SPEAKER_00

No, I'm talking about the little rides, the ones that are not like the ones on the little, you know, the little train, you know, just going a little round, you know.

SPEAKER_01

It's been a minute, but you know. Oh, you're talking about Snoopy Land?

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, they just don't do nothing.

SPEAKER_03

Like, yeah, that was my shit when I was young. Snoopy Land. Nah.

SPEAKER_00

He's talking about he's in that house chiefing. In the little cube. Don't lie.

SPEAKER_03

Oh yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Chill.

SPEAKER_03

I'm Chief Keefe, but Mexican. I don't know what to call it.

SPEAKER_00

They call it Chef.

SPEAKER_01

Just call me Chiminator. That's Chef Soso. That's Chef Soso right there. Okay, so that's it hard, bro.

SPEAKER_03

Snoopy Land. Uh uh.

Part Two Tease And Real Life

SPEAKER_00

No, I got okay, so I got one more question before we end it for the night. We're gonna end it.

SPEAKER_03

It's gonna be a second part, so stay tuned. We ain't gonna have we're gonna we ain't gonna leave it like that. Oh yeah. And you know it, we got tacos. No, we don't.

SPEAKER_02

Do I no? I don't have work in the morning, but I got shit to do right after this.

SPEAKER_03

I got work in the morning. It's crazy.

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, you know we got life, so I got a kid.

SPEAKER_00

We're not up there yet, so we can't we can't just afford off of this.

SPEAKER_01

I'm working three jobs, man. It's crazy. Alright, nah, just play.

SPEAKER_00

Hey, look at it.

SPEAKER_03

I'm gonna get some motherfucking tacos after this.

SPEAKER_00

Hey. You make all of them?

SPEAKER_02

You making my eight? Nah. Eight? God damn. Listen, you gotta feed me and my brain.

SPEAKER_00

Okay, we're gonna Okay, let me let me let me ask the last question before we head out. Okay, so.

Shy And Outgoing Relationship Dynamics

SPEAKER_00

Oh shit, we're gonna smoke.

SPEAKER_03

Hey, you a Chicago bull fan, huh?

SPEAKER_00

Why do you keep saying that? Because you just keep saying that because of my fucking thing. Okay, so do you guys believe shy guys stay in a longer relationship with an outgoing girl, or an outgoing guy stays in relationships longer with a shy girl? Excuse me.

SPEAKER_03

Excuse me.

SPEAKER_02

I was about to say that, but shy girl going with the outgoing guy last longer because you know, guys, to me, like they're women insecure. Like guys like to like guys like to be hyped up. Guys like to be real conceited from my point of view.

SPEAKER_03

So hey DJ Rick. Cut the beat.

SPEAKER_02

Oh, conceited. So, you know, guys want to be the the alpha male. They want to be the dominant. So, you know, females have to listen to what the males say. So I say, like, you know.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, bitch, go get my control. Mm-hmm.

unknown

I like this.

SPEAKER_00

Dude, think of the cussing. Oh god.

SPEAKER_01

Or we dropped it.

SPEAKER_00

Bleep, bleep, bleep, bleep, bleep.

SPEAKER_04

Bleep, bleep, bleep, bleep, bleep.

SPEAKER_01

Oh god, it's gonna be like Maury. But I feel like me personally, like, if I'm with a shy girl, I'm the one that's outgoing. But like, if I'm around an outgoing girl, I'm the shy dude. So like it could go either way with that for real.

SPEAKER_00

So you say you you just go wherever you're whatever her vibe is, you're going the opposite.

SPEAKER_01

Not even. It's like You want someone equal. It's like on God. It's like so if she's shy, it's like I want to get her out of her shell. But if she's outgoing, it's like alright, thing I want to be.

SPEAKER_00

She's too confident for me. She can tell her shit.

SPEAKER_01

It's not even if she's too confident for me. It's like alright, I wanna know her. Like, you know what I'm saying? Like, because this is a good person I want to be around. So I want to see, like, you know what I'm saying?

SPEAKER_02

Not everyone thinks like that. What's your thoughts?

unknown

Oh no, no.

SPEAKER_02

So you rather be the shy guy with the outgoing girl, or would you rather be you know, with the outgoing girl and you be the shy guy?

SPEAKER_03

What kind of question is that?

SPEAKER_00

She said you speak it too fast for me.

SPEAKER_03

No, that's like I don't speak Chinese.

SPEAKER_00

No, okay, so like say a girl Can you read this?

SPEAKER_03

Not at all.

SPEAKER_00

No. Okay, so they say either you're outgoing or the other girl's outgoing and you're shy. Which one would you go with? But I'm already knowing you two outgoing. Like, what does that mean? That means you two out there.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, like unapologetic.

SPEAKER_03

Well, I'm conceding. Like, I'll throw this bitch at him, man. I'll throw this whole fucking podcast at him, man.

SPEAKER_00

You know you won't.

SPEAKER_03

I know, I know.

SPEAKER_00

We don't play that here. Okay, but yeah, guys.

SPEAKER_03

But what does that mean?

SPEAKER_00

Dude, I just literally explained what it means.

SPEAKER_03

But what I didn't even answer it.

SPEAKER_00

Cause you act like you wasn't gonna answer it.

SPEAKER_03

I wasn't going to answer it, so why'd you even answer me? Nah, just playing. I wouldn't answer it, but that's a hard question.

SPEAKER_00

It's not a hard question. Not at all. I look you wanna be a shit.

SPEAKER_03

I ain't had to say shit. I just text her, you go give me some ice cream.

SPEAKER_01

Wait, that's your pickup one? No.

SPEAKER_02

Oh, I was like, so you rather So your girlfriend going through drive-thru. You know, order your food, and if it's not right, she cuss them out. That's you you that person?

SPEAKER_03

Let's cuss her out.

SPEAKER_02

No, like you the person let them cuss them out, like, you know, your girl that cuss out the customer.

SPEAKER_03

Then she cuss them out?

SPEAKER_02

Yeah, because you know, she ordering your food and you ain't want it right. And you wanted it done right.

SPEAKER_01

Oh yeah, be like, yeah, babe, this ain't right. And then she gets the yak in them all.

SPEAKER_02

Right, but if it's not done right, you don't want to let her cuss them out and you don't want to sit back. I would I'll be nah, I'll just be like, You don't want to sit back, like, alright, I'm gonna text her.

SPEAKER_03

Be crazy for some food. I can make that shit in my toilet right now, man. I can make that shit in my motherfucking living room right now.

SPEAKER_00

You

Last Jokes And Closing Out

SPEAKER_00

know what? That concludes prime example podcast, and you know, back at the beginning, you know, these were my folks, and we outside my cousins.

SPEAKER_03

Oh my mama does my cousin.