About the Guest

Jacqualine Kay Raad is a leadership and speechwriting consultant known for her proficiency in guiding individuals through moments of self-discovery. Her expertise spans critical areas such as presentation and negotiation skills, networking, leadership through coaching, and particularly, giving and receiving feedback. Her unique ability to identify and help resolve human interaction challenges stems from her deep-seated experience in human resources and her journey in personal development, especially focusing on emotional intelligence.

Key Takeaways:

• The significance of self-awareness in identifying and addressing personal blind spots is crucial for personal and professional growth.
• Jacqueline Raad introduces the "assertive feedback formula," which aids in delivering clear, impactful feedback without resorting to advice-giving.
• Relationship dynamics influence the reception of feedback; understanding these nuances can improve communication efficacy.
• "Whole body listening" is a vital skill that encourages full engagement in conversations, promoting deeper understanding and empathy.
• The value of emotional bank accounts in relationships underlines the necessity of balancing positive and negative interactions to foster trust and openness.

Notable Quotes:

• "The most dangerous quadrant is the blind spot quadrant, which is, you know this about me, but I don't know this about me."
• "You make the best speech you'll ever regret when you don't take the time to recover from feedback before re-engaging."
• "It's about acknowledging that it's okay to feel triggered when you're receiving feedback."
• "Imagine if we all did whole body listening to each other."
• "The cheapest and kindest thing—the greatest compliment—you could give to somebody is to listen to them with your whole body."

Resources:

• Dale Carnegie’s principles on appreciation from How to Win Friends and Influence People
• Seven Habits of Highly Effective Families by Stephen R. Covey
• Drawing on principles of Dale Carnegie, Joseph Greeny, Sheila Heen and Stephen Covey

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About the Guest:

Leonie Nahhas is a registered psychologist with an extensive background in community wellbeing, education, and mental health initiatives. She currently operates her private practice, ThriveWise Psychology, and has established the Illume Community Dialogue Forum, which aims to foster community dialogue and collective well-being. Leonie has worked in various educational settings and has spent time abroad gaining valuable cultural experiences, contributing to her deep understanding of human interactions and societal dynamics.

Key Takeaways:

• Encouraging Dialogue: Leonie Nahhas emphasises the importance of dialogue in addressing mental health challenges and promoting community well-being.
• Community and Empathy: The Illume Community Dialogue Forum facilitates community engagement, allowing individuals to understand differing perspectives and appreciate diversity.
• Parental Involvement: Teaching children to have healthy and respectful discussions is crucial for their development and long-term well-being.
• Cultural Considerations: Culturally aware dialogues can help break the cycle of internalising and suppressing emotions within families and communities.
• Practical Implementation: Leonie suggests starting with small, meaningful conversations with children, encouraging curiosity and understanding through open-ended questions.

Notable Quotes:

1. "I am someone who is so passionate and interested and curious about people and untangling the complexity of the human mind."
2. "There's always a function behind behavior, and there's always a function behind the issues that exist in the world."
3. "The greatest joy is sometimes asking big questions to your parents about their life story."
4. "It's not just about my dialogue; it's about understanding the person next to me."
5. "Start with what's happening in front of you and encourage them to go and disagree with them."

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Patrick Coorey is a seasoned professional with nearly 30 years of experience in the high-octane world of professional motorsport. Starting from humble beginnings in Coffs Harbour, Australia, his passion for racing and engineering drove him to the pinnacle of motorsport, Formula One. Despite an initial setback when his team ran out of funds, Patrick transitioned into Formula E, where he thrived as a championship-winning team manager. His career has also included roles such as design office manager and overseeing special projects, showcasing his versatility and dedication to innovation within the industry.

Key Takeaways:

• Passion and persistent hard work are crucial to achieving long-term goals, even in the face of adversity.
• Failures and setbacks can lead to unforeseen opportunities that align better with personal and professional fulfillment.
• Effective team management in high-stress environments relies on understanding individual needs and leveraging collective strengths.
• Embracing challenges and stepping out of one's comfort zone are essential for growth and advancement.
• A strong work ethic and a positive attitude can drive success, regardless of circumstances.

Notable Quotes:

• "If you're passionate about something, if you find what you're truly passionate about, you'll motivate yourself." - Patrick Coorey
• "All these hurdles that come up against us… they're not hurdles. They're actually the learning experiences that are absolutely essential." - Patrick Coorey
• "The hard work was a big thing. We learned a lot and it certainly got me a long way." - Patrick Coorey
• "I love the idea of doing something that feels a little bit scary… that's where growth happens." - Patrick Coorey

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George Sahyoun built the Karima Group from the ground up, naming it after his mum—because sometimes the best business inspiration comes from home. As co-founder and director, George has turned entrepreneurial success into something bigger: genuine community impact through philanthropy and mentoring.

What sets George apart isn't just his business acumen—it's his commitment to lifting others up. From mentoring emerging entrepreneurs to leading community initiatives across Australia, George proves that true success means creating opportunities for the next generation. This conversation explores building legacy businesses, the power of family values in entrepreneurship, and why giving back isn't optional.

Key Takeaways:

• Family Unity and Resilience: George Sahyoun emphasizes the importance of family unity, highlighting lessons learned from his mother, Karima.
• Redefining Success: The pursuit of wealth is seen as a means to an end, with true success being measured by personal growth, community impact, and relationships.
• Generosity and Giving Back: Genuine fulfillment is derived from selfless acts of giving and supporting others, a core value instilled in George by his mother.
• The Impact of Legacy: The conversation underscores how individuals are remembered for their character and contributions rather than their financial status.
• Connection and Community: Despite advancements and achievements, the need for a strong sense of belonging and community remains paramount.

Notable Quotes:

• "Money's easy to make. A donkey can make money. It's what you do with it and how you approach it going forward."
• "She was like a lioness that protected her cubs, and we were her cubs."
• "It's more important to give back than it is to get."
• "The application is more important than the physical desire for money."
• "Ultimately, where does that leave you if you lose the essence of what it was all about in the first place?"

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Claudia Chakar has spent over 20 years helping Australian families untangle intergenerational trauma and build stronger connections. As a clinical psychotherapist specialising in family and couples therapy, Claudia understands that healing often means examining family patterns passed down through generations. 

Her trauma-informed approach has made her a respected voice in mental health circles, particularly within Lebanon's Australian community where cultural sensitivity meets psychological expertise.

Key Takeaways:

• Invisible Wounds: Intergenerational trauma can travel unnoticed through family lines, manifesting in modern-day conflicts and psychological disorders.
• Importance of Therapy: Professional help is crucial for individuals and families to heal from trauma and learn adaptive coping mechanisms.
• Community Involvement: Healing from intergenerational trauma requires a collective response from institutions, communities, and individuals.
• Role of Empathy: Empathy and understanding are essential to facilitate healing and overcome the stigma associated with mental health issues.
• Breaking the Cycle: Addressing trauma is imperative not only for individual health but also to prevent the continuation of trauma into future generations.

Notable Quotes:

• "You do not have to live by the story of what happened to you because you deserve to live a life of the highest potential." – Claudia Chakar
• "Trauma needs a lot of empathy. It needs empathy to heal and recover." – Claudia Chakar
• "Intergenerational trauma really needs a community response, not just a family response or an individual response." – Claudia Chakar
• "We know a lot more now… we need to act differently." – Claudia Chakar
• "Suffering in silence doesn't serve anybody any good." – Claudia Chakar

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