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Toxic Communication After Divorce—Can the Court Step In?

March 10, 2026 • Anderson Keuscher Brachmann

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“My ex constantly communicates in ways that feel controlling or hostile, but nothing rises to the level of outright threats. The kids are affected by the tension. Does the court care about this kind of behavior, or am I just expected to deal with it?”

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In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson responds to a listener dealing with an ex who communicates in a way that’s hostile, manipulative, or controlling—though not outright threatening. It’s taking a toll on co-parenting and affecting the kids, but is it something the court will take seriously? Jessica explains how communication patterns can impact custody, what evidence may matter, and what to do when you're told to just "deal with it.