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Love Court Off the Record

In the podcast, Love Court Off The Record, we look at specific legal questions regarding all family law matters. From child custody to child support to divorce. We also take a humorous look at divorce. It does make people go crazy!!

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Can My Ex Record Every Custody Exchange?

July 20, 2026 • Anderson Keuscher Brachmann

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“My ex records every single exchange—pickups, drop-offs, even quick conversations—and recently told me he’s building a ‘case’ against me. I feel like I’m constantly being watched and set up. Is he allowed to record me like this, or is that harassment?"

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In this episode of Love Court, divorce attorney Jessica Anderson answers a listener’s question about recording custody exchanges and the legal issues that can arise when one parent claims they’re “building a case.” From pickups and drop-offs to everyday conversations, constant recording can leave the other parent feeling intimidated and on edge.

Jessica explains how recording laws may apply during co-parenting interactions, including the difference between conversations in public places versus private settings, and when recording may be legal—or cross the line into inappropriate conduct. She also discusses what courts typically focus on in high-conflict custody cases, when repeated recording could become evidence of harassment or unhealthy co-parenting behavior, and how parents can protect themselves while keeping the focus on their children's best interests.