Ever found yourself stuck in a giant rocking chair on a date, needing aid from unsuspecting strangers? Laugh along as we recount our night out stories and cautionary tales from the wacky, often unpredictable world of modern dating in 2023. We take you behind the screen to explore the challenges and joys of online dating, including the humorous but essential need for 'Gumby' as a code word in potential silly, awkward situations.
From navigating dating websites to deciphering the cryptic social media personalities and dealing with unexpected instances of imposters, we share it all. We also discuss the tensions between online and real-life expectations, shedding light on how the internet continues to transform our love lives. And in a surprising twist, we reveal what's in store for us - a birthday bash in Columbia, Tennessee! With our gripping tales and insightful conversations, we guarantee you'll see modern dating in a whole new light.
But we're not just about dating! We delve into the therapeutic world of music and relaxation, detailing how simple acts like listening to country music can alleviate stress and anxiety. Plus, we extend a sincere thank you to all our fans, artists, and producers for their unwavering support. Their contributions have played a pivotal role in our podcast's success. So join us on this wild ride where we fuse humor, advice, and relaxation to offer you an entertaining and enriching listening experience!
Ever found yourself stuck in a giant rocking chair on a date, needing aid from unsuspecting strangers? Laugh along as we recount our night out stories and cautionary tales from the wacky, often unpredictable world of modern dating in 2023. We take you behind the screen to explore the challenges and joys of online dating, including the humorous but essential need for 'Gumby' as a code word in potential silly, awkward situations.
From navigating dating websites to deciphering the cryptic social media personalities and dealing with unexpected instances of imposters, we share it all. We also discuss the tensions between online and real-life expectations, shedding light on how the internet continues to transform our love lives. And in a surprising twist, we reveal what's in store for us - a birthday bash in Columbia, Tennessee! With our gripping tales and insightful conversations, we guarantee you'll see modern dating in a whole new light.
But we're not just about dating! We delve into the therapeutic world of music and relaxation, detailing how simple acts like listening to country music can alleviate stress and anxiety. Plus, we extend a sincere thank you to all our fans, artists, and producers for their unwavering support. Their contributions have played a pivotal role in our podcast's success. So join us on this wild ride where we fuse humor, advice, and relaxation to offer you an entertaining and enriching listening experience!
And it's a wonder Boy. What a night we had. Yeah, and this show is titled Just a Little Bit, thanks. This is an unusual thing about music, but it sort of is About dating being super hot and what people think, what they don't think, and the guys that are out there they try to data. Get on it, give us numbers. This would be fun, you know. Dating in 2023. Yeah, anyway, I mean, I've been on the same side. Suck, I met one interesting person. Well, it was. It's very interesting. There's a story there.
Speaker 1:So we're not still so a little catch up. So what happened last time? By the way, welcome to the scene. Yes, a podcast. I got a podcast. I would be a little bit of a copy.
Speaker 1:So we had my first night of my birthday. This is a continuation. We had a great time. Well, about my, my goodness, my dad. He's really, really good. Yeah, you do, because if anybody watched our yesterday's podcast, they would know Stop this video, you're being a lot of. You can't but go back on another device and watch that. Okay, that's all I'm saying. And don't Google, daddy, with auto correct.
Speaker 1:So I'm saying all I'm gonna say is like a cake and I have a great time. We did have a lot of, we had a lot of, we had a lot of show up and we had a great time. Yeah, we had a great time. 100, right, oh, with all hundreds, but there's a lot of people, but yeah, we had a great time. And yeah, thank you all for coming out and like visiting with us and pictures us and and just talking with us and enjoy at least this birthday here.
Speaker 1:That was really swell and this is why she's saying I'm telling you. She says, well, I have sugar monkey in a bowl, so okay, so, so all right, I found I'm soon to be hit. Oh, no, and dating for me, how are you? Okay? Times four, so I believe, my age, exactly 29. So, dating at her age I can speak on better.
Speaker 1:No, dating is kind of crazy because Through the dating, so I'm gonna say I'm gonna say I'm gonna say you know, I can't say I can't say I can't say I can't say that too crazy because Through the dating sites is what most people have. Do All back on. Oh, remember, how do you use to meet people Other than you know, state ring, that's the whole college. Oh, my gosh, I used to hang Me and my sister. We had the donut over Sonic Walmart parking lot and then farmers field. I mean, I compete farm and just you on fire and we keep getting back to stuff I don't know, hi, so so we're going to make a bow. Okay, let's do it All.
Speaker 1:Right, in high school is easy, but dating in a over age or her age, it's not that easy. No, the dating sites are scary. They are scary. You have to be really, really careful. And I got offered money, so of Venezuela, it should be a million dollars. No, right, I mean, you never know who's on the agreement. Yeah, so you know the dating sites are hard.
Speaker 1:And you got good old facebook. Hello, help, mercy, or anybody can meet anybody. Facebook, y'all, don't check. Okay, like, I like some famous and I like the page and all of a sudden, please, I guess like 50 requests from the same one, but they're different people. Like, I'm gonna send you one back. Yeah, they're only only liking everything. You can see him actively going. Like, yeah, you can watch it. You're actually watching it in real time on my phone. But we got facebook. Yeah, which they're in. You know, people can be anybody. Yeah, nobody's, really. And if you ask them, this is what I have a friend out of California you really should, and they Weird what he said Said ask them to send you a video. No, they're real, and you something crazy, like you're telling their forehead or something. And if they don't do it and they send you like a video that's already out there, do you know? They're in real? So we got oh, I'm sorry I got. No, okay, she'll be back. She'll be back. So it's crazy. Up here I mean, yeah, oh, in here, just try to keep it from running down the right. Okay, yeah, it's crazy with allergies. So, yeah, at least it's birthday.
Speaker 1:We go to this place. They're a little on topic, but it's fun. We go, yeah, low ban. Uh, we look to the left and there's Giant rocking chair the size of a car. I'm having that baby, I'm having it. So watch that video, it's gonna die. Laugh, I get.
Speaker 1:We get up there and we later on in the night we're gonna take a picture, right? Okay, I had to climb on this thing. I'm short. Well, we gotta climb down. I'm stuck. Next year I can't even get off the big chair. We're all so nervous, probably I. I was like.
Speaker 1:I was like how, some leg in there and people were howling going back like Woo-hoo. I'm like, oh geez, what's going on here? I'm trying to climb down and dress Line up, oh my god. So yeah, two people had to come help me down. It was good fun. We go rock and chair fail.
Speaker 1:Yeah, she, she commenced these people as whole group of people walking down the sidewalk now with chair on her car. Then we're gonna do it. I'm like, oh, we got you man, we got people coming. I'm like, oh my god, they're like, oh, lisa, they believed you, they were. They're gonna come out. The chair I had to sit on the side of the road is pretty so okay, we gotta get back to our office because we are Well, yeah, so yeah, dave, um, oh, then, you know, let's tell them about these guys. I just asked them about my part of Dave. Okay, yeah, okay, we're to you like beautiful women and we're all dressed up, I know, and we're pretty hot.
Speaker 1:Guys are looking at the first guy comes about as much useless. I had a really nice guy. I had a really nice guy come and ask me things. I'm dancing with this little old lady. Every time she got out there she was a sweetheart. I thought they were pretty cute and pretty nice. I like playing pool. They were letting me shoot them and each other. I'm standing against the wall watching a tournament going on and they have a bet going on on their phone and everything about how the pool game. Every time my shot come up, it all kind of gets behind me. I'm just standing up against the wall and all of a sudden this random old guy comes up and says hi, sweetie. I'm like what he starts talking and all this. He's just being a weird. He's nice guy, but it was weird.
Speaker 1:I kept looking over at these guys, going, hey, guys, help me out, I'm winking and everything they're winking back. I'm like, so would you have been brave enough to be in the other team To walk up to them and go, hey, you want my number? No, why not? Because the last guy I did that with and I hope you're watching this because I know who you are now ended up being the CEO manager's son or brother. So the point I think it is that our age, we kind of got to step out of the way.
Speaker 1:I'm not that old. I'm a very blunt person. I don't care to go up to somebody Now. I give them an opportunity to glimpse me first, because I am kind of old fashioned. Now I will say somebody's looking at me and I'm looking at them. We got that connection going on and they got the Cajones to come over and say something to me and I'll say something to them. So the guy that asked me to dance a couple of times, he's pretty nice. He's pretty nice, I like that. I mean I'm too old, I mean he was like I think they overreacted. You know, I have a type. My type is cowboy, country boy type, for some reason. So, and I'm country, I like to hunt, I like fish, I like trucks, I like music, country music, I like to rock. But you know, I have, I have, I have Now a lot of guys find me like really attractive younger guys, now 21 year old.
Speaker 1:At the bar kept trying to buy me a drink. Bless your heart, honey. No, so I don't like today. I like today, though, yeah, no, no, if they're around my age, be free to do with it. That's true, that's true. I raise my kids. I don't date like, I don't want to baby, I'm not a cougar and I'm not there to chance that I'm in one of my daughter's friends or something. So yeah, I hate over. I like the old woman I like over. Just, yeah, not to go. I want to be walking, I don't want to fish. Nobody, not one foot in the grave. Go, oops, I get, really. No, I'm not like that. So, okay, I'm in the words of Larry the cable guy.
Speaker 1:You're listening, I know you listen to our podcast Because I'm seeing you. What I forgot? Yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't care who you are. That's funny. Last night's podcast was on fire. Oh, by the way, we're still live.
Speaker 1:So, um, so we're talking about dating Eventually in this much this covers Eventually. All right, let's, let's talk about how do you meet me and how does it meet women? Yeah, you go, it's just, it's different, okay, so, like, most of us are aged my age, younger than yours. We grew up, you're right. We met them at school, we met them at social events. We met, you know, we saw the dawn of, like the internet, she's such a slow man, um, so it's just, I haven't gotten on to the whole dating online thing. I tried to.
Speaker 1:And people on my Instagram bless your hearts, I love you all. And Twitter and Facebook. Every time I post something I got some followers. So thank you guys so much for following us. We love you all Peace to y'all. Thank y'all so much for supporting us in the harmonies and just liking all of our posts and sharing them. We appreciate that.
Speaker 1:But, guys, come on. If you want to date me, do not send an email that says where I am. Text me on what was that? Tender, or or or what's that? She got mixed up in the game, had to get her out of the sale. Oh my God. No, you gotta watch for them stands when you're in a dating. So, please, so, okay, so where do people go to meet people now, other than a bar?
Speaker 1:Of course, you know, if you say that's like her for a while, it has been like a month, and I've seen your ass click. I'm sorry, I haven't seen your butt click. You need to take me out on a date. You need to see me in real life and I don't do this whole. This is dating and we're only take that I don't know. I don't do nothing for me. I agree that's called a situation. I know it's weird and creepy. Okay, situation shifts. Now that's what we deal with nowadays. Play it, yeah, because you never know. Like, who's on the other end of that. Like, I want to see you in real life. Like, come on. Well, situation shift is kind of like friends with benefit. Oh, that's what you're talking about. Yeah, yeah, and I don't want to see pictures that connect your body.
Speaker 1:I am a family nurse practitioner. I get to see that every day. Okay, don't press me, don't impress me, you're gonna be all kind of male. Look, somebody hacked into my face. Yeah, I'll sit here waiting on the real story of you being hacked. So, so what I need to know is where do you go to me? Yeah, look, I don't know. I'm sorry, I don't want an upside guy. I like to do stuff, I like to travel, I like to do stuff, I like to dance, I like to be crazy.
Speaker 1:We can't tell you everything right now, but yeah, what? We got a lot coming. Yeah, oh, big news. And we're about to make history, like for real history, like history books, like nobody has ever done with a podcast. So we're actually about to make history three times and we'll be telling you guys, probably the next week's Dang, three times, three times. Well, let's do it Right, I'm ready and we are award nominated now. Okay, people's choice, people's choice, and we find out Monday. We're in the top five. So thank you guys, so much for voting for us.
Speaker 1:We find out if we win and no one else we're nominated for. We didn't get it. They put our names in for an Emmy. They don't. Somebody did that's good, that is funny. They put it in our music and then they found out we were a podcast. They're like we don't have a category for podcasts. Hey, maybe we go down in history for getting a category for podcasts. I'm just making a lot of choices. So what do you have decided? This is not about dating anymore. It is. It is, it is, but we're sneaking some stuff. I'm just kidding about the Emmy thing. But if you're listening Emmys, you should have something for a podcast and we should be. We should be, but the people's choice more. We find out Monday if we won. If not, we still get to go to the ceremony and presented for the nomination and the category, just like the Emmy.
Speaker 1:Now, real quick, while we're discussing that, let's say what we're doing this weekend. Oh, my birthday bash ends in Columbia, tennessee. Yup, mule, fat Mule, fat Mule. Now, who put sun in Mule fat Great matters, and none like me? Yeah, just owned by. Just owned by what? Yeah, charles, I've been talking to him all. My goodness, if we had all night. We didn't get home till one. Oh God, nope, we got nothing on from our waist down. No, well, we're getting views and comments, lisa. So, but, yeah, we're going to be in Columbia, tennessee, 18, 19, then coming home to 20th. Well, I'm flying out of England. Yeah, I have to get on a flight and I'm just going to be. Let's go. Let's go.
Speaker 1:Going up in front of World Congress. The World Congress talk about healthcare, education and poverty. I get to meet every, I know, like every delegate from the world, every country in the world. I get a tour with the row household and then their healthcare facilities. So it's really big. I delegate United States of America Now they sent a Southern country girl.
Speaker 1:So, england, I'll see y'all and be prepared for some dolls and some yes, ma'am, the no man. And then other, and South is coming, south is coming. And to my uncle, who is now dubbed me hey, look, there's Hollywood. Thanks, uncle Joe. He said oh my God, we're doomed. She's going to go speak for us, I said, uncle Joe. He said Well, you're Southern, you're probably going to bring a gun with you and hunt a deer over there, aren't you? I said you can hunt a deer over there. That's what she did. So we're going to go live at the Mule Fest. We didn't invite you to come and cover it. Thank you all for doing that, absolutely, so make some great music along the way. Colt Ford, colt Montgomery, pg the Reference Chris Garner.
Speaker 1:We need to pull up the list, man, it was a huge Free day, yeah, free day, and that's all we can say about that, but there may be more than so. You know, I think this dating podcast thing kind of went down the drain. No, let's get back to it. All right. So, dating, we want to know, we want to know how y'all meet people. Come on, y'all. I mean, don't tell me what are you meeting. Do you bump into them at a grocery store? Your friends, do you up with them? I would hate to bump into a guy at the grocery store because most likely he's married. Why send him no? Or he's got a girlfriend, and that's the way it is. Yeah, don't be doubling up. No, doubling up, don't be doubling up, no, doubling up. I don't want to be shared. Hell, no, oh, no, boy, am I rubbing off for you? Our manager's going. Yep, she's like I'm going to have a talk with them. So, yeah, I mean, you know you're not single if you've got a girlfriend.
Speaker 1:Yeah, there is confusion about dating. People say you're dating for about a minute. Really, is that that? I don't think so I'm dating, I don't date, oh my gosh, okay. So if you're dating somebody, are you at that person? Or are you shopping, or are you out there taking a find out of all the grapes in the bag? You know what? I think we could have fun.
Speaker 1:I say people because you may go on one date. It's your horrible date. We're going to talk about it. We're going to talk about it. You're going out with somebody who's over and over and over Same person, over and over and over again. No, even if I have nobody else to kick his butt in, see, commit your date to somebody more than twice. Yeah, yeah, commit it to go and see where the thing is, and nobody else should be playing, so any guy on their date can double dip in. I'm going to kick his butt. I'm going to kick his butt, okay, no, no, butt. There we go. I'm going to say Lisa, hold my purse, it's my belt, honey. Yeah, okay, I'll do that. So you know. And then, okay, so do you meet people Now, people who are Godly and Christian life want to meet people in church, and that's right for y'all.
Speaker 1:I personally don't. I don't go to church today. I don't go to church today. I don't go to church today. Now, maybe you can meet them through friends. Friends, yeah, family Friends that you wrote with somebody. I might not, yes, a couple of my friends I would. My family, no, I probably want my family. Things I should have. I don't want them, I don't want them. I don't want them. I don't want them. I don't want them, I don't want them, I don't want them. Depends on which family member. Okay, depends on which family member. Now I have. That's nice.
Speaker 1:I was walking down the street I went hey, you are pretty hot, he goes, thank you. I got all embarrassed. I'm like, I'm embarrassed, I'm embarrassed, I'm embarrassed, I'm embarrassed. Sometimes I can be kind of correct. I don't know. You guys like that. That's my next thing. Some do, some don't. Some can intimidate, I intimidate, I don't know why. I'm like sweet, like sweet. I'm like the sweetest person on earth. I don't know why guys are intimidated. I'm surprised you guys were like sweet, like sweet. I'm like sweet, like sweet. I don't know why I'm so surprised, because I had them to grade Three doctors, all I have all this stuff Under me that you know, like I've heard guys say over and over, we don't want to cut your guy like me makes you feel like I need that kind of guy or a bunch of money.
Speaker 1:I mean it's nice to have money, don't get me wrong. It's nice to have money, but it's not a, not a. Okay, okay, but it's not a, it's not a. Well, it is a side effect. Yeah, have a job, have a job. Okay, you gotta have a job, not a little $3 job. Now, I understand, we understand hard times. We're successful single women that fear our own bills. But I mean I have a stable, good job. And lately here I have been sick to my cousin Jason and I guess, thank God I've been set up with country music or musicians.
Speaker 1:I don't know what about me making musicians Like oh, yeah, let me dine her. Now that is a whole different story. Dating somebody famous yeah, it's different. There's rules, there's stuff, there's grades. It's different. Now, I totally love somebody and it's not in love with me. That's the stuff. And you know a lot of people do yeah, and I want somebody who wants to be me, wants to be around. They can be famous, they can, you know. They can be rich, not rich. They can be a long-term, stable job. But for some reason I'm drawn to musicians and help ways for musicians and it'll country boys for musicians and like we do, rock country, apparently like drawn to you. But you know, like be who.
Speaker 1:I am Not as somebody who will make your management happy or that will look good on your arm. Now I can do all that too. I am all that in a bad skittle Skittle. Don't say it's a bad one. Oh God, I know where we're going with that.
Speaker 1:But I want the whole interlock. Like, if you're going to date me, a famous date me and be a musician, I want to be there in your life. Don't brush me off like I am only going to be around when you need me. That's not going to happen. I want to be at your concert. I want to be there for you. I want to come to the studio with you. Now, sometimes you can't understand that, but I want to get up and have coffee with you. I want to cover your house and have dinner with you. I want to meet your family. I am all of that.
Speaker 1:No, carry me around your friends, don't be scared to show me off. I've had one guy tell me, you know, I don't carry you around my friends because I'm scared that you'll like one of them. What the heck dude? You know, like I like that. I'm pretty loyal. I don't. You know, I respect your friends and their friendship with you. I ain't going to do that. What female in your life did that to you? I want to beat her up. You know and it's sad it is I have a hard time with the rough time.
Speaker 1:I've had some rough relationships. Haven't been the best choices in my life. You know me. Now I've got choices. Now I've got a little bit of fear of stepping out there. I get asked out why I've told yes before and turned around and back out. Every time when I want to die, I've been out. That's the best of it. You know it's a scary feeling because nobody wants to be told no, nobody wants to be betrayed, nobody wants to be let down. Nobody wants to be let down because of the fact that you're dating the 55th child and, depending on what you're dating for, you're dating for marriage, or you're just pointing somebody to, a man in the chair for the rest of your life or you just want to met friends with benefits crazy crap, interesting. There's a lot of emotion tied into friends with benefits. Somebody always follows you Always, so somebody's always going to hurt.
Speaker 1:When it comes to getting into a relationship, dating, I mean, it's a lot of pressure. Say you're on account, you all right, I'm a water stress. I did. Oh, my, that's the deal. I heard something else. Okay, so it's very failing for garbage. As to where you go, I had a cable guy and get on in my house. This is my house. Okay, lisa, that was a good one.
Speaker 1:No, girl, no, okay, we have this word that would say it's Joker, especially when somebody goes what do you do for a living? And I'm like how many music, what do you do for a living? Well, I hate my job, but that's okay, you're fixing to quit your job. And the wrong answer. So me and Lisa have this code word we worked out and I can never remember it, and we both decided like there's a guy coming toward us, there's two guys, which happened. We're like, yeah, we're like we need a code word, like just in front of them or we go run the other directions.
Speaker 1:Okay, gumby, and I can't remember it. So I'm going. So, amanda, so Amanda, so Amanda, like what? Gumby, dammit, gumby, dammit, okay, gumby, gumby girl. She's like okay, what are we? Gumby, that's it. Gumby, what, turn around? That's how it works. When do I remember that? I can't remember that's a gum drop. When do I have gummy bears? Oh shit, oh shit, oh shit. She's like girl, you want a gummy bear drink? I can't, no Help, just like I'm waking up at the table and trying to, hey guys, get your way from me. I'm going. They're like. I'm like, oh, and the guys are talking to me and I couldn't move because it was up against the wall towards me and I'm like, okay, this is kind of a bad situation. What do I do? Is there anything to be? Hey guys, and I couldn't reach Lisa and I thought yelling out for some words that I couldn't remember. I wouldn't have heard it. Anyway, I was playing football and I was all over the world.
Speaker 1:So where do you like to go on days? Do you like to do the traditional dinner? And, amazing thing, you know what? I would be happy jumping in the guys' truck getting a little picnic. Please don't make me go that truck, hey, better have a truck. Yes, no, okay, just some sandwiches and a beer and go sit at my farm. Yes, thank you, I'm helping the guys. Chicken sandwich, or, or, you know, she, I'm recruiting guys for me right now.
Speaker 1:Well, this concludes our, our, our, oh, my God, okay, okay, I'll cut your music in the background, with you, nice, and a blanket to watch underneath stars I'll be pretty cool and a campfire. That's like my perfect date right there. What's your perfect date? Mine is, um, well, I got several perfect ones, but I'd like to, um, love to dance. Okay, so you know, I like, uh, one of my dates took me and we danced in this great yard under the moon, oh yeah, that's pretty cool. Did you see? Gumpy Gumpy? Okay, but I like to. I love to dance.
Speaker 1:I like to eat. Um, you know, I like to have to dinner. I would much rather somebody cook or grill other than me. Um, you know, I like. Take me to a movie, take me to a museum, take me. I mean, I don't necessarily want to go to a museum, but I'm willing to, not as a people pleaser, but that's something different. I never will. I have to. I like mud and mud and love mud, fishing, fish, and, yeah, take me on a date fishing with some country music and a picnic Right and some moon pie. No, no, apple pie, oh my goodness. But yeah, I mean I like to you know simple stuff. I don't have to spend a whole lot of money. I mean, you know you got a job. You should both do. Oh yeah, please have a job. Please, god, have a job. And don't feel intimidated because we're just a tiny bit, maybe a little bit famous, because we kind of are.
Speaker 1:So the funny thing happened in Nashville. I got to tell you guys about it. I called from an artist because I was going up to my family reunion in Kentucky. I called from an artist and he's like hey, can you? He was a name of the artist was real. I can't say, and the studio was real and the direction to the studio were real. And it was like hey, can you, can you tell me what you're doing? And the studio was real and the direction to the studio were real and it was a real studio. So I get out of my car and go into the studio and they don't show up, they don't show up. I got set up. All these cameras, all these people start walking towards me with cameras, take the pictures, all kinds of stuff. You're like you're dating Mary. I'm like I didn't know my name.
Speaker 1:That shouldn't have been my first question on my mouth. And then I thought about it and I said I'm going to get dust and spears back for taking a shirt off on my show. And I thought about saying dust and spears. But he would have killed me and he would have been like I can't get sugar on the road. Thanks a lot, Mary. He's funny, he's hilarious guy. But I thought he would think this was hilariously funny Because sometimes what's in my head that I'm cracking up laughing out don't sit right when it comes out of my mouth. Sometimes I get in trouble for that. But yeah, I thought about saying dust and spears. I can just see him now Killer when I get that. He's so funny.
Speaker 1:We pick on each other all the time. He's a good guy and we think it's funny playing pranks on each other. The dustin, you can get me back now. Ok, not sure what you're going to do. That taking your shirt off on my show was weird. He was trying to get me views and he thought it's funny as hell. I know. Well, it worked. It worked. Please don't. I'm sure the guys on here would like that, yeah, so all right, I don't think we helped anybody out there in our dating discussion. I think we were all over the place in this show. But you know what? They're getting to know us, that's right. We're too funny, ladies, we actually.
Speaker 1:The reason why we decided to do a dating show is the past few weeks we've been talking about different things that's happening, you know, in life and yet, of course, dating is a big part of our lives and we travel a lot and we meet a lot of people and we've got to talk about it. What, if? You know? What if we date somebody? So we might sort of maybe be traveling a lot in the future. Again, we can't tell you what or how or why, so we can announce it, but we can't say we're about to travel. Yeah, so it's a road Jack, we're going to come back some more, some more, some more.
Speaker 1:I didn't even have time to I don't know, we're crazy. So, yeah, and I was like you know, we both, we were both talking about how rough it was, problems we were having with our guy, and it was like I'm going to do a show on this and see if we could get some feedback on what people think about dating in 2023. Yeah, okay, is it hard? Is it easy for people I mean younger? It was a lot easier than it is now. I mean so much easier. So, but, yeah, we, that's why we do this show.
Speaker 1:And listen, all you older guys out there, you take these little skinny, no chested, really skinny, really young, like 18, 19 year old and you're like 30 or 40. I don't want to come pick you up, but because there's a few ladies out here that are in their late 20s, 30, 40. Y'all can be dating and I don't know, it's just a trend I get. I don't know, they're younger or something. Apparently, it's the same. Listen, experience matters. That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 1:Alrighty, then you know we were also talking about dating and being on the road. Is that like Dating and being on the road? I have no idea. I'm not going to tell you right now. I think it would be an issue. I think there would be trust issues. I see, when I was in radio and married dating and so it was an issue because there was trust issues, I mean there was a lot that goes on in radio. You have a long time spent there. You spend a lot of time with your coworkers and you meet a lot of different people and it did take a toll on management and relationship.
Speaker 1:I do believe, if you find that right person and they understand what your job is and they trust you fully, I'm a very trustworthy person, very trustworthy. So I think that if you're dating somebody in that situation and they go on the road, there's a lot of trust that comes into play and if you can't trust somebody, you don't damn need to be with them. Yeah, so I have dated some famous people. I'm not going to say who they are and I might be or I might not be in a relationship with a famous person right now. I may or may not get to see him. Hardly at all. That is hard, like breaks my heart daily.
Speaker 1:Now I can understand your touring, going out on the road, but let me tell you what's really hurt when you see pictures of the guy with other girls and the headline says Blank is dating blank. Blank was seen with blank. Blank making out with blank. Blank may be getting married to blank and you're sitting here going. Hmm, he has time to do that, but he doesn't have time to do me. That's hurtful. That makes me cry. I'm done.
Speaker 1:So, yeah, I think there has to be a lot of trust. Yeah, a lot of trust, that's true. And in a relationship, I mean, you're going to be with him. Supposedly you're supposed to trust him on your life Yep, and that's part of life. You and I have to get you to the media too.
Speaker 1:That's one thing about us that regular people don't have to worry about Because we're in the public eye. That's rough. Dating in the public eye is rough because you keep it as quiet as you can, yeah, and people want to do things Just like jumping out of the car and taking a picture of me and asking me who will my date. I was like what? So, yeah, dating in the public eye is really hard. I mean, it's hard to meet people because I don't trust the fact that I'm sorry. Yeah, because you don't know who's going to spill your secrets. It's not. Yeah, and you know, being in the public eye over time, I love principle, yep, and there's people that want to take advantage of that too, yeah, so I stayed in my place of living and has been for a long time, and I will continue to stay in my life.
Speaker 1:And when I come out of the public eye, of course, what I do. If I found the right guy and it was for me to settle down and do something with him, what I do. I do that because I have been around and I don't care about the guy yeah, and wanted to get out, step down, step right, maybe. Yeah, but yeah, I'm getting older, but yeah, I do want to settle. I want kids to settle down. I don't know. Now I'm going to practice. Oh wait, do you get my crisis? It's a great start.
Speaker 1:You know, this podcast is really going to flip. We had no idea how this podcast is going to turn out. We had no idea the roads this would take us down. There's so less of this. We really are. Yeah, we got some amazing things happening. Yep, we're going to be doing really fast. Yeah, it's been fast Six months, maybe a year. It's been. Everything's been happening. Yeah, especially the past few days. Yeah, and a lot happened the past few days, so we're very blessed.
Speaker 1:You know, not everybody gets to do it. Yeah, that's true. I mean, we get to go to sleep music all the time, yep, we get indoors, we love to sleep, yep, and we just crazy the wall. No, yeah, I do, I really do. I want Leonard. She's a doctor. I go to sleep all of a sudden. Don't be so loud. I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know I sometimes wouldn't say we get to sleep, but can we wake up at the toilet? I have no idea and I am probably drunk. I've got a white belt on my hand. I could pedal Banks I am talking about. I knew my babe love that. I couldn't. I've got the guys that had theanalysis system It'sых.
Speaker 1:We can't wait to tell y'all about this. I can't wait. So right, like I said, we're actually making real history with this. So people actually want us to do this. Thank you, big name, big name. It's gonna be fun. It is. It's gonna be a lot of fun.
Speaker 1:And thanks to Zeus, because it really started with the award show. He's kind of. I got these two crazy ladies over here and they keep telling them the name on the spot no, no, no, no, no, no. Zeus, thanks so much, thank you, and we can't wait to be back at the music course. Maybe next year we'll get the awards, I get the host, I get the host, thank you. There you go. Oh, did I get to be your sidekick? Why not? Can we win some awards? Y'all? Vote for us. We have to nominate, we have to nominate, we might have to nominate. Nominate us. Open for nominations? I don't know. We're sharing the link. Okay, when it's open, that would be so cool.
Speaker 1:I feel like I'm on a circle moment, all right. Then I wonder if we've been on here Not long enough. So, dating, dating. We're back to the dating thing. Y'all are learning so much about this. Thanks, you are, you are, I'm all dating. We feel a little rough. I do. Anyway, I feel a little rough, I'm good.
Speaker 1:It was a big night last night. Yeah, it was a big night. I had a few drinks talked about. I don't encourage overbreeding at all, not at all, but I don't waste. Yeah, it's okay to have a few beers, a few drinks. No, go out, go off to pee.
Speaker 1:That's actually Psychologically. You know, I'm going to go on medical on y'all. That's actually psychologically good for you Among people, but not thinking about today. That's actually really good Every day. But every once in a while it is actually psychologically good for you to go out and do that. So so Tell me, yes.
Speaker 1:What is the doctor's point of view? Yes, music, music is very. I know music is healing. So is it? Is it healing? Yes, absolutely. There's a study done. In fact I did a big study Just look at my paper at academiacom, thunderdoccom, mary Anderson, and on how music helps with anxiety, depression and allowing people to really pay their medical visits. Somebody else picked up that study and found out, and they're going to do a big study with the drink pads which I had in my study.
Speaker 1:And one of the cool things is the drink pads like a pillow and it's like a regular pillow and it is a little fine. When you lay your head down on it you can hook it up to your phone and everything Phone, computer, whatever else, sorry, I got so you can pick what kind of music you like, favorite music. They suggest classical and pop music. That shows the most black in the work, since they're five. So anyway, this is Hello, so you need to best look it up so I can bring that Hello.
Speaker 1:I'm actually on the website of the Recurse and when you lay your head down on this, there's this little device in there. It plays music that makes it certain to help. It vibrates your inner ear. There's a little phone in your inner ear. It vibrates right there. It sends a signal up your brain and makes you relax for a second. Wow, and it is shown to relax your whole body. It creates anxiety daily, especially with kids. There's a big study out there with kids. It helps with ADHD, it helps with depression because you're getting that sleep and it helps you get a more rest than I sleep, or two of actually using it every day.
Speaker 1:Now the study that I did I had patients come in at home and for five to ten minutes they laid on the cellar Because this doctor's having a lot of problems getting patients to stay for appointment and they were doing medical treatment. They were having trouble getting them to stay without the medical treatment and we couldn't figure out why. Was it pain? Was it anxiety? Was it everything? So what we did is we brought them in and I had them lay on a table and I used the pillow and I turned on their favorite music. What we found also is that classical music, soft rock, and then if they had like a favorite song, they would play that. That helped them to relax with their body and then I took samples of their blood pressure and their biometrics and we found that there was like 75 to 95% of the patients with diabetes and pain levels and they were able to and their blood work showed this too, especially with pain, because you felt certain enzymes in your blood to measure that, people actually had a lot of door-patterns and they were able to stay for their entire appointment and it changed the clinic projectory so much that almost every patient had a lot of blood pressure and they reported that two weeks later that they slept better and let's say they were able to get their treatment. So it was a blessing for the clinic and now recommend that to everybody and he actually visits that pillow when they get treatment.
Speaker 1:Well, you know I do the meditation. Oh, no, she's very big fan of this. Well, I've been over a little while trying to get the prayer about. Yeah, I know we're almost done. I do meditation and that helps me. I don't do the meditation. It's like daytime. Yeah, there's a bunch of notes, but like grant, grant, I got to keep it straight. Drinking water I got scary Banana. Yeah, I got a cake. You did, I got a cake. I got a cake. I got a cake. I got a cake, all right, are we done here today? Let me know. I got to get up and walk, so let us know.
Speaker 1:In the comments Don't we post this. We want to know how your dating is going it's single or if you have any advice for us, like, um, yeah, and if there's any guys out there that Want to like stay, no, no, no, no, I said that, I said out and it and it, but and it. That was funny. We do have to go, but leave us a comment. Leave this like when do you go? Where do you go? I mean, you know what do you make? Yeah, and not cycle, Not cycle Psycho.
Speaker 1:We need to do a meet. Great, we need to do this. We need to have a car meet, like set up some places, have our fans, I know, but, yeah, you're right. Like set up a car. Yeah, all right, did you learn anything about me? You didn't already know? Yes, I think it's a weirdo.
Speaker 1:Hi, guys, looks like you've been a great show again. Yeah, yeah, did you learn anything about me? I did. Where'd you learn Nothing? I already knew all of it.
Speaker 1:We talk a lot, we do. We do Just spend a lot of time with them. Yeah, all right, yeah, so leave us your comments. You know, don't be ugly, don't be ugly. I don't like it. You make me, you do it. Bye, guys, don't be ugly, don't be ugly, don't be ugly. We're not being ugly. Okay, on that note I'm going to end this, but thanks so much for listening to us.
Speaker 1:This has been a great little podcast. I think we can have some more podcasts. Well, I know we got a couple more. Yeah, I'm going to Nashville, see you, why are we going to Nashville? Why are we going to Nashville, coming to you? I am coming to you. I know when. Where are we? Where are we? Where are we? Where are we? Where are we? Where are we? Where are we?
Speaker 1:We talked about, oh, my gosh, okay, yeah, yeah, that's true, yeah, anyway, people watch on both our both sites and check out our website Zena's Harmonies, zena's Harmonies and only Zena's Harmonies. On Facebook by Dr Mary. They know a Y and an I. Yes, makes a big difference. Yeah, you're really going to confuse it. I don't have to spell it with Y, it doesn't matter, because I put it in the tag section. So, no matter what the type is, we're number one on Google. Y'all the top five. We're, we've, we've taken the top five places on Google and the Internet, which is pretty cool. That is pretty awesome. We're ranking up there. We've reached like oh no, we're over 30k between all of our sites and some of our posts are reaching like we're just going to keep it up. That's pretty cool.
Speaker 1:Y'all keep supporting us, keep sharing, keep sharing, share. The only way I want you guys to share me is to share it on Facebook. We'll give you guys a shout out too, definitely. Oh yeah, we'll give you a shout out. So, give us a shout out. Say hey, put me on the podcast net. I will say hi to you. We will definitely love all of our fans. Thank y'all so much, and all of our artists, all of our producers, everybody who supported us wanted to be on the show or thinking about being on the show. Just come. I mean, we have a studio and we might have access to other studios. Now, if you want to do it virtual, you want us to come to you. We're going to do that. Yeah, today. Today, we're doing it in my living room. Frankly, we don't know anywhere. We were tired after last night. So, yeah, all right, pretty cool, that's it. Y'all, continue to watch us. Peace out, we shall return, we will be back. Love to you, peace and learn life All right, good jazz.