Build Better Dads
My father is a great man. He raised me. He was present. He was there.
But there are 5 things about money he never taught me — and not because he didn't love me. Because nobody taught him either.
In this video, I share the 5 money lessons my 89-year-old father never taught me, and the 5 lessons I'm teaching my son and daughter so the cycle stops in our family line.
I killed $118,000 in debt without a six-figure salary. Most of that debt came from running my father's broken money playbook for 15 years before I knew it was broken.
Working dads — if your father never sat you down and taught you about money, this video is for you. We were raised by good men who didn't know. The cycle doesn't break by accident. It breaks because one man in the family line decides he's tired of running the same playbook.
Be that man.
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THE 5 THINGS MY FATHER NEVER TAUGHT ME:
1. How to invest
2. How to budget
3. How to defend a purchase
4. The difference between calculated risk and hope
5. That money is a tool — not a goal
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THIS WEEK'S CHALLENGE:
Write two lists.
LIST 1: 5 things my father never taught me about money
LIST 2: 5 things I'm going to teach my son
That second list is your legacy.
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WATCH NEXT:
🎥 The video that started this channel — "The 10-Second Rule I Learned After Taking My 89-Year-Old Father to the Bank"
["My 89 year Old Father at the Bank Taught Me Why Most Dads Stay Broke"}
https://youtu.be/im_vb6E_Y7U
🎥 The exact question that killed my $118K debt — "The 10-Second Rule That Stops Dads From Bleeding Money"
[lThe 10-Second Rule I Learned After Taking My 89-Year-Old Father To The Bank]
https://youtu.be/8IzCEe5TrWM
Build Better Dads
What's REALLY Behind Black Women's Fear of Black Men
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💔 What’s REALLY Behind Black Women’s Fear of Black Men? Let’s Talk About It.
In this powerful and thought-provoking video, we dive deep into a complex topic: Why do some Black women feel afraid of Black men? This conversation is often buried in whispers or overshadowed by stereotypes — but it’s real, and it’s time to bring it to light.
We’ll explore:
✅ Historical, social, and cultural roots of this fear
✅ Media portrayals and how they fuel tension
✅ Personal stories from Black women and men
✅ The impact of systemic racism and economic challenges
✅ What healing, understanding, and unity can look like
This isn’t about placing blame or stoking division. It’s about honest conversations that can help us move forward together — stronger and more connected.
💬 We want to hear from you: Have you experienced this fear or witnessed its effects in your community? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments — let’s break the silence and build understanding.
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