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My name is Danny Dumas,"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":15.886,"endTime":20.591,"body":"and I will be your host on this"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":15.886,"endTime":20.591,"body":"journey as we try to become better husbands,"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":20.771,"endTime":25.014,"body":"fathers, and leaders by earning"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":20.771,"endTime":25.014,"body":"that title. What do I mean by earning it? I"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":25.054,"endTime":30.106,"body":"believe that on a daily basis,"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":25.054,"endTime":30.106,"body":"we should be doing things that help us earn"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":30.146,"endTime":33.267,"body":"those titles. And if you think"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":30.146,"endTime":33.267,"body":"about it, someone has to give us that title."},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":33.307,"endTime":37.648,"body":"They have to give you the title"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":33.307,"endTime":37.648,"body":"of leader. If nobody's following you, you're"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":37.668,"endTime":41.869,"body":"just managing people, you're"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":37.668,"endTime":41.869,"body":"not leading. Think about being a husband. Your"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":41.909,"endTime":46.39,"body":"wife has to give you that title"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":41.909,"endTime":46.39,"body":"every day. It has to be a decision she makes"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":46.931,"endTime":52.532,"body":"every day. Because at some point,"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":46.931,"endTime":52.532,"body":"50% of marriage is in a divorce. So if someone"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":52.592,"endTime":57.258,"body":"in the marriage said, today"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":52.592,"endTime":57.258,"body":"I choose not to have you as my husband. as"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":57.318,"endTime":60.9,"body":"my wife. We have to make that"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":57.318,"endTime":60.9,"body":"decision and I think that's important to keep"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":60.94,"endTime":64.962,"body":"in our mind. We should be earning"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":60.94,"endTime":64.962,"body":"this title. Now I don't think you can earn"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":64.982,"endTime":68.604,"body":"love, it's got to be given,"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":64.982,"endTime":68.604,"body":"but there's things we can do to make us better."},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":69.244,"endTime":74.487,"body":"Our kids need us to be great"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":69.244,"endTime":74.487,"body":"fathers. There is so much research out there"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":74.507,"endTime":79.21,"body":"that shows that an active, loving,"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":74.507,"endTime":79.21,"body":"caring father in the life of their kids leads"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":79.25,"endTime":85.393,"body":"them to success in everything,"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":79.25,"endTime":85.393,"body":"in health, in wealth, in careers, in relationships."},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":86.214,"endTime":91.318,"body":"there for your kids is so important."},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":86.214,"endTime":91.318,"body":"So with this podcast, we will have three types"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":91.358,"endTime":95.822,"body":"of episodes. 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So I feel like I've gathered"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":111.215,"endTime":115.202,"body":"some knowledge and information. that I would"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":115.242,"endTime":118.242,"body":"love to share with you, put"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":115.242,"endTime":118.242,"body":"it in perspective, and give you my take on"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":118.262,"endTime":122.104,"body":"the world of how to do those"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":118.262,"endTime":122.104,"body":"three things and earn those titles. The second"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":122.124,"endTime":125.765,"body":"type of podcast we will have"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":122.124,"endTime":125.765,"body":"is, I'm gonna bring in some experts. 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Hopefully"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":282.703,"endTime":286.544,"body":"I have these things and I appreciate you coming"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":286.584,"endTime":290.025,"body":"back to see where it all started"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":286.584,"endTime":290.025,"body":"and where it's gone now. I'm excited to see"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":290.045,"endTime":294.18,"body":"what's going to happen. Expect"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":290.045,"endTime":294.18,"body":"to have a weekly episode. I hope to have a"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":294.74,"endTime":299.284,"body":"weekly episode. 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And I cannot"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":319.681,"endTime":323.19,"body":"wait to see. what happens in"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":319.681,"endTime":323.19,"body":"the future. I will talk to you later. Don't"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":323.23,"endTime":325.597,"body":"forget, earn your title every"},{"speaker":"[Daniel Dumas]","startTime":323.23,"endTime":325.597,"body":"day. Bye."}]}