The Missing Piece in Manifestation: Soul Desire and Radical Self-Leadership

What if the desires you keep brushing aside are actually the clearest instructions your soul has ever given you? In this episode, I open up in a fully unfiltered way about soul connection, desire, and the surprising places where we create our own separation from the life we say we want. I share what it truly means to lead from soul instead of fear, how our karmic patterns can shape and even distort our choices, and why desire is never something to justify but something to honor. This conversation is raw, channeled, and deeply revealing.

Let’s dig into the truth of what happens when we stop letting human fears like scarcity, judgment, rejection, and overthinking run the show and begin allowing our soul to lead. I guide you into the frequency of desire itself, how to connect with it daily, and how doing so transforms every choice, every threshold, and every outcome in your life.

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Okay, so the first thing I'm going to share on here is about Soul connection. And just bear with me as I get my thoughts, and I am, I'm totally channeling this in the raw, but it's coming through. It's like, oh, what do you share about it? 

one of the things that I feel that is talked about so much is. All of the karma we have to go through, right?

The things that our soul came here to experience that was learning for the soul. And yes, I believe that to be very true. I feel like it's very valuable to help because it helps bring understanding of like, why am I here for these experiences? Astrology is very helpful for that because we can look at like planets like Pluto, Uranus.

Chiron, our natal moon Saturn. We can get a lot of insight on our karmic experiences and what our soul chose to be here and our cosmic DNA, and how to shift that into power. But one of the things that is not talked about is [00:01:00] soul, desire, that your soul actually came here for not just the learning, not just the experience, the desire.

And so that desire is. The desire that is within you that you, maybe not you personally, but many people actually don't own. They deny it, they push it away, and they continue to choose experiences or make choices that keep them farther and farther, separated from that desire when we have desires. Whatever that desire is, maybe you have a desire to make, you know, $500,000 a year.

Maybe you have a desire to make over a million a year. Maybe you have desires for deep, deep soul connection in love and to have a partner that is soul, like aligned, right? Maybe you have desires like myself where I love to, you know, train and compete with my animals.

I love to get on the trail. I love my real estate business. That was a desire that I [00:02:00] actually created a lot of separation from for a long time, right? And so when we have these desires, what I wanna say is they're, they're yours and they're your souls. They are your soul's desires for you to actually experience in this lifetime.

What happens is that our human us, this, this part of us, the human tends to overthink. And get caught up in life. Experiences caught up in projections, caught up in what other people will think. Judgements caught up in past experiences where we were rejected, where we were shunned, where we might've been treated poorly or had like a poor, poor experience in relationships.

Or when we went to go show up to lead, something came up that was like, oh, nope. You can't do that, right? And we took it as, oh, I shouldn't do that. , I was wrong. It's like these experiences are created and our human gets [00:03:00] attached to them. The human gets stuck in scarcity. The human, it gets stuck in lack, the human gets stuck in the judgment.

The human gets stuck in the rejection and the fears and the doubts and the worries and, and what happens is the human in us, our mind, the ego, whatever you want to call it. It creates this disconnection from soul. And so we become farther and farther and farther disconnected from soul and from desire, and soul, to me, are of the same.

They are the same. And to me, if there was any daily practice that I would say to commit to before anything else that you do, it would be connection to your soul and connection to your desires and, and when we connect in with soul, it's like this, this felt knowing. And if anybody's interested, I can certainly 

share how to do that but when we connect him with soul and we lead with that and we lead with desire. It's a really interesting thing because it creates so much discomfort because we then have [00:04:00] to. Be radically responsible for the choices that we make, the people that we surround ourself with, and we realize we have choice in all of it.

We have to be radically responsible for where we're not showing up, where we're not leading ourselves, where that disconnect is from. You can't say I want, $500,000 a year, but never actually invest in yourself to learn how to. Be a radically self-led person to learn how to be radically self-expressed.

You know, to learn how to lead in your uniqueness without giving a flying fuck what anybody else thinks, right? You have to learn how to be so devoted to impact. You have to learn uncomfortable things like selling, sharing, showing up on social media, speaking into a camera. I mean, God, how uncomfortable these things are initially, right?

And so what happens is. All of a sudden when we're leading with desire and we're tapped into that desire, we're like, this is what I want. And this is a soul knowing and those desires are soul [00:05:00] knowing and we start really owning that we actually have to start to take ownership for.

The choices we make every day, the people we surround ourselves, we have to take ownership for the thoughts, the beliefs, the stories that we're telling ourselves in the background. We have to take ownership for where, like for me, a recent story that came through. It was really in sisterhood. And so I'm in a season where, you know, Jupiter's in my tent house and all these opportunities are coming for me.

And I have been through a lot of sister wounding in my life and it, it, it has deeply impacted me in leadership. And there are many times where I have shied away and backed down in the face of it. And I did nothing but do my soul a disservice and do myself a disservice and became farther and farther disconnected from those desires.

And when that happens. What happens is we, that is when we get into despair, that's when we get into depression. That's when we get into like ruminating [00:06:00] stories when we feel like nothing's working, I'm doing it this way, but nothing's working and I feel so lost. I don't have clarity. I, I feel so confused.

And that's when we are disconnected from desire and. Soul. That is when those doubts, those fears, those worries, all those things really, amplify will get caught up more in fears of judgments. We'll even start to judge others. And because if we're fearing judgment from others, guaranteed, we're probably judging as well.

This is all human nature. This is how the human world works, right? And the human mind, I should say initially. So it's like, well, what that is when we experience the disconnects of all of those things and where our past will impact us more and where we're very disconnected from our future self, from the future of the woman that we are here to become, the soul that we are here to embody and be, and letting that soul guide us, letting those desires guide us.

So. What I wanna say to this is the number one practice I [00:07:00] feel, that we should be doing, everybody should be doing every day is first thing in the morning, having a devotional practice to your soul. Like literally before you do anything, maybe you're just laying in bed and you set your alarm and you lay there for five minutes, setting it five minutes early and just asking like, what is my, what is my soul devotion want for me today?

This could be what is my soul devotion in this lifetime, right? Because our desires can change, right? They're fluid, they can always change. It doesn't always have to be the same thing, but it's like asking, what is my soul devotion today? And, and letting that. Be the frequency that we're tapping into and asking the soul this, and really deeply tuning in and then asking, well, what is getting in the way?

What is the number one thing that's getting in the way of me? And that, and sometimes it's a really simple answer. Sometimes it's something like a health habit. Sometimes it's, I didn't realize alcohol was in the way. Sometimes it's a deeper thing. Sometimes it's lack of trust. Trust in the unknown.

Trust and uncertainty, trust in other women. For me, it was trust. [00:08:00] Trust in sisterhood, trust in women. And so I had these beautiful experiences coming through and I was projecting the past onto these experiences as they were coming through and I had my coach actually reflect to me like leadership is about.

Not always like first judgment, right? It's not always about the initial impression. It's about recognition that everybody is so different, and for me, that's the recognition that we are all here to see each other's soul to soul, not past experiences, not through the lens of our past experiences, not through the lens of comparison, not through the lens of insecurity or lack of worth, literally, soul to soul, desire to desire.

And that shifted something in me so powerfully where it was like, yes, I'm not even seeing myself that way fully, yet it was just this another layer of like, yes, like of course like, and so that [00:09:00] shifted so much for me so that as I'm collaborating and these connections are coming in, it's like, wow.

I now see her in that soul in desire that she wants this too. She wants this connection too. She's had her issues to like sisterhood wounding too. She's had things in her past and, and traumas and experiences too. Right? And then we get to see through that soul, through that sole desires. A beautiful thing when we start to witness that and see that in ourselves.

So it's like seeing that connection to soul. What is my soul really here for me to experience? Because your soul doesn't want you to experience endless amounts of unhealed karma and unhealed, emotional wounding it wants us to actually move past all those so that we can experience the deepest, most luxurious desires.

The Felix. Silk on our skin and heaven in our body when we wake up in whatever way that is, whether that's relationships, money, sex, love, body health, all of it, connection. It's all [00:10:00] so in that desire realm that the soul wants us to be here. And so when you start to see yourself through soul, when you start to see yourself through desire, it will shift everything for you.

And then you will have that moment where you're like having to take radical responsibility in the sense of how I shared with you. Because when my soul was like, it's your lack of trust in sisterhood that is getting in your way, because it was affecting my, my client relationships.

And yes, this was subtle, right? But it was energetic and it was actually creating a barrier. People couldn't feel my heart, they couldn't connect in my heart. People need to feel our hearts. They wanna feel like they can connect with you.

And so it was creating this barrier from money, from clients a barrier between me and my business and the way that I was moving with my business, right? My business couldn't speak to me. The soul of my business couldn't reach to me creating a barrier between me and my husband.

And yes, it was subtle, but it was enough. That it was keeping me from leaning into my edges and keeping me [00:11:00] from getting to my next level of all the things in my next level, my relationship, my next level, and money, my next level, and clients and offers and success, all of it. And so when we have this conversation and we really do that, we have to take radical responsibility for.

Our lives in that way because it's like this knowing of seeing yourself through soul and what your soul came here to desire and like, that is the only thing, in my opinion, that we should be obligated to, like, we should literally be obligated to move towards that. And not everybody's desires are gonna be very different.

Not everybody's gonna desire, a million dollar years. You know, I personally don't, I'm just gonna be transparent, but do I work with seven figure entrepreneurs? Yes. But it's not something that's like, oh, that's my desire. My desire is more freedom. My desire is more the ability to spend money freely and travel and give my dogs a beautiful life and eat really high quality foods and take really good care of my body.

For me and my husband to [00:12:00] enjoy our lives to the fullest and just have a lot of fucking fun doing it. And so to me, whatever amount of money does that, is the money that I is in. My desire. I don't have, like, this is the number. And so that's also me owning that and not getting,

anybody else's perspective coming into my energy field. When we connect in with soul, it is like we will have to do uncomfortable things. We will have to let people go. We will have to, look at ourselves really radically, honestly, and with compassion and love and no shame.

It's literally like through compassion and love, because you're seeing yourself through soul and you start to see everybody else through that. And I encourage you to try this because it will literally. Change your life and when you respond to your life from desire from soul.

You are always responding from the woman you are becoming, not who you are. Now you're responding from a very high frequency of energy, and so the decisions and choices you make are going to be very different than if you were responding from who you are [00:13:00] now or from your past and your traumas.

It will fucking change your life and, and this to me is a devotional practice. I do this. Every single morning. And I would say try it for 21 days and, and just watch how you start to make different choices and how you start to show up differently and in these conversations, , what's getting in the way of that desire?

And maybe this is something like, oh my God, I don't even speak about what I do. I really could be like getting on social more. I could be maybe doing something courageous, like opening up a telegram channel. You know, a space like this, I could be, you know, maybe learning how to do some heartfelt sales so that I can share about my offers and what I create in a really impactful way that doesn't feel ick,

maybe it's, you know, it, it is the health and, and you're called to like shift something in there. Be open to what comes forward with yourself. And I say always do this with compassion. Again, so much compassion, so much love. And it is devotion to soul. It's devotion to your life. It's [00:14:00] devotion to

what is the imprint, the energetic imprint that you wanna leave behind on this earth when you transition to spirit? And I don't mean that in a dark way. I mean that in like a man, when I, when I die, I want people to be like, she was courageous, she was bold, she did shit. I don't even know. She did things that I wouldn't have never dreamed of,

I deeply want it to be my truth. I want to know that I did things that I was scared to do. I wanna know that I created impact that's so important to me. I wanna know that I inspired women to go do the same and to speak fearlessly and to, be unapologetic and who they are.

I wanna know those things. And so sit with that and see what stirs for you and see where you're . Not pushing into your edges enough and where you could be doing that a little bit more and try your best to like when you're in the moment, energy of wanting to react in the moment, really sink into those desires, to that soul connection first, and go, what is my soul here to experience?

What does my soul want me to do? What is [00:15:00] my soul devotion? What are my deepest desires? Because that is soul devotion and then tune into that. How would that woman who already has every single one of those desires, how would she be showing up in this moment? What would she be doing? How would your soul be responding?

What are the things that they would both be doing in this moment from that space?