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Divorce Abroad: A Warning from an International Divorce Lawyer | Ep 59

Mickelle Weber

In this highly anticipated episode of House of Peregrine, Mickelle is joined by the brilliant Magali van Maanen, a seasoned international divorce lawyer and mediator from De Boorder Advocaten in Amsterdam. With nearly 20 years of experience in international family law, Magali brings clarity and wisdom to one of life’s most complex transitions - divorce abroad.

Together, they explore the emotional and legal intricacies of separation when you're far from home. Magali shares how growing up across continents has shaped her understanding of cross-border relationships and how that insight fuels her holistic approach to supporting clients. Whether you’re happily single or considering divorce, or even just preparing to move your relationship to a new country this conversation is and essential resource.

Key Moments:

  • The Importance of Pre-Decision Consultation – Magali urges anyone contemplating divorce or even a move to another country  to seek legal insight to make informed, strategic agreements and choices.


  • “What Do You Want Life to Look Like in 3 Years?” – Her signature question helps clients focus on building a future.


  • Child Custody Across Borders –Many Countries legal systems prioritizes children’s well-being, often preventing international relocation(even back to your home country) without mutual agreement.


  • Prenups & Postnups Abroad – Magali emphasizes crafting agreements when major life changes—like moving abroad—reshape family dynamics.


  • Why Therapy Supports Legal Clarity – A strong emotional support team can dramatically improve communication and outcomes in mediation or court and is well worth the investment.


To reach Magali van Maanen for a consultation, visit www.deboorderadvocaten.com 

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