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Healing Old Wounds: Chantelle's Journey to Healthier Relationships and Personal Growth
What if the key to unlocking healthier relationships and personal growth lies in healing old wounds? Chantelle returns after a year of introspection and healing to share her powerful journey of transformation. During her time away, she faced a health scare that led her to Mauritius, where she chose to explore the metaphysical roots of her illness instead of surgery. Through energy healing and holistic approaches, Chantelle uncovered deep-seated emotions like anger and injustice, learning to break free from toxic cycles and set healthy boundaries. This transformative journey inspired her to create "Fuck the Fuck Boy," a new program aimed at helping women and transgender women attract positive, respectful partners by stepping away from harmful patterns.
Unhealed childhood wounds can profoundly impact your relationships and life choices, but addressing them can lead to remarkable improvements in every aspect of life. This episode highlights the importance of inner child work and healing modalities to transform toxic relationship patterns and raise personal standards. With a focus on self-care and accountability, Chantelle's new program offers support for women ready to embark on their healing journey. Join Chantel as she passionately guides you on a path of self-improvement, inviting you to connect with her on Instagram and explore various resources on her website designed to support your growth toward becoming the best version of yourself.
Hello and welcome to the let's Find you podcast. My name is Chantel and I'm your host and founder of let's Find you. I teach and give the tools to people to help them find who they truly are, find their power and manage to overcome anything that is blocking them from their desires and dreams. I help people heal and develop their spirituality and mindset. My aim here is to help you achieve exactly what you want and find who you truly are, be able to heal from any past trauma and live a life fulfilling and joyful. I am a transformational business and spiritual coach. I am also a mother to four beautiful souls. So if you want to find yourself and commit to you, then this is the podcast for you. I would ask that you tune in weekly and please subscribe to this podcast, as this is one of the first steps to changing your life. Welcome to today's episode with let's Find you the podcast.
Speaker 1:I have taken quite a break from this podcast. I think the last episode that I recorded was this time last year, so it's literally a whole year away from the podcast. I've really missed it and I'm glad that I am now finally back away from the podcast. I've really missed it and I'm glad that I am now finally back ready to bring some good content to help you guys on your journeys wherever you are in life, as I want everyone that listens to this to succeed. So a bit of an overview where I have been for this past year. So I started off 2024 in Mauritius called the new year. In there, absolutely stunning Came back home, got really really poorly with my gallbladder, where I ended up in hospital for five days.
Speaker 1:So it was like pancreatitis I think. I ended up um getting from it. I knew that this was a sign um my body's speaking to me. I always listen to my body. When it's poorly, I always know there's something that it's trying to communicate with me. So I really look at the metaphysical side when it comes to illness. I'm not going to just be going to the hospital to just resolve the pain, because it never really gets the root of it. So when I had gone to the hospital, they did say that they wanted to remove the gallbladder, but the fact that I saw three or four consultants that came up with different theories as to why I was in hospital didn't fill me with confidence. So I wasn't really going to play operation with my body and start removing organs when we didn't even know if this was the route to the pain, as to why I was admitted. So I didn't go ahead with that operation.
Speaker 1:I did look at the metaphysical side of it and what the gallbladder holds, which is anger, uh, mis, uh, misjustice, um, these type of emotions. So I in metaphysics, you always it's that understanding of whatever emotions we suppress. So when we don't deal with our emotions, it's going to manifest into something physical in the body, which is a disease which we would say the body is at, you know, dis-ease, if that makes sense, if you break the word down. So I'm very much on that path when it comes to any form of illness within my body. This is what I focus on.
Speaker 1:So I ended up doing a lot of energy healing which put me on a new journey of healing a very deep-rooted cycle in my life, deep-rooted cycle in my life. So up until that point I had been doing a lot of healing, you know, hitting cycles in my life which ended up up-leveling me, which it always does. So this one was more surrounding what type of toxicity I was willing to tolerate, due to me having a lack of boundaries with this, me having my different other tendencies. I really had to go into a place where I had to really look at what I was willing to tolerate and have in my life and what I wasn't willing to. I wanted to up level to a place in my life which was not where I was at. But in order to do that, it's that common knowledge of you can't up level with people who aren't going in the same direction. So it was a really painful time to go through, because then you have to start really analyzing you know your relationship. You have to analyze friendships, you have to analyze family. You have to, you have to analyze all these things and you know what is actually making giving you discomfort, what is actually giving you pain. So that's where I had to go. So it's been like quite a deep journey that I've been doing throughout the year.
Speaker 1:Um worked very closely with my holistic healer, um, who she is amazing. So if you're ever looking for a holistic healer, just DM me and I will give you her details. Um, that was a very it was a very deep, hard journey to do, but the outcome of it has been amazing. I mean, I've so many things have come in just from doing that healing and cutting the cords and, you know, cutting the cycle basically. So that brought me on to the birth of a brand new chapter with let's Find you, where I have created a new program called it's quite. It's quite a name to it. I before I say it so it doesn't shock you all. So it's fuck the fuck boy. That is the name of my new program.
Speaker 1:So this program is for any woman or transgender woman that wants to really change the way their relationship is or the the way they are attracting in the wrong people when it comes to dating, um working with people who want to, you know, attract good souls into their life, not keep putting up with utter crap. So you know not sitting in a place where you end up being breadcrumbed, not being abused, mistreated. You know not having to deal with narcissists and sociopaths and you know people that are just going to bring you utter pain and joy that end up affecting your mental health, where you're depressed, anxious, you know you've got a constant low mood. You end up getting physical symptoms where your health just declines. These are all massive things that people don't tend to talk about when they are in relationships that are toxic, and this is something that I really want to change. I really want to help women heal and take that deep journey with themselves to truly find what it is they want. So what is that true love that they want? You know and not be afraid to have it. You know, get to the core of what is the issue as to why you accept less. You know why you tolerate bullshit. It's really getting into understanding where it's come from.
Speaker 1:So, looking at those wounds that are dictating your life right now, you know it's simple things I wouldn't say they were simple but wounds like I'll give an example. It could be like an abandonment wound that you could have had. Something's happened and you felt that abandonment. You've been left, you know, in fear. You've been left, you know, with no safety and from there it's a wound that you never healed and then that wound ends up dictating throughout cycles in your life. And this could be something that happens in childhood, definitely with myself. When I went on my own journey with this, that was one of the wounds that was really dictating and it came from one place which was like losing my mother at such a young age. One place which was like losing my mother at such a young age. You know it ended up really dictating cycles of different types of relationships. It's looking at the relationships that you have with your parents, you know. Is there daddy issues there? You know, is there mother issues there? What is the root? You know, where is that wound coming from? And really connecting with yourself to be able to heal it, whether it's done through inner child work, whether it's done through, you know, different types of healing modalities.
Speaker 1:You know, looking at where your mindset's at when it comes to thinking about relationships and what it is that you, you know, truly want. You know, do you need to lift the bar higher? I mean, if you're attracting in people that are toxic, that mistreat you and you know, just breadcrumb you with the bare minimum, um, and then give you, you know, the rest of it is just shit, then yeah, the bar does need to be raised, because you're worth more than that. No one deserves that. So that is my mission at the moment to get as many women as I can and help them heal. So then you watch them flourish into a beautiful relationship that they deserve, because everyone deserves to be happy and everyone deserves to have that love. And it's working with women to get them there when they're not there, and it's something that they do want. When they're not there and it's something that they do want.
Speaker 1:And when you do start this work in that area, when it comes to your love life, it spills out into the other areas of your life. So when you start doing this work, you'll start seeing improvements in your career, you know. You'll start seeing improvements in your money. You'll start seeing improvements in your physical health. It spills into everything because it leaves an impact on every area of your life. When you're not healing or looking after yourself or really taking accountability, it really does affect every area of your life. So it's really important to do that inner work to really just change your life.
Speaker 1:And this focus with this programme is so important. This program is so important. You know you could be someone that's already in a relationship but you're not happy. It's toxic, could even be abusive, and you want to leave, but you don't know how to leave. So it's figuring out what it is that's holding you there, you know. You know if it's abusive, the likelihood is that you're going to be trauma bonded and there'll be a wound that will be playing out at the same time to keep you there. So it's really it's so important to do that in work especially. You know, before you embark on dating, embark on anything you know to do with that area of your life, you know it's really important to start doing the work to get what it is that you want.
Speaker 1:So this has been my um year, which has given me the birth of this amazing program that I am so excited, which is launching now. Um, so if you are interested in the program, then do just DM me. I am really really passionate about this. This has been, um, something that's taken me, you know, a lot of time to prepare and I can't wait to just share it with everybody. So that's the programme and that has been a brief overview of my year. So I'm going to love and leave you now with this episode.
Speaker 1:If anything resonates with you within the episode, please do reach out. I love hearing from you all. I love hearing your stories. I love being able to implement any help that I can help you with. So please give me your feedback, any questions, anything that's resonated with you, do reach out. Um, I love reading those dms.
Speaker 1:Um means the world to me that the podcast is going out and doing what it's supposed to do and that is supposed to be helping people change their lives. Um, that is my passion, that is my mission, that is what I'm here to do. So, yes, do do reach out, but until then, have a beautiful day. Thank you for listening and thank you for being here. So if you want to dive deeper and start that inner work within you, then give me a follow on instagram it's chantelle, underscore dot and you can also have a look at the different things I do on my website, which is wwwchantellecom, where I hold all my packages and meditations, different tools that you can use to be able to start that work on yourself and commit to being the best version of who you are. Remember, within all of this transformation is the transaction. Now, I wish you a beautiful day and thank you for being here. Bye.