Why Your First Instinct Isn't to Ask for Help (And How to Change It)

The Healthy Church Staff Podcast

The Healthy Church Staff Podcast
Why Your First Instinct Isn't to Ask for Help (And How to Change It)
Sep 03, 2026 Episode 694
In this episode of the Healthy Church Staff Podcast, host Todd Rhoades discusses the common reluctance to ask for help and how leaders can overcome this mindset. He emphasizes that asking for help is a form of ownership and good leadership, not weakness. Rhoades also highlights the importance of vulnerability-based trust in building healthy teams and shares practical steps to encourage a culture of collaboration and early assistance. • Cultural resistance to asking for help enhances stress and burnout. • Leaders often feel pressured to appear self-sufficient for fear of seeming weak. • Waiting until a crisis to ask for help creates unnecessary chaos and sets poor examples for teams. • Asking for help demonstrates proactive leadership and prioritizes mission and team success over personal ego. • Creating a narrative around collaboration rather than crisis encourages a healthier work environment. • Ministry roles amplify the self-sufficiency myth, whereas biblical examples show the importance of teamwork and mutual support.

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