The Hiubert & Xio Podcast
Welcome to the Hiubert & Xio Podcast! Dedicated to exploring the depths of relationships from a Christian perspective. Where we have Real, Honest, Vulnerable, Heartfelt conversations on all things Faith, Relationships and Marriage connection.
Dive into the insightful journey of the struggles we face, the tools we've discovered and the practical ways we can overcome challenges through Faith and Resilience. We offer a compassionate and relatable space in the world of relational living: providing advice, inspiration and a sense of community for all who listen.
The Hiubert & Xio Podcast
71. You Can't Fix Your Spouse! Here's What Actually Builds Connection
In today’s episode, we’re sharing one of the biggest mindset shifts we’ve had to make in our marriage: You can’t fix your spouse; because they were never yours to fix.
We open up about a recent moment during a difficult situation, and how that moment revealed just how deeply we had tied correction to love.
You’ll hear us unpack the tension between correction and control, why emotional safety has to come before clarity, and the unlearning we’ve both had to do after years of handling emotions in ways that felt “spiritual”, but left us disconnected.
This is for anyone who’s ever tried to hold it all together, fix what felt broken, or struggled to stay present when someone else’s pain felt overwhelming.
We’re learned a better way and we hope this conversation helps you do the same.
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