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Ep:137 Are You Still Doing That? Rethinking Wedding Customs with a Laugh
This episode explores the wedding traditions women wish to change or eliminate. We discuss how these traditions can reflect outdated values, influencing modern relationships.
• Opinions about the relevance of wedding traditions
• Critique of the bachelor party tradition
• Discussion on the symbolism of giving away the bride
• Examination of traditional wedding vows and their implications
• Debate over acceptable first-date venues
• Insights on evolving societal expectations
You are listening to the Double A Club and this is your host, ny Boom, and my co-host, big Daz. We'll be talking about trending topics and healthcare and basically just as a disclaimer just to let the listeners know that this is just basically on our opinions and speculations and I hope you guys enjoy the show.
Speaker 2:Let's start off and kick off with our first topic it started, I was reading some stuff on the internet and I ran into a topic that was somewhat interesting. The topic was about wedding traditions and it's basically women who have come forth talking about what part of the wedding tradition they would like to exclude or take out of the tradition. And you'd be surprised some of the topics that they similar topics that they brought up that is interesting.
Speaker 2:Yeah, so one of the things that they brought up was an obvious one is the bachelor party. They definitely state that they'd rather not have. They can do without the bachelor party.
Speaker 3:Hold on, hold on. You're breaking up Blake Robotically. Bad I.
Speaker 2:Said that they Bachelor party.
Speaker 3:They can do without the basketballs, yeah.
Speaker 2:Yes, okay, that was one of the things that they picked to do without that they didn't need in the wedding, and the reason why is they don't like the whole idea of someone getting drunk and using the alcohol as an excuse for making one of the biggest mistakes in their life. Okay, I just got to hear this. This is an interesting story. So the second one is that they would like to take out of the wedding. Is the bride being given away by the father?
Speaker 3:Oh really.
Speaker 2:That's interesting, yeah, and when I was reading it it just sounded really fucking stupid. It just sounds like to me. Well, let me tell you the reason why. They don't like the idea of being a procession of somebody and then being given to someone else. So, okay, it kind of would like to do it's a whole. It's a whole thing with just male figures. It's a whole thing with just the idea of male figures.
Speaker 2:I think what women are trying to do is eliminate male figures in a lot of the stuff that they're that have involved. And then the other thing is that it's it's a tradition, because back in the days, male or female, you was the possession of the parents and the parents would have to give you away to someone else in the wedding and they're lucky that the parent doesn't pick who you marry. That is one tradition that they kind of did without. So I mean like just to be saying that, hey, I don't like the idea that I'm my father's possession. Well, guess what, You're your father's and mother's possession. You know what I'm saying. If they put you in this life, they can fucking take you out. You know what I'm saying. I agree with that.
Speaker 3:You know what I'm saying you know that's funny that you say that because? Well, go ahead, continue, I'll bring it up, because mine is a different topic. Okay, all right.
Speaker 2:So the third one is the bride's family changed for the wedding. They don't want to continue doing this one. They believe that it should be paid for by the couple in itself. By who? By the couple.
Speaker 3:Okay, I mean, you know I don't disagree with it. Actually that's one I can actually agree with. Go ahead to agree with Go ahead.
Speaker 2:I think more couples are doing this just because they simply cannot afford, or the parents can't afford, these type of weddings. So the couples, the people who are marrying them, are more responsible towards this. So I think, in that aspect, they've Jason do it for years. So they do not like the wedding, the wedding vows, and the part of the wedding vows that they don't like is the phrase Let me guess, go ahead, why don't you? Guess Steve.
Speaker 3:No, go ahead.
Speaker 2:No, no, no, Guess, guess guess. I want you to guess. Hello, yeah, guess guess.
Speaker 3:Don't call him Go ahead.
Speaker 2:I want you to guess, guess what that is. Hello, yes, hello. Can you hear me?
Speaker 3:Hold on, give me two seconds. I don't know technically, Hello.
Speaker 2:Yes.
Speaker 3:There we go Much better. Sorry about that, that's all right.
Speaker 2:So, yes, what phrase of the vows that women do not like?
Speaker 3:The possessive part.
Speaker 2:Uh, no, no. The part of the vows that they dislike is when the pastor or the priest says the wife, submit to your husband.
Speaker 3:Yeah, the progressive part, yeah, they don't like that. And I bet all these studies are here in America.
Speaker 2:And the last thing that they dislike about the weddings and they would choose to do it out is the ending of the ceremony, when the pastor or the priest says I now pronounce you, man and wife. They dislike this.
Speaker 3:What? What's wrong with that?
Speaker 2:Well, it sounds stupid. And the reason why I say that is, if you listen to it, listen to the word I say I now pronounce you man and wife. The man and wife part is the dumb part. Why not state man and woman? Or if you're gonna use the word wife, why not state I pronounce you husband, wife. Well, I believe that a lot of they have made some changes, because when I got married, I believe the guy, the pastor, said husband and wife. He didn't say man and wife, but I have heard man and wife before. So, okay, the things that they would like to do without.
Speaker 3:Why not leave? Why not pronounce husband and wife? Yeah, yeah, it's because of LGT, that's why. But you just say wife and wife or husband and husband yeah, I mean it could be.
Speaker 2:It doesn't make sense saying man and wife. You should be saying man and woman or husband and wife. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3:Like it should be well, I don't even think it should be male or woman. I think it should be husband and wife, because that's exactly what Jesus is right. You know, pronouncing them as husband and wife, I could have sworn that well when I got married. I've never been married, so yeah, you're right when I got married, that's what it was.
Speaker 2:For me, it was husband and wife yeah.
Speaker 3:I have heard man and wife before in in ceremony, so it's not like so many weddings I've been through and I've never paid attention to that part well, I mean, you know a lot of shit.
Speaker 2:This is us men. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah. So you, you said you wanted to Mention something about the vows, or something like that.
Speaker 3:No, it's funny because the choice is that Women Are Okay. So you were talking about, about a way I'm gonna bring up first date, which is a listing of first state of not. The place is not meant for men to not take women on first dates places too. These are women recommending men not to do these first date places. And this is the list. So Cheesecake Factory, apple Tree, chili's, chipotle, olive Garden, the Movie, your House I mean your House. I could actually agree with that. But everything else above that, and there's way more, I'm going go, keep going. But what's wrong with Cheesecake Factory, like what's wrong with looking at a big menu and having a conversation for half an hour or 40 minutes besides your men meal?
Speaker 2:to be honest with you, for me, first date or any date unless I'm already like I'm tired of talking to you and I kind of already know enough information about you, I would never do a movie that has like music or dancing or anything like that. I wouldn't do that because in fact I can't sit and concentrate on you and they can't concentrate on me. You know what I'm saying. So that date is out the window. But like, for example, any restaurant I don't give a fuck if it's Starbucks you know where you can sit down and have coffee. I can sit down and talk to you and not get distracted and not have a lot of noise in the background where I have to over talk, over the noise that would be me as a first date. I mean, that doesn't make sense.
Speaker 3:but I mean, yeah, you're right, A nightclub, I don't think that would be normal. But yeah, a nightclub is a bad club.
Speaker 2:I don't know why they picked Cheesecake Factory. The only reason why I can assume that they picked Cheesecake Factory is because of that dumb chick that's been trending online on TikTok or whatever, about her reaction towards being taken to Cheesecake Factory. And then she Stated that she, they all, she planned that and that that wasn't really her. But that's bullshit. She's just trying to cover up because she's being blackballed at work. She's probably about to lose her job and everything. You know what.
Speaker 3:I'm saying she's an idiot, she is. It's a self-title Diddy, but yeah Going back to yeah going back to.
Speaker 2:I don't see any problems with those listings. I mean even the house.
Speaker 3:Hold on, hold on. There's still more. There's way more.
Speaker 2:I know, but again, depending on what you just gave us.
Speaker 3:I got two, I got two, I got two. So there's also Eddie's Flash, eddie's Flash 2 Chain Buffalo Wings, buffalo Wild Wings sorry, stop. Red lobster, a buffet, I hop Dates, family Functions, movie Night, netflix, hulu Okay, somewhere, somewhere that requires A long drive. I don't know what was wrong with that one.
Speaker 2:So they eliminated Everything. So what is it? Nightclub.
Speaker 3:I don't even exactly. I think, I think that that Like in that article. Well, no, it's just a list of women to recommend men not to take on first dates.
Speaker 2:Okay, so did they put a recommendation on where to take people for the first date? No, of course not, because they basically eliminate everything. They eliminate fast food, cheap food, depending on the person's economic status. No, they just want to fucking.
Speaker 3:They want a rich nigga to fucking close down a whole goddamn arena and have one table with two plates of fucking candy. Huh.
Speaker 2:Yeah, or go to fucking Rusk. Get the fuck out of here. Kiss my ass, your pussy isn't even worth that shit. Out of here. Kiss my ass, your pussy isn't even worth that shit. If I have to go, if I have to drop three, four, five hundred dollars to feed your ass on a first date, I'd rather just not feed you.
Speaker 2:I'll call girl anything, oh, anything, yeah I you know, I remember, um, there's, um, there's a cruise, a special cruise. It's a man's cruise, right? And what they do is that they put like 10, they bring in like 10 to 15 men, right, and each man. I don't know how much the fee is, but it's not cheap, right. And they have all these model chicks, like these Instagram influences, right on that boat and each man gets to have two, and one man each day of the cruise will have a night with three. They'll just be rotating the guys to have three, but in general they'll have one or two girls.
Speaker 2:And, yeah, I mean, I know it's not ideal to be, you know, sleeping with somebody who does this for work. But guess what, if I have to fucking drop four or five hundred dollars on a date with you, I might as well just go on something like that you know what I'm saying? A cruise like that, and have sex with three girls. You know what I'm saying? That shit would be way more enjoyable for me than fucking taking you out to Ruth's Chris and not possibly not getting any.
Speaker 3:Yeah, yeah, absolutely that's fucking nuts.
Speaker 2:And it's sad to say that I don't want to say that, hey, if I'm taking you out, I need to have sex. No, I'm not saying that. But what I am saying is that If I gotta go to, If I gotta take you out to a place that's gonna be over Over 100, 200, 300, $400, then I'm not wasting my time with that. I'm going to go and get the short thing that. You know what I'm saying. I'm not going to deal with you and then and then fucking go with the possibility that she might sleep with me at the end of the night. You know what I'm saying. Like there's no point. You know what I'm saying. Like there's no point. You know what I'm saying. Like, unless we're doing it together and we're building a family, I'm not fucking spending that type of money on you. You know what I'm saying you know what I mean.
Speaker 3:I don't even spend that. I don't even spend a dollar, unless I got that type of money. Is I ain't spending that kind of money, like the whole point of the first date is to impress somebody, right?
Speaker 2:you're there to make a first impression, right?
Speaker 3:but no, I think the whole point of a first date exactly what you said in the beginning is to get to know the person, not to impress them but, but, but.
Speaker 2:A lot of times in the first date you're trying to impress somebody. You know what I'm saying, and but most of the time the impression is on the man financially. You know we have to try to take out the date, make the plans, do all this shit. You know what I'm saying. That's how the man is. That's how the man is.
Speaker 3:As a man. Let's look back at our position.
Speaker 2:The security and all I'm saying is that in the first couple of days, there's no reason for me to go out my pocket like that. I'm not, you're not, you're not, you're not anyone as of right now for me to invest on. You know, saying we haven't even got to the point where I know you're gonna be that person. You're saying so I'm not gonna blow, I'm not gonna put that type of investment on you. What I wanted is for you and find out if you're worth the investment.
Speaker 2:And how do you find that? By watching the stocks. So I got to watch you and evaluate you. You know what I'm saying? The same thing is, she's doing the same thing with you, she's evaluating you and all that she's not coming out of her pocket in the first date. Listen, if the woman had to pay for the fucking first date, there would be no list. This would not exist. Any place. Any place that they would like to go is acceptable. Yeah, so fuck it. That list is bullshit. I don't give a fuck what they have to say. If you're making the list, then you fucking pay for it.
Speaker 3:Yeah, no problem, I ain't got no problem Person the true about themselves or walk up a fuck off. I don't care, I really don't give a fuck, but I hear you. To me it's getting to know the person. Like you said, watching the stock You're trying to figure something out. You find out, let's see what you got, let's see how you can help things out. What can we do, however? It doesn't necessarily. To me it doesn't necessarily have to be. You know, we fucking or we didn't do nothing. I could be a business partner with you. You'd be cool, like we could figure things out, yeah.
Speaker 2:So how many times have you been on a date and nothing happened? It was just great conversation.
Speaker 3:Yeah, well, that's just that's the life of a man.
Speaker 2:So, like I said, even going to the park is acceptable for me because I have I've been an area where I can solely concentrate on getting to know you as a person. Yeah, solely concentrate on getting to know you as a person.
Speaker 3:Yeah, that's the way I see it.
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