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76 - Sanctifying Marriage: Boundaries, Wisdom, and the Pence Rule
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Introduction to the Mike Pence Rule
3:19
Criticism vs. True Purpose of Boundaries
8:35
Biblical Foundation for Personal Boundaries
13:48
Transparent Communication in Marriage
18:06
Managing Opposite-Sex Friendships
28:39
Statistics on Affairs and Relationships
34:53
Practical Application and Final Thoughts
42:19
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Exhorter Podcast
76 - Sanctifying Marriage: Boundaries, Wisdom, and the Pence Rule
Jul 06, 2025
Season 3
Episode 76
Clovis Church of Christ
What boundaries protect and sanctify your marriage? In this episode, we talk about the so-called “Pence Rule,” opposite-sex friendships, and why 1 Thessalonians 4 calls us to intentional holiness. It's not about fear—it’s about wisdom, trust, and honoring your spouse before God.
Should married people have close friendships with the opposite sex? We unpack the thinking behind avoiding one-on-one time with the opposite sex: Is it fear-based, or a wise way to protect trust? Then we turn to 1 Thessalonians 4 to explore how pursuing holiness and transparency can strengthen emotional intimacy with your spouse.
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