The Relationship Circle
Welcome to the Relationship Circle with your host Beck Thompson, International Best Selling Author and Award winning Dating & Relationship Coach!
AKA Your wing woman in love adventures 💘
Are you tired of boring relationships, tired of mindless scrolling on dating apps? Well, you've come to the right place. Beck is here to help you kick those lonely vibes to the curb and find a love that makes your heart sing! 🎶
But before we dive into all the romance, let's focus on YOU.
Beck is all about owning who you are, ditching the 'shoulds', and having the kind of love that fits like your favourite pair of jeans.
In this podcast, Beck spills the beans on her no-nonsense tactics for navigating the tricky terrain of love, from first dates to long-term relationships. She's got your back, and she's not in this alone. Beck has assembled a crew of coaches, experts, and amazing humans who are ready to share their insights and help you find your inner spark ✨
So mark your calendar, because love day is now on Wednesday, and Beck will be waiting with your weekly dose of warmth, wisdom, and laughs.
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The Relationship Circle
Showing Up The Way You THINK People Want To See You, Is Sabotaging Your Authenticity
Hands up if you’ve ever caught yourself twisting into a version of you that you think someone will like more... 🙋♀️
A real talk—dating can feel like a performance sometimes.
You meet someone you really like, and suddenly you're showing up as the shinier, filtered version of yourself. You’re polite, you’re easygoing, you’re agreeable... and before you know it, you’ve gone a few dates in and think:
“Wait—do they even know the real me?”
I’ve been there. I’ve watched clients go through it. I know how tempting it is to hide your quirks, your needs, your boundaries—especially when you just want things to go well. But here’s the truth: when we trade authenticity for approval, we lose the very connection we’re trying to build.
In this episode, I’m unpacking:
- Why it’s so normal to lose yourself a little at the start of something new (and how to catch it early)
- What being authentically YOU actually looks like in dating
- The small but powerful ways to ground yourself without pushing love away
- How to check in with yourself after a date and ask the right questions: “Did I show up as me? Or was I shape-shifting a little?”
- Plus, why boundaries are sexy (yes, seriously!) and how expressing your needs is actually the key to deeper connection
And if you’re already in a relationship and thinking, “Oh god, I’ve already lost myself”—don’t panic. I’ve got you. It’s never too late to bring the real you back into the room. In fact, a healthy partner will welcome her with open arms.
So grab your tea, pop in your headphones, and let’s talk about how to date with your whole heart—without dimming who you are.
You don’t need to be perfect.
You don’t need to be chill, or cool, or low-maintenance.
You just need to be YOU.
And that’s more than enough.
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