Nurturing Curiosity, Equity & Social Change in the Classroom

In this week's episode of Equity Hour, Dr. Tami is joined by Gabriell Gater, Founder and CEO of The Innovative Learners.  Dr. Tami and Gabriell discuss the essential elements of fostering empathy, curiosity, and social change in educational settings. They emphasize leading with empathy, learning from students' experiences, and cultivating a classroom environment centered on inclusivity and diversity. The conversation explores the power of diverse texts and resources in engaging students and promoting cultural relevance. Beyond traditional assessments, they challenge educators to rethink their approach and embrace deeper learning opportunities. Through collaboration and community building, they empower students to become agents of change in their communities. Don't miss out on actionable tips and insights to transform your classroom into a space where all students thrive.

Gabriell's website: https://theinnovativelearners.com/

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Transcript

Tami 0:32

Hello everyone and welcome to another episode of the Dragonfly Rising Podcast with me your host, Dr. Tammy Dean.

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I am

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like beyond excited today for our podcast guest. Today we have with us Gabrielle Gator. She is the

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founder and CEO of

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innovative learners. they're an amazing tutoring agency that helps students with reading, writing, and math embedded with culturally relevant instruction. So we know we love that. We're excited about that. And I cannot wait to dig into what she does and what has she, she has done and is doing and all the great things today. So welcome Gabrielle.

Gabriell 1:12

Thank you. It's so nice

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be

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here. I'm very excited to

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about

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that.

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Me

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too. Me too. Y'all, you know how I

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about diverse tags and Gabrielle

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is also a

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a fan. So I'm

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dig into that a little bit. Here today as well. But, um, Gabrielle, I really wanted to start at, you know, cause I start every episode with my guests wanting

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hear a little bit

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about your equity journey,

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because I believe it's a

Tami 1:38

marathon, right. Versus a sprint and we all start somewhere and have this unique trajectory. So tell us a little bit about your personal equity work journey.

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Absolutely.

Gabriell 1:51

And I love how you. Kind of started off as equity work because, um, that's an essentially what it is, but my mother was a teacher, and I always still to this day think it's such a sacred position to be in front of students and be able to pour into them. It can change the trajectory of their lives, either for the positive or the negative. So I take it very seriously. And I finally got the opportunity to, you know, Pursue that. And so I was teaching. Um, I've lived a lot of places. I'm originally from Texas, and so I started teaching in Houston. I didn't want to tell anybody I was a first year teacher, you know, any stigmas and things like that. But, no lesson plan, no coach. It

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just, they

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threw me in there.

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Um, that's what

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they do.

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unfortunately. That's what they do. You,

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That's how they do you, but, I loved it. I

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actually

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loved it because I got the, I had the ability to be as creative. And so because I had no background,

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I,

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I had, you know, tutored and things like that, but

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I

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led with me wanting to

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the teacher

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that I never had as a black girl growing up. In Texas, where all my teachers were white, and me and my friend was the only two black girls in the

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class. Um,

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so I led with that, and so, I've just consistently let that lead my decision making. Um, so, from Houston, I, I always want to push things and do things to the max.

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I was like,

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I want to go to New York, I want to live in Harlem, I want to work in Harlem, so I can be a better teacher, and everybody thought I was stupid. Crazy. Um, I don't have any family in New York. I just moved out there.

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and, uh, yeah, right. We love a little crazy, you know, love it. I love it.

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Crazy. My mama was like, don't smile at nobody. But it was amazing. I was, I'm so glad. And also I went to, I taught at a school, Harlem Children's Zone, where it's a, it was a holistic teaching

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method, right?

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Everybody was black. The, you know, The owner was black. I had never experienced this wraparound kind of the way the charter system works, you

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know, so they would provide

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like health care and things like that. However, I still found discrepancies within the curriculum because it didn't reflect the students that I was giving it to.

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Um,

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And my favorite example of this is I was teaching a child and he's like, Miss, what's a lawn? You know, because he lives, he lives in New York and they don't, they don't have lawns there. And I explained to him what it was, but if I wasn't there in that classroom, he would have got that whole passage wrong. And I can imagine that that has happened in many other situations in many other classrooms. And as a teacher, there's just no time to teach how you want to, what you want to, the books you want to, what you know your kids need, especially if you have a curriculum that's given to you. Um, or if you decide to create your own curriculum, there's no space for you to actually do that and be a successful teacher. So, um, I kind of led with frustration into my equity work. I was like, I can't get it in this classrooms. I'm

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get

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it for myself. You know,

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Yeah.

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And that the, my tutoring agency wasn't supposed to be this grand business that it is now. I just saw an old white man at a library tutoring somebody. I was like, I could

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that. Right? Yes!

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and, on Craigslist, you got to make an icon to list your services. So I just made a little quick logo. So I could be on Craigslist and it

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took

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off from there,

Tami 5:21

On Craigslist. Oh, we're going way back.

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way back.

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so I'm curious. Is this

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same

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icon you have now? Like, has it stuck the whole time or have you innovated it?

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I kept

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it

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for like two years. I innovated it for a year and now we got

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Yeah, I love that though, like the trajectory of growth, right? Yeah,

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yeah, yeah. But the name was the same,

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you know, the name has been the

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same. Um, so from there it just grew into this beautiful. I didn't realize how much autonomy and agency I was giving to myself. And because that I could continue to lead with being the teacher for black and brown students that I know they need and may not

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getting.

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So now I was able to do that. For nationwide, really internationally as well. And so it

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grew from

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there. And 2022, I made the decision to move to Chicago so I could pursue with a business full time. And 2020 happened. We went a hundred percent virtual. So we have a, a team of teachers who are, they are like, if you're, I was going to put this in an Instagram post, but they're, I feel like if you're a parent and you feel like your child's favorite teacher left the classroom, they're probably in my program. Okay,

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You should make

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make that

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post. Totally, like, come back and find your kid's

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favorite teacher. They

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come here, they come here. Okay.

Tami 6:45

I love that

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though,

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because what that means is right, and I think this is really important because I think sometimes people think teachers leave the classroom because they're not passionate about the work, and I actually think a lot of times it's because they're so passionate about the work and what they believe is best for kids, and there's so many other political pressures, business pressures, right? Coming down on educators, where they're not seen as the professionals able to make all

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these

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great decisions that you're talking about, like

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the right text, like, and especially

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right now, because this pendulum is shifting so far towards like, scripted curriculum, and That really just

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away

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the ability for educators

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respond

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in the way that kids need, and to really differentiate and support their needs. Like, I mean, I'm, I know I'm preaching the choir here, but like,

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yes. So

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back to, right,

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teachers

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don't always leave the

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classroom because they don't

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want to be a teacher. They're just trying to find other ways

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Yeah. to do what it

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is that matters for kids.

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Exactly. And be a human, you know,

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Yeah. That's what teachers are, human. Yeah, exactly. Exactly.

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whenever people ask me, I'm like, I can go to the bathroom whenever I want now. So. You know, when you teach, you, you've got three minutes in between passing periods, you know, so it's

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like

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little things like that. It's so freeing. And like you said, the way that politically it is, I, they, I would not have made it, you know, I don't, I teach middle school, but my, my mother is a college professor and she talked to us like adults, you know, I, I'm not good at sugarcoating things like this is what happened. And I can explain it in a way they understand, you know. Um, but yeah, I, I can't, it's not fair to them, you

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know. Yeah, absolutely.

Tami 8:38

Absolutely. I agree. I agree. I agree because

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I

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just feel like there's such a deficit mindset around. Kids and their ability

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and

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their agency. And, you know, when we think about, I'm going to

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jump

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for just one second,

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but you

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know, when you think about right.

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And diverse

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tax and they represent all this life. And like, I feel like people often think that students. Don't live in the world and experience the world and have things happening in their life and things, right? They don't walk around in a little bubble. We're not like they they are a part of it and They things are happening to them and they have feelings and they have family, you know, and when we

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ignore

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all of these things

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We're missing out like we're missing

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the opportunity

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right like I, agree,

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it teaching, you're not teaching your, you're doing a monologue, you know, like I've been in classes where they're like to a job and I taught and I did a demo lesson and they're like, the lesson was great, but why didn't you read the script? I was like, I'm sorry. I thought

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wanted

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me to like, no, like some schools really just want you to be there and read what they say and they train the children to respond and sit like,

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you

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know, cross legged and. I mean, call and response is cool, but also like, you know what I'm saying? These, these

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do. That's why I'm laughing right now. I know you all can't see

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me, but I'm laughing right now. Yes. Because,

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well, when it's an

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authentic call and response,

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right? Like, Hey, like at church, you

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know, that's cool. You know, respond how you want to respond, but they're like,

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or even

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students are really excited and engaged in a lesson and they're like, Oh my God, Dr. Dean.

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That's,

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you know, that made me think of this and this, like

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the

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ability to, yeah. For students to bring in connections, like

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their,

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bring in their funds and knowledge, bring in the connections. Like that is how we learn as humans. We are not robots. We are not assembly lines. And I am concerned how

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Yes.

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how

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we're moving in that direction.

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This,

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this idea of. You know, fidelity, and talked a little bit about this with Dr. Katrina Linder from, UW

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UW

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Oshkosh, where we were talking about the scripted, literacy curriculum, and how it's taking away the ability for people to have culturally responsive instruction, and to be creative. In their instruction, like all these things that you were just, just talking about, I want to empower educators with, in spite of, right, I want to think of it like this way, in spite of these things that are coming at you. You still have a voice and agency to try to integrate some of these components and pieces as best you can,

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right? Yes. I

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I mean, this work is important to me because to me it's advocating for educators, which at the end of the day is advocating for students.

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Yeah,

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And it's a calling on you and I feel like you're not moving in your purpose if you are trying to read from a script and it also when you are able to be vulnerable with students when students feel seen in your classroom, and that doesn't mean hip hop in the ABCs. I'm talking about students feel like authentically able to be

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themselves.

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You cannot teach that child if they don't trust you. So in order for them to receive whatever academic instruction you're going to give to them, you have to, to make them feel like this is a safe space for them. And we use that term a lot, but that's how you create those spaces. And so then they also feel safe to make mistakes. At the beginning of all of my tutoring sessions with my children and other teachers as well, we always start the first 10 minutes. We're not teaching. We are checking in with students. We are building that rapport. We are following up because if something is on that child's mind, if you don't acknowledge that, that's the only thing they're going to be thinking about. If something in the lesson could trigger what happened that you didn't cover because you didn't uncover it in the first place. I tell you what, when I used to teach in Harlem. You know, I, I'll teach in Harlem. You know what I'm

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saying? We would start,

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I started every, I started second semester. I started every class, I would turn the lights off and we would meditate because I even want you to shed anything that happened in the last class or anything that happened in lunch. So it's kind of like a reset, you know?

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So

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it's, it's very important and necessary because once you do that, forget the bell, forget your bell ringer. You only have 45 minutes in order to make that time. impactful, you have to remember that you are teaching human beings, you know?

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Yes.

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They are human

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beings. Absolutely. And absolutely. I think that's

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important. And I,

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And I

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think.

Tami 14:06

we sometimes miss the boat in this conversation. the focus on the academic, recognizing that you can't get deep in the academic, like you said, if there's all this other stuff happening. And I try to remind adults, children are smaller, younger humans. So think about how challenging it is as an

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adult to sometimes

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be in a space, maybe to go teach for the day. Maybe something really powerful is happening in your own personal life. The challenge going in to teach and trying to put that in the back of your mind, that's hard. That's hard as an adult person.

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Yeah.

Tami 14:55

So how do you think and make consideration for your young, emerging, learning humans,

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Mm hmm.

Tami 15:03

right? The same. And gosh, isn't meditation great for all of us? Like, doesn't

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that help as an adult person to, you know, like, let me just

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reframe. I love that how you said a fresh start.

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Yeah.

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Each class is a fresh start.

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Each day

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is a fresh

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start.

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I think

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that's

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really important with engaging in students because it's really easy to try to hold on

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to something that, you know, happened

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and,

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almost expecting perfection

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out of children That our children number one, but number two, they're human and none of us are perfection

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Right, right, right. And acknowledging that. And I also want to make sure that people, when we say easy, I don't want people to think that I got up there and led the class in meditation every day. That's not what happened. Okay. It would be the same three little YouTube videos on rotation. Yeah, I played that. And then kids get used to the structure, so they're, they're accused, you know, and humans are this. We're the same way when I'm at my desk. I mean, it's time to work. So I just

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to preface.

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I don't want people

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think

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like, Oh, I'm this, you know, holistic. I would do a guided minute. I ain't doing all of that, you know, because sometimes I

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need to sit

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at my desk reset. Yes.

Tami 16:28

tip right like build an comfortable system that you can Use effectively, efficiently, repeatedly, and it builds familiarity and comfort and comes back to that safe space you were talking about and building, like, I can anticipate. I know what's.

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coming. Yes.

Tami 16:50

and because I know what's coming and it's consistent, maybe I can let some of my walls down and let you in a little bit. Let's talk some more about your, your tutoring, what you do in your, your tutoring business there, how you

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integrate

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culturally responsive teaching. So tell me, tell me all the things.

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Yes. So everything I'm saying, like, that's exactly what we

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in

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all of our sessions, whether I'm teaching them or not, because it's built into the curriculum. so those brain breaks, those wiggle breaks, the best part, the most affirming part, and honestly, the part that I feel like makes students grow so much is the fact that it is culturally relevant. And so it's reflective of them. The kids are seeing images of themselves. As far as kindergarten, we go all the way up to high schoolers. And it's sparking curiosity. So in my program, students will grow at least three rate reading levels within 12

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weeks.

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Some kids grow five.

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And it,

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It is a transformative program, and I and I know I'm biased because I'm the owner and founder, but I'm the one I test every single kid that comes into the program. I do a reading test with them, and then I test them every three months. And when I first started doing it. I was like, okay, very nervous. But even to this day, I have so much data that shows that it still doesn't like that's the best part of it to see these kids grow and to

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able to

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read, read books and words that they were not able to before. And we're also instilling in them self confidence.

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because.

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now, I mean, you, once you have established it, I can, I can just do something confidently at that age that can catapult you into so many possibilities. My first, my first. Child my first student. he was

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uh, undiagnosed

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dyslexia. He was in second grade reading on a kindergarten level, and he's still in the program to this day, and he reads better than

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almost

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everybody in the he's in a different class now,

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um,

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And but it's beautiful because not only

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does he

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have this self confidence, he wants to be an architect. He wants to do all of these things. His parents are feeding that into him, but also it's he's he's sharing his light with other kids that he sees are also struggling just

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like he was

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and verbalizing that there's so much. emotion that goes into the classroom. Kids just say things without them ever being prompted. And I'm shocked every single time. And so I started recording it. And like this last year, I started, like, putting little snippets of it on my

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Instagram.

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Yeah.

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oh, my gosh. But the most

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thing was

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I had a group of middle schoolers and they were not You know, they're all kind of reading on

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levels

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they were all male. And the benefit of my program also is that I don't group students by, okay, this is a fifth grade class, a fourth grade class. I group them by level

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and age appropriateness.

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So Everybody is on

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same

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level. So there is this no stigma where such and such is reading better than such and such. And, you know, kids feel comfortable to, to, to practice reading. And we just got done with the session and these kids are like, they're 13 year olds, male, you know, reading isn't cool. You know what I'm

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saying? Oh, I do. I used to teach

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middle school. Mm

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We're here.

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And so we're logging off and he's like, okay, I love you guys. And I was like, oh

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gosh,

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that it just because that's how vulnerable and that's how comfortable we made this space. And

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so

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that also is a part of being culturally responsive. Right.

Tami 20:44

hmm.

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Learning is a collaborative experience, and we're able to create that in ways that the modern classroom is getting further and further away from. And once. You have that child who's able to feel comfortable. It's kind of like you're, you've got the wound open

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Now

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you can put the medicine in so it can heal, you know? So our medicine is our like reading methods and the texts that we pick out and You know, kids are reading also not just about things in the past, but things that are happening right now in the future, so they also

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know that they're

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an active part of history, and we talk about, you know, incorporating technology and so like all of these topics.

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so

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it is engaging for them, and they also it sparks curiosity and they want to learn more about it so I love it's like the ideal classroom, you know.

Tami 21:39

Yes. Yes. I, I, I appreciate that. And I, I hope one of the takeaways people really hear is that I think sometimes people think culturally relevant needs to be this like huge thing, but it really starts with building that community, the safe space. integrating meaningful connections with your students, right? Like I always say, be, be wary of like, I just picked the person at this book because there's a Brown person in there

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and

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it is, you know, do a little work around the authenticity

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around that,

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right? Like it's more than just picking the book because there's a Black or Brown person in the

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book or an Asian person in the book or an indigenous person in the book. Y'all. Okay.

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you got to go deeper than that. Right?

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Like, thank you. Like,

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I appreciate if you've started there. Now think about how do you really go deeper and

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ask the meaningful

Tami 22:36

questions there? So, oh, I love that. I love,

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no, Thank you. and

Tami 22:43

here's, here's what I think is, is super powerful. When kids get to see themselves, As a reader, because I think, especially when you get to middle school kids, they've almost been told for so long that they are not capable of being a reader. So I was a middle school teacher and I was working on my, Master's degree and was doing action research around culturally relevant texts. And I was, you know, my sixth grade, we were all the way like 10th grade reading levels, second grade

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level, like, yeah, yeah. I get you.

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I was there. I get

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you a whole gamut, right?

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bringing in books, we actually read, like, Bud, Not Buddy, this was part of my,

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um, master's research,

Tami 23:28

we read Bud, Not Buddy, and just the light from these students when we, you know, did community work, there was a lot of scaffolding, but it, like, the power of a text,

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People are like, where are more books?

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Like

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this, Mm hmm. Mm hmm.

Tami 23:45

right. And so when you see these kids take this on, like I had kids that I always think of this one young man in particular, he was always very hard on himself. His technical reading level when he came was like a second grade reading level, like, right, like he jumped back up to grade level by the time he left at the end of the school year. And that's when the

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goblet of fire

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came out. Okay. So this young man went from not reading to walking around reading the goblet of fire.

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Oh my

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gosh. In

Tami 24:15

his free

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time. Right, right. This book is this big, like, it's like, oh

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my gosh.

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And just image just always

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stays

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with me

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he's

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just like one example of a student and the power of feeling connection, being told you're capable,

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Yes

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being supported with ways to do that.

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Yes,

Tami 24:43

I don't even know, I don't even know where this

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man is.

Tami 24:48

I did run into one of those students in his class years later. Um,

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I

Tami 24:54

was working with, my undergraduate alma mater, and they had this Milano program. So where they would partner, previous first gen college students with new first gen students. And I was there and there was this guy who's doing his internship for his master's degree, you

Gabriell podcast 25:12

know, and there's just something

Tami 25:13

about him. Right. And it didn't click. I got home. I had an email. He was one of my sixth grade

Gabriell podcast 25:20

Oh my gosh.

Tami 25:23

and he had sent me this email about I just. Enjoyed being in your class. Like

Gabriell podcast 25:29

oh, I don't, you may

Tami 25:30

not remember me, but as soon as I saw his name written, I was like, Oh my God, I know exactly who you

Gabriell podcast 25:35

are. Yeah. Yeah.

Gabriell 25:36

Wow. Enter his map. That's amazing. That's

Gabriell podcast 25:40

right? So amazing. I just tell that

Tami 25:43

story just because

Gabriell podcast 25:45

it matters. you just don't even know

Tami 25:49

in what way it's going to come to fruition.

Gabriell 25:52

And you have to be okay with sitting with the fact that you may never know,

Gabriell podcast 25:56

but this is true. You You know, knowing that you

Gabriell 25:58

planted a seed and you just trust the process and, you know, hope that no one steps on that seed after you planted it. As well.

Gabriell podcast 26:11

Um,

Gabriell 26:11

and something else you said about but not buddy. I think when we think about culturally

Gabriell podcast 26:16

teaching,

Gabriell 26:17

we always focus on the cultural part, but then the responsive part. So when you hearing that your kids were like, we want more books like that. Okay, so then that's where we respond. And it, it really is. Even like in my business, going to see what works and then altering and adjusting and changing

Gabriell podcast 26:38

and being responsive

Gabriell 26:40

is being okay to sit with change. And I feel like as teachers were taught, they give us a structure, like 15 minutes for this, then this, and then some people are married to that and they feel afraid to deviate, but being responsive is being okay to, to sit with something and say, you know what, I'm going to have to put this aside because this is something that we have to address right now. And I was going to share this in the beginning but I will we talk about. Culturally responsive teaching. I used to raise all hell about teaching these black books in black history. I mean, I was going hard. I taught ELA for a long time,

Gabriell podcast 27:18

but my last

Gabriell 27:19

year teaching in

Gabriell podcast 27:19

classroom,

Gabriell 27:20

they're like, you know what, girl, we're gonna put you in social studies since you got so much to say.

Gabriell podcast 27:24

And I

Gabriell 27:24

I was like,

Gabriell podcast 27:24

like, whatever, you know, they're like, okay, fine. You

Gabriell 27:28

know, it's still reading. That's cool with me. And, one of my, uh, co teachers and friends and collaborative now, I was reaching out to her. I'd never taught social studies. So she was like, we're going to do, I mean, and she goes hard, you know? And so she was like, we're going to do this lesson. Like the first month we're just doing introductory, Like rapport building, culture building, that's what we're

Gabriell podcast 27:51

doing different from

Gabriell 27:53

ELA, you get maybe a week of

Gabriell podcast 27:55

that.

Gabriell 27:56

So I was

Gabriell podcast 27:56

okay, so the

Gabriell 27:57

first lesson we did, we created, was this, gender identity lesson. Which is a very, I mean, I was in New York,

Gabriell podcast 28:04

you

Gabriell 28:04

know, in the South, they would have kicked me out of school. And so, teaching different gender identities, and, and we made a gender person snowman, so people could know like how you feel in your head, how you identify. Your organs, how

Gabriell podcast 28:19

were

Gabriell 28:19

at birth. So we can give kids language because even the, the black and brown students that were in our class, everything is racist, racist, racist, racist.

Gabriell podcast 28:28

right

Gabriell 28:29

about classism. Um, they don't know about social, you know, so even when it comes to gender identity, people use gay as a derogatory word, you

Gabriell podcast 28:38

know, just

Gabriell 28:39

adults and children. So let's, let's, let's, let's give some names to things. So we understand what we're saying. And I was hesitant. I was

Gabriell podcast 28:46

I was like,

Gabriell 28:47

you know what, let's do it. Whatever. And so they're not gonna fire me. Y'all

Gabriell podcast 28:50

need to

Gabriell 28:50

teachers. That was like

Gabriell podcast 28:53

my mentality.

Gabriell 28:53

my whole

Gabriell podcast 28:54

teaching. That's spicy. I

Tami 28:57

I

Gabriell podcast 28:57

like it. Yeah. Yeah. So

Gabriell 28:59

it's a little problematic, but,

Tami 29:01

Well, welcome to the club, girl. Welcome to

Gabriell 29:04

exactly. So we do this lesson. I'm teaching them very responsive, very respectful. Um, because they understand this is serious. I tell you what I had in that moment. A child raised their hand. I had a couple of kids crying because they were members in their family that

Gabriell podcast 29:25

that they, they

Gabriell 29:25

had not been affirmed yet. I had some students who were struggling with their identities had not been affirmed yet. and, and they came to me in private and kind of expressed that to me. And, and, and

Gabriell podcast 29:38

sixth

Gabriell 29:38

grader let me know how thankful they were that we were able to have this conversation

Gabriell podcast 29:42

someone

Gabriell 29:42

in their house identified and, you know, wouldn't, wouldn't never know. Also, I had a child raise their hand. It was like, well, what happens if you see, you know, just asking me questions about situations they had experienced. So, we had to, Move away from that and respond and make it kind of like an open discussion

Gabriell podcast 30:04

because

Gabriell 30:04

these kids have so many questions and so many curiosities and as sixth graders, instead of asking questions a lot of time because it's not necessarily built into the lesson, they'll take that curiosity, they'll take that confusion and they'll turn it into jokes on each other back and forth.

Gabriell podcast 30:18

If you don't

Gabriell 30:19

address it about what it's supposed to be,

Gabriell podcast 30:21

And

Gabriell 30:23

I am so glad I did that in the beginning of my classroom at the beginning of the year, because that set the precedent that know where you can come to me for so many things late later on that that same child in that same class. And I took her laptop from her because something was wrong with it, so she gave it to me.

Gabriell podcast 30:44

I

Gabriell 30:44

opened up the laptop and it said, she, in her past history, how to kill yourself was in her search bar. And

Gabriell podcast 30:55

I was

Gabriell 30:55

like, did you mean to type this? And she was like, I did. And so we had a conversation. I transferred it over

Gabriell podcast 31:04

the

Gabriell 31:04

counselor. Her mom came in. We had a whole,

Gabriell podcast 31:09

uh,

Gabriell 31:09

you know, I was

Gabriell podcast 31:10

a school

Gabriell 31:10

that was able to

Gabriell podcast 31:12

wrap around her. Yeah,

Gabriell 31:14

But had I not had that

Gabriell podcast 31:17

have to

Gabriell 31:17

it in the beginning of the class at the beginning of the classroom, that child wouldn't have felt comfortable saying anything to me. And that's not the first time that has happened to me.

Gabriell podcast 31:25

But it's just because

Gabriell 31:27

as teachers, we kind of have to let go and be okay to be responsive to what our humans are needing in that moment. And it goes back to what you were saying, if we were dealing with something strong in our life, how effectively would we perform in whatever career that we're doing in that moment. So we have to remember that and, and focus also on that response and being okay with change. You know, I think type A people make great teachers, but being type A works only in certain situations when you're in the classroom dealing with 25

Gabriell podcast 32:04

little kids,

Gabriell 32:05

big kids, you know.

Gabriell podcast 32:07

I,

Tami 32:08

I do. I do. Wow. That's

Gabriell podcast 32:10

a powerful,

Tami 32:13

powerful story. I really appreciate you sharing that with us because those are just moments that you can't get back. If you think of it that way, right? And I know, like, for myself, I've never regretted spending time getting to know

Gabriell podcast 32:33

my students,

Tami 32:34

and I know that can feel really challenging in the current classroom environment with all of the pressures and timelines. And deadlines and talk of fidelity. It hurts my heart that we've forgotten that this isn't about a test. And I know that they exist. Right. And I know we're navigating in this unfortunate space around

Gabriell podcast 33:08

the importance

Tami 33:08

of them, but what happens there doesn't. matter if we're

Gabriell podcast 33:13

totally

Tami 33:14

disengaging from the humans and the human element of questioning and curiosity and, and critical thinking. And you said something about the kids asking questions and being curious. And

Gabriell podcast 33:32

and it made me think

Tami 33:33

that I almost, I think that these current initiatives are killing the curiosity in our students, because they come to us

Gabriell podcast 33:46

naturally curious.

Tami 33:49

Humans are naturally

Gabriell podcast 33:50

curious

Tami 33:51

beings, right? I mean, y'all have been around a toddler. I

Gabriell podcast 33:57

why? Why? Why?

Tami 33:59

Why? Or maybe I could try this, or

Gabriell podcast 34:01

I could do this, you know? Yeah.

Tami 34:03

And kids invent things. They're

Gabriell podcast 34:05

maybe I

Tami 34:05

could make a da, da, da,

Gabriell podcast 34:07

Yeah. Or I could think of

Tami 34:09

this and that, or right.

Gabriell podcast 34:11

And we need space. We need space for that. Mm

Gabriell 34:17

Mm hmm.

Gabriell podcast 34:17

Mm

Gabriell 34:18

Mm hmm.

Tami 34:20

need space.

Gabriell 34:21

The biggest thing, man, you're so right about that curiosity piece. And often as

Gabriell podcast 34:27

teachers,

Gabriell 34:28

we ask leading questions, you

Gabriell podcast 34:31

know,

Tami 34:33

Yes.

Gabriell 34:34

And so

Tami 34:35

Guess

Gabriell podcast 34:35

what's in my mind, kids. Exactly.

Gabriell 34:38

And then, you know, when the kid, they kind of like answering off the wall, you know, it's shut down, so we have

Gabriell podcast 34:46

make

Gabriell 34:46

sure we're actually, we're actually asking genuinely real questions.

Gabriell podcast 34:52

And

Gabriell 34:53

the best teaching advice I received was sitting in the silence.

Gabriell podcast 34:58

So when

Gabriell 34:59

you ask a question, and oh my gosh, you just imagine in your imaginary

Gabriell podcast 35:04

brain,

Gabriell 35:05

a thousand hands go up, you know, or the same kid answers, raises their hand, but being okay with silence. So kids can think, because if they're there, you don't even give them that space to do the critical thinking process. And then you ask a leading question, the kids are going to answer in a way that matches your lead. And so, They're just telling you what you want to hear, the right answer, just because that is what gets affirmed. Curiosity does not get affirmed.

Gabriell podcast 35:39

Rabbit,

Gabriell 35:39

rabbit trails don't get affirmed. Constant questioning does not get affirmed. What gets praised

Gabriell podcast 35:45

is

Gabriell 35:45

when you answer the question that the teacher wants. Tell her what you want to hear, you know.

Tami 35:52

And you do it quickly,

Gabriell podcast 35:53

right? Oh,

Tami 35:54

that's so powerful. Be comfortable in the silence. This

Gabriell podcast 35:56

a

Tami 35:57

good, this is a good action tip from today, right? Reflect on your wait time, the type of question you're asking and your wait time. I was a professor and I worked with pre service teachers getting them ready to be educators and this is something we talked about a lot because, you know, they ask a question and it's literally like 0. 5 seconds or one second and they're like, no one knows. Okay, well, what

Gabriell podcast 36:21

about

Tami 36:21

this?

Gabriell podcast 36:21

Or

Tami 36:22

we talked about this yesterday, right? They jump in. Y'all pause, just like, just reflect on that a little bit and just take a few more seconds or just keep waiting because here's the thing, someone's going to fill the silence. If you allow enough space in the silence, somebody's going to fill it.

Gabriell 36:47

And

Gabriell podcast 36:48

if it's a

Tami 36:48

question for clarifying.

Gabriell 36:49

that's what

Gabriell podcast 36:50

I was about

Gabriell 36:50

to say.

Gabriell podcast 36:52

That's exactly what I'm saying.

Gabriell 36:54

So adjust for that. Wait till they tell you they don't understand what you mean. Instead of you assuming, and then that person was thinking, thinking, thinking, be like, okay, well, I missed it. You know? So,

Gabriell podcast 37:07

Yes,

Tami 37:08

Oh my gosh. Yes. I love it.

Gabriell podcast 37:10

Oh my gosh. Right on the same page. like Yes. Yes. You there too. so, exactly.

Tami 37:15

so I know we talked about a little bit about how you choose texts and all these things. I think this kind of connects with curiosity too, right? Because when I

Gabriell podcast 37:24

myself

Tami 37:25

now, I'm more curious. So talk to me a little bit about, choosing diverse texts, using diverse texts, you know, all the things,

Gabriell 37:34

Yes. I, that is my favorite thing. I know this is a podcast,

Gabriell podcast 37:39

people

Gabriell 37:39

can't see my background. I know. But I've got this bookshelf with, with two lines of books. I used to have bookshelves full of books just because I am so grateful for the time that we

Gabriell podcast 37:51

live in,

Gabriell 37:52

where more people are, more people who look and experience life in different ways are telling their story.

Gabriell podcast 37:59

I,

Gabriell 38:00

and I would just. I wouldn't buy them up. I'd tell my principal, you need to buy this and we need to buy this. But it's so important. And also as teachers, we don't necessarily have time to read all the time, but something so you can kind of know what diverse texts are coming out. I've used to watch a lot of booktube, like YouTubers talking about diverse YA books that came out. Just so I can be in the know.

Gabriell podcast 38:27

And

Gabriell 38:28

that's important because it's bigger than you purchasing a book and putting it on the shelf. You gotta be able to introduce those books to kids when they're shelving through, Oh, you would like this one, you know? It's almost like I talk to my parents to get them

Gabriell podcast 38:44

like

Gabriell 38:44

reading. It's like how Netflix gets us to watch shows.

Gabriell podcast 38:47

It

Gabriell 38:48

has

Gabriell podcast 38:48

be

Gabriell 38:48

customizable. Everybody likes something that's specially made for them, and you can't recommend a book to a child if you just bought it because the cover looked nice, you know?

Gabriell podcast 38:59

Yes.

Gabriell 39:00

So there is some work that you have to do on the back end to put that story in the hand of the student

Gabriell podcast 39:07

they

Gabriell 39:07

can feel like it will match what they're going through. And I

Gabriell podcast 39:11

you

Gabriell 39:11

doing a good job of this, like putting like book recommendations and on your, I've, I've seen you

Gabriell podcast 39:17

So,

Gabriell 39:17

So very important. It's very important.

Gabriell podcast 39:21

And

Gabriell 39:22

with that, being okay with it, they're not going to always love everything they read, but, and it doesn't have to be like this drilling situation, like, Oh, what, what happened in the book? Did you even read the book? Just, you know what I

Gabriell podcast 39:37

just

Gabriell 39:38

like, let them.

Tami 39:39

I do. Sometimes

Gabriell podcast 39:40

books a DNR and

Tami 39:42

that's okay. Like didn't, oh, DNF did

Gabriell podcast 39:44

not mean that's right Yeah, Not

Tami 39:46

our, not DNR did not

Gabriell 39:47

knew

Gabriell podcast 39:47

what you were saying. That's okay. I know what you're saying. Thank you. Exactly. Yeah.

Tami 39:52

And that's okay. Like, but why? Okay. Like,

Gabriell podcast 39:55

that's a great question.

Tami 39:56

What was it about this book

Gabriell podcast 39:57

that didn't

Tami 39:58

hold your interest?

Gabriell podcast 40:00

Yeah, that's totally okay.

Gabriell 40:01

Exactly. And that's exactly when, when Netflix recommends something and we down it, they're like, okay, let me adjust and give you more of this stuff you'd like. And we got to do the same thing with our kids. So yes. Diverse books that that that is my jam and you asked the second part of the question, but I got so excited about talking about books.

Gabriell podcast 40:21

You know what? I actually don't

Tami 40:22

even remember what the second part of

Gabriell podcast 40:23

the question is.

Gabriell 40:25

you said curiosity and that's something else. I made this blog post. It was a while back

Gabriell podcast 40:30

and

Gabriell 40:31

I shouldn't have titled it this, but it was called, having children read inappropriate books. And by inappropriate, I mean books that are not for kids,

Gabriell podcast 40:41

And

Gabriell 40:41

I'm not talking about like romance novels and stuff like that. The best way to explain this is, when my, me and my, my mother would take us to the library, me and my little brother, and that was the only place where she could say, y'all can get whatever you want, as much as you want, because everything was free. And so, I was old, I'm older than my brother, and so I was allowed to go to the adult library.

Gabriell podcast 41:01

that downstairs to

Gabriell 41:02

look at the adult books and he was so upset that he was forced to be with the baby books. And so, my mom finally let him go down there and, and when I'm talking

Gabriell podcast 41:11

about.

Gabriell 41:13

Inappropriate books, I mean books where children don't know what the word means, and

Gabriell podcast 41:18

I'm, when I'm thinking about nonfiction books,

Gabriell 41:21

they have a lot of pictures, a lot of diagraphs, and, you know,

Gabriell podcast 41:26

yeah,

Gabriell 41:27

taking it away from them because they're like, Oh, you're not going to

Gabriell podcast 41:30

it. This is

Gabriell 41:30

kind of more your speed, you know,

Gabriell podcast 41:33

Um, yes.

Gabriell 41:35

So when she finally let him down there, he kept gravitating towards the ocean books and the pictures with fish. And, you know, he was like seven, you know, but

Gabriell podcast 41:45

long story

Gabriell 41:45

short, now he's a marine biologist

Gabriell podcast 41:47

because

Gabriell 41:48

We kept letting him explore and be curious. So when I talk about the type of text that we read in my tutoring sessions, I'm not just talking about pictures with black kids.

Gabriell podcast 42:00

I'm talking about.

Gabriell 42:01

when I say culturally responsive, like we're reading what they're doing on NASA today. Did you know that

Gabriell podcast 42:08

alligators

Gabriell 42:08

can still be frozen underwater and be alive at the same time? Let's talk about lowering the basketball hoop for men. That's true. And in women and NBA and WNBA, like, that's what I'm talking about. I pull articles and we got all this AI and people scared of AI. Let me tell you something. I put, I copied the article I put in AI and they take it to a sixth grade reading level. So we can still use that article, but

Tami 42:32

Mm

Gabriell podcast 42:33

change it

Gabriell 42:33

to the language that they need.

Gabriell podcast 42:35

So,

Gabriell 42:36

things like that, that you don't expect kids to get curiosity from it. I mean, like, Just exposure will spark that and that desire to learn and it's something that I, I now have the space to practice as an adult. I experiment with the, I started sewing, you know, I started growing, I started making bread, like you just have to, you have to practice it as well, you know. So,

Gabriell podcast 43:01

I do.

Tami 43:02

The idea of exposure is so important.

Gabriell 43:04

Mm-Hmm.

Gabriell podcast 43:05

And

Tami 43:07

the fact that you're, culturally responsive

Gabriell podcast 43:10

relevant texts

Tami 43:11

don't necessarily mean race. That is not what it means.

Gabriell 43:14

yeah, that's,

Gabriell podcast 43:15

us. There you go.

Gabriell 43:16

Yes.

Gabriell podcast 43:17

It does not

Tami 43:18

mean race. It means all kinds of And I think this notion about allowing

Gabriell podcast 43:26

kids to

Tami 43:27

to explore text is important, right? Because and I would, I would say this a lot I taught a lot of literacy methods courses, right? There's a purpose and an intent for a reading level, and a text level is a teaching

Gabriell podcast 43:44

tool

Tami 43:45

to help support their learning. Do you as an adult look at a book and go, is this my reading

Gabriell podcast 43:51

level? You

Tami 43:53

absolutely do not. You get the book because it's interesting to you and you may or may not understand all the things that are in it, but you gather from it, whatever it was that interests you. So there's being mindful of the purpose of engaging with particular texts for a particular purpose.

Gabriell podcast 44:14

purposes. Right? Like,

Tami 44:17

my heart used to break when I would take my kids, I'd

Gabriell podcast 44:19

them

Tami 44:19

to like Barnes and Noble or something, and

Gabriell podcast 44:21

like, you can pick out

Tami 44:21

one book, right? And we're in the kids section, and then I would overhear, another parent, and I, I believe they totally mean well,

Gabriell podcast 44:30

right?

Tami 44:31

You can't

Gabriell podcast 44:32

that

Tami 44:32

book, it's not in your reading level, and

Gabriell podcast 44:34

so, yeah.

Tami 44:36

I want us to be mindful as educators, what message are we sharing about that when it comes to this idea around curiosity, around texts, and when you're saying let them explore your story of your brother is a great, great example, right? Maybe he wouldn't have been a marine biologist

Gabriell podcast 44:53

if he hadn't.

Tami 44:54

That, you know, your mom hadn't allowed him the opportunity to

Gabriell podcast 44:58

engage

Tami 44:59

with those things. So, if you have book boxes in your classroom, allow them to just put some books in there that they're interested in.

Gabriell podcast 45:06

yes

Gabriell 45:07

Ex. I

Gabriell podcast 45:07

love that.

Gabriell 45:09

I love that. Mm-Hmm.

Gabriell podcast 45:10

they're still

Tami 45:11

reading, y'all. And actually, they get to practice some more complex processes and tools with engaging with text and problem solving independently, which is what the ultimate goal is.

Gabriell 45:25

Ex. Exactly. Exactly.

Gabriell podcast 45:27

exactly,

Gabriell 45:28

Is there? Yes.

Gabriell podcast 45:31

because then they're

Tami 45:31

going to ask a question. They might be like, you know, I don't, I don't really know. What does,

Gabriell podcast 45:35

Yeah.

Tami 45:36

what does this mean?

Gabriell podcast 45:38

Yeah. And that's learning. Wow.

Gabriell 45:42

It's a

Tami 45:42

a crazy concept.

Gabriell podcast 45:44

Right. Because that's what you do!

Tami 45:46

Like, I mean, I always think about, like, think about what you do as

Gabriell podcast 45:49

adult

Tami 45:49

when you are looking at something you don't understand, you go and ask questions, or

Gabriell podcast 45:52

you maybe

Tami 45:52

you go Google it now, right? It's okay if

Gabriell podcast 45:56

go

Tami 45:56

Google something that they want to learn

Gabriell podcast 45:58

for, what does this

Tami 45:59

word mean? Right? And, you know, always looking it up in the dictionary isn't always very helpful, because sometimes it just says the word,

Gabriell podcast 46:06

so. Yeah, yeah. And it's like 2024.

Gabriell 46:10

You know, kids need videos. They need background, you know, um, that is so I love that. And especially if

Gabriell podcast 46:17

interested

Gabriell 46:18

in it, you're going to want to know more about it. And also on the flip side, I have parents come to me and they're like, well, they

Gabriell podcast 46:24

just

Gabriell 46:24

read comic books. I'm I want them to read real books, you know? Okay. I get, I don't know.

Gabriell podcast 46:31

think

Gabriell 46:31

we just have this image of our avid reader just reading this big old chunk of

Gabriell podcast 46:36

you know,

Gabriell 46:36

you know?

Gabriell podcast 46:37

we

Tami 46:37

have a hierarchy of what we think is a, is a good text or a not good text. I absolutely agree with that. Comic books and graphic novels are really complex texts, y'all.

Gabriell 46:47

Yes,

Gabriell podcast 46:49

They,

Tami 46:49

they have to, they have to infer so much information.

Gabriell podcast 46:54

That

Tami 46:55

isn't written

Gabriell podcast 46:56

because they're interpreting

Tami 46:58

the

Gabriell podcast 46:58

multimodal ness

Tami 46:59

between the text and the images. So, it's actually a very complex text.

Gabriell podcast 47:05

Thank you.

Tami 47:06

it, so I just needed

Gabriell podcast 47:07

say

Tami 47:07

that because that drives me crazy. Listening to books is also a form of reading books.

Gabriell 47:13

That's how I read.

Gabriell podcast 47:14

Oh my god! I love, I love

Tami 47:16

me a, a, a, I love listening

Gabriell podcast 47:19

to a book. Especially when you have the

Tami 47:20

right narrators. I now

Gabriell podcast 47:22

have favorites. Readers

Tami 47:23

that I like to listen to.

Gabriell podcast 47:24

I know I'm like,

Tami 47:25

Ooh, this is my favorite. She does such a great

Gabriell podcast 47:27

job.

Gabriell 47:28

love that. I love that.

Gabriell podcast 47:30

So you can have

Tami 47:31

multiple experiences, right? I tend to listen more to fiction than nonfiction. Sometimes I'll listen to a nonfiction book. But I tend to like to write in my nonfiction books. But these are all things I've learned about myself because I was afforded the opportunity to engage with a variety of texts.

Gabriell 47:48

Mm-Hmm.

Tami 47:49

And I hope and want this for our students, right? Engaging with these texts. And I'm going to say an unpopular opinion.

Gabriell podcast 48:00

Not

Tami 48:00

everyone is going to love to read.

Gabriell podcast 48:04

Just,

Tami 48:05

just like not everyone loves math or history or, Or doing

Gabriell podcast 48:09

dishes or any

Tami 48:11

of those things, right? We, we have varying, varying degrees of love for certain concepts.

Gabriell podcast 48:16

But what I

Tami 48:17

do think is important that everyone has the opportunity to find and be exposed to texts that they find interesting

Gabriell 48:26

Mm hmm. Mm

Gabriell podcast 48:27

and engaging. Exactly.

Gabriell 48:30

And, and know how to seek information, whatever that looks like and whatever model that is for them. That is so important. That is so important. And when you do have those like comic books, it's a good way to create somebody who's an avid, they want to avidly consume something. And instead of like looking at the phone that you are giving, the comic books, they finish like that, you know, so it like be lean into that. And now there are some comic books that are turning, they turn into novels.

Gabriell podcast 49:08

Um mm-Hmm. that same child I was

Gabriell 49:10

you about, my first child who was reading second grader, reading on a kindergarten

Gabriell podcast 49:14

level. Mm-Hmm. He's doing great now. He started, he,

Gabriell 49:17

one of the books he started getting into was Dragon Wings and

Gabriell podcast 49:20

it's his comic book.

Gabriell 49:21

Oh yeah, yeah. And they also have a novel version. And they've got some sort of cartoon, so, you know, when you can just marry all these, this media, like, I get so excited when books that I've read become novels, because now it feels like I'm You know, a part of this fandom, so you can create that also for your child in different ways, too. So, you know, give, give them that comic book, y'all. Let them read the comic book.

Gabriell podcast 49:49

Let them read

Tami 49:50

the comic book. Let them read the graphic novel.

Gabriell 49:52

Yes,

Gabriell podcast 49:53

Absolutely.

Tami 49:54

Absolutely. I love that. I feel like I could just keep talking to

Gabriell 49:58

I know.

Gabriell podcast 49:59

Forever. And I love it. I love it.

Tami 50:02

Y'all, I will drop in the show notes, just some folks to follow if you, Because it's important. You don't, you don't need to know all the texts that exist. There are some great people that put out diverse text lists, new book

Gabriell podcast 50:17

lists,

Tami 50:17

I will drop some of those

Gabriell podcast 50:19

um,

Tami 50:19

in the show notes for you to go follow these folks.

Gabriell podcast 50:22

I promote them also on my

Tami 50:23

Instagram page because I think it's so important

Gabriell podcast 50:27

to

Tami 50:27

just know what's out there and explore and

Gabriell podcast 50:30

You

Tami 50:30

can't know all the things. So how do you use your resources to support your ultimate outcomes for what you want to bring to your students? So exactly like Gabrielle said, you can't read all the books.

Gabriell podcast 50:40

There's

Tami 50:40

no shame in that use your resources use your tools, but As we get ready to kind of

Gabriell 50:46

Mm

Gabriell podcast 50:46

bring him

Tami 50:47

bow on this today, I always love my guests to share a pro tip, with our, listeners. Just a tip for educators who are wanting to, or in the midst of engaging with this work.

Gabriell 51:02

Oh, I would say, Lean into

Gabriell podcast 51:08

learning

Gabriell 51:08

from the classroom that

Gabriell podcast 51:11

going to

Gabriell 51:11

be in, I would say,

Gabriell podcast 51:14

Don't necessarily

Gabriell 51:15

lead with this hard outcome of, I want to go hard and be this, you know, grand activists and all of this lead with empathy. And if you can lead with that and teach into that and lean into that. Um, also giving yourself grace and not expecting. Like you said, you don't have to know all of the things, but leading with empathy and learning from the students like that is the number one thing. Okay. The second part of that is keeping in mind that you are teaching and raising students with the goal in mind of how they can be agents of change in their communities. Okay. So almost every lesson

Gabriell podcast 51:59

lead

Gabriell 52:00

and like, be like, okay, how can you apply this in the future? So what I would do is and I was teaching social studies, but if you teach, reading and you're getting lessons from books, math, you have to make it applicable to the real world. So I would even put my kids names in their futures. So I would say, When Rain wants to become, when Rain is a lawyer and she is working on X, Y, and Z, she'll have to remember this, or for example, if I, even something as small as vocabulary, I put my kids names in vocabulary that is affirming their futures.

Gabriell podcast 52:38

So

Tami 52:38

Yes.

Gabriell 52:44

the goal. And if

Gabriell podcast 52:45

lead

Gabriell 52:45

with that, and that's what we talk about passion and best intentions for our students,

Gabriell podcast 52:51

take

Gabriell 52:51

yourself out of the center. You know,

Gabriell podcast 52:55

yes, this is not.

Gabriell 52:57

an audience for you. And this is something I had to tell myself, you know, because I wanted to be a teacher I never got. So I'm thinking about teaching to baby Gabrielle. Yeah. And it's like, No, get yourself out of

Gabriell podcast 53:10

Yes.

Gabriell 53:11

be that teacher, but look at who you're teaching and be okay to share

Gabriell podcast 53:17

the mic.

Gabriell 53:17

And if you have a problem doing that, change the desk around like that audience situation we got going. Hey, I used to change

Gabriell podcast 53:26

desk up

Gabriell 53:27

all the time, you know,

Gabriell podcast 53:29

just because

Gabriell 53:30

it decentralized

Gabriell podcast 53:31

decentralized your

Gabriell 53:32

classroom. Okay, maybe that's what the word

Gabriell podcast 53:36

That's good. You know, and

Gabriell 53:38

often our classrooms reflect the

Gabriell podcast 53:41

capitalism that is oppressing us

Gabriell 53:44

as teachers. Don't get me started, girl. I got a lot to

Gabriell podcast 53:46

to say.

Tami 53:47

Whoo. You know, I mean, that's a whole

Gabriell podcast 53:49

word right there. yes,

Tami 53:54

they are. They are

Gabriell podcast 53:55

Decentralize. Decentralize.

Tami 53:58

Because that brings the community piece that you've been talking about. Yep. Absolutely. It's not about you. I've said that in previous episodes. I'm like, it's not about you. It feels like it is because it's, it's quote unquote your, you know, your classroom, but it's actually all of your classroom. It's a community and you are a member of that community. Of the community. You're the leader of the community,

Gabriell podcast 54:23

but

Tami 54:25

the best leader empowers their team and your students are your

Gabriell 54:29

Yeah, yeah. And they start to lead.

Tami 54:33

Yes! Yes, they do.

Gabriell podcast 54:35

they start to lead. They will take it

Tami 54:38

on when you give them the space to do it.

Gabriell 54:40

yeah. How can you see if it's working if you don't give them a chance to shine?

Gabriell podcast 54:45

you know,

Gabriell 54:46

I mean, really, y'all, we got to rethink our checks for understanding. Okay, we got, let's get creative with that. We got all this AI, chat GPT. Okay, it's bigger than write an essay, answer the worksheet, answer these questions. I know it's easy, but now we have something that can do that level one work. Let's get into the deeper work. Okay.

Tami 55:13

I will

Gabriell podcast 55:13

will push back on that a little bit.

Tami 55:14

Is it really understanding if you can just fill in the

Gabriell podcast 55:17

blank?

Tami 55:21

That, that feels like a whole nother

Gabriell podcast 55:23

episode. It is.

Gabriell 55:24

it

Gabriell podcast 55:25

It is. It is.

Gabriell 55:27

it

Gabriell podcast 55:28

Okay, so we're gonna end,

Tami 55:29

we're gonna end on that note,

Gabriell podcast 55:30

y'all. Remember,

Tami 55:33

power your learners. Build the community for engagement, critical thinking, all the things. Gabrielle, it has been such a pleasure and I'm, I'm going to put a link also to Gabrielle's website in the show notes, innovative learners, check her out to support your students, your kids. if you're in CPS, she's an approved

Gabriell podcast 55:52

provider.

Gabriell 55:53

appreciate that girl,

Gabriell podcast 55:55

Yes, I am. That's amazing for my Illinois,

Tami 55:59

Friends and colleagues and share this out. So it has been such a pleasure and thank you all for listening into the dragonfly rising podcast. If you are interested in, some one on one and learning more about this, set up a free consultation with me, reach out to Gabrielle, get some tutoring for your kids. And remember y'all use your voice for good today. So thank you so much.

Gabriell 56:24

thank you