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8 Things Dads Should Never Say to Their Kids
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We've all said something we thought would be helpful only to later regret the harm we caused. We had good intentions, but still messed up. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to discuss the lasting impact a father's words can have on his children. They unpack common phrases dads often say without realizing the damage they can cause and offer healthier, more encouraging alternatives that build confidence in kids.
Why This Matters
A father's words often become a child's inner voice, making it critical to speak truth, encouragement, and love with intention.
Key Takeaways
· Avoid labels, comparisons, and discouraging statements that attack your child's identity instead of addressing their behavior.
· Encourage effort, growth, and resilience without offering false praise or unrealistic promises.
· Sometimes the most powerful message isn't a perfect speech—it's consistently reminding your children they're loved, believed in, and never alone.
Practical Tips for Dads
1. Replace criticism of your child's identity with coaching about their choices or behavior.
2. Follow through when you promise your child your time, showing them they are a priority.
3. Make encouragement a daily habit by telling your children you believe in them, you're proud of their effort, and you love them unconditionally.
Important Episode Timestamps
[00:00] What Should Dads Stop Saying to Their Kids?
[00:50] The Night BJ's Son Wrote His Article for Him
[03:50] “Why Can’t You Be More Like Your Brother?”
[05:49] "I Don't Have Time Right Now.”
[09:03] "I Don't Think You Can Do It.”
[12:04] "You're Such a Disappointment.”
[15:08] "Don't Be Such a Wimp.”
[16:47] The Danger of Labels — Even the Ones Said as a Joke
[18:19] "You Can't Do Anything Right.”
[19:40] “Why Didn’t You ____?”
[22:12] Nothing.
[23:28] This Week's Pro Move:
Ask your kids, “Have I ever said anything that hurt you?” Listen to their response and own it.
Quotable:
“I don’t think dads have bad hearts. I think we have bad habits.” - Ted
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All Pro Dad Resources:
Episode 8 – What Are 7 Things A Son Needs From His Dad?
Episode 9 – What Are 7 Things A Daughter Needs From Her Dad?
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