The Brain: Rewards & Punishment Systems Of The Brain Pt. 2

Your brain is running on autopilot 95% of the time, making decisions you're not even aware of. That glass of orange juice you just grabbed? Your conscious mind didn't choose that—your subconscious programming did.Neuropsychologist Dr. Paul Dyer takes us deep into the fascinating world of brain chemistry and how it controls our lives without our awareness. The brain's reward system—powered by dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, and endorphins—doesn't discriminate between healthy and harmful stimuli. It simply registers pleasant spikes regardless of whether they come from achievement or self-destruction.This explains why we stay stuck in damaging patterns and relationships. Your brain remembers what creates those neurochemical rewards and subconsciously steers you toward similar situations, even when they hurt you. The pleasure center has no picture of why it's firing—it just knows what triggers the response and seeks more.Dr. Dyer explains that reprogramming requires bringing subconscious habits into conscious awareness through intentional action. When you announce your intentions before acting, even for something as simple as getting a drink, you begin shifting control from automatic programming to conscious choice. Self-forgiveness plays a crucial role too, helping cement new neural pathways rather than leaving them as temporary changes.What makes this conversation especially powerful is understanding that past experiences aren't emotional wounds to overcome—they're simply information that can be reconfigured for better outcomes. Your thoughts create your reality, but who's creating your thoughts?Ready to take control of your own programming? Dr. Dyer is offering NYP Talk Show listeners a special opportunity—his six-week reprogramming course for just $50 (normally $200). Email NYPTalkShow@gmail.com with subject "Dr. Dyer Reprogramming Program NYP

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Speaker 1: 0:21

Peace. How are you doing? It's your brother, Mikey Fever. Welcome to NYP Talk Show. Monday night we have the great doctor in the building, Dr Paul Dyer. Tonight we'll be talking about the brain, rewards and punishment systems. This is part two. I missed out on part one but I'm here tonight to make up for that. Hope everyone's having a great time. Great day. Hope the weekend was great. Peace to the family. Peace to Ron. Di fell out for a second. He's coming back in right now. Let's let him in. He's in the lobby waiting. I got you, Doc. I'm letting you in right now, brother.

Speaker 2: 1:01

Hey, sorry about that. People and family.

Speaker 2: 1:04

Hey sorry about that. People and family. Every time I with this show, particularly when we come on, it kicks my head set off. I don't know, man, welcome Mondays to you. Know, let's go back into reprogramming, right, and what we talked about last, people we talked about last week, and then I'll bring it up a little bit. But here you know, I'm privy to a lot of great information because of the different places I've been, people I still talk to and for the reasons I still talk to them, and that's fine. But looking at studies and being in think tanks and looking at what is going to be, and for people to not take the opportunity seriously, what they get from a show that allows them the information to ask people who are in spaces some particular questions I.

Speaker 2: 2:15

I am a flipping scientist maybe you know, like, like the things, the things I have dubbed into in in time, I pulled out to try, so I I offered this thing on social media, I think it was on LinkedIn. It was a course for $199. Right, I only took a limited people. I think it was the first time, it was 10. The next time I moved it to 20. And it filled out within three days. Beautiful, right, and this is virtual. This is virtual. It filled out in three days. And but everyone that's in that room that I'm doing a virtual how to reprogram what the brain does, why the brain does what it does, they, they have paid me like we go into depth so you can really learn, but they pay me 200, $200 for six week course to learn how to reprogram.

Speaker 1: 3:15

Wow, nice.

Speaker 2: 3:16

And we're only visiting an hour a week. Now, here's what I'm. Here's what I'm getting at is that I charge people probably this I give them the same information I'm giving new york perspective appreciate it but they get it for like it's limited because not everyone's there to ask questions and people are maybe not really diving into it like they did if they paid for the course. I don't know, but I'm teaching other people who don't look like me or look like you and they are wanting to know the information.

Speaker 1: 3:59

I get where you're taking this. I understand.

Speaker 2: 4:01

It seems troubling, doesn't it, Mikey?

Speaker 1: 4:04

It does because they're not taking advantage of what the information is giving. Others are paying dollars for it. Others are seeking to do the work, to know what's going on, to question themselves. You got some people who are just very either they're too occupied or just don't have any interest in wanting to learn.

Speaker 2: 4:22

Yeah, but when we put it out, when New York Perspective puts it out and says hey, every Monday you get to ask a scientist, an emotional scientist, a neuroscientist, a neuropsychologist, a question Motion detectors at the doctor?

Speaker 1: 4:39

Yeah, they won't. They won't ask, people won't ask.

Speaker 2: 4:41

Right, it's literally you have an opportunity to ask a question to someone that you might not be able to ask a question to.

Speaker 3: 4:51

Yeah.

Speaker 2: 4:52

And this is about living. This is not about speculation.

Speaker 1: 5:00

Oh man.

Speaker 2: 5:01

Right, this is about the living scientists, the living science, so it's not about what if?

Speaker 1: 5:09

That's all right, don't worry, I see you hitting that, giving that.

Speaker 2: 5:18

It's not about what is. It's about what actually is the science behind it, right yeah? What actually is the science behind it right, so it's not like what would it take? Me to be an NBA if I was Kyrie. Right, that's speculative. Muscle speculation, eye coordination, just off the bat, so you're asking him how to be him.

Speaker 1: 5:42

That's difficult, I'm asking how to be him. That's difficult. I'm asking how to be you.

Speaker 2: 5:45

Yeah, I'm actually giving you ways to be a better you and people still not as inquisitive as to be someone else.

Speaker 1: 5:56

Got you. So I want to say this, because I missed last week's show. I was listening to it. So what I did pick up and what I have written in my notes is that the brain, reward and punishment systems are the fundamental motivation for decision making and behavior.

Speaker 2: 6:12

Right. So, because we were getting into dopamine serotonin and we were talking about I can't pronounce that word.

Speaker 1: 6:22

Is it the neuro? I can't Forgive me. Is it the neuro? I can't pronounce it? Forgive me. Neuropinephrine, something like that, if I'm saying it correctly.

Speaker 2: 6:34

The prime field? Which one are you talking about?

Speaker 1: 6:36

It's one of those transmitters, like the dopamine, serotonin and the.

Speaker 2: 6:42

So you have dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin and endorphins. You have the, so you have um. You have dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin and endorphin all right.

Speaker 1: 6:50

So that's probably that endorphin is the neuro neuropinephrine, something like that yeah, it's, that's the endorphin, right?

Speaker 2: 7:00

so, and and what this? When we were talking about you know how to change our thinking into a reward system so we get the benefit instead of negative talk. One of the things, as I did say, is for people to give themselves grace and forgiveness. Grace and forgiveness, reward yourself, saying I did something good, or make a decision to do something instead of doing something so habitual, like we talked before. If you're so one-sided by right-handed or left-handed, be intentional about doing things and reward yourself for the things you're doing.

Speaker 1: 7:45

That's a fact that makes sense. It's true.

Speaker 2: 7:49

Because it seems like why should I reward myself from getting a glass of orange juice Prior to you rewarding yourself? You somehow, in a thought, led you to go get orange juice. The problem is is that you don't know what triggered the thought to get orange juice, so you're being moved and guided by triggers that 95% of your subconscious makes. So if you don't know, you're making the decision, and why, then it's the subconscious that we're trying to reprogram, and the only way to do that is to bring it into a conscious level. I would like to go get a glass of orange juice. Give yourself a reason, and I'm proud of myself for it.

Speaker 1: 8:48

Got you More self-awareness, thanks, a Consciousness, and I believe we did touch on that when I said that the subconscious mind is like a hypervisor in a virtual computer environment. It's just the platform, software that allows you to build most, that allows you to host multiple computers. So for an individual to be more conscious of that, as you mentioned, to be full of intention of what you're doing, you know how can one, how can you take one from the process from a to a to b, to get into that.

Speaker 2: 9:19

Well, it so to not be humans become habit forming because it used less energy. So you didn't not do anything correctly. Let's go with that way. I'm not saying that we're all fucked up when we were born. No, we didn't do anything incorrectly saying that we're all fucked up when we're born. No, we didn't do anything incorrectly. It's just that as we live on certain places, environments and planes, we have to adapt to be more efficient so we're able to use the other stuff for more complex things got you, you.

Speaker 2: 10:04

Got you. That's how we developed to be a bigger brain. So when we developed habits, I did not have to use some of the carbohydrates, some of the proteins, some of the oxygen in my brain cell to do that task it's just, it's just ritualistic, it's a second nature, got you right so now, because I brought it into subconscious, habitual actions say I use five.

Speaker 2: 11:10

I use 5% on just habit stuff but I use 30% on conscious stuff. So I want to keep things, you know, streamlined, so I try to bring things into a habit forming. So when I'm ready to do big things and big problem solving, I can use my brain protein, I can utilize my carbohydrates, that I need my water intake, you know, because your brain needs it right.

Speaker 3: 11:43

Exactly.

Speaker 2: 11:43

I mean it needs a lot of it actually.

Speaker 1: 11:46

A lot of nourishment and resources. It does yep.

Speaker 2: 11:49

So what we have failed to do is keep advancing our brain by with complex things that we are afraid to learn. That's how we keep, otherwise our brain becomes so fast and efficient subconscious mind field and you can't stop it. And then you become consciously aware of what the subconscious has just been letting it flow in.

Speaker 1: 12:36

Got you. So I have a question for you. Yeah, cut your wisdom, like just to like, because listening to this it's like, as you saying this, it's like so many thoughts are running through my mind. So I'm like I'm thinking outside, stimulants, stimuli, the triggers within yourself, right, and like dealing with this like, I'm looking at this like I might. So the brain structure, right. Which part of the brain structure is primarily responsible for processing fear or aversion? Is that all part of the subconscious or that's another part of the brain?

Speaker 2: 13:07

Well, okay, so the process, the first process comes from the brain, parts like the prefrontal cortex and things like that, yeah, and the medulla. It comes from how it enters there, right? So how it enters there, it's how it gets processed. Got you?

Speaker 1: 13:32

Wow Does that make sense? No, it does. I get processed.

Speaker 2: 13:34

Got you. Wow, does that make sense?

Speaker 1: 13:36

No, it does. I get what you're saying. So when you say that, back to what you're saying, because I wanted to know since our formidable years growing up we accepted what our parents told us, our peers and whatever else is within our environment. How can one actually break that? Because it's easy to say I'm going to go sit down with a psychiatrist, I'm going to have therapists, but how can one actually hone into themselves to really break those barriers?

Speaker 2: 14:04

And that is exactly what I'm talking about. It is to give yourself that reward, those that reward If you, because if you don't, then you're just working off of a program and, like I said, it has to be so simple for you to be in tuned into it. The awareness has to be so high. That's why, when you have the time and I get it, when people hustle and bustle, but give yourself seconds or whatever in a day to try to release some releases those oxytocins, and it actually makes your organs feel a lot more healthy and more alive because of the chemicals that's being released.

Speaker 1: 15:04

Got you Wow.

Speaker 2: 15:06

So just think of it that way. So when you start building self-intention and this is why when people say, well, let me teach you how to be intentional, it'll change your life. The reason why is because it changes the whole chemistry of how your body's performing. You perform better, you think faster, you gain more. It's not some magical potion, but when we're talking about the reward system and a negative and a bad, remember the reward system, the pleasure center, a part of their brain, or the reward system, however you want to call it doesn't have a picture of why it's being triggered.

Speaker 2: 15:51

It's just firing right, yeah, it could be. It's just firing right, yeah, it could be. You just got punched in the face and your part of the brain spiked.

Speaker 2: 16:03

It doesn't say I can't believe he likes being punched in the face. Remember that part of the brain does not have a picture. It's only your visual illusion. It's only your visual illusion. But if you didn't know that your brain is spiking on violence, then it's going to find another way to get that same high. But it knows. The brain remembers, it knows it gets some sort of violence. So somehow it's going to create something in the external world where it gets that spike. Even if it's getting into the argument with the same person about the same thing over again, I know I'm getting the same juice.

Speaker 1: 16:46

You know what, dr Dias? You just did something to my understanding From what you started off with the introduction of the show and how you break down everything. Without the um, the reaction, the brain doesn't know how to differentiate what is, what is um favorable in a person's favor, what is productive and what is destructive. And, as you say, constantly being in an environment of trepidation, the body doesn't know how to relax itself to the mind. So it's like when you said earlier, you know our people don't get involved in these circles where you're at, I'm like you know what. He just made a connection. So you say our people just stuck in a reactionary state at this moment.

Speaker 2: 17:29

Yes, and that's why I became. That's why I became an emotional scientist is because I realized what that circle was and how it became. You know, it may have started in a bad place for a person, but what does it really do to that whole circle, that circle of travel? It does. And now people, you know, like I said, when people start talking about for a long time and there's nothing that has never been said before, is what you think, is what you are Right, I think it's been said for for probably since Copernicus, because they knew then that what we have been denied to know now, that people do know that thoughts have powers and things like that.

Speaker 2: 18:26

but the internal voice is stronger than anything because it's a running program of your whole life. So when you try to reprogram your subconscious level you have to put in some real dedicated work that keeps you what you call so complexly aware.

Speaker 1: 18:58

Got you To add on to what you're saying and to my understanding, it's basically if you don't have total control of your mind, subconscious mind, within that moment, when operating on that level of just constant survival whatsoever can lead to some kind of disorder, correct?

Speaker 3: 19:18

Correct.

Speaker 2: 19:20

And that's exactly so. That's so you, you, you did it right which had a board. So once so you're in a train, right, new Yorkers, people who run mass transportation, if you're on a bus route and a train, you don't have a say so, a how it gets there.

Speaker 3: 19:48

But you do know you get off at a certain stop.

Speaker 2: 19:54

Yeah, the subconscious is like mass transportation. The problem with the subconscious is that, as in mass transportation, there is no limit to how many things are getting on as you're moving towards that destination. When chaos comes about, it's just a matter that is bound to happen, because you're riding mass transportation and you don't have direction until you get to the chaos.

Speaker 3: 20:32

Yeah.

Speaker 2: 20:33

Then it kicks in for that moment. Are you going to stay or are you going to leave Almost, like it gives you that choice moment? Are you going to stay or are you going to leave Almost, like it gives you that choice? Because it's so habitual and it creates that spike more often. People stay in the chaos, not knowing, not wanting to know the fear or the spike of I got to climb higher.

Speaker 2: 20:58

I got to do so much more. I got to do, I got to do, I got to do, I got to do. Whatever, how it's creating that spike in that reward system, in that dopamine area, it moves into the body a certain way.

Speaker 3: 21:12

Wow man.

Speaker 1: 21:16

So all this is so when you see somebody with an addiction and then they say it's an illness, they don't know because they're feeling good at the moment, but they don't see how detrimental it is to themselves. But the mind is saying this is good for you, don't that feel good? Wow.

Speaker 2: 21:32

Right, right. So you're so correct, mikey. The mind is human management. They're very technical up in there in your brain, but the mind is human management. The brain is just a factory of workers. They have nothing to do with the outside world, but so the mind's got to create the picture that it needs for it to get its return or its protection or whatever it's desiring for it to have. When you don't have or live in a conscious awareness way. Conscious awareness way, I know I started learning it when I was a small child because I got into martial arts and martial arts on in a in a in a really good school schools that I've been in control of. We care about that mind part, that sitting part to be sit, because all that's got to come out of you for you to build the tool to be a person that you want to build, all that stuff's got to come out. That's why the military works right, basic training it works so much. It works all that nonsense out of you, so now they're allowed to pour into you.

Speaker 1: 23:03

So basically break you down and rebuild you.

Speaker 2: 23:06

But we can do that ourselves. It's just that, just like if you ever tried to. I don't know if your children have ever been misbehaving, but you didn't want them to do something they want to do at that time. That's you. For the X amount of years you got to go to reprogram all the time. Wow.

Speaker 1: 23:30

Yeah, that's true. That's your reflection, right? Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2: 23:34

If you can picture a two year old going no, I don't want to. That is what you're saying. Two-year-old going no, I don't want to. That is what you're saying to yourself every time you're not consciously aware of your actions.

Speaker 1: 23:47

Wow. So adults, a lot of us walking around here, not even within our real being, we want other people, projectors, to be. Basically, I was talking about that over the weekend. There's projection in everything else. So, for instance, say, like you know somebody's in a bad relationship, right, you know a woman, right, and they have a fear of wanting to separate because they got to deal with the outside judgment of family and friends.

Speaker 2: 24:23

See, that's part of the brain I love and being part of the testing and being part of it, because your actions, of how you are creating the spike, has a minute of a connection that logic plays. It is so small, so logic cannot defer frequency. Got you Right Logic cannot defer frequency. Logic cannot defer frequency. But the part of the penile gland, the part of the gland that sits right in the center part of your brain, yes.

Speaker 3: 25:15

It surpasses logic to the highest level of compassion.

Speaker 2: 25:18

so you either go to blow past that milli of a second opportunity to rise to compassion or fall to the other side of habitual habits and conditional thinking mmm damn, it's so much.

Speaker 1: 25:42

The brain is so Such a complex, it's such a complex Organ to study Because, you know, as you said before, with this whole AI thing, it's us that's putting it into AI.

Speaker 2: 25:57

Correct See AI is learning everything. It's already learned what has been written and into AI. Correct See AI is learning everything it's already learned what has been written Anyone who does not speak anymore. They've already captured all that information already.

Speaker 3: 26:14

And it's just now.

Speaker 2: 26:15

Every time there's a new input, every time there's a new type or whatever you're doing, that's a part of it. It's learning right. So on some of your feeds or whatever, as you know that if you're not a learning person, where you're actually searching for things, it just brings stuff to you. Well, the outside environment's been doing that to you all the time. It just keeps handing over things to you to keep you on a lower level frequency so you cannot reprogram your conscious back into a conscious state. It increases the 95% of the subconscious.

Speaker 1: 27:05

Do you see the comment right there?

Speaker 2: 27:07

Yeah, even orgasm releases oxytocin and can be addictive. Yeah, you're correct. And they just happen to fabricate it that it's the act, that it's what they're addicted to, but really they're addicted to the release they're getting, right. So the act is the sex act or whatever. The act is the act. That's what I mean. You can put anything in that box. The act is the act, good, bad, whatever paradox. The act is the act, good, bad, whatever. How your human words want to put on it. It we're just talking about the release of what it's getting from it and what the body's like.

Speaker 1: 27:48

Hey, I, I like that, I want more of it see, I was gonna say a joke, did not be facetious. At the moment I'm gonna hold that. I'm a whole lot of you know what, what I'm saying? I was going to say you know, homes had thousands of baby oil bottles. I'm like, yeah, maybe it was.

Speaker 2: 28:04

Yeah.

Speaker 1: 28:10

But it's so true what you said in great respects to you and what you do in your craft and your studies, like is the mind. So it's like, as you were saying, ai. I was thinking back in old neurologist testing when they hook up the person brain to the cat, scan the parts of the brain, light up and everything else to know what the person like, say a person's mute, right the words can the language actually forms in the brain, correct? It, it forms in the brain, so that's why people have strokes.

Speaker 3: 28:40

Sometimes they can't move All right.

Speaker 2: 28:46

So here's what we're going to do.

Speaker 3: 28:47

Right.

Speaker 2: 28:49

For the show. It's $200 for everybody else. For anyone who does the show, I'll close. For anyone who does with the show, I'll close. So I'll just have a block just for New York perspective people who pay for? The six-week class, but they have to contact you to show. The slots are only open for 10. And I will only charge $50.

Speaker 1: 29:21

You hear that, people, for anybody who wants to be part of Dr Dyer's program. You can email us at our email, which is NYP talk show at Gmail, or you can email me at Mikey fever, nyp at Gmail, and I promise you I will relay that information to Dr Dyer and he will and he will take care of you. He's giving you a dope discount for those who want to study the mind and learn more, to be in tune with themselves, to be a better, greater version of you. I might, I will even do it myself, because I still got to come to you for that one session. I was like you know, I got to talk to Dyer because he so so I'm going to close it on April 10th.

Speaker 1: 30:00

April 10th All right.

Speaker 2: 30:04

So here's the experiment, right, Mikey?

Speaker 3: 30:07

Yeah.

Speaker 2: 30:08

How many?

Speaker 3: 30:10

In 10 days.

Speaker 1: 30:13

How many want to do it? They want to get help. Yeah, seriously, Because you know. Well how about just?

Speaker 2: 30:19

to know what if they didn't want how? About what if they didn't know what type of help they really needed Like, or know how the information? It's still more beneficial because this way you can figure out what kind of help it might be suitable for you. I don't know, that's not true. I do know how to build a house, but if I was to learn from someone how the house is built, this way, when I go get a builder to build my house, I may not know how to do it, but I can tell you if they're doing it wrong.

Speaker 3: 30:56

Because I was taught.

Speaker 2: 30:58

You see what I mean. Wrong, because I was taught. You see what I mean.

Speaker 2: 31:07

So I have more things invested into the outcome of why I'm going to get help. That's so, so, so that's maybe that's what's so different with what I'm thinking. I was like, give me the information and I have it here, and this way, when I go I may have a little, so I'm going to go get more. I think what we do here on Mondays, especially with learning how to reprogram your thinking, there's a lot of individual people have questions that they would probably like to ask but maybe don't feel comfortable asking.

Speaker 1: 31:36

That's what it is. I believe that's what it is Because, yeah, remember also I'm saying that you know that you're a neuroscientist People have a stigma when it comes to mental health. Yes, and that's something that needs to be changed, because I remember I was watching a documentary based on the old psychiatric industry the industry when it first started, when they used to do shock therapy to people. That right there.

Speaker 2: 32:01

That was the information they had.

Speaker 1: 32:04

That's all they had at the moment, right.

Speaker 2: 32:07

They knew shock waves disrupted the brainwaves. So maybe if they shock it instead of the brainwaves, so maybe if they shock it instead of the brainwaves doing this that's causing you to do not good things they want. They wanted to do that. So if they shock it, it disrupts it. Maybe it'll go back to its natural rhythm of this oh man so it was just a science.

Speaker 2: 32:38

It was just something. Their ideas were good. The way they carried it out was a little bit barbaric, because they were able to use it as a weapon right Instead of help, they were able to really use it as a weapon and it's just like medicine.

Speaker 2: 32:55

It's like hysterectomy is a great thing, but there's people being formed hysterectomies that women didn't even know they were being performed on. So again, people use information that you don't know against you as a weapon. If you knew what a hysterectomy you don't have to want one, go get one or ever need one. But if you don't know how they're performed, how would you ever know if it was going to be performed on you, even on a routine woman's visit?

Speaker 1: 33:32

That's true. What's? That information, that's true. It's information. So our people, basically, that's human beings, it's true, as the Bible said, they die from a lack of knowledge.

Speaker 2: 33:45

But you have to. Really you don't have to be. I don't need to be a gynecologist. Why should I want to learn how to?

Speaker 3: 33:52

see if there's a hit, but wait a minute.

Speaker 2: 33:54

What if your person, your mate, is in the room, you're in a room with them, or they have the information and the scraping feels differently because they run tests, they run biopsies? It's not supposed to feel like that, but what if you did not know that? That's what I'm saying. What if you did not know that Someone could be performing things that you did not know? Because you did not have that information.

Speaker 1: 34:22

That's all I'm saying yeah. People got to go out there, man Enroll, don't forget. Hit me up NYPtalkshow at gmailcom or Mikey Fever at gmailcom and just put on a subject line Dr Dyer's program, and I promise you I I relay it over to him and he's giving you a discount from $200 down to what Dr Dyer, $50.

Speaker 1: 34:47

You see, you see. So, with that being said, with the program that you're offering, a lot of people, I notice, do create their own anxieties, have these pans, attacks and other things due to societal, as we said earlier, programming Like they'd be, like I'm not here with society, wants me, even myself. There were times when I was coming up, when I was in my younger days, at 20, I was like, if I don't get this done by this certain age, I'm gonna die At 20, I was like, if I don't get this done by this certain age, I'm going to die, I'm going to be labeled this and that. So then I put that extra kick in my own butt.

Speaker 2: 35:25

So that's that forgiveness we're always talking about, because it seems so. What is forgiveness? What is grace? No, they're pretty simple, no-transcript describing Love, forgiveness and grace. It is what it is, you don't have to try to. Is this love, that love? Is this grace, that grace? Is this forgiveness, that forgiveness, forgiveness, grace, those are three things. There is no question. What? Right? If you give it, you give it. If you don't, you know the difference? Yeah, it's very. As you're working on reprogramming, you start to release those oxytocins into the body, like I was saying, and that's that you get that orgasm feeling then, because it would spike that high inside the body, inside the brain, so you would get an internal orgasm.

Speaker 1: 36:45

Got you. That makes so much sense. So it's like you said forgiveness, grace and what is it again?

Speaker 2: 36:57

Forgiveness grace, oh, when you're reformatting.

Speaker 1: 37:00

So in love, forgiveness, grace and love Okay, so it sounds like something I grew up. I used to hear. A lot was acceptance, approval and acknowledgement. Those are the three things you say most human beings do require. So you know it's within the same lane. But is that a void that's missing in our lives growing up? That we may have missed, that we do yes, so, so, so.

Speaker 2: 37:25

so. That's why, when you allow the subconscious mind to work, whatever happens when you're younger, it it was part of the programming. Again, I, I always, always really stay on the caution of not saying good or bad of how we develop. We developed how we developed. It's a development only when you are now then going to take charge of the information from the previous, moving forward from the present I'll say it again when you are ready to move forward into reprogramming. It is at that point that everything previous was just information. Wow, it had nothing to do with. It's just information. Wow, it had nothing to do with. It was just information. My dad beat me, it was just an informational. Now, to this point of your awareness, you have just created just information of all the things that's happened to you, that's happened to you.

Speaker 2: 38:56

Now how you use it, how you understand it and how it has influenced and affected from here on, is called awareness.

Speaker 1: 39:03

In that awareness is where you start to reprogram your brain. That was so beautiful because everything you just said really resonated, because this is very beneficial and you know, when I say people in general, I do mean every human being but, I'm looking at the community of people, of so-called people of color.

Speaker 1: 39:21

We have been fed false information that we don't question our parents from growing up. So a lot of men, especially in women, grew up saying don't shed a tear, don't cry. So they're not learning how to process those emotions. So then you carry that chip on your shoulder, you pass it down to your children. By the time you go outside, you have a chip on your shoulder. Your neighbor has a chip on their shoulder. So now we're all just trying to figure it out, bumping into each other, like you know, like an abacus, and it's just creating energy. It's ridiculous. So, yeah, this is important. Man, I'm going to jump into myself in there because that's part of the process healing. I get religion, people find their salvation through religion, but I think it's important, as they say, knowledge of self. You must study how your brain works. We've got the tools I got in the comments. Somebody just said something. Subject line she wants, I think she hold on. I think she wants to join. Yes, email. Oh, yeah, she could email. Give me an email too.

Speaker 2: 40:26

Yes, email, she could give me an email too. No, because everything's going to go through New York's perspective. Because, new York's perspective, the money's going to go for the show.

Speaker 1: 40:32

Okay, all right, come on, dr Dyer.

Speaker 2: 40:37

Yeah, definitely the subject line would be reprogramming.

Speaker 1: 40:43

Yeah, reprogramming, dr Dyer's. Reprogramming, yeah, reprogramming, yeah, dr Dyer's reprogramming Mm-hmm. Yeah, so do email, or you can email me again, as I said, mikeyfevernyp, at gmailcom. I'll make sure every party will have that communication and then from there, dyer will set you up, dr. Dyer is going to show you.

Speaker 2: 41:05

It's going to be closing April 10th. So we'll be closing April 10th. Let's see that is a Thursday and we'll be starting class on that following week for a six-week program.

Speaker 1: 41:19

He says it's an hour Hour a week Hour a week and they're going to be leaving with some good tools.

Speaker 2: 41:25

they're gonna feel something once they they're gonna want to publish their own book yeah, because I think it's, for.

Speaker 1: 41:35

It's like, as I say, education is to evoke an emotion. I believe you're gonna drag something out, because I think I'm like yo.

Speaker 2: 41:43

I teach way differently. I teach way I do because I I I because, um the way I give, I'm the me passionate about being a person who wants to move our um human forward. I I bring myself as a human to my teaching because I'm not divided from it. Again, that experiences, that environment, all that stuff was just information that I use today on my conscious level to be the person I choose to be and understand why I do the things I do.

Speaker 1: 42:29

So yeah, so I got, I got. See, I'm going to be very transparent with the people here and again. People, it's not, this is not no gimmick. I'm going to be honest. I have a tough time forgiving myself, like if I fall short of something I'm trying to achieve. And I fall short, oh my God, I am my worst critic. People say they're the worst critic. I go crazy. I be in the mirror talking like what the hell is wrong with you? Get it together, come on, you big dumb yeah.

Speaker 2: 42:55

So we talked about the. You get to the point where you are working hard, your intentions, your personal intentions are there yeah your, your ethic level of your character is there, so you're increasing this is stay with the chemistry. You're increasing the, the dopamine, the serotonin, the, the oxytocin and the endorphins. Right, you're moving them all together. You're moving them all together and then for reprogramming it needs an extra neuro boost. And that's the forgiveness, so it doesn't solidify in the reprogramming.

Speaker 2: 43:49

It doesn't fall into the subconscious. So it's like you get to the point where it's a good brick to lay down your foundation of reprogramming and by the time you're ready to lay it on the road it becomes a crinkled leaf Because of the forgiveness.

Speaker 1: 44:18

I'm listening, doctor.

Speaker 2: 44:19

Because it's in that build of reprogramming right, let's look at it, building a building. You've turned yourself into the clay for your structure. Your awareness is like moisture, because it brings in information. Your intention forms it.

Speaker 1: 45:00

Your forgiveness solidifies it for you to be part of the foundation, like EMDR. What is that? Do you know what it is?

Speaker 2: 45:09

yeah, it's a way to measure the brain. I wonder why are you looking for about EMDR or the type of how, when people are looking at the pictures and how they're going? It's used in certain therapies. It's a therapy technique. The reason why it's different than EMDR because EMDR is a EMDR certain therapies.

Speaker 3: 45:52

EMDR certain therapies psychotherapies are tools.

Speaker 2: 45:55

Got you Brain? Chemistry to me is like the brick Hmm, if you can't form a brick, your tools won't do anything. There'll be nothing for you to reshape or recut, or you know remeasure, because the brick never gets set. Brick never gets set. So what happens is therapist helps you develop tools so you become self-aware. So when you start the reprogramming, that forgiveness and grace is what really formulates like this is the intentional person that I'm being boom yeah, got you got you.

Speaker 2: 46:48

Now I'm learning a lot dr diary like you really got me, like I'm joining myself, don't forget so I think, I think I think people ask questions because they want to be, they want to often help develop a tool. Well, let's look at like again. Let's look at us being carpenters or creators. That's why I always look at myself as being a carpenter.

Speaker 1: 47:10

Yeah, Gucci's brother is forgiving useful for the healing of the mind.

Speaker 2: 47:17

Brother is forgiving, useful for healing of the mind. So yeah, so look at it. That's why I said we are creators. We are people here to create and be creators. You're no different inside your developed mind. Right now, you have an influenced mind. You have gained some information that has caused some increase. But when you're trapped in chaos and you're trying to really work on all those healing things, you have to reformat. You can't destroy the body and rebuild it, so you have to be the creator that creates it from the inside out. And what chemistry does to the body, from all of its transmitters, all of its neurons and 13 trillion this and brain. All that and all the cells in the body and the bones and all that really comes from a single cell. So think of how, what type of chemistry your body is formulating all the time to help build this structure. Four of those chemicals are endorphins.

Speaker 1: 48:54

Serotonin.

Speaker 2: 48:55

Serotonin, dopamine and endorphins right.

Speaker 3: 49:02

Yeah.

Speaker 2: 49:05

If you don't know how that is operating, no matter how many tools a therapist gives you, you wouldn't know where to put it.

Speaker 1: 49:20

Very important.

Speaker 2: 49:23

That's why I've always said help teach people how the mind works, how the body works. This way, when you develop your healing process for the mind brother, what tool are you using to heal with?

Speaker 1: 49:41

That's important.

Speaker 2: 49:42

So, to answer his question, forgiveness is part of the healing mind, but the mind doesn't need as forgiveness as it needs grace, because the mind never did anything intentional to harm you, to harm you. It was developed by you, created by you and everything around you to help protect the physical source.

Speaker 1: 50:13

Got you. So basically, you built like a avatar of you to navigate through this world, basically.

Speaker 2: 50:22

Right Now, the mind remembers. The mind gets back its memory cells and says hey, I remember being nervous around water. I heard some people talking about water. Let's see if we can. So all of these actions and subconscious actions are going on all the time, picking up all your different vocals and signals and sniffs and tastes and all your touches, and it's just cataloging. That's all it's been doing. And the mind starts to put together the illusion of what it wants to be for that time. That's it.

Speaker 1: 50:58

Dr Dyer, had that soul, elaborate what you just said, and great, and again, not making this about me. I had to learn certain things, my own in a sense, that things that trigger me, what put fear in me growing up. I had to say one day I'm gonna face it, so I'll purposely seek that, just to say you know what, instead of having hindsight 2020, say I'll react like this, I said I'm gonna go face that so I can react that way. I felt I overcame a lot of things like that. With that being said, does that mean an individual will have to put themselves in a certain situation? Is that a safe thing?

Speaker 2: 51:37

No, no, no, no, no. You don't ever have to put yourself in situations, because even the smallest thing helps you reformat. That goes back to I'm going to go get orange juice, Like even if you sat up and you're like God, where am I going?

Speaker 3: 51:54

Yeah.

Speaker 2: 51:55

Like I'm going to the kitchen. Before you left to go to the kitchen. Do you know exactly where you're going? For what reason that's that slow training? Now you're like I feel like I want something to eat, but I don't know what's in the refrigerator, right? So ask yourself are you saying you don't know what's in the refrigerator or because you didn't notice anything in there previously that you cannot recall? See what I mean. There's a like if I had to press a person on it, they would end up sitting morally back down, unless they were like I'm getting up because there's a piece of chicken in the refrigerator that I know I put there earlier that I'm craving for, to go get today, right now.

Speaker 1: 52:44

Yeah, that cold chicken will be hitting. Go ahead.

Speaker 2: 52:48

If you could do that. That's bringing your subconscious to your conscious.

Speaker 1: 52:54

Yeah, you're right. No, it's really beautiful, Doc. I appreciate you, Doc, for really coming here. Man talking about this, I'm looking forward. The brother that came on, Dr Dyer, is offering a special on a program that he has where he teaches you about your mind.

Speaker 2: 53:12

Reprogramming the brain.

Speaker 1: 53:14

And he's giving a discount.

Speaker 2: 53:16

Six-week course for $50.

Speaker 1: 53:18

$50.

Speaker 2: 53:22

And it only happens for New York Perspective, so we got to make that clear.

Speaker 1: 53:25

Only for NYP. So if you're interested you can email us at nyptalkshow at gmailcom or you can email me at mikeyfever nyp at gmailcom. Put on a subject line Dr Dyer, reprogram NYP and I will forward that email over to Dr Dyer to make sure that you get enrolled. And it's only $50. Great investment.

Speaker 2: 53:52

And it closes April 10th Outside of the show, I mean, yes, you can invite friends who don't watch the show. They put a new perspective. Hope we can gain them as a listener. But anyway, yes, you can bring friends and family, whoever it is, and bring them along for this education. Six weeks, hour-long a week, there you go.

Speaker 1: 54:18

Yeah, definitely. I want you guys to get involved and listen. We don't take food stamps, so no EBT card would not be used.

Speaker 3: 54:25

Listen, we don't take food stamps. So no EBT card would not be used.

Speaker 2: 54:27

He says, like the subconscious has to know something exists. Is that what you're saying, doc? No, the subconscious doesn't have to know. It exists because it already existed. For it to become subconscious, so you would have to recognize it as a conscious. Okay, conscious doesn't mean you know about it. Let's get that straight. Being in a conscious state means you know. You know about it.

Speaker 2: 55:04

There's things that are happening right now in our conscious state that is picking up, that you don't even know, because your eyes are open, and then your ears, and then your taste and your smell all those things are picking up things from way further, in the distance, or out of the room or wherever you think it only has limitations to, because it has no limitations. So it's just that your immediate, something you can recognize, but your smells pick up long ways away outside the house. It just picks up. Certain smells are coming through. So recognizing that awareness of what's coming in, that's being in a conscious state. So being conscious is what we are. The subconscious catches it right away and either figures out a way to put it into its rhythm algorithm, where it's habitual, or discards it.

Speaker 1: 56:04

Mikey, you're I said, all right, my bad. Yeah, I see the brother said he emailed. Did you send it to MikeyFeverNYP at gmailcom and also NYPTalkShow at gmailcom. Just put in the subject line Dr Dyer reprogramming program, nyp, and I'll get that over. Brother, I'll make sure I check once the show is over. Dr Dyer reprogramming program. You know NYP and I'll get that over, brother.

Speaker 1: 56:26

I'll make sure I check once the show is over. Dr Dyer man, you're a godsend man, honestly, brother, and you know, keep on doing what you're doing for others man in the community, because this is what we need and if those have ears and a mind to listen, you will understand what he's saying is relating to you and here's the thing I'm an activist by my ultimate, what you call pinnacle, and I really feel that people are not able to be activated and be part of a solution if they're stuck in what they're stuck in what they're stuck in, so I got you Doc.

Speaker 3: 57:11

You guys have a good night.

Speaker 1: 57:13

Don't forget people. Don't forget to comment, like, share, subscribe. Dr Dyer's reprogramming program starts April 10th.

Speaker 2: 57:22

We'll be closing right, that's the final date, and then we're starting on the following Monday Start the following Monday.

Speaker 1: 57:29

Don't forget to email nyptalkshow at gmailcom. Subject line Dr Dyer, reprogramming the mind. You can also reach me, mikey Fever, nyp. Nyp. Mikeyfevernyp at gmailcom. Holler at us, pardon, I'm so tired. Put that in the subject line and it's only $50. Outside of that it's $200. He's giving you guys a discount. Do not put your EBT card because it will be rejected and you're going to be an angry person. Oh my God, share with your friends. I say this with love and respect. It's time for us to be better. It's time for us to heal, turn off what's going on in this world and focus on ourselves. Man, we got a lot to do. I love my brothers, I love my sisters, self-forgiveness and YP and we out Dr Dyer. Peace and love my brother. Peace, peace, peace.

Speaker 3: 58:28

And we out. Dr Dyer, peace and love my brother, peace, peace and we out.