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Fail Forward: How to Bounce Back Stronger After a Business Setback

John Reyes Episode 105

Here are three of the most important things you need to know when it comes to the concept of “Fail Forward: How to Bounce Back Stronger After a Business Setback”—especially as a startup founder or business owner:


1. 

Failure Isn’t the End—It’s Feedback

 

Most people see failure as a final verdict. But in the world of entrepreneurship, failure is often just feedback in disguise. It’s how you learn what doesn’t work, refine your offer, adjust your message, and evolve your business model. The best founders in the world have a track record of failures behind every success. What makes the difference isn’t that they failed—it’s how they responded.

 

Key mindset shift: Instead of asking, “Why did I fail?” ask, “What is this trying to teach me?”

 

Failing forward means you use every setback as fuel. You document what happened, examine the blind spots, and make data-driven decisions moving forward. Failure becomes part of the growth process—not something to hide from.


2. 

Resilience Is More Valuable Than Perfection

 

Many entrepreneurs chase perfection out of fear—fear of being judged, losing money, or disappointing others. But resilience is the superpower that separates those who burn out from those who break through. When you fail forward, you’re not just staying in the game—you’re building the grit, mental strength, and emotional intelligence needed to weather future storms.

 

Your bounce-back matters more than your breakdown.

 

Resilience looks like launching again after a failed product. It looks like rebranding after a marketing flop. It looks like re-hiring after a bad staffing choice. It means showing up, even when you’re bruised. The people who succeed long-term in business aren’t the ones who got everything right—they’re the ones who refused to give up.


3. 

Your Comeback Can Be Your Competitive Advantage

 

Here’s the truth: every failure has the potential to reshape your business into something better, stronger, and smarter than before. Some of the best products, services, and strategies are born out of mistakes. When you fail forward with humility and honesty, you become more relatable, more creative, and more in tune with what your market really needs.

 

Failure forces clarity. Clarity leads to better execution.

 

And when you publicly own your setbacks (with grace), your audience builds trust in you. Investors respect it. Customers appreciate it. Team members rally behind it. Your comeback story can become part of your brand story—and that authenticity can make you stand out in a noisy marketplace.

 



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Fail Forward: How to Bounce Back Stronger After a Business Setback

 

 

Welcome to another episode of Startup Business 101, the real-world guide to launching without losing your mind. Today, we’re talking about something most business podcasts try to avoid… but every entrepreneur needs to hear.

 

We’re talking about failure.

 

Now before you hit pause—stick with me. This isn’t going to be some depressing dive into defeat. This is a celebration of resilience, a tribute to those brave enough to try, bold enough to fall, and relentless enough to rise again.

 

You see, failure isn’t the opposite of success—it’s part of the path that leads to it. But no one really prepares you for how it feels when your idea doesn’t work, when the launch flops, when the numbers aren’t adding up, or when your confidence takes a hit. That’s where this episode comes in.

 

In today’s conversation, we’re going to reframe failure—not as the end of your business journey, but as the moment you start building your foundation with real-world wisdom. We’ll unpack why failure is often the best teacher, how to process the disappointment without letting it define you, and most importantly—how to bounce back better, sharper, and stronger than ever before.

 

Whether you’re in the middle of a setback right now, or just want to be prepared for the inevitable bumps ahead, this episode will give you the perspective and power to keep moving forward.

 

Because here’s the truth: You’re not falling behind—you’re falling forward.

 

So take a deep breath, shake off the shame, and get ready to rediscover your strength.

 

Let’s dive in.

 

 

1. Failure Isn’t the End—It’s Feedback

 

Let’s start by acknowledging a universal truth that almost no one wants to talk about—you’re going to fail at something. You might launch a product no one buys. You might sign a lease in the wrong location. You might hire the wrong person, price your service too low, or spend months building something only to realize… it’s not what people needed. It stings. It messes with your confidence. And if you let it, it can stop you in your tracks.

 

But here’s the most powerful shift you can make as a business owner: failure isn’t fatal—it’s feedback. It’s a teacher dressed in disappointment. It’s a redirection disguised as a roadblock. When you look at failure not as the end of your journey, but as information designed to improve you, everything changes.


The Myth of the Perfect Path

 

Most people have this silent expectation that they’ll get it right the first time. That if they plan enough, read enough, map out enough, they’ll launch flawlessly and avoid embarrassment. But business doesn’t work that way. Entrepreneurship is messy. It’s unpredictable. And it’s full of surprises that no textbook could prepare you for. You’re not supposed to have it all figured out from the beginning. You’re supposed to learn through the doing.

 

Look at any successful founder, and you’ll see a trail of failures behind them. Sara Blakely, the founder of Spanx, was turned down by almost every manufacturer. Howard Schultz of Starbucks was rejected by over 200 investors. Walt Disney was fired for “lacking imagination.” The list goes on. What sets them apart isn’t that they had fewer failures—it’s that they knew failure is part of the process, not proof that they didn’t belong.


Failure as a Mirror

 

When something doesn’t work, it reflects something back to us. Maybe it reflects a misalignment between our product and our customer. Maybe it reveals a weakness in our system, or a blind spot in our leadership. That’s the gold buried in failure—clarity. It shows you where you’re off so you can course-correct.

 

For example, let’s say you launched an online course and only five people signed up. That feels like a flop, right? But take a closer look. What does that failure tell you? Maybe your message wasn’t clear. Maybe you targeted the wrong audience. Maybe your price was too high, or your solution didn’t solve a specific enough problem. Instead of quitting, you can use that feedback to make the next launch stronger.

 

The key is to stop asking, “Why did I fail?” in a tone of defeat, and start asking, “What is this trying to teach me?” with curiosity. That mindset opens the door to innovation and resilience.


Document, Reflect, Adjust

 

Failing forward isn’t just a mindset—it’s a practice. When something doesn’t go as planned, write it down. What happened? What assumptions were you working off of? What did you miss? What worked better than expected? What did you learn about your customer, your offer, or your team?

 

This habit of reflection separates entrepreneurs who grow from those who keep repeating the same mistakes. It transforms a painful experience into a stepping stone. You begin to see patterns in your thinking. You spot recurring issues in your processes. And over time, you build a business that’s not just better, but smarter.


Turning Setbacks Into Strategy

 

Let’s say your product flops. That can feel like a massive setback. But what if the real win is in how fast you can adapt? What if failure gives you the market intelligence to launch something even better?

 

Reid Hoffman, founder of LinkedIn, once said, “If you’re not embarrassed by the first version of your product, you launched too late.” Why? Because iteration beats perfection. If you launch, fail, adjust, and launch again—you’re moving forward. You’re evolving. You’re learning in real-time. That’s how great businesses are built.

 

Failure forces you to get clear. Clear on your value. Clear on your audience. Clear on your voice. It sharpens your edge. And in a noisy, competitive world, clarity is one of your greatest advantages.


The Confidence That Comes from Failing Forward

 

Here’s the surprising gift of failing: it builds real confidence. Not fake, Instagram-quote confidence. But the kind that comes from surviving the storm. When you’ve failed and gotten back up, you stop fearing it. You know that even if you fall, you can rise again—wiser, humbler, and more prepared.

 

And when you walk into your next pitch, your next launch, your next negotiation, you carry that strength with you. You don’t lead from a place of fear. You lead from a place of experience. You’ve been tested—and you’ve grown.


This Is How You Build Something That Lasts

 

Most businesses don’t die from failure—they die from the fear of it. From people waiting too long, playing it too safe, or giving up too soon. But if you fail forward—if you see each setback as a setup for something better—you become unstoppable.

 

So take the risk. Make the call. Launch the thing. If it works, amazing. If it doesn’t, you’ve gained something even more valuable than success: wisdom. And wisdom, applied consistently, will always lead you back to progress.

 

 

2. Resilience Is More Valuable Than Perfection

 

If failure is the fire, then resilience is the steel that gets forged inside it.

 

Every entrepreneur starts with a dream—maybe even a detailed plan and a pocketful of passion. But what separates those who actually build something lasting from those who give up when things get hard isn’t how perfect their plan was. It’s how deep their resilience runs. It’s their ability to stay grounded when the ground is shaking. To rise even when the odds say you should quit. And to believe in the vision long enough for it to become real.

 

Let’s make this clear: perfection is a myth. It’s a moving target. You’ll never launch with all the answers. Your first version won’t be flawless. You’ll miss things. You’ll overestimate timelines. You’ll underestimate costs. You’ll hire the wrong person, forget a tax deadline, or price your service too low. It’s not a matter of “if,” but “when.” And in those moments, your perfection won’t save you—but your resilience will.


Perfection Builds Pressure. Resilience Builds Strength.

 

Here’s the trap so many entrepreneurs fall into: they chase perfection. They wait until every detail is polished before launching their product, opening their doors, or telling the world what they’re building. But here’s the truth—the world doesn’t need perfect. It needs real. It needs brave. It needs you, in motion, not waiting.

 

And that’s where resilience becomes your superpower.

 

Let’s say you pour everything you have into your grand opening. You’ve got branding, buzz, your friends and family show up, the ribbon is cut—and then crickets. No clients the next day. No orders. You refresh your inbox, your website stats, your bank balance—and panic sets in.

 

This is the crossroads every entrepreneur eventually faces: do you believe the story that this failure means you’re not cut out for it? Or do you dig in, adapt, and choose to see this as the first test of your capacity to endure?


Resilience Isn’t Just About Pushing Through—It’s About Bouncing Forward

 

True resilience isn’t just about gritting your teeth and enduring hardship. It’s about transforming hardship into wisdom. It’s about evolving faster than your challenges. It’s about bouncing forward, not just back.

 

When a product fails, the resilient entrepreneur doesn’t just relaunch the same thing. They rework the offer. They listen to the market. They pivot with purpose. When they face rejection from an investor, landlord, or customer—they don’t collapse. They learn to extract the lesson from the loss and keep showing up anyway.

 

Resilience is a muscle. And like any muscle, it only grows under tension.


Real-World Examples of Resilience in Action

 

Think about the greats. Steve Jobs got fired from his own company. Elon Musk had rockets explode and nearly went bankrupt. Oprah was told she wasn’t fit for television. Sara Blakely, founder of Spanx, was rejected by every investor she approached. What kept them going wasn’t that they had some insider knowledge or infinite capital—it was that they kept standing back up.

 

In fact, Sara Blakely says her father used to ask her at the dinner table, “What did you fail at today?” And if she didn’t have an answer, he’d be disappointed—not because he wanted her to fail, but because he wanted her to try. That’s how resilience becomes woven into your mindset—it starts with reframing failure not as something to avoid, but as evidence you’re on the edge of growth.


You Are Stronger Than You Think

 

When your business hits a wall—and it will at some point—your job isn’t to panic. It’s to pause. Take a breath. Look at the problem, and ask yourself: What is this moment asking of me?

 

Maybe it’s asking you to learn a new skill. Maybe it’s calling you to rework your offer, let go of a team member, or own a mistake. Maybe it’s inviting you to slow down, reset, and come back smarter.

 

This is where your character is forged. Not in the wins, but in the waiting. Not in the hype, but in the quiet perseverance of showing up every single day, even when no one is clapping yet.

 

The beauty of resilience is that it grows with use. The more you practice it, the more unshakable you become. And when you build a business from that foundation—not perfection, but perseverance—you create something that can withstand the storms and come out even stronger.


Resilience Is the Foundation of Long-Term Success

 

Here’s what no one tells you when you start your business: it’s not about being the smartest, fastest, or most connected. It’s about staying in the game long enough to win it. And the only way to do that is with resilience.

 

Success is rarely linear. It’s not a staircase—it’s a roller coaster. And resilience is what keeps you strapped in when the dips come fast and steep.

 

When customers ghost you, when your launch flops, when your bank account dips into the red—resilience says, “This isn’t where the story ends. This is where I turn the page.”

 

And you will turn the page.

 

Because you’re not here to dabble. You’re here to build.

 

Because you’re not chasing perfection. You’re cultivating perseverance.

 

Because you didn’t come this far to only come this far.

 

 

3. The Comeback Plan: What to Do After You Fall

 

We’ve talked about how failure is feedback. We’ve unpacked the idea that resilience is more powerful than perfection. But now let’s talk about the next steps—the path forward. Because it’s one thing to fall, but what separates a temporary setback from a total collapse is how you get up, when you get up, and what you do when you’re back on your feet.

 

Let’s be real: failing in business can shake you to your core. It doesn’t just bruise your bank account—it bruises your ego, your confidence, and your identity. When something you poured your heart into doesn’t go the way you hoped, it’s easy to feel embarrassed, disoriented, and even ashamed. But let’s be clear about one thing—you are not your failure. It is something that happened. It is not who you are.

 

So how do you come back from that?


Step 1: Pause and Process

 

Before you sprint into a new plan or pivot, give yourself the gift of time to breathe. This is not weakness—it’s wisdom. You need space to feel, reflect, and release the emotional weight of what just happened.

 

You’re allowed to grieve the loss of an idea. You’re allowed to sit with the disappointment. But don’t stay there. Set a timer if you must. Cry, journal, take a walk in the woods, vent to a friend, pray—process it fully. Because unprocessed failure festers into fear. But when you face it, name it, and walk through it, it loses its power.


Step 2: Debrief the Defeat

 

This is where the healing turns into strategy. Sit down with a notebook or your team—or both—and do a post-mortem. Ask yourself:

  • What exactly went wrong?
  • Were there warning signs I missed?
  • Was it the product, the price, the timing, the messaging?
  • What did I learn about my customer?
  • What did I learn about myself?

 

Be honest. Be thorough. Be kind.

 

This is not a blame game. It’s not about shame. It’s about truth. Because truth is where transformation begins. You’ll often find that the very thing that caused the failure is the thing that unlocks your next great idea.


Step 3: Reconnect to Your “Why”

 

Failure can make you forget why you started. So revisit that. Go back to the spark that ignited this journey in the first place.

 

Why do you want to build this business?

 

What impact do you want to make?

 

What kind of life are you trying to create for yourself and your family?

 

This isn’t fluff—it’s fuel. Your “why” will always be the foundation that holds you steady when everything else feels uncertain. And if your old “why” doesn’t inspire you anymore? That’s okay too. Let this be the season where a new, deeper, more aligned purpose is born.


Step 4: Redesign with Reality in Mind

 

You now have data. You have battle scars. You know what didn’t work—and that makes you dangerously wise. Use that wisdom to design a better version of your business.

 

If your product didn’t sell, maybe you need to tweak the offer—or completely reposition it.

 

If your location flopped, maybe the market research wasn’t thorough enough.

 

If your team dynamic broke down, maybe you need to rethink how you hire, train, or lead.

 

This is where you get to build smarter. Don’t scrap the dream. Just refactor the plan.


Step 5: Set a Small, Clear Next Step

 

Momentum starts small. Don’t try to rebuild everything at once. What’s one thing you can do this week that moves you forward?

  • Write a new sales page?
  • Have five customer conversations?
  • Reach out to a mentor?
  • Launch a small pre-order?

 

Your comeback doesn’t need to be dramatic to be powerful. It needs to be intentional.

 

Progress over perfection. Action over analysis.


Step 6: Surround Yourself with the Right People

 

Recovering alone is slow. Rebuilding in isolation is risky. One of the best decisions you can make during a comeback is to surround yourself with other builders—people who understand the journey, who don’t flinch at failure, and who can speak truth into your process when you can’t see the way forward clearly.

 

That might be a mastermind group. A business coach. An encouraging friend. A local community of makers. Whoever they are—find them. Share your story. Let them remind you what you’re capable of.

 

Because no great comeback story was written in solitude.


Step 7: Believe Bigger the Second Time Around

 

Now comes the part most people miss. As you rise, don’t just rebuild what you lost—rebuild with more belief than you had before.

 

Yes, failure humbled you.

 

But it also sharpened you.

 

It made you stronger. Wiser. More alert. More determined.

 

Use that.

 

Instead of playing small to avoid another failure, let your failure give you permission to play bigger.

 

You’ve already fallen—and you survived. You learned. You endured.

 

Now you’re dangerous in the best way.


Your Story Isn’t Over—It’s Just Getting Good

 

Every incredible business owner you admire has a “fail and recover” chapter in their story. Every visionary. Every disruptor. Every legacy-builder.

 

The difference is—they didn’t stop at the failure. They got up. They learned. They reimagined. And they kept going.

 

So now it’s your turn.

 

You don’t need a flawless record. You need a resilient spirit.

 

You don’t need overnight success. You need everyday courage.

 

You don’t need the applause. You need the grit to show up when no one’s clapping yet.

 

This is not the end of your story.

 

This is the beginning of your comeback season.

 

 

Conclusion: Falling Is Inevitable. Rising Is a Choice.

 

If you’re listening to this right now and you’ve failed—first of all, welcome. You’re in good company.

 

Failure has a way of making you feel like you’re alone, like you’re the only one who couldn’t hold it together. But the truth is, every great entrepreneur you admire has worn those same shoes. They’ve known the pain of watching something they built fall apart. They’ve felt the sting of rejection, the emptiness of a bank account, the gut punch of negative reviews, or the silence that follows when no one shows up to what you poured your heart into.

 

But here’s what separates those who fade out from those who rise: what they do next.

 

Setbacks Aren’t Stop Signs—They’re Signals

 

That “failure” may just be the market telling you something’s off. It might be feedback disguised as frustration. It could be life’s way of calling you to slow down, re-center, and go again—not weaker, but wiser.

 

And let’s be clear—bouncing back doesn’t mean pretending everything is fine. It means grieving what didn’t work, and honoring the effort you gave, but refusing to let it define your future. That’s real resilience.

 

You see, failure is not the end of the story—it’s the chapter where your character is tested. And the bigger the mission on your life, the greater the resistance you’ll face before the breakthrough comes.

 

From Wounds to Wisdom

 

The setbacks you face today are creating the depth you’ll need to lead tomorrow. They’re showing you where you were relying on guesswork instead of strategy… where your systems weren’t strong enough… where your confidence needed grounding in clarity, not hype.

 

Your wounds will teach you things no course or mentor ever could. And if you let them, those wounds will become your wisdom. The very scars you wish you didn’t have will someday be the stories that give someone else the courage to keep going.

 

So don’t hide them. Don’t rush past them. Don’t numb them with busywork.

 

Sit in them. Learn from them. Let them shape you—not shame you.

 

You’re Not Starting Over—You’re Starting From Experience

 

There’s something powerful about failing and still choosing to get back up. It’s humbling. It’s clarifying. It wipes away ego and replaces it with purpose. Because now? You know what not to do. You know what your values really are. You’ve tested your belief, and you didn’t quit.

 

This isn’t square one—it’s a stronger, sharper, and far more informed version of you stepping into what’s next.

 

You’re no longer building on theory. You’re building on experience. That’s solid ground.

 

Leave the Ashes—Carry the Lesson

 

I want to leave you with a truth that has carried me through my darkest business moments: failure isn’t fatal unless you let it be. You don’t have to drag the weight of your mistake into your next chapter. You can leave the ashes behind—and carry only the lesson.

 

That lesson might be about boundaries. Or cash flow. Or trusting your gut. Or building stronger systems. Or asking for help sooner. Whatever it is—honor it. Use it. Let it sharpen you.

 

Because your next venture will be better not in spite of what went wrong, but because of it.


Final Charge: Fail Loud, Learn Fast, Rise Strong

 

So, here’s your invitation:

 

Stand up. Dust yourself off. Look your fear in the eye and say, You didn’t win.

 

Then walk boldly into what’s next—not because it’s guaranteed to work, but because you’re guaranteed to grow.

 

That’s what this journey is about. Not perfection. Not playing it safe. But having the courage to keep showing up, with your head high and your heart open, knowing that even when you fall—you fail forward.

 

And the forward is what matters most.



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