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How Crowley, Gardner And The Golden Dawn Shaped Modern Witchcraft
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A four-week pause, a fresh brew, and a return to magic that actually matters. We jump back into our Witchcraft series and follow the thread from smoky Victorian parlours to today’s living pagan traditions across Britain, asking what endures and why it still resonates. The journey begins with the Victorian love affair with the occult: seances in middle-class homes, the rise of mediums, and the gothic imagination of Poe, Stoker, and Shelley. That cultural spark feeds into the Hermetic Order of the Golden Dawn, where ritual magic, tarot, and Kabbalah shaped a new language for mystery. Enter Alistair Crowley, whose Thelema reframed magic around the pursuit of true will and left a controversial, indelible mark on modern spirituality and counterculture.
From there we pivot to Gerald Gardner, the figure who helped bring witchcraft into the open after the Witchcraft Act was repealed. We explore Gardnerian Wicca’s core ideas and the power of the Wiccan Rede: “An it harm none, do what ye will.” Then we step through the evolution to Alexandrian Wicca, noting how ceremonial style, theatre, and structure took root in London and Manchester. Alongside history, we reflect on ethics, consent, and why a principle that emphasises freedom with responsibility feels so right for our times.
We ground it all in the present: legal pagan weddings, chaplains in prisons, and vibrant practices like tarot, moon rituals, and herbal craft. We also wander through the places that hold the country’s mythic charge, from Stonehenge and Glastonbury Tor to Cornwall’s pixie-haunted paths, and the enduring folk magic of Scotland, Wales, and East Anglia. If you’ve ever wondered how a blend of story, landscape, and personal purpose can guide a life, you’ll find plenty here to savour, question, and try for yourself. Subscribe, share with a friend who loves a good origin story, and leave a review to tell us where the magic led you next.
A Special Return: Part Two
SPEAKER_03Hello and welcome to Bonus Dad.
SPEAKER_01Bonus Daughter, a special father-daughter podcast with me, Hannah.
SPEAKER_03And me, Davy, where we discuss our differences, similarities, share a few laughs and stories. Within our ever-changing and complex world.
SPEAKER_01Each week we will discuss a topic from our own point of view. And influences throughout the decades. Or you could choose one by contacting us via email, Instagram, Facebook, or TikTok. Links in bio. Hello and welcome to a very special episode of Bonus Dad, Bonus Daughter. They are all special actually.
SPEAKER_03They are. You always say that. You say always say, Welcome to a very special episode, and every single episode we do is special.
SPEAKER_01I mean it it is special. It is special. It's cute.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Um, this one is actually very special because this is part two of Witchcraft that's already out. That we've never done this.
SPEAKER_03I know. Well, we should we tell everyone what actually happened last time?
SPEAKER_01Uh please do. Yeah. In your own words, because I was a little bit out of it.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, so last time we recorded, which was probably about three weeks ago now, wasn't it? It's quite a while ago.
SPEAKER_01It was four. I can I can attest to the fact that it was 28 days at least. 27 actually.
Recap And Recording Mishap
SPEAKER_0327 days, specifically. Yeah, and what happened was was we recorded the first witchcraft episode, and then Hannah kind of well, you collapsed. There's no other way.
SPEAKER_01I malfunctioned, I feel. I collapse, I feel like, is very strong. You you were laying on the floor. I was in fetal position, yes. In absolute agony. I was, I was, yes.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_01I was hit with the uh the the red curse on flow ragtime. I don't know what ragtime She's got period. Um no, ragtime is more like she's got period. Um yeah.
SPEAKER_03Um And I was very kind and said, well, we won't we won't continue with the next episode. We'll we'll we'll stop it there.
SPEAKER_01Well I couldn't have done it from the fetal position on the floor anyway. Yeah. Um but yeah. So if you uh if you watch that episode and thought, cool, she looks a bit peaky. I was. I was fighting for my life through that episode. And I thought that was gonna be the same case today, but uh luckily uh we've we've we've timed it a little bit better on a Sunday.
SPEAKER_03Can't go. You've had your hash browns, haven't you?
SPEAKER_01I have had my hash browns and my hot chocolate. I feel very warm.
SPEAKER_03Do you? I'm quite warm, actually.
SPEAKER_01Do you need to open a window?
SPEAKER_03No, no, no. It's it's winter out there, you'll you'll let all the heat out.
SPEAKER_01Oh no. It's not like we can create more.
SPEAKER_03So yeah, so this is a weird one because we normally we like record the episodes back to back. Yeah, and this one we've had like a four-week break. So you actually said to me, You went, I can't remember where we were, but I remember.
SPEAKER_01You remember, I think I remember because I do remember Crowley being mentioned.
SPEAKER_03Exactly. That's where we're coming up in the in the witchcraft timeline of the UK.
SPEAKER_01So this is Witchcraft part two, ever waited part two, four weeks in in in space of part two. Yes. But here we are, witchcraft part two. And this will be one of the freshest, hottest ones off the press. Because it's I assume it we're doing it tomorrow.
SPEAKER_03We are I'm gonna have to mix this when I get home this afternoon. Tomorrow. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Uh Thursday.
SPEAKER_03Thursday, so I'm gonna have to mix this this afternoon. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Damn.
SPEAKER_03But luckily your mum is not here. She is uh uh Oxford, I think. Doing something Lucky for us all. Yeah, doing something like in Oxford, but she's back back from.
SPEAKER_01What exactly is she doing in Oxford or is it Trade Secrets?
SPEAKER_03She did tell me, but lovely. Yeah, yeah. Got it. Yeah, it's not get you in trouble. I think she well, I think she's doing lifeguarding or something.
SPEAKER_01It's either lifeguarding or or training of lifeguarding or lifeguarding. That there is no other Well, she might just be away on a jolly. I don't know. She did tell me. Oxford does seem like a strange place to have a jolly. No offence to Oxford, I'm just it seems like an odd place to have a jolly. That's all. That's all I'm saying. That's all I'm saying. So Lester Crowley.
Victorian Obsession With The Occult
SPEAKER_03Lester Crowley. No, it's not Lester, it's Alistair. So before we go into Alistair Crowley, it says Lester. Yeah, I I deleted the A off by accident. But you want you want to go back a little bit on the script, Hannah?
SPEAKER_00Oh.
SPEAKER_03We're at the Victorian stage.
SPEAKER_00Oh.
SPEAKER_03So explain a little bit about what was happening in the Victorian era.
SPEAKER_00Let's go.
SPEAKER_03Because we've actually mentioned this before, like with ghost stories, because the Victorians were quite obsessed with the occult.
SPEAKER_01So this is where they're where all of our ghost stories come from, is that we say.
SPEAKER_03Because you know, like when when you like we said when you go to Halton Towers, like the girl ghosts or the young kids or a ghost always tend to be in Victorian clothes, don't they?
SPEAKER_01That is true. The white lady and all that jazz they do tend to be in older clothes. Why is there no modern like 90s rapper?
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_01No, there isn't like that would be so funny. Like, diggity dog. I'm kind of haunt you, bitch. Diggity dog.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_01That is quite possibly the whitest thing I've ever done. Yeah, that really is. Um but yeah, I just I just why why is there no modern ghost? Riddle me this.
SPEAKER_03So for those of you who don't know, the Victorian era was like the 1800s to the early 1900s. Yeah, that's that's kind of that's kind of the the time where time.
SPEAKER_00Generally, that's where the Victorian period is uh is is said to have occurred.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, and the reason why was because the Victorians actually really, really loved the occult. They just loved it. They absolutely loved it, and lots of it was because of the reaction to industrialization, there was a growth of archaeology and an interest in ancient paganism at the time as well, kind of like a resurgence of ancient paganism.
SPEAKER_01Resurgence, let's go.
SPEAKER_03But this is the key point is that there was an increased liter l uh literacy and publishing. So all the stories started coming out.
SPEAKER_01Uh the creative peep started.
SPEAKER_03The creative peeps started writing about the occult. So we're talking like H.P. Lovecraft, Edgar Allan Poe, all those guys.
SPEAKER_01Mary Shelley.
SPEAKER_03Mary Shelley, yeah, indeed, Bram Stoker. Yes. Have you seen the New Dracula film actually?
SPEAKER_01No, I have not. It's really good. Is it? Yeah. Oh, good. Yeah, it is really good. That shot.
SPEAKER_03Pretty good. And then, of course, we had a lot of mediums around then claiming to communicate with the dead.
SPEAKER_00Mediums.
SPEAKER_03Seances in middle class homes.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_03Um, yes, and and yeah, as I wrote there, Lovecraft and Edgar Allan Post, all those kind of uh those kind of stories. In fact, you see Ouija boards as well. I think that's where Ouija boards started coming into play.
SPEAKER_01I kind of I kind of want a Ouija board.
SPEAKER_03Have you never done one?
SPEAKER_01No, I want to display it on my wall in my office.
SPEAKER_03Really?
SPEAKER_01I just think it's it's cool.
SPEAKER_03I love Ouija boards. They look awesome.
Seances, Ouija Boards And Media
SPEAKER_01Uh they look cool, don't they? Yeah. I yeah, I m there's just something about them.
SPEAKER_03And the I mean, but even like the font of how their words are written, and that's all very Victorian.
SPEAKER_01Whoever was like the marketing, like well, they wouldn't have had a marketing, but like the person that decided on the font and how it was looked, and like they were just like, Yeah, this is like a witch's wet dream.
SPEAKER_03Exactly, exactly. But in uh in 1887 in London, there was a magical order founded, and it was called the Golden Dawn.
SPEAKER_01The Golden Dawn.
SPEAKER_03And this is where Crowley comes into it. Alistair Crowley, not Lester, Alistair Crowley, and a poet by the name of W. B. Yeats as well.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, we know Yeats.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, Yeats. Uh so the Golden Dawn was a highly influential magical order, and it kind of focused on ceremonial magic, angels, astral work.
SPEAKER_01Um, and it's I love how you missed a word there.
SPEAKER_03What what Kabbalah?
SPEAKER_01Kabbalah. Kabbalah. Because I wanted to go. And I I had that joke prepared, and then you didn't say it, so I felt like I needed to address it, but it's okay, there it's gone.
SPEAKER_03Thanks, Hannah. Um and oh, do you know what? I need I need to get my eyes tested.
SPEAKER_01What? Because of the witches taking your vision.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, no, I can't I'm I'm gonna push that further and further away so that I can read it.
SPEAKER_01Are you wearing contacts today?
Enter The Golden Dawn
SPEAKER_03I am wearing contacts, but I need to very when I don't have my contacts in, right? I can read like really close up, but when I put my contact lenses in, I can because I've I'm short-sighted, I then go long-sighted.
SPEAKER_01You need berifocal. I need very focal contact lenses.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_01Beer glasses. Oh no. I went with berry. Sorry, I was my pardon's really rubbish. Apologies. Strawberry vision. Rose tinted glass Rose tinted glasses. I know, rose rose-coloured boy. Rose coloured boy. What's that? Um all that noise about the world you want to see.
SPEAKER_03No.
SPEAKER_01Blah black-eyed boy popping my head by Texas. Uh Paramo. Right, you're just making grunting noises now.
SPEAKER_03What's what is that?
SPEAKER_01Uh uh uh I can't think how it goes. Um God, how's it going?
SPEAKER_03Shall we move on?
SPEAKER_01Yeah. Oh sorry, I can't think of the song, but it's most kind of followed by Paramour.
SPEAKER_03Oh, right, okay. Um, but it was very influenced by Wicca. The Golden Dorm was. They took a lot of the um the Wiccan Yeah, they took a lot of the Wiccan beliefs and kind of put it into the into the Golden Dorm. So Crowley himself, gonna talk a little bit about Crowley.
SPEAKER_01Sup Crowley.
SPEAKER_03Crowley, he's probably the most famous kind of occultist in the whole of the UK.
SPEAKER_01Are you saying occult? Like yeah, occult, but occult.
SPEAKER_03Because the occult occult. Occult occultist. He was a ceremonial magician, he was a writer, he was a mystic, and he was a mountaineer.
SPEAKER_01Of all the things on his CV.
unknownYeah, exactly.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_01I'm a magician, I'm a writer, I'm a mystic, and I also climb mountains. Indeed. Yeah, you know, yeah, try to get he's at one with nature. He's at one with nature, indeed. Indeed.
SPEAKER_03Uh he was born on the 12th of October, 1875, in Lemmington Spa.
Alistair Crowley’s Early Life
SPEAKER_01Woo, go Libras.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, and he grew up in a very, very strict Plymouth Brethren Christian household. So he was brought up as a very strict Christian. His father was actually a travelling preacher.
SPEAKER_01And like most who could ever reach me was a son of a preacher, man.
SPEAKER_03Exactly. And like most people who are brought up within that kind of strict kind of church Christian belief, they rebel.
SPEAKER_01Yes.
SPEAKER_03Like, not for me, thank you very much.
SPEAKER_01They rebel.
SPEAKER_03I'm finding my own way. So exactly that's what he did. Crowley.
SPEAKER_01Wow, he went to Trinity College.
SPEAKER_03He did go to Trinity College in Cambridge. And he in uh developed interest in chess, poetry, and mountaineering. That's where the city was. Ah, that's where the mountaineering came on.
SPEAKER_01So they were he was like, I am going to scale the college roof.
SPEAKER_03Yes.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, yeah. I know they did that because I went on a tour in Cambridge recently on the on the River Cam punting.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_01By recently, I mean last two years ago. Um I've done an axe. For a Hindu. And um and yeah, they told me that um yeah, people do silly stunts and climb the roofs.
SPEAKER_03They do, they do indeed. Hilarious. I heard that story while I was punting as well.
SPEAKER_01Maybe we had the same tool, guys. Maybe we did. Maybe they just have the same script.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, most likely. Yeah, most likely, yeah. Uh so when he was at Cambridge, he that's when he started exploring his sexuality, looked into atheism and mysticism, and basically rejected.
SPEAKER_01He basically found himself.
SPEAKER_03He basically found himself. He was he was like, screw Christianity.
SPEAKER_01Do we like this guy? We well Is there some questionable things in his history?
SPEAKER_03He did do some questionable things, yeah. Oh, good lord. So in 1898, he joined the Hermatic Order of the Golden Dawn, which at the time was the most advanced magical society in Damn.
SPEAKER_01Cool.
SPEAKER_03And he trained in ritual magic, kabbala. Kalalal um alchemy and tarot.
SPEAKER_01Oh, we love a bit tarot.
SPEAKER_03I should have brought my tarot cards today, shouldn't I? You should have done it. You should have put them on the desk.
SPEAKER_01I have some tarot cards.
SPEAKER_03You've got have you got the rider? Right.
SPEAKER_01I have the witchy.
SPEAKER_03The witchy ones.
SPEAKER_01Have you? I don't know.
SPEAKER_03Oh what they I've got the the the actual main.
SPEAKER_01The main Yeah, you have the the OG.
SPEAKER_03The OG tarot ones.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, I have the pretty version.
SPEAKER_03Ah, okay.
SPEAKER_01They're a good set though.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. Are they I've never seen yours.
SPEAKER_01They're purple.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, you've seen, yeah. You can get them after this. Yeah. Last time I had my tarot cards out was when we did the uh when we did D D and that's how I did the thingy. Yeah, that was cool. Yeah, because I've got some runes as well that I made myself.
SPEAKER_01Yes, I remember you making them runes.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. Uh so the basically he did actually clash with other members in the Golden Dawn, such as WB8s. They didn't get on. Oh. Yeah, they didn't get on. And he basically went into real deep independent magical exploration. He really looked into it and it kind of enveloped his his whole life. Now, in 1904, he wrote a book called The Book of the Law, which was a main major turning point within the Golden Door. And during a crit uh a crypt during a trip to Cairo, Cla Crowley claimed to receive a spiritual revelation from a non-human entity named Iwas.
SPEAKER_01He had a religious experience.
SPEAKER_03He had a religious experience.
SPEAKER_01Interesting. Someone that's rejected religion.
Thelema And The Book Of The Law
SPEAKER_03Yeah. Yes, and the text revealed to him during this spiritual revolution revelation was the book of the law, or Libra Alvel Legis is Latin. And the central doctrine of the text is basically do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the law. Love is the law, love under will. And it basically that philosophy became the foundation of Thelma or Thelema, which is Crowley's spiritual and magical system as what he created.
SPEAKER_01Can we break that down? Do what thou wilt shall basically do what you want. The whole of the law.
SPEAKER_03Do what you want.
SPEAKER_01Do what you want, but love is the law.
SPEAKER_03Yes.
SPEAKER_01As in are we talking romantic love? Are we talking about it?
SPEAKER_03Just love love in general.
SPEAKER_01But then it says love under will, so will actually beats love.
SPEAKER_03It does. So when we come onto what the in a little while it's there there is a kind of phrase within Wicca, which kinda is quite similar.
SPEAKER_00Okay.
SPEAKER_03Which is the foundation of what the Wicca religion is. And out of all of the religions, that I think is the is the best way to live.
unknownOh.
SPEAKER_03I'll come onto it in a little while.
SPEAKER_01I can't believe you have just you have just pro'ed an a a religion.
SPEAKER_03I have prored a religion. Yeah. Yes. But no, this just this one phrase. One phrase. Which is the the concept of what Wicca actually is. So Thelema is not Wicca, but it is heavily influenced by Wicca. Okay. Of what Crowley was doing. So basically the core concepts are that every person has a true will, which is their sole purpose. So everyone has a purpose. Ethical focus shifts from avoiding harm to fulfilling one's true will. So basically, you need to be fulfilling your true purpose. And ritual magic is used to align the self with that purpose.
SPEAKER_00Okay.
SPEAKER_03So they're the core concepts. So Crowley wrote loads of stuff. He wrote magic in theory and practice. He wrote the Book of Thoth, which is the Tara System and Symbolism, 777, which is the magical correspondence and ritual structure.
SPEAKER_01Oh yeah, angel numbers.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, exactly. And the vision and the voice, which is the magic explorations. So yeah, so that's uh he did quite a lot within the realms of Thelmia.
SPEAKER_01Thalema.
SPEAKER_03Thelema, yes. And uh that was around sort of the at there was an abbey which was founded in 1920 and lasted three years. And he created this kind of communal magical retreat in Sicily where members practiced ritual, meditation, yoga, and drug experimentation. And it became out it became absolutely infamous. And the reason was was because newspapers went there and said, Well, everyone's like everyone's naked and grey naked and doing the sex, worshipping the sun, yeah. Well, and doing the sex, and there was some animal sacrifice. It was there was a lot of drug use, and of course, like we did the cults episode, it was very, very cult-like. Essentially, it was a cult. Ah. It was a cult.
SPEAKER_01Um Crowley.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, but then in 1923. We liked you. Yeah, we did. When in 1923, Mussolini chucked Crowley out. Mussolini chucked Crowley out of Italy because he was too extreme. Mussolini. Okay. Well, to be fair, somebody somebody died there actually at the retreat, and Mussolini was like, right, you lot, out. To be fair. Yeah, yeah, someone died, and it was out. And he was known, that was when um Crowley was then known as the world's wickedest man.
SPEAKER_01It would be lovely to be known as the as the world's wickedest something.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, so that is, yeah. He at the time he explored bisexuality when it was illegal in the UK.
SPEAKER_01Oh no.
SPEAKER_03He did a lot of psychedelics and narcotics such as opium, mesculine, heroin. Um he did a thing-I've never heard of masculine.
SPEAKER_01What's masculine?
SPEAKER_03Uh it's it's mentioned in The Matrix. You know when the when Neo goes to the uh goes to the um bar at the beginning and meets Trinity for the first time.
SPEAKER_01Is it an opioid?
SPEAKER_03Or he says follow the white rabbit. No, it's a psychedelic, I think. I think it's a psychedelic, I'm not 100% sure.
SPEAKER_01Because heroin and obviously opium is opiates.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, yeah. I think I think masculine is a psychedelic.
SPEAKER_01Oh, okay.
Abbey Of Thelema: Infamy And Fallout
SPEAKER_03Yeah. But then he did a lot of yoga and meditation techniques, which was borrowed from Buddhism and Hinduism as well.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_03So there was that side of things.
SPEAKER_01Um I'm down with that side. Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_03I mean, I said before. He was not Wiccan. He did not, he was not a witch. He was not Wiccan, he made that very, very clear. But his ideas kind of did feed into Wicca.
SPEAKER_01Complimented.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, because there was another guy called Gerald Gardner.
SPEAKER_01Oh.
SPEAKER_03Who was Do we like him? We do like him as well. Yeah, he's cool. Um, and so Gardner's was the bear with me just scrolling down. But yeah, in later years, Crowley actually did struggle with health, addiction, and of course his own. Oh no shit. Yeah. But he died age 72 in 1947 in Hastings.
SPEAKER_01Oh, we're not even in your age.
SPEAKER_03No, no, no, no, no.
SPEAKER_01Died on the 1st of December 1947. In Hastings. Oh, 800 double 1966.
SPEAKER_03But he was very influential about mod with with regard to modern day witchcraft.
SPEAKER_01Have you ever been to Hastings? Uh no. Somewhere I've been that you haven't. Oh yeah, I've never been to Hastings. No.
SPEAKER_03Not as many, many places that his influence is still today in modern witchcraft and Wicca, the occult orders that still go on, uh Chaos Magic, uh tarot systems. But even rock music counterculture, like Led Zeppelin, Bowie, Aussie.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_03There's stuff going on. Satanic stuff with Crowley in there. And Crowley is even on the Sgt. Pepper's album cover.
SPEAKER_02Oh.
SPEAKER_03The Beatle Sgt. Pepper album cover. Yeah.
SPEAKER_02Okay. Okay.
SPEAKER_03Because he was he was seen to be a counterculturist. Yeah.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_03He was very counterculture. So he was, I mean, you could to summarise up his life, he was he was a visionary, he was very provocative, incredibly provocative.
SPEAKER_00Provocator!
SPEAKER_03And he did shape the modern Western magical landscape through what he did with the Golden Dawn, with Thelema, with ritual magic philosophy. And yeah, just a very, very, very controversial kind of person.
SPEAKER_00Oh damn.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. But then we move on to the 1930s to the 1950s.
SPEAKER_01Still not in your era.
SPEAKER_03Still not in my era. I'm still not even thought of just yet.
SPEAKER_01Still not alive.
SPEAKER_03No, no. But this guy, Gerald Gardner. So he was born 1884.
SPEAKER_01Do you know what your mum's birth year is? This might be random, but I promise it's my mum. Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Fifty something, nineteen fifty something. She had me when she was twenty, so nineteen fifty five.
SPEAKER_01So there's the same difference between you and your mum, is the same difference between me and you?
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Damn. Yeah. It's like history repeating itself.
SPEAKER_03Exactly.
unknownYeah. Old aim.
SPEAKER_03But Britain, Britain, where we live, Britain.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Is known as the birthplace of modern day Wicca.
SPEAKER_01Oh, damn, we have something to our name. Yeah. Something good.
SPEAKER_03Gerald Gardner. He'll know him. Yes, 1884 to 1964. He was a retired civil surgeon.
SPEAKER_01Damn, he lived for a long time. He lived 80 years.
SPEAKER_03He did. He was a folklorist, a nudist, and he was an occult enthusiast.
SPEAKER_01Then why are they always nudists?
Crowley’s Legacy In Culture
SPEAKER_03He's just like flopping around, walking around.
SPEAKER_01Oh my gosh, can I tell you a story?
SPEAKER_03Oh, go on, go on.
SPEAKER_01My last shoot with um Amy is a friend of mine, but a photographer, and she was also in one of your music videos.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_01We went to um oh was it Holcombe? Yeah, I think that's called Holmes.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, where they've got the nude column. The nudist beach. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01And suddenly I just saw this man with his dong out. And I was like walking along this beach. And I was like, I clocked Amy and Amy clocked me and we were like, okay, is this a creepy situation? Or was it a nudis beach? Wait, wait, no, I didn't know that at the time. As I kept walking, I was like, well, that was weird. Like that five minutes, ten minutes had passed, maybe. Yeah. We saw another one. We were like, okay. Immediately, like, was like, oh, take a de a deep breath. Because we were like, okay, we just thought some creep was coming towards us with a schlong out. And then remember we see another guy with a schlong out. But why are they all of a certain age? Can I say that? Like they're very um. I'm gonna say single. Yeah, I feel like they that's it, isn't it? They're like 60, 70 up. Yeah. There was no women on this beach. It was all schlong. And I was just like, it was like the clocking of each other. Like we clocked and we were like, we were like, it at first you genuinely, like two women just together with a load of bags and stuff. You think it's some sort of creep.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
Gerald Gardner And Modern Wicca
SPEAKER_01And we were like, like trying not to look, that you feel like you have to look. Like it's just it's that weird moment. So I imagine if someone I I find that, you know, if you see a lady, and this is men and women, if you see a lady with her, with with with a with a desirable cleavage, shall we say, in in a bar, you can't not look. Like I try and look at their face when I talk, but my eyes do drift. Like, I'm I'm happy to admit that. And this was the exact same thing, but like a lot lower down. So it was a lot more obvious that my eyes were like that. Thank God I was wearing sunglasses. But yeah, anyway, just so much slung that day, it was unreal.
SPEAKER_03Hang on a minute. How long ago was this?
SPEAKER_01This was this must have been last it was cold. I was gonna say because it's it was like last September or something, last October.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, that's cold.
SPEAKER_01That was cold. Yeah. And they everything was out, I can assure you. Brilliant. But yeah, it's that it's that moment of oh my gosh, is this a creep coming towards us? And then when you see another one, you're like, oh, oh no, this is cool. Like, we're in the nuder speech section. That's fine. Because obviously cameras aren't allowed as well for obvious reasons.
SPEAKER_03For obvious reasons, yeah.
SPEAKER_01But she was only taking pictures of me and no schlongs, I can confirm. Um, and I didn't have my schlong out, just so you're aware.
SPEAKER_03No schlongs are so much stuff now, but I'm not going to. No, I am your daughter, so uh it's PG. Yeah. Oh dear God.
SPEAKER_01Um I hope I can say schlong because I feel like so much I don't want to believe it out.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, schlong's fine.
SPEAKER_01Okay, good.
SPEAKER_03Should we go back to Gerald Gardner? Yeah, with his schlong out in the new forest. Oh, yeah. Because he was, he claimed that he was initiated into a surviving witch coven in the new forest around 1939.
SPEAKER_01Okay, okay.
SPEAKER_03And they believe the current coven did actually exist and had been a mixture of folk magic, Masonic rituals, masons, uh ceremonial magic, and early neo-pagan ideas. So, this is what I was saying when I said a little while ago about how one of the the wic and read it's called. I like this. Out of all the religions, I actually think this is as a core principle is one of the best ones. So the Wiccan Reed says, and it harm none, do what you will.
SPEAKER_01As an if it doesn't, if it doesn't hurt anyone, do what you want.
SPEAKER_03Exactly that.
SPEAKER_01Oh damn. Yeah. I live my life by that.
SPEAKER_03That is the core principle of Wicca.
SPEAKER_01Yeah. If you're not doing any ha uh do anyone, have fun.
SPEAKER_03Have fun, do what you want. As long as it doesn't hurt anyone, do what you want.
SPEAKER_01I really wish that this was a core belief of everyone. Yeah. Because how easy would this world be when it comes to LGBT, like uh anything of any nature that's like even remotely odd or strange or queer or whatever you want to call it. That's r like out of that box of the norm, which I don't think I hate using the word normal, but out of that, you know, the check box of this is a human woman and this is a human man.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Yeah. If it ain't causing anyone any problems.
SPEAKER_03That is essentially what it is. That's what Wicca is. Do what you want as long as it doesn't hurt you.
SPEAKER_01I want to become Wiccan. How do I become Wiccan?
SPEAKER_03Well, you can then.
SPEAKER_01I'm not getting my schlong out, but I'm just saying.
SPEAKER_03I've got a load of I've got a load of books upstairs. Not here, obviously, but at home up in the loft.
SPEAKER_01They're in my loft?
SPEAKER_03I've got Wiccan of you.
SPEAKER_01Magic to them here.
SPEAKER_03I've got loads of books on Wicca, Voodoo, like all the tarot cards and the runes and all of that. I did a lot of.
SPEAKER_01I feel like you you you rolled for deception then.
SPEAKER_03No, generally have. I'm actually no, I generally have. Okay. I've got lo I've got loads of stuff.
SPEAKER_01How does one become Wiccan? Do you go to a like is there a Wiccan like building?
SPEAKER_03You could just be Wiccan now.
SPEAKER_01I don't want to say a church, but like just get some books and have a read. I've got I've got tarot. Yeah. If I should. Just have some books and have a read. I just get a tarot book.
SPEAKER_03Anyway. But some of the key Wiccan beliefs are um there is the dual deity system. You've got the goddess and the horned god.
SPEAKER_00Oh, dual deity.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. There are eight sabbaths, which is the wheel of the year drawn from the Celtic and folklore festivals. There is, in some traditions, there is the ritual nudity. So it's being called sky clad.
SPEAKER_02Sky clad. Skyclad.
SPEAKER_03If you want your schlong out.
SPEAKER_02Clad.
The Wiccan Rede Explained
SPEAKER_03But yeah. So uh yeah, in in essence, in actual kind of when you when you translate the Wick and Read properly, it says you may act as you wish as long as your actions cause no harm.
SPEAKER_01Yeah. That's it. I love it.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_01I love it.
SPEAKER_03It is not also, it's not a rule of obedience, like a commandment, but rather just a guide for ethical baby behaviour.
SPEAKER_01Suggestion. Yeah.
SPEAKER_03It it doesn't. It encourages personal responsibility, awareness of consequences. Free will. And respect for all life. And that's physical, emotional, spiritual, and ecological.
SPEAKER_01And animal?
SPEAKER_03And animal. The whole lot.
SPEAKER_01Nice. It's just basically I guess ecological comes down to that, yeah.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Oh.
SPEAKER_03So in the in 18 in 1951. Remember I said in the previous episode there was the Witchcraft Act?
SPEAKER_01Uh yeah. Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Well that got it. Definitely remember that.
SPEAKER_01Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, in 1951. And that's when Gerald Gardiner began publicly writing about Wicca. So really have a little read of some of his stuff.
SPEAKER_01Okay.
SPEAKER_03Have a little read. Um so he's I mean he wrote in 1950.
SPEAKER_01As long as he's not dull and drivel. I don't like a dull man.
SPEAKER_03The book that I've got is definitely not dull.
SPEAKER_01Okay.
SPEAKER_03It's not. It's not dull. So he but he wrote a book called Witchcraft Today in 1954 and the meaning of witchcraft in 1959, and he published those books, and that kind of opened kind of opened the door for modern day Wicca. Yeah, and then in the 1960s, there was the Alexandrian Wicca. Your mama, welcome to the 60s. Yeah, the swinging 60s, the hippie culture. Again, that culture kind of coming back in. That's what it was. And Alex and Maxine Alex and Maxine Sanders uh created the Alexandrian Wicca in the 1960s in London, Manchester. And that was that's much more ceremonial, structured, and theatrical than what Gardner's Wicker was.
SPEAKER_01Right. I'm gonna say something slightly mildly controversial now. It annoys me when anything is called Alexandrian because everywhere in Greece, at like we're talking ancient Greece, everywhere was called Alexandria.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Everywhere. So there was like a hint to this and a hint to that, a hint to that. Now in modern day, you look at any well, well, Russia don't participate in in ice skating anymore or Olympics as such as Russia because of everything going on. Um, but you have like the the Republic of people of Russia instead. I can't remember what they're called, but they're not Russians anymore. They're all called Alexandria as well, right? So why are we still calling things Alexandria? We're gonna get confused, and it annoys me because there's like a police called Alexandria, there's this, there's that, there's that. And stop calling things Alexandria. I'm just putting it out there. It's a lovely, it's a beautiful name, it's very Greek, it's very this. But stop calling things Alexandria because everything is called Alexandria. And it really annoys me.
SPEAKER_03Are you done?
SPEAKER_01I'm o I'm done. Are you sure? Are you okay? I just I know it's controversial, but how much hot chocolate have you had? That is it.
SPEAKER_03It's normally me going on the rants.
Rituals, Sabbats And Sky Clad
SPEAKER_01Yeah, it just annoys me. It just annoys me that like like everything. If you read, I'm really into Greek mythology as well, and I read a lot of the stuff. And when anyone bases a character or anything on that, and I love I love it when I love it when authors base a lot of stuff on Greek mythology because it's something I really enjoy reading and I like people's modern take on it. Please stop calling your characters Alexandria because I will, I, I, I, I just cringe every time. I I honestly I know she was Trojan horse lady. I know, I know, I do not need to be reminded. Alexandria is no longer a place in my mind, it is out of the way. Sorry if you're called Alexandria. I don't hate your name. It's just your parents I hate.
SPEAKER_03It's not your fault, but your parents did it.
SPEAKER_01That was a very Freudian response. It's your parents.
SPEAKER_03It wasn't tell me about your mother. Tell me about your mother.
SPEAKER_01Sorry for going off about the name Alexandria. I only know one that in my life.
SPEAKER_03I don't know any Alexis, I don't think.
SPEAKER_01We do. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_03We do. We do. We do, we do, yeah, yeah, we do. I didn't think about I don't think I know any others. No, I don't. No, I don't know any others, no.
SPEAKER_01But my point still stands.
SPEAKER_03Okay. Shall we go on to Witchcrafter today? Yeah, I'd love to be kind of closing the episode off.
SPEAKER_01Before I get banished by the Wiccans.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. Uh so I completely lost my track of the page. I'm very off killer. You've just gone on one about the one name Alex. So in the UK today, modern paganism and Wicca is actually a recognised religion now. It is recognised.
SPEAKER_01Oh, damn.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. And you have pagan chaplains in prisons. You can have legal pagan weddings. In fact, your wedding. I know it was a Christian, but it was very the the the imagery of it and what the what you were wearing and that was was almost very pagan.
SPEAKER_01We uh why did I say it like that?
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_01We went for a uh the what is known in the UK as a non-religious ceremony, it's a civil uh ceremony as opposed to a religious ceremony. I don't know what they're doing.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, Christian, Christian.
SPEAKER_01It's not already Christian though, it's just it's just in in when you go to like book your wedding, it's this or that. There's there's only two options. Um well I'm sure there are other options in in ev in other cultures, but yeah. I yeah. When I went to the registry office, they were like, hi, are you having this or this? And I was like, this one. Um and that's so that we didn't have anything too religious-y in our ceremony. I don't think God was mentioned in it, and we also chose you can choose scripts of what you want your wedding to sound like, what it wants to do. We chose the shortest one. We're just like this one, because it's short.
SPEAKER_03And then they were like- You do you, you are.
SPEAKER_01Pretty much, yeah, yeah, pretty much. And then they were like, Oh, and then you choose a reading. And we were looking at all the readings, and there's they put them into categories like this one's a romantic reading, this one's about love, this one's about family, and this one's like there was just a section that said comedy, and we were like, ha and then it looked in the comedy, and then we had uh a little comedy. I can't remember what the the reading was, but um, but yeah, yeah, we we had a non-religious ceremony because we got married in a golf, golf, what they called?
SPEAKER_03Basically, it was a golf club house. Golf club, golf club, that's what I mean.
SPEAKER_01Club is the one I was looking for. Yeah, we got married at a golf club.
SPEAKER_03In fact, you know, I've been to so many weddings there, my brother got married there as well.
SPEAKER_01I I did ask Auntie Hillary before before we got married, I was like, oh, is it okay to get married here? Okay, and how did you find everything? She was like, Oh, that's good.
SPEAKER_03That's good.
SPEAKER_01But yeah.
SPEAKER_03Um so yeah, so in today, yeah, is it is officially recognised. Uh there are recognised religious communities as well for with Garden Wicca, and you they still do a lot of tarot reading, herbalism and hedge witchcraft, which goes back to the early days with like the mistletoe, the mug war, and all of that. Oh yeah, moon moon rituals, uh celebrating the stab sabbaths, um, hearth magic, and then of course they have the rituals of the ancient sites, such as Stonehenge, oh yeah, Glastonbury Tour, and Avery. Yeah. And we do still have we do still have some regional traditions.
SPEAKER_01We do Cornish Witchcraft. Cornish Witchcraft.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, the Pixies. There is something quite magical about Cornwall.
SPEAKER_01There is something spiritual about Cornwall.
SPEAKER_03I can't place it, but it's just it's got that air of mysticism about it.
SPEAKER_01St. Nectane's Glen particularly made me feel d uh uh there was there was some even as a child it felt like it was Can I say the word magical? I don't want to be Yeah yeah yeah, but it felt there is a a whimsical, yeah, natural magical feel to it. I can I can't I can't explain it. It's just a very spiritual place.
SPEAKER_03It is, it's it's quite mystical, and then you've got the clouties everywhere and the little Cornish pixies.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, the Cornish pixies.
SPEAKER_03I think I mean obviously I think a lot of it's to do with the Arthur uh you know the Arthur legend as well. Yeah and Merlin and Morgana Cafe and Tim Tadgel, yeah, and all of that. But there is just something that I when you go to Cornwall and certain apps, certain areas of Cornwall, there's no it's got a feeling.
SPEAKER_01It does have a feeling. It does have a feeling.
SPEAKER_03Very, very mystical place.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, very mystical.
SPEAKER_03Um then, of course, we do have the Scottish folk magic at the moment as well, so there's still a lot of folk magic up in Scotland, which is again going back to with the fairies.
SPEAKER_00Oh, yeah, all of that.
SPEAKER_03And in Wales, they have folk healing and spirit traditions in Wales, and then of course, where we are La Norfolk. The Norfolk and East Anglia, we still have the cunning folk and the cunning craft.
SPEAKER_01We do, yes.
SPEAKER_03So, modern British pagan movements, we do have the um Joe Gardener and the um the other A name, which I won't mention in case you go off on one again. Wicker. There are some druids, but obviously slightly different to how druid was back then because we don't know that much.
SPEAKER_01So not druid, as in using odd the druids you're looking for, druid.
SPEAKER_03What? That's a Jedi Egypt.
SPEAKER_01Oh, are they different? I thought the druids were like them like What Jedi? The little like the little sand people.
SPEAKER_03No, that's Jawas.
Sites, Regions And Folk Magic
SPEAKER_01What deeny! Are they not druids? No. Jawas I don't I don't watch Star Wars. I thought they were like Druid. What's a druid then?
SPEAKER_03A druid is like an ancient the druids were in Britain's years and years ago. We started the whole like started off talking about the druids in this episode not this episode, but the previous one.
SPEAKER_01I I honestly thought they were a sci-fi thing.
SPEAKER_03No.
SPEAKER_01I thought the druids were just like a race of Star Wars people.
SPEAKER_03Are you alright?
SPEAKER_01I don't know. I am I'm not feeling too hot to be honest. I felt better than I did last time I recorded, but I'm still not great.
SPEAKER_03Um then we've got the eclectic and solitary witchcraft as well, which I think probably that's be the sort of thing that you might want to start looking into.
SPEAKER_01Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, and that sort of stuff.
SPEAKER_01The Wiccans.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, the Wiccans. And the feminist witchcraft communities.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, I mean, I'm all for that.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Um, we need all the help we can get.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Mystical or not.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. Oh. So you can we can pretty much say that witchcraft in Britain evolved from like the druids. Martini. Um, and the Celtic shamanism to folk medicine. Basically, throughout it it's evolved throughout time because of persecution and then revival, persecution, revival, and it is one of the most significant uh movements in the 20th century.
SPEAKER_01I need to ask about this druid. I need to ask about this druid thing one more time.
SPEAKER_03Oh my god.
SPEAKER_01What are they called in June?
SPEAKER_03In June?
SPEAKER_01Yeah, what what are like the sand people called?
SPEAKER_03Oh my god, I can't remember.
SPEAKER_01Are they called druids?
SPEAKER_03No, I can't remember.
SPEAKER_01They've got the blue eyes, haven't they? Because of the spice in the air.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. Yeah. Uh I can't remember. Aphorum Have at Google. Google it. Okay. Google it.
SPEAKER_01Carry on closing the episode off.
SPEAKER_03I will close the episode off. So basically, the re- this is one of the reasons why I chose Britain and Witchcraft, because it's been so influential in Britain, and it has, you know, I think Britain is the one who actually created modern day Wicca, but based on a lot of Norse Celtic traditions.
SPEAKER_01They're called Fremen?
SPEAKER_03Fremen, of course they are. Freeman. Freeman Fremen. Freeman. Play on the word Freeman.
SPEAKER_01Okay.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_01So uh what we've learned from this uh episode part one and part two is that I am gonna become Wiccan, I feel.
SPEAKER_03You think?
SPEAKER_01Yeah. Shall I go get the uh tarot?
SPEAKER_03Well have a little just look into it. I'm gonna look into it. Just have a little look into it.
SPEAKER_01I'm gonna look into it. Yeah. I wouldn't call myself a religious person, but I I'm feeling it.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. I I did. I mean, like I looked into I I read loads of stuff about it. And you know, the more although I never because you know I dn don't like religions in general, but out of all of them If you're gonna pick one. If you're gonna pick one, I'd pick this one.
SPEAKER_01You'd pick Wiccan.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. Because basically, because of that principle.
Druid Myths, Memes And Clarifications
SPEAKER_01Yeah. Yeah. Because, you know. If you're not doing any harm, go to town.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, if you're not hurting it yourself or anyone else, do what you want. The world is your oyster.
SPEAKER_01Seems seems legit.
SPEAKER_03It's such a simple concept. Very simple.
SPEAKER_01Very simple.
SPEAKER_03Just being ethical.
SPEAKER_01Well, if you enjoyed this episode, part two of Witchcraft, um, we have plenty more in Z Bank. And if you are up to date with everything, we've got more to come.
SPEAKER_03Um we have tune in next week to hear Hannah's names.
SPEAKER_01My names.
SPEAKER_03You know, let's just pick another name which you're gonna pop out.
SPEAKER_01I really don't like the name. What was it the other day I heard?
SPEAKER_03Careful because there will be people called this name.
SPEAKER_01Oh, what was it? It was something that I was like, that is just a stupid name.
SPEAKER_03It will come to me. It wasn't Chlamydia, was it?
SPEAKER_01It wasn't Chlamydia, that's a funny story. Although shit name as well, but yeah. Yeah. Anyway, um, yes, if you've enjoyed the episode, we've got plenty more in the bank, or we've got plenty more to come. So uh the only thing left to say is cute the outro. Thanks for joining us on bonus dad, bonus daughter. Don't forget to follow us on all our socials and share the podcast with someone who'd love it. We are available on all streaming platforms. See you next time. Bye-bye.