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EP: 33 | The Keys to the Results You Want: How Reframing Your Thoughts Can Transform Your Leadership

Vicki Abelson Episode 33

In this episode, I share one of my favorite coaching tools for leaders: the Trigger → Thought → Feeling → Result model. Learn how boredom, stress, or even too much success can throw you off-track—and how reframing your thoughts can get you back to calm, clarity, and confidence. If you're an executive navigating burnout, pressure, or uncertainty, this episode will help you create the results you actually want—at work and at home.

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🔑 Key Takeaways:

  • Boredom often masks deeper discomfort or insecurity
  • Your thoughts shape your emotional responses and your results
  • Leadership success comes from self-awareness, not just strategy
  • Curiosity is a powerful antidote to overwhelm
  • Reframing isn’t “positive thinking”—it’s smart, intentional mindset work
  • You don’t have to fix everything to lead well
  • The Trigger → Thought → Feeling → Result model is a practical, repeatable framework
  • Coaching can help you see your blind spots—and access better outcomes
  • Your best leadership move might be changing what you think, not what you do

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