The SpeakUp! Podcast

Moving from Control to Influence: A Conversation with Dr. Steve Treat

Martie Bernicker Season 1 Episode 3

In this episode of The SpeakUp! Podcast, Dr. Steve Treat, a seasoned therapist and former CEO of Council for Relationships, discusses how parents can shift from controlling to influencing their teenagers through stronger relationships. Engaged by Martie Bernicker, Executive Director of SpeakUp!, Dr. Treat emphasizes the power of genuine relationships built over time, advocating for parents to be present without interrupting, engage in open dialogue, and seek feedback on their parenting. He advises transitioning from a purely parental role to recognizing teenagers as peers, valuing their perspectives while maintaining boundaries. Even for those new to this approach, Dr. Treat provides practical tips, such as being available, incorporating playtime, and managing interaction intensity. The episode concludes with three actionable tips: recognizing normal teenage behavior, assessing reinforced behaviors, and mindful communication to foster healthier relationships. The overarching message underscores the importance of relationships and open dialogue in parenting teenagers.

Guest: Dr. Steve Treat

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This episode is brought to you by our friends at the Uncommon Individual Foundation (UIF), a catalyst for change through mentoring. UIF’s ONTRACK Plus software is transforming the educational landscape for underserved students, by creating pathways to college credits and scholarships. Discover more at: uif.org

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This episode is brought to you by our friends at the Uncommon Individual Foundation (UIF), a catalyst for change through mentoring. UIF’s ONTRACK Plus software is transforming the educational landscape for underserved students, by creating pathways to college credits and scholarships. Discover more at: uif.org

Website
Learn more at www.speakup.org

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Facebook:
speakup.pa
LinkedIn: speakuporg

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