BTDubs Podcast

The Mom Panel - From Silence to Safety: Recognizing S*xual Abuse and Prevent Trauma Before It Happens PT 2

Jackie de Godbout Season 1 Episode 7

In this conversation, the panel discusses the heavy topic of s*xual trauma, focusing on its definition, prevalence, and the importance of prevention. They explore the challenges of discussing this topic, especially in the context of parenting and protecting children. 

The conversation highlights the need for awareness, education, and open communication between parents and children to recognize and prevent potential abuse. Special attention is given to the vulnerabilities of special needs children and the significance of setting boundaries and empowering children to speak up about their feelings and experiences. 

Personal stories are shared to illustrate the impact of trauma and the importance of vigilance in safeguarding children in both physical and digital spaces. This conversation delves into the complexities of parenting in the digital age, focusing on the importance of digital safety, monitoring children's online activities, and fostering open communication about boundaries and instincts. 

The participants share personal experiences and cultural perspectives, emphasizing the need for parents to educate themselves and their children about the potential dangers of technology while maintaining a nurturing environment. In this conversation, the speakers discuss the complexities of parenting in today's digital age, focusing on the importance of open communication, understanding the dangers of social media, and the realities of sexting and child pornography. 

They emphasize the need for parents to be proactive in educating their children about online safety, the implications of their digital footprints, and the importance of setting boundaries. The discussion highlights the challenges parents face in navigating these issues while fostering a supportive environment for their children.

Chapters

00:00
Introduction to a Heavy Topic

02:55
Understanding Sexual Trauma

05:58
The Importance of Prevention

09:11
Special Needs and Vulnerability

12:00
Vetting Individuals Around Children

14:58
Cultural Norms and Boundaries

17:58
Empowering Children to Set Boundaries

21:13
Recognizing Grooming Behaviors

24:11
Personal Stories and Their Impact

30:01
Digital Safety and Modern Challenges

36:33
Navigating Digital Safety for Children

39:18
Parental Control and Monitoring Strategies

42:46
Cultural Perspectives on Affection and Boundaries

46:57
Teaching Children to Trust Their Instincts

50:19
The Importance of Open Communication

54:40
Creating Safe Spaces for Conversations

59:54
Navigating Parental Challenges

01:02:52
Understanding Digital Dangers

01:06:00
The Reality of Sexting and Child Pornography

01:09:57
Digital Footprints and Privacy Concerns

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Sources and Resources:

The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence by Gavin de Becker
Nawww... I'm Not Ok!: Excuse Me While I Unmask by Shalonda "Treasure" Williams

If you or someone you know is experiencing or has experienced sexual abuse, please know you are not alone. Support is available.

In the U.S., you can call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) or visit rainn.org for confidential support.

In Canada, visit protectchildren.ca or call Kids Help Phone at 1-800-668-6868, available 24/7.

If a child is in immediate danger, please contact local authori

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