Episode 8: Asking for Help, It Takes a Village

Summary

In this episode, my childhood friend Amanda and I discuss the topic of motherhood as it relates to asking for help. We discuss why we think it's hard to ask for help, and how it takes a village to raise children. Amanda gives great motherhood advice and share about her experience asking for help during her C-section recovery. We also discuss the nuances of sharing experience versus telling someone 'what they should do' in a situation.  We also discuss the need for effective communication and the value of supportive friends. The conversation concludes with advice for our younger selves and reflections on the changing priorities and lessons learned from motherhood.

Takeaways

• Motherhood can be challenging, and it is important to ask for help when needed.
• A supportive network of friends, family, and partners is crucial in navigating the journey of motherhood.
• Effective communication and setting clear expectations can make asking for help easier.
• Prioritizing self-care and mental health is essential for being the best parent possible.

Chapters

00:00
Introduction and Background

01:23
The Difficulty of Asking for Help

05:45
The Importance of a Supportive Network

07:19
The Impact of COVID-19 on Motherhood

10:48
Areas of Need and Asking for Help

12:09
The Role of Partners and Family in Providing Help

18:01
Overcoming the Difficulty of Asking for Help

21:50
Advice for Younger Self

25:59
Changing Priorities and Lessons from Motherhood

32:09
Conclusion and Gratitude