Kevin Samuels Why Is She Still Single at 37?

In this powerful episode of The No Pills Podcast, Gordon McGee reacts to a viral clip featuring Kevin Samuels and a 37-year-old high-earning, single mother of two. This conversation is a raw, practical example of the challenges faced in modern dating and relationships, highlighting why traditional, faith-based courtship might be the answer

The episode delves into:

The "Rent-a-Gent" Debate: Kevin Samuels' controversial suggestion for the 37-year-old woman.
Dating vs. Courting: A deep dive into the secular male mindset regarding relationships versus a Bible-based approach to no sex before marriage.

"Friends with Benefits" & "Friend Zoning": The harsh reality of using male friends for companionship without sexual intent, and why men often don't want to be "friend-zoned".

The "Carousel" & Engagement Queens: Discussing the woman's past dating choices, multiple engagements, and the concept of "engagement queens".

Pretty Privilege & Mismanagement of Opportunities: Kevin Samuels' and Gordon McGee's take on how attractive women often squander their dating advantages.

Unrealistic Expectations: The woman's high financial standards for a partner despite her relationship history and two children.

The "Boring Man" Regret: Her admission of choosing exciting but unstable men over a "boring" yet consistent partner, and her desire to go back.

The Importance of Modesty & Consistency: The impact of social media presence on how women are perceived by men and the desire for consistent partners.

Finding God's Way: Gordon McGee's impassioned plea for listeners to prioritize faith, humility, and realistic expectations in relationships.
This case study is an encouragement to do things "God's way" and avoid the pain, suffering, and misery that can come from modern dating approaches

Today on No Pills Podcast, we discuss the experiences of a **single life** with an Instagram **model**. We talk about **dating advice** and the challenges of being a **single mom**. This **relationship advice** will help you navigate modern relationships.

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In 3, 2, 1. Welcome back, beloved. I'm Gordon McGee and this is The No Pills Podcast, love. Fully scripted, and today haha. Instagram model, baby Mama of two, high Earner and single at 37 versus Kevin Samuels. This is a practical example of why you should be courting and not dating someone within your own faith and denomination. While there's no guarantees, this will keep you free from all headaches and red flags. I'm telling you, it will greatly help you. I ran into this clip online and thought, man, we need to cover this over here at No Pills Podcast. I know this won't be applicable to every person in our audience, but I'm telling you, there is some stuff here that you just cannot. Make up that you should know, and this should be of greater encouragement for us to continue to do it God's way. Now, for those of you who don't know who Kevin Samuels is, let me give you a little, uh, bio here. All right, Kevin Rohan Samuels, uh, was an American Internet personality and image consultant. He rose the popularity in 2020 through his YouTube and Instagram live streams discussing modern society gender issues and relationships. Samuels worked in the marketing industry before he started his own image consulting firm. In 2013, he accumulated 1.4 million subscribers on YouTube, 1.2 million followers on Instagram, and thousands on several other online platforms like Twitter and TikTok. Uh, Samuels engaged in commentary on dating prospects for men and women with a focus on the African American community. Kevin Samuels passed away from hypertension and a potential heart attack. May 5th, 2022. Rest in peace to Kevin Samuels and condolences still to his family. I know what it's like to lose someone that you love very much. I couldn't even believe that I ran across this gym friend. So, without further ado, let's get into it and do some reaction to this, uh, video here. Hello. Hi. Who others told her that you can do that. Were you on? Were you, you been on before? No, I have not. It's my first time. How old are you? I am 37. So you prepared to rent a gen? Um, no. I've, no. Now listen, I don't know what this Rent a Gen is. I didn't go back and dig into it, and I, I've kind of put some of it together, I think, in my mind. But nevertheless, his, uh, recommendation is for her to rent a gentleman. So let's, uh, at 37. At 37, she needs to rent a gentleman. No, any ki Do you have any kids? Yes, I have twin daughters. Okay, so two children? Yes. Listen, twins, I don't even know. It's like, man, you think, oh, I'm gonna have me a baby. I'm gonna be able to pay for this baby. Take care of this baby. Love this baby. Then the doctor telling you, the physician's like, Hey man, just so you know, there's two of them in there, and for the quadruplets and the six tuts and everything else that. Oh, man. Do you just cry? Do you just start ah, you just start crying right there, like, man, babe, why? Why, why, why we having four babies? Why are we having six babies? Why we having eight babies? Crazy twins, but they're cute. All the twins I've always met, they're pretty cool people. So it's time to double up. Just like when are you supposed to sleep? Like, you know, like, uh, do, do, do twins ever sleep in sync? Like someone let me know in the, in the comment section, if you have twins, if you know somebody has twins, send this to them and tell them to hit me in the comment section and let me know. Is, is life tolerable when you have twin babies? Okay. Alright. She has twins. Have you ever been married? No. Engaged. Okay. Go ahead. Go ahead. Yeah, so I'm not prepared to rent a boo. I mean, I. I'm dating, so I do have male friends just in case I wanna go to a concert or mm-hmm. I, I, I need to look into this. Rent a boo. Like, like what, what you are dating though. Isn't dating renting a boo? I don't know. I, I don't think we're talking about sex work here, but I renting a, what is going on? Alright, well let's go back. I want you to, I want you to hear this. She goes, uh, I mean, I. I'm dating, so I do have male friends just in case I wanna go to a concert or mm-hmm. Out to dinner. Um, very convenient for her. Wanna go to a concert, wanna go out to dinner? Just call one of my male friends. How many of those male friends that she have, I wonder, all right, I need anything fixed in the house. I just have a maintenance guy. Who just come through a repair guy. I know who I pay to put my TV up or so in my example. Mm-hmm. Those male friends you have don't exist. Okay. See, those, the male friends you have have decided my nonsexual attention only works if you going, if you going, uh, uh, have sex with me. Mm-hmm. So, alright, so let, let me, let me, this is, this is no appeals podcast. We are, we are Bible based over here. I'm just using this example to show us this type of single thinking could be male or female, but in this case it's female thought process. What Kevin Samuels is talking about is a secular male mindset like, well, if I'm interested in you sexually, we should be having sex fornicating before marriage because that's how it operates in this world. I'm from that world. I'm from that place, so. The, the, the secular me before I was a Christian understands exactly what's going on here in this discussion. Like, well, if we're in a relationship, it should be beneficial to both of us. We should both be here, not playing games. And if we don't believe in marriage or we're not gonna get married, like I once upon, once upon a time I was in that place, then this is how it should operate and work. It shouldn't be this one sided or lopsided interaction, which he's gonna kind of continue to break down here. You need somebody to take you to the concert. That's cool, but we getting busy. Yikes. And we going know that upfront. So I'll be friends with benefits and I'm just, and I'm just saying that means having sex friends for all my folks who may not know what's going on here. Okay, getting busy is doing the upside down monkey. Alright?'cause that's the way it's supposed to be. You shouldn't get a man's non-sexual attention and you, and he doesn't get your sexual attention. I disagree with this. There should be courty dating, no sex before marriage. Okay? My, my. No pill squad. You already know this. I, I, you know, you know what's going on already over here, but let's just, let's just continue on. So, well, I actually invite him to the concert, like if I have to, it doesn't matter. And men say, and that's why I said you can't find a husband, find a man. See, that's, see you ladies have been able to cheat the system for too long. Hi, I'm not gonna have sex with you, but I'll, I'll say, I'll give you a ticket, so and so forth. He don't want the ticket, he wants to have sex with you. You do know that, right? Yes, I do. This is where it starts to get super wicked. She goes, yes, I do know that they want to have sex with me, but I'm just giving them a ticket and using them for companionship, rather. This is wicked. This is evil at a whole nother level. Oh, let's go and, and if men started telling you, no, if you're not going to have sex with me, lose my phone number. I don't want to be your friend. I don't have female friends. Shout out to that. No female friends, no friends of the opposite of sex acquaintances. No friends of the opposite sex. We only talk in acquaintances. Not mad at this. I recommended. I agree. A lot of my male friends have been friend zoned, so they, they, they want, yeah. That just means you don't want, they, they want, they want, they wanna do what? They wanted to sleep with me, but I friend zone them. So they had to. Yeah, and that's, I mean, because it's like, it's like it's coldblooded man. Coldblooded man. Just get married. Just, just get married. Select the best man out of this, this roster that you have. This group who's gonna treat you white, loves you, loves the Lord, and get. Just be, then you'll always have someone to go to the movies with. You'll always have somebody to go to the game with. You always have somebody to love on you. It's not like you'll have someone to set up your TV and like what? This is so backwards. This is so backwards. Friends. Oh, you. This is You can't improve on God. You've listen. No Pills. Podcast Love fully scripted. Someone tell me that I'm wrong in the comments. Were we on episode? I don't know, 70 something. Let me know if I've been wrong about doing it God's way This. It's foolishness. I remember this. I remember this clearly. This is pain, this is suffering. This is misery. Friends, that's like going up to the lion's cage and slapping at the lion. Ha ha. Look, you can't have it. You could have friends on me. I don't play that. I, I had plenty of pretty women around me. I don't play their friend zone. Mm-hmm. I've been in the friend zone before and it's a punk position to be in punk position to be in. Woo. It it. And y'all know what y'all are doing. Yes. Yes. She knows what she is doing. She's admitted it. Like she's straight telling us, men, listen, where am I men at? Look at me. Look at me. Your girlfriend knows what she's doing. This may be going on in the church as well. Friends, getting friend zone, knowing you want a commitment, knowing you want a relationship. Just using you. Using you, man. Mm. Spirit of using, going on. Oh, that's what I mean. This is why Regent. And rentable is for women like you because why can't you find a husband? Is he talking about paying for sex? I don't even know what's going on right there. But why can't you find a husband? This is a good question. That's a good question. Quiet. Quiet. Yeah, quiet. Um, I was engaged, uh, just recently, two months ago we broke up, so I've been in the process. How old are your children? They're, they turned 14 this past Sunday. Wait a minute. Uh, did you go to college? Did I go to college? Hmm. Yes. That's where I met their dad. Alright. Uh, you have a master's, bachelor's, what? I have a bachelor's and a Master's. Mm-hmm. I'm a PhD. Are you in Houston? No, I'm in Philadelphia. Close. Oh yes, I. Horrible out here. It's hard. The the men are No, no. She said the men are horrible. Okay. She's blaming the men. The men are the problem. She's saying, let, let's see if the men are the problem in this situation. She said, the men are the problem. They're horrible. Tell me about my brothers in Philly. You Philly. Are you from Philly? Yes, man. The only one. Philly, Detroit. Tell me. Chicago St. Louis, some of the most difficult women on the planet. But here's the thing, you met your, you met your baby daddy in college. Yes. Why didn't y marry? What a question. Why didn't y'all marry? You're probably thinking to yourselves, oh, that dude probably didn't wanna marry her. Um, he was, he was a kappa who was all about partying and good enough to have babies with, good enough to have babies. Don't I be saying this? Don't I be saying this over here? Man, good enough to get her pregnant. Good enough to carry his baby, but not good enough to marry Where? Where do we do this at France? Where do we do this At that we would have this intimate interaction. Take seed. Germinate mean, mean, incubate seed, have children, and then go, you know what? You're not good enough for me, but you're good enough to share half my DNA with what? What? Come on. What are we doing? Let him cook. Let's see. Yes, yes. But four years. Yes. Did he want to marry you four years? Yes, he did. Yo, are you serious right now, bro? He wanted to marry her. Oh, I'm having twins by you. We not even gonna give it a try. I can't. You didn't marry him because? Because he was still trying to, even after college, he was still trying to party and be a kappa. And I was the one working about my friend. But my thing is, in hindsight though, you married him. You had his baby, you had his babies. Yeah. I'm not trying to talk bad about your frat. My dad's a new, um, but what I'm saying, okay. Take that away though. All you have his children. Wow. Yeah, he was young. He wanted to party. That's what you picked. Yeah. He was older than me. Actually. I was a freshman and he was a senior and then I was a senior. Ain't no time older. All right, so, so you didn't older, what's that? Three years? He's that. This is crazy. He's that much older. Watch. I bet you should date a 50-year-old though, or a 60-year-old. I bet you watch. Mm-hmm. Marry him. You got two babies. You better hair on a cock carousel. This man said she got all a penis carousel, said, no, this man is wild. He said, you denied your baby father of marriage. You had twins by him. Said no to that and then went out and got on a penile carousel. Ladies talked to me in the chat. Friends get in the comment section. Let me, yo, this is, do you agree with this? If you agree with this woman's philosophy, please let me know in the comment section. This is. Wild. I listen, I, I don't think I would believe this if it wasn't recorded. Shout out to the internet and people wanting to go famous and go viral and they putting out all this foolishness so we can know how people are actually thinking out here. I don't want to be tricked. You been riding around, you've been around and you've been riding around. You engaged to him, right? Um, yes, I was engaged to him. Alright, to him. And then after him, have you been engaged again? Yes. Two other times. That's why I tell you the queen of engagement, engagement queens, man, I'm telling you, your grandfather engagement queens, he has terminology for this stuff. Engagement queens. So, but to be honest, what's wrong? But what's wrong with you? Hmm. To, well, to be honest, in my twenties what I was doing was just dating for fun, uh, dating, I'm gonna be really blunt, dating like, you know, rappers, athletes. And by time I got, I, I was ready to sit down. I was already in my thirties and I'm like, oh, like, yo, shout out to her for her honesty. Shout out to her for her honesty, but when she got to her thirties, it was like, yeah, yeah. Listen, I was 22 and my late wife was 20 when we got married. Gave all our good years to each other. I wanted to date, I was dating rappers and run, yo, this is UN with two babies, ladies, is this real? Is this really going on? Stay in the church friends and watch the people that are coming into the church. You hear me and watch the people that are coming into the church. I've done give away my most precious years to just. Partying and being on a scene, and now that I'm in my thirties, I'm trying to date and I really don't know what I like, I really don't. Yes, yes, yes. We've covered this on so many episodes. We listen. This is the dilemma, the comparison dilemma. You're now in because you've been on the carousel. Now you've had too many partners, now you're not satisfied. Now you can't commit. Now nobody can be right. Nobody can get right. Friends, this is a beautiful case study of why you need to come on over here, read that Bible lock into the most high, and do it God's way because this is waiting for you. Oh, it's waiting for you friends. The loneliness. Mm-hmm. The discontent. Is waiting for you, miss. I wanna be in the streets. I am the streets in my twenties. Get some, keep going. I'm trying to figure out what do I like, because for the past four years I've been engaged twice and there weren't, there weren't the ones. Have you been what? In the last, I didn't even last four years. Engaged twice. In neither therapy. Yes. I'm in therapy now. Shout out to that. Yeah. Let me ask sis, if you see this, come on home. Come on, come on, come on the team. Jesus. I, I'm not guaranteeing you a, a husband, but man, come, come on and get some of this healing. I, I, I found it. You can find it too. Okay. You can find it too. Woo. She's smiling the whole time too. Pretty, too not, not bad. Looking at all. Woo Mercy gentlemen. Do not trust. A pretty face. Hear ye hear, ye hear me. Now. Do not by the by, by the i, I. Ooh, I rebuke thee in the name of simple. If you trust a pretty face, if you are older, you know better. Do better. Let us not gentlemen, gents, let us not get tricked by, by a cute face or, or even a nice body. We are above that. Gentlemen, come on. Come up higher. Come on Kings. Come on, children of God to your question that you probably haven't asked yourself, because thank you for being honest.'cause I was gonna get to it anyway. You, you've had plenty of you if you've been with all these unsuitable men, you've had plenty of suitable men that just weren't exciting enough. Exactly. But that's what exciting enough now we have to be exciting enough. You gotta ju listen friends, get you a godly woman who wants to be a Proverbs 31 woman who wants to do it God's way. Who knows that this, this place is not our home, that we're going to eternity. There's gonna be a new heaven and a new Earth. That's the woman you wanna find because the A woman with this type of mindset that's like, it's not exciting enough. You want me to be a drug dealer? Do you want it to be jumping out airplanes? Huh? Not exciting enough. Do you want us to be bar fighting? Like what are you excited? What do you mean not exciting enough? I have to juggle fire, walk across hot coals, ride, ride a motorcycle. Risk my life every, like where do you, what do we mean? Not exciting enough? Ladies, explain it to me, please. What, what does your dad do for a living? Um, he owns retirement homes. And your mother and father married. No retirement homes. Money. Money. In the Monday. Monday. Moula coins. All right, so what do you, I don't care about what you want. What do you need? What do I need? I need, I need a man to bring stability in my life. Um, I need a man to profess, protect and provide. She needs Jesus. That's what she needs. She needs Jesus and then maybe a husband in that order. Yes. Yes. This is the Miss America Bull because that's the Miss America. World peace and feed the kids professor taking a advice. You need somebody to check. No, but the thing is, ma'am, need somebody to check you too. Fired up. Do you know what you need? Mm. Yes.'cause I, I'm gonna just go out on a limb. I'm gonna go out on a limb here. You've had plenty of men throw money at you, throw all kinds of stuff, and you've had all that and you still ain't happy. Mm. You're right. Stability. Stability meaning what? Shout out to her. You're right. Shout out to her like that. I like that energy. Being honest with herself. I shout out to her. Um, I just need a man who's consistently himself, not just like, so my past two relationships is like they go hard and then know once they got me, they fall off. Once they have sex with you, they fall off. Look at me. Look, look at me. I keep telling y'all ladies, listen to God. No stick in your hand in the cookie jar prematurely. No. Getting the milk for free. Buy the cow. You. Yes. They fall off. Now. The prize has been acquired. They haven't even gotten to know you. All they've been thinking about is having is sex. Here's this guy that you, oh, he's exciting enough. And then as soon as I give it to him, he's out leaving you and your two kids right where he found you. Are we this dense? We can't, we can't be this dense. Of course. So I just need Amanda to be consistent. I'm Well, why do you think, why do you think that is? Because they, they look at me through Instagram and they think this one thing like, oh, IG model. But what they do not know is that I'm corporate and I'm very humble. So once they find out like, oh, this girl is really just an everyday girl. Seriously just, yo, hold on. Talk about working against yourself. I'm corporate. I'm sophisticated, I'm humble, but my IG has them thinking I'm for the streets. What? Are you serious right now, bro? I can't. Ladies, listen, I've been saying this to y'all since day one. This dressing like a hoe. It ain't, it's a no-no, man. Wanting to be on, on, on social media, taking pictures of your butt all the time. Everybody turning around mirror. Look at my butt. Look at my butt. Look at my butt. Who knows what her IG looks like? It probably looks crazy, right? Brass. Probably all out butt. All just looking. She, you're, you're leading and communicating this, this fornication lifestyle. I'm easy. Come and get it. That if you're not, if you're not modest, that is what that communicates to a man. Ladies, if you don't know and then you're wondering like, oh, I don't know what's going, I don't know what's wrong. Well, I think it's because they look at my IG and then, you know, I don't really match my ig and then therefore they like, what kind of confu? Working against yourself? Literally working against, I don't even think she realizes who she is. Like I, I, I wanna, I, I want, I want to be loose to, I don't want to be loose no more. And I want someone to come along and just accept all of that because of the kids. He says it's because of the kids. Kids are not helping. Oh, no. He, he had four kids. That don't matter what us. Yeah. What, what? Wait, wait a minute. Lemme back up. He had four kids. He had four kids. What? She took four. Lord have mercy. That's six. It's the Brady Bunch. It's the Brady Bunch. You are a whole mess. Yes, she is a whole mess. See, I'm letting this play because I'm letting this play because you, you've been honest, but ma'am, but women with pretty privilege. I have really little to no sympathy for women like that because you, you have more opportunities than most women and you mismanaged them. Yo, this brother dropped a bomb right here. As a person with pretty privilege, as an attractive person, you have more opportunities than those who are not as attractive as you. I. You've just ruined every opportunity you got passes that other people would never get 'cause they're not as attractive as you. And you're just like, no, I'll keep waiting. Nah, let's go to the third floor. No, let's go to the fourth floor. Let's go to the fifth floor. You know, you heard that little, that little saying, and then you get to the. It's like, yeah, this is the place where there's like no human, there's no, there's no people on this floor. This person doesn't exist that you thought you were gonna get. So you didn't, you didn't stop at level one. Level one guy wasn't good. Level two guy. Level two guy was no good. Level three, nah, just keep going. Let's keep going. Oh yeah, here you go. Now you've gotten to the last level. It's not realistic what you're looking for, and you can't go back down. You're stuck here with no one wasting pretty privilege. I don't know how Satan has convinced women to be loose. It, it just blows my mind. It blows my mind. How, how have we gotten to a place where women have embraced? Yeah. Being loose is freedom. Sexual freedom. Yeah. Me being passed around is woo. Freedom passed me around. Ladies talk. You're right. I mean, could you date an she says you're right. Average man. An average man, an average black man making $40,000 a year. Honestly, come on, man. Honestly, no. I expect, honestly, no, I, yeah. I love the fact that she's being so honest. She's like, nah, man, $40,000 a year average black dude. Nah, I can't do that. No. Dope. The man to make as much as I do or more what is and how and where. What range are we talking about? Uh, six fingers. And that can go from a hundred thousand to nine over. He has to make at least over 140,000. Yo, how many black men in the United States make over 140,000 a year? That's just one criteria, one criterion. That's all that is, is one. Why is she, why is she not embracing just being single? I know, but that's I, that, that's what I'm bringing to the table. I'm only asking to bring to the table. Yeah. But what you bring to the table is old and used. Old and used is what you're bringing to the table. Dude is ruthless list. Woo. I mean, due respect, I mean, I talked to the, I talked, look, what you bring to the table is two 14 year olds and a bunch of hard miles. Yeah, hard miles, not soft miles. Drama and trauma. Heartache and discontent. I'm good. I'm way good. Mm-hmm. What I thought, if we take your money away. Is what you bring to the table. Mm What? Basically, what I've been coming up with this past year is I make good money and I started my own business. Who cares what? Who cares? Men will marry the woman that works at McDonald's, KFC, olive Garden. How many more times? Are men gonna have to say this? I don't care if they're in the church outta the church. A man is yo pretty face. Submissive loves me, respects me. Woo. It's a goal. You don't care about that. I, well, can, well, yeah. Can I meet a man who make less than I do, but who is loyal, who can, who can give me everything I want, but he makes less than me? I, lemme tell you something. The, the men that you, the men that you need. Make less than you, and you probably need to deal with one of them little look. She, she don't even wanna receive that. She's struggling. She, she taking deep breaths because they can give you something that you lack, humility. Talk to her, talk to her. Humility. Humility. Mm-hmm. The straight stand, the blink of the eye. Mm-hmm. Do I wanna receive this into my spirit? Receive it, girlfriend, receive it. That's what solid I, I think of my friend in Philadelphia and he's the kind of man you would actually need, but you would bypass him 'cause he didn't go to college. He's probably smarter than most of the guys that you know. She dating rappers, beloved. I'm not saying rappers are stupid, but she's dating rappers. Okay. Yep. But, but they don't, but, but if, but if they don't make that kind of money, see, you are in a trick bag. Mm-hmm. You got two kids early on and your standard is extremely high. You've had men with money and rappers and all this other kind of stuff. But the problem is, do you really bring that kind of value? Because if you did, you should be able to maintain. You can acquire man left and right, but can you keep a quality man? No. You know why? Because when I had a quality man, I was like, oh my God, this guy is so boring. He want me in at a certain time. He doesn't want me at a guy's VIPI. I'll leave it up. The dude at a, her level of honesty right now, he was boring. Listen, Christian, the Christian females I've been running into, y'all be talking like this too. Oh, he was boring. They too boring for me. Not, not, not, not enough aura, not enough swag? Not enough. Careful. Careful.'cause watch what she's gonna say. So I was like, you know what, it's over. But guess what? If I can go back and take that man back, I'll take him back. He was right. How? How long ago was that? I would go back and take the boring man back. You heard it ladies? Not outta my mouth. Outta the sisterhood. I would take that man back. Mm. How long ago was this? This was three years ago. I shouldn't be in no man's VIP. Nope. There's things I shouldn't wear, so I'll take him back if, if I could. But, but yo, why, why does it take you being 37 lonely and desperate to realize? You shouldn't be in some other man's VIP section. You can't be this. Are we playing dumb? Like how, what? Like reverse the roles. You don't, you wanna, this is the same woman that just said, I want a faithful man. I want a faithful man, but I don't want to be faithful. I, I, I want to not avoid the appearance of evil. I want to be wherever I wanna be, wear whatever I wanna wear. Ladies in the church, y'all are the same way. Same way. Some of y'all wanna dress all promiscuous, be all on the internet with it, be all over the place, and then want a solid, want a solid, risky, dangerous Christian man. The confusion and delusion is high and strong in some of you, dude, but, but did you really not know that? Thank you. Did you not know it was wrong? Thank you. Did you not know it was disrespectful to be in someone else's section? Disrespectful to wear immo clothing? How do you not ladies? How do you not know that? This is not acceptable? Come on, man. You know, we all know. I didn't wanna hear it. I wanted to do me Yo, shut out to this lady. I knew I just did not want to hear it. I wanted to do me. Thank you. Well, this is why I don't mind this being punitive because I think women who do what you do have a price to pay. Yeah. Because you had a suitable man and you did not want to get on his page. I mean, it's not like he was asking you to do anything other than be what you said you want a man to be. Thank you. Thank you. What's good for the goose is good for the gander. Do unto others as you have others do unto you. Not hard ladies. Mm-hmm. See? Mm-hmm. I, I gotta ask you something. You own your own business, right? Yes. But you, do you work for yourself or do you have a, a job as well? I have both. What's the, what's the larger percentage of your income? Your job or your business? My corporate job. Alright. If you were involved in a, an accident, were you, your face was disfigured. And unfortunately the company you work for downsized and they outsourced you. Mm-hmm. Who would you be? I will be a trust fund baby. Unfortunately. Well, what, yo, this is wild. Stay on in the church y'all and have your eyes open. Be praying six times a day if you looking for a spouse because. Whew. It's dark out here, friends, you know. Well, so what you are as an executive wife. Executive wife, okay. And I'm shout out to Ashley. Shout out to my homegirl, uh, Ashley Smashley. Alright, man. I got, I went to Houston to talk about pretty professional problems, and I've come up with this term, executive wife, women like you fit to this category of executive wife, meaning you are gonna have to make a deal with a quote unquote, high value man. Uh, you know, my thoughts on high value men, like they don't exist. Either you're a man or you're not a man, but you know, you just equated with money and height and all that nonsense. But anyway, um, and just like a CEO has an executive assistant, y'all have a marriage of practicality and eventually. Love may come down the line, but it starts with respect, duty, um, because he'd be buying a pretty woman, taking a pretty woman and taking on your kids, and you get your higher value guy, but it ain't gonna be romantic. It's gonna be practical because any. Oh, oh fool. You was out. Oh man. You had your body plastered all over the Instagram in the clubs. Like, come on fam. Oh. Had two babies in college or after? Co. Like, yo, come on bro. Come on ladies, help me help. Oh Lord. Help God to help you. God. Lord. Help them. Father. Help them please. Man who raised this woman, what was her mom doing? What was her dad doing? The other groups of men cannot even come close to your lifestyle expectations, and your husband is likely gonna be in his late forties, fifties, maybe even early sixties. I'll take that. What she said, I'll take that. She said, I'll take that. But then earlier it was like there was an age gap between me and my, my baby daddy. Three whole years. Now you're, oh, I'll take a 50, 60. Let's do it. I'll take that. That, that's cool with me. I can't, I'm not making this up. I didn't script this, friends. This is blowing my mind. Oh, crazy. That's that's why, that's why I said executive, executive life. This is why matchmakers make sense. And maybe if you're being honest, you can honestly sit down and hammer out a deal with somebody at this age now because you recognize that trying to just get out here and do it, yo rational. So this has been a good back and forth. Thank you for being honest. Thank you. But I think when you told the truth about getting out there, I think some women needed to hear that. Yes. So young ladies recognize beauty ends. Beauty ends, uh, peace out. Okay. Bye. Mm. I don't even know what to say to y'all other than I told you so. Nah, I'm gonna stop playing. Listen, I hope this is a practical object lesson, okay? Case study where we all can see and agree that you cannot improve on God. Do it God's way. You in your twenties, stop playing around. Don't go out into the streets. Take the born guy. Take the consistent guy. Take the guy who loves the Lord, who's gonna grow immature into the man that God has called him to be. All of us older folks. Let's be realistic with our expectations. Let's stop playing games. You, you need to get back to Christ. Okay? Your, your mind's all scrambled because you're not sitting at the feet of Jesus. You don't even know what you need anymore. And don't, and don't let me mention feminism and how that's just further scrambled. Your eggs, pun intended, all the way around. I'm Gordon McGee. This is the No Pills Podcast. Love fully scripted. And I'm signing off, and I will catch you next week.