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Don't Let Social Media Pop Your Balloon Ep82

Join Gordon McGhee on The No Pillz Podcast as he reacts to trending topics around relationships, societal issues, and biblical truths. In this reaction video.

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3, 2, 1. Welcome back, beloved. I'm Gordon McGee and this is The No Pills Podcast. Love fully scripted. And today, friends, we are doing some reaction videos. It's been a while. My phone, when I'm scouring the internet, sometimes I run across some stuff that's just, uh, a little unbelievable. So let's, uh, do some reactions. Let's have a little discussion today. Let's have some. On. Let's kick back. Lay back and see what's going on in people's minds across the globe, the gender wars and everything. You, you know how it is out here, friends, I, I don't have to tell you. Welcome to the No Appeals Podcast. Let's get it. Roll the footage. Do you believe in sin? When I say believe, I don't mean in believe in committing sin. Do you believe there is such a thing as a, as sin? Well, I think the greatest sin in the world is bringing children into the world. Hey, yo. Margaret Singer Planned Parenthood. Planned Parenthood is not parenthood at all. It's with un Alive, you crazy. The greatest sin is bringing children into the world. It's gotten dark real fast. What are. What, yo, that's crazy. Let's, let's go. That have disease from their parents that have no chance in the world to be a human being. Practically delinquents, prisoners, all sorts of things. Just mark when they're born. That, to me is the greatest sin that people can, can commit, but sin in the ordinary sense that we regard it. Do you believe or do you not believe, no fact that, do you believe that infidelity is a sin? Well, I, I'm not gonna specify, but I think sin, I state it, but I think is the worst sin. Alright, listen, the Bible first John three, four. Sin is a transgression of the law. What law? The 10 Commandments Stick with me. That is what sin is. Friends. Sin is the transgression of the moral law, the eternal unalterable, unchangeable law of God. We call it the Dec Log, the 10 Commandments. All Sin falls under a violation of the 10 Commandments. The 10 Commandments is love. Sin is selfishness. Okay. The first Four Commandments show you how to keep your relationship or how to love God. And the last six Commandments tell you how to love your neighbor or man, your fellow man. Not hard. Not difficult. This woman knows, this woman says that a child being born is the greatest sin. You know, if they're if, oh my goodness, I don't wanna tell you what I'm really thinking. If they don't look a certain way. Have certain benefits come from certain homes, they need to be deleted. You hear what I'm saying? But then doesn't know what if infidelity is a sin that, but now she's, listen, friends, you know, I used to, to some degree when I was before I gave my life to Christ, I used to think like this a little bit. Like, you know, man, some people, some people's lives are so messed up. It been better if they weren't born. I ain't know what I was talking about. I've seen God turn some lives. Around that we would've thrown away and used at a great magnitude beyond what our minds could ever imagine or even think. That's what sin is, friends. But then you asked me to say what? And I, and I said, what? And I, and, and, uh, you refuse to answer me. Uh, yes. I don't know about infidelity. It has so many personalities to it, but person's own belief is you can't, I couldn't generalize, um, any of those things. I sounds like a fornicator talking to me takes one to no one. I see you. I. Have y'all seen that episode of Pop the Balloon where that woman told that? Man, thank you sis for zipping up. We appreciate you. We appreciate you. Thank you. That popped the balloon out here. Wrecking, destroying lives, humbling people out here that popped the balloon. Humbling people and revealing characters, destroying all levels of self, ex self-esteem. And well, if you don't want us, you should just go get Becky with the good head then Uhoh, all because that man said. You're beautiful, but your hairstyle isn't my preference, so I'm gonna pop your balloon negro anger activated. She immediately went into insults. Mm. She tried to degrade that man. Mm-hmm. She on there arguing with that man, talking about, I don't care what you got to say, but here's the thing. That man didn't even say that about you. Mm-hmm. That man wasn't even talking to her. He was talking to a contestant that was five, six people ahead of her. What? That woman wasn't even upset. The part that I'm trying to understand, black women, not you. Mm-hmm. But them, when a man doesn't agree with you or your thought process and your ideology, why is the first thing that y'all do is go into an argumentative insult shaming game? Yo, lemme, lemme say something. This is because. My melanated brothers and sisters, we grew up in an environment in the time. I'm not making excuse for this, but man, we got your mama jokes roasting each other at lunch tables at cookouts family. I, I feel like the level of immaturity. We're in. We just don't ever grow out of, we just, we just, you know, culturally is accepted. Man. I'm about to roast you. If you say any to the point where now we can't even take constructive criticism or we can't even respect somebody else's preferences. Let me know what you think about that in comment section. Why. If that man don't like her natural curly hair, that's okay. You don't like short men? Oh, she can change her hair. He can't change his height. Oh, you see how that don't seem fair. You don't wanna date that man because he ain't got enough money for me. Something that he could change, especially with the right woman by his side. But then you get mad at him because he says, well, I don't prefer to date women that are heavier. Mm mm Everybody has their own preferences and standards. Mm. But typically, you don't see grown men. I ain't talking about them childish boys out there. Mm-hmm. That when you say no, they hit you with She wasn't even cute anyway. I ain't talking about them. Those are kids. You don't see too many grown men. Oh, throwing a fit. Yeah, yeah, yeah. When a woman doesn't see him as her preference, but the moment a black man says, I prefer this. Y'all go into acting a fool? Mm. Is she right? I wanna know. Is she right? Oh, but I don't wanna hustle. I don't wanna grind. I don't yo sis likes get that laugh. What's going on with this laugh? Oh goodness. Wanna work all the way up to the top? I don't wanna do any of that. I wanna bake cookies. I wanna read my Bible in romance novels. I wanna pet animals. Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. What? My Bible in romance novels. What we doing? What we doing when it's darkness? Have to do it light. What's going on in those romance novels? Mm. What type of, uh, romance is going on in there? Are they married? Is it fornication? Just come on. Come on, Christians. Come on Christians. We want the world and we want Jesus. We wanna worship Baal in the at the high places, and then we wanna come down and worship God in the temple. Easy, easy. Come out from amongst them. Be not partakers. Come out, my people come out. All right, we're gonna let it keep going. Mm. Romance novels in the Bible. Mm, I want to pick flowers. Flowers. My gosh, do you not get it? She smack us. You don't understand. You don't understand. I, I wanna, I want, I wanna, I wanna be one of those women that do this when I'm hot, when I'm hot. Yo, the laugh is crazy, but, um, this heat is just sweatering. I'm wil like a flower, you know what I'm saying? Like, I, I wanna do that. I wanna do that my purpose. Okay? All. Beloved, beloved, this laugh is outta control. Listen, listen. I'm I, I, I'm joking, but I'm serious. Mm. Joking. But I'm serious. There's a, there's, there's a, there's a truth to every joke. I want you to remember that my purpose, my purpose is different. I'm telling, I look. No shade, no hate. I'm sure there are many men that love to laugh, that love, that love your decibel level being a little louder, but I'm thinking most men, a good portion of men prefer a quieter lady with not so high a level. Laughter. I'm just saying. I'm not saying you won't find nobody. Somebody's gonna be into it. They're gonna be into the HeadStyle, they're gonna be into the light skin. They, they, they gonna love you. They gonna love you, but you may broaden your neck, ladies, if you're a little quieter and you don't cackle as loud. And maybe get your, your romance novels and your Bible thing figured out. Let's continue. If one more person starts a podcast about relationships, that ain't anyone I'm gonna scream, but we be listening. To these fools, like they know what they talk. I'm just telling you how men are. I'm a boss chick and I want this da da and yeah man, 'cause I'm a high value man. And you know how I roll like this, da da, da da. And women like this. And y'all women, y'all be like this. And y'all men, y'all, y'all know how y'all be, da da da da da. And everybody going back and forth, this brother upset is a pastor. He's a brother. Upset. Listen to my defense. I do not feel personally attacked by this. I'm a widow. Okay? I was married almost 20 years together, almost 20 years. Married, almost 18 years with my wife before she passed away. I had a fairly healthy marriage, not perfect by any means. This is why we started the No Pills podcast. Love fully scripted to give you biblical insights in real life feedback from, I think, a regular marriage. I was 22 when I got married. My wife was 20, but I feel what my brother is saying here. Why are we taking advice from people who have never been in a successful marriage or married at all? Nobody's been married. Nobody's had a successful relationship. They just have a high body count and a big mouth and a camera. They're giving you their, this brother woke up and chose violence, violence experiences of failing in relationships, and you're sitting there taking notes. And in there live and paying for a Patreon of a person that don't know what they're doing. Word come over to no pills. Podcast man. Support the movement over here. Hello. Let's go. Shame on you out here, giving you my time, my life, my sweat, my blood to tell the truth about the relationships, and you going to go over there and mess with these fornicators. Giving you this terrible advice. God help you. God help you. My brothers and my sister preach, oh, let us continue over the Depo Provera birth control injection, specifically being linked to brain tumor development. Oh my fornicators. Holler at me. Everybody on that birth control. Listen up. These lawsuits all started after a study came out from France last year that women who got this birth control injection and used Depo-Provera for more than a year were five times more likely to develop a meningioma, which is a specific type of brain tumor. And this wasn't like they just asked five people. This study uncovered that 18,000 women in this. Study alone between 2009 and 2018. Mm-hmm. Had to undergo brain surgery specifically for a meningioma. And here's the real kicker, more than 40. Well, why didn't he flip that vertical? Why didn't we flip that? What's going on there? What's, what's going on with that? Did you see that? Million women have already used Depo-Provera. In 2021, the Journal of Family Medicine and Primary Care published that over 42 million women were using these injectable birth controls like the brand Depo-Provera in the United States. That involves around 25%, one quarter of. All sexually active women in our country. Wow. And this lawsuit isn't the first class action lawsuit about birth control companies, not warning people appropriately about how much hormonal birth control can impact your health. In 2014, another pharmaceutical company agreed to a hundred million dollar global settlement over the nuva ring, not for brain tumor growth, but for blood clotting issues causing deep vein thrombosis, stroke, or even death. And then I see videos like this, one of the Nexplanon implant, yo. What, what happened to Oh girl arm. That thing looked. What's going on? Yo, that's crazy. The little device that actually goes into your arm. And I just keep thinking that one's probably coming next. And all these companies and the mainstream media are all wondering why women everywhere are quitting our birth control. Is it really that surprising? Shout out to that. Yeah, get off that. Birth control. That's crazy. Listen, friends, abstinence one. Sure way to not get pregnant. Thought I throw that in here. Once you get married. We got, we we talking differently now, but just before the marriage bed. Amen. You ain't supposed to be, you know, you not supposed to be having sex friends with somebody that's not your spouse. Holler at me. Holler at me. One night a group of friends gets together to go dumpster diving. They're trying to come up on some good, right? They were not expecting to find what they found, though they picked the best dumpster.'cause it's literally right there in front of a camera. We get to watch the whole process. As they're digging through this dumpster, they are hearing this faint cry. They're like, that sounds kinda like a cat. Who the heck would throw a cat away? That's just wrong. Why would you throw a cat away? And as they're digging more through the dumpster and lifting the bags up, I think you know where this is going. Right? The cries are getting louder and they're realizing that it sounds more like a human. It sounds like a baby. Mm-hmm. They find the bag, the bag is heavy. That's when they get more suspicious when they rip open this bag. What did they find inside A newborn baby boy. Now lemme ask you a question. Adoption fire stations. I just, do we, why do we still, why, why are we still throwing babies in dumpsters and trash cans? Is that, is that a thing still like We, is that, is that, is that necessity, is that needed? I mean, planned parent, like there's just all these different se keeping things a secret. I mean, I don't understand. Let me know, like in the ch why are we throwing babies in the dumpsters? It's 2020. He's literally covered in the fluids, the birthing fluids. He still has his umbilical cord attached to him. He's freezing. He's suffering from hypothermia. So the three of them get frantic. They're wrapping the baby up, trying to heat the baby and care for the baby. They call 9 1 1 and as they wait for the ambulance to arrive, they're trying their best to keep the baby warm and keep him alive. Who the yo who goes dumpster diving still? I know some people, I won't mention the place. I won't mention the location. I won't mention my friends. Some of you go dumpster diving. I will say this. Shout out to those people who are still going dumpster diving. You're out here saving lives. If you go dumpster diving, you know who you are. You might save a life. You might save a newborn's life. Who would've thought would deliver a baby? And dump it off into a dumpster like this. Who would do that? The ambulance gets there. They get the baby, they take him to the hospital and treat him. The best thing about this whole situation, best thing, is that it was done all in front of this camera, meaning whoever gave birth and dumped this baby was gonna be found. They went to the apartment complex that was recording. They asked them for the camera footage and they were able to see this white car. Mm. Pull up and dump the baby. What do you mean? I mean, the trash, like in the trash. I just, when I tossed it in there, you wrap around a newborn, inside a trash bag in panic. I, I am. I just turned 18. Right, right. If the baby's okay, I want it. If the baby's okay, I want I 18. I just panicked. How does she, how does she. Go through a whole pregnancy and keep that from people around her that I hope love her. Like how did she not show it? Like how did I have so many questions here? Young people, listen, man, don't have sex before marriage. You know, don't have sex until you're married. Stable can take care of a child financially, mentally, physically, emotionally. This is a crime. High crime. God says, I knew you before I formed you in your mother's womb. Lord have mercy. How about you help me find a husband? It ain't the oldest. It ain't the youngest. It's the treatment. Mm-hmm. It's not the oldest Amber. It is not the good looking one, Amber. It's not the one got money, Amber? Mm-hmm. It's the one honest and not too many them honest. Nowadays. It's some good mens out there, but some good mens out there. It's the ones that's honest. Come on, grandma. They what it is now. It's the women. It ain't the men no more. The women gone bad. The women's going bad. It ain't the men's now it's the women done gone bad. I would say that both have gone bad, but let her continue. You gonna flip the script on us? Yep. It's the women done gone. You a woman yourself. I'm a woman myself, but I don't do half the things. I see. These women do nothing. They don't care no more. That's when the men don't respect her. That's why, lemme tell you something Amber. You got to give a man respect. To get respect. You know what I'm saying? You got to give your husband respect to get respect. What else you going to say? She knocked it outta the park, huh? Well, with age comes wisdom, huh? Like if you a struggling guy, you broke. But if you a struggling woman. You strong and independent. If a guy going on double dates and so forth, oh, he's cheating. He's cheating. Now. If a woman going double dates, oh, her absence is just open. A lady break up with a man. Oh, she deserve better. But when a man break up, oh, he wasted her time. Huh? When a guy is rude, he's toxic. But when a lady is rude, is mood swings? Mm-hmm. Be a plus size guy, they gonna call you fat. Biggie smalls, all types of shit. Now if you a plus size woman, oh, you just. Chubby. Little chunks like, mm, talk to them. Woman set Sanders. Oh, that's just preference A man set standards. Oh, he's a narcissist. What? Make it make sense. Talk. This is some delusional feminist talk to that. I don't get it. Really feel for y'all, man.'cause it's like y'all can't have nothing like, and I'm a woman saying this like, I feel y'all, like I really feel y'all on this one. Like this is like what? Okay. Are we all right? Listen, was she wrong? I just, was she wrong? That's my question. What get get comment section? Lemme know. Was she, is she wrong? Is she wrong? I don't think she's wrong. I think she's making some valid points. Valid points, man. We gotta get it together. Still though, but I'm just saying. Mm. Okay. Are we just gonna disregard the fact that Nike is apparently funding a study that disfigures young boys to understand if they can be physically impaired enough to compete with girls without significant retained male advantage? And if you're confused what this means, it means Nike is funding a study to give children injectable hormones and puberty blockers. We gotta stop this man. Wind's enough going to be, listen, the skittles, the skittles com community. Come on, lemme talk to you Skittles community. Lemme talk to you. You gotta stop. You have to stop this. You've gotta cut it out. We just, you, you're going to get a response from another community that we all don't want an overarching, overreaching religious response that none of us want. Leave the children alone, beloved. Stop. In the Bible, Sodom and Ga Moore were told that the young men, the old men, all the men, came to the door to lay with the angels, to sexually assault the angels. The young men had been perverted by the older men in Sodom and Gamora. What has been is that, which shall be cut this out, man. Stop it, please. Can someone explain to me how a man can go to work all day so his wife can stay at home all day and he still comes home after a long day of work to no punani, no home-cooked meal, and the house is a mess. Like isn't the whole point of you staying home to keep the person who's going to work every day's life easier, not more stressful? They gonna call her pick me. They gonna call her a pick me. Man. Listen, I think it's common sense. It's respectful. It's doing your part. Holy moly. What the fuck does that mean? I don't get why I'm still single. I don't get it. I'm a catch. I'm a catch. What is going on? Listen, listen. Alright Queen, all my melanated sisters out here, lemme tell you something. I think a good portion of men are turned off by a woman who cusses like a sailor who's loud, obno, obnoxious, uses profanity, not submissive, and always yapping, but hey, you could disregard what I'm saying. I just. It's married for almost 20. I just, okay. Maybe this is just intended to be a joke. I hope in my life where I don't have a man or my standard's too high. Do I box myself in a corner all the time? Like nowadays, men today, and also, we prefer you not to have a bunch of makeup on. Most of us want to be chased. What happened to masculinity? What happened to what happened to femininity? What happened to femininity? What happened to men? Court team, women? What happened to women? We are the women. We got these soft men. We got these masculine women. It's crazy out here. Go to church, man. Y better come on to church with me. Cut this stuff out. What happened to that back in the day, dating was so much easier. And it was fun. Today's dating is hell. You give a guy your number mm-hmm. And all of a sudden you don't hear from them until like three to four days later because if you call too soon or respond too quickly, you get put on an ick list. What was the point of me giving you my number? If you're not gonna text me? I, I, I, I don't get it. The talking doesn't go as far as the actual app. There are no, oh, lemme take you out to dinner. Let's go catch a movie. Let's go to a cafe and get to know each other. What's with all the endless text messages? I will say she's right about this. If you're in a situation which is endless, text messages, what is the point in that? I'm with that. Yeah. Life's too short. You might die tomorrow. Planning for eternity, the resurrection, but nevertheless, don't waste my time. Don't waste my time. Word up that I, we can agree here. What happened to men actually planning dates? What happened to it? I don't get it. How do you date in today's society? What are some of your rare man? Go take a walk. That's it. In a public place, there's a date for you and see how the conversation progresses. And then if we get hungry, I mean this is, make it relax. How about going out with a group of other friends, right? A bunch of friends get there. Hey, I got an event going on, going out with some friends. You wanna come with me? There we go. Going to church. Wanna come with me? Oh, watch out on the Bible. Say you wanna come with me. Got some friends go into art gallery. I mean, just, I'm just saying do some normal, regular stuff. Flags and your non-negotiables. I do not chase men. Okay, cool. I don't do it. I did it once. Would never do it again? Mm, no. Never again without Chase a guy. No. She mad aggressive though, bro. She's mad aggressive. She's super aggressive. He was probably really running, literally running, and she was literally chasing him, is what I'm thinking. My biggest ache is a guy that can't hold the conversation. Now I gotta talk the whole date. Hate it. I hate it. I hate it. I don't got time to be dating no guy that don't have no money. I'm sorry. What I, we got, oh, wow. I'm sorry, I, I don't wanna say I'm shyla, but I've dated broke men my whole life. I have. Now I'm in a place where I have money, but can she find a wealthy man that wants to marry her, is the question, isn't it? And I wanna travel and I wanna see the world. I don't want you to buy, I mean nothing.'cause I could buy it myself. That's not what I want. I want you to have the financial, buy my own roses. Buy my own flowers. Alright now. Rise up stability to pick up and go on the trip. That's all I'm asking. Okay. I'm not asking for no Louie. Okay. I'm not asking for no bust down. Chanel. All right. I didn't even know they bust down Chanels. Where have I been? They busting down Chanels. I didn't know you. Is there is bust down Chanels? Oh my goodness. I don't even. Designer. I don't, I really don't. Oh, you're just very intimidating. What the, what the fuck does that mean? It means that you're very intimidating, that you're masculine, that you are frightening to the average man. We don't want to have to put our per possible wife in a headlock. We don't want to have to defend ourselves. We don't want to think that we have to do mixed martial arts just to get from the car. To the set event that we're going to, we like and value our lives. We don't want to have to control you and force you to do anything. We don't want to be arrested. We don't want you to smack us, and then we have to smack you back. And then we end up behind bars and under the jail. We want relaxed energy. Relaxed energy, chill energy. You dig me? No drama. Yeah. We don't wanna arm wrestle you, you dig? How do I come off intimidating when I'm the most socializing person ever? Specifically, this has to be a joke. This has to be a joke. This is joking. She's joking. Typically, my ladies, I wanna hear how you are dating, especially in today's generation. What are some dating apps you're on? Where do you go to date? What are just some of your non-negotiables when it comes to dating these men? Because I ain't got time anyway. This is the makeup look. Oh my goodness. All right, queen, we see you. Let's go. I wanted something really cute and rosy. Alright, let's continue on. I found out 1.4 million women in America do only family. 1.2 million is between 18 and 24. How many women in America are between 18 to 24? There's only 10 million women between 18 to 25. So just on. OnlyFans alone. 10% of women in that age group are on only. Yo, listen fam, we living in some dark times, man. All my youngins praying for you come to Jesus through with them. I just had to go get my own oil change. Mm-hmm. I paid my own rent this month. Okay. Congratulations. You're what we call an adult and, and, and guess what? You supposed to pay your rent every month. Be wondering why we don't want. This is great. I love, listen man. My feed me be funny man. I don't know about your feed, but my feed, I, I, I worked hard to get it like this, so I. Oh, let's go. We decided we were just friends. He changed his mind on the day. He started making out with me before I'd even agreed to do anything. I just want you to know I'm truly sorry and you deserve better. I sent it to his partner, May 7th. That's insane. She just finished showing us 15 minutes worth of proof that she was in love with him, that she would write him poetry and music. Mm. And songs, and desired him and did everything consensually and enjoyed it and wanted to be with him. Mm-hmm. And that he was the one who terminated the relationship because he felt bad for cheating, which they both got together to do. And then right after that, she creates a made up story. About how he violated her and she didn't want to do any of it and sent it to his partner. That's disgusting. Yeah. The only thing worse than this is the fact that her poetry, terrible. Listen ladies, I don't even, you know what it it? It's sin friends. The devil is real. He possesses minds. I'm just gonna say to the women and to the men, be careful. Be prayerful. Don't just be with anybody. Stop cheating. Stop cheating. Cut it out, man. You know what I mean? You reap what you sow. What this girl did was evil, but fam, you reap what you sow. No lie. No lie. When men say a hundred women versus accountability, can you give an example of what you mean by that? She tur, she asked the question. And then turned off her comments. I told a guy that I was waiting till marriage, it was our fifth date. Um, we were trying to decide if we wanted to be exclusive or not, and expectations and what that would look like. And we talked about it for, we talked about my waiting for marriage for about, um, an hour. And he had a lot of questions and I was like. Trying to answer them to the best of my ability and explain where I'm coming from and why it's important to me. Why are you dating someone that's not courting you and understands your principles of waiting for marriage? Why are you not dating a Christian? Man, that's an assumption on my part. This is a Christian man who, young man who does not believe in waiting to marriage, and I would submit it to you that he's not really a Christian Young man. And you need to stop dating him, getting to know him immediately. Immediately. He was really nice about it, like just a gentleman just wanting to understand and I told him, I know that this is a lot to take in and I want you to be able to make the best decision for you, so please, you know, take a couple days. Think about it. Don't think about my emotions, just think about what you need in a relationship and then give me a call back in a couple days, um, and just let me know what you've decided. And I'm waiting. I've been waiting for the phone call all day, and I'm like, like, I know that I'll be good either way. Like, this is just how it is. Like, you know. If I'm going to choose to like set myself apart in Christ, then this is what dating looks like. But it just feels kind of bad to be waiting for his phone call, like waiting to see like, am I worth dating if I don't have sex? Yes. Yes, you are very much worth dating if you don't have sex. Assuming that you are a goly, virtuous, humble, polite, delicate, God-fearing woman. Amen. And I'm like, he hasn't called yet and it's 8:00 PM. And so I'm like, well, maybe he's not calling because he'll show up to my place with flowers and tell me that that's not why he was interested in me, and that he wants to be in a relationship with me either way, and that I'm worth it. Um, but not looking good. Huh? Is that unrealistic? You know, like wanting, like a, I don't know. I think I just wish that. I was worth a big gesture.'cause right now I don't even know if I'm worth a phone call and it hurt. It's a little bit. Listen, your worth is derived from Christ. In Christ. You don't, or you should not expect oranges off a apple tree. You judge a tree by their fruit. Too much focus is being put on this young man. Too much focus is being put on if he's gonna respect your boundaries or not. You live for Christ. You, you lock in. You let the chips fall when he fall. God is in control, not this young man, and you should not need this level of validation, acceptance, gift giving from a fallen human being. Come on from a fallen human being. Keep your eyes on crisis. Si. Keep looking up, but like, either way, I'll be fine. Hmm. I'm just sad. Hope this is genuine. And she wasn't doing any, uh, attention seeking online, but you've heard the advice from the No Pills podcast. Love fully scripted. The wife, the ex-wife. If you can't love me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best. Why should I look my best for my husband? This is how I look when I had a man marry me because he loved me. This is how I took care of myself while simultaneously expecting monogamy. This is what I look like now that I'm back on the market. See, a man marrying me wasn't enough for me to look like this for him. It took for me to get back on the market, for me to want to attract others. When that man loved me, married me, and was paying bills, I could not look like this for him because he should have accepted what was rolling out of bed every day. Whoa, whoa. Alright, ladies, in the conversation, make that make sense to me. You, you're married, you don't take care of yourself, you get divorced, you get separated, you back at the gym. I'll leave it to y'all in the comment section. Let me know. Between these two choices, who would you rather be stuck on an island with? I'm gonna be honest. I'm gonna say number one. Okay. Why do you say that? Um, he just seems like he's very intelligent. Very smart. He seems like he would know how to like, make shelter, hunt for food, make sure you're surviving. Number two, he just looks like he's just gonna get in your pants the whole time. Listen, I'm not into politics. I the left wing, right, right wing. Same bird buddy. Yo. This is another level of femin. Like what is we talking about, man? Who do you think most people would pick? Actually, I was gonna say number one, but maybe number two only because like people really, they take looks as like their first consideration when they do see someone. I would be stuck on the island with the first guy. Okay. Why would you say that? He just looks a little more safe than the other guy. Safe. The other guy has the Trump shirt and I don't trust people with Trump shirts on and he just. The number one looks a lot nicer than number two. I put thanks, guy because you got a cookie though. I'm picking number two. It depends if you want food or brains. What I'm saying, number two, number food or brain. Thanks sis. We're gonna pick food because we gotta survive. It's crazy. Uch chill? Mm mm Mm mm. Alright, friends, we'll, we'll, uh, we'll leave it here. I'm Gordon McGee. This is the No Pills podcast. Love fully scripted. I'm signing off and I will catch you next week.