You Both Suck

Am I a Bad Person for Liking a Cheater? ft. Ali Jackson

November 07, 2023 Dara Pollak & Kunal Arora Season 1 Episode 8
Am I a Bad Person for Liking a Cheater? ft. Ali Jackson
You Both Suck
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You Both Suck
Am I a Bad Person for Liking a Cheater? ft. Ali Jackson
Nov 07, 2023 Season 1 Episode 8
Dara Pollak & Kunal Arora

Dara and Kunal are back with a VERY juicy episode AND INTRODUCE THEIR FIRST GUEST! Ali Jackson from the super popular Finding Mr Height podcast has joined the YBS clan for this week's episode (:17) and we couldn't be more thrilled! Ali is a dating & relationship coach who has helped thousands of women own their needs and express their feelings in a healthy way (PS check out her text scripts!), and you can catch more of her amazing content on social @findingmrheight. 

First, the FMK this week is taking a turn out of NYC and into a time machine...we're going back to the 90's baby! Our FMK is 90's Sitcom Dads (13:15). Uncle Phil from Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, Tim "The Toolman" Taylor from Home Improvement, and Danny Tanner from Full House. Brutal, we know.

Then it's Squabble Time (20:04)! A young woman (21, to be exact) from Philly writes in about a man she's interested in (and he is interested in her), but unfortunately he has a girlfriend. The man in question does not seem to think having a girlfriend is a big deal, in fact, he tells her he cheats "all the time" and continues to pursue her. The writer has many thoughts and questions on the topic, but mainly wants to know are all cheaters bad people? Why is she attracted to a cheater in the first place, and does that make HER a bad person? And if she knows she gets attached after having sex, is a one night stand really something she just needs to "get better at" or is she just not ready? Dara also shares a (cautionary) tale about the time she had an affair with a married man. Spoiler alert: she isn't proud of it. But listen, everyone makes mistakes! We told ya, it's a doozy! Let us know what you think on social @youbothsuckpodcast!   

Other things they touch on: 

- How someone can gaslight you into thinking that cheating is OK

- Is monogamy on the way out?

- Feeling pressure to have sex casually at a young age

- Being "the other woman" is a prison

- Is it selfish to admit when you've cheated on someone?

Follow us on IG: @youbothsuckpodcast 

And TikTok: @youbothsuckpodcast 

SUBMIT YOUR OWN SQUABBLE VIA OUR ANONYMOUS GOOGLE FORM: CLICK HERE

DO NOT FEAR THE FORM. IT'S ANONYMOUS AND IT'S A TEXT BOX. We don't ask you for anything else. 

You can also email us youbothsuckpodcast@gmail.com 

Show Notes

Dara and Kunal are back with a VERY juicy episode AND INTRODUCE THEIR FIRST GUEST! Ali Jackson from the super popular Finding Mr Height podcast has joined the YBS clan for this week's episode (:17) and we couldn't be more thrilled! Ali is a dating & relationship coach who has helped thousands of women own their needs and express their feelings in a healthy way (PS check out her text scripts!), and you can catch more of her amazing content on social @findingmrheight. 

First, the FMK this week is taking a turn out of NYC and into a time machine...we're going back to the 90's baby! Our FMK is 90's Sitcom Dads (13:15). Uncle Phil from Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, Tim "The Toolman" Taylor from Home Improvement, and Danny Tanner from Full House. Brutal, we know.

Then it's Squabble Time (20:04)! A young woman (21, to be exact) from Philly writes in about a man she's interested in (and he is interested in her), but unfortunately he has a girlfriend. The man in question does not seem to think having a girlfriend is a big deal, in fact, he tells her he cheats "all the time" and continues to pursue her. The writer has many thoughts and questions on the topic, but mainly wants to know are all cheaters bad people? Why is she attracted to a cheater in the first place, and does that make HER a bad person? And if she knows she gets attached after having sex, is a one night stand really something she just needs to "get better at" or is she just not ready? Dara also shares a (cautionary) tale about the time she had an affair with a married man. Spoiler alert: she isn't proud of it. But listen, everyone makes mistakes! We told ya, it's a doozy! Let us know what you think on social @youbothsuckpodcast!   

Other things they touch on: 

- How someone can gaslight you into thinking that cheating is OK

- Is monogamy on the way out?

- Feeling pressure to have sex casually at a young age

- Being "the other woman" is a prison

- Is it selfish to admit when you've cheated on someone?

Follow us on IG: @youbothsuckpodcast 

And TikTok: @youbothsuckpodcast 

SUBMIT YOUR OWN SQUABBLE VIA OUR ANONYMOUS GOOGLE FORM: CLICK HERE

DO NOT FEAR THE FORM. IT'S ANONYMOUS AND IT'S A TEXT BOX. We don't ask you for anything else. 

You can also email us youbothsuckpodcast@gmail.com