From Nice Guy To Attractive Man w/ Om Rupani Ep 9

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In this episode, Om Rupani discusses the concept of the 'nice guy' archetype and its impact on attracting women. He explains that the nice guy is not an authentic archetype but rather a behavioral adaptation driven by a need for approval. The nice guy's approval-seeking energy is not attractive to women, who are not interested in men who pander to them. Om emphasizes the importance of authenticity and clear boundaries in relationships, and the need for men to develop assertiveness and a high tolerance for failure. He also highlights the role of the tribe of men in calling out and dismantling negative male characteristics. In this conversation, Om Rupani discusses the importance of having the stomach for public humiliation and the need to overcome the fear of rejection. He emphasizes the need to deal with negative feedback and not let it stop you from pursuing your goals. Om also highlights the importance of finding worthiness and utility in oneself, rather than seeking validation from others. He encourages men to build a fulfilling life by focusing on their own interests and passions. The conversation also touches on the pitfalls of dating apps and the importance of having a vision for the future. Om concludes by discussing the influence of the mother and the need to sever ties with the approval-seeking patterns learned in childhood.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background
00:27 The Nice Guy Archetype
01:12 Definition of a Nice Guy
03:10 Women's Perspective on Nice Guys
04:16 Challenges of Being a Nice Guy
05:02 The Need for Authenticity
05:30 The False Equivalency
07:18 Being There for Someone
08:30 The Primality of Strength
09:42 The Lack of Assertiveness in Men
10:50 The Fear of Approaching Women
12:14 Nice Guys and Men's Relationships
14:04 Nice Guys and Male Friendships
15:23 Nice Guys and the Tribe of Men
16:27 Understanding Nice Guys' Origins
19:36 The Nice Guy's Lack of Strength
21:24 The Epidemic of Nice Guys
23:07 The Lack of Assertiveness in Modern Men
24:39 The Rite of Passage and Initiation
26:36 The Importance of Tolerance for Failure
28:29 Overcoming Fear of Disapproval
30:51 The Stomach for Public Humiliation
32:09 Dealing with Negative Feedback
33:27 Finding Worthiness and Utility
35:26 Building a Fulfilling Life
37:43 Living Authentically
39:37 Redirecting Attention and Energy
42:57 The Pitfalls of Dating Apps
46:12 The Importance of Having a Vision
47:03 The Downfall of Eternal Hope
48:15 The Influence of the Mother
51:24 Severing Ties with the Dark Mother
53:28 Women's Attraction to Power
55:15 Upcoming Workshops

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