Ep #154 The First 8 Weeks Are The Hardest

AKA: Why I Once Tried to Drive My Kids to Disneyland to Avoid Unpacking Boxes (Spoiler: It Didn't Work)

Okay, so...remember when you decided to start that new workout routine and Day 3 felt like your muscles were staging a full-on rebellion? That's EXACTLY what the first 8 weeks of transforming your parenting feels like. Except instead of sore quads, it's your entire nervous system going "WAIT, WHAT ARE WE DOING?!"

Here's what we're diving into today:

🌟 The Disneyland Disaster (or as my kids call it, "That Time Mom Lost Her Mind at a Gas Station")

• Why I bought Mickey Mouse shirts at Target in a desperate attempt to escape my feelings
• The U-turn that changed everything
• How I went from "Let's run away!" to "NO PRIVILEGES EVER!" in 60 minutes flat

💪 The Science Behind Why These 8 Weeks Feel So Dang Hard

• Your brain is literally rewiring itself (cool but OW)
• Why Day 63 is the magic number
• What James Clear, Dan Siegel, and Gabor Maté can teach us about parenting transformation

🎯 The Truth Bomb Nobody Tells You: The discomfort isn't a sign you're failing—it's a sign you're BECOMING. (I know, I know, easier said than felt.)

The 8-Week Roadmap (Because Wandering for 5 Years Like I Did is NOT the Vibe):

• Weeks 1-2: Awareness (aka "Oh wow, I'm triggered by EVERYTHING")
• Weeks 3-4: Breaking patterns (the awkward fumbling phase)
• Weeks 5-6: Building new defaults (getting your groove)
• Weeks 7-8: Integration (it's actually working?!)

The Three Things You NEED to Survive:

1. Community (because doing this alone is like trying to learn salsa from YouTube)
2. A clear path (not the scenic route I took)
3. Nervous system support (your body needs to be on board with this plan)

The Numbers That Made Me Cry Happy Tears:

• 251% improvement in kids' listening (WHAT?!)
• 202% better relationships
• 246% increase in handling tough situations

(These are real results from real parents who did the 8-Week Parenting Pivot. Not made up. Not exaggerated. Just...WOW.)

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Remember: The first 8 weeks ARE the hardest. But they're also where the magic happens. And you don't have to do it alone (thank goodness, because alone is overrated and unnecessarily difficult).

With so much love and a slightly embarrassing amount of excitement for your journey,

Andee 💖

PS - No, I don't still have those Mickey Mouse shirts. No, we never made it to Disneyland that day. Yes, my kids still bring it up at family dinners.

PPS - If you're sitting there thinking "But Andee, what if I mess up?" Honey, I literally tried to DRIVE TO DISNEYLAND to avoid dealing with moving boxes. You're already ahead of where I started. 😂

PPPS - Seriously though, those 8 weeks will change everything. Push through. I'm cheering for you!

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