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Connect Method Parenting I Conscious Parenting, Positive Parenting, Gentle Parenting, Connective Parenting, Peaceful Parenting, Slow Parenting, Parenting Teens, Single Parenting, Joyful Parenting, Positive Discipline, ADHD Parenting
Parenting advice on-the-go, with fun episodes that will make you laugh, cry, and feel better armed to be the parent you want to be! No punishments, rewards, or ultimatums required. (they’re actually discouraged).
Join your host Andee Martineau, founder of the breakthrough parenting framework Connect Method Parenting, as she helps parents discover why their kids don’t listen and shows them the step-by-step process of regaining influence and building relationships that will last a lifetime!
Connect Method Parenting I Conscious Parenting, Positive Parenting, Gentle Parenting, Connective Parenting, Peaceful Parenting, Slow Parenting, Parenting Teens, Single Parenting, Joyful Parenting, Positive Discipline, ADHD Parenting
Ep #158 The #1 Emotional State That Transforms Your Parenting (It's Not Calm)
Your child just slammed their door (again), and every parenting book on your shelf is screaming "CONSEQUENCE!" But what if the secret to cooperation isn't control—it's curiosity?
🔑 Key Takeaways:
The Paradigm Shift
- You're not a sculptor designing your child—you're a shepherd guiding them
- Kids have 400+ psychological traits influenced by genetics (mind = blown 🤯)
- Togetherness is to kids what oxygen is to a flame
Why Curiosity Changes Everything
- Interrupts your autopilot reactions
- Lowers defenses (yours AND theirs)
- Creates the safety where real growth happens
- "You only listen to people you trust"
The Pause-Wonder-Connect Formula Real scripts for when:
- Your kid hits their sibling
- They lie to your face
- They won't listen after the 17th request
What This Is NOT:
- ❌ Becoming a doormat
- ❌ Having no boundaries
- ✅ Holding limits with warmth
- ✅ Stopping behavior while staying curious
Real Stories That Will Give You Chills:
- The water bottle incident that led to breakthrough healing
- The 8-year-old who said: "Don't they know we don't do timeouts? You just hold my hand and listen... and then I want to do what you say."
Age-Specific Scripts:
- Toddler meltdowns at Target
- School-age homework battles
- Teen eye-rolls and door slams
Journal Prompts to Try This Week:
- When do I feel the urge to fix instead of understand?
- Which behaviors trigger me most? What might that say about MY nervous system?
- What's one phrase from today I can try this week?
Challenge: Pick ONE moment this week to pause and ask: "What if nothing's gone wrong here?"
💫 Remember:
- Maturity isn't taught—it's grown
- Your child doesn't need a better lecture, they need a better listener
- Nature doesn't need your control, she needs your trust
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