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S2 14 Healing Competition: Shifting from Lack to Abundance

• Homaya • Season 2 • Episode 14

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Welcome

Hello, beauties. Today, I am bringing forward a topic that has been deeply present in my teachings over the past two weeks—lack consciousness and the distortion it creates in our lives.

This is a topic I feel called to explore with you because it is so deeply ingrained in our collective experience. Lack consciousness shows up in so many ways—competition, low self-worth, unprocessed emotions, and even how we relate to abundance. Together, we will dive into how this distortion disconnects us from our inner truth and source, and how we can begin to shift into a state of abundance consciousness.

Episode Summary

In this episode, I explore the roots of lack consciousness and how it manifests in our lives through competition, stress, and avoidance. We examine how this mindset disconnects us from source and leads us to hide our light and gifts from the world.

I share how lack consciousness creates a false sense of safety through control and how it limits our ability to experience the fullness of abundance. By becoming aware of these patterns, we can begin to heal, transform, and release them, opening ourselves to a deeper connection with our truth and the infinite possibilities available to us.

This is the first of three sessions dedicated to healing competition. In this session, we focus on lack consciousness and awareness—understanding how competition operates within us so we can choose differently.

Key Takeaways

✨ Lack consciousness disconnects us from source and creates a false belief in limitation.
✨ Competition is rooted in the idea that there is not enough, leading us to judge ourselves and others.
✨ Stress and avoidance are common reactions to competition, both of which drain our energy and hide our light.
✨ Healing lack consciousness requires us to release pre-judgement and expand into the abundance of what truly exists.
✨ By shifting our perspective, we can begin to embrace abundance as our natural state and open ourselves to greater receivership.

Resources & Links

I invite you to join me for two upcoming classes:

  • Magnetic: A journey into effortless receivership and abundance as your birthright: https://homaya.org/magnetic
  • Fortune: A new programme to deepen your connection to abundance and prosperity. Coming soon, stay tuned!

Thank you for joining me for this powerful session. Let me know in the comments what resonated with you and how you are experiencing competition in your life. Together, we can heal and transform this pattern.

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[00:00:00] Homaya: Hello, beauties. Well, there is a topic that somehow managed to get really to the front page of my teachings in the last, I can say, two weeks. And I was inspired to bring this topic to ask here in the podcast because I find this topic so common with so many people. I [00:00:30] find it almost as we can say, a cultural disease.

[00:00:38] I feel that the next period of my life as a teacher, and I don't know how long this period gonna be, but definitely in the next few months, I feel that I'm ready to have a conversation about abundance and to look at abundance as a representation of. [00:01:00] Peace as a representation of being in your power, in your clarity, in your truth.

[00:01:10] But I feel that the very fundamental move that we need to move through and to look at this distortion that we are dealing with is looking at how lack consciousness is appearing. [00:01:30] Our life lack consciousness can appear in so many ways. Victim consciousness is a lack of consciousness. A lot of unprocessed emotions are in lack consciousness, low self-esteem, low self value, low self-respect, self-deprecating behavior, and thoughts.

[00:01:58] Rooted in lack [00:02:00] consciousness. There's like big confusion that happens once we are not connected to source within us. When we're not connected to source within us, we, we cannot experience ourself as an extension of the divine when we allow society, religion. Collective consciousness, [00:02:30] other people, our parents, other methods or ideas to be placed between us and the truth us and source will limit ourself, and we move into lack consciousness when we go into believing in the illusion of an external world more than.

[00:02:58] Anchoring in the truth [00:03:00] and the depths of the knowing of who we are. The truth that exists in our heart, in our soul, we move in and as lack of consciousness, this confusion of seeing what exists outside of us more than what exists within us creates the most. Common cultural expression of [00:03:30] lack consciousness, which is competition.

[00:03:34] There's competition everywhere, and it is so easy to go into competition. There is competition between brothers and sisters within a family. There's competition between generations. In the family, mother and daughter, father and child, and the other way around. Child with a father and daughter, with a mother competition, with siblings.

[00:03:59] As I [00:04:00] said, there's competition in couples. There's competition in with colleagues. There's competition between nations and we can give it so many different words, so many different names, and it's still gonna be competition. The root of a competition is there's luck. The root of a competition is a belief system that is saying, well, there's a limited [00:04:30] source.

[00:04:31] There's not enough. I wouldn't make it. I wouldn't receive it. I wouldn't achieve it. I wouldn't experience it. I wouldn't get it. Something is lacking. Something is missing, or I am missing. Either I would miss that or I am missing already because I am incapable. I'm not a match. I do not deserve. The root of competition is [00:05:00] either me or life or society or the people around me are lacking.

[00:05:09] Take a deep breath. Something is missing. It's inadequate. There's not enough. I wouldn't make it. I wouldn't have it. This is what you need to sing inside of your system to put yourself in a competition. A strong belief in a limitation, in a very, very [00:05:30] deep judgment, pre-judgment, people sense competition very, very quickly.

[00:05:41] You look around you, you scan the situation, you scan the people, you scan the state of what there is, and you judge immediately in order to survive according to the level of consciousness [00:06:00] that you have inside of you. Take a deep breath, take it into your system so we can heal it, transform it, and release it.

[00:06:08] It is challenging. To offer someone to shift from lack consciousness to abundance consciousness, although this is what we all want and we desire it so much because the mechanism that exists in your body and in your system is that [00:06:30] the competition is safe in competition. You keep yourself safe in the frequency of a competition, although that it doesn't feel safe, it actually feels the other way around.

[00:06:53] It is stressful, it is panicking. It is taking your life force. It is weakening your system, [00:07:00] but at least you feel that you're doing something. Now what will be your way to deal with a competition once you smell it or sense it? There's variety of reaction and we're gonna go there. But I wanted to really lend inside of you that to heal competition petition might feel like you're [00:07:30]taking a risk.

[00:07:32] Your mind and your operation system, judge everything as a success and failure as right and wrong, and if you would just look at everything as okay or as right, or you would be able to look at everything as a success, there will be no competition. You will be okay. It is a pre-judgment. That there [00:08:00] is an option to fail, that there is an option that something will be lacking, that you will miss something that you wouldn't get it, that activate a competition.

[00:08:13] Take that in, let it land. That is the gateway to release it. There's a pre-judgment that is indicating that there's not enough. Or there's only three, or there's only [00:08:30] five, or there's only one, and there is a pre-judgment vision where you see yourself as the one who's lacking. You yourself, see yourself as the one who's lacking.

[00:08:46] The main two reaction to competition, and we breathe this session by the way, is one. Out of three sessions where I wanna go deep into healing competition. [00:09:00] So in this session, we're just going to explore the sensation, the feeling of competition inside of us so we can become aware of it and choose differently and expand in it.

[00:09:09] But we're gonna have two more sessions to really, really liberate ourself and, and heal, honestly, that would be the word. So the two main reaction. Competition is stress and [00:09:30]avoidance, and that reaction shows up in how you lead yourself in a competition. Regardless if you lead yourself through stress, which means that I'm going to hurry, I'm gonna make more, I'm gonna take more, I'm gonna do more, I will run faster.

[00:09:50] I will. I need to take care of myself. I need to get that. Doesn't matter if you go to that extreme of stress or you go to [00:10:00] avoidance, which is, I'm not participating in this competition. It's not for me. I'm not gonna do. But you indicated it already as a competition, which means that you named it as that.

[00:10:13] You have seen it as that you realize that something is threatening you. So whether you choose stress or avoidance, you will still bring both stress [00:10:30] and avoidance to everything that you will do. That context and breathe. What do I mean by that? When someone sends the risk of competition, when someone sends or judge a situation as someone is competing with him or that you need to compete with another, [00:11:00] you're going to immediately.

[00:11:03] Adds stress into your system because you immediately judge yourself as not enough and as there is not enough. And if you ask yourself why the world is full with diseases of inflammation, I would say this is the root. I would say that this is the root of the war. So the stress, a [00:11:30] reaction in the body.

[00:11:32] Their emotional body, the physical body, the mental body. I need to stress myself. I would lead myself to stress, and I would hide what I will hide. I will hide what I have. I will hide what I create. I will hide my talent. I will hide my creativity. I will hide my ideas. I will hide my beauty. I will hide my light.

[00:11:59] I would [00:12:00] hide. Everything. Why would I hide? Because once it is visible, anyone can copy, anyone can compete, anyone can win over me. So it doesn't matter if you said to yourself energetically, mentally, oh, there's a competition, I'm gonna win. You still hold inside of your [00:12:30]system. Some of your wisdom, you still hide your light and your magic even if you do more, because you still need to protect.

[00:12:43] You already to find the situation as a war zone. You already to find it as a risk. Now, you might say to yourself that you are hiding it from your. [00:13:00] Competitors that you're hiding it from, others, you're hiding it from this specific person, your brother, your sister, your mother, your colleague, your students.

[00:13:09] Some people in the internet, you might say that you're hiding it from them, but you're actually hiding it from yourself. You're hiding it from the world. You're not moving into a state where you feel comfortable. To really have the [00:13:30] healthy circulation of expression and interiorization that is essential for your connection to yourself and your own evolution.

[00:13:45] We need, this is part of being a human. It is part of life. We need to go through the process of seeing ourself from the outside, so we will be able to see [00:14:00] ourself deeper from the inside. There is a circulation of exposing ourself, vocalizing, shining, giving. Impacting. Contributing in order to refine and to relate and to connect even deeper into what exists within us.

[00:14:23] It's an inhale and exhale type of life. We are going to just one [00:14:30] direction. It's a symphony of communication. It's a symphony of creation. We might hide our light because we don't want others to see it, but we're hiding it from ourself because we don't give ourself the opportunity and the possibility to expose who we are and what we are, and to experiment ourself and our creation in a larger context.[00:15:00]

[00:15:00] Now, of course some of you might say, oh, but I feel that my competition is, I'm just scrolling on Instagram or on social media or whatever, and I'm just seeing all those beautiful, well, you say to yourself that you're seeing all the beautiful ladies or all the successful man, but you're just seeing those images that are running in front of you.

[00:15:29] This is [00:15:30] what prevents you, what holds you, and this is, this is the level of limitation that you take on yourself in the image of something you already hold yourself back, and this is to know that this is the level of you avoiding your light, you avoiding shining your light and giving your light, hiding yourself.

[00:15:58] It doesn't matter if [00:16:00] you write poetry and create music or a shoemaker and you have a new design and you hide this design from the person next to you, or you just hide behind the screen or you just hide in your environment. It's still a perception of a competition, an unsafe experience to be. So as we breathe into that, into this realization, I [00:16:30] want us to say clearly that competition and lack consciousness is actually a form of control that we accepted.

[00:16:41] We accepted to put a knocker and close ourself. We took.

[00:16:54] Control our light. How ridiculous it is. [00:17:00] How, how can we come to term with something like that once we see it? So clearly we accepted the concept of judgment and comparison and competition. We swallow it. We got lost in the visual. We forgot about what exists within us. We gave our light in the price of [00:17:30] seeing other people light instead of having the awareness that all of it exists simultaneously, and it is needed.

[00:17:38] It is designed to exist like that, and instead we decided to control. Control ourself through limitation control creation, through limitation control, our light, our joy, our success through [00:18:00]limiting belief and believing in luck Next time that you see yourself. Believing or thinking that someone is competing with you or you are competing with someone, I call you and I invite you to open up into what else is possible here.

[00:18:19] What else is possible? Can I put away my limited vision that is able to perceive [00:18:30]only an immediate gratification? An immediate result, a concrete current experience, and breathe into the truth of what exists and expand into what really matters. Expand into the abundance of everything. Can I put aside an interest to judge something as negative and as [00:19:00] lacking?

[00:19:00] Instead look at it also as abundance. Can I say that the summer is abundant the same, that the winter is abundant? Even if I don't see the fruits and I don't see the green leaves, can I accept that the scene in the unseen are prosperous at the same potency? Can I open up to the idea? [00:19:30] That if I'm not getting what I see in front of me and I'm not getting this lead, I'm not getting this contract, I'm not getting this book.

[00:19:40] I'm not getting that creation, this attention, this love, this option. Because my frequency is actually matching something bigger and wider than this. And can I open up to it without making other people [00:20:00] smaller or wrong? Can I rest into the abundance of what there is? And instead of limiting myself, ask deeper what else is possible for me?

[00:20:18] What else is possible here? I'm looking forward to read your comments and to have an interaction with you around this, and I want to share with you, as I said, [00:20:30] there are two beautiful classes coming this month of April, may. The first one is magnetic and we.

[00:20:46] To high level of receivership, effortless receivership, and abundance as a birthright, and immediately afterwards, there's Fortune, a new [00:21:00] program. Fill the frequency, fill into it. I'd love to see you there. You'll find all the information in the show notes you already feel. Thank you.