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3 Things I Learned From Working With A Top Symphony Player
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Working with a professional orchestral musician changed my oboe career... and my life. I learned so many valuable lessons. So today we are diving into 3 lessons I learned from working with Max Blair, the Associate Principal Oboist of the Pittsburgh Symphony.
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Intro
Your host, Eleanorthroughout my time working with him . I'm like you know what . That attitude , that situation is not serving me and I just pushed it out the door and it was gone . Hello and welcome to the Confident Musicianing Podcast . I'm your host , eleanor , and after countless practice sessions , a ton of broken reeds and seven different music school acceptances in three different countries , I have learned a thing or two about savoring your practicing , becoming your best practice companion and actively working towards your musical goals , and I want to share this with you because I want you to become your best musical self . Are you with me on this ? Let's get started . Best musical self . Are you with me on this ? Let's get started .
Your host, EleanorWhen I started working with the Associate Principal Ovoist of the Pittsburgh Symphony , I was so excited and since working with him for a little over three years now , there are some lessons that I have picked up along the way . Today we are diving into three things that I learned from working with a symphony player , one that graduated from Juilliard and is now in the Pittsburgh Symphony , and that person is Max Blair . And if you don't know already , we have a conversation with Max Blair , already up and ready for you to listen to , so that is going to be in the show notes . It is episode 32 , navigating Juilliard , working in a Professional Orchestra and Performing in the Tchaikovsky Competition with Max Blair . So if you want to listen to that , make sure you go check out those show notes . But let's dive into some things that I learned from working with a top symphony
Expecting more of yourself
Your host, Eleanorplayer . The first is to expect more of yourself . Now , there are two ways of going about this . The first is how I tried . Before I started working with this teacher and , let's be honest , it's a little vulnerable to talk about I tried through negative thoughts , through beating myself up , through disliking everything I did and not being satisfied with anything . Spoiler alert , that got me nowhere . But then , when I started working with Max , I started expecting the best that I can do , but from a different approach , from an inspired one , from one that didn't beat myself up in a negative way . I just knew that I could keep going and do better because I believed in myself , and that's the difference . That is a whole different way to look at it , and it made it so that I was excited to learn and get better , and I did definitely improve .
Your host, EleanorNow , a quick way to get into the habit of inspiring yourself is celebrating yourself , and something that I didn't have when I was working with this symphony player , but something that I have created just for you so that you can start celebrating yourself in an easy way , is the standing ovation series . Sign up and for three days , you will get one email per day celebrating the practicing work that you put in that day and inspiring you for the next day , just like your own personal standing ovation because , let's be honest , we all want those . But there is one rule you can't open the email until you have finished your practicing for the day . So are you ready to get motivated and celebrate you ? Because I certainly am . Check the link in the show notes and I'll see you there . So , just going back , expecting more of yourself , but in a calm , in a patient way , in a way that celebrates your wins but also is like okay , that was great , I'm so excited to see where we go now . Okay , that is so , so , so beneficial and such a change from how I was thinking before I worked with the symphony player . So that mindset has been everything and , to be honest , that's kind of what inspired me to start this podcast .
Finding something to learn from in every situation
Your host, EleanorThe next thing is to find something to learn from in every situation . Last summer I didn't have as much practice time as I had hoped for and usually I would have more time , but at that moment in my life I just was pressed for time . So I worked on making my practice more efficient . More importantly , I changed my mindset from oh no , I don't have as much practice time to here is a great opportunity to learn how to be more efficient in the practice time that I have . And I remember going to Max in one of my lessons and him being like um , I was talking about the fact that I do not have as much practice time , but I put it to him in a way of like this is a chance for me to learn how to be more effective , and we both agreed that that was a great opportunity to learn in that specific moment . So that was amazing . You know that was great .
Your host, EleanorSo every situation in music is going to teach you something . Every failure , every success , every challenge . It is going to teach you something and what I have learned is to learn from it and find in everything an opportunity to learn and try something new . So I challenge you to see that in every situation that you go into I mean we're thinking of music . You can think of it in other aspects of your life as well . But let's say , you know , if you don't have as much practice time , that is a great opportunity to learn how to be more effective in your practice time . Or if you say , if you're an oboist or a bassoon player or whatever , and you don't have as much as many reads as you had hoped for , maybe this is a great time to learn how to get better at making reads . All of these things are ways to learn from situations that might not be the best , so I challenge you to do that .
Your host, EleanorThe next thing
Getting rid of defensiveness
Your host, Eleanor, the last thing , is to try not to be defensive . Okay , this is a little personal and something . When I was like writing this script for this podcast episode , I was like do we want to go here ? But I think that this is important to go here . This is something that I'm working on , but sometimes I tend to get defensive , especially when it is about something that I have worked hard . But sometimes I tend to get defensive , especially when it is about something that I have worked hard on . I mean , you know the feeling you work on something for a whole week and you have thought you really worked on it . You've thought that it's gotten better and better and better and you're so excited to show it , only for your teacher to point out that you are not doing it enough in your lesson . And there is that temptation to get defensive and to be like but I worked so hard on it , because sometimes we just want the recognition for the work that we have put in . But one thing that I've really learned is that things will be pointed out even if you have worked on them a ton . It does not disqualify your hard work . It is just a guiding point for you to get even better at this specific thing , so that when our teacher is like , okay , that was great , we can do it like this , that and the other , you don't feel like , oh , but I worked so hard on it . You know , I want you to say that it's good . That is where we celebrate ourselves and I mean that's where the standing ovation series comes in , really . So if you want to go get that standing ovation series , make sure you check the link in the show notes . Get that standing ovation series . Make sure you check the link in the show notes .
Your host, EleanorBut what I realized in that moment was my defensiveness was holding me back and as soon as I realized that she was out the door let's be honest I was like , oh my gosh , my defensiveness needs to go and it left . I pushed it away . And now when I go to my lessons , yes , I work hard on something and , yes , my teacher still points it out sometimes , but that's because he can see that it can get even better than it is Right , and that is the push that we need . So when I first started working with this symphony player , I was quite defensive , I was quite nervous , but throughout my time working with him , I'm like you know what that attitude , that situation is not serving me and I just pushed out the door and it was gone . And sometimes there is still that temptation . But once we celebrate ourselves , then that temptation can start to go away because our teacher is still guiding us . Right , and that is so important .
Recap
Your host, EleanorAll right , let's do a bit of a recap . Right , and that is so important . All right , let's do a bit of a recap . The first thing is to expect the best of yourself , expect more of yourself , but in an encouraging and kind way rather than in a way that beats you down . We do not need that right . We want some encouraging and kindness in our practice sessions and that is where the spring roundup comes in , so make sure you go check it out in the show notes .
Your host, EleanorAnd the next thing is to find something to learn from in every situation , even the bad situations , even the ones that aren't as convenient . There is something to learn from in every single situation . And the third one is to not be defensive . That's something that I learned specifically for me , because I would work on something so much for a week and then my teacher would still point it out and be like you're not doing it enough still , and I felt like I was like but where's the recognition for all the hard work I put in ? But I realized I need to give myself that recognition so that my teacher can do his job and give me things to work on and point that stuff out .
Your host, EleanorThat is about it for
Final thoughts
Your host, Eleanorthis episode . Thank you so much for hanging out with me . That was amazing , as always . All the things to do with this episode will be in the show notes , from the blog post that goes with this episode to the link for the standing ovation series . Do yourself a favor and look at these shows because , let's be honest , there's some good , good stuff in there , and if you want to show your love and support for the confident musicianing podcast , make sure you give it a follow and I will see you in the next episode .
