Unpacking Me

Sexual Abuse in the Shadows: When Silence Protects the Wrong People

โ€ข Nicky & Mernelle โ€ข Season 1 โ€ข Episode 8

In this powerful episode, we break the silence surrounding sexual abuse and the culture of secrecy that often protects perpetrators instead of survivors. Together, we explore the unspoken rules, family dynamics, and cultural pressures that silence victims and enable generational harm. From the weight of shame to the fear of not being believed, we unpack how silence becomes a weapon โ€” and why speaking out is an act of both personal and collective liberation. This conversation is raw, necessary, and long overdue.

Trigger warning: This episode discusses sexual trauma, abuse, and themes that may be distressing. Please listen with care.

๐Ÿ“š Resources Mentioned:

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๐Ÿ’ฌ Support & Resources for Survivors

1. RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network)
๐Ÿ“ž 24/7 National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)
๐ŸŒ https://www.rainn.org
Free, confidential support and resources for survivors of sexual violence.

2. Therapy for Black Girls โ€“ Therapist Directory
๐ŸŒ https://www.therapyforblackgirls.com
A mental health platform with a therapist locator, podcast, and blog for Black women and girls.

3. The National Child Traumatic Stress Network (NCTSN)
๐ŸŒ https://www.nctsn.org
Provides resources for children, families, and professionals dealing with trauma, including sexual abuse.

4. Take Back the Night Foundation
๐ŸŒ https://takebackthenight.org
Supports survivors, raises awareness, and hosts global events to end sexual violence.

5. 1in6 (For male survivors of sexual abuse)
๐ŸŒ https://1in6.org
Education, support, and anonymous online chat for men whoโ€™ve experienced sexual trauma.

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