Things You Should Know
In each episode Traneisha English, a very opinionated black woman, and a guest try to find humor in current events, culture, politics, and life as an adult while sharing things you should know.
Things You Should Know
Leave Black Women ALONE!!!!!!
Traneisha and SieDah explore the exhausting reality of navigating the world as Black women, from public perception to workplace dynamics, while finding moments of joy despite constant scrutiny.
• Catching up on Beyoncé's new haircare line and the return of reality TV favorites
• Tennis player Taylor Townsend being called "uneducated" and "classless" after winning her match against Ostapenko
• The frustrating tendency for people to criticize Black women enjoying themselves in public spaces
• Navigating workplace dynamics and the emotional labor of avoiding the "angry Black woman" stereotype
• The importance of setting boundaries when people approach Black women in social settings
• Why you should use your PTO and avoid overworking yourself compared to colleagues
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What's up, gang? Trenisha English here and you are listening to the Things you Should Know podcast. And before we get started today, if you haven't already, here's your reminder to like and subscribe to the podcast, wherever you get your podcasts. Earlier last episode. Yeah, last episode, I did it too late. What is that? The grinding beat class? No, the no music class. Yeah, last episode, I did it too late. You got to get up. What is that? What is that? The grinding beat clap? No, the no music clap, no music. Is that it? I think I'm still doing grinding. We can record now. Yeah, you probably are. I am, it doesn't matter, I'm going to get through that. I can do that. I can find some different claps for you. I, you, I got you. I got you all right. Uh, what's up, gang? It's your girl, trinisha english, here with the things you are you should know podcast. You already know we got the homegirl, sadia, in the building.
Speaker 1:Hi guys, hello, what's up city, how you doing. I'm. I'm actually doing great. I'm in a good mood today. I was really ready to come on here and talk hella, shit, but I was like I don't know why not. I don't know what else you doing today, the the rest of the day. I mean, it's going to take you that long to talk shit. No, I think I lost the urge because, I don't know, maybe after I finish this shot, but I don't know what else you going to do, because I'd be exactly, I'd be going off on tangents. But no, I'm doing great. The people love it be going off on tangents, but no, I'm doing great. I'm having a great day. Um, went and experienced some devour things, because it's devouring indie right now, yeah, but yeah, that was a good time. How are you doing, friend? You know, I am on my work friday and I can't be more overjoyed, and I understand that you cannot hear that in my voice, but somehow, some way, I got stuck in the middle of two big ass projects at work and they have been whooping my ass, and so I'm ready to just be able to step away from that for a few days.
Speaker 1:Enjoy a long weekend. That's how it's good. Yeah, we do have a busy weekend coming up. It's's Labor Day weekend and the city and you know the city of Indianapolis always going to show out if they can. If it's a long weekend, it's going to be stuff to do so y'all might see, or y'all might have seen Sadia and I in the streets, because there's no way I'm editing this and getting it out before we've been in the streets this weekend, nope, weekend, nope, nah. Um so, but yeah, I'm looking for you somewhere. I don't sound like it, but I'm really looking forward to the weekend. Um, looking forward to clowning and, you know, because it's always a good time. Yeah, it's always great. You know, we're just a vibe and we are ready to have that cool and we tell people that all the time and they never disagree, so they never do so. Um, so I feel like there's a lot also happening around us in the world.
Speaker 1:It is some important things. That creole banshee is back trying to tap into my wallets with this new sacred drop which she's taking this whole. I mean, I know she's going to rock now, but she's taking this whole cowboy thing too far because, you know, now it's a stick up. It is because, remember, when you're sitting in ivies and I tell you that movie tombstone is one of my favorite movies, it's giving that because I just honestly feel like you're holding me at gun point. You're just taking all my money now, granted, I give it willingly. Yeah, I'm not, because I love me and that's the thing. Like, you don't really got to do me like this. I just keep hitting me over the head. I just got back from the cowboy carter tour. Now you want more money for my hair and then again I do miss you. So it's like whatever you drop, I'm probably gonna buy it because it's beyonce. Well, and I've only heard, but like, great things about the sacred hairline, um, so um, and it's braid season. She dropped a braid line and I got braids in and here we are, so it just only makes sense. So, of course, and it's blue, which, of course, of course, we know who signed up on that. She liked, obviously she. I'm actually really surprised she signed up on the white before the blue. To be honest, yeah, because she, you know, she, she allows her mother to be great. Sometimes she's like I understand you're beyonce. However, I'm gonna let you have this one.
Speaker 1:The other thing is like she's back in school. So now she's working two full-time jobs, right, right, managing her mother and I think her father might be up to something that she's probably, you know, handling on the side, of course. Yes, speaking of her being in school, apparently some, a friend or something I don't want to say leaked, because it's not like a leak, but it is because we know how Beyonce is about her children, but somebody put out photos of either like her and Blue Ivy was on FaceTime, or maybe it was like a Snapchat or something, just showing that Blue Ivy is in fact on the Internet, which we all know she's 13. She's 13. She's on the Internet, but yeah, I'm just like, like you know, we don't play on the internet. Y'all been posting her on the internet her entire life, her entire life. But yeah, so, and my whole thing is you know we don't play about beyonce or her children, and if she want to post something, let her post it. Don't don't be one of those. Yeah, don't be that guy, don't be that. It's actually really weird. Like the little girl's 13, like y'all are not that obsessed. Like chill, yeah, really not, just please relax. Uh. The other thing floating in the ether is our homegirl, and I mean that homegirl definitely.
Speaker 1:Karen huger is set to be released from prison. I want y'all to know. Cedilla signaled the clap because the grand dame is getting out of jail. She's getting out of jail because so many now now hold on really quickly. Let's rewind back. Does she deserve to be in jail absolutely because, karen, you cannot keep drinking like that and get behind the wheel like, seriously, do the crime, do the time. And she has done her time, she's done her time. She's done her time. Let let the green light out.
Speaker 1:Because so many times I'm like, oh my god, karen is in jail, it's, you know, and this is probably and I understand like jail is tough. There's a lot, right, I watch orange is the new black. I get it. But I, when I've seen the wire, I've seen it like, oh my goodness, I get it. You know so a few girls in prison documentary like I get it. I know it's tough, let me know I would. I could never, oh my god, I cannot fathom karen being in jail that long without a wig. Like, oh, let's just put it all, like someone's saying that one category, no maintenance, no maintenance, no wigs, no botox, no nothing.
Speaker 1:Karen is gonna come out looking her age. She's gonna look like I think she went in looking her age, but is she so? She looked like somebody that wasn't trying to look her age. It was really giving like, girl, just let yourself age, you're still gonna be beautiful. Like it'll be fine. The crop tops you can stop. Ain't nobody trying to see it? Nobody's trying to see that. So, um, I think she's gonna come out looking her age ray is gonna be so in love, like it's like oh my god, look at my wife.
Speaker 1:Is he, though? Girl? Yes, I don't. I, what else? What else? What else right gonna be doing? Or say you don't think ray done picked him up a little sweet thing and it's time that he's been free? I wouldn't be shocked if what you mean? Oh, hold on, why did ray? Ray ain't gotta wait till she was in jail to do it. I mean, he was already doing it. You're very true, all right, okay, whatever, I. Just here's the I. This is what I know.
Speaker 1:If that andrew cohen doesn't have someone stationed outside that jail as we currently speak, because we know these releases, they'll, you know, go early or be a couple days late as we speak. Someone needs to be out there around the clock because we should not miss it. No, she needs to be. She needs to get into the vehicle to be miked up by. Bravo, like seriously.
Speaker 1:And karen, you know how you are about. I don't want to say how y'all you're about your coin, because we all know karen just be lying about everything, right, but you better negotiate. Negotiate a fat paycheck from bravo, listen, like if you want me as soon as I walk out these doors. But knowing how vain karen is, she's probably gonna be like, no, I need to go. But what she does need to do is like a special, you know, like porsche's big happy family or like candy's wedding. That's like the grand on is coming home, like reintegrates. Like reintegrate is crazy, isn't that what they call it? Yes, they do. I mean, listen, she was in prison. Let's use the prison time.
Speaker 1:Jen shaw's uh 39, was it not 39th anniversary, or whatever? Her husband posted their anniversary picture. He went to go see her in prison. Oh yeah, listen. Now that's the thing that I'm gonna say about coach shaw. Coach, I love him. Some gin shaw, he does.
Speaker 1:I do not think he knew what was going on, though. Really, yeah, I think he I don't think he really like takes her seriously or pays her a lot of attention. I think and like not in like a shady way or a subservient way. I think like the only thing that he like his thing is like, that is my wife and I love her and as long as she's safe and protected, like, and I'm doing that part, okay, and so I think he's just like oh, you know, she's just running around doing her little hobbies and got caught up, or hey, if I know nothing, you can't put me on the stand. I mean, I ain't no shit, he's playing it. Well, if he did and he's 100, convinced me exactly. I didn't know a damn thing, buddy.
Speaker 1:Yeah, uh, new season of salt lake city is about to drop too, which could be interesting. Mary's back, right, oh, 100, mary the mary cosby, absolutely, what are you talking about? I'm not signing up if she's not there. Yeah, I don't think they had. I don't. Um, I don't think salt lake had any cash change-ups. I think they're running back the last cast, the last cast that they had, yeah, completely, which wasn't a bad cast, um, at all. So I'm actually not upset about it. I'm interested to see how things go. Sounds tumultuous, which looks tumultuous, which is basically a season of salt lake. So, um, because I haven't even been watching that much reality tv, so that'll be what me either drops me back.
Speaker 1:I'm really trying to find something to watch, because nothing has really gotten my attention lately. I've been re-watching a lot of shows that I liked, but yeah, nothing has really like. Wait a minute, I'm lying, what did I just watch? That was really really good. I have to think about it. I promise it was good. I'm not forgetting, because it wasn't, what was the hunting. What was the hunting? Yes, thank you, fran. Yes, I remember, because you told me to watch this. Yes, hunting Wives was a really good series.
Speaker 1:I've been watching, um, the second season of food bar on netflix. Food bar, yeah, it's uh the arnold arnold schwarzenegger show. It's like an action show. The premise of the show is he's a ce, a cei. Arnold schwarzenegger is in it. Yeah, he's still acting. The choppa, bring the choppa. Yeah, I mean, listen, I don't know what. The finance? Yeah, like, so there was. This is the second season of it on netflix that released like a few weeks ago. It's called fubar, the.
Speaker 1:The premise of the show is he is a cia agent and he's about to retire and as he is like is about to retire, he is pulled back in for like one last mission where he finds out his daughter is in the cia and they get partnered together to kind of like find this last criminal or find this uh criminal that they've all been. They both have been working or have cross paths with. It's actually really, really good. Um, I did not know arnold was still out in these acting streets. I thought that man was still being in politics and stuff. Nah, you know, you knock up the mate and you gotta make money to take care of this second family. That is right, that's right. So yeah, uh, arnold schwarzenegger is clocking in on work for netflix. So well, um, it's I. I have enjoyed it, but it doesn't really take much. I will also say this it isn't much on much. I will also say this it isn't much on tv right now because you know the fall lineup, so I'll start in october.
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Speaker 1:So US opening is US opening. Us Open is happening right now. The the us for damn sure ain't open. Uh and um black women killing it. Hayley baptiste. Um. Uh won her match first. Uh, major match. Shout out to her last name. Yeah, last name was baptiste. Um. Sorry, venus played on monday but unfortunately lost. Coco golf had a thrilling three sets yesterday.
Speaker 1:Um black women doing really really well, but one of uh black women. So taylor townsend is a black woman who plays tennis, obviously, and has really done really well on the double side. Was actually ranked as number one on the double side. Hasn't had as much success on the single side but has great forms playing really well coming into the US Open Lowest-ranked American woman. Anyway, long story short, a few hours ago she won her second-round match. I'm sorry she's through to the third round against Ostopenko. Ostopenko has won at least one major. I think she might have won two. Um she's from I don't know where astapanco is from, one of those like balt. I think she's from a baltic european country, I'm pretty sure up at the end.
Speaker 1:Not, apparently, because I can even show you the clip at the end of the match, osipenko loses um tough tie break. Second, uh, second set, not very close at all. So taylor really dominates, earns that win. Osipenko says at a pivotal point in the match, taylor got a net, won the point and she didn't apologize. And she didn't apologize and she took offense to that. She also took offense to the way Taylor handled the warm-up. Now it's interesting because Asapanco is actually known for taking a timeout or causing a pause or break in the match and extending it, going off the court, right, like. So. It's not like you're, just like the most upstanding player, right, people have had qualms with about how you played the game too. Anyway, at the end of the match they're shaking hands.
Speaker 1:She tells taylor townsend that she is, she's uneducated and she is not. She has no class, she has no class and she's uneducated. Here's the thing I think y'all should know. This is a bonus thing, because this ain't even a thing that I thought about yo. I think for y'all to realize that y'all have talked crazy to black women for so long, so long that at this point there is no need for us to take it from you, and so we will not. And so taylor was like yo, I wish you, I wish you would learn how to take a l, because that's what you're upset about. You're upset because that's the one thing they say to black women when they don't like something is that we don't have class. We don't have class or education, right. And so you knew exactly what you were doing when you did that. Right. And it's about her proximity to whiteness. And when I speak of this whiteness, this american whiteness, right, because you don't. But don't come at me like that. Right.
Speaker 1:And even on the are, in the press conference, asapenka said uh, just because she's in her country doesn't mean she can play the game this way. Play the game what way? Ho? Like, what are you talking about? If I wasn't playing it right, I'm sure the refs would call something like here and they and we have known the umpires are, and we've seen a lot. Well, maybe not bad, but we've seen a lot of questionable calls already at the us open, especially on the men's side, right, like we've had things. So and we've seen it before black women be penalized for showing up the way that they are showing up, especially in tennis, and so for you to do that and a loss.
Speaker 1:But also think I'm not gonna say something to you and at the end of the day, this don't got the day gonna end. Tell her townsend's from chicago. She wasn't gonna be like bro, you really picked the wrong one at the same time. So she, she definitely went up and then in her her um on court interview, said something about it and shout out props to her. She handled it phenomenally. Because I think I probably would. Uh, anyway, I don't think I would have handled it that way, thank you.
Speaker 1:And it's so funny you say that because I've seen a clip um last week where. So this is the first I've seen the clip and you, um, if you've ever been on um, a cruise or whatever, sometimes when they um wherever you poured it, you can do activities wherever they poured it, and sometimes you got to take a boat or something to get to the activity. Or if you're just somewhere vacationing, you'll get on a boat with everybody that paid for the activity to go or whatever. So the clip was it was a black woman taking the video and the video is they always mad at us for something and she's filming. It was some white women sitting on the other side of the boat and they're just holding their purses and they just have the most disgusting look at their on their faces. So the lady that's taking a clip is she's with her group of friends. There's a whole bunch of black women and, um, you hear Bootsy playing and you can tell like they're on like some type of island or somewhere. They're somewhere on vacation and Bootsy's playing and they're just having a good time. So that was the whole video.
Speaker 1:So I'll go to the comments. And comments were like uh, why are you playing that out loud? These people pay good money to go on vacation. Like y'all need to have some decorum and just trash. Yeah, we ain't gonna say nothing when y'all play achy, breaky hard or living on a prayer or whatever journey song, y'all are feeling or sweet caroline, like at least we playing the hits, exactly, sweet caroline, exactly. So those are all the comments. Y'all need to have class, y'all need to have decorum. Like why are y'all on vacation? Like this is, this is the type of shit where it'd be. Like you can't, all people can't go on vacation and like I mean just straight trash and black women.
Speaker 1:So I end up finding the girl that originally posted the video, because the whole, the whole thing people were saying is because they were saying y'all playing booty from like y'all speaker your phone or something like y'all are so disrespectful, like these people pay money to go on vacation, they gotta listen to your ghetto ass music and y'all being loud and disrespectful, don't tell me it wasn't even them. It wasn't even them. The captain played exactly because, as you were saying, that I was thinking about when we were in jamaica. Yeah, and why would they have the box? Exactly so, and I just yeah, y'all take people just everywhere.
Speaker 1:Y'all take the the first signs you see to talk crazy and tell black women they don't have any class, decorum, anything. Y'all run to it without having no context, without having no other information, and it's, it's crazy to me, thank you, yeah, it's insane to me and it's so annoying, but that's what made me think about that. Because if we don't do what y'all think we're supposed to do, we are. If we don't kiss y'all ass, if we're not apologetic at every moment of our life just for living, we're not doing nothing wrong. No, it's that.
Speaker 1:It's because y'all watch the shit on YouTube. Y'all don't want it in public in your face, mm-hmm, because you like the shit. That's why your kids do it. Y'all like it and y'all love to mimic it when y'all think it's cute, mm-hmm, and y'all love to mimic it when y'all think it's cute. But, yeah, I Bootsy and I'm so if I'm a black woman, I know, bootsy, I'm on vacation, I'm on vacation, I'm how many shots these, but deep, I'm on vacation, like yo, I don't have. No, why would I get the ox, like what? Like it's crazy and yeah, but y'all just see black women and so blame us, put it on us. It's their fault.
Speaker 1:Yeah, because y'all, y'all love, love to hate black women. I really do. It's your favorite all day long, all day long. And what's crazy is when because me and trinisha has has experienced this in 5k when we talk about how much y'all love to disrespect black women, instead of listening to us, maybe apologizing or just taking it in and being like you know what I, you know, I feel you, I receive that. What can I do to better? Y'all automatically get defensive. No, no, no, that's not true how. I love black women. I love black women. My baby mama's a black woman. No, is she. Does she treat her right? Do you treat her right? No, yeah, that time it wasn't exactly that time. Yeah, yeah, it's so crazy. It's actually really funny because we had not planned to talk about this.
Speaker 1:Right, I have been thinking a little bit about how that, the way that people perceive black women, how much that weighs on us, particularly me. I had an incident. You know I work. Like I said, work has been crazy. I'm working on this project that low-key, I really got hooked with them being boozled into. No, so I'm already feeling some type of way about it.
Speaker 1:Um, when it was pitched to me, it was and I'll be honest, like obviously I did my research, I was a part of it um, it sounded like an easier project than it is actually turning out to be. There's a lot of hiccups, a lot of like nuances, just a lot of stuff that we're just gonna have to short sort through. So now the project is running behind, it's like also running. So anyway, but I we had a meeting, we're talking about the project today and I am extremely frustrated because this is a this is a team thing, and one of my teammates never pulls their weight. Oh, I hate that, which is fine, like me too, but I don't want her to like what she turns out. I'm. It's actually going to be more work for me to go back and fix what you do or shift it so it actually works. Like, yeah, whatever she does, yeah, like I have to go back and fix it. So at this point, like, let me just come through and do it, right, right, so that's one. But not only are you you never pulling your weight, but you're always at the back of the cart slowing us down. So she's putting all these comments on the this part of this doc that we're working in that don't have anything to do with the project that we're talking about. Now. Are there things that are going to be that should be surface as we're having these conversations? Absolutely, but what you're talking about are two separate things and now you're convoluting them together. So the other reason why I don't have this done is because I'm having to sort through this feedback that you've given. That is not relevant, okay, so we're in the, we're in the meeting, we're talking about it and I basically am like yo, like I call her out hey, I'm having, I'm really struggling, I'm very frustrated because I I'm and then I was like I'm very frustrated and I did it like this Instead of saying because you are making this process slower, I don't want to be that black woman.
Speaker 1:So what I say is I'm wondering. We always have to proceed with caution. It's so annoying, it's so annoying and this is my whole thing. The thing that sets me off is white woman tears. And if you do that, I'm going, I'm going there's no bringing me back. I'm gonna say everything that I want to say, because if you're gonna cry, I'm gonna give this is so. If you're gonna cry, I'm gonna give you a reason to cry, because if you're already crying, but let's just get it all out in the open so you can cry about it now and then we can move on from everything. That's just my logic there.
Speaker 1:So I'm really trying to avoid that, because I'm extremely frustrated and I know I'm gonna call her the b word at work and I shouldn't do that. I know I'm gonna do it because it's on my tongue every time I talk about her anyway. So, long story long um, instead of doing that, I say maybe I'm not aligned or I don't have an understanding of what this project is, and this b word looks me in the face not in the face because we're on a zoom, but in the face and goes oh yeah, I think I would agree that they're separate projects, bitch, then why are we talking about it? So you know that I can't do that, but you bring in this up because we're talking about this one and I'm not gonna lie right, I'm actually kind of proud of the way that I handled myself, because I wanted to erupt. What I said was well, that is confusing to wade through and I am wading through it on my own and I'm not saying what you're saying isn't relevant, but it is not relevant to what we're working on right now. Put it on the list to say later work and work on it, like, but stop doing that, because I'm not doing that right, and I'm, I'm gonna tell you right now. I'm gonna go through and just resolve all your comments. That's what I said to her, because that has nothing to do with what we're talking about. It doesn't? So I hope you save them. I'm going to be out of the office, so if you need to go get them so you have them in for notes for later, do you boo, do you? Yeah, but After that call, I'm playing it back in my mind and I have to text one of my coworkers that I trust and be like yo.
Speaker 1:I wasn't trying to be a bitch on the call today and I feel like I might have come off like that and I needed this white woman to reassure me that I didn't come off like that. That's crazy. Why am I doing the emotional labor? But for you, doing for you, for for you? We do that all the time and it's so frustrating because, like I said, as black women, we always have to proceed with caution, which is insane because nobody else has to do that, no one.
Speaker 1:I've been on plenty of management calls where I know I'm like you didn't just say that, but I know once they get off the call, they're fine, they don't think about it, they don't, you know, analyze it, they don't reach out and be like, hey, no, they can just proceed. However, because it doesn't even matter, and we have to deal with that on a constant basis, because I was telling you about how, every time there is there's one position in my management department that has a revolving door, and every time they put a male in that position, they always try me to the point to where, like I'm doing a project on my own that I made up that everybody's excited about, to the point to where you were making it a point not to give me my full credit about it because, for whatever reason, and like my manager, my boss lady, she kept every time he would be like oh yeah, sadia, such and such. So she's like no, sadia put this together. No, sadia did this. Yeah, yeah, the I'll find any way to not give black women that credit, to disrespect us, to make us feel less than to make us feel like we never have a safe space. And it's so annoying and it's crazy that we talk about this, because I was going to bring this up to you Like, ever since that incident happened at Cheers, I had PTSD.
Speaker 1:So every whenever we're together that's the reason why I didn't come back in the other night when we were there yeah, because, like now, it's like I'm always wondering are we being too loud? Are we disrespecting anybody? Is anybody feeling some type of way? Wondering, are we being too loud? Are we disrespecting anybody? Is anybody feeling some type of way? Because I felt so irritated by that, because I'm like, I'm not in a space where, um, we never set out with the intention to be disruptive. We are legit just black women enjoying our lives, enjoying our time, having a good time. But the simple fact that people and you know what people are talking about. Make it a point to zero in on us and be like I don't like that. And, again, we're not hurting anybody. Well, and here's what I'm gonna say we're only it's only disruptive because we are black women.
Speaker 1:Yeah, because we have seen people countless like everyone, right, like if it's a, if it's a noisy party and it's not a noisy party of black people, it's typically not a problem at all, right, no, and we're talking about 95 of the time that me and sadia, our approach is just me and sadia. And now I ain't gonna lie to you, we do be cackling, but not enough. Two people, but like, relax, again, we're not in a library, we're not, we're not anywhere that would require us to be quiet and to like I don't even want to say respect people's faces, because we do, we do that, we do. We are respecting people's faces. People are approaching us at our table, violating our space, coming into our space. We're not walking around talking to people. We're not, no, we're not talking to each other. And it's so annoying because, again, we're. We are in bars, sports bars, clubs, wherever it is. But that's what our work again is.
Speaker 1:Whenever you see a black woman just enjoying her life, enjoying her peace. You make it a point to be like I need to go over there and I need to tell them about themselves because they're enjoying life and it's it's so annoying. Here's what I'm gonna say to you all. Bonus thing you all should know, right, if you ever see a group of black women enjoying themselves and you are excited about it and you want to tell them that, oh, they look like they're having such a great time and oh, you guys are so much fun, you know what would truly show your appreciation staying where you are, buy them around a sock, send it to the table. Yeah, don't even approach. Don't even approach them, just just be like. I want to buy them around to engage, yeah, but what that group of black women would appreciate most is if, in your group, you said, oh, they look like they're having a bunch of fun, and then you continued to mind your good, you do not need to approach our table, you don't need to come up and be like, oh my god, we, we do not. And I think they think that we need that. We don't. I don't need your reassurance, I don't know to come up to us and be like, oh, my god, you guys are so much fun. We know we're over here having it. I don't need you to let me know. You know that we're having fun because our fun is so much fun. You see it, you feel it, yeah, and y'all you want to be a part of it. No, I don't want you to be part, because if I wanted you to be part of it, guess what? I would have turned around and be like hey, listeners, just a quick reminder to subscribe and follow our podcast so you never miss an episode, and if you're enjoying the show, be sure to rate and review us. Your support means the world to us.
Speaker 1:Now let's get back to the show. Uh, did we have anything else we want to talk about? I mean, we did, but you know what there's always next week? Uh, cedilla, anything. I gave the people two things and I still got another thing I want the people to know. So if you don't got nothing, I we think people should know. Yeah, uh, one have, just like we said, have your like song or your thing. Is that just put you in a good mood, just like it makes you feel like like I'm their bitch? So have your theme song, theme song for that and uh things people should. You should know respect and love on black women.
Speaker 1:Yes, the thing that I think people should know is use your pto that's actually an oldie but goodie as a recycle. But, yeah, definitely, if you get hit by a bus today, they will figure that out. They're gonna post that job, job tomorrow. So take that pto ain't no need and you burn yourself out in your desk. And then also, and not only take that pto, but also look at your work, production, and if you're producing significantly more than other people, you are wrong, not them, you're wrong.
Speaker 1:Take accountability, yeah, take accountability. Look at yourself and be like dang, I am busting my ass and no one else around me is. It's's not a cue to be like y'all need to work harder. No, you need to sit down. You need to sit down. You're doing too much and you need to chill, definitely. Yeah, you're messing with the algorithm. You are the problem. So, yeah, really did you need to find another project to work on outside of work? Yep, cause you're doing too much here entirely.
Speaker 1:So, um, all right, friends, that's all I got. We'll talk to you next time, okay, because we are a friendly bunch. Well, cydia is friendly. Cydia is very nice. It depends. I'm not always nice. Trinita, be lying to y'all. I am I a nice person. Yes, sadia is a nicer person than I am. However, there I I do have my limits, because I will let you know. Yes, she will now. I didn't say it was a pushover, but I said you know, sadia is good for. Yeah, I'm not doing that. I'm about to look at you and be like don't glitch for me. She'll let it go. Don't, don't start. Let me say how many Vegas moms have I had? Exactly, exactly.