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End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief

Death touches us all, and yet our culture rarely makes space to talk about it openly. Why is it so hard to have honest conversations about death, dying, and loss with the people we love? What do we do with grief when it inevitably arrives?

End of Life Conversations is a podcast dedicated to normalizing these essential conversations. Hosts Reverent Mother Annalouiza Armendariz and Reverend Wakil David Matthews — both seasoned hospice chaplains and end-of-life companions — invite experts and everyday voices alike: funeral directors, death doulas, poets, researchers, grief counselors, and people who've walked right up to the edge of life and returned. Together, they explore what it means to prepare for death, sit with loss, and grieve in ways that are as individual as we are.

And weekly, we share a conversation with our friend Sam Zemke about something that is currently speaking to us.

Whether you're supporting a loved one through a terminal illness, searching for the right words to start a difficult conversation, or simply curious about what a more death-positive life might look like, this podcast meets you where you are. No question is too strange. No path looks the same.

Subscribe, reach out, and join the conversation. Because the time to talk about it is now.

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We want to thank our excellent editor, Sam Zemkee. We also acknowledge that we live and work on unceded indigenous peoples' lands. We thank them for their generations of stewardship, which continues to this day, and honor them by doing all we can to create a sustainable planet and support the flourishing of all life, both human and more-than-human.

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Subscriber Episode • February 04, 2025 • Rev Annalouiza Armendariz & Rev Wakil David Matthews

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An edited video version of this episode is available here: https://youtu.be/9bLisrm7q4w

In this podcast episode, the hosts engage with experienced death doulas to explore the journey of becoming a death doula, the personal inspirations behind their work, and the training involved. The conversation highlights the importance of community support, the calling to serve the dying, and the unique philosophy guiding their practice, including recognizing their work as a form of ministry. This conversation delves into the multifaceted role of end-of-life doulas, exploring their training, the importance of community education, and the business aspects of their work. The speakers discuss the evolution of death care practices, the significance of supporting families, and the need for a comprehensive curriculum that addresses both practical and emotional aspects of dying. They emphasize the importance of finding a personal path in this field and educating the community about the value of doula services. This conversation delves into the multifaceted role of death doulas, exploring the challenges and rewards of providing end-of-life care. The speakers discuss the importance of transparency in pricing, the emotional complexities of discussing fees, and the necessity of promoting doula services within the community. Personal stories highlight the profound impact of compassionate care and the significance of medical aid in dying. The conversation emphasizes the need for humility, support, and love in navigating the sensitive terrain of death and dying.

- From Corey for Doorway Into Light: Info about the upcoming 7-week online course "Facing Death Nourishing Life" - The first class is on Feb. 17th
- Our viewers can use the code DISCOUNT2025 to receive $200 off Standard Tuition. Registration link

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LiElla's Leaving Well website

Jerrigrace's Final Passages website

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

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