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<v SPEAKER_00>Good evening, everybody.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, I love your pastor.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I do.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I love his family, and I love what this church stands for.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the Oak Hills Church in San Antonio is a part of that ever-increasing list of churches around the world that is regularly blessed by what you do.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we're learning from you, crossing uh trails with you, sharing ideas with you, and we just hope to brush up against you and and and and let some of you rub off on us.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I do bring you greetings from San Antonio.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I preached there this morning.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm thankful for airlines that get us here in the afternoon.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I'm thankful for you for coming out.

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<v SPEAKER_00>My church always accuses me of doing things backwards.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I may be about to do something backwards.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But as we were worshiping, this happens to me quite a few times during the year, and so I just have to be obedient.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I sense that there might be somebody who just needs prayer before I even preach.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You don't really need a word from me, do you?

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<v SPEAKER_00>You need a word from Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And uh I I sense that, and uh, I don't want to embarrass anyone.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I don't want to put you on the spot.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But if you just really came tonight hungry for prayer, before I start preaching, I'm gonna invite you to come up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Is that okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I hope I didn't break a rule or anything.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I don't think I did.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So is there anybody who needs a prayer for healing, for encouragement?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Don't be embarrassed, just come on down.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm just gonna pray.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're not gonna do a lot of music, a lot of brew ha ha.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're just gonna pray.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're gonna ask the Lord Jesus, all of us now.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Lord Jesus, we bless you, we thank you, we welcome you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Here we are, Father, at the beginning of the year.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Some of us, Father, carry special burdens and we have needs and we have concerns, and we're bringing them to you right now, Father.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Right now.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We bring them to you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We ask for your help.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We can't carry these burdens without you, without your strength.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We have sickness, Father.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Sickness in our bodies.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We have joints that hurt.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We have conditions, we have cancers.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We have emotional issues.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're having trouble getting our thoughts together, dear Father.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We're passing through dark times, doldrums, and depression.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We come, Lord, and we bring these to you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Church, pray for these who have come.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Just lift up your name.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Go ahead and whisper your prayers and say your prayers.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Just pray for these who have come.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Thank you, Lord.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Thank you, Lord.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Those of you who have come, I'm praying for you to have a spirit of faith, just of trust, of knowledge that Jesus will get you through this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He will walk you through this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And his word to you is don't give up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Don't turn back.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Keep your ear tuned toward him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>A million and one voices are crying for your attention, but there's only one voice that matters.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The authoritative voice, Jesus Christ, the I am of the universe.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He is for you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He is for you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Believe that right now.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He is for you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He is for you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Hear him say, I am for you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I am with you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I am your savior.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I am your king.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I know your name.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I know your hurt.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I know your concerns.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You're not alone.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You're not alone.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Would you receive that?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Receive it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Receive it deep.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Sometimes it takes a while to receive it deep.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But let it go deep down within you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He is with you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He is with you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Lord, now I want to pray for family concerns.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Children who have wandered away, marriages that are on the rocks.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Bitterness.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Lord, we pray against the root of bitterness in families.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We pray for a new day.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We pray for a new dimension.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Here, there, Heavenly Father, we lift these families up to you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Church, pray please, for these who have come.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Some of them have come with their families, their marriages on the rocks.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But Lord, we believe you can do in one moment what a thousand counselors can't do in 20 years.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You can restore.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You're the God of restoration, the God of renewal, the God of reclamation.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And right now we ask you, Lord, we're begging you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We believe that you can speak the word and it will be done.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Just speak the word, Father.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Just speak a word of forgiveness over these homes.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Speak a word of hope where there's nothing but darkness.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Speak a word of life where there has been death.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Speak a word of purity where there is impurity.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we stand against the spirit of pornography.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We stand against the spirit of adultery.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We stand against the spirit of selfishness and pride.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And we believe, oh Father God, for a new day, a new day, please receive this church.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Receive the Lord Jesus as he brings a new day into your home.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is going to be a good year because of the presence of Christ in your families.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Thank you, Lord.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Thank you for the healing that you have brought now to our bodies, to our homes, to our futures.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We thank you, Lord, and we praise you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We praise you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We bless you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And all the church said.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Amen.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Amen.

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<v SPEAKER_00>All right.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Thank you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Let's do that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Let's give it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, it is a great honor for me to join you and to have these few minutes with you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It is a new year, so that means I have a new joke.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I'm not told this joke, so I'm gonna test it on you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I meant to test it on my church this morning, but they didn't seem to be in a good mood.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I'm gonna test it on you, and you can tell me whether or not I should share it anymore.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You ready?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay, so this highway patrolman pulls over this car for going too slow on Interstate 10.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Pulls them over to the side of the road.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Gets out of the car, walks up to the car, and he notices it's an old man and an older woman in the car.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Have you ever heard this joke?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Oh man, I'm always afraid the pastor told the joke the day before I got here.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But in case he did, here it comes.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he says, Sir, you're driving too slow.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Ma, you're barely going 10 miles an hour.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the older man said, Well, that's what the sign said.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I saw it back there, and the highway patrolman said, No, that's the interstate sign.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is interstate 10.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You're confusing the speed limit sign and the highway sign.

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<v SPEAKER_00>About that time, the patrolman looked across the car at the lady sitting in the front seat.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Her hair was blown back.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Her face was ashen.

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<v SPEAKER_00>She was holding on to the dashboard.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the patrolman said, Sir, is your WFOK?

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<v SPEAKER_00>He says, I think so, but we just got off of Farm to Market Road 183.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Having my joke for the year then.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Brother James and I were talking about deer hunting before we came out.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm not much of a hunter, but somebody in our church invited me to go deer hunting a few months back, and so we went deer hunting and waited all day, and here came a deer.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We both shot at the same time.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Ben went the deer.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I said, I shot the deer.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He said, No, I did.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I said, No, I did.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He said, No, I did.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I said, I did.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We shot at the same time, but it was my bullet.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He said, No, no, it was mine.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, we made such a ruckus that the game warden showed up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He came up and said, What are you two arguing about?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I said, He says he shot the deer, but I no idea.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The game warden said, I can solve this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So he walked up and he looked at the animal.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He turned back and he said, Either one of you a preacher.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I said, I am.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He says, then you shot the deer.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I said, how do you know?

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<v SPEAKER_00>He said, because the bullet went in one ear and out the other.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I hope that doesn't happen tonight.

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<v SPEAKER_00>She had a tremble to her.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The kind of tremble that you can tell just by placing your hand on someone's shoulder.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I ran into her in a grocery store.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Hadn't seen her in quite some time.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I asked about her kids and asked about her husband.

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<v SPEAKER_00>When I brought up her husband, that's when her eyes began to water, and that's when her chin began to quiver, and that's when the story spilled out that he had left her.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Traded her in to use her words on a young model.

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<v SPEAKER_00>She did her best to maintain her composure, but she couldn't.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the grocery store produce section became a sanctuary of sorts.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And right there between the tomatoes and the heads of lettuce, we prayed.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And after we prayed, here's what I said to her.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I said, You'll get through this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It won't be painless.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It won't be quick.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But God will take this mess and use it for something good.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And in the meantime, don't be foolish or naive.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But don't despair either.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because with God's help, you'll get through this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>A few days later, a friend called.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He had just been fired.

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<v SPEAKER_00>His dismissal was his fault.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He felt terrible about it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He'd made some stupid, inappropriate remarks at work, and his boss really had no other choice but to let him go.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now he's a 57-year-old unemployed manager.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Feels terrible, it sounds worse.

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<v SPEAKER_00>His wife is angry, his kids are confused, and he and I talked for a while, and after we chatted, you know what I said to him?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I said, now you're gonna get through this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It won't be quick and it won't be painless.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But God will use this mess for something good.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now in the meantime, don't be foolish.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But don't despair either.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because with God as your helper, you'll get through this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then there was this teenage girl I met at a uh truck star, truck stop.

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<v SPEAKER_00>My wife tells me not to go there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's where I eat hamburgers too much, but that's another story.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And I was up there several times over the summer, and there was this young girl working there, maybe 16, 17 years of age, and and uh we struck up several conversations, and one day she confided that her parents had just divorced, and that was hard on her, and what made it even more difficult was that they were demanding that she pick, live with him, live with her.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And she was pretty torn up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so we talked for a while, and then after we talked, you know what I said to her?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I said, now listen, you're gonna get through this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You are.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm not saying it's gonna be quick, and I'm sure not saying it's gonna be painless, but God will take this mess and he'll use it for something good.

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<v SPEAKER_00>In the meantime, don't be foolish and don't be naive.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But don't despair either.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because with God as your helper, you'll get through this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Who am I to say things like that to people?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Where did I come up with that kind of promise?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, I actually came across that in a pit of all places.

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<v SPEAKER_00>A pit so deep the boy couldn't get out, so steep he couldn't climb out, had he been able to.

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<v SPEAKER_00>His brothers would have pushed him back in because they were the ones who put him in to begin with.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You remember the story of Joseph in the Old Testament, in the book of Genesis?

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<v SPEAKER_00>His story begins like this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so it came to pass when Joseph had come to his brothers, that they stripped Joseph of his tunic, the tunic of many colors that was on him, and they took him and they cast him into a pit.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the pit was empty, and there was no water in it, and they sat down to eat a meal.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So it's an abandoned cistern.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Jagged rocks and roots extend from the side.

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<v SPEAKER_00>A seventeen-year-old boy lies at the bottom.

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<v SPEAKER_00>At least he appears to be a boy, what with his downy beard and his spindly arms, his hands are bound, his ankles are tied, he lies on his side, knees crammed up to his chest in the small space, the sand is wet with the spittle where he is drooled, and his voice is hoarse from screaming.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's not that his brothers don't hear him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Twenty years from now, when famine has tamed their swagger and taken away their pride, they're going to confess that we saw the anguish of his soul when he pleaded with us, but we would not hear him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>These are the sons of Jacob.

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<v SPEAKER_00>These are the great grandsons of Abraham.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This is the closest the Bible comes to royalty.

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<v SPEAKER_00>These are the couriers of a covenant that will go to a galaxy worth of people, but on this day, they are a Bronze Age version of a dysfunctional family.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They could have their own reality TV show for crying out loud.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, they're in the shadow of the pit that holds their baby brother, and they're passing the wine, chewing on the venison.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Wine.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Well, the scripture tells us, Genesis 37, they hated the boy.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They hated him and they could not speak peaceably to him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They hated him, they hated him even more.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They hated him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>His brothers envied him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You think this was a happy family?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Here's why.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The father pampered Joseph like a farmer would pamper a prized calf.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Jacob, you remember, had two wives, Leah and Rachel, but he really just had one love.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And when Rachel died, Jacob kept her memory alive by fawning over their son Joseph.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And so Joseph, Daddy's little darling, got to stay home while the other brothers went to work.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Joseph, Daddy's little boy, got his coat of many colors while the others wore hand-me-downs.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So the brothers caught Joseph far from home, 50 miles away from Daddy's protection, and they went ballistic on him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They stripped Joseph of his tunic.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They took him and they cast him into a pit.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They stripped the tunic.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They cast him into a pit.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Those are defiant verbs, aren't they?

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<v SPEAKER_00>They're angry at him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They wanted not just to kill Joseph.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They were going to cover up, hide the body.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It was a cover-up from the get-go.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Now I don't think Joseph saw this assault coming.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Do you?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Do you think he woke up that day and said, hmm, today's the day I get thrown into a pit by my brothers.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So I better wear padded clothing.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He didn't see this assault coming.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And neither did you.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Joseph's pit came in the form of a cistern.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Yours came in the form of.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You want to fill in the blank?

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<v SPEAKER_00>A diagnosis?

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<v SPEAKER_00>A foster home, a traumatic injury?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Joseph was thrown into a hole and despised.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Maybe you were thrown into a divorce court and forgotten.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Thrown into a bed and abused.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Thrown into an unemployment line and passed over.

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<v SPEAKER_00>The pit.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Does anyone make it through life without getting thrown into a pit?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Joseph's story, you remember, got worse before it got better.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He would have died had his brothers not been a feather more greedy than they were bloodthirsty.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And they had a chance to sell him into slavery.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Can you imagine selling?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Don't answer that.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You may have sold your brother into slavery if you'd have had the chance.

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<v SPEAKER_00>They sold him into slavery.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So that abandonment led to enslavement.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That enslavement led to entrapment.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That entrapment, if you remember, led to imprisonment.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Joseph's story was a downhill slide into one problem after another for over a decade.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Yet he never gave up.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Bitterness never staked its claim.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Anxiety never consumed his soul.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Anger never metastasized into hatred.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Remember what happened?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because he stayed faithful and because he stayed available, he was there when God shoulder tapped him to move from prison to palace, from prisoner to prime minister.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And then literally from one day to the next, Joseph went from no hope to having all the hope he could handle in being in charge of the most powerful worldwide relief effort in the history of the world.

00:18:19.279 --> 00:18:25.039
<v SPEAKER_00>It's not hyperbole to state Joseph saved the world from famine.

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<v SPEAKER_00>How?

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<v SPEAKER_00>How did he not only survive, how did he thrive?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Boy, we need to know the answer to that one.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We don't have to speculate.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Thanks to Joseph himself, we know what he believed that enabled him to have the faith to get through this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Years later, the final words spoken by Joseph in the book of Genesis.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Joseph is speaking to his brothers.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Yes, the same ones who threw him into a pit, the same ones who were willing to do away with him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>By now, Joseph's father is dead, and Joseph's brothers are afraid that Joseph is going to settle the score.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So they come to the prince begging for mercy.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And Joseph, when he sees that they are afraid, says, You just don't get it, do you?

00:19:22.319 --> 00:19:23.920
<v SPEAKER_00>You just don't get it.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He says, as for you, you meant evil against me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>But God meant it for good in order to bring about this present result to preserve many people alive.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You meant evil against me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He acknowledges the presence of evil in his world.

00:19:51.519 --> 00:19:57.440
<v SPEAKER_00>He uses a Hebrew verb which comes from another word that means to weave or to braid.

00:19:57.599 --> 00:20:00.319
<v SPEAKER_00>He says, You came weaving evil.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Braiding evil.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Platting evil.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You had every intention to destroy me.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Then he says, but God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he uses the same verb.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And he says, but God rewove.

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<v SPEAKER_00>God rewove.

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<v SPEAKER_00>He took the evil that was intended to destroy me, and God rewove it into something good.

00:20:28.000 --> 00:20:34.319
<v SPEAKER_00>Something good to preserve all of these many people, to keep these many people alive.

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<v SPEAKER_00>What was intended as evil, God recycled and turned into something good.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Satan's plan was logical and sinister.

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<v SPEAKER_00>If he could destroy Abraham, he could destroy the seed of Abraham, Jesus Christ.

00:20:52.480 --> 00:20:55.440
<v SPEAKER_00>But watch the master weaver at work.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It's a divine jiu-jitsu of sorts.

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<v SPEAKER_00>What Satan intends for evil, God reroutes using the very force that came with evil and turns it into something good.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We see a perfect mess.

00:21:10.480 --> 00:21:15.599
<v SPEAKER_00>God sees a perfect chance to train, test, and teach the future prime minister.

00:21:15.759 --> 00:21:17.279
<v SPEAKER_00>We see a prison.

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<v SPEAKER_00>God sees on-the-job training.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We see a famine.

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<v SPEAKER_00>God sees the relocation of his chosen lineage.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We call it Egypt.

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<v SPEAKER_00>God calls it protective custody.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Where he can lift the family of Abraham, the lineage of Christ, out of barbaric Canaan, where the Canaanites and the Amorites are going to turn more and more savage with every passing century and lift them up and place them in Egypt, the very place where Egyptians have nothing to do with shepherds.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So that this Bedouin tribe of shepherds can live in relative protection for 400 years until they go from a nation of 60 or so to a nation of over 1.5 million and then turn back and reinhabit the nation, the promised land of Israel.

00:22:24.559 --> 00:22:30.480
<v SPEAKER_00>What was intended for evil, God reworked into something good.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Joseph got this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And really, my whole question to you is do you?

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm not denying the presence of evil in your life.

00:22:44.799 --> 00:22:51.039
<v SPEAKER_00>I don't think any page in Scripture invites us to say there's no evil on this planet.

00:22:51.920 --> 00:22:57.599
<v SPEAKER_00>I mean, it seems that every page is stained by blood and marked by tears.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Wouldn't you agree?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And you could probably say the same in your life.

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<v SPEAKER_00>It wasn't good that he touched you the way he did.

00:23:08.319 --> 00:23:14.000
<v SPEAKER_00>It was not God's will that she reject you the way she did.

00:23:15.759 --> 00:23:32.079
<v SPEAKER_00>It's not right that our world be so racked with violence and hatred, and that you be the victim of someone else's stupidity or be caught up in the evil that has been passed down from generation to generation.

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<v SPEAKER_00>This will not last forever.

00:23:35.839 --> 00:23:37.039
<v SPEAKER_00>It will not.

00:23:37.279 --> 00:23:53.279
<v SPEAKER_00>In the meantime, God gives you this promise that what was intended to hurt you, what was intended to belittle you, what was intended to destroy you, God can recycle.

00:23:53.599 --> 00:23:57.039
<v SPEAKER_00>And He can use that into something good.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And the very evil that would destroy others will not destroy you.

00:24:01.839 --> 00:24:02.240
<v SPEAKER_00>Why?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because you will keep a but God in your story.

00:24:06.480 --> 00:24:14.000
<v SPEAKER_00>You intended evil, Joseph said to his brothers, but God reintended it for good.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You're gonna stay faithful.

00:24:15.920 --> 00:24:17.279
<v SPEAKER_00>You're not gonna give up.

00:24:17.440 --> 00:24:18.880
<v SPEAKER_00>You're not gonna be bitter.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You, like Joseph, may be betrayed by those who promise to be with you, who should have watched over you.

00:24:26.559 --> 00:24:33.200
<v SPEAKER_00>You may be lied about, you may end up in a prison of someone else's own making.

00:24:33.359 --> 00:24:39.039
<v SPEAKER_00>You may end up in a situation that would have destroyed others, but listen to me, you're gonna hang in there.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You're gonna get through this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Why?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because you have God who can take any evil and turn this into something good.

00:24:48.640 --> 00:24:59.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Now, this is a regular teaching in Scripture, and I think Christians need a healthy theology of hurt, a healthy understanding of hurt.

00:24:59.759 --> 00:25:05.279
<v SPEAKER_00>There is no scripture that I have found that says when you become a Christian, hurt stops.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We live in a world of hurt.

00:25:08.720 --> 00:25:12.240
<v SPEAKER_00>Here's the promise: God will recycle the hurt.

00:25:12.640 --> 00:25:14.160
<v SPEAKER_00>He will use the hurt.

00:25:14.319 --> 00:25:16.960
<v SPEAKER_00>You'll be a better person because of the hurt.

00:25:17.119 --> 00:25:21.359
<v SPEAKER_00>You'll be able to help other people that you couldn't have helped otherwise because of the hurt.

00:25:21.519 --> 00:25:24.240
<v SPEAKER_00>You'll be stronger on the other side of the hurt.

00:25:24.400 --> 00:25:26.079
<v SPEAKER_00>There will be hurt.

00:25:26.640 --> 00:25:28.400
<v SPEAKER_00>But be of good cheer.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Because the Lord Jesus has overcome all of the hurt in the world.

00:25:33.839 --> 00:25:37.039
<v SPEAKER_00>And what was intended to destroy you will not.

00:25:37.359 --> 00:25:37.839
<v SPEAKER_00>Why?

00:25:38.160 --> 00:25:42.319
<v SPEAKER_00>Because God can take it and use it for something good.

00:25:42.720 --> 00:25:52.960
<v SPEAKER_00>Now, this is a truth that doesn't appear just in Genesis 50, 20, as you know, but it appears in Romans 8 and verse 28.

00:25:53.519 --> 00:25:56.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Romans 8.28 and Genesis 50.20, right?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Parallel passages.

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<v SPEAKER_00>One in the New Testament, one in the Old.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Genesis, Romans 8.28 says, and we know that in all things, God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.

00:26:14.400 --> 00:26:20.079
<v SPEAKER_00>We know that in all things, in the all things of life, God works.

00:26:20.480 --> 00:26:24.640
<v SPEAKER_00>The individual things are very difficult and challenging.

00:26:24.880 --> 00:26:30.640
<v SPEAKER_00>But in the all things, when they all come together under God's protective plan, good happens.

00:26:30.799 --> 00:26:32.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Let me give you an example of this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>How many of you like coffee?

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<v SPEAKER_00>Boy, my wife and I love coffee.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Every morning we have a cup of coffee together.

00:26:43.440 --> 00:26:47.920
<v SPEAKER_00>And we sit out on the porch and we look over the hill country and we sip on coffee.

00:26:48.160 --> 00:27:02.640
<v SPEAKER_00>And inevitably, after I take my first sip, I turn to my wife, Dean Lynn, and I say, honey, that's good.

00:27:04.000 --> 00:27:05.039
<v SPEAKER_00>That's good.

00:27:05.680 --> 00:27:10.720
<v SPEAKER_00>Now when I say that coffee is good, what am I saying?

00:27:11.680 --> 00:27:15.359
<v SPEAKER_00>Am I saying that the ceramic mug is good?

00:27:16.559 --> 00:27:19.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Am I saying that the coffee maker is good?

00:27:20.319 --> 00:27:22.720
<v SPEAKER_00>Am I saying that the plug is good?

00:27:22.880 --> 00:27:25.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Am I saying that the spoon we used is good?

00:27:25.680 --> 00:27:27.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Am I saying that the coffee filter is good?

00:27:28.079 --> 00:27:30.480
<v SPEAKER_00>Am I saying that ground coffee is good?

00:27:30.720 --> 00:27:33.279
<v SPEAKER_00>Am I saying that coffee beans are good?

00:27:33.519 --> 00:27:36.240
<v SPEAKER_00>Am I saying that the scooper is good?

00:27:37.200 --> 00:27:37.519
<v SPEAKER_00>No.

00:27:38.160 --> 00:27:57.759
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm saying that when all of these things work together, when they're heated up, according to the original recipe, according to the person who designed it, when they all worked together, then good happens.

00:27:58.319 --> 00:28:01.920
<v SPEAKER_00>It is not good that your parents divorced.

00:28:02.240 --> 00:28:04.960
<v SPEAKER_00>It is not good that cancer has gone.

00:28:05.119 --> 00:28:10.960
<v SPEAKER_00>You'll never catch me putting my arm around somebody at a graveside service and say, well, really, this is good.

00:28:11.200 --> 00:28:12.160
<v SPEAKER_00>It's not.

00:28:12.400 --> 00:28:13.200
<v SPEAKER_00>It hurts.

00:28:13.359 --> 00:28:14.319
<v SPEAKER_00>It's terrible.

00:28:14.640 --> 00:28:19.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Individually, independently, it does not feel good and it isn't good.

00:28:19.759 --> 00:28:21.200
<v SPEAKER_00>But here's God's promise.

00:28:21.359 --> 00:28:32.720
<v SPEAKER_00>He's going to take all of this stuff that's happening to you right now, and he's going to work it together for his glory and your ultimate good.

00:28:33.440 --> 00:28:33.759
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

00:28:34.640 --> 00:28:45.839
<v SPEAKER_00>Not your comfort and not your fun, but for your ultimate good, for the development of your character and the expansion of his kingdom.

00:28:46.000 --> 00:28:47.680
<v SPEAKER_00>That's his job.

00:28:48.559 --> 00:28:49.519
<v SPEAKER_00>He is God.

00:28:51.279 --> 00:28:53.359
<v SPEAKER_00>And he knows how to do it.

00:28:54.240 --> 00:28:58.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Your job is to keep the butt God in your story.

00:28:59.279 --> 00:29:06.400
<v SPEAKER_00>Your job and my job is to stay aligned spiritually with God during tough times.

00:29:06.640 --> 00:29:13.039
<v SPEAKER_00>And as we are, and to the degree we are, we will get through these things.

00:29:13.359 --> 00:29:14.799
<v SPEAKER_00>Well, how do we do that?

00:29:15.119 --> 00:29:16.880
<v SPEAKER_00>Well, here's the answer.

00:29:17.039 --> 00:29:20.319
<v SPEAKER_00>I've got four, they're coming real quick, so get ready.

00:29:20.640 --> 00:29:23.519
<v SPEAKER_00>How do you keep the butt God in your story?

00:29:23.680 --> 00:29:27.200
<v SPEAKER_00>Number one, lay claim to the nearness of God.

00:29:28.400 --> 00:29:32.240
<v SPEAKER_00>This year, 2014, you will never be where God is not.

00:29:32.559 --> 00:29:34.319
<v SPEAKER_00>He is already in the future.

00:29:35.680 --> 00:29:36.880
<v SPEAKER_00>He is everywhere.

00:29:37.599 --> 00:29:43.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Hebrews 13, 5, he says to us, never will I leave you, never will I forsake you.

00:29:44.799 --> 00:29:48.319
<v SPEAKER_00>In the Greek, this passage has five negatives.

00:29:48.640 --> 00:29:54.960
<v SPEAKER_00>It could literally be translated, I will not not leave you, neither will I not not forsake you.

00:29:55.279 --> 00:29:57.359
<v SPEAKER_00>You think he's trying to make a point?

00:29:58.000 --> 00:30:01.599
<v SPEAKER_00>You're never going to be where God is not.

00:30:01.759 --> 00:30:09.119
<v SPEAKER_00>When you pass through tough times, as sure as the sun sets in the west, you begin to think God is not with me.

00:30:09.680 --> 00:30:11.279
<v SPEAKER_00>I am all alone.

00:30:11.599 --> 00:30:14.480
<v SPEAKER_00>I cannot make it because God has left me.

00:30:14.640 --> 00:30:18.400
<v SPEAKER_00>Listen, that is a lie that comes from the pit of hell.

00:30:18.640 --> 00:30:20.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Just stand against it.

00:30:20.240 --> 00:30:21.680
<v SPEAKER_00>Hold on to Scripture.

00:30:21.839 --> 00:30:26.960
<v SPEAKER_00>In tough times, you must let God's word trump your emotions.

00:30:27.599 --> 00:30:32.160
<v SPEAKER_00>God is near whether you feel He is near or not.

00:30:32.640 --> 00:30:32.960
<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

00:30:33.759 --> 00:30:40.079
<v SPEAKER_00>You may not feel when you're in an emergency room, when you're going through surgery, when you're passing through the unemployment line.

00:30:40.240 --> 00:30:42.000
<v SPEAKER_00>It doesn't feel like God is near.

00:30:42.160 --> 00:30:43.200
<v SPEAKER_00>That doesn't matter.

00:30:43.440 --> 00:30:51.359
<v SPEAKER_00>In tough times, you must let God's word, it is written, trump what you feel.

00:30:51.519 --> 00:30:52.799
<v SPEAKER_00>Will you do that this year?

00:30:52.960 --> 00:30:58.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Will you let this be the year that you just take your emotions outside and give them a good talking to?

00:30:59.599 --> 00:31:02.240
<v SPEAKER_00>And say, no, I'm gonna lean into God's word.

00:31:02.559 --> 00:31:05.759
<v SPEAKER_00>God has said, never will I leave you, never will I forsake you.

00:31:05.839 --> 00:31:07.920
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm with you always, even to the end of the age.

00:31:08.000 --> 00:31:09.519
<v SPEAKER_00>I will enjoy the presence of God.

00:31:09.759 --> 00:31:14.720
<v SPEAKER_00>Will you acknowledge, even in tough times, I'm gonna lay claim to the nearness of God.

00:31:14.880 --> 00:31:22.160
<v SPEAKER_00>You see, if the devil can get you thinking that God is not near, that is the first step down that spiral into despair.

00:31:22.880 --> 00:31:25.759
<v SPEAKER_00>And what you have to wage war against is despair.

00:31:26.000 --> 00:31:29.359
<v SPEAKER_00>Despair is when you say, nobody understands me and no one can help me.

00:31:29.519 --> 00:31:30.400
<v SPEAKER_00>That's a lie.

00:31:30.640 --> 00:31:33.279
<v SPEAKER_00>Someone can understand you and God can help you.

00:31:33.440 --> 00:31:37.119
<v SPEAKER_00>So you hang on and you begin by laying claim to the nearness of God.

00:31:37.359 --> 00:31:40.240
<v SPEAKER_00>Number two, cling to his character.

00:31:40.960 --> 00:31:42.720
<v SPEAKER_00>Cling to God's character.

00:31:44.000 --> 00:31:45.200
<v SPEAKER_00>When my friend J.J.

00:31:45.359 --> 00:31:57.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Jasper had to tell the rest of his family that their young child, Cooper, had been killed in a dune buggy accident.

00:31:58.319 --> 00:32:02.640
<v SPEAKER_00>I said, How in the world did you tell your family that terrible, terrible news?

00:32:03.519 --> 00:32:05.279
<v SPEAKER_00>He said, I told them this.

00:32:05.839 --> 00:32:08.240
<v SPEAKER_00>I've got some bad news to tell you.

00:32:08.559 --> 00:32:15.519
<v SPEAKER_00>But before I do, I want you to think about everything you know that is good and true about God.

00:32:17.599 --> 00:32:23.599
<v SPEAKER_00>In tough times, we must think about everything we know that is good and true about God.

00:32:24.000 --> 00:32:29.680
<v SPEAKER_00>The reason tough times are tough is because they're changing and no one likes change.

00:32:30.160 --> 00:32:35.759
<v SPEAKER_00>During tough times, you have to hold on to what you know that is good and true about God.

00:32:36.000 --> 00:32:37.680
<v SPEAKER_00>That conversation with J.J.

00:32:37.839 --> 00:32:43.680
<v SPEAKER_00>Jasper led me to make a list of everything that I believe is good and true about God.

00:32:43.839 --> 00:32:49.920
<v SPEAKER_00>My list reads like this: No matter what happens, heaven is still only heartbeats away.

00:32:50.160 --> 00:32:52.240
<v SPEAKER_00>The grave is still temporary housing.

00:32:52.480 --> 00:32:53.599
<v SPEAKER_00>God is still faithful.

00:32:53.759 --> 00:32:55.119
<v SPEAKER_00>He's not caught off guard.

00:32:55.359 --> 00:32:58.079
<v SPEAKER_00>He uses everything for his glory and my ultimate good.

00:32:58.240 --> 00:33:03.119
<v SPEAKER_00>He uses tragedy to accomplish his will, and his will is right, holy, and perfect.

00:33:03.279 --> 00:33:06.640
<v SPEAKER_00>Sorrow may come with the night, but joy always comes with the morning.

00:33:06.799 --> 00:33:07.920
<v SPEAKER_00>I believe that.

00:33:08.160 --> 00:33:11.839
<v SPEAKER_00>And next time I pass through a tough time, I'm gonna pull that paragraph out.

00:33:12.000 --> 00:33:13.279
<v SPEAKER_00>Write your own paragraph.

00:33:13.440 --> 00:33:15.119
<v SPEAKER_00>Homework assignment.

00:33:16.640 --> 00:33:22.799
<v SPEAKER_00>Make a list of everything you know that is good and true about God, and you hold on to that.

00:33:23.119 --> 00:33:28.319
<v SPEAKER_00>In changing times, lay hold of the unchanging hand of God.

00:33:28.559 --> 00:33:30.640
<v SPEAKER_00>Number three, pray your pain out.

00:33:32.240 --> 00:33:33.759
<v SPEAKER_00>Pray your pain out.

00:33:34.000 --> 00:33:37.440
<v SPEAKER_00>This is no time for shallow, stoic prayers.

00:33:37.759 --> 00:33:40.160
<v SPEAKER_00>This is a time to get angry with God.

00:33:40.640 --> 00:33:42.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Let him know you're upset.

00:33:42.799 --> 00:33:45.039
<v SPEAKER_00>Let him know you're disappointed.

00:33:45.359 --> 00:33:54.880
<v SPEAKER_00>When we pass through tough times, we are dealing with what could be a faith crisis because God has not done what we thought God would do.

00:33:55.200 --> 00:33:55.839
<v SPEAKER_00>Right?

00:33:56.960 --> 00:33:59.519
<v SPEAKER_00>We thought, if I do this, God will do that.

00:33:59.680 --> 00:34:09.039
<v SPEAKER_00>If I'm a good, decent person, God will let my mother live a long life, or God will keep me from any evil.

00:34:09.199 --> 00:34:11.199
<v SPEAKER_00>We have this contract in our mind.

00:34:11.280 --> 00:34:13.280
<v SPEAKER_00>Now, God never signs that.

00:34:15.039 --> 00:34:16.960
<v SPEAKER_00>But we suppose He has.

00:34:17.119 --> 00:34:25.199
<v SPEAKER_00>And sometimes when we go through tough times, we have to rethink our relationship with God.

00:34:25.599 --> 00:34:29.519
<v SPEAKER_00>And that happens as we pray our pain out.

00:34:29.840 --> 00:34:40.480
<v SPEAKER_00>A necessary part of getting through a tough time is an honest, heartfelt conversation with God, or a hundred of them.

00:34:40.880 --> 00:34:46.719
<v SPEAKER_00>Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane prayed with loud cries and tears.

00:34:47.280 --> 00:34:51.679
<v SPEAKER_00>It's better to shake a fist at God than to turn your back on him.

00:34:52.239 --> 00:34:54.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Just tell him you're hurt.

00:34:54.159 --> 00:34:55.199
<v SPEAKER_00>It's okay.

00:34:55.440 --> 00:34:58.960
<v SPEAKER_00>Did you know there's a book in the Bible called Lamentations?

00:34:59.840 --> 00:35:02.320
<v SPEAKER_00>Does anyone know what a lament is?

00:35:02.800 --> 00:35:04.320
<v SPEAKER_00>It's a complaint.

00:35:04.639 --> 00:35:09.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Who would have thought that God would permit a book of complaints to be in the Bible?

00:35:10.320 --> 00:35:14.639
<v SPEAKER_00>Maybe to tell us it's okay to complain every now and then.

00:35:14.880 --> 00:35:17.199
<v SPEAKER_00>He remembers that we are but dust.

00:35:17.519 --> 00:35:21.920
<v SPEAKER_00>Part of getting through this tough time is getting honest with God.

00:35:22.559 --> 00:35:24.159
<v SPEAKER_00>Pray your pain out.

00:35:24.480 --> 00:35:29.440
<v SPEAKER_00>And then number four, and lastly, lean on God's people.

00:35:30.480 --> 00:35:32.000
<v SPEAKER_00>Lean on God's people.

00:35:32.960 --> 00:35:35.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Cancel your escape to the Himalayas.

00:35:35.760 --> 00:35:37.760
<v SPEAKER_00>Forget the deserted island.

00:35:37.920 --> 00:35:39.760
<v SPEAKER_00>This is no time to be a hermit.

00:35:39.920 --> 00:35:40.719
<v SPEAKER_00>Listen to me.

00:35:41.039 --> 00:35:45.199
<v SPEAKER_00>Be a barnacle on the boat of God's church.

00:35:49.679 --> 00:35:55.760
<v SPEAKER_00>Be a barnacle on the boat of God's church.

00:35:56.000 --> 00:35:59.360
<v SPEAKER_00>Wherever God's people are, you be there.

00:35:59.679 --> 00:36:00.639
<v SPEAKER_00>Here's why.

00:36:00.880 --> 00:36:07.599
<v SPEAKER_00>Jesus said, For where two or three are gathered together in my name.

00:36:08.639 --> 00:36:09.280
<v SPEAKER_00>What?

00:36:10.000 --> 00:36:10.960
<v SPEAKER_00>I am there.

00:36:12.239 --> 00:36:13.760
<v SPEAKER_00>In the midst of them.

00:36:14.400 --> 00:36:20.719
<v SPEAKER_00>So if you're passing through a tough time, you go where God's people are, because that is the body of Christ.

00:36:20.960 --> 00:36:23.840
<v SPEAKER_00>And someone there can help you get through this.

00:36:24.079 --> 00:36:35.519
<v SPEAKER_00>Someone there, someone here in this church family has been supernaturally gifted by God, by the Spirit of God who distributes gifts according to His will.

00:36:35.679 --> 00:36:44.400
<v SPEAKER_00>Someone has been supernaturally gifted with an understanding or a word of wisdom or some counsel or some advice to help you through this.

00:36:44.480 --> 00:36:45.519
<v SPEAKER_00>I know what you're thinking.

00:36:45.679 --> 00:36:48.320
<v SPEAKER_00>You're thinking nobody's ever been through this before.

00:36:48.480 --> 00:36:50.800
<v SPEAKER_00>With all due respect, hogwash.

00:36:50.880 --> 00:36:52.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Yes, they have.

00:36:53.039 --> 00:36:54.159
<v SPEAKER_00>Someone has.

00:36:55.679 --> 00:36:56.800
<v SPEAKER_00>Someone has.

00:36:57.519 --> 00:37:01.519
<v SPEAKER_00>And they probably have gray hair or not much hair.

00:37:03.119 --> 00:37:07.440
<v SPEAKER_00>Satan wants to isolate you from the body of Christ.

00:37:07.760 --> 00:37:08.320
<v SPEAKER_00>Right?

00:37:08.639 --> 00:37:14.480
<v SPEAKER_00>I've always thought it a bit odd that when we're passing through tough times, we say, well, I just don't feel like going to church.

00:37:14.639 --> 00:37:18.079
<v SPEAKER_00>That's kind of like when you're hungry saying, I don't feel like going to the kitchen.

00:37:19.199 --> 00:37:21.840
<v SPEAKER_00>The church is God's distribution point.

00:37:22.159 --> 00:37:23.840
<v SPEAKER_00>It's where his spirit works.

00:37:24.000 --> 00:37:25.679
<v SPEAKER_00>This is the body of Christ.

00:37:25.920 --> 00:37:28.239
<v SPEAKER_00>So are you passing through a tough time?

00:37:28.400 --> 00:37:29.440
<v SPEAKER_00>You'll get through this.

00:37:29.519 --> 00:37:32.159
<v SPEAKER_00>But you've got to be a barnacle on the boat of the church.

00:37:32.239 --> 00:37:33.760
<v SPEAKER_00>I don't care if it's a budget meeting.

00:37:33.840 --> 00:37:34.960
<v SPEAKER_00>You show up.

00:37:36.559 --> 00:37:38.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Somebody there has something to say.

00:37:38.719 --> 00:37:47.280
<v SPEAKER_00>Somebody has been through this, and the Spirit of God will prompt them to encourage you, to pray for you, to help you, to encourage you.

00:37:48.159 --> 00:37:52.239
<v SPEAKER_00>Years ago, my wife Deanalyn passed through a time of depression.

00:37:53.440 --> 00:37:55.599
<v SPEAKER_00>She calls it her dark cloud.

00:37:56.960 --> 00:38:02.239
<v SPEAKER_00>We had just moved to San Antonio from Rio de Janeiro, Brazil.

00:38:02.480 --> 00:38:05.280
<v SPEAKER_00>So it was a big move for our family.

00:38:05.679 --> 00:38:08.159
<v SPEAKER_00>I'd never been a senior minister before.

00:38:08.400 --> 00:38:10.159
<v SPEAKER_00>So that was a big adjustment.

00:38:11.360 --> 00:38:17.440
<v SPEAKER_00>We had two children when we moved, and then we had a third soon after we arrived.

00:38:17.599 --> 00:38:21.920
<v SPEAKER_00>So she had two children, three children, two of whom were in diapers.

00:38:22.800 --> 00:38:27.679
<v SPEAKER_00>And then one in kindergarten, and I was traveling way too much.

00:38:27.920 --> 00:38:32.559
<v SPEAKER_00>So all of that just kind of caved in on Dina Lynn.

00:38:32.800 --> 00:38:36.480
<v SPEAKER_00>There were days that she couldn't even get out of bed.

00:38:37.599 --> 00:38:41.039
<v SPEAKER_00>One of those days happened to fall on a Sunday.

00:38:45.760 --> 00:38:48.800
<v SPEAKER_00>I think it's doubly hard if you're the preacher's wife.

00:38:49.119 --> 00:38:51.760
<v SPEAKER_00>Because people expect you to always be happy.

00:38:53.360 --> 00:38:57.519
<v SPEAKER_00>On that Sunday, she thought to herself, I just don't have what it takes to go to church.

00:38:57.760 --> 00:38:59.920
<v SPEAKER_00>I'd already gone up to the building.

00:39:00.159 --> 00:39:04.320
<v SPEAKER_00>She had three little kids to get ready and load up and drive to church.

00:39:04.480 --> 00:39:10.719
<v SPEAKER_00>And she knew the sermon would be boring, so she had all kinds of motivation to stay home.

00:39:11.920 --> 00:39:16.400
<v SPEAKER_00>But then she had this thought that she would tell you was from the Lord.

00:39:16.639 --> 00:39:19.360
<v SPEAKER_00>She said, nope, I'm gonna go.

00:39:20.079 --> 00:39:23.119
<v SPEAKER_00>But if anybody says, How are you doing?

00:39:23.440 --> 00:39:25.039
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm gonna tell them.

00:39:29.280 --> 00:39:36.159
<v SPEAKER_00>Well, this first unsuspecting victim was in the parking lot.

00:39:36.400 --> 00:39:38.400
<v SPEAKER_00>It was a small church back then.

00:39:39.280 --> 00:39:44.639
<v SPEAKER_00>This person saw Deanlon, recognized who she was, walked up to her and says, Deanlin, how are you?

00:39:44.719 --> 00:39:46.639
<v SPEAKER_00>And Deanland said, Not well.

00:39:47.599 --> 00:39:51.039
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm depressed, I'm discouraged, I don't think I can go on.

00:39:54.480 --> 00:39:59.519
<v SPEAKER_00>But you know that admission created an opportunity for ministry.

00:40:00.800 --> 00:40:04.480
<v SPEAKER_00>And that person had a word of encouragement for Dean.

00:40:04.880 --> 00:40:08.400
<v SPEAKER_00>Didn't solve everything, but just had a word of encouragement.

00:40:08.639 --> 00:40:12.800
<v SPEAKER_00>Got inside the church building and someone said, Deanelin, how are you today?

00:40:13.039 --> 00:40:14.639
<v SPEAKER_00>Not doing well at all.

00:40:14.880 --> 00:40:18.239
<v SPEAKER_00>I'm discouraged, I'm depressed, I don't think I can go on.

00:40:18.639 --> 00:40:24.719
<v SPEAKER_00>Deanlin did that every time anyone asked her how she was doing.

00:40:24.880 --> 00:40:52.480
<v SPEAKER_00>By the end of that Sunday morning, she had 13 different people who had promised to stand with her during that tough time, who had pledged to pray for her, many of whom were females who had passed through similar circumstances and who knew just something special to say, one of whom referred us to a physician who gave her great help.

00:40:52.719 --> 00:41:00.159
<v SPEAKER_00>She would tell you, because I've heard her say it many times, her healing didn't happen that morning, but it began that morning.

00:41:00.480 --> 00:41:00.960
<v SPEAKER_00>Why?

00:41:01.199 --> 00:41:03.679
<v SPEAKER_00>Because she leaned into God's people.

00:41:04.239 --> 00:41:06.000
<v SPEAKER_00>She leaned into God's people.

00:41:06.159 --> 00:41:07.840
<v SPEAKER_00>You're gonna get through this.

00:41:09.760 --> 00:41:10.400
<v SPEAKER_00>You are.

00:41:40.639 --> 00:41:41.280
<v SPEAKER_00>I do.

00:41:42.239 --> 00:41:44.320
<v SPEAKER_00>And I hope it's painless.

00:41:45.280 --> 00:41:47.599
<v SPEAKER_00>But we've all been around the block, right?

00:41:48.639 --> 00:41:50.480
<v SPEAKER_00>And we know oftentimes it's not.

00:41:50.639 --> 00:41:52.239
<v SPEAKER_00>It wasn't for Joseph, was it?

00:41:52.559 --> 00:41:54.880
<v SPEAKER_00>Sold into slavery when he was 17.

00:41:55.119 --> 00:41:59.840
<v SPEAKER_00>He was at least 10 years in Potiphar's house and then a couple of years in prison.

00:42:00.000 --> 00:42:07.679
<v SPEAKER_00>My twelve years passed before he was promoted, and two decades passed before he ever saw Jacob again.

00:42:07.920 --> 00:42:10.239
<v SPEAKER_00>Sometimes God takes his time.

00:42:11.039 --> 00:42:15.599
<v SPEAKER_00>But God uses that time to develop his children.

00:42:15.920 --> 00:42:17.599
<v SPEAKER_00>He'll get you through this.

00:42:17.920 --> 00:42:20.079
<v SPEAKER_00>Quick, painless, I don't know.

00:42:20.239 --> 00:42:22.079
<v SPEAKER_00>That's out of my pay grade.

00:42:22.719 --> 00:42:24.159
<v SPEAKER_00>But I do know this.

00:42:24.480 --> 00:42:30.559
<v SPEAKER_00>God can take this mess and recycle it, reuse it, reissue it into something good.

00:42:31.119 --> 00:42:33.679
<v SPEAKER_00>In the meantime, don't be foolish.

00:42:34.159 --> 00:42:39.760
<v SPEAKER_00>By that I mean don't try to treat long-term problems with short-term solutions.

00:42:40.079 --> 00:42:41.840
<v SPEAKER_00>Scotch won't solve the problem.

00:42:41.920 --> 00:42:43.119
<v SPEAKER_00>It really won't.

00:42:43.920 --> 00:42:46.639
<v SPEAKER_00>An affair won't fix an affair, okay?

00:42:46.880 --> 00:42:47.920
<v SPEAKER_00>It just doesn't work.

00:42:48.079 --> 00:42:49.360
<v SPEAKER_00>So keep your head on.

00:42:49.519 --> 00:42:50.559
<v SPEAKER_00>Think clearly.

00:42:50.719 --> 00:42:54.320
<v SPEAKER_00>Keep leaning into God's people for counsel and advice.

00:42:54.480 --> 00:42:58.719
<v SPEAKER_00>And in the right time, in the right way, God will get you through this.

00:42:58.880 --> 00:43:00.800
<v SPEAKER_00>I conclude with this admonition.

00:43:01.039 --> 00:43:04.480
<v SPEAKER_00>You are a version of Joseph in this generation.

00:43:07.440 --> 00:43:11.119
<v SPEAKER_00>There is something about you that Satan wants to silence.

00:43:12.159 --> 00:43:15.119
<v SPEAKER_00>There is something about you that he wants to imprison.

00:43:15.760 --> 00:43:20.800
<v SPEAKER_00>He wants to interrupt your contribution to the kingdom of God, but you're not going to let him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You're going to lean into God.

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<v SPEAKER_00>And God who never loses his children, whatever is placed in his hand, he holds on to them.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You have been delivered unto him.

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<v SPEAKER_00>You have entrusted him with your soul, and he is faithful to keep that which has been entrusted unto him until the final day.

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<v SPEAKER_00>So you can know this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>I'm going to get through this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>God will get you through this.

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<v SPEAKER_00>That's his job.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Okay?

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<v SPEAKER_00>And all the church said.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Thank you, Lord, for your word.

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<v SPEAKER_00>May it be received today according to your plan.

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<v SPEAKER_00>We pray through Jesus.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Amen.

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<v SPEAKER_00>Thank you.
